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Aslinn
05-03-2012, 07:11 AM
I keep rereading this looking for something to say that doesn't come off as Douchey, but I can't. I'm just like why the fuck did you go to his house or even meet with him in a non public place by yourself. I mean even when I was in middle school and had no sex appeal to any males I knew that it was always possible to be raped or beaten even by male friends you knew for years so I never went anywhere with a guy by myself. Even when dating my husband our first like four times hanging out I brought along my friends. Even for a girl who wasn't a stripper you should be fully aware that going anywhere with a guy you don't know could turn ugly. Just two weeks ago I had to pick up a friend who went home with a guy because he ditched her and made her walk home for not having sex with him.

And just like everyone else says a guy who meets you in the club does not want to be your friend! The only guy I have ever made friends with are bouncers and that is because I was friends with there wives. I can't tell you not to date someone you met in the club because that is where I met my husband but like I said he had to take me and my friends out for weeks because I wouldn't see him in private.

Sorry if that seemed harsh you just remind me of my perviously mentioned friend who keeps putting herself in horrible situations and it seems like you don't have anyone to come save you like I do for her.

Flickdreams
05-07-2012, 05:37 AM
YOU'RE AT WORK!!!........ They just want to see how far they will go with you. Going to his place was alone dangerous, dont ever do that. You already offered being topless in his place and lost on so much money off him. Dont go with some customer to his house, dont even take outside the club. He wanted sex from you and you didnt provide that so he deleted you. Be glad he didnt turn out to be some crazy psycho who followed you. Learn from your mistakes.

This is my opinion also. I feel differently about OTC though, i think an experienced dancer who is doing it for money can do well (personally i don't offfer any nudity OTC, if they want that then they can see me ITC), I don't think you're ready for OTC yet based on your post. Meet your friends somewhere else- men come to the clubs thinking Pussy Pussy Pussy not genuine connection.