View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Glamourmilf
08-25-2019, 09:11 AM
Yeah, that was a bad week on Streamate man.
I lowered my rates, from$14.99/ $5.99 per minute, down to $3/$4. Lots of shows. But they were all quick ones, with demanding customers. I'll never do that again.
And the other sites weren't any kind of picnic either.
When I noticed that I wasn't making rent money, I opened up another browser while I was camming.
I put up a couple of ads for my ' other' services.
Enough is enough.
My all time worse holiday is approaching. (Labor Day weekend).
Nothing but lots and lots of traffic, but mostly freeloaders for the last 8 labor days.
I'm not taking any chances.
I pray we all can have a least a few good days on cam this week to make up for it.:pray:
Girly_Girl
08-25-2019, 09:22 AM
Is there some kind of sports on today or something!
NitaBaby
08-25-2019, 09:40 AM
Yeah, that was a bad week on Streamate man.
I lowered my rates, from$14.99/ $5.99 per minute, down to $3/$4. Lots of shows. But they were all quick ones, with demanding customers. I'll never do that again.
And the other sites weren't any kind of picnic either.
When I noticed that I wasn't making rent money, I opened up another browser while I was camming.
I put up a couple of ads for my ' other' services.
Enough is enough.
My all time worse holiday is approaching. (Labor Day weekend).
Nothing but lots and lots of traffic, but mostly freeloaders for the last 8 labor days.
I'm not taking any chances.
I pray we all can have a least a few good days on cam this week to make up for it.:pray:
I'm going on a mad camathon all this week because, like you said, I'm not taking any chances.
BubblyBlonde
08-25-2019, 10:04 AM
I have a 1 GOLD tipper which comes to 25 cents USD for me since he is not from the US. Over the past 2 weeks he just started sitting there unresponsive. I blocked him a few days ago. Today he made a new account and said he had connection issues for a week and wants me to unblock him. After he told me who he was I just thought "Fuck that, he sends me a quarter!"
And then I had a black guy get a show and he kept referring to me as "Bitch". I go, "How about you stop calling me 'Bitch' and I'll do what you ask." He goes, "It's just dirty talk." Ummm no it's not. "Did you ask to call me a bitch? No!" Normally I can tolerate that bullshit, but I'm over it. I wish I could take a few days off.
DahliaSimone
08-25-2019, 10:36 AM
Im so over it....I, too, need some time off but I cant afford to, as im barely making half of what i normally do the past couple weeks as it is. This stupid fuck (a 2, we have done a few shows before) came in my room and told me he was horny...I try to be friendly and seductive and tell him that we can take care of that, til he says 'how?'. WHAT DO YOU MEAN HOW? I couldnt stop myself and popped off with 'with Bible study, dumbass, what do you think we do here?'. He may not ever come back, but I also dont give a fuck at this point.
Panthera
08-25-2019, 10:38 AM
My mom was, back in the day, 10 years on the pill (and pills had ten times higher amount of hormones than they have now) and she never had any problems, was absolutely fine, and got pregnant with me and my brother right after stopping, so it just comes to show how everyone is different. It seems you're informed and have everything on check and under control, so if it works for you and you feel good, more powa to you!
I have my period about 14- 15 times a year cause that's how my body works (only good thing is that I'm regular as a clock), so I'm jelly of the ladies that don't even have to think about that.
Yeah, I've read that some people come off the pill or go on the pill and suddenly aren't sexually attracted to their partners anymore. I just wish they informed people better of what they're getting into when they go into hormonal contraception, cause so many women think it must be their fault or they're going mad. Same with the mental health effects.
I was for 10 years on the pill, and quite a strong one because it was an acne treatment too, and when I decided I wanted to get pregnant I just quit the pill and got pregnant the next month. There was a side effect too, but that was that my sexual desire really awakened, and I liked it so much that I never took pills ever since. Me and hubby just use condoms when Im ovulating. My period comes more than 12 times a year too (28 days) but also very regular, at times Im getting it even at the same time of the day as the previous month, and when I am ovulating I get cramps, so I know when that happens exactly too. I would not recommend hormonal contraception for the sole reason that for me it killed my real sexual desire, but as I was in my 20s, sex was a sport so... it was not a big issue haha. I had a friend though, that was crying without reason and feeling depressed because of the pill...so she had to stop using it. That's cause everyone is different..
Panthera
08-25-2019, 10:42 AM
there...so the "camming sucks" thread doesn't seem so much about the things that suck anymore. Now...should I talk about the bunch of "r u wet bb?" ppl on sm? Or the non talkers? Nope, I wont. Cause where attention goes, energy flows! I aint giving them ma energy! lol
Marina Starr
08-25-2019, 12:42 PM
I love camming sucks thread. It's iconic... I don't do well if I read camming rocks, LOOOOL.
there...so the "camming sucks" thread doesn't seem so much about the things that suck anymore. Now...should I talk about the bunch of "r u wet bb?" ppl on sm? Or the non talkers? Nope, I wont. Cause where attention goes, energy flows! I aint giving them ma energy! lol
anonymous camgirl
08-25-2019, 03:09 PM
5 hours and I cannot even get a fucking private.. as soon as my dishwasher is done I am logging out.. I am so fucking pissed off
DahliaSimone
08-25-2019, 03:45 PM
A guy told me earlier (after repeated pop ins in my room) that my room was black, blank screen.....which explains all the men not talking for hours. Now they are ALL talking to me....which, okay, nice, but...it pisses me off that all that traffic was fucking wasted this morning :( I could have banked today if the fuckers could at least see me. Fuck I hate SM sometimes.
DahliaSimone
08-25-2019, 03:46 PM
Literally went all day not making shit, not a thing, to making low goal in the last hour cause dudes could finally see me....i could have made so much more though. Run your fuckin site SM. Let me make us money.
anonymous camgirl
08-25-2019, 04:15 PM
I really don't understand why I had NO privates at all for over 5 hours I was on? All the money I pretty much made for today was because I was on til almost midnite last nite.. seems fishy to me.. I feel like I was not allowed to have privates.. tons of guys and not one of them would go to pvt. Barely even got a tip.. sometimes I feel like I am only allowed to make a certain amount of money and then I get cut off so I don't make to much on there.. just doesn't make sense to me at all..
Literally went all day not making shit, not a thing, to making low goal in the last hour cause dudes could finally see me....i could have made so much more though. Run your fuckin site SM. Let me make us money.
jennalohan
08-25-2019, 06:58 PM
A guy told me earlier (after repeated pop ins in my room) that my room was black, blank screen.....which explains all the men not talking for hours. Now they are ALL talking to me....which, okay, nice, but...it pisses me off that all that traffic was fucking wasted this morning :( I could have banked today if the fuckers could at least see me. Fuck I hate SM sometimes.
Lots of this going on lately. I slowed down with blocking guys cause several of them said it takes several tries for them to give gold or go into paid chat. Really unfortunate and frustrating
Girly_Girl
08-25-2019, 08:28 PM
A guy told me earlier (after repeated pop ins in my room) that my room was black, blank screen.....which explains all the men not talking for hours. Now they are ALL talking to me....which, okay, nice, but...it pisses me off that all that traffic was fucking wasted this morning :( I could have banked today if the fuckers could at least see me. Fuck I hate SM sometimes.
This pisses me off too and about drove me crazy this morning!! I was wondering wth was going on! Fuck, I could've made double the money but I did take a nap. I wasn't planning on coming back after my nap and break but glad I did cause I finally started getting shows this afternoon but not from sm. It was ALL from other sites!
Glamourmilf
08-26-2019, 07:58 AM
I really don't understand why I had NO privates at all for over 5 hours I was on? All the money I pretty much made for today was because I was on til almost midnite last nite.. seems fishy to me.. I feel like I was not allowed to have privates.. tons of guys and not one of them would go to pvt. Barely even got a tip.. sometimes I feel like I am only allowed to make a certain amount of money and then I get cut off so I don't make to much on there.. just doesn't make sense to me at all..
Don't get me started on how true that I think this is.
I've been saying this for years!
Call me a conspiracy theorist ( which I am). But, it certainly seems like I'm being cut off at a certain money amount.
Is anyone else making the same amount, or close to it every week?
Maybe there's a variation of a few hundred dollars.
But, for instance.
Is anyone making $300 one week? Then $2500 the next? Then $800 the next? Then $3200 the next? Then $200 the next?
For years?
If you are, can you please show me the check stub?
Because I'm confused as to why I keep hitting a pay wall, and my checks are almost the same each week.
I worked a commission job before camming. The money was like the above example.
Not the way it is with camming.
izshadow
08-26-2019, 08:05 AM
Ugh. Was camming for an hour, i got bored and popped into another streamer room and she made $450 and i only made literally $0.50 lol. She’s a pretty young white woman, and my stupid self started to get jealous & feel extremely ugly. So i logged off and cried lol, feel asleep and now i’m back at it again feeling refreshed & not so ugly. Let’s hope for a good day.
Ugh girl, I do this to. I know I shouldnt but I cant help it and then it just blows me to the ground. Its so easy for some and then others, its like what is wrong with me? I rarely get hit on. I have never really had relationships (except one that I thought was forever but he eventually left me) and its like I'm ugly. I'm fucking ugly. If I wasnt, I would make money, get hit on, asked out on dates, etc. And I dont.
jennalohan
08-26-2019, 08:16 AM
Don't get me started on how true that I think this is.
I've been saying this for years!
Call me a conspiracy theorist ( which I am). But, it certainly seems like I'm being cut off at a certain money amount.
Is anyone else making the same amount, or close to it every week?
Maybe there's a variation of a few hundred dollars.
But, for instance.
Is anyone making $300 one week? Then $2500 the next? Then $800 the next? Then $3200 the next? Then $200 the next?
For years?
If you are, can you please show me the check stub?
Because I'm confused as to why I keep hitting a pay wall, and my checks are almost the same each week.
I worked a commission job before camming. The money was like the above example.
Not the way it is with camming.
One of my girlfriends who got me into camming works for a streamate owned studio and she rarely has a bad earning day. Her shows and gold shows are consistently back to back for the length of her shift. I signed up with sm directly and not a studio. From what i see there's 2 types of studios. Studios owned by random people and studios owned by sm directly. I could imagine contract stars and girls working for sm owned studios would get priority placement and traffic at all times. These cam sites imo will always look out for their bottom line. I won't publicly share my girlfriends % but i will tell you that it's less than 30%. Because of the lower % those girls are allowed to bank. It has nothing to do with popularity and looks. Unfortunately there's alot of layers to the inner workings of things.
jennalohan
08-26-2019, 08:24 AM
So i think i quit. Yeah im gonna have to give up camming while being a ssbbw, ugly and a tall ebony female. Whats holding me back the most is being a ssbbw., on other sites thr real me doesnt pull in money also. But my fake profiles that are also still a ebony female does make me momey. I dont know why i thought camming would allow me to make any money. I mean in my daily life no man has ever stopped me on the streets to talk to me.
I wonder if clip making would be more profitable?
Find your inner beyonce and own that shit. Be the biggest, baddest SSBBW any cam site has ever seen. If you love every inch of your body and stand tall in who you are, you will attract gents who love you just the same. There's a huge market for bbw and ssbbw in content making and camming. There's always been decent $$ in doing fetish shows. Always wear your invisible crown babe.
Edit: also look into giantess fetish. You said you're tall right? Do you have a belly? Offer belly worshipping or belly play. Try editing your cam profiles to match the things guys are into fetish wise. Also have guys add tags to your profile like: belly , ssbbw, ebony, etc.
While it's dead and boring use this time to your advantage to learn about different fetishes . that way when shit storm season is over you'll be armed with more knowledge that will convert well.
seicento
08-26-2019, 09:04 AM
Call me a conspiracy theorist ( which I am). But, it certainly seems like I'm being cut off at a certain money amount.
Is anyone else making the same amount, or close to it every week?
I always felt the same. I'm trying so hard to make more but at a certain amount, it doesn't matter what I do, I just won't make more. I could live online and still won't make more than that. And if I hit that amount on let's say wednesday, I'll make peanuts for the rest of the week, till cut off.
seicento
08-26-2019, 09:13 AM
One of my girlfriends who got me into camming works for a streamate owned studio and she rarely has a bad earning day. Her shows and gold shows are consistently back to back for the length of her shift. I signed up with sm directly and not a studio. From what i see there's 2 types of studios. Studios owned by random people and studios owned by sm directly. I could imagine contract stars and girls working for sm owned studios would get priority placement and traffic at all times. These cam sites imo will always look out for their bottom line. I won't publicly share my girlfriends % but i will tell you that it's less than 30%. Because of the lower % those girls are allowed to bank. It has nothing to do with popularity and looks. Unfortunately there's alot of layers to the inner workings of things.
There are at least 3 studios that I know of, from my country, that are given priority placement. I know many don't believe there's such thing like priority placement and that it's all conspiracy but it's actually real.
Glamourmilf
08-26-2019, 09:16 AM
One of my girlfriends who got me into camming works for a streamate owned studio and she rarely has a bad earning day. Her shows and gold shows are consistently back to back for the length of her shift. I signed up with sm directly and not a studio. From what i see there's 2 types of studios. Studios owned by random people and studios owned by sm directly. I could imagine contract stars and girls working for sm owned studios would get priority placement and traffic at all times. These cam sites imo will always look out for their bottom line. I won't publicly share my girlfriends % but i will tell you that it's less than 30%. Because of the lower % those girls are allowed to bank. It has nothing to do with popularity and looks. Unfortunately there's alot of layers to the inner workings of things.
Exactly. Yes. The studio girls. I have a friend who owns an SM studio. When I questioned her about this, she owned up to it, and confessed that this is the case.
It's very obvious anyway. New bbw enters the studio, and gets ( and keeps) top placement. For over a year.
Plus, I never see the same screenames she has in my room.
Almost makes me want to move to where her studio is, and get some of that myself.
I always felt the same. I'm trying so hard to make more but at a certain amount, it doesn't matter what I do, I just won't make more. I could live online and still won't make more than that. And if I hit that amount on let's say wednesday, I'll make peanuts for the rest of the week, till cut off.
This all day. Thank You for chiming in.
That's why I don't stay online for endless hours like I did for the first few years I was on cam.
When I realized that it wouldn't make a difference, I stopped all of that nonsense.
Now I'm like, "Just give me my weekly pay, so I can get on with my life."
Panthera
08-26-2019, 10:27 AM
Don't get me started on how true that I think this is.
I've been saying this for years!
Call me a conspiracy theorist ( which I am). But, it certainly seems like I'm being cut off at a certain money amount.
Is anyone else making the same amount, or close to it every week?
Maybe there's a variation of a few hundred dollars.
But, for instance.
Is anyone making $300 one week? Then $2500 the next? Then $800 the next? Then $3200 the next? Then $200 the next?
For years?
If you are, can you please show me the check stub?
Because I'm confused as to why I keep hitting a pay wall, and my checks are almost the same each week.
I worked a commission job before camming. The money was like the above example.
Not the way it is with camming.
You know, to be honest, I would be very happy for it to be like that, in my case, lol. Because the insecurity is what is slowly killing me, the fact that I never KNOW if I will be able to hit my weekly goal, to have enough money for all that my family needs. Even if I usually do. I am making about the same amount as well, but in the same amount of time, too. When I work less, I make less (but I never worked more than 6 hours a day and less than 2-3 hours a day on this site). When I work more, I make more. The only thing that makes me wanna keep doing this and not get a real job is that I am making what I need in 3-4 hours a day, whereas at a normal job I would have to work 8 or even more and make less.
Now that you mentioned it...yes, it is weird, because my rates are fairly high so there is definitely room for fluctuations higher than just a few hundreds from week to week.... but they dont happen, it all just balances out at the end of the week at the expected amount, for the hours I put in...
Maybe that should give me some peace of mind! ha!
anonymous camgirl
08-26-2019, 10:59 AM
For example.. 2016 was my greatest year ever on cam.. Mind you I have been on SM alone for 10 yrs.. I didn't have my greatest year on SM it was because I added 2 or 3 new cam sites.. .Last nite I was talking to one of the girls in PM and I went and looked at those months that were so great then.. NOPE was not from SM.. I made the same as I always did ..give or take.. and everytime they run a contest my paycheck across the board including all sites is $300-400 less.. so I really dread these contests.. in fact it sent me into such a great depression this time I cried immensely and suicidal every morning before my cam shift.. I am not joking... The constant rejection and knowing something is wrong is really messing me up... every contest I literally feel this way.. I wish I could just not work at all cuz it destroys me mentally.
Don't get me started on how true that I think this is.
I've been saying this for years!
Call me a conspiracy theorist ( which I am). But, it certainly seems like I'm being cut off at a certain money amount.
Is anyone else making the same amount, or close to it every week?
Maybe there's a variation of a few hundred dollars.
But, for instance.
Is anyone making $300 one week? Then $2500 the next? Then $800 the next? Then $3200 the next? Then $200 the next?
For years?
If you are, can you please show me the check stub?
Because I'm confused as to why I keep hitting a pay wall, and my checks are almost the same each week.
I worked a commission job before camming. The money was like the above example.
Not the way it is with camming.
anonymous camgirl
08-26-2019, 11:04 AM
Same!.. if I work 50 hours i'll just be spinning wheels for the excessive hours.. might make a few bucks more but it will just drive down my hourly rate in the end.. I used to kill myself constantly banging my head against the wall from the struggle of it all..
I always felt the same. I'm trying so hard to make more but at a certain amount, it doesn't matter what I do, I just won't make more. I could live online and still won't make more than that. And if I hit that amount on let's say wednesday, I'll make peanuts for the rest of the week, till cut off.
seicento
08-26-2019, 11:17 AM
The only thing that makes me wanna keep doing this and not get a real job is that I am making what I need in 3-4 hours a day, whereas at a normal job I would have to work 8 or even more and make less.
Now that you mentioned it...yes, it is weird, because my rates are fairly high so there is definitely room for fluctuations higher than just a few hundreds from week to week.... but they dont happen, it all just balances out at the end of the week at the expected amount, for the hours I put in... Maybe that should give me some peace of mind! ha!
This! I should be making more than what I make but I'll take it because ...what normal job would allow me to start the week with a day off or only work 4 hours when I have other things to take care of and still make more than the shitty salary in my country? Well, none.
Glamourmilf
08-26-2019, 11:43 AM
51794
He's probably making the rounds. On SM.
I'd report him, but it won't do any good.
I've reported guys for this kind of stuff before, but they still find their way into my room again.;D
It's just another day at the office.
Holly_xoxo
08-26-2019, 11:44 AM
A whopping $3.50 in the first two hours of what will be a 5 hour shift. I can just imagine how the rest of it will go. It's to the point where it's not even bugging me today and I'm just laughing at the lameness of it.
Tbh....I think SM is a shit site. These "glitches" have been going on for years and the traffic seems to be mostly porn hobos that go around begging for shit. It's all making me think it's time to start looking in to a plan for leaving camming. I know I can't do token sites. I would lose my mind at one of those.
It's a sad state of affairs when I stay with a site because they pay on time. The other pvt based sites I've worked on have screwed me over with money at one time so that's why I don't bother with them anymore.
No matter what happens, I know SM will pay me that 3.50! Lol
izshadow
08-26-2019, 12:00 PM
I actually made myself look nice, put make up on and deodorant. And here I sit on SM....
I have such high hopes. Its kinda sad I think. I mean I just want $500 to $800 a week off of one site, ya know? And here I sit....
SM is the only one I just feel comfortable on. I hate token sites and SM is the only site that has never not paid or given me issues or the run around. And here I sit.... broke....
Miss_ShaSha
08-26-2019, 12:50 PM
I started this shift in a good mood. I had plans to stay positive, but my god...it's been just one huge shit show. I've been respectful, but these guys are REALLY fuckin CHEAP.
$14 an hr?!?! Man, I am worth so much more than this. I'm higher on page 1 than I have ever been, but the people coming into my room can't even get a pass from me.
I'm usually quite pleasant and positive...FUCK camming can turn you into a goddamn bitch in a MF heartbeat.
I'll stay on, but FUCK...send me a prince PLEASE! I deserve this. I've worked hard for this. GIVE ME A GODDAMN BREAK!!!
izshadow
08-26-2019, 01:31 PM
MIDDLE OF A 40 MINUTE EXCLUSIVE AND MY STREAM DROPS!!!!!!!!!!!
First time ever having such a long, easy and amazing exclusive! ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?!
izshadow
08-26-2019, 01:44 PM
Thank the universe he came back! Not cool though, not cool.
queenelayliah
08-26-2019, 02:04 PM
Woke up to TWO 1 star negative reviews on my phone listings, but its all good. Contacted support now I’ll just wait to see what they have to say. Even with those reviews i still made low goal, so fuck you, you lying BASTARDS. now its time to hop on cam and make some money. I wont let this get me down.
Ginnyyy
08-26-2019, 02:18 PM
One of my girlfriends who got me into camming works for a streamate owned studio and she rarely has a bad earning day. Her shows and gold shows are consistently back to back for the length of her shift. I signed up with sm directly and not a studio. From what i see there's 2 types of studios. Studios owned by random people and studios owned by sm directly. I could imagine contract stars and girls working for sm owned studios would get priority placement and traffic at all times. These cam sites imo will always look out for their bottom line. I won't publicly share my girlfriends % but i will tell you that it's less than 30%. Because of the lower % those girls are allowed to bank. It has nothing to do with popularity and looks. Unfortunately there's alot of layers to the inner workings of things.
Is she getting like 60% and up from that 30%? I read a few years ago about a SM studio offering that percentage.
DahliaSimone
08-26-2019, 02:23 PM
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand it feels like last week all over again. Great. Looking forward to a long week of making no money, bouts of panic and so much self doubt I could fill a landfill. Yay. Camming.
SoloDesire
08-26-2019, 03:02 PM
Log on. Mute audio. Watch YouTube. Ignore chat until someone types to me. Don't give attention unless they want a show or tip. Do my hours. Repeat.
I'm done stressing myself out over slow days (which is most days anymore). Freeloaders and beggars won't spend much time in my room because I'm "boring". That's the way I like it. Spend money or get the fuck out.
This is how I make my weekly goals. Fuck 'em.
Marina Starr
08-26-2019, 03:51 PM
I always LMAO when they call me boring. They'd leave when I ask if they got 1 dollar for $1 gold show, LOL. Did I ask something wrong?
They ain't got 1, ONE dollar for a LIVELY gold show?! BLOCKED.
Log on. Mute audio. Watch YouTube. Ignore chat until someone types to me. Don't give attention unless they want a show or tip. Do my hours. Repeat.
I'm done stressing myself out over slow days (which is most days anymore). Freeloaders and beggars won't spend much time in my room because I'm "boring". That's the way I like it. Spend money or get the fuck out.
This is how I make my weekly goals. Fuck 'em.
MsJess
08-26-2019, 06:17 PM
I fucking hate it today
jackiebee
08-26-2019, 07:23 PM
where is everyooooone
Mondays are usually pretty slow for me but i've had 2 shows under 10 minutes. Sitting at $29... and the only person in my room is a camping reg who got a long show two days ago and won't be able to afford another one for a few days....
EDIT: I used the rage at the lack of paying customers to fuel a huge rate increase. If I have no one in my room, well, who's going to complain? $7.99/8.99 here I come.
crazylilly
08-27-2019, 08:22 AM
I HATE Tuesdays. I don't normally get discouraged, but I am sitting in my room with a moocher who sends random $1.00 tips and thinks he can just cum in general chat. Meanwhile 40+ people are sitting not logged in just watching me. Fucking pricks! I just needed to vent and take a break. My pissy mood was starting to show through... lol.
izshadow
08-27-2019, 09:15 AM
Managed to get on just before noon and I've been here 30 mins to the sounds of crickets. I'm trying so hard not to just pass out on my keyboard as well as not visibly yawn on cam. Must stay on till dinner time!
I'm also just in a mood to kick. You dont say hello in a timely manner, even after I call you out on being rude and not saying hello.... kick.
Panthera
08-27-2019, 09:25 AM
Log on. Mute audio. Watch YouTube. Ignore chat until someone types to me. Don't give attention unless they want a show or tip. Do my hours. Repeat.
I'm done stressing myself out over slow days (which is most days anymore). Freeloaders and beggars won't spend much time in my room because I'm "boring". That's the way I like it. Spend money or get the fuck out.
This is how I make my weekly goals. Fuck 'em.
I could have typed that too. Sounds soo much like my hustle lol :D TBH, it works BEST for me. They get intrigued "this bitch does NOT look like she wants my money? Heck, Ima give it to her by force" hahaha Not really, but kinda.
Glamourmilf
08-27-2019, 09:47 AM
I could have typed that too. Sounds soo much like my hustle lol :D TBH, it works BEST for me. They get intrigued "this bitch does NOT look like she wants my money? Heck, Ima give it to her by force" hahaha Not really, but kinda.
Same here.
At first I thought guys weren't paying me because of my accent. Lol!
Silence just works best.
Not sure why, actually.
But, hey, I'll take it.
I hate to make small talk. It's soul crushing and exhausting for an introvert like me.
Marina Starr
08-27-2019, 09:51 AM
YAAAAAAS! I love it. Saying hello and smiling at every fool that enter your room doesn't work for everyone.
If you're feeling exhausted and depleted from smiling too much with not much to show for, maybe try turning that smile upside down...
I could have typed that too. Sounds soo much like my hustle lol :D TBH, it works BEST for me. They get intrigued "this bitch does NOT look like she wants my money? Heck, Ima give it to her by force" hahaha Not really, but kinda.
izshadow
08-27-2019, 09:56 AM
Finally had a guy come in and ask if I want to play 1 on 1 till he cums. So I'm like sure, of course I would, I would love to play.
POOF
Holly_xoxo
08-27-2019, 10:49 AM
Log on. Mute audio. Watch YouTube. Ignore chat until someone types to me. Don't give attention unless they want a show or tip. Do my hours. Repeat.
I'm done stressing myself out over slow days (which is most days anymore). Freeloaders and beggars won't spend much time in my room because I'm "boring". That's the way I like it. Spend money or get the fuck out.
This is how I make my weekly goals. Fuck 'em.
For awhile now, I've been wondering if I should be more engaging/entertaining in free chat but after reading this post and some others, I'm just "naw, that's not for me" I just don't have the personality for heavy sales and promoting myself. Maybe I'd make more if I did but I'd be miserable so today it's Law and Order on Prime with closed captioning while listening for notification sounds and checking every couple minutes to see if anyone has talked Lol
I've had a lot of guys say I act indifferent about whether or not I get shows but they also end up going pvt with me so there must be an appeal to that
SoloDesire
08-27-2019, 11:32 AM
For awhile now, I've been wondering if I should be more engaging/entertaining in free chat but after reading this post and some others, I'm just "naw, that's not for me" I just don't have the personality for heavy sales and promoting myself. Maybe I'd make more if I did but I'd be miserable so today it's Law and Order on Prime with closed captioning while listening for notification sounds and checking every couple minutes to see if anyone has talked Lol
I've had a lot of guys say I act indifferent about whether or not I get shows but they also end up going pvt with me so there must be an appeal to that
Nope, it just doesn't pay off to be entertaining for free for me. Some girls are just naturally charismatic and outgoing, and I get that works for them...but if you're not really into small talk and introverted it doesn't always work so good. I wouldn't have been able to do this job for over 7 years if I was trying to be something I'm not. Reserving my energy and attention for paid chat is the only thing that works for me and the only reason I'm able to make my goals.
Holly_xoxo
08-27-2019, 11:38 AM
Nope, it just doesn't pay off to be entertaining for free for me. Some girls are just naturally charismatic and outgoing, and I get that works for them...but if you're not really into small talk and introverted it doesn't always work so good. I wouldn't have been able to do this job for over 7 years if I was trying to be something I'm not. Reserving my energy and attention for paid chat is the only thing that works for me and the only reason I'm able to make my goals.
You're absolutely right! The charismatic/outgoing part of me shows in private. In there they get all that fun stuff but I have too big of a mental block to be what I consider too entertaining in free. I don't want broke guys getting attention and teases.
I think for me the reason why I don't do the sales pitch in free is that I'd take it personally then if those guys weren't going private after I put in effort to lure them in. With being somewhat indifferent to them it just doesn't bug me as much. Been years since I took anything as personal shot to myself on cam.
Panthera
08-27-2019, 11:42 AM
Nope, it just doesn't pay off to be entertaining for free for me. Some girls are just naturally charismatic and outgoing, and I get that works for them...but if you're not really into small talk and introverted it doesn't always work so good. I wouldn't have been able to do this job for over 7 years if I was trying to be something I'm not. Reserving my energy and attention for paid chat is the only thing that works for me and the only reason I'm able to make my goals.
THAT! 18 years here... I was THRIVING when there was no free videochat, and I tried all possible ways to work the damn free video since it's been created by the forces of evil (LOL), but only this one works for me. The IDGAF approach :D
izshadow
08-27-2019, 11:45 AM
So far 2.5 hours on. Only two people have asked one question each before disappearing.
Holly_xoxo
08-27-2019, 11:48 AM
THAT! 18 years here... I was THRIVING when there was no free videochat, and I tried all possible ways to work the damn free video since it's been created by the forces of evil (LOL), but only this one works for me. The IDGAF approach :D
Sometimes I think the evil free chat is what created the entitled to entertainment attitude so many have.