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PixiieGirl
09-11-2019, 09:08 AM
I tell them all I have a boyfriend. They're like "does he know you do this?" and I'm like well, since I live with him I should be worried if he doesn't lmao. Idgaf. They can fuck off. I'm terrible at lying as it is lol, if they wanna roleplay that I'm single so be it, but I'm not gonna make my life more complicated that it already is by remembering what I told who. Don't give them that much power over you xx
I go for the best of both worlds and say Im in an open relationship, it's not strictly true but not strictly a lie either lol
Ladybuggie
09-11-2019, 09:18 AM
I go for the best of both worlds and say Im in an open relationship, it's not strictly true but not strictly a lie either lol
I am in real life but don't always bother mentioning it haha
pippapippa
09-11-2019, 11:13 AM
Idk what's going on right now, but I'm on the front page and getting zero traffic. I've had one person speak to me in an hour. He asked for free boobs.
jennalohan
09-11-2019, 11:23 AM
guys on cell phones can't seem to stay connected at all this week or the last few weeks for that matter. cell phone spenders make up for a large chunk of my spenders. this sucks
LoraDoll
09-11-2019, 12:32 PM
Idk what's going on right now, but I'm on the front page and getting zero traffic. I've had one person speak to me in an hour. He asked for free boobs.
Same here. Just no one enters to my room. Free chat room I mean. No pvt either, obviously. :D I m sure, i wont make anything this night. I just feel that it ll be awful.
Update: 8$ income in 5 hours. Simply - the traffic is gone, it s missing. There are NO people online.
As I think about it... one year ago it was just impossible to make nothing all night. Now it can happen any day.
Bananabunny
09-11-2019, 01:51 PM
I tell them all I have a boyfriend. They're like "does he know you do this?" and I'm like well, since I live with him I should be worried if he doesn't lmao. Idgaf. They can fuck off. I'm terrible at lying as it is lol, if they wanna roleplay that I'm single so be it, but I'm not gonna make my life more complicated that it already is by remembering what I told who. Don't give them that much power over you xx
Sadly many of my regulars are the typical lonely incels who think they have a chance with me in real life if I'm single and nice to them. Idk why I'm attracting that kind of men most of the time but it creeps me tf out. But in a way I don't give a damn as long as they give me their money hahahahaha they can keep believing I will "meet" them, I won't EVER. I'm more into females anyways. Male genitalia does not arouse me unless it's my crushs.
izshadow
09-12-2019, 09:16 AM
All these new girls now showing up on the site has pushed me to page 6 but if someone puts in they just want to see US girls, I show on page 1 but more so then not, guys wont do that. I feel like working my way up to at least page 2 is just a dream. Especially with SM expanding to other countries.
I do have a MFC account but havent used it in years. That site is so freaking confusing to me and so much is given away in free. Way more then SM. SM is just so black and white and I like that. I wish I could just make what I want daily doing Indy and PSO but thats not happening. Some days I do hit goal just doing that but some days I make zero.
seicento
09-12-2019, 09:57 AM
I'm gonna die of boredom and loneliness in my room.
DahliaSimone
09-12-2019, 09:59 AM
Missed 5 days for a vacay (which ended up sucking), so im flat broke and all ive gotten today is 2 formerly good regs wasting my fucking time, and a new guy wasting my fucking time. I want to cry and Ive not been back to camming 4 hours yet....fuck me.
anonymous camgirl
09-12-2019, 10:33 AM
a long while back I used to be on page 6 and I worked hard up the food chain and got on page 1 for the longest time... now since they changed the algorithms I have been stuck on page 2.. grrr... drives me insane.. what do you think you need to do to get up there you think.?
All these new girls now showing up on the site has pushed me to page 6 but if someone puts in they just want to see US girls, I show on page 1 but more so then not, guys wont do that. I feel like working my way up to at least page 2 is just a dream. Especially with SM expanding to other countries.
I do have a MFC account but havent used it in years. That site is so freaking confusing to me and so much is given away in free. Way more then SM. SM is just so black and white and I like that. I wish I could just make what I want daily doing Indy and PSO but thats not happening. Some days I do hit goal just doing that but some days I make zero.
izshadow
09-12-2019, 10:43 AM
a long while back I used to be on page 6 and I worked hard up the food chain and got on page 1 for the longest time... now since they changed the algorithms I have been stuck on page 2.. grrr... drives me insane.. what do you think you need to do to get up there you think.?
I need traffic. I can be logged on for six hours straight and maybe get a dozen people in my room, where maybe only one even said hello but then poof. The farther back I go, the less people I see.
I need to be able to make money to move forward so my money to time online ratio has to be high. Right now, with virtually no traffic, I am converting 0, no matter how long I stay online, which hurts me. Its a freaking catch 22. I have to stay online to be seen but at the same time the more I stay online and make 0.... fucking hell man.
anonymous camgirl
09-12-2019, 10:54 AM
Do you advertise on social media? or do something outrageous in your room.. I am always screaming at someone or having conversations lol
I need traffic. I can be logged on for six hours straight and maybe get a dozen people in my room, where maybe only one even said hello but then poof. The farther back I go, the less people I see.
I need to be able to make money to move forward so my money to time online ratio has to be high. Right now, with virtually no traffic, I am converting 0, no matter how long I stay online, which hurts me. Its a freaking catch 22. I have to stay online to be seen but at the same time the more I stay online and make 0.... fucking hell man.
izshadow
09-12-2019, 11:42 AM
Do you advertise on social media? or do something outrageous in your room.. I am always screaming at someone or having conversations lol
There is barely anyone in my room to even talk to. I've literally been on for 1.5 hours and have had maybe 6 in and outs with no talking. And no I dont advertise on social media. Like most here. I know some girls do but I'm one of the ones who dont and I know lots of girls on page one who dont either so I know you dont have to. Hahaha though I am sure it will help but with my health issues, I dont have the time or patience or experience.
anonymous camgirl
09-12-2019, 12:09 PM
Just trying to think of ways you can boost yourself off page 6
There is barely anyone in my room to even talk to. I've literally been on for 1.5 hours and have had maybe 6 in and outs with no talking. And no I dont advertise on social media. Like most here. I know some girls do but I'm one of the ones who dont and I know lots of girls on page one who dont either so I know you dont have to. Hahaha though I am sure it will help but with my health issues, I dont have the time or patience or experience.
izshadow
09-12-2019, 12:14 PM
Just trying to think of ways you can boost yourself off page 6
I appreciate it. I had started working my way up, even nailed page 3 a couple weeks ago but then the flood gates opened of new models and it just flung me back behind all of them. Which I dont get but no point in trying to figure that out.
BubblyBlonde
09-12-2019, 12:59 PM
Camming sucks because my Niteflirt listing got taken down due to my Twitter promoting multiple sites. All I have been doing is Niteflirt calls, nothing else is even making me any money!
NitaBaby
09-12-2019, 01:06 PM
Morning shift will forever suck in my opinion. The good days are a total fluke that I greatly appreciate but I can never let myself EXPECT money during the day. It's all about the "pm" I guess.
izshadow
09-12-2019, 01:14 PM
Screw it. Three hours in and zero made on SM. I'm going to go do laundry.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-12-2019, 01:23 PM
Camming sucks because my Niteflirt listing got taken down due to my Twitter promoting multiple sites. All I have been doing is Niteflirt calls, nothing else is even making me any money!
Now that does suck! I had that happen years ago on NF. After you remove the Twitter references try directly responding to the email they sent you to let them know the changes were made. It seems to get me faster results when I respond externally. But it has been a very long time since I've had a listing pulled.
If you're not shy about posting in the NF forums you can create a thread called Hey NITEFLIRT PLEASE APPROVE MY LISTINGS etc. That worked for me once. I was back to work in an hour.
laurielegs
09-12-2019, 02:14 PM
Now that does suck! I had that happen years ago on NF. After you remove the Twitter references try directly responding to the email they sent you to let them know the changes were made. It seems to get me faster results when I respond externally. But it has been a very long time since I've had a listing pulled.
If you're not shy about posting in the NF forums you can create a thread called Hey NITEFLIRT PLEASE APPROVE MY LISTINGS etc. That worked for me once. I was back to work in an hour.
Yeah that's the thing about Niteflirt - you have to have everything that links on your listings completely dedicated to Niteflirt and no other site so I never link my Twitter.
I even have a separate page on my website that doesn't link out to anything else dedicated completely to Niteflirt things. I always send anything I'm going to link out from my listings to Playfair to be approved first since they are so extremely picky.
Miss_ShaSha
09-12-2019, 02:48 PM
There is barely anyone in my room to even talk to. I've literally been on for 1.5 hours and have had maybe 6 in and outs with no talking. And no I dont advertise on social media. Like most here. I know some girls do but I'm one of the ones who dont and I know lots of girls on page one who dont either so I know you dont have to. Hahaha though I am sure it will help but with my health issues, I dont have the time or patience or experience.
When I started back up after a 6 year break, I had 4 STARS & hardly any traffic as I was prolly on page 10, but I didn't know due to geoblock.
It took a few weeks pushing ratings & feedback 6 hrs a day 5 sometimes 6 days a week to earn 5 STARS. I dropped my full-time Spinning Instructor job & my thoughts were: "I'm gonna make this business work!" That was my mindset & still is.
I had horrendous weeks of 30 hrs & a paycheck of maybe $250. I posted here often...but I also didn't give up. I made self care my bitch, inundated myself with binaural beats, & kept believing it'd get better.
It has. I'm usually row 9 page 1 when 2000 girls are on. BUT I put ALL my eggs in the SM basket. I fuckin fought & sometimes had to fight back tears.
I am NOT done. I'm aiming for row 1, girl. & I'm working HARD. I've read 3 sales books & I'm now starting a new practice of falling asleep nightly to sales success self hypnosis.
I WANT THIS BAD! That's the only thing that got me to page 1. I KNOW the struggle. I fuckin lived it & it fuckin sucked!!! But...believe & you'll achieve.
anonymous camgirl
09-12-2019, 03:12 PM
That's pretty much what I did!.. I like to tell the story of when I first started in 2003... my first week I made a whopping $35.. I was very green and had no clue I actually had to work hard.. I though I could make $100 an hour and only work 2 hours a day.. well I worked DAY AND NITE 21 hours a day and by the end of the year $1000 a week was a regular thing without nearly as much effort.. unfortunately I am stuck there most of the time.. uggh.. But I was determined AF
When I started back up after a 6 year break, I had 4 STARS & hardly any traffic as I was prolly on page 10, but I didn't know due to geoblock.
It took a few weeks pushing ratings & feedback 6 hrs a day 5 sometimes 6 days a week to earn 5 STARS. I dropped my full-time Spinning Instructor job & my thoughts were: "I'm gonna make this business work!" That was my mindset & still is.
I had horrendous weeks of 30 hrs & a paycheck of maybe $250. I posted here often...but I also didn't give up. I made self care my bitch, inundated myself with binaural beats, & kept believing it'd get better.
It has. I'm usually row 9 page 1 when 2000 girls are on. BUT I put ALL my eggs in the SM basket. I fuckin fought & sometimes had to fight back tears.
I am NOT done. I'm aiming for row 1, girl. & I'm working HARD. I've read 3 sales books & I'm now starting a new practice of falling asleep nightly to sales success self hypnosis.
I WANT THIS BAD! That's the only thing that got me to page 1. I KNOW the struggle. I fuckin lived it & it fuckin sucked!!! But...believe & you'll achieve.
Ladybuggie
09-12-2019, 03:15 PM
7 hours today. I only made good money in the first 3 (thank fuck), and I was well pumped for the rest of the day... then I was rewarded with the most painfully boring 4 hours on cam ever. I was planning to stay for a bit more but I'm literally losing my marbles at this point. Hopefully tomorrow will be better
DahliaSimone
09-12-2019, 03:24 PM
$50, all day, and not a penny of it on SM. Jesus. Help me.
izshadow
09-12-2019, 03:40 PM
That's pretty much what I did!.. I like to tell the story of when I first started in 2003... my first week I made a whopping $35.. I was very green and had no clue I actually had to work hard.. I though I could make $100 an hour and only work 2 hours a day.. well I worked DAY AND NITE 21 hours a day and by the end of the year $1000 a week was a regular thing without nearly as much effort.. unfortunately I am stuck there most of the time.. uggh.. But I was determined AFThis is why I love you guys. Motivation. You tell your stories. I've tried in the past, failed and walked away. I know NOW way more then I knew back then. I wish I never walked away, I wish I did things differently and maybe I wouldnt be where I am today. But I am here now and I have you guys and I know I need to step up my game with the dedication to work those long hours cause it will pay off in the end. Ugh. Fuck. I ended up having a great afternoon after venting in here but its not a daily thing and if I had SM in my back pocket producing for me, I know I could be where I want to be in life.
BubblyBlonde
09-12-2019, 03:53 PM
Now that does suck! I had that happen years ago on NF. After you remove the Twitter references try directly responding to the email they sent you to let them know the changes were made. It seems to get me faster results when I respond externally. But it has been a very long time since I've had a listing pulled.
If you're not shy about posting in the NF forums you can create a thread called Hey NITEFLIRT PLEASE APPROVE MY LISTINGS etc. That worked for me once. I was back to work in an hour.
The email came to me from a No-reply email. I wrote on the Forums, but someone just replied that the forum is only read by Flirts and I have to wait the 2-3 business days. UGH
anonymous camgirl
09-12-2019, 04:09 PM
Literally my day!
7 hours today. I only made good money in the first 3 (thank fuck), and I was well pumped for the rest of the day... then I was rewarded with the most painfully boring 4 hours on cam ever. I was planning to stay for a bit more but I'm literally losing my marbles at this point. Hopefully tomorrow will be better
izshadow
09-12-2019, 04:22 PM
The email came to me from a No-reply email. I wrote on the Forums, but someone just replied that the forum is only read by Flirts and I have to wait the 2-3 business days. UGHThat is a lie. Erin reads and replies on the forum daily.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
09-12-2019, 04:34 PM
The email came to me from a No-reply email. I wrote on the Forums, but someone just replied that the forum is only read by Flirts and I have to wait the 2-3 business days. UGH
Give it a try anyways and see what happens. Not all noreply email servers are set up the same. Again it's been awhile since I had that issue but I was able to get a response. As for that forum not being monitored by NF, that's not true. They probably wouldn't want flirts flooding the board with those sort of threads all day, but I wouldn't really care if it gets things done faster. It worked for me in the past and I did it after seeing it worked for other people. I hope you get back up and running very soon. At least in time for weekend money. Remember don't re-edit your listings over and over. Each edit is likely to send you to the end of the line. Good luck!
Holly_xoxo
09-12-2019, 05:47 PM
When I started back up after a 6 year break, I had 4 STARS & hardly any traffic as I was prolly on page 10, but I didn't know due to geoblock.
It took a few weeks pushing ratings & feedback 6 hrs a day 5 sometimes 6 days a week to earn 5 STARS. I dropped my full-time Spinning Instructor job & my thoughts were: "I'm gonna make this business work!" That was my mindset & still is.
I had horrendous weeks of 30 hrs & a paycheck of maybe $250. I posted here often...but I also didn't give up. I made self care my bitch, inundated myself with binaural beats, & kept believing it'd get better.
It has. I'm usually row 9 page 1 when 2000 girls are on. BUT I put ALL my eggs in the SM basket. I fuckin fought & sometimes had to fight back tears.
I am NOT done. I'm aiming for row 1, girl. & I'm working HARD. I've read 3 sales books & I'm now starting a new practice of falling asleep nightly to sales success self hypnosis.
I WANT THIS BAD! That's the only thing that got me to page 1. I KNOW the struggle. I fuckin lived it & it fuckin sucked!!! But...believe & you'll achieve.
It's posts like this that keep me coming to this thread. I know lots think it's all negative in here and avoid it altogether and sure, it's filled with us all bitching and venting but we're also here to pick each other up. It helps me to have a place to share bad days and know I'm not alone. Feels like people have your back.
I have no doubt you'll hit the first row, Sha
BubblyBlonde
09-12-2019, 08:21 PM
Give it a try anyways and see what happens. Not all noreply email servers are set up the same. Again it's been awhile since I had that issue but I was able to get a response. As for that forum not being monitored by NF, that's not true. They probably wouldn't want flirts flooding the board with those sort of threads all day, but I wouldn't really care if it gets things done faster. It worked for me in the past and I did it after seeing it worked for other people. I hope you get back up and running very soon. At least in time for weekend money. Remember don't re-edit your listings over and over. Each edit is likely to send you to the end of the line. Good luck!
Thanks for the info! I’m back online!
jennalohan
09-13-2019, 11:42 AM
such a graveyard on streamate. and to think i was going to lay in bed and watch netflix all day. face palm
Panthera
09-13-2019, 12:10 PM
such a graveyard on streamate. and to think i was going to lay in bed and watch netflix all day. face palm
It's Friday the 13th AND a Full Moon. Not safe to walk in the graveyards. I sure am getting the fuck outta here, lol. I've had enough.
jennalohan
09-13-2019, 12:29 PM
It's Friday the 13th AND a Full Moon. Not safe to walk in the graveyards. I sure am getting the fuck outta here, lol. I've had enough.
your comment tickled me. thanks for the laugh. i definitely needed it. whatever is going on, i'm done trying to figure it out. i talked my girlfriend into logging out also so were going to go day drinking. good luck to ya if you stay!
LoraDoll
09-13-2019, 01:24 PM
As I think about it: I d like to wander around in a graveyard under the full moon rather, thans sit in this fucked up dead empty room i have. :(
I try to be active, but man, I get 2-3 visitor in an hour - and none of them spending or talking to me. It s like this every time on Jasmin when i reach high percentage. So fucking miserable.
Btw, I just got new outfits, new wig... I set everything up... to sit here for myself. Again.
izshadow
09-13-2019, 07:24 PM
Hour and a half so far on SM and its been crickets. I'm trying to remember what you ladies said about staying on for HOURS. I dont have to be anywhere till Sunday. I want to already jump off a bridge but I have car insurance and a car payment next week so I have to start pulling in shows on here damn it! Get me out of the dead zone pages and pull me up!
anonymous camgirl
09-14-2019, 10:44 AM
And the conspiracy continues.. here I am at my almost Regular paycheck on SM and I sit today with $2.80 in over 2 hours and of course the payperiod ends tonite.. uh huh
izshadow
09-14-2019, 12:40 PM
Guess I should be thankful I'm averaging $1.99 an hour. :banghead:
Charlotteslut
09-14-2019, 01:30 PM
Evidently I cannot cuckold to save my life because I get asked for it all the time and try to do what they ask but they leave 1 min in LOL
izshadow
09-14-2019, 01:37 PM
Guess I should break. I'm so over men not reading anything profiles say. Someone added me on Skype and never told me where they saw me but screw it, its slow, I'll accept.
Then he asks me if I'm still available for calls. Which now tells me he saw me on NF.
Since I'm in a mood, I messaged him back and told him flat out NF will always tell you if I am or not.
Fuck!!!! Seriously?!?!?! Why is there nothing to drink in this house!!!!! Oh that's right. I'm broke. :banghead:
Charlotteslut
09-14-2019, 04:02 PM
I need 30 more before cut off and I'm actually not sure I'll get it today
anonymous camgirl
09-14-2019, 06:16 PM
These guys are some serious bullshit tonite... old regulars bitching at me.. guys bullying me for not fucking myself on a token site for free so he can pleasure himself barely made any money today .. didn't even make it to $100.. I fantasize about marrying rich men , divorcing them, taking all their money and moving on to the next one like a Black Widow.. Would like to get on to my Black Widow carreer if I can find a rich man..lol.. Welp gotta wake up early tommorrow so I can miss all the cranky broke millenials with hangovers.. oh joy
izshadow
09-14-2019, 09:09 PM
I dont know why but it infuriates me when I'm asked if I have toys and I tell them penetration is blocked session only. I mean 15 mins is not that long. You cant afford 15 mins?
I'm not going to ram a toy in me within one minute of us connecting, get all lubed up and messy and poof you leave. Screw that. I'm tight. It hurts. I hate penetration. You want it, pay for it! Otherwise, we can use my other toys meant for clitoral stimulation where I advertise "real" orgasms.
I know I'm losing money on the whole blocked sessions only thing with the toys but damn it I'm not going to hurt myself for $2 dollars.
Mimixchang
09-15-2019, 01:40 AM
I dont know why but it infuriates me when I'm asked if I have toys and I tell them penetration is blocked session only. I mean 15 mins is not that long. You cant afford 15 mins?
I'm not going to ram a toy in me within one minute of us connecting, get all lubed up and messy and poof you leave. Screw that. I'm tight. It hurts. I hate penetration. You want it, pay for it! Otherwise, we can use my other toys meant for clitoral stimulation where I advertise "real" orgasms.
I know I'm losing money on the whole blocked sessions only thing with the toys but damn it I'm not going to hurt myself for $2 dollars.
Your anger is validated! You absolutely should not hurt yourself for $2, you're worth much more than that!
Mimixchang
09-15-2019, 01:42 AM
So I was only on for an hour tonight and made $23. Last night I was on for 3 hours and made about $54. I keep thinking I should just stay on but I'm tired. I'm working 6 days in a row at the hospital this week and getting on to cam when I get off work at midnight is hard. Wah lol.
anonymous camgirl
09-15-2019, 09:20 AM
The reason I rarely go to Camming Rocks thread, it actually makes me sad and depressed and I start wondering what is wrong with me.. I made the mistake of going there last nite .. It doesn't ever have a positive effect on me.. Quite the opposite.. I am depressed and now and actually think I should quit camming and should have never cammed a day in my life.. I am just not ever good around men and thinking just because they want to fuck me I could make money on cam. .. what a farce.
DahliaSimone
09-15-2019, 09:21 AM
The reason I rarely go to Camming Rocks thread, it actually makes me sad and depressed and I start wondering what is wrong with me.. I made the mistake of going there last nite .. It doesn't ever have a positive effect on me.. Quite the opposite.. I am depressed and now and actually think I should quit camming and should have never cammed a day in my life.. I am just not ever good around men and thinking just because they want to fuck me I could make money on cam. .. what a farce.
Yeah, I avoid that thread like the plague. I already have huge confidence issues as it is, so comparing my super shitty earnings to others just eats at me. Especially lately.
anonymous camgirl
09-15-2019, 10:30 AM
I don't find it to be inspirational like other girls do, sorry to say I actually find camming sucks to be inspirational lol.. I dunno why? I guess reading about everyone being at rock bottom there is no place to go but up eh?
Yeah, I avoid that thread like the plague. I already have huge confidence issues as it is, so comparing my super shitty earnings to others just eats at me. Especially lately.
NitaBaby
09-15-2019, 10:39 AM
I don't find it to be inspirational like other girls do, sorry to say I actually find camming sucks to be inspirational lol.. I dunno why? I guess reading about everyone being at rock bottom there is no place to go but up eh?
This is actually a thing for me lol. I love camming rocks but when I want to pump myself up for a good shift I actually check camming sucks a whole lot more. I feel guilty for saying it but it challenges me.
anonymous camgirl
09-15-2019, 11:37 AM
Well I am glad I can say it for you first then....lol
This is actually a thing for me lol. I love camming rocks but when I want to pump myself up for a good shift I actually check camming sucks a whole lot more. I feel guilty for saying it but it challenges me.