View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
bigbum
09-28-2019, 07:38 PM
OMG! I hate, hate, hate when regs come in just to say hi. What is even the point of that? I have one guy that sometimes comes in and doesn't have time to go pvt but he'll say hi and throw me a tip. That I don't mind.
on the token sites they do that. i have one that takes me private 2 times per week. for like 2 months.. and had the nerve to come into my room and say "show tits" LOL what the?????? he did that like 3 times trolling my room . but in prvt he is completely normal. what gives. i like clients who pay, see the kitty cat and then fuck off. thats what i like. wham , bam, thank you mam'
LoraDoll
09-28-2019, 07:40 PM
Ty Holly. Well in this period I can count how many busy days I had: 3 maybe? All other days I forced myself to work more to reach my goal , usually 10+ yesterday and a few other day it took me 12 hours.
Honestly, I had no idea how this ll affect me. I just pushed myself, just did it and hoped, the next day ll be better, a bit easier. Now I see, I was wrong about that. Every day is the same pretty much.
anyway, this is no way to go on long term.
To add something positive too. I doubt, but let s imagine, it ll pick up soon. Than, I ll be so fucking trained to deal with , and handle heavy shit , like never before. Only time can tell if I should put more effort in, or rather focus to get out, and put my effort somewhere else. Studies for example or anything what gets me out of this.
All I can say, these men who are online, the most of them ... they simply do not deserve any kindness, any beauty , anything at all from women.
Lola4u
09-28-2019, 11:48 PM
I m really tired of the shitty people I have to deal with. Sick and tired of cheap losers, disrespectful man, delusional man, demanding man, timewasters, idiots etc. And I wonder it s just me who gets these shitheads all the time? I changed a lot in the past few months. I changed my hustle, my look, my room everything I could.
Still every fucking asshole in my room treat me as I m an object, they sit in my room like im not even there. Sit without a word when I tease, leave without a word, when i get tired and rest for a minute, or they act like they are entitled for my full attention for free till they die. Same people do the same shitty thing every fucking day, and I see the same few-sec-in-and outs every single day as well. Oh and what about those c*nts who sit forever but run away when they see the word: "pvt?"...
Why audience quality became so shitty?
I had a very high spender guy in my room in the days. He had the highes badge, wich means he spent more than 15k on the site in that month. He was arrogant, he expected me to read his mind - FOR THE FIRST TIME- he ashamed me when I could not. He said he dont like to ask for things, but he made remarks about me. Dont u have too many clothes on? How long I need to watch u dressed up? So I took shirt off, and ofc, he complained, coz "he didnt meant me to put it off - dont put it off, just coz I asked!" , he said shit like "if i want a partner, i ll look for a man. Here, i want service, what others produce" - OTHERS like i m supposed to know what the fuck that means - I swear once he left my room I was happy. I fucking hate men. What is wrong with me I get these type of people ONLY why is this happening?
Anyone can give me advice what am I do wrong? Is it me, or what is this? How can i get out of this state, and find people who actually dont torture me to death when i m online?
Idk a few yrs ago, I just ignored assholes, and I was fine. Now: I got nothing but these. I dont know why. Is there any solution what I can try? I have no more ideas what to do or how to change.
Have you ever thought about splitting the cam ? Instead of endless hours of silence in LJ - if im not wrong you are working LJ- you can split that freaking cam with other sites like Streamate , even Imlive .There is nothing worse then "waiting for a show" , at least for me . Im splitting Streamate , Imlive and Skyprivate and, mostly of the time, when a site is dead, the other one is working . I have been the "loyal to one site " kind of a camgirl, until I realised that they dont give a damn on us . Split that cam, girl !
LoraDoll
09-29-2019, 12:21 AM
Yess, I was wondering about that in the days. :D And u re right I m on Lj now only.
I dont know what the "other" site should be. Not imlive for sure. I worked there when I started camming. Never again.
Idk, once I have a day off or two, i ll take a look if I like any other site. I dream about, that finally I can bann people- for good and forever::)::) wich is impossible on lj.
TooNiceToHustle
09-29-2019, 03:49 AM
Tried Streamate? It's been shit these past 2 weeks, but other than that it's been quite stable. Banning is forever if you catch them in the room. They run away if you say you'll ban so I suggest no warning if you want them out. Oh and support doesn't come into your room and give you a hard time and dock your pay for whatever they like.
My girlfriend was on a local site with culture similar to LJ. She was unable to work because of trolls (even paying customers trolling) and thought cams are too dangerous for her MH. Now we are on SM and so far had one dangerous situation - a whale triggering her PTSD. We made 2 weeks pay from him, before we aid "enough" but were recovering for a couple of days.
seicento
09-29-2019, 03:50 AM
Anyone can give me advice what am I do wrong? Is it me, or what is this? How can i get out of this state, and find people who actually dont torture me to death when i m online?
Idk a few yrs ago, I just ignored assholes, and I was fine. Now: I got nothing but these. I dont know why. Is there any solution what I can try? I have no more ideas what to do or how to change.
I don't think it's you and why am I saying that it's because I question myself as well, every day lately. I find nothing wrong with me but as the shitty days repeat, my confidence drowns more and more. It's obvious that you are not pleased to cam now days and you are burnt out. Nothing wrong with that, so am I. I can cam forever if things go well and keeps me satisfied, but get burnt out when keeps being shitty. It's happening to all of us at some point. My only advice is to take days off whenever you feel like it or you'll find yourself more and more burnt out.
Lola gave a great idea, to split cam. It won't help you get rid of the shitty customers but customers differ from site to site. When I went to SM from AW was like a breath of fresh air. Different site culture, customers wayyy more polite and I couldn't believe that I can actually go 2 mins in free chat without the show ass bb and some asshat yelling rip off when I asked for a tip. I do get the show ass bb guys without tipping but they don't bother me as much as they did on AW coz they are not as mean or cruel. So adding a new site is a good idea, switch things a bit, deal with different site culture, etc. And it's always good to have a back up coz what I have noticed in my case, is that after a few years, every site will die on me and then I need another in order to survive.
DahliaSimone
09-29-2019, 12:22 PM
what a deadass Sunday
anonymous camgirl
09-29-2019, 01:10 PM
52012
I wish! come on SM don't tease me like that!!!
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 02:22 PM
what a deadass Sunday
Lady, yup. I've got all kinds of good energy, and it's going to waste LOL. This Sunday is like last Sunday for me: all kindsa fuckstup! Just a MF desert. Just sand blowing the fuck around.
I'mma stay the fuck on, but goddamn this is ridiculous.
MUST. STAY. ON!!!
DahliaSimone
09-29-2019, 03:26 PM
aaaaaaaaaaaaand of course, contest is over, supposed to be my best day of the week....and all the guys are saying my cam is fuzzy today. wtf are they doing? it ran fine the last couple days of the contest....ugh. I wish SM would just run consistently....i cant make any money if my cam looks like shit. And indy is dead as fuck today, not a peep anywhere....so im relying on SM to pull its weight which, as usual, it refuses to do....but still wants my $65. Fuckers.
LaraLee
09-29-2019, 03:49 PM
Lady, yup. I've got all kinds of good energy, and it's going to waste LOL. This Sunday is like last Sunday for me: all kindsa fuckstup! Just a MF desert. Just sand blowing the fuck around.
I'mma stay the fuck on, but goddamn this is ridiculous.
MUST. STAY. ON!!!
Football season can be a real bitch for us. I cam sunday morning and then again after 10pm .
BubblyBlonde
09-29-2019, 03:56 PM
Sucks! I am having issues with Skype. New contacts cannot find me. I don’t know what’s going on with it.
izshadow
09-30-2019, 12:00 PM
Sigh. Its crickets on SM. I hate that so far the money I have made with them is mainly at night. I really rather work afternoons when I'm home then evenings when all I want to do is curl up in bed with the pets and watch TV till I fall asleep.
Miss_ShaSha
09-30-2019, 12:28 PM
^^Right, I went 5 min almost without anyone entering. I thought my broadcast dropped or my listing was broke haha. And all these ins and outs. Sheeesh! I haven't made a dime since around midnight when I hopped on to try to catch up on my goal. About 4 hrs now and $0.
BumbleBeeKiss
09-30-2019, 12:32 PM
Last week was brutal for me. So quiet! I tried getting back to it today...logged off after being online for less than an hour. I just couldn't take it. I've been so baffled that I've attracted "regulars" that tip who can't make it to my room anymore. Life got busy for a lot of them (understandable), but others don't get on until later...when I'm NOT online. How the F did they find me in the first place?! But I guess I don't have regulars anymore. It sucks starting from 0 again after having a tiny taste of a semi-active room. I just need to remind myself to be grateful, patient, and that I'm not entitled to anything. I just need to focus on being consistant and having fun by myself (gotta Google how to do that :thinking:).
izshadow
09-30-2019, 01:11 PM
Ugh screw it. Two hours in, no money made and my head is killing me again. I'll freaking try again later.
Hazelcam
09-30-2019, 01:20 PM
Ugh screw it. Two hours in, no money made and my head is killing me again. I'll freaking try again later.
Not sure if this will help but if you use SMconnect I had zero traffic for 2 hours and then switched to smbroadcast and got 2 shows almost immediately. I think they may be doing work on SMconnect. could just be luck and it did mess my placement up until I switched back to SMC but it seemed to have more traffic for whatever reason. May have changed now though this was 2 hours ago.
anonymous camgirl
09-30-2019, 01:25 PM
Camming sure does suck.. now you have to plan for an entire day for hours... don't even get a show for an hour or more these days... It used to be I would get a bunch of shows the first hour I was online within 10 mins.. so many I would be begging for a break..
Holly_xoxo
09-30-2019, 01:35 PM
Camming sure does suck.. now you have to plan for an entire day for hours... don't even get a show for an hour or more these days... It used to be I would get a bunch of shows the first hour I was online within 10 mins.. so many I would be begging for a break..
I remember those days. Ah, nostalgia Lol
An hour or two or sometimes three without a show isn't a rare occurrence for me.
anonymous camgirl
09-30-2019, 01:47 PM
Yea it's an everyday thing now...
I remember those days. Ah, nostalgia Lol
An hour or two or sometimes three without a show isn't a rare occurrence for me.
Holly_xoxo
09-30-2019, 01:57 PM
Yea it's an everyday thing now...
That's why when I log on now I make sure I've got a good playlist to listen to and prime video going on in one of the tabs. When I hear the sound of someone coming in to my free chat, I'll pop back over to that screen. It's the only way I can keep myself entertained these days.
anonymous camgirl
09-30-2019, 01:59 PM
Yesterday I just listened to a youtube podcast literally all day .. I don't wear earbuds and frankly I don't care that they know anymore.. I am over it!.. or I am watching Netflix or something.. but it's the only way I can stay sane anymore.. and I only pay attention to SM cuz they are my bread and butter and like you occasionally I will check on the other sites or if they tip. but they are not worth much more than that.
That's why when I log on now I make sure I've got a good playlist to listen to and prime video going on in one of the tabs. When I hear the sound of someone coming in to my free chat, I'll pop back over to that screen. It's the only way I can keep myself entertained these days.
MsJess
09-30-2019, 04:36 PM
camming sucks, my life sucks
SomeTransgrill
09-30-2019, 06:37 PM
Camming sure does suck.. now you have to plan for an entire day for hours... don't even get a show for an hour or more these days... It used to be I would get a bunch of shows the first hour I was online within 10 mins.. so many I would be begging for a break..
Literally god so bored the other night I just started playing my bass. I really wish I could see streamates metrics to see what is going on with their traffic.
LoraDoll
09-30-2019, 08:22 PM
anyone online and wanna come to my room to talk some? :D Im so bored, my god.
There was a chat option here, before. Years ago lol. I really miss that sometimes. :3
Yesterday I just listened to a youtube podcast literally all day .. I don't wear earbuds and frankly I don't care that they know anymore.. I am over it!.. or I am watching Netflix or something.. but it's the only way I can stay sane anymore.. and I only pay attention to SM cuz they are my bread and butter and like you occasionally I will check on the other sites or if they tip. but they are not worth much more than that.
I do that too. Just listen radio on my mother language, or sometimes I open twitch and watch gamers streaming, and listen to that. Or watch movies. That helps me too when it s quiet.
Esixxx
09-30-2019, 08:30 PM
I feel ya. It's weird for me tonight. It's like a had a short spell of regulars come into my room and chat. Then someone took me private for a whole 11 seconds. Then my room emptied out. Feels eeriely quiet at the moment.
izshadow
09-30-2019, 08:58 PM
I fucking cant stand when someone buys a show in 2017 and thinks they are your best friend now. I finally ignored him so bad these past few months, he tipped me $5 the other day. And back in the room he is sitting tonight. Cause ya know, I was apparently handing out BFF passes for $5 bucks.
LaraLee
09-30-2019, 09:25 PM
I fucking cant stand when someone buys a show in 2017 and thinks they are your best friend now. I finally ignored him so bad these past few months, he tipped me $5 the other day. And back in the room he is sitting tonight. Cause ya know, I was apparently handing out BFF passes for $5 bucks.
I hate that shit too! I call them out everytime. They will either tip or leave which is fine by me.
izshadow
09-30-2019, 11:16 PM
Ugh 2.5 hours and only $3 bucks so far. I want to turn the light off and lay down so bad. I have no idea what I'm going to tell the apartment manager. I fucking failed.
Edit to add... I think I'm going to stay signed in to CMD and NF but log off SM. That way I can lay down in bed, watch some TV and see what happens.
izshadow
10-01-2019, 08:39 AM
Ended up being woken up 30 mins in to my sleep to a guy on NF wanting a discounted block session and pay via tribute. GTFO. I signed off and went to bed. I'll pull my computer in to the living room in a few. I'm over the view in my bedroom at the moment and need a change. Maybe the afternoon will bring me luck. Sigh. Then to figure out what to say to the apartment manager. I've never ever been late after my ex left me (he used to pay the rent) so I'm scared. I had a second job doing at home energy sales and that job shut down a few months back so I fought to make camming work and it kinda is... I'm sure I could have done better. I dunno. Life shouldnt be this hard and I'm tired of crying every morning because I actually woke up.
gbjenna
10-01-2019, 09:39 AM
1 hour into my shift and I've had so many in and outs and a 1min show which the guy left me a 1 star rating for, when I was doing exactly what he asked!
All I can hope is that it gets better!
Miss_ShaSha
10-01-2019, 09:46 AM
Ended up being woken up 30 mins in to my sleep to a guy on NF wanting a discounted block session and pay via tribute. GTFO. I signed off and went to bed. I'll pull my computer in to the living room in a few. I'm over the view in my bedroom at the moment and need a change. Maybe the afternoon will bring me luck. Sigh. Then to figure out what to say to the apartment manager. I've never ever been late after my ex left me (he used to pay the rent) so I'm scared. I had a second job doing at home energy sales and that job shut down a few months back so I fought to make camming work and it kinda is... I'm sure I could have done better. I dunno. Life shouldnt be this hard and I'm tired of crying every morning because I actually woke up.
Most complexes will give you a grace period of 4 to 5 days. Then a late fee is assessed. On top of that is a daily late fee, BUT if you go over there and talk to them about your situation they might be able to work something out for you. Don't wait until a notice comes. Show some face and try. You won't get evicted. You will have plenty of time to get rent together. I'm certain of it. Hang in there. Things are starting to look up for you (page 2). You're a good cam girl and PSO. Sending all my good vibes your way.
izshadow
10-01-2019, 11:00 AM
Most complexes will give you a grace period of 4 to 5 days. Then a late fee is assessed. On top of that is a daily late fee, BUT if you go over there and talk to them about your situation they might be able to work something out for you. Don't wait until a notice comes. Show some face and try. You won't get evicted. You will have plenty of time to get rent together. I'm certain of it. Hang in there. Things are starting to look up for you (page 2). You're a good cam girl and PSO. Sending all my good vibes your way.
Yah, mine gives till the 5th before the late fee happens. Not sure how long you have after that before shit gets real. And I dont ever want to find out haha. My dad swooped in and saved my ass. So now I only have to make $100 more for rent and $23 for a haircut by Friday cause I'm breaking out in sores on my scalp and in so much pain (stupid heat and Fibro). As much as I feel a bit of weight off my shoulders, I know this was a one time thing and not something he could always do (nor do I want him to) and it just makes me feel awful. Plus he lectured me and I'm sure we know how those parent lectures can go. Sigh. I'm trying dad. I'm trying. He knows I'm a PSO but not that I cam so I couldnt share in my excitement that I made it from page 7 to 2 and that I'm moving on up, slowly but I am.... I just kept saying we are coming in to busy season and I'm busting my ass.
Sending you a huge hug Sha. Even when someone is deep in the dark, you shine that damn light right in. Thank you.
Miss_ShaSha
10-01-2019, 11:17 AM
^^Girl, thank God. I hear you. It can get real tough. I'm so glad he could step in & help. (((hugs)))
LullaBelle
10-01-2019, 02:51 PM
I have been camming since early last year and I can't believe how much less I have been making :(
I had been pulling in really good checks last year and this year has been a horrible decline. I have been doubting myself deeply as I wonder, did I change? To quote Cher in Clueless, 'I don't get it. Did my hair get flat? Did I stumble in to some bad lighting? What's wrong with me?' My rates increased by $2 in regards to Private and Exclusive rates which are now still average to slightly below the average. I feel like a joke lately and have been wondering what I have suddenly lacked or is it just how the market is for everyone lately?
I watch the top tier models on SM and they always get shows/tips/Gold Shows with such ease and it breaks me. I want to know what I don't have. Why am I less desirable? Is it because I am a BBW? Is it because I'm too interactive? What am I doing wrong? Should I begin ignoring users or not saying their names and refer to them all as 'babe'? What have I done wrong to make this shift happen in such a way. I went from $200 days to $100 if I am lucky and that $100 will take 8 hours or more :(
I thought the longer you cammed, the more clientele you would attract and keep but then I feel like I have decreased in my appeal since last year. I don't know what changed. I had to log off early and cry and I feel like no matter what I do, it won't be good enough for these fucks.
Ifyouseekamy
10-01-2019, 02:59 PM
I have been camming since early last year and I can't believe how much less I have been making :(
I had been pulling in really good checks last year and this year has been a horrible decline. I have been doubting myself deeply as I wonder, did I change? To quote Cher in Clueless, 'I don't get it. Did my hair get flat? Did I stumble in to some bad lighting? What's wrong with me?' My rates increased by $2 in regards to Private and Exclusive rates which are now still average to slightly below the average. I feel like a joke lately and have been wondering what I have suddenly lacked or is it just how the market is for everyone lately?
I watch the top tier models on SM and they always get shows/tips/Gold Shows with such ease and it breaks me. I want to know what I don't have. Why am I less desirable? Is it because I am a BBW? Is it because I'm too interactive? What am I doing wrong? Should I begin ignoring users or not saying their names and refer to them all as 'babe'? What have I done wrong to make this shift happen in such a way. I went from $200 days to $100 if I am lucky and that $100 will take 8 hours or more :(
I thought the longer you cammed, the more clientele you would attract and keep but then I feel like I have decreased in my appeal since last year. I don't know what changed. I had to log off early and cry and I feel like no matter what I do, it won't be good enough for these fucks.
its shit everywhere. It’s hard when our actual livelihood depends on a mediocre mans opinion of us. I think mediocre is giving them to much credit.
Holly_xoxo
10-01-2019, 03:00 PM
I have been camming since early last year and I can't believe how much less I have been making :(
I had been pulling in really good checks last year and this year has been a horrible decline. I have been doubting myself deeply as I wonder, did I change? To quote Cher in Clueless, 'I don't get it. Did my hair get flat? Did I stumble in to some bad lighting? What's wrong with me?' My rates increased by $2 in regards to Private and Exclusive rates which are now still average to slightly below the average. I feel like a joke lately and have been wondering what I have suddenly lacked or is it just how the market is for everyone lately?
I watch the top tier models on SM and they always get shows/tips/Gold Shows with such ease and it breaks me. I want to know what I don't have. Why am I less desirable? Is it because I am a BBW? Is it because I'm too interactive? What am I doing wrong? Should I begin ignoring users or not saying their names and refer to them all as 'babe'? What have I done wrong to make this shift happen in such a way. I went from $200 days to $100 if I am lucky and that $100 will take 8 hours or more :(
I thought the longer you cammed, the more clientele you would attract and keep but then I feel like I have decreased in my appeal since last year. I don't know what changed. I had to log off early and cry and I feel like no matter what I do, it won't be good enough for these fucks.
Everything you just said are the exact thoughts I've been having about myself and the decline in what I'm making. I question everything and haven't come up with any answers.
MsJess
10-01-2019, 05:23 PM
Same here you girls
I'm actually thinking SM is going downhill, but then i get a few privates and change my mind and so on, this is so stressfull fuck me :(
i did cb today with a brand new acct, you know what it was a ghost town lmao, i know you have to put HOURS and HOURS so cb can work, i've seen it myself
i guess I'm willing to do so, it's gonna be rough, i guess i'll make it, i guess... can i just sleep 4 eva? lol
SuperPookie
10-01-2019, 06:05 PM
Hour 9 and counting. Currently at $72 . What is going on this week?
izshadow
10-01-2019, 09:35 PM
I lowered my rates by a buck. It helped move me up a few pages on SM. At least till we can see some type of improvement overall for us, I may just deal with it. I just know I'm getting desperate for something over nothing.
NitaBaby
10-01-2019, 09:50 PM
and just like that i'm logging off. I've only been on for like 15 minutes but my whole vibe is in the trash and i'm nowhere close to activating hustle mode. oh fucking well. i feel like Oprah handing out cars except it's "fuck you, fuck her, fuck them, fuck ya'll". i can't do this.
Marina Starr
10-02-2019, 05:13 AM
I can relate... sometimes I'm in such a foul mood that I want to block every fucker, LOL.
and just like that i'm logging off. I've only been on for like 15 minutes but my whole vibe is in the trash and i'm nowhere close to activating hustle mode. oh fucking well. i feel like Oprah handing out cars except it's "fuck you, fuck her, fuck them, fuck ya'll". i can't do this.
Cutie101
10-02-2019, 08:37 AM
I m really tired of the shitty people I have to deal with. Sick and tired of cheap losers, disrespectful man, delusional man, demanding man, timewasters, idiots etc. And I wonder it s just me who gets these shitheads all the time? I changed a lot in the past few months. I changed my hustle, my look, my room everything I could.
Still every fucking asshole in my room treat me as I m an object, they sit in my room like im not even there. Sit without a word when I tease, leave without a word, when i get tired and rest for a minute, or they act like they are entitled for my full attention for free till they die. Same people do the same shitty thing every fucking day, and I see the same few-sec-in-and outs every single day as well. Oh and what about those c*nts who sit forever but run away when they see the word: "pvt?"...
Why audience quality became so shitty?
I had a very high spender guy in my room in the days. He had the highes badge, wich means he spent more than 15k on the site in that month. He was arrogant, he expected me to read his mind - FOR THE FIRST TIME- he ashamed me when I could not. He said he dont like to ask for things, but he made remarks about me. Dont u have too many clothes on? How long I need to watch u dressed up? So I took shirt off, and ofc, he complained, coz "he didnt meant me to put it off - dont put it off, just coz I asked!" , he said shit like "if i want a partner, i ll look for a man. Here, i want service, what others produce" - OTHERS like i m supposed to know what the fuck that means - I swear once he left my room I was happy. I fucking hate men. What is wrong with me I get these type of people ONLY why is this happening?
Anyone can give me advice what am I do wrong? Is it me, or what is this? How can i get out of this state, and find people who actually dont torture me to death when i m online?
Idk a few yrs ago, I just ignored assholes, and I was fine. Now: I got nothing but these. I dont know why. Is there any solution what I can try? I have no more ideas what to do or how to change.
Just be a bitch. Fuck them. If they can't treat you right, even tho, you're providing a service, then FUCK THEM. People are supposed to access camming site to have a good time, not to spit their frustrations on models. Next time tell em to go fuck themselves if they can't be nice, you're not their servant, you are there to provide a good time, but you can't if they complain at every single shit. Tell em to find someone else, then ban them.
Don't accept this behaviour.
PS: If you heard about Law of Attraction, apparently, what you feel, is what you atract. As time as you hate men, you'll only atract men who will make you hate them even more. Try to see this job from a different perspective, maybe it helps! Hugs!
Girly_Girl
10-02-2019, 11:46 AM
anyone know what the fuck is going on with traffic? Ive made $60 in 7 hours!!! Logged out in tears ( so damn depressing) I had really high hopes that tings would be better since we are in October now! I thought things would be better last month too but I thought for sure this month but Im in the south and we are still having 100 degree weather!!! I know football is going on but I'm talking about mornings being slow. Even the few hours I've tried at night have been slow too tho.
Anyone know why its still slow? Is it the weather? . Something else???? All my sites were pretty slow!
ravenskyy
10-02-2019, 12:13 PM
wow this is crazy to me! you were a source of motivation for me on here. you were page 1 and killing it from what I saw in the past. what happened? traffic drop? too many windowshoppers? just wondering since you were at the front of the pack :-[
The contests make things painfully slow. Customers coming in and out, without saying a word. Regulars that don't want to spend. People saying hi and then leaving. And the glitches! Omg, the f'ing glitches! Camming can be pretty damn lame.
Honestly though, a lot of it has to do with my depression and anxiety. It makes things like 10x worse than they actually are. I was doing great for a few months, then I started to get a bit lazy. My husband was out of work for 2 months, so his negative energy was killing my work vibes. He was also home 24/7, so I couldn't focus on work. I'm home alone for like 10 hours a day, so I never have to worry about others hearing me or making noise, so him being home only added to my anxiety. Plus, when he's here, he's a major distraction for me. It's been that way ever since we started dating. I used to be a hardworking, money making beast. But idk, once we started dating, I would skip out on work, just to be near him. Not sure if that's a good or a bad thing.
Anyway, I'm getting sidetracked here. My point is, just because I'm having a bad day, doesn't mean you will. My biggest battle is my own damn brain. Once I get on cam, I'm usually good. Even if I end up sitting for awhile, I can normally make $200+ a day in like 5/6 hours. Sometimes, in less time. I made over $600 yesterday. I have to actually try lol I could have had a better week last week if my brain wasn't so fucked up.
Oh well...
DahliaSimone
10-02-2019, 12:45 PM
Ya'll be making in a day what i make in a week lmao. Fuck, camming may not suck, but I sure do.
DahliaSimone
10-02-2019, 12:49 PM
Aside from that, this weeks been better than the last few....except today. But thats mostly my fault cause im tired and lazy af today. Have the house to myself for a bit so I have been soaking it up
Ladybuggie
10-02-2019, 02:19 PM
$40 in 3 hours. Dear lord what's going on today. Dreadful. Really not what I need right now. My personal life's already hard as it is. I need cam not to suck this hard pls.
PS: Oh great, just got this as I was writing too "Samz321:Ugly". Of course he fucked off super fast as all trolls do. FML
SuperPookie
10-02-2019, 02:46 PM
I don't like to post in Camming Sucks frequently as I don't want to be a downer or sound whiny but I've made $28 in 7 hours with all sites combined and that is not normal.
LullaBelle
10-02-2019, 04:55 PM
$40 in 3 hours. Dear lord what's going on today. Dreadful. Really not what I need right now. My personal life's already hard as it is. I need cam not to suck this hard pls.
PS: Oh great, just got this as I was writing too "Samz321:Ugly". Of course he fucked off super fast as all trolls do. FML
Don't feel bad Ladybuggie. I am in the BBW category and I have had a lot of 'Ur a big bitch' and of course the 'damn your fat' (always with the bad grammar). It's just negative people trying to make us feel low when they are the one's who clicked on us. Like Dave Chapelle said, 'You clicked on me!' It sucks but don't let them bring down your vibe. We are all queens and someone, in fact, MANY people find us hot as hell.