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AlexiaJacobs
11-14-2019, 07:25 AM
Man, I'm so frustrated with SM right now. Studied The Psychology of Selling, did self hypnosis for Sales Success, & put in 23 hrs already for about minimum wage?

Dude, so frustrated I wanna smash shit!

FUCK, gotta meditate or I'll explode. Highly considering a new site.

I logged on 12 minutes ago and only 4 ins and outs so far. What is going on? I was so hopeful when I made the switch to SM... :(

Holly_xoxo
11-14-2019, 08:17 AM
Man, I'm so frustrated with SM right now. Studied The Psychology of Selling, did self hypnosis for Sales Success, & put in 23 hrs already for about minimum wage?

Dude, so frustrated I wanna smash shit!

FUCK, gotta meditate or I'll explode. Highly considering a new site.

Trying a new site isn't a bad idea. Yesterday when I was getting restless I bounced around to a few of them and although I didn't make a huge amount of money, I liked having some variety. It definitely helped my mood and it was nice to feel new energy.

Miss_ShaSha
11-14-2019, 08:31 AM
If anyone can do this, is you. You are in control, just take a deep breath and get back on it. You got this. You make the $, the $ dont make you. I am putting together all my good vibes and energy and sending it out to you. Smile girl, you know what you are doing. Those fukers will be all over you ready to give you all their $ before you know it.

Damn, that right there just made me switch. Super supportive & real! Sister...thank you!


I logged on 12 minutes ago and only 4 ins and outs so far. What is going on? I was so hopeful when I made the switch to SM... :(

Slumps occur, but they still hit me hard. Even with the two I've experienced I can still survive. However, I'm going to give SM, regs, & potentials 2 more months with my acquired knowledge then bouncing to a new site if this downward trend continues. I have two options: complain & stay or leave. My mind will be made up soon.

Miss_ShaSha
11-14-2019, 08:34 AM
Trying a new site isn't a bad idea. Yesterday when I was getting restless I bounced around to a few of them and although I didn't make a huge amount of money, I liked having some variety. It definitely helped my mood and it was nice to feel new energy.

Thanks Sis. & that's good to hear!

AlexiaJacobs
11-14-2019, 09:31 AM
I really don't want to be on here all day but I get that's kinda the name of the game sometimes. The hardest part of this right now is the sitting and waiting with no interaction.

Holly_xoxo
11-14-2019, 09:56 AM
I really don't want to be on here all day but I get that's kinda the name of the game sometimes. The hardest part of this right now is the sitting and waiting with no interaction.

The no interaction kills me. It's the biggest thing that will tank my mood. If I didn't have Prime to watch while waiting, I'd probably log off sooner just out of frustration.

AlexiaJacobs
11-14-2019, 10:18 AM
The no interaction kills me. It's the biggest thing that will tank my mood. If I didn't have Prime to watch while waiting, I'd probably log off sooner just out of frustration.

It sucks even more when someone finally says hi and then leaves. Come baaaack!! lol

anonymous camgirl
11-14-2019, 10:32 AM
Let me ask you? Do you think that book The Psychology of Selling works on these types of customers? I never read the book but I have been to sales classes for an insurance job and I think it doesn't quite apply to these types.. could be wrong though


Man, I'm so frustrated with SM right now. Studied The Psychology of Selling, did self hypnosis for Sales Success, & put in 23 hrs already for about minimum wage?

Dude, so frustrated I wanna smash shit!

FUCK, gotta meditate or I'll explode. Highly considering a new site.

Miss_ShaSha
11-14-2019, 11:26 AM
Let me ask you? Do you think that book The Psychology of Selling works on these types of customers? I never read the book but I have been to sales classes for an insurance job and I think it doesn't quite apply to these types.. could be wrong though

Good question. Some tactics apply and some are of no use since we don't get to see them face to face. So things like building rapport, asking the right questions to qualify a customer, or even the use of positive affirmations and appearance help, but there's not much we can do if they come right in and go right out.

So some is of use and some just doesn't even apply.

NitaBaby
11-14-2019, 11:40 AM
Just run me the fuck over today :wheelchai

izshadow
11-14-2019, 12:56 PM
Always fun when you log in to SM and cant find yourself at all.

Update: Wow I finally found myself on page 4. I hope this is just a glitch. I worked to hard to be tossed to the back like that again.

izshadow
11-14-2019, 01:41 PM
I will not cry on cam. I will not cry on cam. I will not cry on cam.

AlexiaJacobs
11-14-2019, 02:13 PM
I will not cry on cam. I will not cry on cam. I will not cry on cam.

Don't cry love....just take a deep breath. *hugs*

XSelinex
11-14-2019, 02:39 PM
I will not cry on cam. I will not cry on cam. I will not cry on cam.
I`m already crying.

izshadow
11-14-2019, 02:43 PM
Two hours on SM, zero made... for some reason I'm thrown back to page 4/5 (least I finally found myself) when I had worked myself up to page 1/2. I guess I'll have to try again around midnight for a couple hours. I'll stay logged in to CMD and NF but both those sites have been hitting 0 for me to. Sigh. I just cant sit for hours and hours. Especially at 0.

lula_xoxox
11-14-2019, 04:28 PM
omg the placement situation is really hitting me hard too! i used to generally be in the top half of the first page, and now i'm regularly finding myself on page 2 - i know that could be worse, but i feel like it's REALLY been affecting my traffic because since they changed up the website, it's pretty much been consistently slow for me. like i'm generally earning less than half per hour of what i was earning a few months back. it's really worrying! not helped by the fact that my paycheck from last week STILL hasn't arrived - i've been waiting 10 days now! i guess it just got lost in the post... has anyone else had issues with this? i guess it was bound to happen sooner or later and i've been lucky to have them arrive quickly up until now, but it's seriously such awful timing!

also i hate how you can't see how many hosts are online anymore. i used to use that to gauge whether it was worth going online or not. maybe they got rid of it because they realised it's basically NEVER fucking worth it anymore :-(

Holly_xoxo
11-14-2019, 04:55 PM
omg the placement situation is really hitting me hard too! i used to generally be in the top half of the first page, and now i'm regularly finding myself on page 2 - i know that could be worse, but i feel like it's REALLY been affecting my traffic because since they changed up the website, it's pretty much been consistently slow for me. like i'm generally earning less than half per hour of what i was earning a few months back. it's really worrying! not helped by the fact that my paycheck from last week STILL hasn't arrived - i've been waiting 10 days now! i guess it just got lost in the post... has anyone else had issues with this? i guess it was bound to happen sooner or later and i've been lucky to have them arrive quickly up until now, but it's seriously such awful timing!

also i hate how you can't see how many hosts are online anymore. i used to use that to gauge whether it was worth going online or not. maybe they got rid of it because they realised it's basically NEVER fucking worth it anymore :-(

I can still see how many are online through the microsoft edge browser. It was almost 2500 at some points today. No wonder I'm stuck on page 2 lol. The check being late might be due to the holiday last weekend. Hopefully that's it and it wasn't lost.

Miss_ShaSha
11-14-2019, 05:20 PM
omg the placement situation is really hitting me hard too! i used to generally be in the top half of the first page, and now i'm regularly finding myself on page 2 - i know that could be worse, but i feel like it's REALLY been affecting my traffic because since they changed up the website, it's pretty much been consistently slow for me. like i'm generally earning less than half per hour of what i was earning a few months back. it's really worrying! not helped by the fact that my paycheck from last week STILL hasn't arrived - i've been waiting 10 days now! i guess it just got lost in the post... has anyone else had issues with this? i guess it was bound to happen sooner or later and i've been lucky to have them arrive quickly up until now, but it's seriously such awful timing!

also i hate how you can't see how many hosts are online anymore. i used to use that to gauge whether it was worth going online or not. maybe they got rid of it because they realised it's basically NEVER fucking worth it anymore :-(

I've only had an issue with a check getting lost once in almost a year. Mine has not shown up yet either. With the holiday I didn't even check mail on Tuesday and not even on Wednesday so I expected it to be here this AM. Nope...and I'm NOT happy about that. I have bills to pay.

I've experienced such a drastic decline in sales despite trying new techniques and other shit. It's def upsetting and has me wondering why I'm even paying for traffic that isn't coming my way.

I'm no quitter nor a victim and can admit when I'm at fault...but this is out of my hands. Sorry sister...SOLIDARITY. I feel it too.

DahliaSimone
11-14-2019, 05:49 PM
So, ummmmm.....8 hours later and ive made $40. Can I cry now?

lula_xoxox
11-14-2019, 06:49 PM
I've only had an issue with a check getting lost once in almost a year. Mine has not shown up yet either. With the holiday I didn't even check mail on Tuesday and not even on Wednesday so I expected it to be here this AM. Nope...and I'm NOT happy about that. I have bills to pay.

I've experienced such a drastic decline in sales despite trying new techniques and other shit. It's def upsetting and has me wondering why I'm even paying for traffic that isn't coming my way.

I'm no quitter nor a victim and can admit when I'm at fault...but this is out of my hands. Sorry sister...SOLIDARITY. I feel it too.

the cheque I'm waiting for should've been here LAST tuesday - i didn't earn enough for a payout the following week (i set my payout high because i don't want the bank charging me for smaller cheques, i live in the UK so there's a conversion charge), so i won't be getting another cheque this week :-( yeah, i've been receiving the cheques for 18 months now and this is the first time it's taken this long, so i guess i'm lucky. just such awful timing!

do you mind me asking how you pay for traffic? is that possible on SM? i was wondering if they're going to start charging for good placement or some bullshit like that. because obviously 65% just isn't enough.... grrrr. i've even tried reducing my rates significantly, and that's not helped at all. really really worrying.

solidarity to you too! <3 i hope it turns around for us both!

lula_xoxox
11-14-2019, 06:52 PM
I can still see how many are online through the microsoft edge browser. It was almost 2500 at some points today. No wonder I'm stuck on page 2 lol. The check being late might be due to the holiday last weekend. Hopefully that's it and it wasn't lost.

holy shit 2500?! i've never seen it that high! fuck, there's just too many hosts these days. supply is really outweighing demand. i need to figure out how i can see the number, because had i known it was that high, i wouldn't have even bothered!! i'm on a mac using google chrome, a lot of other browsers just seem to stress my poor old laptop out :-(

lula_xoxox
11-14-2019, 07:10 PM
I can still see how many are online through the microsoft edge browser. It was almost 2500 at some points today. No wonder I'm stuck on page 2 lol. The check being late might be due to the holiday last weekend. Hopefully that's it and it wasn't lost.

holy shit 2500?! i've never seen it that high! fuck, there's just too many hosts these days. supply is really outweighing demand. i need to figure out how i can see the number, because had i known it was that high, i wouldn't have even bothered!! i'm on a mac using google chrome, a lot of other browsers just seem to stress my poor old laptop out :-(

lula_xoxox
11-14-2019, 07:13 PM
LOL i sign off and on again, go back online, NOBODY even comes into my room at all for the first ten minutes, and then the first person that does comes at me with this nugget of gold:


Reggiereed has logged on
Reggiereed:What’s the best way to respond when a girls asks “what’s up”?
Reggiereed:“If I tell you, will you sit on it?”
Reggiereed has logged off (reason: user left)


BRILLIANT THANKYOU GOODNIGHT *throws self out of window*

Holly_xoxo
11-14-2019, 07:13 PM
holy shit 2500?! i've never seen it that high! fuck, there's just too many hosts these days. supply is really outweighing demand. i need to figure out how i can see the number, because had i known it was that high, i wouldn't have even bothered!! i'm on a mac using google chrome, a lot of other browsers just seem to stress my poor old laptop out :-(


I hadn't seen it that high before either although I have seen it around the 2200 area quite a lot. The edge browser still shows the old SM layout which i guess is why I can still see the number.

You are so right about supply outweighing the demand. I think that's a huge part of why so many (including myself) struggle to make good money.

Petite-
11-14-2019, 08:25 PM
nope nope nope, it's only getting worse on SM. I thought last few times was bad enough, today just topped that. Amazing how a site can change so fast in less than 2 years. I know it's not me because I look the same, my equipment is fine, and I went from averaging more than $50/hr to consistently having 0 dollar shift or 5 bucks an hour. I have maybe 4 people come in my room in 30mins. SM is dead, where can I go though? Is there any decent site left or should I stick to dead SM and try for another few days? Sitting in a dead room without anyone coming in is just.....like slow suicide...

izshadow
11-14-2019, 11:02 PM
I've been on for 1.5 hours and just made 20 cents after the US conversion. I dont know if I can hang in there much longer tonight. I hate sitting and sitting and sitting when I could be using this dead time to be productive or sleep or watch tv or something. Clipping my toe nails is more exhilarating then this crap.

Esixxx
11-14-2019, 11:20 PM
I feel you. I am sitting at $3.47 and have been on for 3 hours now. I have been taking a short every hour to give my eyes a break from the screen and the lights. I have a little bit of traffic in my room but not buyers of shows just yet.

jennalohan
11-15-2019, 12:09 AM
I'm guessing some serious site maintenance is going on? Complaints of no sound and not being able to stay connected is all I'm hearing lately. Maybe that's why it's such a shit show last few weeks? Hang in there ladies!

Miss_ShaSha
11-15-2019, 07:32 AM
the cheque I'm waiting for should've been here LAST tuesday - i didn't earn enough for a payout the following week (i set my payout high because i don't want the bank charging me for smaller cheques, i live in the UK so there's a conversion charge), so i won't be getting another cheque this week :-( yeah, i've been receiving the cheques for 18 months now and this is the first time it's taken this long, so i guess i'm lucky. just such awful timing!

do you mind me asking how you pay for traffic? is that possible on SM? i was wondering if they're going to start charging for good placement or some bullshit like that. because obviously 65% just isn't enough.... grrrr. i've even tried reducing my rates significantly, and that's not helped at all. really really worrying.

solidarity to you too! <3 i hope it turns around for us both!

Yeah, that does sound frustrating. I don't like people messing with my money. Poor timing indeed.

No additional pay for traffic just the cut they take which includes bringing rooms traffic.

It's pretty bad right now. I see it only getting better. Going to experiment heavily today & tomorrow in my room. I'm no where close to goal & I ain't gonna fuss. Just exhaust all options so I know for real why shit ain't workin.

Sending you good vibes <3

ravenskyy
11-15-2019, 10:53 AM
Remind me to never.....ever.....depend on my regulars again. This is the fourth time that I expected to get a tribute from this guy and he claims that he can't. Are you fucking kidding me!?!? I'm not even asking for a lot!!!!

I was depending on this money and every time I really need it, I always get screwed over. I'm about to cut indie camming out of my life. I make myself available for idiots that don't give a crap about me. I'll just cam on SM. Then when I stop streaming, my ass will be done for the day.

shysara79
11-15-2019, 04:04 PM
3 hours online and $3.00 made.

DahliaSimone
11-15-2019, 04:35 PM
Man, even Friday is betraying me now? $28 and ive been on since 11 am. Fuck me. Goddamn it.

DahliaSimone
11-15-2019, 04:37 PM
I guess i will never make more than a few hundred bucks a week, i may as well face it and stop pushing myself because nothing has and ever will work. Its just pointless to keep pushing myself with no results.

Scorpio Girl
11-15-2019, 06:12 PM
I figured my placement issues where because I haven't been working too much in the past few weeks, but I guess it's happening to everyone. I used to consistently be on page 1 around row 3. Last night, I was bottom of page 1/top of page 2 for most of the night. At one point, I was on page 3! This is ridiculous and is killing my money. I'm making half of what I was earlier this year.

AlexiaJacobs
11-15-2019, 06:26 PM
2 hours in - $0 so far. I'm trying to stay positive and hope one of my whales comes to save me.

That bein' said, I'd really like to gain some new customers damnit, but kinda hard when no one talks and/or just leaves after exchanging hellos.

-_-

Miss_ShaSha
11-15-2019, 06:49 PM
With over 3000 models on SM right now, I've dropped from row 9 on page 1 all the way to row 14 & I consistently stream at least 20-30 hrs in free a week. I'm putting in effort, reading sales books, meditating & keeping my vibe up.

I'm amazed I'm not pissed right now. I just can't bother with it tonight. I'll be trying new things out for the contest. But I'll say it: this sucks. & my regs are hardly around. Damn...need to manifest a miracle.

AlexiaJacobs
11-15-2019, 07:41 PM
So one of my whales came in just to say he can't see me tonight.....which is a little weird to come in and announce lol but whatever. I just told him no problem and that I hopes he has a great evening. Then he goes "Are you mad??? You look mad!!" - I had a feeling this guy might turn into a drama queen for no reason. So now I am kind of annoyed and some idiot just asked for free boobs and another just told me to do a gold show. Because I totally cater to asshats that never threw me a penny.

This should be a sign to log off because I can feel my blood pressure on the fuckin' rise.

AlexiaJacobs
11-15-2019, 07:41 PM
^On that note - I'm going to smoke a cigarette.

KatM
11-15-2019, 08:20 PM
3.5 hrs online on SM and not even a single cent made?! Whoa! Plain $Zero on a friday afternoon, i logged off cause i could not take it anymore, i am baffled, i really tried to sell but nobody tipped or came pvt from the guys who actually talked. It feels surreal but it's very real... oh well... going to take my make up off and try to be calm and not cry :(

minibagel
11-15-2019, 08:38 PM
I figured my placement issues where because I haven't been working too much in the past few weeks, but I guess it's happening to everyone. I used to consistently be on page 1 around row 3. Last night, I was bottom of page 1/top of page 2 for most of the night. At one point, I was on page 3! This is ridiculous and is killing my money. I'm making half of what I was earlier this year.

Same for me. I have been in on SM for an hour total this week (just started back today) and made $50 but the traffic wasn't great. Taking a break. Last week I put in only 5 hours cuz I was out of town. I used to be in row 2-4 on the front page depending on the night. I can't even find myself online anymore but I am not sure if that's because I have my city blocked again? I can find myself if I type in my name but that's the only way... don't get what's going on. -_-

Holly_xoxo
11-15-2019, 09:04 PM
So one of my whales came in just to say he can't see me tonight.....which is a little weird to come in and announce lol but whatever. I just told him no problem and that I hopes he has a great evening. Then he goes "Are you mad??? You look mad!!" - I had a feeling this guy might turn into a drama queen for no reason. So now I am kind of annoyed and some idiot just asked for free boobs and another just told me to do a gold show. Because I totally cater to asshats that never threw me a penny.

This should be a sign to log off because I can feel my blood pressure on the fuckin' rise.

That guy sounds like someone you'll end up blocking in the near future Lol...one of those "just wanted to come by and say hi" and the type that thinks he has some personal relationship with you.

AlexiaJacobs
11-15-2019, 09:39 PM
That guy sounds like someone you'll end up blocking in the near future Lol...one of those "just wanted to come by and say hi" and the type that thinks he has some personal relationship with you.


I'm absolutely sensing this about him.

ravenskyy
11-15-2019, 09:58 PM
That guy sounds like someone you'll end up blocking in the near future Lol...one of those "just wanted to come by and say hi" and the type that thinks he has some personal relationship with you.

Back in August, I had a guy that would come into my room, every shift, for weeks. Tipping a few dollars here and there, telling me that he was gonna do a show for his bday. He never said when his bday was, just that it was in September. I took a week off due to a mental breakdown, came back, and he came into my room later that week. I started asking him about the show and this bastard had the nerve to tell me that he had spent all his money on other girls and that he couldn't find me. REALLY BITCH!?!? Instantly told him to fuck off and then blocked him. His name was MrNiceGuy, or something like that. Yea, you're a "nice guy" alright.

I blocked another idiot 2 minutes later. This guy was on my room. Every. Effing. Day. Every. Effing. Shift. He wouldn't spend very often and when he did, it was only a few dollars. Whenever I asked him if he wanted to do a show, he was always conveniently at work. He would just loiter in my damn room. I only let him stay because he talked and it helped keep me busy when the other guys were too busy lurking. I would always get a show randomly, mid conversation. Anyway, I asked this dude if he was going to tip or spend money and he claimed that he had. Yea. A whole $5. Like last week. Banned!

I don't smoke, but I'm about to start. Camming stresses me tf out.

~Carmen~
11-15-2019, 10:04 PM
Back in August, I had a guy that would come into my room, every shift, for weeks. Tipping a few dollars here and there, telling me that he was gonna do a show for his bday. He never said when his bday was, just that it was in September. I took a week off due to a mental breakdown, came back, and he came into my room later that week. I started asking him about the show and this bastard had the nerve to tell me that he had spent all his money on other girls and that he couldn't find me. REALLY BITCH!?!? Instantly told him to fuck off and then blocked him. His name was MrNiceGuy, or something like that. Yea, you're a "nice guy" alright.

I blocked another idiot 2 minutes later. This guy was on my room. Every. Effing. Day. Every. Effing. Shift. He wouldn't spend very often and when he did, it was only a few dollars. Whenever I asked him if he wanted to do a show, he was always conveniently at work. He would just loiter in my damn room. I only let him stay because he talked and it helped keep me busy when the other guys were too busy lurking. I would always get a show randomly, mid conversation. Anyway, I asked this dude if he was going to tip or spend money and he claimed that he had. Yea. A whole $5. Like last week. Banned!

I don't smoke, but I'm about to start. Camming stresses me tf out.

I don't think I have ever had a "niceguy" or "gentleman" tip or do a show. Same with "money" named guys.

AlexiaJacobs
11-15-2019, 10:24 PM
Back in August, I had a guy that would come into my room, every shift, for weeks. Tipping a few dollars here and there, telling me that he was gonna do a show for his bday. He never said when his bday was, just that it was in September. I took a week off due to a mental breakdown, came back, and he came into my room later that week. I started asking him about the show and this bastard had the nerve to tell me that he had spent all his money on other girls and that he couldn't find me. REALLY BITCH!?!? Instantly told him to fuck off and then blocked him. His name was MrNiceGuy, or something like that. Yea, you're a "nice guy" alright.

I blocked another idiot 2 minutes later. This guy was on my room. Every. Effing. Day. Every. Effing. Shift. He wouldn't spend very often and when he did, it was only a few dollars. Whenever I asked him if he wanted to do a show, he was always conveniently at work. He would just loiter in my damn room. I only let him stay because he talked and it helped keep me busy when the other guys were too busy lurking. I would always get a show randomly, mid conversation. Anyway, I asked this dude if he was going to tip or spend money and he claimed that he had. Yea. A whole $5. Like last week. Banned!

I don't smoke, but I'm about to start. Camming stresses me tf out.

I've used those guys too for entertainment while in between privates. But I usually end up having to block them.

And like Carmen just said, I've never gotten any money outta dudes with names that contain "nice" or "money" lol nothing but broke ass cunt bags.

I just had some idiot dare to say "spread that shit" in my fucking room. Middle finger up and hit the block button. They're really pissing me off tonight.

Midwest-Mistress
11-16-2019, 02:31 AM
Lmao when a dude says he can't pay you on site and can only tip you through cash app, ok Officer. LOL JK, but seriously personally if a dude is trying to get me off site Issa whole ass game like.... He came in with a whole story about his card blah blah which might be true but... Idk you like that sir, I'm not about to get my shit suspended cause you're cheap. Oh, the bonus was that he was "broke" I think men need their viewing privileges revoked until payday, I think it would humble a lot of them. It was an afternoon a few days ago, usually guys come in and actually talk about their dick and get a show to save the day but it didn't happen so my silly self ended up chatting more than needed & then he gives me his phone number because he "trusts me" :D. The audacity of these men, didn't even tip nothing... Why would I... :-X

gbjenna
11-16-2019, 09:23 AM
I’ve had a good start to the my shift financially but fuck me have I dealt with some pricks today!!!!! They are out in force!!!! Where have they all come from?!

AlexiaJacobs
11-16-2019, 11:31 AM
Lmao when a dude says he can't pay you on site and can only tip you through cash app, ok Officer. LOL JK, but seriously personally if a dude is trying to get me off site Issa whole ass game like.... He came in with a whole story about his card blah blah which might be true but... Idk you like that sir, I'm not about to get my shit suspended cause you're cheap. Oh, the bonus was that he was "broke" I think men need their viewing privileges revoked until payday, I think it would humble a lot of them. It was an afternoon a few days ago, usually guys come in and actually talk about their dick and get a show to save the day but it didn't happen so my silly self ended up chatting more than needed & then he gives me his phone number because he "trusts me" :D. The audacity of these men, didn't even tip nothing... Why would I... :-X

I've had a guy mention a "cash app" to me a couple of times too. He does tip me though he's never brought me private.....but what is this cash app thing all about? I just told him I had no idea what he was talking about because I really didn't but I curious what this is and why they bring it up?

WendiStarr
11-16-2019, 11:40 AM
^ Cash app is just another way for guys to rip you off, in my opinion. They send you the $, you do a show, and they hurry up and reverse it so you will have given them a free show. I never trust offsite payments like that because the majority of the guys who use it are looking to scam you and get a free show. They either need to pay in tokens like they're supposed to or need to stfu. I have had an asshole pay me through that for an indy show on Skype and the fucker reversed payment. He was someone who had bought shows from me in the past with no problems so I'm not sure why he did that. I was so pissed at having wasted 45 minutes giving him a show that he got for free since he reversed payment.

I was on for 2 hours earlier and am at $0. There are tons of freeloading scammers wanting skype shows for paypal or cashapp. It seems to be more than the usual amount of these types of freeloaders today. Seriously, as soon as I got on cam I had a bunch of guys immediately asking if I would be willing to skype for paypal or cashapp. I got so annoyed that I signed out but I'm not calling it a day yet. I plan on getting back on later tonight.

AlexiaJacobs
11-16-2019, 11:48 AM
^Ahh I see. Makes sense then. Yea I've def noticed the quality of guys lately on SM (not sure if you're on SM or somewhere else) are reminding me of the customers on Bonga. Asking for free shit, requesting contact outside of SM, time wasters, lurkers.....where the fuck are they getting this traffic?

I was up late last night working and just woke up. Honestly I'm dragging ass at the thought of spending an hour to get ready, just to kick, ban, and battle these dudes all evening.