View Full Version : The General Purpose "Camming Sucks Right Now" Thread
Blovely
03-28-2014, 06:56 PM
Can we blame basketball and it being the end of the month for being so slow?
Sabihah
03-29-2014, 12:14 AM
I am SO TIRED of insecure clients who can't keep it to themselves. Like, this:
"Would you date me in real life?"
"So... would you date me in real life?"
"You really want me to fuck you, don't you?"
"Would you do this to me in real life?"
"I guess it really doesn't bother you that I'm [old, fat, ugly, gross], huh?"
JUST STOP. STAAAAAHP.
cherryblossomsinspring
03-29-2014, 12:53 AM
^ I wish I could be I watched a model get an 8000 token drop just sitting there smiling. The phrase "Happy as a clam" comes to mind. She didn't even flinch as if it was expected.
IvyRose
03-29-2014, 08:04 AM
I find it hilarious but also so dumb and just AARGH when models use profile pictures that arent actually them.. Or even more hilarious a profile full with pictures that are clearly all diffrent models/woman, taken at professional shoots that they just picked because the girls have the same haircolour (pics with fake breasts, normal breasts, tatts and without tatts all mixed)
nikki187
03-29-2014, 08:15 AM
I am pissed off because my new room mate (who is my brothers uncle) thinks I am going to continue taking and picking him up late at night while taking my two small children. This mother fucker has a new job lined up on Monday where he can just walk to work every day. He tells me last night that he wants me to still take him 30 minutes away on the weekends to the job he has now. Um what? Hell no! My daughter is off school on the weekends and we want to sleep in. He is messing with my money and I just found out that the only reason he wants to stay at the other job because he wants to to keep hitting on some married chick. Fuck you mother fucker.
This shit is not going to happen, and if this mother fucker doesn't have the money for half of the rent and bills his ass is going to a fucking shelter. I am not his fucking mother or his damn taxi.
Ok rant over. :)
LolaMay_x
03-29-2014, 09:16 AM
People asking me 24/7 if I will escort ect..
NO, NO, NO & NO
How many times do you have to fucking tell people!
It states it in caps on my profile!!
TheBrownFox
03-29-2014, 10:13 AM
Why do some people feel it's okay to deliberately run their shopping cart into someone's personally space at the grocery store out of spite?
OMG, YES! I've ranted about this once before...probably on FB. The people who do it to me never actually do it out of spite though. When I'm in the grocery store checkout aisle swiping my card, I DO NOT like it when the person behind me is standing so fucking close to me (especially if I have to type in a PIN), and I DO NOT want his/her cart resting against my ass or my leg. I think it's rude. If I've got my son with me, I always make sure he's moved back far enough to give the person in front of us their personal space to check out and pay.
I just made a FB status asking people about this, and they said it drives them nuts too!
anonymous camgirl
03-29-2014, 11:11 AM
I noticed a huge reduction in them asking me this by just simply stating in my room topic.. I DO NOT MEET!
People asking me 24/7 if I will escort ect..
NO, NO, NO & NO
How many times do you have to fucking tell people!
It states it in caps on my profile!!
anonymous camgirl
03-29-2014, 11:18 AM
what is up?? this cam shit is deader than dead for me and it's fucking saturday!..omg . i feel like it's a week day or something awful like that.. I can't get shit today.
JenniferNorth
03-29-2014, 11:25 AM
Chin up ladies, most likely due to the fact that its the end of the month. I'm sure I'll change my tune when my ass gets on cam (I was drained as hell yesterday so I didn't). This shit can't last forever!
Marina Starr
03-29-2014, 02:05 PM
Girl, people THINK they can do the most ridiculous things to me because I am a Transsexual but I'm not the one to be played with. I just find it so intrusive when people are so up your ass when you're in line trying to pay for stuff. That's another big no no. I am just more vocal about it and let them know. People need to respect a sista's personal space.
OMG, YES! I've ranted about this once before...probably on FB. The people who do it to me never actually do it out of spite though. When I'm in the grocery store checkout aisle swiping my card, I DO NOT like it when the person behind me is standing so fucking close to me (especially if I have to type in a PIN), and I DO NOT want his/her cart resting against my ass or my leg. I think it's rude. If I've got my son with me, I always make sure he's moved back far enough to give the person in front of us their personal space to check out and pay.
I just made a FB status asking people about this, and they said it drives them nuts too!
ConnyLove
03-29-2014, 03:21 PM
I find it hilarious but also so dumb and just AARGH when models use profile pictures that arent actually them.. Or even more hilarious a profile full with pictures that are clearly all diffrent models/woman, taken at professional shoots that they just picked because the girls have the same haircolour (pics with fake breasts, normal breasts, tatts and without tatts all mixed)
It happens very often in SM, there is a girl who uses a pic of a Victoria's Secret model as her main pic, and the other pictures are also from famous models. She usually is around 5th -8 row on first page and never shows her face completely - guess why?- . I don't know why guys are so stupid. Usually the girls who have a nice portfolio are real models or porn stars and they broadcast from nice locations/rooms, but many of the girls using fake pictures broadcast from messy rooms with old furniture and no good lighting and they also look like if they have been suffering from a disease after the picture was taking because they look nothing like those pictures.
lemonberry
03-29-2014, 03:41 PM
^ Kinda makes ya wonder what the point is of them having to approve pics if they don't take time to notice that sort of stuff.
TheBrownFox
03-29-2014, 04:25 PM
Dammit, there aren't Regular Show birthday party supplies anywhere! There's tons of Adventure Time stuff though. Oh well. I'm either gonna have to get real creative with the colors blue and brown (the colors of Mordecai and Rigby), or just go with his second choice, which is Beyblade. There's definitely Beyblade party supplies.
lemonberry
03-29-2014, 04:42 PM
Dammit, there aren't Regular Show birthday party supplies anywhere! There's tons of Adventure Time stuff though. Oh well. I'm either gonna have to get real creative with the colors blue and brown (the colors of Mordecai and Rigby), or just go with his second choice, which is Beyblade. There's definitely Beyblade party supplies.
Idk if you have a printer or not but etsy has this
http://www.etsy.com/listing/158064757/regular-show-birthday-party-printable
Also, a blog which someone made their own
http://keepingupwiththecraftmoms.com/2013/10/20/regular-show-birthday-party/
Hope that helps some. I actually like that show.
TheBrownFox
03-29-2014, 05:06 PM
Thanks, lemonberry. I read that lady's blog earlier today, and I bookmarked it. :)
lemonberry
03-29-2014, 05:15 PM
Thanks, lemonberry. I read that lady's blog earlier today, and I bookmarked it. :)
Cool. Hope his birthday goes good :)
gothpuppy
03-29-2014, 08:01 PM
So many people on mgf gets on my nerves. They honestly think that it's just some kind of sexually charged social networking site so they expect lots of free stuff. The word "fund" is literally right there in the name of the site. I mean, even the messaging costs money. It's against the rules to give out personal info and links to any of your sites. How could you honestly believe it's a friend-making website? Like bro, go to fetlife or something if you don't want to pay up.
And it seems like NONE of them read profiles. I put on my profile that I do not allow dirty talk during live chat and it seems like that's ALL I get. Or I have guys just stringing me along making me think that they're going to pay for something before they say they need to go, or they set up times to cam and never talk to me again.
cherryblossomsinspring
03-29-2014, 11:57 PM
So many people on mgf gets on my nerves. They honestly think that it's just some kind of sexually charged social networking site so they expect lots of free stuff. The word "fund" is literally right there in the name of the site. I mean, even the messaging costs money. It's against the rules to give out personal info and links to any of your sites. How could you honestly believe it's a friend-making website? Like bro, go to fetlife or something if you don't want to pay up.
And it seems like NONE of them read profiles. I put on my profile that I do not allow dirty talk during live chat and it seems like that's ALL I get. Or I have guys just stringing me along making me think that they're going to pay for something before they say they need to go, or they set up times to cam and never talk to me again.
That's exactly the problem
I've been a member of that site since 2010 and I still have $3k to go before I get to 67.5% that's how bad it is there. So I disappear and go elsewhere to make the brunt of cash. I keep myself logged in there in the backround as long as it's not hogging up my cpu usage.
Some guy tried to send me 3 pictures of what I have no fucking clue because NO MONEY for 3 pictures = whatever the fuck it is goes in the trash! Plus I block his loser ass!
I used to chat with every guy hoping for someone to give and they will not. Actually when I first got there I didn't get the set up and jsut talked to one guy in 1 year and hours of conversations he spend at most $130 on me with messages that's lame as fuck. Yet I saw his reviews going up with " he bought all my content and blah blah" . I thought why am I getting the short end of the stick? Because I didn't demand.
Now I start with pleasant chat for about 2 mins and get straight to business.
Don't be fooled with the " I'd like to get to know you before I spend" That's just bullshit mind games to waste time so they can buy $5 of content.
What I look for is reviews. If they haven't had a review in a few months it's most likely because they don't have any money. There are men that are on there for years last review was some time back in 2010 = DON'T EVEN WASTE YOUR TIME TALKING TO HIM.
Also you'll see "out of credits til 03/31st yet the guy keep changing his status to " good news things are looking up" yet he still hasn't had a review since Jan. It's just another sales tactic to get you to send a chat thinking "ooh he has money" when the guy is broke and probably will be broke for some time if he can keep playing the game. He just moves that date further and further.
Another special one is " I'm leaving the site" yet his last review was 2012. Based on my calculations this guy should have been gone over 2 years ago but this is another ploy for free attention.
Issabelle
03-30-2014, 12:24 AM
I just can't deal with the shit that is the men on SM tonight. $5.34 in an hour? Yeah, bye. Stop talking to me about your fetishes and buy if you want them so bad. I've got no time to do free dirty talk with you. Jesus.
Airrrie
03-30-2014, 12:37 AM
Was having a really rough night. No one is tipping. Kept trying and trying and trying, I was visibly frustrated and suddenly ... got tipped $100 on a $100 goal and then another $75 from someone who saw my reaction to the $100 tip. I completely lost it. I bust out in tears. Eye make up everywhere. Red nose. Blush is gone. I should be embarrassed but I'm not. I chalk it up to being human and experiencing human compassion. I experienced compassion from someone I least expected it from on top of it all. A man.
Just wanted to share.
Procrasturbator
03-30-2014, 12:44 AM
This is adorable. I'm so glad it worked out for you!
BuffyFlame
03-30-2014, 12:55 AM
Guys LOVE reactions on cam.
That can earn you more then tits and ass combined. lol
A guy tipped me $500 once and i started crying, One of my regulars
became jealous and tipped me almost $800 (he said it was his whole paycheck, deposited that night!).
Even if a guy tips you $10 on a $3 entry fee, act like he tipped you $100, and you will be AMAZED at how they want to
keep that reaction going!!
Congratulations, and many more to come.
minniesoporno
03-30-2014, 01:00 AM
I;ve done this ball my eyes on cam, luckily it was in the times well before youtube. and only screen picture captures, but at that time I was in a horrible situation with the studio i was stuck living in .
IT happens, some days are harder then others and other days we carry all the emotional baggage in the world while we are on cam. and yes some day we might actually break.
I remember when someone tipped me $110 for my goal show I didn't know if I should smile or cry , so I smiled on cam and cried off cam.
Airrrie
03-30-2014, 01:02 AM
Guys LOVE reactions on cam.
That can earn you more then tits and ass combined. lol
A guy tipped me $500 once and i started crying, One of my regulars
became jealous and tipped me almost $800 (he said it was his whole paycheck, deposited that night!).
Even if a guy tips you $10 on a $3 entry fee, act like he tipped you $100, and you will be AMAZED at how they want to
keep that reaction going!!
Congratulations, and many more to come.
You know, I think you are right. When I wiped my eyes, trying to play it off as casually as I could possibly do, I got my lipstick all over my nose. Then I got embarrassed because my nose was as red as Rudolf. Then guys were asking me whats wrong because they weren't there when it happened so they started tipping my $5 buy in. I was trying to explain they were tears of joy but all I could get out was, "Oh my God guys, I think we should all just lay in a pile".
It was such a genuine moment LOL. I imagine if I was watching I would have been filled with good feelings so I refuse to feel embarrassed. It was a nice moment.
Procrasturbator
03-30-2014, 01:10 AM
I was trying to explain they were tears of joy but all I could get out was, "Oh my God guys, I think we should all just lay in a pile".
Ahahaha oh my god, you're kind of awesome. If I was a custie watching that I probably would have tipped you too!
cherryblossomsinspring
03-30-2014, 01:47 AM
I remember when some guy that I barely knew sent said he'd send me money to help me out when I was job hunting I assumed it was going to be $25 or something small. When I went to western union and found out that it was $500 I tried to hold back tears and got the money and cried like a baby in my car. He later became my financial sub but at the time I had no clue about the fetish nor was even thinking about camming:) Yes being touched by human kindness is a rare treat and tears of joy are always wonderful. I remember as a child I'd see that reaction on tv and wondered how can someone cry and be happy at the same time but I experienced it myself. Hell I can cry happy tears when I have an incredible orgasm. Another nice reaction found along my cam time:)
You rock OP!! Guys love to see human emotion on cam, it makes you real!
Rhiiannon
03-30-2014, 04:42 AM
Wow that's great :D Next time I get tipped any amount I'll act like it was $500 and go nuts lol.
Rhiiannon
03-30-2014, 04:55 AM
I love the...
Them: hey sexy u view cams?
me: yes for 20tks :)
them: oh i'm out. wanna see anyway?
Not really.
And this kid bought my kik so he's totally entitled to send dick pics, but he was like "Here's something for you. I figured since you do so much for us guys, here's something in return." Bitch I don't give a fuck about your dick! (but thanks for being nice)
takiaya
03-30-2014, 05:42 AM
@
[email protected] $10 an hr today. I couldn't take more than 4.5 hours, I wanted to scream. And I tried 3 different sites, wtf is going on
Marina Starr
03-30-2014, 05:54 AM
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t94/tsmelania/oprah-crying_zps43689500.gif (http://s158.photobucket.com/user/tsmelania/media/oprah-crying_zps43689500.gif.html)
Rhiiannon
03-30-2014, 06:21 AM
Lol, I hate the guys who message you and aren't even in your room or your PM viewers. Like how the hell do you even know how I look right now then? And what do you even want?
cherryblossomsinspring
03-30-2014, 03:19 PM
duplicate
cherryblossomsinspring
03-30-2014, 03:20 PM
Lol, I hate the guys who message you and aren't even in your room or your PM viewers. Like how the hell do you even know how I look right now then? And what do you even want?
Close your pms and make them for friend's only. The first week I was on MFC 99% of the pms came from broke losers. I finally changed it to "friend's only" and made them tip for friend adds. I keep guys on the friend's list until they abuse that feature and there will always be guys that try to sit in there and talk you to death for 0. So I just eventually drop them and move on.
curvydancer25
03-30-2014, 03:44 PM
Not cam related but...I HATE when I'm grocery shopping or somewhere with a shopping cart, and someone wants to get by me, but for some reason they don't know how to simply say "Excuse Me" That's all it takes. I say excuse me if I'm trying to get by and there's someone in my way. So I purposely wait and look at them to say something, when I know they wanna get by. They end up giving me this stupid look like I can read their mind lol, so sometimes I say, All you have to say is excuse me, then they say it. FUCKING LOSERS!!!! Ok, vent done.
Marina Starr
03-30-2014, 03:47 PM
It's funny how some of us on here have the same related issues with folks, lol!
Not cam related but...I HATE when I'm grocery shopping or somewhere with a shopping cart, and someone wants to get by me, but for some reason they don't know how to simply say "Excuse Me" That's all it takes. I say excuse me if I'm trying to get by and there's someone in my way. So I purposely wait and look at them to say something, when I know they wanna get by. They end up giving me this stupid look like I can read their mind lol, so sometimes I say, All you have to say is excuse me, then they say it. FUCKING LOSERS!!!! Ok, vent done.
Rhiiannon
03-30-2014, 04:12 PM
You think so? I was thinking about doing that, but 10% of the time it's a guy asking about what I do in private and they don't want to discuss their little whatever in public. But I guess if he's worth having a private with, he'll spend the measly $10 to be my friend, right?
I will try it for a few days and see how it goes!
cherryblossomsinspring
03-30-2014, 04:17 PM
You think so? I was thinking about doing that, but 10% of the time it's a guy asking about what I do in private and they don't want to discuss their little whatever in public. But I guess if he's worth having a private with, he'll spend the measly $10 to be my friend, right?
I will try it for a few days and see how it goes!
You can try for a small amount then raise it over time. Even 50 tokens time 10 people is 500 tokens just for friend adds. 20 people and you've made 1000 tokens=$50 Some of those guys will ask for c2c then charge for that too but don't let them sit there long. Watch for a few minutes and then say "thanks" and close it.
Even at 50 tokens you'll still get guys that will talk you to death so over time you'll have to raise it.
If someone does a True Private with you for a while then add them
Maybe the best tippers of the day ie guys that spent the most add them and make a big deal about it. Like OOh You're so added bb! lol :)
I hate when I'm doing a gold show, when the goal reached for a tittyfuck, and the bigger tipper didnt stop to ask me to fuck me with the toy... and keep asking for flashes in the free chat... WTF??¿ you paid for what its been stated, if you want more, pay more! ugh
lemonberry
03-30-2014, 08:26 PM
Wtf is with the bb show (boobs or pussy) and we go pvt on streamate lately? I've been on there since 2011 and sure, I always get stand bb, can I see your ass? ect on there, but this new wave of show me nudity and we go pvt ok bb? Come the fuck on, I'm nowhere near new on the site.
Why am I not done with sm? It's like the equivalent of a boyfriend who started out really awesome then turned shitty, yet I keep holding on hoping he will go back to what he once was. sigh.
Rebootcamgirl
03-31-2014, 01:39 AM
I'm not listed at all I feel like on SM and I'm sure it has something to do with me not logging in for such a long time. I neither have the New model tag and now I don't have any standing because I went hiatus to get a better comp... I've been on for like 5 hours (multiple sites) and have made NIL. Luckily I'm off on my vanilla job tomorrow so I will be going hard all day tomorrow. But damnit I was so confident going in and havent made anything.
Erin89
03-31-2014, 02:41 AM
I have no idea when my roommates will be home so instead of camming in the awesome, brightly lit living room I have to cam in my darm crammed bedroom. I have two roommates and their schedules are so flexable they just pop in at random times, even if they tell me they'll be back at 3 it's usually off by an hour or two.
cherryblossomsinspring
03-31-2014, 03:04 AM
Rough day for me at $36 ugg terrible! I'm not going to even count the piddly tokens on chaturbate. Like why are guys tipping me 5 tokens and saying "let me see pussy" wtf?
SoloDesire
03-31-2014, 06:09 AM
Cam burnout! When I'm just too disgusted by the bullshit I have to deal with on cam that I absolutely dread having to get on. Everything seems stale and not fun...just going through the motions.
I think I'll just focus on making clips today :/
TheBrownFox
03-31-2014, 06:24 AM
Cool. Hope his birthday goes good :)
Thank you. He decided to go with Beyblade (his second choice) after I showed him our Regular Show vs. Beyblade options, and he saw that Beyblade actually has lots of party supplies. Plus there's Beyblade temporary tattoos, which would be cool to add to the party favor bags.
TheBrownFox
03-31-2014, 09:52 AM
What the fuck?! First this was supposed to be an off day from school...then after all the shitty-ass weather, the school sent home a letter announcing that today has been changed to a FULL DAY of school (make-up day). Okay, cool. But just now I got an e-mail from a staff member saying "Did you know it's early dismissal today? Your son said that you two didn't know." Um...what?! You mean to tell me y'all changed the school status a SECOND time? I go through all of the notices in his folder daily, and I mark down important dates on my calendar right away. I did not receive such letter. Oh, and this school seriously needs to get themselves an automated call/e-mail system...like the public schools do. I adore my son's school - don't get me wrong - but shit like this infuriates me.
This school has a policy that if I'm not outside in the afternoon when his bus pulls up, they cannot let him off the bus and actually have to drive him all the way back to the school, and make me come there to pick him up (I do not drive). So last-minute shit like this pisses me off.
Jay12
03-31-2014, 09:59 AM
It still pisses me off the amount of people who had recognized me on cam. If it wasn't for that, I'd still be camming.
TransdimensionalPrincess
03-31-2014, 10:47 AM
Getting a yeast infection when you plan on five full days of filming videos -_-
Well.... its almost healed but i'm still too sore to dildo it....ugh.
anonymous camgirl
03-31-2014, 11:41 AM
God i feel like streamate has seriously gone down hill. what is up with it?? i hope they start advertising somewhere else.. cuz nothing but a bunch of beggars arguing why i should work for free so they can pay me later.. this is not a buy now pay later fucking store morons!...lol
takiaya
03-31-2014, 12:17 PM
I had a shitty week on cam all week last week, had one $200 day then barely scraped by with $10 an hour every day after that, I tried working multiple sites etc nothing worked, customs4u blocked my account bc some guy ordered 3 boygirl customs and put 24 hours on the order, and I told the administrators I couldnt do that because my boyfriend is out of town till friday, there is no way to message customers there, or even cancel their orders yourself, and after emailing support, they waited like one day, said ok they would talk to the buyer, then I go to log in blocked, message support, support says 2 consecutive non deliveries equals being banned automatically WTF which wasn't fair because they had said they would talk to the buyer about it and all they did was block me. Then I logged into chaturbate last week, 4 reports against me for things I do not even do @
[email protected], yesterday got a 5th in less than 7 days, and it said I offered skype shows which is against their rules, which is bullshit BC I never accept skype shows when Im on token sites, I always tell guys private for tokens on site only. I blew the fuck up and quit chaturbate, put a notice on my profile explaining why I would no longer be camming there, and erased almost everything else I had on there, going to finish taking my videos down today bc at that rate my account woulda been banned there as well at the rate it was going. I feel like I got some bad luck voodoo curse on me or something lately.