View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Erin89
12-20-2013, 06:35 PM
But bb it's my birthday! Plus I'm in the military, I'm fighting for you bb why dont you show me something.
TheBrownFox
12-20-2013, 08:02 PM
But bb it's my birthday! Plus I'm in the military, I'm fighting for you bb why dont you show me something.
I had posted something on Twitter about members using their so-called vet status to try to get freebies, and this completely random guy tweeted back "So is that a 'fuck you' to the veterans then?" *rolls eyes* I was like "First of all...WHO ARE YOU? Second...no, I've got nothing but respect for the veterans. But don't come on a cam site trying to guilt trip people into freebies."
I mean, you don't see me going into Red Lobster expecting FREE biscuits and jumbo shrimp cocktail just for some "I'm a single mom whose ex is a deadbeat dad" sob story. LMAO.
Holly_xoxo
12-20-2013, 08:13 PM
My biggest annoyance is when I get "do you do this for the money?" I hate that question!! Obviously I'm on for the money. If I was just some insatiable, naughty exhibitionist then I'd go on one of those adult hook up sites, turn on my cam and I'd be nailed with guys coming in to watch me. Why would I spend time dealing with losers and waiting to go private if all I wanted was to get off with a random stranger.
Then there's the "so what is your real job?" WTF?
AmethystLily
12-20-2013, 09:59 PM
1. I've said this so many times--I hate the pet names! If someone was paying me, or had me in private and decided to use them, I wouldn't complain, but it's always from people who don't intend to pay for anything.
2. People who ask me to take off my glasses. If you want a model who doesn't wear glasses, then go find one. Again, if someone tipped, and wanted to see me without glasses, or if I was in private chat, and enough time had passed and the person wanted to see me without glasses, I would. But random freeloaders don't get to tell me what to wear or not wear.
Thymian
12-20-2013, 10:15 PM
2. People who ask me to take off my glasses. If you want a model who doesn't wear glasses, then go find one. Again, if someone tipped, and wanted to see me without glasses, or if I was in private chat, and enough time had passed and the person wanted to see me without glasses, I would. But random freeloaders don't get to tell me what to wear or not wear.
Especially since it's so they can cum on your face unobstructed. If that's not worth a tip then I don't know even know what tips are for.
temptingmodel
12-20-2013, 10:25 PM
I love the guys "I have 500 to fuck you right now, I live in Minnesota"
same guy "I will pay for everything"
same guy "heres my number"
same guy a few days later "why didn't you call me?" with a 1 beside his name not to mention phone is offered in exclusive cheap ass with your big ass 1
Real clients for escorts DO NOT troll cam sites , the guys that do this idwtf to think of them. lol I always wonder what exactly am I missing bc that is their next big spill "You missed out on a good thing" lololol really now? :D Not on a cam site I did not.
Oh man I love this thread.
Morons looking for dates, escorts or real life fuck buddies. No, no and no. If I wanted a date I would look local, if I wanted to escort I wouldn't get clients off a cam site and if I want to fuck someone I will fuck my man thank you.
The whole entitled to free nudity crap is annoying as well. You don't work for free and neither do cam performers. Either pay or shut up and appreicate what you see in free chat.
Do you want to go private? No I just like to hang out on here. (eye roll)
^^ My all time favorite JUST FUCKING GO PRIVATE! LOL
KarmaComa
12-20-2013, 11:57 PM
Thank you for starting this thread. This will likely prevent me from unloading on the offending assfucks I am about to outline.
CUSTOMER SINS
1: I don’t know why this enrages me as much as it does but I hate when custies say inquire “can I/may I (insert sex act here)?” in free chat. If we are in a private show and are obviously role playing, sure I get it. However, “may I suck your nipples” in free chat makes me want to shoot the custie in front of their own mother.
A: Are you planning on teleporting? I don’t think you will actually be able to do it, even if I grant you permission
B: Do you think you asking for your permission is the way to my heart? Or wait, are you trying to drag me into your submissive fantasies? Either way, suck me sideways.
Sometimes I just want to scream NO YOU MAY NOT. I usually just ban them. Can I/May I guys NEVER seem to have money
2: The invites to go out on a date are ridiculous but coming from freeloaders it is doubly so. I don’t meet customers and even if I did, WHY THE FUCK WOULD I MEET YOUR FREELOADING ASS? Don’t you think the high rollers and big spenders would be my top priority? As of now, you are proving to me that you couldn’t even afford to take me to Taco Bell for dinner, or even be able to go dutch there.
3: Guys that think cock is payment. “BB, I’ll show you my 40 inch cock if you show me your tits” – REALLY GUY? Last time I checked Verizon and Minnesota’s own Alexandria Light & Power do not take yards of dong as legal tender. Put your junk that looks like it was caught in a taffy puller away and fuck off.
4: Customers who have never bought a show or thrown a tip my coming into my free chat and informing they sent me a private message, usually with an attachment which I’m 99.9999% sure is their Danny Dangles so I don’t even open it. This one I’m getting really snarky about and on a few occasions blurted out, “and why, pray tell, do you think I give a flying fuck? You aren’t one of my paying customers.”
5: Guys pretending to be girls. If we are in a paid session, fine – I’ll indulge it but HELLO, IT IS SO OBVIOUS WHEN A GUY IS PRETENDING TO BE SOME BI-CURIOUS BIMBO. They are HORSESHIT at being convincing!!! Also, the guys who claim they are getting laid by another female WHILE they are in chat. RIIIIIIGHT, dry that one out and you can fertilize the lawn. Most of the REAL m/f couples on cam love to go private and turn on their cam so I can see their sexy selves!!! I LOVE REAL COUPLES. They fantasy fake shit in my free chat that comes with zero tipping/shows can fuck the fuck off.
MODEL/ETC SINS (WARNING, NOT FOR THE HYPERSENSITIVE)
#1: Perhaps this is really shitty of me to go off about this here but I’m on a roll. I absolutely cannot stand models that go on in their chats/Facebooks/Twitter about all of the drugs they buy. “(loser boyfriend) and I are going to buy a 90 pounds of kush #StonerBitch #SmokeSesh” ---- then 3 days later on a flurry of desperate Tweets ---- “HELP ME I CAN’T PAY RENT, GOING TO GET EVICTED”, "I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE, GONNA BE HOMELESS. WANT TO DIIIIIE" A quick peek at their chat and there is the room topic, “HELP GUYS, SO DESPERATE. TIP 10 FOR 2,000 VIDEOS” ---- COME THE FUCK ON LADIES, THIS MAKES US ALL LOOK LIKE TOTAL JACKOFFS. Pay your bills first, buy your drugs and stop being a shilling twatwaffle. Stop perpetuating already crappy stereotypes of us.
#2: Models talking shit about other models in their rooms. This has been discussed but it seems to be an epidemic as of late. Please, STOP. Focus on your own hustle. There are enough customers/currency for EVERYONE!! Not only do you make yourself look like a jackass but you get all the drama monger customers all fired up and they clog other models ‘ chats with “do you know what (bitch’s name here) said about you?” It is such an ungodly waste of energy.
#3: Girls who make vapid statements about “not camming for the money” and judging those of us who do. Recently a girl with a horrendous wig sat perched on a site that rhymes with “SCHMAKED” saying things like “I know not everyone has money so I like to help them out, I’m not greedy” – UM WHAT??? Then she proceed to say, “most of these girls are here to pay bills. I’m here because I love cam modeling. I’m not a shady girl” OH FOR PUKE. There is nothing wrong with enjoying cam modeling but when you sit there and harp on models who are there to pay the bills and making customers feeling entitled to all the free pussy and ass they can behold, you are fucking out of line. Look here Donkeypunch McGee, if you want to dangle your gnarly beef curtains and mismatched tits for free, GET THE FUCK OFF OF PAY SITES AND HANG OUT IN YAHOO ROOMS AND CHAT ROULETTE. It’s like someone from the Goodwill trying to get Neiman Marcus shoppers to come get a box of used piss scented clothes from the Goodwill. “It’s free so it’s better” – FUCK YOU.
#4: Twitter promoters being shady dinks. This needs to stop and a hearty round of applause to those of you who are smoking these snakes out of their pits. Ladies, you don’t need some wannabe cyber popcorn pimp to build your brand. And criminey, pay attention to some of these guys --- 5,000 following but 34 followers?? RUN RUN RUN
AliceFun
12-21-2013, 02:46 AM
The meeting requests & meeting fantasy are a 'dangerous path' cause u never know how things turn out, there is a very very fine line between fantasy & reality, if u play along their meeting up fantasy u can get burnt, if u cut it off from start u loose on business, let me elaborate:
Few months ago i had this member in pvt that was living and working in a city far away that the city i tell i am in, we had a pvt where he said he wanna meet me for real as he will come home in his town city later this year, his town city is my fake location actually lol.
I forgot about this guy until recently when he came in my pvt room telling me: 'hey, i am home now, let's meet, i want u', bla bla, i quickly pull up history notes and read about him and read also the warning 'he wants to meet!'.
Ok, i tried to have a conversation like: 'so how have u been, how is work, u missed me?, i missed u, u horny today?, tell me how we going to play today, what u want me to wear', bla bla bla.
He went: 'look, i fancy u a lot, i really wanna meet u for real, u free tmrw? give me ur phone nr, tell me where to come and when, i am 20 mins away u (sure thing lol), i have a big cock i wanna use on u', so on.
Me thinking: 'wow, this is getting serious now, what do i do? i wanna keep this guy in pvt paying but i dont wanna promise him anything, let's see if i can make him stay for a show at least'.
I went: 'baby, u move too fast for me, i dont even know how u look like, how could i meet u, u a lot younger than me and dont even know what are ur expectations regarding this meeting request'.
He: 'i just wanna fuck'
Me playing butt hurt (thinking 'at least i can extend the pvt a little more'): 'but baby, u treat me now like a very easy woman, i am on cam with a reason, this does not make me an easy woman ready to fuck anyone who is asking me to just like that, pls, u hurt my feelings now, i was thinking u wanna get to know me online 1st, to see what comes out off it', bla bla (i had in mind things that i read here on SW how other girls handle these guys).
He: 'sorry i dont wanna insult u nor hurt ur feelings but i am busy with work travelling a lot and dont want a relationship, cant commit to a gf, i just wanna fuck'.
Me: 'sorry, i feel hurt now, cant do this, if u wanna enjoy me online i am here to please but cant meet u', bla bla.
He left. I was getting scared i'll get suspended or banned off SM, that site is my only source of income, no other site provides the money i need but SM, i dont know how strict they are regarding this type of pvt that turns into a meeting request or if they patrol the rooms but i dont wanna risk my account.
On the other hand SM is advertising us as willing to date to these guys, wtf SM, how can u have double standards??!!
You either stop advertising us as easy dating/ easy fuck or... i dont know... give us tools to work with when u bring these guys to our rooms.
I want to follow the rules but u put me in the situation to break them!! while some performers are doing all kind of crap in their rooms and their accounts are up and running (i mean in general).
Anyway, i got a 30 min pvt all together from this guy (he logged off 1 min to send me his picture lol) but it was very stressy, i got scared i could get in trouble with site & once again i have the feeling i dont know what to do and how to handle these guys.
I wanna work and make money but do it safely.
My conclusion is these guys really believe we are easy fucks & willing to meet them and fuck for free.
There is also a lot of confusion for them too cause many cam girls are escorts as well but they know they have to pay an escort & believe they can maybe fuck a cam girl for free.
Some cam sites have escort service available (Adultwork) or many cam girls advertise themselves as cam girls & escort on social media sites, i saw myself "I am so and so, camgirl, escort, bla bla, i do it all".
If one guy sees this on a site like adultwork or on twitter/ facebook/ wherever else he assume things.
SexyAleks
12-21-2013, 03:36 AM
Well, the way he was talking to you was not exactly the type of talk that would turn a woman on and make her willing to go out and fuck him for free anyway.
audrey_k
12-21-2013, 07:02 AM
I had a terrible night. I got shorted $280
from a customer and the bouncers and manager didn't do shit and told me it was my fault.
I wanted to say FUCK YOU, WHY AM I GIVING YOU FIFTY PERCENT OF MY MONEY EVERY NIGHT YOU FUCKING PIECES OF SHIT THAT WALK AROUND IN SUITS ALL NIGHT MAKING MONEY OFF NAKED YOUNG WOMEN? But I didn't, I walked to my car with the DJ, the only person who felt bad, and I paid my fees and I tipped everyone and I will go into work tomorrow and on Sunday and Monday and I might even work Christmas because I am going to do my job just like I do every night and NO ONE is
going to break me NO MATTER what they do.
Camigirl
12-21-2013, 09:30 AM
All the above I think we all heard or some of us had happen to us.
This thread is so true, and those customers... or rather beggers annoy the hell out of me.
How about this one: Why don't you get a REAL job? Really! I give up on those jerks.
Also I only had one customer that made an appointment, so I was done then for the night. I went into a well known (not on here ladies that I know) performers room because she is usually all business, and does it well. Well, she was talking shit (first time I ever heard her do that) about other performers. Mainly Russian/Romanian etc. performers. I was really shocked! I left her room after that and will not be going back. I don't care if you talk about ANY country, we are all in this together, she was being so mean because she was having a slow night, and trying to toss out lies to the customers to get shows. I know for a FACT (I have a couple Russian cam friends) and what she was tossing out was total BS! I don't get the whole bashing other performers, especially when you are working and know anyone can be watching you...Lol.
JaneBurgess
12-21-2013, 10:32 AM
I am so sorry. That sucks management didnt do their job and help you get the funds from that tool.
I had a terrible night. I got shorted $280
from a customer and the bouncers and manager didn't do shit and told me it was my fault.
I wanted to say FUCK YOU, WHY AM I GIVING YOU FIFTY PERCENT OF MY MONEY EVERY NIGHT YOU FUCKING PIECES OF SHIT THAT WALK AROUND IN SUITS ALL NIGHT MAKING MONEY OFF NAKED YOUNG WOMEN? But I didn't, I walked to my car with the DJ, the only person who felt bad, and I paid my fees and I tipped everyone and I will go into work tomorrow and on Sunday and Monday and I might even work Christmas because I am going to do my job just like I do every night and NO ONE is
going to break me NO MATTER what they do.
TheBrownFox
12-21-2013, 10:39 AM
MODEL/ETC SINS (WARNING, NOT FOR THE HYPERSENSITIVE)
I absolutely cannot stand models that go on in their chats/Facebooks/Twitter about all of the drugs they buy. “(loser boyfriend) and I are going to buy a 90 pounds of kush #StonerBitch #SmokeSesh” ---- then 3 days later on a flurry of desperate Tweets ---- “HELP ME I CAN’T PAY RENT, GOING TO GET EVICTED”, "I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE, GONNA BE HOMELESS. WANT TO DIIIIIE" A quick peek at their chat and there is the room topic, “HELP GUYS, SO DESPERATE. TIP 10 FOR 2,000 VIDEOS” ---- COME THE FUCK ON LADIES, THIS MAKES US ALL LOOK LIKE TOTAL JACKOFFS. Pay your bills first, buy your drugs and stop being a shilling twatwaffle. Stop perpetuating already crappy stereotypes of us.
I love you for posting this, because I'm sick of that too (the bragging about the drugs, and the perpetuating of the stereotype).
#2: Models talking shit about other models in their rooms. This has been discussed but it seems to be an epidemic as of late. Please, STOP. Focus on your own hustle. There are enough customers/currency for EVERYONE!! Not only do you make yourself look like a jackass but you get all the drama monger customers all fired up and they clog other models ‘ chats with “do you know what (bitch’s name here) said about you?” It is such an ungodly waste of energy.
I've seen models (on SM, especially) talk shit about other models, and then they open another tab to check out what that model is doing in her room...so she can talk more shit about her. SMH. And the guys are sitting there joining in and making comments about how the shit-talking model is "hotter" and whatnot. It's so immature.
TheBrownFox
12-21-2013, 10:43 AM
There is a top SM model who's known for giving away tons of videos with each Gold show contribution of 3 Gold. That's fine and dandy, but one day she said to her room "I'm not the kind of model who gets a tip and doesn't give you stuff for it...I'm not like that." LMAO. That sounds like a dis towards the models who don't give out vids for Gold show contributions. I was thinking...The fact that you give away all your content for $3 and spoil the guys rotten doesn't make you any better than the other models, Miss Thing.
augusta_viva
12-21-2013, 11:24 AM
Okay I need to dump my negative energy into this thread. When I first started three years ago, I could easily make 200 a day on sm (7 hrs but still) Now I cant even clear 30 bucks after three hours on a Saturday. And then I see threads on on girls making 3000 a week. I am in awe and I hate myself for not being able to even make 1000 in a week. Half of it is me, I need to work more, but every time I work, I feel like I am one of those seals that keeps pushing for treats and after the 1000th time a half broken biscuit comes out. I am scared to branch out because I don't want to be a failure everywhere, but I need to ween myself off sm for a while because it is breaking me bad. My New years resolution is to work at least 40 hrs, have three backups, and make at least 1000 dollars a week.
justanothercamgirl
12-21-2013, 12:31 PM
Okay I need to dump my negative energy into this thread. When I first started three years ago, I could easily make 200 a day on sm (7 hrs but still) Now I cant even clear 30 bucks after three hours on a Saturday. And then I see threads on on girls making 3000 a week. I am in awe and I hate myself for not being able to even make 1000 in a week. Half of it is me, I need to work more, but every time I work, I feel like I am one of those seals that keeps pushing for treats and after the 1000th time a half broken biscuit comes out. I am scared to branch out because I don't want to be a failure everywhere, but I need to ween myself off sm for a while because it is breaking me bad. My New years resolution is to work at least 40 hrs, have three backups, and make at least 1000 dollars a week.
Wow, that is you venting negative energy? This has got to be the most productive venting of negative energy I've ever seen!
I can't even imagine what you being positive is like!!! :D
Thymian
12-21-2013, 01:06 PM
Wow, that is you venting negative energy? This has got to be the most productive venting of negative energy I've ever seen!
Plus the seal analogy is really a thing of beauty. I was totally there last night, except: can seals cry?
SoloDesire
12-21-2013, 01:06 PM
I don't normally work on Saturdays, but got on today. I had more "let me see __ and we'll go pvt" guys today than I've ever seen in one day! Now I'm in a pissy mood :(
MellyMay
12-21-2013, 01:07 PM
My clinger customer has received my NO, I'M NEVER GOING TO MEET YOU message and replied with something along the lines of "I guess I misunderstood but you were dropping a lot of hints....."
uhhhhh nope.
Thymian
12-21-2013, 01:19 PM
There is a top SM model who's known for giving away tons of videos with each Gold show contribution of 3 Gold. That's fine and dandy, but one day she said to her room "I'm not the kind of model who gets a tip and doesn't give you stuff for it...I'm not like that." LMAO. That sounds like a dis towards the models who don't give out vids for Gold show contributions. I was thinking...The fact that you give away all your content for $3 and spoil the guys rotten doesn't make you any better than the other models, Miss Thing.
On a similar note I saw a model during a SM countdown saying that unlike other models she really does follow through with sending out the freebies promised, as if the guys are going to get gipped in other gold shows. I send out my stuff as promised usually within 24 hours, and every model whose shows I've pledged have gotten their links to me pretty quickly, too.
Plus, if guys are complaining that they don't get their stuff there's a really good chance they never messaged for it and don't realize we can't send it out till they do. Just hate that otherwise good models have to throw shade like that to hustle. Everyone's working too hard for that. :/
Thymian
12-21-2013, 01:23 PM
I don't normally work on Saturdays, but got on today. I had more "let me see __ and we'll go pvt" guys today than I've ever seen in one day! Now I'm in a pissy mood :(
I got a lot of that last night. Usually it doesn't get to me but even one of my regulars commented on it, saying these guys are spoiled. Of course it did provide me with a little fun with the guy who asked to be teased. I told him his shoe was untied.
Angelfaced
12-21-2013, 03:26 PM
pffff all the guys that actually have money are out shopping for xmas. so, if a guy is sitting at home the saturday before christmas, its becuase hes a broke loser.yup tis the season. :( can you tell im in a bad mood ?!?!
MellyMay
12-21-2013, 03:34 PM
I'm pissed off that Togo's can make a turkey/avocado sandwich taste so much better than any i make on my own.
it's the little things.
SoloDesire
12-21-2013, 04:01 PM
Yeah, but not everyone celebrates xmas. And most men send their wives or mothers out to do the shopping lol.
PlayfulDesire
12-21-2013, 06:06 PM
Mmm or the older men who have lost wives and are pretty much lonely in need of nice long shooting the breese type of privates.
JaneBurgess
12-21-2013, 06:06 PM
Not really true. Some guys get shows while their wives are out shopping.
pffff all the guys that actually have money are out shopping for xmas. so, if a guy is sitting at home the saturday before christmas, its becuase hes a broke loser.yup tis the season. :( can you tell im in a bad mood ?!?!
audrey_k
12-21-2013, 11:24 PM
I am so sorry. That sucks management didnt do their job and help you get the funds from that tool.
Thanks. I came in today and the bouncer talked to me for 15 minutes about how the incident was my fault and I overreacted by getting upset... easy for you to say dude, you weren't the one butt-naked in the booth!
I came in tonight because I really didn't want to let the incident get to me, but I wish I hadn't. I'm so tired and really naeseous, just not in the mood to be here. I feel totally off my game. And I just started dating this guy and had sex with him for the first time Friday and we've gone from sending like 30 texts a day, talking on the phone twice a day to him not calling me back after I left him a message crying at 5am... I feel like maybe all he wanted was one thing (I really didn't think he was like that... we would literally have like two hour phone convos) and it's really getting me down and affecting my hustle...
Sunnylexie
12-22-2013, 04:59 AM
My mom phonecalled me to another city to get me guide her through reinstalling Windows on her computer. She talked all the money+credit $20 off my phone and then yelled at me for not having switched to a tarification plan with cheaper intercity calls (but with everything else thrice as expensive). Then she ordered me ("ordered" is the right word) that I get up right off and go and buy a SIM card by her provider, switch to it and call her immediately after I do it. Fat chance, don't think I'm gonna call you before New Year now =/.
gingerstripper
12-22-2013, 04:19 PM
Ugh i hate when guys said i donated this amount.. Come on.. This is not charity... You dont go to a stripper and be like i will give you 100 dollar donation for a lapdance. Get out of here
AliceFun
12-22-2013, 05:16 PM
I hate how my webcam is acting up on certain colors and light, is an HD wide cam from Creative, no matter how i play around with settings it's still doing this, soo sensitive grrrr
I miss my Sony handycam that is not working anymore & i need good money to get it fixed. If i could buy a new handycam...
caramelDip
12-22-2013, 05:35 PM
EVERYONE keeps asking me if I'm from St. Louis and keeps thinking they have a chance with me IRL.
No I'm not from no got damn St. Louis and if I was, I wouldn't tell you yes!!!!
Just wanna rip my hair out but I don't wanna be bald. So I'm not gonna do it :-/
Procrasturbator
12-22-2013, 05:38 PM
^ AliceFun: We have the same cam IIRC. Mine's being weird too--just spent $50 on wall coverings and new bulbs to try to get rid of this awful yellow tinge that I thought was partially caused by the wall color. It's a little better but still not great, blech. Definitely getting a C920 soon.
I hate how important attitude is in this business. I'm shit at faking happiness and it makes me not want to cam at all. Most jobs it's OK to have a bad day as long as you're polite and you do your job, you still get paid. But with camming it's like being in a contagiously good mood IS the job... and it's hard to keep a good mood when you're not getting paid. Blech.
Sunnylexie
12-22-2013, 05:45 PM
I've seen models (on SM, especially) talk shit about other models, and then they open another tab to check out what that model is doing in her room...so she can talk more shit about her. SMH. And the guys are sitting there joining in and making comments about how the shit-talking model is "hotter" and whatnot. It's so immature.
On a similar note I saw a model during a SM countdown saying that unlike other models she really does follow through with sending out the freebies promised, as if the guys are going to get gipped in other gold shows. I send out my stuff as promised usually within 24 hours, and every model whose shows I've pledged have gotten their links to me pretty quickly, too.
Plus, if guys are complaining that they don't get their stuff there's a really good chance they never messaged for it and don't realize we can't send it out till they do. Just hate that otherwise good models have to throw shade like that to hustle. Everyone's working too hard for that. :/
There is a top SM model who's known for giving away tons of videos with each Gold show contribution of 3 Gold. That's fine and dandy, but one day she said to her room "I'm not the kind of model who gets a tip and doesn't give you stuff for it...I'm not like that." LMAO. That sounds like a dis towards the models who don't give out vids for Gold show contributions. I was thinking...The fact that you give away all your content for $3 and spoil the guys rotten doesn't make you any better than the other models, Miss Thing.
The free video thing is my pet peeve. If you want to give out your photos or vids - good for you, but please don't make it look like it's a must. No offence to those who promote themselves through upload sites, but why should anyone be put at extra disadvantage just because they care about their privacy and don't want to get their shows and pictures uploaded everywhere?There's a rule on SM now against counter-advertising other models. Perhaps it could be applied here. Those models might be making it better for themselves but making it worse for the rest of the site.
AliceFun
12-22-2013, 06:32 PM
Yes Procasturbator, i have to use the special bright white and blue bulbs here to make the white look white and not yellowish, it puts yellow in all colors, i need professional lighting to make it look good, i have four lamps around me.
Sexy Shana
12-23-2013, 11:39 AM
Sitting on the 2nd page on SM in HD, with sound and phone at 1.99 pvt rate and with 21% in paid chat. Guys only come in like once a minute to remind me it's season of giving so I owe them sum tits.
Haven't got that line yet; but for beggars are always in season!
justanothercamgirl
12-23-2013, 01:02 PM
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BlueBunny
12-23-2013, 02:44 PM
I don't usually feel like venting, but I woke up today with an email from DP's owner about AW. I don't know if I can or should post the link, but I am so disgusted with how AW is dealing with the situation. I feel like it's racist/discriminatory. If someone fucks up, ban their account and life is good. Don't single out a whole country because of some bad people. Scammers are everywhere, not just in EE. Go suck on my non existing balls AW. I will not work for a site with shitty attitude.
PS. My AW acount is still fine. I don't break the rules, so I have nothing to worry about as far as I know...but they did put me through the ringer signing up because of my birth place. Such freaking bullshit. It's ok, I guess I'll just continue to make SM richer with the little bit I do make there.
AliceFun
12-23-2013, 05:02 PM
That's the reason i dont work AW, i tried, they display real location AND nationality & treat non UK performers different to say it 'gentle', if i only do cam work why people need to know everything about me?! I understand they allow people to advertise their escort services on their site but cam work should be treated different, they should find a solution, it's discriminatory how they do things there.
apryll11
12-23-2013, 05:45 PM
^ AliceFun: We have the same cam IIRC. Mine's being weird too--just spent $50 on wall coverings and new bulbs to try to get rid of this awful yellow tinge that I thought was partially caused by the wall color. It's a little better but still not great, blech. Definitely getting a C920 soon.
Really? cos I have that same issue too, At night its a yellow tint, this morning (when the sun was up) it had a blue tint, I was driving myself nuts changing my clothes. Never even thought it was my webcam.
AliceFun
12-23-2013, 05:46 PM
^^^ I 2nd this!
apryll11
12-23-2013, 05:55 PM
Yes Procasturbator, i have to use the special bright white and blue bulbs here to make the white look white and not yellowish, it puts yellow in all colors, i need professional lighting to make it look good, i have four lamps around me.
Ok my vent is we need a lighting guide for cam girls thread.
I use the bright white bulbs and that alone gives me a yellow tint, not a bad one but still. What is the name of your blue blubs and where do you get them from?
AliceFun
12-23-2013, 06:09 PM
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This is what u need, not sure where to buy them from where u are cause i am in EE.
ETA: i have four lamps around me, 2 bulbs are bright white like day light, 2 bulbs are warm white and i have the blue bulb i use if i want that nice blueish tint.
See this pic also:
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MellyMay
12-23-2013, 06:20 PM
My roommie's MOM is coming over, which I was told was happening earlier in the day....so I went out & made myself disappear. Came home, her mom's still not here, but still comming......at an unknown time. This srsly affects my camming and 420 smoking tonight.
And roommie is being a total cunt & cleaning the whole place like I'm a filthy beast. (bonus, though....super clean apartment)
AliceFun
12-23-2013, 06:29 PM
Weird traffic tonite and no spenders, guess i came on too late but felt tired, needed a coffee to get awake and now i feel all its a waste of time and make up. i log off, dont want % in paid to go any lower :(
Traffic sucks tonight... only 8 bucks in a half hour. Welp, fuck it. I have things to do tonight, anyway.
Sabihah
12-23-2013, 07:45 PM
Totally want to vent about guys who don't seem to know the score. Recently had a guy who bought a few very non-vanilla roleplay privates and then, over PM, started demanding that I message him every time I had masturbated/had sex to tell him the details. When I didn't - sorry, my time has value - he said my "punishment" would be giving a public cum show in my room. And then he seemed shocked when I totally ignored him.
THAT IS NOT HOW THIS WORKS, DUDE. I'm happy to indulge your dominance fantasies when you're paying $6/minute for the privilege, but as soon as that show ends you're just another freeloader with a hard-on.
AliceFun
12-24-2013, 09:02 AM
Oh men, they never have the patience, they have a shopping phobia or so!!
Why is soo difficult to have men going shopping with us women?
My 19 yo son's behavior is terrible when it comes to help me buy & carry grocery (no car here), i hate this, i just need his help & to tell me what he wants to eat/ drink for Christmas!
Then he asks for money to buy his GF a gift! Gift shops are closed now & he dont wanna buy something else but a 'special gift', so he needs my hard earned money to buy gifts for his gf or go out but when it comes to help me with things he is an ass! He ruined my xmas!
He has all the bad attitude from his father even he was raised by me only. I am pissed!
TheBrownFox
12-24-2013, 09:36 AM
My 19 yo son's behavior is terrible when it comes to help me buy & carry grocery (no car here), i hate this, i just need his help & to tell me what he wants to eat/ drink for Christmas!
Then he asks for money to buy his GF a gift! Gift shops are closed now & he dont wanna buy something else but a 'special gift', so he needs my hard earned money to buy gifts for his gf or go out but when it comes to help me with things he is an ass! He ruined my xmas!
He has all the bad attitude from his father even he was raised by me only. I am pissed!
Forgive me if you've already mentioned it and I'm just forgetting, but why doesn't he have his own money to buy his girlfriend a gift? He knew Christmas was Dec. 25th and that getting a gift for his girlfriend would be expected. So why is he expecting you to pay for his girlfriend's gift? If he needs cash he could cut a neighbor's grass (my lil' sis, who needs a job, babysits and cuts neighbors' grass), or he could sell his unwanted items on Craigslist. Some years ago when I needed Christmas funds, I sold my entire Seinfeld DVD set on Craigslist, and it broke my heart having to do it...lol.
justanothercamgirl
12-24-2013, 10:12 AM
Camming doesn't suck, but I do.
I am so tired that no matter how I try I just can't work up the motivation to get on cam even for just doing voyeur shows.
I keep telling myself, "Come on JAC! You can do this! Get on your cam!" and no matter how much of a pep talk I keep trying to give myself my brain just goes...
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AliceFun
12-24-2013, 11:12 AM
Oh BrownFox, it's a long story, believe me i dont even know what i should tell here or keep to myself, this boy is a lazy ass and gives me hard times, he is 1st year in university, i and my parents are paying his studies cause he is not capable to work and make his own money.
He looked up jobs for two months in summer after graduating but saying always he could not find anything good (same like his dad did, he was not paying child support cause he said he could not find a job, after he died i found out he had jobs inbetween.
Now my son says he cant work and study too cause he cant find a flexible schedule job to allow him to study.
I know this might sound off but me with my family help raised him all alone, his dad was a dead beat, now he is dead since a few years.
This boy is like 99% his dad even i did my best to give him a good education and i did sacrifice myself for him to offer him a decent life given the circumstances.
He is a big disappointment for me & i get no help from him with anything in the house, we often fight cause i just cant take it anymore.
He is my son and i wanted him and raised him with love, still he became an asshole and i just dont know how to deal with this situation.
I would kick him out of the house believe me but i just cant, i love him and want for him all good but he does not appreciate anything i do for him.
Our difficult life should have made him a better person not an ass. I hate my life!