View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
caramelDip
01-17-2014, 01:12 PM
Oh gawd. The ones that tell me "BRB actually DO come back. But its always a non paying member. Nooo stay away! I dont say anything. I just sit there with a blank stare.
And idk if he was lying, but this guy used to sit around every time i went live. He left for about an hour and came back complaining. Said he just wasted his $ on a girl in private because blah blah blah. IDGAF! Should've spent it on me. No pity! Maybe he was lying but idc, why are you telling me?? damn squatter
IvyRose
01-17-2014, 02:44 PM
Damn.. I tried and tried but traffic sucks, the guys are soooo silent and none is buying. Worthless night. have to get on cam tomorrow all around the clock to be sure not to fall in such an death houre
EllieGold
01-17-2014, 03:21 PM
Its like pulling teeth on SM. I have been on there and made only $8 so far for hour and a half. I could just cry. I had one guy tip me $1 and ask the world from me. Nothing but beggars and silent people. Why????
I did a search on Compete.com and saw that Streamate went from 6 mil to 1 mil unique visitors over a year. What happened?
https://siteanalytics.compete.com/streamate.com/
webcamcutie
01-17-2014, 03:38 PM
Last January sucked too, always after Xmas when the bills come in, and more models online because no ones making targets, its generally slow till the first or second week of February
. my 6th year anniversary camming today and the last 3-4 days I've worked I've felt pretty worthless, but you just need to remind yourself, its not just YOU, its everyone, it'll be slow for a while and then pick back up, but this January is definitely worse than last, try to remain positive! Not just New years eve/day I made OVER what I've made all week in just 7 hours online
the only thing that sucks about this job! The ups and downs never get easy doesn't matter how long you've been doing it you just need to remember, there is a ray of sunshine somewhere, keep up the positive attitude, and don't let those stupid beggars get you down! My block list this January is definitely growing rapidly..lol. GOOD LUCK LADIES!
anonymous camgirl
01-17-2014, 05:13 PM
You got that right! you NEVER get used to the ups and downs.. NEVER.. not in 11 yrs .. and this is my 12th January..haha.. But I have consistently made the same amount of money over a decade now.. Gosh just wish I could make more than I do!.. You just have to prepare for the downtimes... when it's down .. I just hope to at least make enough to pay the bills that week so I am never set back and have to dip into savings. PREPARE ladies... put away the money for your rainy day fund.. cuz it's RAINING right now..lol
Last January sucked too, always after Xmas when the bills come in, and more models online because no ones making targets, its generally slow till the first or second week of February…. my 6th year anniversary camming today and the last 3-4 days I've worked I've felt pretty worthless, but you just need to remind yourself, its not just YOU, its everyone, it'll be slow for a while and then pick back up, but this January is definitely worse than last, try to remain positive! Not just New years eve/day I made OVER what I've made all week in just 7 hours online… the only thing that sucks about this job! The ups and downs never get easy doesn't matter how long you've been doing it you just need to remember, there is a ray of sunshine somewhere, keep up the positive attitude, and don't let those stupid beggars get you down! My block list this January is definitely growing rapidly..lol. GOOD LUCK LADIES!
JenniferNorth
01-17-2014, 09:10 PM
I know I promised I would not bitch, but traffic sucks today! Oh man, gotta get up earlier in the morning or something.....its not just SM and IML, F4F is sucking too (yeah I went big and started camming there because I need to make goal....)
RaeRae
01-17-2014, 09:30 PM
I am on page 10 on SM right now. Guess who isn't getting any traffic. Ugh.
roseeisenhardt
01-17-2014, 09:43 PM
MFC has been SO dead this past few days, I feel like it must be because of the AVN's/cam girl mansion, there's no other explanation.
Glamourmilf
01-17-2014, 10:50 PM
If the advice is that camming is unpredictable, with its ups and downs, then.. I can't help but think.. Why put so much time into it?
Sooooo Much time wasted sitting in front of the computer, it sickens me! The one thing in life that can never be gotten back is time.
'The Future is Leaving!"
I'm probably much older than most on here, and I can tell You, that's NOT any way to fully live.
New Year- new plans. At least for me. I hate giving up so much for so little, in terms of becoming a hermit, and never seeing the light of day.
AliceFun
01-18-2014, 04:57 AM
^^^ Unfortunately for us older girls (in my case at least) there is not much u can do by now, already many years passed by & we have a huge gap in our CV's, i know i have no chance to get a well paid job here cause yes, a lot of time was 'wasted' to work cam BUT if i did not have the option to do this i know i could not get thru so it's a vicious circle. U work cam cause u need to but then u get in a situation where u pay the consequences of doing this work. What is more important, the future or present? Cause u cant reach a future if u cant get thru the present, right? There is no future without present.
ETA: I feel JADED regarding cam work, i learned a new word who expresses exactly the way i feel.
sheshe
01-18-2014, 06:37 AM
I hate those guys who give advices as if they know more than me.
Like those guys who say
" I think you should show a little in free chat or tease a little even just by rubbing your panty. At least they will think you are horny and you will get more prvt with that."
I really hate it. I will tease when i feel like teasing and also there really are slow days that no matter how much you tease it will be wasted.
I also get really annoyed when guys go to my room and then when you ask them to prvt they will be like " I can't sweety I'm at work"
I'm like "Why are you visiting the site then?"
Then those guys who will pretend that they have been cheated. "Are you hairy or not?"
If i said "I am shaved" then he will say " can you please show me first before i take you in prvt? I want to make sure cause I've been fooled before."
Glamourmilf
01-18-2014, 06:51 AM
^^Very True Alice. I had to take another job doing sales because of camming's ups and downs, and I love it! I'm only speaking for myself. I'm elated that I can cam, don't get me wrong. I'm just referring to lots of things that never get done because of the time I need to put into it, to make camming work. Plus, I don't have a husband,or any live-in boyfriend or roomate,that would be able to help with chores and contribute to my high bills every month.
Maybe because I was around before computers, and even mobile phones.(Now when I go on a private party dance gig, the other dancers have their heads down, and are texting) When I danced in clubs many,many years ago, all the girls and myself were always communicating, and went out after our shifts. It was so fun. Maybe because I've always been a 'people' person, and the isolation makes me sad sometimes. That's all.
I love the interaction with actual human beings, vs, just reading words on a computer screen, and never really knowing who is behind those words. We all know that the more popular we get on cam, the more hateful words we read.
It does seep into one's subconscious.
With my health problems, and age, coupled with the lack of good jobs due to the economy, I am giving it 100%. I just don't trust any cam site-I always fear they might fold at any minute, like my corporate job did a few years ago.
Glamourmilf
01-18-2014, 07:18 AM
^^^SOOO irritating!
When the phone option is not working on SM, and it happens a lot lately, it NEVER fails,- people ask me if I can do phone in exclusive. They are probably other models, or guys who know it's not working, and are looking for a chance to take you exclusive, then complain and get their money refunded.
I harly ever get that question when the phone option is working. Damn, I guess they think I'm new to camming on SM, or something. I just don't answer them.
CurvyWinona
01-18-2014, 07:29 AM
I fucking hate custies asking me how I am doing or whatever and then left before I finished typing. WTH.
kittykrane
01-18-2014, 07:53 AM
Lately it's been the f*cking spammers on SM advertising with affiliate links. Not that it's hurt my income, but it's just annoying since they all go to imlive where shit ain't free there either!
AliceFun
01-18-2014, 08:30 AM
^^^ I am the same GM, nobody to help with expenses & we are two people here, my 19 yo son that is student now and has no income and myself. I earn not enough from camming to afford to go out & meet real people, make connections & have a social life, i hate when my son goes out with gf or friends on weekends & i sit indoors working at the pc camming. He cant get a flexible job either, they want him to work full time eventually, he tried/ tries but he has to focus on studies 1st of all & here in this country u cant work/ do things for small money like baby sitting or doing some work for neighbors or so, people dont have enough money to pay for these services, who afford to pay will always hire professionals.
Glamourmilf
01-18-2014, 02:05 PM
Or the ones who come into your chat, especially if You've been sitting in free for a while and ask, "How is your day going? Is everything o.k.?" I just know they have been hovering, so I ignore them. I mean, Doesn't the 'noose' hanging up behind me answer that dumb question? They really don't give 2 shits how You're doing!
~Carmen~
01-18-2014, 02:11 PM
Yes, or sitting in free the whole time you were in private. When you get back: "I waited for you". Well, lucky me!!!
SoloDesire
01-18-2014, 02:12 PM
Or how about the guys that use "my wife just came home" or "there's someone at the door" as an excuse to end privates because they are cheap and too cowardly to admit they are minute men!?
webcamcutie
01-18-2014, 02:56 PM
The guy I had today: I've already had a shitty week as it is, not being able to get on when I wanted to, financial stress from Christmas, bills behind behind, my dog having to be rushed to the vet for an emergency, which makes even more bills behind, then it being dead and a guy comes in and says;
"You should use your mic, oh you don't have a mic? you know if you used a mic you'd have people in here and your room wouldn't be empty"
And I Think: "I'm sorry but one, my room isn't empty, theres 15 freeloaders in here talking to me getting on my nerves, for 2, I didn't realize that in the 6 years I've been camming all I need to do is go out of my comfort zone and use a mic and everything would magically solve my problems."
And he says: "Well on this site, you need a mic to make money."
And I Think: "Thanks for the tip,but Im pretty sure I make in a day what you do in a week.. so….kthxBAI."
Then the 15 guys that are freeloading in my room and the 2 potential people that are nice Im talking to all clear out cause they see my face go from NICE to ANGRY and full of rage. Then Im stressed as it is and I get another say:
"I'm sorry you have saggy tits, and you're only 31? I feel bad for you when you turn 40!"
I rage pause, cry my eyes out (due to all the stress and how bad my weeks been) and then get even more mad that I let the motherfucker get to me in the first place.
Then I come back, an hour later after I eat and basically REDO my makeup and fix myself up and get a regular client that ALWAYS goes to pvt for a long time, ask me how its going, and then tells me he just came to say hi cause he has to go to work.
**head** **desk** why me. :(
Bubblegum1235
01-18-2014, 02:58 PM
I posted about this in the camming sucks thread...but this is the story. I need to vent it before I explode... Ok, this guy met me when I first started on SM, like 3 months ago, and we use to spent like 30/60 min in exclusive just chatting, everyday. I liked him, he seems to be a nice guy and I tought, maybe he would become a friend or something over the time. But well, as time went by, he became more and more pushy, he used to said he was in love with me and all kind of bullshit you can imagine, I didnīt want to miss him as a customer as I was still building a placement, and also, he seemed really nice, so I just let him go on with this (my bad, I know).
It was fine a couple of weeks, althougt he was still pushing me to talk in RL, like in facebook and so, even when I told him that was against the rules. But 3 days ago he decided he couldnīt take it anymore, he stopped going to work and decided to stay in home, drunk, trying to find me on facebook, which he did (I was so stupid to send him a picture I have in my facebook). Now he is like ohhh nooo, OMG, you are a lier, you was lying me all the time (he found out I have a kid, I donīt know how he canīt understand Iīm not hidding it, but its my personal bussines, and thats the way I want to handle it).
Finally this is whatīs making me soooo angry...he sent me a pm saying, all condescendent "Donīt worry, IĻm not mad, Iīm just disappointed"...I mean, you f***ing asshole, you are violating my privacy, without my permission, and YOU are not angry!!!
I know I should block him and move on, but now Iīm really upset...I donīt have that income anymore, he treated me like "damage stuff" (there are still men,in this century, that thinks that if a woman have a kid she not worth it anymore?), and most important of all, this asshole now knows all my real personal information, knows my family, friends, my son...
AliceFun
01-18-2014, 04:22 PM
^^^ I am sorry to read ur story, this is the risk when we have personal facebook accounts & we are also cam girls, i always said, what is on the internet stays there.
I am also a single mom & have a personal facebook account but there is not my full real name in there nor details about location, family, nothing really personal, i have a few pics that are visible to friends only and i dont accept friendship requests from anyone i dont know in real life.
Also my profile picture on my personal account is a flower, not a real picture so if by happening my account is automatically suggested to anyone they will not recognize me.
There is no time line available either.
Pls ladies pay attention to what u put on the internet when u are camgirls.
You should disable ur fb account completely so he cant contact ur friends and family, i hope he did not take any crazy actions already.
AliceFun
01-18-2014, 04:26 PM
I was called in freechat on SM: "MOOSE", just this single word & he left. Is an insult?! (i know what the animal is by the way but dont know the meaning when called this)
ashley jane
01-18-2014, 04:31 PM
I recently changed my last name so it's not my real name. Awhile ago I changed all of my stuff private. I'm also lucky that if you search my real name half the time you don't get me and a few have me listed as a male. I sometimes even get junk mail with Mr.
Holly_xoxo
01-18-2014, 04:35 PM
Two things are pissing me off today! The first is that the last 3 hours that I was on SM, I made a whopping 1.84$ I could have just gone out and enjoyed my day since being online was absolutely pointless (at least the afternoon shift)
And second, I'm pissed off at myself because Im too paranoid to try out sites that have cb's because I always worry about them but for all I know, I might do better on one of those sites.
I'm cranky now :/
Bubblegum1235
01-18-2014, 04:39 PM
^^^ I am sorry to read ur story, this is the risk when we have personal facebook accounts & we are also cam girls, i always said, what is on the internet stays there.
I am also a single mom & have a personal facebook account but there is not my full real name in there nor details about location, family, nothing really personal, i have a few pics that are visible to friends only and i dont accept friendship requests from anyone i dont know in real life.
Also my profile picture on my personal account is a flower, not a real picture so if by happening my account is automatically suggested to anyone they will not recognize me.
There is no time line available either.
Pls ladies pay attention to what u put on the internet when u are camgirls.
You should disable ur fb account completely so he cant contact ur friends and family, i hope he did not take any crazy actions already.
Yeah, he promissed me not do anything, but he also promessed me not to try to find me without my permission...Iīm now checking my privacy on facebook, I donīt accept any request since 6 months ago, but I think a non contact can see some of your information anyways. I donīt want to disable it because my whole family lives in another country, so I think at the moment the only thing I can do, beside check the privacy on facebook is wait. And learn for the next time...
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AliceFun
01-18-2014, 04:44 PM
^^^ I learned the hard way these guys have no honor, pls be safe xxx
kortneykay
01-18-2014, 06:32 PM
My friend knows that I only have one day a week off. We were supposed to go to dinner 3 weeks ago and she wanted to reschedule because of financial issues. I told her I would cover her but she didn't want that. We rescheduled for last week. Last week it was the same thing so she rescheduled for today. Today, I get ready, everything is set in stone and we had plans to do dinner, and the bar, and I told her I could pay for her as she chose Subway for dinner when the plan last week was supposed to be an upscale Chinese restaurant. I choose something she can afford as I had coupons. Sorry but the last time I ate inside of a Subway was when I was a child. The plan was to chat and go somewhere nice.
This bitch blamed the weather for her cancellation 10 min before we were supposed to meet up. >< It wasn't even snowing anymore and that bad outside. She wanted to reschedule for tomorrow. Did she forget Saturday is my ONLY day off? I could've did personal shit today but cleared my schedule for her, 3 times in a row, only to be disappointed again. I'm so teed off I think I need a break from fucking with her. So that means every time she texts to go out, it's already predetermined that I'm going to be busy that day.
Honestly, I think she has an issue with one or most of three things. 1. She's embarrassed to say that she cannot afford to go out. This isn't new. 8/10 she's broke and I have no problem covering a friend and I've covered her several times before. 2. Her eczema is acting up again which I understand but why make plans then cancel them? Just be honest. 3. I intimidate her. I'm not trying to be shallow but I tend to get attention when I'm out and she doesn't and I think she's a bit jealous of me and doesn't want the "competition". I never do anything to make my girlfriends feel comfortable so I don't know what to do?
She's obsessed with this local band that her family member is in. He's attached but is always complimenting me, telling me how beautiful and good I look. The other band members all kiss my hand when they see me and I tend to attract a lot of looks from guys. I'm no groupe so it's sweet, but I'm not on it like that. However, I cannot help the way I look. I also feel like once I lose weight she's going to ask me to hang out frequently. It's unfair and annoying as fuck.
TheBrownFox
01-18-2014, 07:57 PM
Just a little bit of a pet peeve:
Guys who say stuff like "I heard some models on here make like ____! Damn, I need to quit my job and become a cam model!" And they won't tip or anything...they'll just keep making statements implying that camming's so easy/lucrative that everyone should do it. *sigh* And I'm really not that comfortable with "How much cam models make" conversations.
Procrasturbator
01-18-2014, 08:02 PM
^ Right? Great, if it's so easy then why don't you do it and use the money to PAY ME?
JaneBurgess
01-18-2014, 11:10 PM
Damn that is plain rude. I feel ya. Tonight a friend was one hour and twenty minutes late for plans. I was pissed off. I have better things to do then wait on a grown ass adult that can't call to say that they are late.
My friend knows that I only have one day a week off. We were supposed to go to dinner 3 weeks ago and she wanted to reschedule because of financial issues. I told her I would cover her but she didn't want that. We rescheduled for last week. Last week it was the same thing so she rescheduled for today. Today, I get ready, everything is set in stone and we had plans to do dinner, and the bar, and I told her I could pay for her as she chose Subway for dinner when the plan last week was supposed to be an upscale Chinese restaurant. I choose something she can afford as I had coupons. Sorry but the last time I ate inside of a Subway was when I was a child. The plan was to chat and go somewhere nice.
This bitch blamed the weather for her cancellation 10 min before we were supposed to meet up. >< It wasn't even snowing anymore and that bad outside. She wanted to reschedule for tomorrow. Did she forget Saturday is my ONLY day off? I could've did personal shit today but cleared my schedule for her, 3 times in a row, only to be disappointed again. I'm so teed off I think I need a break from fucking with her. So that means every time she texts to go out, it's already predetermined that I'm going to be busy that day.
Honestly, I think she has an issue with one or most of three things. 1. She's embarrassed to say that she cannot afford to go out. This isn't new. 8/10 she's broke and I have no problem covering a friend and I've covered her several times before. 2. Her eczema is acting up again which I understand but why make plans then cancel them? Just be honest. 3. I intimidate her. I'm not trying to be shallow but I tend to get attention when I'm out and she doesn't and I think she's a bit jealous of me and doesn't want the "competition". I never do anything to make my girlfriends feel comfortable so I don't know what to do?
She's obsessed with this local band that her family member is in. He's attached but is always complimenting me, telling me how beautiful and good I look. The other band members all kiss my hand when they see me and I tend to attract a lot of looks from guys. I'm no groupe so it's sweet, but I'm not on it like that. However, I cannot help the way I look. I also feel like once I lose weight she's going to ask me to hang out frequently. It's unfair and annoying as fuck.
Rhiiannon
01-19-2014, 03:53 AM
I hate those guys who give advices as if they know more than me.
Like those guys who say
" I think you should show a little in free chat or tease a little even just by rubbing your panty. At least they will think you are horny and you will get more prvt with that."
I really hate it. I will tease when i feel like teasing and also there really are slow days that no matter how much you tease it will be wasted.
I also get really annoyed when guys go to my room and then when you ask them to prvt they will be like " I can't sweety I'm at work"
I'm like "Why are you visiting the site then?"
Then those guys who will pretend that they have been cheated. "Are you hairy or not?"
If i said "I am shaved" then he will say " can you please show me first before i take you in prvt? I want to make sure cause I've been fooled before."
THANK YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUU! That's the exact same shit that's annoying me right now!
I also hate the ones who say they have no tokens up front but expect me to sit and entertain their fantasy. Um, no. I have no problem chatting with nice people and having casual convo for free. But I'm not complimenting your dick or watching you jack off for 5 minutes for free. No.
And the guys who are like "Wow, you're not making much today. Some girls make 2000 tokens just by showing their boobs!" Really, you don't say? Please, do tell me more! -_-
And then the ones who think they're your BFF but never tip you. I had this one regular when I just started. He never tipped much but he was nice and we talked so I gave him my WhatsApp and SnapChat for free (which everyone else has to pay for) just for casual talk. What happens? He sends me like 5 messages in a row on WhatsApp every few minutes if I don't answer the first. That annoys me SO much. Some days I don't feel like talking or sometimes I didn't even read your message yet. Then he was all "Why aren't you talking to me?!" because you're fucking annoying and never tip anyway? And he tried pulling one of those "You know, you'd make more if..." even though I showed obvious annoyance every time he tried to "teach me" how to be better at camming. Go fuck yourself! v(^_^)v
PinkGeisha
01-19-2014, 06:41 AM
I once had a guy come in and try to HAGGLE with me over my prices. As if I were a fucking swap meet item. Trying to get 50% off, ESPECIALLY when you're new, just came in, haven't even gotten to know me yet, or introduce yourself... good grief! You think you can just waltz in and charm me with a couple gold?!?! SERIOUSLY!!!! I'm a fucking luxury, I charge what I believe is a fair price for my worth and time. If you don't feel that it is so, please kindly stop wasting my time, LEAVE my fucking room, and go find some 99 cent tramp that will show you all her goods for free.
Come think of it though, since he WAS a one time person that came into my room and never came back... I probably should have agreed to take the gold, and then given him what I felt was fair for the gold he gave me, which would have probably been just a quick titty flash. Hell, I probably should have taken his money and then banned him. ;D;D;D
Glamourmilf
01-19-2014, 11:37 AM
To add what KK and Jane commented on, regarding making plans with friends that are unreliable, or jealous once You finally do go out, I have experienced this more times than not.
It used to bother me, especially when I had put the time aside, and looked forward to getting out, and having fun.
My Aunt, who is older and wiser, and like a cool mother to me, told me that she had the same thing happen after my uncle had died.
She suggested just going out, and doing my own thing, and to never wait on another person again. She told me that when she wants to do something, she just does it!
Since taking that advice several years ago, I am happy to report that I make more friends, and have a better time when I'm out alone. I'm not shy, so I can start up a conversation with anybody.
Now I feel like if I go out with someone, they are like a ball and chain around my ankle.
I only have a couple of longtime friends that are upbeat and positive, and easy to be with. The others are just downers. I don't have time for that nonsense, and I don't like to talk about problems when I go out. That's just my nature, I guess. I love to laugh, and have silly times goofing off, so if my peeps aren't up for a good time, don't be with me.
kortneykay
01-19-2014, 12:34 PM
^^^^ Oh, I do that too. See photo. lol. But still, 3 times in a row? Not acceptable. I don't let anyone stop me from having a good time or getting what I want but it's the principle of it all. What's interesting is that she was at the hair salon all day and posted a photo of her new "do". I know she's gonna want to show it off this weekend but sadly I won't be available :D
http://i43.tinypic.com/2afd2fo.jpg
StephX
01-19-2014, 05:24 PM
I can't stand it when you do a Gold Show on Streamate and in the middle of the show some fucker starts typing things that are either rude, off topic, or sarcastic, and not in a good way OR starts demanding do this do that... You expect it every once in awhile but damn does it get on my nerves when it starts being more than one comment. It's distracting and makes me mad when all of my good custies are trying to enjoy themselves and someone has to try to fuck up the vibe after we are out of free chat. The culprit always is one who put in the minimal joining fee too, I know it comes with the job, but ARGH it makes me want to VENT sometimes!!! lol
ZafinaX
01-19-2014, 06:49 PM
Can I please PM someone about a problem I'm having? I'm too nervous to share with everyone at the same time. I know everyone can talk about all of their issues but I feel like I just need a one-on-one with someone if that is possible at all?
redridinghood
01-19-2014, 07:51 PM
^^^ I am not a super experienced model, so I'd hate to offer to help if I'm not the best candidate. That being said, I've thought for a while (when I was still lurking on the thread) that I wished someone had created a sort of "Ask Alice" thread, where one lady or maybe 2-3 ladies would answer advice questions for people. Not that this whole thread isn't already, in a lot of ways, one giant "ask alice" type of thing...but it would be cool to get personal takes on advice-needing questions from some of the veteran ladies here.
Can I please PM someone about a problem I'm having? I'm too nervous to share with everyone at the same time. I know everyone can talk about all of their issues but I feel like I just need a one-on-one with someone if that is possible at all?
AliceFun
01-20-2014, 12:05 AM
^^^ In regard to your post i can say i would never dare to give advice to people in a personal manner, that's why i created this thread, u can vent and ask for advice publicly but in rest, for me to take responsibility on giving personal advice, hell no, i am not a therapist & i dont know all about camming or life matters even i cam since many years. i still dont know enough and i feel i am way too subjective regarding many aspects of cam work or personal matters (got my own issues) to be able to tell others what should they do in certain situations.
Feel free to continue venting and let it off ur chest if this helps ladies, we are here for each other! xxx
sheshe
01-20-2014, 10:13 AM
Just now i had this customer who really annoyed me.
He is such an *emo* and a masochist i think because no matter how many times i treated him bad and told him the harsh reality about cam girls he is still coming back)
He is not a good customer just going to prvt when he have money. When we first met he prvt me only twice a month but he was a good talker so when i am bored it was good that he was there. But he gave different meaning to it and thought i am starting to like him and got upset when he find out i only see him as an online friend or customer. I got so angry i told him how annoying he is blah blah.
So he actually wants to make friends or find his dream girl although he knew that the girls will ask him to pay for it...
But still he hope for that. What annoy me is, he want the models to treat him special like a real good friend even if can't prvt them and if they don't he feel hurt or sad.
He made hundreds of camgirl friends and although he don't prvt them or if he do, he only prvt them very rarely and he is not talking to some of them he felt sad that no one greeted him last Christmas and so on.
I got fed up with his drama so i had to tell him the harsh truth. I told him that girls don't work there just to make friends because if that is all that they wanted then they could do that in FB or twitter or any other social networking sites. I said they will not waste their time on him if they know you can't prvt them because they have to deal with hundreds of guys.
He was like "not all, there are girls out there who are looking for serious relationship and hoping to find a good guy"
So i was like "If all they wanted is a relationship they will go and sign up to those dating sites and not here and even if they are looking for one I am sure it will not be from one of those guys who ask them to get naked and play with their pussy and if they are desperate enough they will choose someone with money to help them quit camming and not someone who will just chat with them"
I was so annoyed he said more things related to that but bleh he is so *emo* always have heart problem with camgirls.
caramelDip
01-20-2014, 11:26 AM
A model (one that i dont know at all) was sending me messages while i was broadcasting. For what? idk, it was small talk. Then she asked to see my ass. Maybe she was trying t distract me. Who knows. BUT...
No sweetie, you have to pay for it, just like everyone else.
TheBrownFox
01-20-2014, 12:36 PM
A model (one that i dont know at all) was sending me messages while i was broadcasting. For what? idk, it was small talk. Then she asked to see my ass. Maybe she was trying t distract me. Who knows. BUT...
No sweetie, you have to pay for it, just like everyone else.
Yeah, that would annoy me. And models thinking it's appropriate to flat out ask "How much money do you make?"
TheBrownFox
01-20-2014, 12:59 PM
When a person makes an unsolicited, rude remark (that the other person doesn't deserve), and then claims they're just "keepin' it real." Keeping it real douchey, you mean?
redridinghood
01-20-2014, 12:59 PM
Iawtc - because to me it's like asking anybody "how much do you make" whether a vanilla job or not - it's just not your business.
Yeah, that would annoy me. And models thinking it's appropriate to flat out ask "How much money do you make?"
Rhiiannon
01-20-2014, 02:46 PM
Just now i had this customer who really annoyed me.
He is such an *emo* and a masochist i think because no matter how many times i treated him bad and told him the harsh reality about cam girls he is still coming back)
He is not a good customer just going to prvt when he have money. When we first met he prvt me only twice a month but he was a good talker so when i am bored it was good that he was there. But he gave different meaning to it and thought i am starting to like him and got upset when he find out i only see him as an online friend or customer. I got so angry i told him how annoying he is blah blah.
So he actually wants to make friends or find his dream girl although he knew that the girls will ask him to pay for it...
But still he hope for that. What annoy me is, he want the models to treat him special like a real good friend even if can't prvt them and if they don't he feel hurt or sad.
He made hundreds of camgirl friends and although he don't prvt them or if he do, he only prvt them very rarely and he is not talking to some of them he felt sad that no one greeted him last Christmas and so on.
I got fed up with his drama so i had to tell him the harsh truth. I told him that girls don't work there just to make friends because if that is all that they wanted then they could do that in FB or twitter or any other social networking sites. I said they will not waste their time on him if they know you can't prvt them because they have to deal with hundreds of guys.
He was like "not all, there are girls out there who are looking for serious relationship and hoping to find a good guy"
So i was like "If all they wanted is a relationship they will go and sign up to those dating sites and not here and even if they are looking for one I am sure it will not be from one of those guys who ask them to get naked and play with their pussy and if they are desperate enough they will choose someone with money to help them quit camming and not someone who will just chat with them"
I was so annoyed he said more things related to that but bleh he is so *emo* always have heart problem with camgirls.
I have guys like that. The ones looking for relationships or "true" friendships on here, expecting to eventually get freebies or talk to you 24/7 because they're just "so nice". WTF fool, this is a CAM SITE. We're here to make money. I don't mind making friends, but I'm not your next BFF who will talk to you at all hours of the day.
Camigirl
01-20-2014, 06:19 PM
Mine has nothing to do with cam. It's all good as of right now.
So today I and some friends went to a block party that was in honor of Martin Luther King. They had a few kid rides and animals to pet. I noticed pony rides, and asked my friend if she wanted to take her kid over to be led around on a pony. She said yea, but he's never been on one. I told her that is the purpose, to be led around and he would love it. We get over to the area where the pony is and I noticed about 5 of them. One was a little taller, but still a pony, cute and black! Loved him right away.
My friend asks if I (ME) can get a ride first! I laughed, the lady said yes. I thought it would be cool just to take a few pictures. Now I am tall 5'11" not heavy but tall. It's gonna look odd. makes for a laugh I guess. I grew up riding the best horses at shows all over the North, so... no problem, not too many people there they are all eating.
I get on this pony and tell the lady he is acting nervous, she says yes he does not like the loud music, Harleys and the crowd it seems.
He is trotting and pulling away from her a bit while she is holding on to the reins. STUPID... she jerks his head and he tosses it back, freaks out and starts circling around her, while I am in the middle of jumping off, she is going to lose the reins I know it. Well he freaks more a loud car goes by (think it was a car or a bike) and this pony puts his head down to the ground I have one leg over the back already and he starts bucking! He bucked me off, and ran off. She did drop the reins! I am getting off the gound while people ask me if I am ok... a man grabs the pony down the way and brings him back. My left ankle is killing me, this is the ankle I landed on.
My gosh, if she would have given me the reins I would have been fine. He spooked, and did what a scared animal would do fight or flight. He booked.
I seen that ass go up a second time as I was getting off the ground, and thought you stupid bitch!
Now I laugh. I was not laughing then, but pet the pony asked her to load him up, he is not good around crowds. And we left.
LOL to get bucked off a pony at an outing is so embarrassing. But he is fine, she loaded him in the trailer. I am fine now too, but with a sore ankle a little.
Yes I was pissed.
redridinghood
01-20-2014, 07:49 PM
I wasn't talking about "ask alice" as in asking YOU in particular. In the US "Ask Alice" was a popular newspaper column for a long time, several years ago. That's what I meant...sorry if I was confusing to you.
^^^ In regard to your post i can say i would never dare to give advice to people in a personal manner, that's why i created this thread, u can vent and ask for advice publicly but in rest, for me to take responsibility on giving personal advice, hell no, i am not a therapist & i dont know all about camming or life matters even i cam since many years. i still dont know enough and i feel i am way too subjective regarding many aspects of cam work or personal matters (got my own issues) to be able to tell others what should they do in certain situations.
Feel free to continue venting and let it off ur chest if this helps ladies, we are here for each other! xxx
AliceFun
01-20-2014, 08:52 PM
Haha, no clue as i am not american lol, i was thinking u refer to me lol, all good xx
Checking out other models when it's slow and hearing the one model saying that incest is ok. Ewww. What else is she willing to do for a dollar. Pisses me off.
Via Flaminia
01-21-2014, 03:04 PM
Even the beggars won't stay in the room today :(