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Procrasturbator
12-24-2013, 11:26 AM
Really? cos I have that same issue too, At night its a yellow tint, this morning (when the sun was up) it had a blue tint, I was driving myself nuts changing my clothes. Never even thought it was my webcam.

LOL your post cracked me up, I've been there. When I first started camming I was somewhere with more neutral colors so my cam was more sensitive to color changes. I remember always holding up a blue KY tube to try and fill the frame to get the colors to reset haha. "Blue exists and you're going to admit it goddamnit!" Anyway yeah, it could definitely be your cam. It's definitely mine (plus other factors) because my internal cam isn't yellow at all--but of course internal cams come with their own problems. For some reason it is SO bad on SM though--like I'll look moderately yellow in the encoder but when I check my cammodels page it's really awful. Part of the reason I don't work SM anymore. :/ A good lighting guide would be very helpful.

I need to vent about customs custies. God love 'em, they have saved my ass so many times and it's pretty sweet to make well over my daily camming goal just by chilling on camera for half an hour (I adore that reg haha) but they drive me crazy too, especially with specific requests that are not physically possible. I'm working one out with a guy right now. He's a sweetheart and a repeat customer who is happy to pay but to make the clip he wants my legs would have to be at least 6 feet long. I'm not exaggerating. As I said he's a sweetheart so I'm sure he'll understand, it's just funny and a little exhausting sometimes.

anonymous camgirl
12-24-2013, 04:42 PM
I have the same problem pretty much, My son is 23 .. been through it longer than you.. My son's father is professionally homeless as in that's his choice for life.( he rocks the homeless life one of those hippy I am an indian type free bird) . never got child support from him.. the dollar is declining so that's his reason for never giving us any money, My son has NEVER had a job .. did I mention he is 23?? he graduated high school with honors.. he actually dropped out of high school to lay around .. and I forced him to get his GED.. after a few years of pretty much doing nothing and hardly helping with the chores.. I still bitch all the time for him to just wash dishes and take out the trash!.. I tried kicking him out to.. he walked over to my sister's .. she called and told me that I need to come get him..LOL... I have created jobs for him by starting businesses.. I wasted hours taking him to apply for jobs.. wrote lists for him.. still NOTHING.. he goes to college for 1 yr now and told me he loves to learn even just to learn and he really doesn't feel like working much cuz he values his free time to much.. MEAN FUCKING WHILE! I am working 7 days a week practically 365 days a year the last 14 fricken years..


Oh BrownFox, it's a long story, believe me i dont even know what i should tell here or keep to myself, this boy is a lazy ass and gives me hard times, he is 1st year in university, i and my parents are paying his studies cause he is not capable to work and make his own money.
He looked up jobs for two months in summer after graduating but saying always he could not find anything good (same like his dad did, he was not paying child support cause he said he could not find a job, after he died i found out he had jobs inbetween.

Now my son says he cant work and study too cause he cant find a flexible schedule job to allow him to study.
I know this might sound off but me with my family help raised him all alone, his dad was a dead beat, now he is dead since a few years.
This boy is like 99% his dad even i did my best to give him a good education and i did sacrifice myself for him to offer him a decent life given the circumstances.
He is a big disappointment for me & i get no help from him with anything in the house, we often fight cause i just cant take it anymore.
He is my son and i wanted him and raised him with love, still he became an asshole and i just dont know how to deal with this situation.
I would kick him out of the house believe me but i just cant, i love him and want for him all good but he does not appreciate anything i do for him.
Our difficult life should have made him a better person not an ass. I hate my life!

anonymous camgirl
12-24-2013, 04:46 PM
Cam customers have turned me into a total lesbian.. I used to love men and thought they were awesome.. now they repulse me looking at them naked or even if they speak at all.. even the nice ones make me shudder.. I just cant get turned on by men anymore... to much bullshit abuse that I can't get into them anymore.... makes camming so hard these days!.. LOL.... I barely like to masturbate anymore and definitely not interested in sex anymore.. ugggh..

kortneykay
12-24-2013, 05:24 PM
Comcast aka cumblast, because they straight jizz on me every chance they get, just told me earlier that they can upgrade me to 105mbps easily. Now, they are saying it's gonna cost $300 and they have to rewire everything. fuck that noise.

roast
12-25-2013, 01:20 AM
Logitech needs to come out with an antismudge, antiglare, antifog cam. Stop advancing so everyone can see every pore on my taint but everything's gotta stop if I touch the lens.

If anyone else in my family reproduces theyre getting a notarized letter from me that says "Congrats! However dear child, xmas & bday gifts are a no-go from me from here on. Only those who came before you qualify. You know how many of you are out there now? Shouldve gotten that pre-2014 edge. Mama needs more money for botox and wine. Shit's real out here. love, roast."

Also my cousin said I text her like Im 13, this is true on reflection but I vent anyway and conveniently displace blame onto camming

Piggybacking off of the previous sentence - people are abbreviating "yes" or "yeah" with "yh" now?! JUAT

It 10yrs the amount people pay for the internet will be like an obsolete anthropological relic. Seriously, what the fuck?

AliceFun
12-25-2013, 09:16 AM
I have the same problem pretty much, My son is 23 .. been through it longer than you.. My son's father is professionally homeless as in that's his choice for life.( he rocks the homeless life one of those hippy I am an indian type free bird) . never got child support from him.. the dollar is declining so that's his reason for never giving us any money, My son has NEVER had a job .. did I mention he is 23?? he graduated high school with honors.. he actually dropped out of high school to lay around .. and I forced him to get his GED.. after a few years of pretty much doing nothing and hardly helping with the chores.. I still bitch all the time for him to just wash dishes and take out the trash!.. I tried kicking him out to.. he walked over to my sister's .. she called and told me that I need to come get him..LOL... I have created jobs for him by starting businesses.. I wasted hours taking him to apply for jobs.. wrote lists for him.. still NOTHING.. he goes to college for 1 yr now and told me he loves to learn even just to learn and he really doesn't feel like working much cuz he values his free time to much.. MEAN FUCKING WHILE! I am working 7 days a week practically 365 days a year the last 14 fricken years..

I am sorry u going thru similar situation (if not worse actually), we just cant win, if we stay in a bad relationship or divorce kids are suffering the same way like us. We & them get angry, there is a lot of pain, frustration, poverty & struggle for us & our children. When a family is dismantled like this there are low chances for the kids to grow up 'healthy', in most cases they very much affected by the situation & react how they can, same like us, single parents, if it's mom's or dad's. Marrying again or bringing a man in the house or leaving & neglecting kids by putting a man before them will always be a source of conflict & pain for all parts involved. We can only carry our crosses & keep going, there is no 'right way' to do things in this situation.
Also, doing cam work is even harder cause we need to display happiness, joy & everything men wanna see ... when in fact we are not happy, joyful or feel sexy, is hard to switch to a hot sexy mood just like that, work performance is affected, always.
Merry Christmas & may peace and happiness be with you all! xxx

bbwchristyminx
12-25-2013, 10:06 AM
Beggars in free chat have been at an all time high lately. That annoys the size 20 panties off of me! I through a bitch fit a few times and reiterated that I'm not their puppet and if they pay me i just may submit to them and be their fuck toy. Now, i will say this.. I have met some awesome new customers too so i guess the annoying vs. good comes with the territory of being a webcam whore. I get off on calling myself an online prostitute whore. The guys seem to like it. I'm sure most of you have experienced a last few slow days thanks to Christmas cause i know i have but thankfully I've made my goal but damn it's been like pulling teeth. Only been camming since September so this is probably 'old news'.. Anyway, Happy holidays cam sisters :) xox

Blovely
12-25-2013, 06:49 PM
OOoo my goodness ugh. I know its Christmas but shit. I ask for the strength to make it through tonight. I'm 3 hours in and $60 away from my first goal. My patience is wearing thin.

Update: Took me about 6 hours to make my first goal. An 3 gold shows to make my second because I was barely getting pvt's. It was a struggle but I'm glad that I stayed on until I made my goals.

TheBrownFox
12-25-2013, 10:00 PM
When a member with tokens freeloads off other people's tips (for flashes), makes a comment like "I wanna see more," but then when you suggests he tips for a flash he flat out says "No." No? Oh, you wanna see more, but you wanna freeload off other guys' tips, I suppose? Fuck off...

I can't tell a guy what to do with his tokens, however it really gets on my nerves when a member with tokens visible is sitting in public chat for several minutes lurking, and I can actually see his token amount getting lower and lower. This means he's in another model's room simultaneously, and tipping her but not tipping/chatting in my room.

Neonsugar
12-25-2013, 10:02 PM
When guys ask me if I'm pregnant. No I just clicked the pregnant tag for fun.

TheBrownFox
12-26-2013, 08:46 AM
Pet peeve:

That person on your FB timeline who almost always post their statuses in all caps. SMH. Why must you shout all the time?

Sexy Shana
12-26-2013, 10:26 AM
Lately, I have had a run of guys that take me pvt but really just want to "get off" fast. No real money in this. I am thinking guys may be broke and don't want or need much to pop.
When a guy takes me pvt and the first thing I see is his cock ready to go, it destroys my mojo!

TheBrownFox
12-26-2013, 02:15 PM
Oh BrownFox, it's a long story, believe me i dont even know what i should tell here or keep to myself, this boy is a lazy ass and gives me hard times, he is 1st year in university, i and my parents are paying his studies cause he is not capable to work and make his own money.
He looked up jobs for two months in summer after graduating but saying always he could not find anything good (same like his dad did, he was not paying child support cause he said he could not find a job, after he died i found out he had jobs inbetween.

Now my son says he cant work and study too cause he cant find a flexible schedule job to allow him to study.
I know this might sound off but me with my family help raised him all alone, his dad was a dead beat, now he is dead since a few years.
This boy is like 99% his dad even i did my best to give him a good education and i did sacrifice myself for him to offer him a decent life given the circumstances.
He is a big disappointment for me & i get no help from him with anything in the house, we often fight cause i just cant take it anymore.
He is my son and i wanted him and raised him with love, still he became an asshole and i just dont know how to deal with this situation.
I would kick him out of the house believe me but i just cant, i love him and want for him all good but he does not appreciate anything i do for him.
Our difficult life should have made him a better person not an ass. I hate my life!
I'm late in reading/responding to this, but thanks for answering my earlier post. Being a single parent is very difficult, and I nearly burst out laughing the other day when my 10-year old asked me "Are you ever gonna have another baby?" :P

I had posted a response to this, but decided to delete it and PM you instead.

Erin89
12-26-2013, 11:12 PM
Okay here's a little rant, I usually just brush it off when assholes make comments about my small chest but it gets old after a while. I'm a happy little A cup, my breasts don't bother me and I've never wanted them to be bigger, as such, I DO NOT advertise that they are big! Why come in my room and complain when you can see in my tags that I do not have large boobs!?

I had a guy tell me tonight "Wow, mine are bigger and I'm a guy" Not something to brag about honey, maybe invest in a gym membership if youre a guy bragging that youre tits are bigger than mine, its more of an insult on you.

TheBrownFox
12-26-2013, 11:36 PM
I feel you on that one, Erin. It's amazing how critical some of these guys are about the cam girls they perv on, and it makes me wonder if they're stupid enough to say shit like that to their girlfriends/wives. When their gf/wife is recovering from childbirth, are they gonna make insensitive comments about all the weight she's put on? It's stuff like that which really pisses me off about some of these men. Constantly putting their foot in their mouth, and then acting like they've done nothing wrong.

curvydancer25
12-27-2013, 03:04 AM
I hate when someone asks me if I have a job.

I hate when someone says I should go to college.

I hate when someone asks if I do this for money.

I hate when a guy tips 2gold/tokens/credits and expects to see 40 things then gets mad and says that was a waste cause I didn't wanna show my anal cavity for the whole 2 fucking shits of a tip that I'm barely getting anything from.

I hate when a guy says something obvious like, Are you on that other site and go by the name blah?
Duh it's me you fucking idiot.

When they bring up that one time they took me pvt years ago and still expect free shit cause they actually spent money on me 2 years ago.

Glamourmilf
12-27-2013, 06:55 AM
Someone tagged me with stockings, heels. For some reason ALL the guys who ask if I have stockings, pantyhose, heels NEVER go prvt. It used to be when I answered "yes", they would wisk me away to prvt. Now I just ignore that question. Same with the "do you do anal?" question.

Mare
12-27-2013, 07:11 AM
I just love the personal questions. What's your real name? where do you live? are you single? what else do you do? Do you like this job?( at least he gets a 1/2 a point for recognizing it's a FUCKING JOB)

audritwo
12-27-2013, 11:03 AM
I had this guy come into my room after my gold show and say this to me.
"hey little girl. daddy is here! daddy loves you so much. can daddy take you to exclusive to rape you."

I went off on him calling him a sick mother fucker. Obviously he said it invisible because I had people hanging out after my show asking me what happened. I outed him and read it out loud to the room.
Then he goes, "like you are any better, says the girl with a dildo near her head."
?? Was that supposed to insult me. I told him well what makes you feel better because you are a sick fuck. Thanks for contributing to rape culture. Go die.


That was 3 hours ago. I'm still pissed!

Glamourmilf
12-27-2013, 01:08 PM
^I had one of those sick fucks yesterday (who had daddy in his screen name), asked if I would call my dad in exclusive, and talk dirty to him! BLOCK!!! I wanted to tell him that I'd be right back-gotta go get his ashes first!

Fitandpretty
12-27-2013, 05:39 PM
I had this guy come into my room after my gold show and say this to me.
"hey little girl. daddy is here! daddy loves you so much. can daddy take you to exclusive to rape you."

I went off on him calling him a sick mother fucker. Obviously he said it invisible because I had people hanging out after my show asking me what happened. I outed him and read it out loud to the room.
Then he goes, "like you are any better, says the girl with a dildo near her head."
?? Was that supposed to insult me. I told him well what makes you feel better because you are a sick fuck. Thanks for contributing to rape culture. Go die.


That was 3 hours ago. I'm still pissed!
I had a "daddy" guy everyday my first week. One even asked if I have fantasies about my father :( I block guys like that on the spot. I can't get over how sick people can be...

anonymous camgirl
12-27-2013, 06:18 PM
^^I must be immune to this crap, doesn't phase me a bit, today a guy asked if I ever had sex with any of my family members.. read it and blocked him.. nothing to say.. so used to this it's sad.

MellyMay
12-27-2013, 06:34 PM
pet peeve:

That person on your fb timeline who almost always post their statuses in all caps. Smh. Why must you shout all the time?

because i'm channeling kanye west.

JaneBurgess
12-27-2013, 06:43 PM
I am about to quit Streamate for good. I am so SICK of their traffic having so many assholes asking for dates, fucks in person, sugar daddies, etc. I do other cam sites and they hardly ever ask for that shit on there, only fucking Streamate. Perfect reason to NOT have a majority of your traffic from dating sites. If I wanted a dating proile, I would make my own not be on a cam site

PlayfulDesire
12-27-2013, 06:47 PM
The past 24ish hours sucked hard core. Idk why every fucking dude wanted to know where I lived. Then next we have cheapo 1 who tips a buck to see something, then cheapo 2 who tips 3 dollars. Oh no hunny each request is 5. But being as I'd like to be nice I say if someone tips another dollar and they all agree on a flash I'll do it. Well cheapo 1 tips another dollar. Cheapo two is busy adding up to be sure I know that 3 + 2 = 5 and cheapo 1 is busy demanding ass. Blah. Blocked them both.

anonymous camgirl
12-27-2013, 06:52 PM
^^^ LOL.. I do that sometimes.. I did that today.. some guy tips me 2 bucks then asks to show tits.. first of all it was on cams.com.. no tits in free chat and I said Uh I don't take tips for tits unless I want to get fired thanks for the $2 though but no.. and I explained that first you ask me then you tip me.. not tip then order me to do what you want.. so then some other asswipe chimes in and says she isn't going to do anything and then she keeps your money...yup!!! and I blocked cheapo with 2 bucks and didn't bother with the other one cuz he left.. I hate when they gang up on you cuz someone tips you... and then BEFORE THAT?? some guy tipped me $75 bucks because my life is so hard...LOL... go figure.

AliceFun
12-27-2013, 07:05 PM
@Jane, i feel ur pain, i hardly manage to deal with this traffic myself but sometimes out of the blue i get a guy interested to marry me that is tipping or pvt and i make out for the others not spending on me. Just last nite a guy from India came to my pvt to talk about how much he loves me & if i am ready to marry him and saying in a broken english he has 10 shops (i saw him on cam he was in a big shop full of paint buckets lol) & going to open another two right after New Year & that he has a lot of money, he will pay for everything, when am i ready to fly? OMG i dragged out the conversation till i had to tell him i cant marry him just like that cause he typed his phone number insisting i have to call him. 30 mins pvt out of it, it's adding up. Crazy i know, unfortunately i dont find another site to fit my cam persona and skills. Good luck whatever u going to do xxx

Fitandpretty
12-27-2013, 07:06 PM
^^^ LOL.. I do that sometimes.. I did that today.. some guy tips me 2 bucks then asks to show tits.. first of all it was on cams.com.. no tits in free chat and I said Uh I don't take tips for tits unless I want to get fired thanks for the $2 though but no.. and I explained that first you ask me then you tip me.. not tip then order me to do what you want.. so then some other asswipe chimes in and says she isn't going to do anything and then she keeps your money...yup!!! and I blocked cheapo with 2 bucks and didn't bother with the other one cuz he left.. I hate when they gang up on you cuz someone tips you... and then BEFORE THAT?? some guy tipped me $75 bucks because my life is so hard...LOL... go figure.
Guys on Cams kill me. 2.00 ain't shit especially on that site. I have somedays when I only have cheapo losers with 0.8 cents making 40,000 requests.

JaneBurgess
12-27-2013, 07:14 PM
It is so annoying. I block them on Streamate and then they contact me via Twitter, FB or my website. They cant seem to grasp the concept of NO. That's why I wont even pretend to be interested, it would be a huge hassle later on when I have to block their ass from social media or my site.

If one of these freaks ever tracks a cam performer down from one of Streamate's fake dating ad's, their ass will get sued. They put us all in a bad spot and didn't even consider the freaks that search for you off their site.



@Jane, i feel ur pain, i hardly manage to deal with this traffic myself but sometimes out of the blue i get a guy interested to marry me that is tipping or pvt and i make out for the others not spending on me. Just last nite a guy from India came to my pvt to talk about how much he loves me & if i am ready to marry him and saying in a broken english he has 10 shops (i saw him on cam he was in a big shop full of paint buckets lol) & going to open another two right after New Year & that he has a lot of money, he will pay for everything, when am i ready to fly? OMG i dragged out the conversation till i had to tell him i cant marry him just like that cause he typed his phone number insisting i have to call him. 30 mins pvt out of it, it's adding up. Crazy i know, unfortunately i dont find another site to fit my cam persona and skills. Good luck whatever u going to do xxx

AliceFun
12-28-2013, 05:46 AM
^^^ Luckily i am a 'nobody' lol, u are popular and known. That's why i dont use social media to advertise nor do i have a site, i rely on the traffic sites bring.
No big money for me but i am safe & the chances to be outed are smaller. Plus i am faaar away than people think i am so again minimum risk for me. By happening i found soo many people i know via facebook, i recognized them from profile picture, name or suggested accounts list. NO thanks :)

Renton
12-28-2013, 06:19 AM
The dogs are annoying the fuck out of me! The female got spayed like almost 3 weeks ago and she just keeps acting like she's super miserable. I know she's not miserable cause when I have friends over she just acts normal again, it's like she wants to guilt trip me for having her spayed or something (I know it's not that cause it's a silly dog and it doesn't think like people do).

She refuses to eat unless you keep going "Shiva, EAT" and sometimes even then she just looks at you like "hahahaha NO". I've fed her her kibble by hand because she's losing weight and she just looks horrible because of it and then she eats the entire fucking bowl! It's not as if she's just not hungry cause when she's full she just turns her head away. Today she's been acting all sad again and again she refuses to eat. Well now I'm done with you, dog. You don't wanna eat? Fine, don't eat, I have enough shit to do and I'm not gonna be your little nanny anymore.

I know her hormonal balance is just fucked up and needs to stabilise but jesus fucking christ man!! The vet didn't tell me it would take this fucking long and I'm losing my patience with this dog. She's constantly looking at me like "look what you did to me. I'm terribly depressed. I wanna die". I don't regret having her spayed AT ALL cause the other dog is a male and she went through heat once (on the day she was supposed to get spayed she got her fucking period smh) and I am NEVER doing that again, they drove me nuts.

Now the other dog is usually very good and quiet and now HE was all like "I'm not eating that" this morning too. Her bad behaviour always rubs off on him and it's so fucking annoying! Sometimes I wish I just had the male dog cause he's super easy and sweet and cuddly and she just fucks him up.

It doesn't help that I've been sick for at least 2 weeks and it doesn't get better, I can't sleep all night and then I finally fall asleep around 7AM and wake up around noon... much fun. very yay. wow.

ahh that felt good ^_^ best thread haha

TheBrownFox
12-28-2013, 12:09 PM
Another thing I've noticed on FB which gets on my nerves...

When a person's loved one has just died, instead of giving that person condolences which come from the heart, someone starts posting nothing but Bible scriptures. Okay, it's nice that you have Bible scriptures memorized and all, but seriously...if that was my parent or child who passed away, you quoting a scripture (without actually giving your condolences) is probably not gonna make me feel better. Why not use your own words to share some fond memories and positive thoughts about my deceased loved one? That would probably make me smile a little.

It's not even just when a person has passed away. I'm noticing this even when someone posts a status about how they're unhappy about something. There's always that one person who chimes in with "That's because you need Jesus in your life!" LOL.

audritwo
12-28-2013, 12:43 PM
The next time someone tells me to get a 9-5 job, I'm going to pull out their intestines.

annikah
12-28-2013, 05:50 PM
I hate that placement on SM relies so heavily on the encoder! My cam and internet speed just doesn't play well together with the encoder. Half of the time, my stream is grainy and laggy, and even when its not, it still doesn't look anywhere nearly as clear as running in just plain old HD High. But when I run in regular HD High, despite a great looking stream, I get knocked back really far in placement, and traffic sucks. What the mother fucking fuck!?

AliceFun
12-28-2013, 06:40 PM
^^^ I am sorry, believe it or not the encoder SHOULD work with ANY decent pc, cam & internet speed, u just need to have the right settings. If i work with the encoder with the lowest settings i get ok placement (page 1 or 2 depending on who is online & the time i get on), if i open session without the encoder i am on page 5-6 automatically and guess what? It tells me HD stream is not sustainable and drops me to lower stream EVEN my pc, cam and speeds are top class. So yea, the Encoder matters!

annikah
12-28-2013, 07:36 PM
My comp is good. I work on an Alienware that is just a few month old. I'm using a microsoft lifecam studio, and while it isn't the camera I want, it is HD. It could very well be my settings, but I really think most of it can be chalked up mostly to my internet speed. On a good day, I'm lucky to get 1mbps upload when I work from home. The internet company I use was supposed to upgrade the tower my service comes off of so I could get a beefier package in November, but because I live way out in the sticks and I'm the only one requesting it to be upgraded, they have a "We'll get to it when we get to it" attitude. I have other options for faster speeds, but they all have data caps. Might just have to bite the bullet on that one, though.

caramelDip
12-28-2013, 08:20 PM
I dont use the encoder anymore because my feed began to lag 2 weeks ago. I tried everything. And using the Low Settings made it worse. But my traffic seems the same if not better.

JaneBurgess
12-28-2013, 09:11 PM
Did you mention her behavior to the vet? She could be in pain or like you said, really pissed off.



The dogs are annoying the fuck out of me! The female got spayed like almost 3 weeks ago and she just keeps acting like she's super miserable. I know she's not miserable cause when I have friends over she just acts normal again, it's like she wants to guilt trip me for having her spayed or something (I know it's not that cause it's a silly dog and it doesn't think like people do).

She refuses to eat unless you keep going "Shiva, EAT" and sometimes even then she just looks at you like "hahahaha NO". I've fed her her kibble by hand because she's losing weight and she just looks horrible because of it and then she eats the entire fucking bowl! It's not as if she's just not hungry cause when she's full she just turns her head away. Today she's been acting all sad again and again she refuses to eat. Well now I'm done with you, dog. You don't wanna eat? Fine, don't eat, I have enough shit to do and I'm not gonna be your little nanny anymore.

I know her hormonal balance is just fucked up and needs to stabilise but jesus fucking christ man!! The vet didn't tell me it would take this fucking long and I'm losing my patience with this dog. She's constantly looking at me like "look what you did to me. I'm terribly depressed. I wanna die". I don't regret having her spayed AT ALL cause the other dog is a male and she went through heat once (on the day she was supposed to get spayed she got her fucking period smh) and I am NEVER doing that again, they drove me nuts.

Now the other dog is usually very good and quiet and now HE was all like "I'm not eating that" this morning too. Her bad behaviour always rubs off on him and it's so fucking annoying! Sometimes I wish I just had the male dog cause he's super easy and sweet and cuddly and she just fucks him up.

It doesn't help that I've been sick for at least 2 weeks and it doesn't get better, I can't sleep all night and then I finally fall asleep around 7AM and wake up around noon... much fun. very yay. wow.

ahh that felt good ^_^ best thread haha

TattooedBBW
12-28-2013, 11:25 PM
Computer shuts itself down during a private that seems it will go long. Then when I reboot it's glitching out the encoder ughhh FMLLLLLL
im using an i3 with streamate I need to make some money so I can get a better computer but it's like a damn vicious cycle - can't make money cuz of my shit computer, need to make money to buy a better computer and ditch this shit computer
GAHHHHHHH
/vent over.

Procrasturbator
12-29-2013, 02:35 AM
THEY NEVER FUCKING EAT THEIR CUM

Ugh this is my #1 pet peeve. Sometimes I vent about it to the supposed cum eaters and they're all "haha fucking pussies, nah of course I'll do it" AND THEY NEVER DO. Ok, maybe 1/10 actually does it. The rest are just so disappointing.

Tonight I had this guy say that he was going to do a CUM BONG for me (oh hell yes) and that he was thawing 14 loads of cum that he had in his freezer, and he'd brb... nope.

How many supposed cum eaters have I had tonight? Probably around a dozen. Maybe half of those went pvt. You know how many actually ate their cum on cam?

ONE. ONE GUY.

Why must they always disappoint me :(

CatBBW
12-29-2013, 06:32 AM
{snip}People always want me to do a couples....I have my REASONS for not wanting to do couples! If I dont, just move on!{snip}



Urgh, yes this bugs me SOOOOO much! I often get guys saying they want to offer their services (AKA: want free sex) so that I can offer couple shows and "make loads more money" - but the reality is that in over 2 years of camming I can count on one hand how many times I've been asked if I could fuck/suck on cam for them! What would be the point of having a stranger/freeloader sitting here while I concentrated on camming and performing for the paying guests?? (besides, I can't even have my own husband in the room while I do my thang, so a stranger is highly unlikely to ever be welcome in the vicinity!)

SexyAleks
12-29-2013, 06:48 AM
Especially if it is on a paid-per-min site, not at all worth it.

TheBrownFox
12-29-2013, 08:37 AM
Fake people who pretend to be your friend when they're really just out for themselves.

CatBBW
12-29-2013, 08:45 AM
My comp is good. I work on an Alienware that is just a few month old. I'm using a microsoft lifecam studio, and while it isn't the camera I want, it is HD. It could very well be my settings, but I really think most of it can be chalked up mostly to my internet speed. On a good day, I'm lucky to get 1mbps upload when I work from home. The internet company I use was supposed to upgrade the tower my service comes off of so I could get a beefier package in November, but because I live way out in the sticks and I'm the only one requesting it to be upgraded, they have a "We'll get to it when we get to it" attitude. I have other options for faster speeds, but they all have data caps. Might just have to bite the bullet on that one, though.

That's my rant. I am getting 200 KBPS upload speed because 1) I have a crap ISP and 2) my puter is a dinosaur. I'm saving to buy a whole new PC system and will upgrade to a better/faster ISP at the same time, but everytime I get a bit of money saved, something else needs to be paid for! Bills come in, washing machine breaks, Xmas arrives....!!!!! I'm furiously eBaying everything that's not nailed down, but my savings get re-allocated as fast as I can stash them....Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr..........

CatBBW
12-29-2013, 08:50 AM
Computer shuts itself down during a private that seems it will go long. Then when I reboot it's glitching out the encoder ughhh FMLLLLLL
im using an i3 with streamate I need to make some money so I can get a better computer but it's like a damn vicious cycle - can't make money cuz of my shit computer, need to make money to buy a better computer and ditch this shit computer
GAHHHHHHH
/vent over.

Ha! Just posted a similar rant before reading this!

CatBBW
12-29-2013, 08:58 AM
THEY NEVER FUCKING EAT THEIR CUM

Ugh this is my #1 pet peeve. Sometimes I vent about it to the supposed cum eaters and they're all "haha fucking pussies, nah of course I'll do it" AND THEY NEVER DO. Ok, maybe 1/10 actually does it. The rest are just so disappointing.

Tonight I had this guy say that he was going to do a CUM BONG for me (oh hell yes) and that he was thawing 14 loads of cum that he had in his freezer, and he'd brb... nope.

How many supposed cum eaters have I had tonight? Probably around a dozen. Maybe half of those went pvt. You know how many actually ate their cum on cam?

ONE. ONE GUY.

Why must they always disappoint me :(

I can't cope with the Cum Eaters anymore :( I think it's cos every time I get one who actually goes through with it, his cum is like a huge handful of cloudy gelatinous egg white. Had one reg last night who proudly presented it to the cam before lapping at it like a dog, and I had to do that *staring at a random pixel* while making all the right encouraging noises. My stomach is lurching again just thinking about it now :ill: And I don't know why I suddenly feel like this - I used to love doing it myself FFS, but can't even watch someone else doing it now. I must be getting old :O

luscious sadie
12-29-2013, 02:22 PM
I hate hate hate it when they are like "golddiggging bitch!" or w/e when I'm trying to hustle a gold show. Like, what do you think is happening here?! WHAT DO YOU THINK IS HAPPENING?!

I think that a huge part of it is that some models will spend their countdowns either nude, half nude, or doing allll the requests that guys bark at them :/

edit to add:

I just want to make it clear that I'm not talking about models who take off clothes at goals... I'm talking more about the girls (or models in general) who spend their entire countdown nude or nearly nude saying "yes yes yes" to any request.

audritwo
12-29-2013, 02:38 PM
I hate hate hate it when they are like "golddiggging bitch!" or w/e when I'm trying to hustle a gold show. Like, what do you think is happening here?! WHAT DO YOU THINK IS HAPPENING?!

I think that a huge part of it is that some models will spend their countdowns either nude, half nude, or doing allll the requests that guys bark at them :/


Yeah thanks people who do that... I hate you. Thats why I want everyone to do tips for requests.

luscious sadie
12-29-2013, 02:47 PM
Yeah thanks people who do that... I hate you. Thats why I want everyone to do tips for requests.

and that's why they get indignant about it when you ask for tips for requests. Some guy called me lazy today because I told him that I would stand up for a tip. I was online for 70 minutes and banned 10 people (though that isn't unheard of).

I'm just back after a few days off so I think that my tolerance is down. Plus I'm PMSing :D

Charlotteslut
12-29-2013, 03:02 PM
People who whine endlessly but never take steps to better their situation. Sometimes things really are hopeless and I'm not talking about people with mental illness, that is legitimate, but like 90% of the people I've met who are whining like this could improve their situation if they put the slightest time and effort into fixing it.

I used to be like this in my late teens and thinking of it now I'm like CRINGE. But yeah, people like this piss me off and I have no patience for them.