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Marina Starr
10-20-2019, 10:21 AM
LOOOL, yaasssss!


I raised my excl rate to 12.99 from 8.99 out of irritation today. You're going to need to impress me if you wanna see this angry coochie

seicento
10-20-2019, 11:20 AM
Your fur babies are not feeling well. You might be subconsciously worried and the stress is manifesting as frustration. Sending the babies good energy too.

I need a bigger phone. Or smaller fingers. I might have reported your reply, I'm not sure lol but I hope not.

It might be the stress I'm getting with her but the amount of idiots I got in the short time i was on put me off even more. I'd say fuck them but nope, they don't deserve.

minibagel
10-20-2019, 11:34 AM
Yeah, and that's why I logged off. Again. I can't do this now for some reason. All I do is block and kick. I got a pvt on AW when I got on and then an I logged on SM, first one entering was typing all in caps things like that's all ? You just sit there? Wtf did u expect, to find me fucking my ass with my 10in strap on eventually, in free chat, the moment I log in???? God, how I hate those fuckers on SM, I'm about to quit the site altogether. I think it's the vibe I get from SM that it's making me feel this way. Right now I feel they don't even deserve to see me! At all!

I feel you so much. Guys are so much more rude and aggressive on SM than on token sites, in my experience. I also spent most of the last week kicking and blocking ppl bc it was like I was only attracting bottom of the barrel scum. I have 138 people on my black list so far lol. I cannot stand free chat sometimes. I feel like I need a shower after reading the things some guys feel the need to say to me in free chat. BARF.

NitaBaby
10-20-2019, 11:37 AM
I gotta take 30 minutes or I'm going to ruin my own day.

Miss_ShaSha
10-20-2019, 12:15 PM
^^Breathe sis, breathe. You got this! Take some time to breathe.

NitaBaby
10-20-2019, 12:19 PM
I need a bigger phone. Or smaller fingers. I might have reported your reply, I'm not sure lol but I hope not.

It might be the stress I'm getting with her but the amount of idiots I got in the short time i was on put me off even more. I'd say fuck them but nope, they don't deserve.


I accidentally clicked on report once and it took me to a page where you have to fill out a little bit of info. So, thankfully, reporting somebody can't happen on accident.

anonymous camgirl
10-20-2019, 12:42 PM
And to think they used to be perfect gentleman on there and I swear to god it's because pornhub started offering live cam on their site and then it was ruined after that.


I feel you so much. Guys are so much more rude and aggressive on SM than on token sites, in my experience. I also spent most of the last week kicking and blocking ppl bc it was like I was only attracting bottom of the barrel scum. I have 138 people on my black list so far lol. I cannot stand free chat sometimes. I feel like I need a shower after reading the things some guys feel the need to say to me in free chat. BARF.

seicento
10-20-2019, 12:54 PM
I accidentally clicked on report once and it took me to a page where you have to fill out a little bit of info. So, thankfully, reporting somebody can't happen on accident.

OK, I got back before that step it seems. Haha, never reported a post so I don't know. And the mess I am now, I thought I reported it.

seicento
10-20-2019, 01:02 PM
I feel you so much. Guys are so much more rude and aggressive on SM than on token sites, in my experience. I also spent most of the last week kicking and blocking ppl bc it was like I was only attracting bottom of the barrel scum. I have 138 people on my black list so far lol. I cannot stand free chat sometimes. I feel like I need a shower after reading the things some guys feel the need to say to me in free chat. BARF.

It wasn't like this until maybe this year. I ran from aw free chat and sm was a breathe of fresh air to me. Everyone so polite and would tip. Now is the other way round. I can't sell if i get angry the moment I log in and this is happening way too much lately. Every guy out there thinks he is entitled to free stuff now. Wherever they are promoting, is not good.

DahliaSimone
10-20-2019, 02:38 PM
Camming is a goddamn dumpster fire today....ugh.

anonymous camgirl
10-20-2019, 02:43 PM
I quit 2 hours early!.. before I do something i'll regret!


Camming is a goddamn dumpster fire today....ugh.

NitaBaby
10-20-2019, 03:04 PM
I said I'd give it 30 minutes and it's been like 2 hours smh.

I needed to step away though. I'll probably try again in a few minutes.

LaraLee
10-20-2019, 04:08 PM
I quit 2 hours early!.. before I do something i'll regret!
Really? I haven't been on all day, I will be working tonight for 3 hours, I hope its good!

gbjenna
10-21-2019, 05:46 AM
Generally I'd consider myself quite thick skinned, I'm reasonably confident and no ones said anything yet on cam that's even remotely bothered me until today!

I've been working on my first token site and I've been really quiet on there to most of the new girls it seems, but someone who's been tipping me a lot came on today and just totally tore apart my outfit in the most patronising and condescending way! I can't believe it's bothered me but it's totally knocked me! I've logged off cam completely for a bit now and I'm going to go back later! Probs not to that site today though!

It's not like I've not made money and had shows today either, I've done well so far

Miss_ShaSha
10-21-2019, 05:50 AM
Generally I'd consider myself quite thick skinned, I'm reasonably confident and no ones said anything yet on cam that's even remotely bothered me until today!

I've been working on my first token site and I've been really quiet on there to most of the new girls it seems, but someone who's been tipping me a lot came on today and just totally tore apart my outfit in the most patronising and condescending way! I can't believe it's bothered me but it's totally knocked me! I've logged off cam completely for a bit now and I'm going to go back later! Probs not to that site today though!

It's not like I've not made money and had shows today either, I've done well so far

Says everything about them which has zero to do with you & your choice of clothing. It's hard to hear unkind things sometimes. I'm sorry you're upset. Sending you good vibes. Xoxo

Marina Starr
10-21-2019, 06:21 AM
I'm sorry you have to experience that. Always remember just because someone is paying doesn't give them the right to disrespect. Not all money is good money especially when they're assholes.



Generally I'd consider myself quite thick skinned, I'm reasonably confident and no ones said anything yet on cam that's even remotely bothered me until today!

I've been working on my first token site and I've been really quiet on there to most of the new girls it seems, but someone who's been tipping me a lot came on today and just totally tore apart my outfit in the most patronising and condescending way! I can't believe it's bothered me but it's totally knocked me! I've logged off cam completely for a bit now and I'm going to go back later! Probs not to that site today though!

It's not like I've not made money and had shows today either, I've done well so far

gbjenna
10-21-2019, 06:54 AM
Thank you both of you <3

I'm fine now I've pulled myself together haha and I'm gonna crack on!! I couldn't really care less if he doesn't like it, it's just a black v neck/thong cut bodysuit! I know damn well I look good in it. I think it was more just how condescending he was after!

I said to him, that's a shame, maybe you'll catch me another day when you like what I've got on and he just went on one. "Could you not have worn something else? Like this or this, something actually sexy? Don't you think you'd look better in lingerie with stockings or something? I mean, do you actually feel sexy in that?"

I've told him to send me a nice tip if he wants me to give him an oz of my attention in the future anyway so I'm sure that'll be the last I ever hear from him.

Miss_ShaSha
10-21-2019, 07:05 AM
^^geah motherfucka!

AlexiaJacobs
10-21-2019, 08:50 AM
On for an hour and I've made a $3.00 so far lol. I even have my sound on now! Come on guys, throw a bitch a bone haha :)

Marina Starr
10-21-2019, 08:56 AM
It's not you. Sometimes you can have everything and still don't get shows when certain hours are nothing but losers. LOSERS tend to show up all at once.

Guys that ask for sound but won't go private when you say sound in private just want free attention.


On for an hour and I've made a $3.00 so far lol. I even have my sound on now! Come on guys, throw a bitch a bone haha :)

AlexiaJacobs
10-21-2019, 09:03 AM
It's not you. Sometimes you can have everything and still don't get shows when certain hours are nothing but losers. LOSERS tend to should up all at once.

Guys that ask for sound but won't go private when you say sound in private just want free attention.

That was a lot of what I was getting from it too when I had my sound off. A lot of the girls made good points though about having sound on so I decided to turn it back on. If they aren't badgering about sound, they are incessantly asking about where I'm from. If I turn my sound off, the question of the day will be : sound bb? I've come to the conclusion that if its not one thing its always another with these guys. Just tryin to roll with it haha :)

gbjenna
10-21-2019, 09:06 AM
On for an hour and I've made a $3.00 so far lol. I even have my sound on now! Come on guys, throw a bitch a bone haha :)

It’s been slowwwww today. You’re not on your own. I don’t normally get too irritated by these idiots but they are pushing my buttons today left right and centre!! They’re out in force and my patience is wearing thin!

Marina Starr
10-21-2019, 09:07 AM
I don't do sound but I do get guys asking 'sound bb?'. I block if they leave or don't go private if I said yes to sound in private because that tells me sound isn't the problem.


That was a lot of what I was getting from it too when I had my sound off. A lot of the girls made good points though about having sound on so I decided to turn it back on. If they aren't badgering about sound, they are incessantly asking about where I'm from. If I turn my sound off, the question of the day will be : sound bb? I've come to the conclusion that if its not one thing its always another with these guys. Just tryin to roll with it haha :)

AlexiaJacobs
10-21-2019, 09:16 AM
It’s been slowwwww today. You’re not on your own. I don’t normally get too irritated by these idiots but they are pushing my buttons today left right and centre!! They’re out in force and my patience is wearing thin!


Good lord I hear ya! Im not happy its slow but I'm relieved to know Im not the only one :/ Im getting a lot of guys in my room but they're just wasting my time. GAH

gbjenna
10-21-2019, 01:25 PM
Good lord I hear ya! Im not happy its slow but I'm relieved to know Im not the only one :/ Im getting a lot of guys in my room but they're just wasting my time. GAH

I don’t really ban people for good but I literally blocked a record amount of people in the space of an hour max, let alone in a day. I’ve had a whooooole different level of dickheads flocking towards me, it’s been insane.

SM was bad for it today but Adultwork free chat is always the worst culprit by far!!!!!

Miss_ShaSha
10-21-2019, 02:23 PM
Jesus help me! This 2nd shift is blowing hard. 3 hrs & $22. Thank fuck I hit night shift. No paying traffic in my room on SM. With over 2000 ladies on its like I'm not even on page 1.Feels like page 10.

I might have to throw in the towel. Fuck, I'm bummed.

DahliaSimone
10-21-2019, 02:39 PM
$50 between my two best days is...uh...panic inducing?

Miss_ShaSha
10-21-2019, 02:47 PM
^^Shit, I hear you. Last week was like that for me. Hang tight sis. If anyone can get thru this...you can!

AlexiaJacobs
10-21-2019, 02:48 PM
^Don't stress, I barely hit my minimum goal and that was because my new found whale came through briefly. I think it was shitty for a lot of us today :/

Hopefully it gets better as the week goes on! Fingers crossed! :)

BubblyBlonde
10-21-2019, 03:28 PM
Very slow. Just had a regular ask for me for a quicky. I’m thinking “What the heck it’s dead today, I can make a few bucks.” Little fucker just had 3 free minutes I had sent him a couple weeks ago. Used every second. I made $0.

NitaBaby
10-21-2019, 03:59 PM
^ the second-hand anger I'm experiencing is ridiculous.

DahliaSimone
10-21-2019, 04:11 PM
Aint had a peep ALL FUCKING DAY then 3 dudes, from 3 different sites want a show at the EXACT SAME TIME. I could have made low goal just from that, but fuck no. Had to miss the highest paying one. Fuck me and fuck dudes.

NitaBaby
10-21-2019, 04:17 PM
whenever camming is bad (or I assume it's going to be bad) I make up cam games. tbh they only produce half of the time. but i keep telling myself that it'll be a money maker because i wanna feel like less of a piece of shit for avoiding work all freggin day. i gotta stop letting these strangers affect me.

gbjenna
10-21-2019, 10:57 PM
If we ban someone on SM does that mean they can’t visit our profile whatsoever? How does it work?

I quietly blocked someone yesterday for a mix of a 3month old offence and for peeping every single day without speaking or paying. And he emailed me randomly last night saying, ‘slut’ hahahha ffs give me strength! I’m hoping the week can only get better but if it doesn’t, I know I’m mentally prepared for what’s ahead of me.. aren’t I? Ahaha

BubblyBlonde
10-21-2019, 11:16 PM
If we ban someone on SM does that mean they can’t visit our profile whatsoever? How does it work?

I quietly blocked someone yesterday for a mix of a 3month old offence and for peeping every single day without speaking or paying. And he emailed me randomly last night saying, ‘slut’ hahahha ffs give me strength! I’m hoping the week can only get better but if it doesn’t, I know I’m mentally prepared for what’s ahead of me.. aren’t I? Ahaha

You have to block them on message separately. After I block someone I go immediately to the dashboard and click on your blocked customer list. Check both boxes so they are blocked from chat and message.

euro_princess
10-22-2019, 12:54 AM
^I never block them from msg, cause I'm that petty. I enjoy seeing them bitter and begging to be unblocked at some point. Makes my ego burst into glitter confetti. Buhahahah

A few weeks ago, Liz said in one of the podcasts that they are working on a new feature. To attach a tip to a msg. This way, if somebody wants to be erased from the block list, they can send a tribute straight into your inbox and you can decide from there. Here is some mail with "$150" in it! Love that, can't wait.

But yeah, once you block them, they can't enter your room (unless they make a new account, which doesn't happen often and you can always report it, cause it's actually prohibited). They will indeed get a notification of being blocked it they try joining your chat. "Sorry, you're currently blocked by this performer" - or something along this line.

Marina Starr
10-22-2019, 06:12 AM
That gave me CHILLS!




But yeah, once you block them, they can't enter your room (unless they make a new account, which doesn't happen often and you can always report it, cause it's actually prohibited). They will indeed get a notification of being blocked it they try joining your chat. "Sorry, you're currently blocked by this performer" - or something along this line.

gbjenna
10-22-2019, 06:40 AM
Is it just me here, or is it almost a guarantee that if someone takes you private and sends their cam immediately, they're going to piss off within 1-2mins?

Marina Starr
10-22-2019, 06:48 AM
Absolutely! I usually don't accept it right away unless they're regulars and just let the timer runs out then say oops, sorry. Please send your cam again, LOL. I don't stall but slow everything down, lots of teasing. I'm not gonna show my whole body in 1-2 minutes. Fuck minutes men.


Is it just me here, or is it almost a guarantee that if someone takes you private and sends their cam immediately, they're going to piss off within 1-2mins?

Miss_ShaSha
10-22-2019, 08:20 AM
Is it just me here, or is it almost a guarantee that if someone takes you private and sends their cam immediately, they're going to piss off within 1-2mins?

Sometimes. It depends. Regulars don't, but that's obvious. Like Marina says tho: draw things out. When they first turn their cam on I talk to them for a minute or two before I get into the show, but I do this almost always regardless.

gbjenna
10-22-2019, 08:34 AM
Sometimes. It depends. Regulars don't, but that's obvious. Like Marina says tho: draw things out. When they first turn their cam on I talk to them for a minute or two before I get into the show, but I do this almost always regardless.

I usually find what happens is they’re already stood there cock out wanking away ferociously! When they ask or wait a minute or so, they usually take their time and don’t rush, it’s been awful today :(

If my hourly rate is really shocking as it’s so dead, am I better off logging off? I’m just wondering if it’s doing me more harm than good in terms of my placement.

Marina Starr
10-22-2019, 08:37 AM
That makes me laugh so hard, LOOOL. Wanking ferociously so they can cum quick without being charged another minute, LOL.


I usually find what happens is they’re already stood there cock out wanking away ferociously! When they ask or wait a minute or so, they usually take their time and don’t rush, it’s been awful today :(

Miss_ShaSha
10-22-2019, 09:49 AM
I usually find what happens is they’re already stood there cock out wanking away ferociously! When they ask or wait a minute or so, they usually take their time and don’t rush, it’s been awful today :(

If my hourly rate is really shocking as it’s so dead, am I better off logging off? I’m just wondering if it’s doing me more harm than good in terms of my placement.

Very good question. I stick to my hours dead or alive in my room. I don't usually stay on longer than scheduled unless I've fallen behind & need to really make shit up. I don't drop by staying on longer. In fact I've gotten to halfway down page 1 by putting in longer hrs (with a lower conversion rate than others.) I drop when I take a whole week off.

But I may be no help. I'm usually on long with less shows than most. As a matter of fact, I'm reading The Psychology of Selling to improve my hourly.

I feel you: I was on for 3 hrs & only hit low goal because I got a 28 min private & a good amount of GOLD. It was dead night shift. Tuesdays days are horrible for me. I take them off.

AlexiaJacobs
10-22-2019, 09:58 AM
^^Such good insight. I tend to forget that sometimes longer hours doesnt always equal more pay in this job lol

Miss_ShaSha
10-22-2019, 10:14 AM
^^Right. It is time for me to change. I can make $1k a week, BUT it takes me 35-40 hrs. That's kinda poor.

I'm tired of long hours. I desire more.

AlexiaJacobs
10-22-2019, 10:22 AM
^I have soo much to learn lol I'm going to look up that book on Amazon.

ravenskyy
10-22-2019, 11:31 AM
Today sucks. I'm switching my shifts. Working nights only for the next week. Days have been shitty all month, but my night shifts have been great. Sucks that I'm always tired at night tho. Fml. Trying to push through this slowness but omg, I wanna say fuck it and log off.

DahliaSimone
10-22-2019, 11:42 AM
Today sucks. I'm switching my shifts. Working nights only for the next week. Days have been shitty all month, but my night shifts have been great. Sucks that I'm always tired at night tho. Fml. Trying to push through this slowness but omg, I wanna say fuck it and log off.

Me, exactly. I didnt make shit yesterday until after 5 pm....BUT im so tired at night its hard for me to do a night shift, even though I know I need to....

Ladybuggie
10-22-2019, 12:01 PM
Wow it's so DEAD right now, everywhere. Tempted to call it a night but I need to get on top of my finances before the end of the year so gotta stick to it. I also feel I need to find a way to work smarter, but being behind makes me feel like I don't have time to stop and think about a better strategy, just stick to what I know until things are less tight. Sigh.

NitaBaby
10-22-2019, 12:25 PM
Today sucks. I'm switching my shifts. Working nights only for the next week. Days have been shitty all month, but my night shifts have been great. Sucks that I'm always tired at night tho. Fml. Trying to push through this slowness but omg, I wanna say fuck it and log off.

I agree. I've been threatening to do nights for a minute. No more threats.