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SapphireXO
10-25-2019, 10:15 AM
I will say tip for specific questions and answers. Or my response to “can you show ass” or “show tits!” I’m like can you tip? :) They hate that.

AlexiaJacobs
10-25-2019, 10:26 AM
^I usually do this too but then I hit a certain level where I'm done and I just start banhammering the fuck out of my room. Then I take a break to get my shit back together lol

Man they test my damn patience.

Edit: Actually I hadn't thought of asking for tips on certain questions but I have when they demand tits and ass. But I will def try this :)

NitaBaby
10-25-2019, 10:38 AM
I will say tip for specific questions and answers. Or my response to “can you show ass” or “show tits!” I’m like can you tip? :) They hate that.

Every time.

Yesterday I just let the question hang in the air because, honestly, they're on a pay-to-play site. I wasn't in the mood to state the obvious.

Guy: "Can you twerk?"
Me: "I sure can" (sits there).
Guy:"Can I see just one nipple real quick bb?"
Me: "I sure can".
Guy: What do you do in prvt?
Me: "I sure can".

AlexiaJacobs
10-25-2019, 10:43 AM
^ahahahaha yesss

Hazelcam
10-25-2019, 10:59 AM
is anyone having issues with there profile on Streamate when they login to their dashboard? It looks like I have a new acct....

Esixxx
10-25-2019, 11:15 AM
^^^If you are experiencing the same issue I am. I am seeing no information on my side- but click my Profile (what the customer sees) it appears on their end.

I messaged Boleyn and walked through trouble shooting- I can still stream by clicking on SMConnect button.

Hope this helps!

SuperPookie
10-25-2019, 11:36 AM
3 hours in $0 anywhere :(.

gbjenna
10-25-2019, 01:44 PM
My earnings are just getting less and less on Streamate! I don't know what's going on!

I had a great first two hours today and now it's going soooooo quiet!

Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 02:21 PM
My earnings are just getting less and less on Streamate! I don't know what's going on!

I had a great first two hours today and now it's going soooooo quiet!


I've been on 2 hrs and zero on SM. Hang tight. The next wave is coming soon.

Do some abundance EFT tapping. I linked it in the self care thread.

AlexiaJacobs
10-25-2019, 02:26 PM
My earnings are just getting less and less on Streamate! I don't know what's going on!

I had a great first two hours today and now it's going soooooo quiet!

That is literally how its been happening for me. I get a couple good shows when I first log on. It puts me in a good mood and I get all hopeful for a really good shift and then nothin' for hours. Its like it's just a tease... :/

Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 02:43 PM
^^Can be so discouraging. Take a break and get your vibe up. Just did an exclusive and for 2.5 hrs I'm at $36. FUCK...no worries. I'm in the best mood and tonight is gonna be a good night.

WILLING IT!!!

AlexiaJacobs
10-25-2019, 02:51 PM
^^ You'll get it girl! Sending good vibes your way <3

Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 03:16 PM
^^Girl, got those vibes!!! Sending you all kinds of good vibes. You got this fo sho!!!

DahliaSimone
10-25-2019, 03:28 PM
ya'lls vibes are making my tipvibe vibrate so hard it looks like im in the middle of an earthquake

DahliaSimone
10-25-2019, 03:28 PM
JK....I dont have a tip vibe lol. Yet....its def on my 'to-get' list

AlexiaJacobs
10-25-2019, 03:47 PM
JK....I dont have a tip vibe lol. Yet....its def on my 'to-get' list

Same here, I need one like asap.

Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 03:51 PM
JK....I dont have a tip vibe lol. Yet....its def on my 'to-get' list

No joke: this MF helps so much. And since I've been really encouraging guys to play with it...GOLD.

Girl, you're so fly. You get one and you'll have them eating out of your hands.

andreaxchanel
10-25-2019, 03:53 PM
I wonder how much money I'm missing out on by NOT having one yet...

Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 04:22 PM
^^Mine was $126 and that includes shipping. It paid itself off in 3 hrs. LEGIT! And this week I've prolly pulled $550 in tips using it, so my cut almost $200 and that's on top of shows. I encourage all men to play with it in exclusive.

Miss_ShaSha
10-25-2019, 07:00 PM
^^Mine was $126 and that includes shipping. It paid itself off in 3 hrs. LEGIT! And this week I've prolly pulled $550 in tips using it, so my cut almost $200 and that's on top of shows. I encourage all men to play with it in exclusive.

Scratch. Just added up all GOLD my cut this week:

$386.73 this is all mostly during exclusive. Get a goddamn tip vibe ladies. One compatible with SM (or token site) & wear it on your clit. These MFs wanna play with you!!!

BadBitch
10-25-2019, 08:10 PM
I just came up with the greatest idea.. how do we propose this to cam sites? Back when they started to implement free live video it was an option whether or not you wanted to offer that.. and you could switch it off if you didn't want to.. either bring that back or charge blocks of time to go to said free live video to tip and talk... Like 10 min block for $5.. something like that... they need to offer this as an option.. and eventually every cam girl will choose that.. haha

I'd come back to camming full-time if this were to happen!

BadBitch
10-25-2019, 08:15 PM
These guys are real dumb asses today! ZERO DOLLARS with 2 hours of work. Meaning I have been sitting here WORKING, answering messages, dealing with guys saying they are about to call on Niteflirt but don't. Dumb questions coming in like "I see you prefer Discord, is this because you will do MORE on Discord? Does this mean we can do Taboo!?" Two guys called me and then disconnected just before I accepted it. The final straw a guy who has spent in the past is blowing me up on Skype. I told him to stop and unless he calls on NiteFlirt, he cannot do video. So he calls on NF, but still initiates a Skype session BEFORE I answer the call. I decline him on Skype and try to answer the call, he disconnects. I send him another messages explaining the steps he needs to follow. Nothing. I'm done today.

I HAAAATE when they call on Skype while on NF. They would try and scam by calling one of my cheaper listings that was not Phone with Cam. Uh, no, boy. Don't try me.

izshadow
10-25-2019, 10:19 PM
I dont know why I hang on to this dream that I'll be able to come on SM and make a hundred bucks with ease. I wish NF and CMD could just be my pot to play in. I prefer to wait for cam calls and live my life in between instead of sitting here, killing my back and wishing I was dead.

izshadow
10-25-2019, 11:06 PM
When you might be able to pull someone in to exclusive, only to have some random douche pull you in to private without even asking, clear your damn room, not say one word to you and exits....

I'm 1.5 hours in now sitting at $1.50. Like I just want to lay in bed and put the TV on. I hate people. I love you guys. I hate everyone else.

Bananabunny
10-26-2019, 12:07 AM
When you might be able to pull someone in to exclusive, only to have some random douche pull you in to private without even asking, clear your damn room, not say one word to you and exits....

I'm 1.5 hours in now sitting at $1.50. Like I just want to lay in bed and put the TV on. I hate people. I love you guys. I hate everyone else.

Big fat mood right here. Entire week was shit. Men are SHIT.

anonymous camgirl
10-26-2019, 08:35 AM
I am thinking I should connect mine then..lol... I had an exclusive the other day and he said grab that pink toy so I just pretended it was connected..lol.. but I only got 5 gold extra not my cut.


^^Mine was $126 and that includes shipping. It paid itself off in 3 hrs. LEGIT! And this week I've prolly pulled $550 in tips using it, so my cut almost $200 and that's on top of shows. I encourage all men to play with it in exclusive.

Miss_ShaSha
10-26-2019, 09:47 AM
I am thinking I should connect mine then..lol... I had an exclusive the other day and he said grab that pink toy so I just pretended it was connected..lol.. but I only got 5 gold extra not my cut.

I just say "c'mon baby, tickle my pussy" or "I want you to tickle my pussy while I blow you" & even "$25 GOLD for each squirt" hahahaaaaa. You should!!!

laurielegs
10-26-2019, 12:12 PM
I am thinking I should connect mine then..lol... I had an exclusive the other day and he said grab that pink toy so I just pretended it was connected..lol.. but I only got 5 gold extra not my cut.

Can guys on Streamate tell if it's connected? I saw a silicone "vaginal Kegel exerciser" that's obviously made to look just like the pink toy. It was only $5 so I ordered it on a whim. I'm tempted to just use that instead if they can't tell (kind of creeps me out allowing some of these clowns to control a vibrator, lol). I mean, it's not like every orgasm is real on cam either ;)

anonymous camgirl
10-26-2019, 12:26 PM
And that's why I haven't hooked mine up.. I am afraid of making less money and spoiling cheap men and also because I cannot stand the thought of another way a man controls me...


Can guys on Streamate tell if it's connected? I saw a silicone "vaginal Kegel exerciser" that's obviously made to look just like the pink toy. It was only $5 so I ordered it on a whim. I'm tempted to just use that instead if they can't tell (kind of creeps me out allowing some of these clowns to control a vibrator, lol). I mean, it's not like every orgasm is real on cam either ;)

seicento
10-26-2019, 12:31 PM
Can guys on Streamate tell if it's connected? I saw a silicone "vaginal Kegel exerciser" that's obviously made to look just like the pink toy. It was only $5 so I ordered it on a whim. I'm tempted to just use that instead if they can't tell (kind of creeps me out allowing some of these clowns to control a vibrator, lol). I mean, it's not like every orgasm is real on cam either ;)

I don't know what they see for compatible toys if they're connected to SM but Lush is not compatible and lot of us still use it successfully. I'd say go for it. I wear my lush and I don't even have it connected to react to sounds, no one can tell. I get the tip, I moan, that's it.

Miss_ShaSha
10-26-2019, 12:39 PM
Can guys on Streamate tell if it's connected? I saw a silicone "vaginal Kegel exerciser" that's obviously made to look just like the pink toy. It was only $5 so I ordered it on a whim. I'm tempted to just use that instead if they can't tell (kind of creeps me out allowing some of these clowns to control a vibrator, lol). I mean, it's not like every orgasm is real on cam either ;)

The SMConnect issue says they can see when a vibe is active.

izshadow
10-26-2019, 12:50 PM
Can guys on Streamate tell if it's connected? I saw a silicone "vaginal Kegel exerciser" that's obviously made to look just like the pink toy. It was only $5 so I ordered it on a whim. I'm tempted to just use that instead if they can't tell (kind of creeps me out allowing some of these clowns to control a vibrator, lol). I mean, it's not like every orgasm is real on cam either ;)

I bought a $25 dollar kegal one on Amazon. Looks exactly the same and guys have zero clue its fake. I just flop around when I hear tips come in. I have heard guys can tell on their end if it says one is connected or not. I just turn on my blue tooth that I use for PSO calls so I dont have to sit there with a phone to my ear and it connects to that. Sooooo it shows them I have one online and I dont haha. You can totally fake it. Most girls on there do. A lot dont but most do.

Miss_ShaSha
10-26-2019, 12:52 PM
The SMConnect issue says they can see when a vibe is active.

"During your live show, viewers will see a notification when you toy is online! GOLD from viewers will cause the toy to automatically vibrate for 10 seconds. We plan to add more custom options to spice up your vibrator interactions in the future!"

izshadow
10-26-2019, 12:52 PM
Remember to you are dealing with mainly idiots. They dont read anything, they just log in and look at you. So there is probably only 1% that would look for the active status. As long as they see something sticking out of you, blinking and/or you put you have a tip vibe on in your box when you sign on, your good.

Miss_ShaSha
10-26-2019, 12:54 PM
And that's why I haven't hooked mine up.. I am afraid of making less money and spoiling cheap men and also because I cannot stand the thought of another way a man controls me...

I make waaaaay more $$$ with a compatible vibe. WTF?

Miss_ShaSha
10-26-2019, 01:00 PM
Remember to you are dealing with mainly idiots. They dont read anything, they just log in and look at you. So there is probably only 1% that would look for the active status. As long as they see something sticking out of you, blinking and/or you put you have a tip vibe on in your box when you sign on, your good.

Authenticity is GOLD. Getting called out would suck. I'm all for my sisters making bank, but just be careful.

kamiliam
10-26-2019, 01:00 PM
"During your live show, viewers will see a notification when you toy is online! GOLD from viewers will cause the toy to automatically vibrate for 10 seconds. We plan to add more custom options to spice up your vibrator interactions in the future!"

When I was forced to use SMC the other day, I checked on my customer account and saw no indication that they could tell I had my toy connected. It was working, maybe I missed it? But I was curious and was trying to find it but I actually hate watching my own stream so I didn’t stay long

Miss_ShaSha
10-26-2019, 01:06 PM
^^IF it's not apparent now, it will be at some point. But on the real, the feeling when it goes off is choice. I LOVE BEING TEASED.

seicento
10-26-2019, 01:15 PM
Authenticity is GOLD. Getting called out would suck. I'm all for my sisters making bank, but just be careful.

If a toy looks like Lush, for example, no one would be called out. Lush can be connected to Lovense app and set to react to sounds, customers can control it as well if they have the app and most know how it works. If a toy isn't compatible with SM interface, doesn't mean it can't be connected other way and vibe for real. I used to connect mine to the app but it vibes when I talk too and it's a bit annoying. If I'd be called out I'd connect it in a second and prove it but in 2 years, no one has asked for a proof.

Holly_xoxo
10-26-2019, 02:03 PM
Staying online right now is almost painful. It's no wonder I have zero interest in finding a man to date.

Miss_ShaSha
10-26-2019, 02:08 PM
^^It can hurt, literally. My back hurts after 2.5 hrs without a show. & yes, some of these guys are dicks. Hold out for the respectful gents. They exist.

samuimoon
10-26-2019, 02:22 PM
I dont know why I hang on to this dream that I'll be able to come on SM and make a hundred bucks with ease. I wish NF and CMD could just be my pot to play in. I prefer to wait for cam calls and live my life in between instead of sitting here, killing my back and wishing I was dead.

I dont get why the models are not allowed to run video, like those other video recorded models they have running all day for themselves, SM i mean, so we could record our intro of choice for front chat, and switch it on when we are available for work, and make it mandatory to be live for paid privates and exclusives and have an appointment option also for custies to submit requests and times they would like. Of course those who would want to continue as is, would have that option also. Right now it is SO Red Light district 1990s Amsterdam. Makes it harder work for the girls than it should be in this technological age.

anonymous camgirl
10-26-2019, 03:54 PM
Oh yea.. love your idea also.. a recording and then hit pvt instead of sitting all day talking to numb skulls.. before free live video I would do all kinds of research on health for like 8 hours a day instead of talking to idiots...


I dont get why the models are not allowed to run video, like those other video recorded models they have running all day for themselves, SM i mean, so we could record our intro of choice for front chat, and switch it on when we are available for work, and make it mandatory to be live for paid privates and exclusives and have an appointment option also for custies to submit requests and times they would like. Of course those who would want to continue as is, would have that option also. Right now it is SO Red Light district 1990s Amsterdam. Makes it harder work for the girls than it should be in this technological age.

Ladybuggie
10-27-2019, 04:13 AM
I just say "c'mon baby, tickle my pussy" or "I want you to tickle my pussy while I blow you" & even "$25 GOLD for each squirt" hahahaaaaa. You should!!!

I dunno, I got mine and tell them but it doesn't seem to work with my crowd. Will have to keep trying but it's a faff cause it keeps disconnecting. I have an Ohmibod Kiiro. Don't know if it's the app or the toy

NitaBaby
10-27-2019, 05:02 AM
I dunno, I got mine and tell them but it doesn't seem to work with my crowd. Will have to keep trying but it's a faff cause it keeps disconnecting. I have an Ohmibod Kiiro. Don't know if it's the app or the toy

Mine is on the list of SM compatible toys and it has never reacted to a tip. I can't tell if it ever connects since it's failure rate is at 100%

If the vibe isn't pulling in money then I'd work on practicing some sexy reactions. Its one of the only reasons they tip 'tip vibe girls' anyway. I always act like a $1 tip just put the tip of a sex gods thingy up there because is always brings more tips if I milk it a little. It's pennies on the dollar so I don't go full throttle and reward them for being cheap. but my biggest tips have only ever come from a (fake ass) vibe reaction so it's really worth it to sort of show them why vibing you is a good idea.

One guys $1 tip (or at least my reaction to it) has literally provoked another guys $300 tip. So, like Sha, has been saying that thing is a money maker. Just practice a few reactions OR keep an actually vibrator close by so that at least some of those reactions can be real. But use that tip vibe, ladies.

Ladybuggie
10-27-2019, 05:09 AM
Mine is on the list of SM compatible toys and it has never reacted to a tip. I can't tell if it ever connects since it's failure rate is at 100%

If the vibe isn't pulling in money then I'd work on practicing some sexy reactions. Its one of the only reasons they tip 'tip vibe girls' anyway. I always act like a $1 tip just put the tip of a sex gods thingy up there because is always brings more tips if I milk it a little. It's pennies on the dollar so I don't go full throttle and reward them for being cheap. but my biggest tips have only ever come from a (fake ass) vibe reaction so it's really worth it to sort of show them why vibing you is a good idea.

One guys $1 tip (or at least my reaction to it) has literally provoked another guys $300 tip. So, like Sha, has been saying that thing is a money maker. Just practice a few reactions OR keep an actually vibrator close by so that at least some of those reactions can be real. But use that tip vibe, ladies.


Oh, I'm normally a good actress, I believe, but I don't like, cum in my pants, for $1 tips. You might have a point in that, though. What I was saying is that I've had my tip vibe on for hours and not even gotten one single tip. How do you advertise? Do you tell them? Do you point the camera to your crotch and let them see the dongle? Do you write it on your room topic? How do you direct attention to it?

NitaBaby
10-27-2019, 05:15 AM
Oh, I'm normally a good actress, I believe, but I don't like, cum in my pants, for $1 tips. You might have a point in that, though. What I was saying is that I've had my tip vibe on for hours and not even gotten one single tip. How do you advertise? Do you tell them? Do you point the camera to your crotch and let them see the dongle? Do you write it on your room topic? How do you direct attention to it?

Ahhh I see. I usually write it in my room topic. Something like "Tip Vibe is IN) Make this pussy WET. Pvt= My Show, EXL= I Obey Daddy. View Profile For More Details. And in the sm dashboard - where you can edit your description or weight and stuff like that - there is an option to put yourself under the "Interactive Vibrator" category. Select that.

I've seen girls go a step further and set the lovense box behind them on a night stand to quiety advertise that they have it or even add a pic of it to their profile photo BUT i don't do all of that. Just put myself in the category and mention it in my topic.

Miss_ShaSha
10-27-2019, 06:29 AM
I dunno, I got mine and tell them but it doesn't seem to work with my crowd. Will have to keep trying but it's a faff cause it keeps disconnecting. I have an Ohmibod Kiiro. Don't know if it's the app or the toy

In my room topic I have: tip vibe on! 5 GOLD to tease 25 gold to make me moan.

In exclusive I encourage men to play with it. & yes, like Nita says, the reaction is what really gets guys excited.

Ladybuggie
10-27-2019, 07:06 AM
Thanks guys that's very useful =) x

Ladybuggie
10-27-2019, 01:15 PM
ok so, 3 hours, $15. On a Sunday. WTF