View Full Version : State of the union: "Sugarbabies" or "wannabe Sugarbabies" please read.
Exxotica
12-20-2016, 10:26 PM
Platonic sugaring is largely bullshit. I'm not saying it doesn't happen but multiple men paying you thousands for now sex? Yh right.
I agree. Just like when the average stripper is still pretending she makes $1000 every night.. these sugar babies are straight up lying when they say no sex is involved in their arrangements.
If he's not getting sex, you're probably not a sugar baby but a rinser. You are using him to get as much money and gifts under the guise of "I'm not ready yet honey.. we still have to get to know each other" until one day he calls your bluff and you exit the situation.
Was Anna Nicole screwing her geriatric husband who probably couldn't even get it up? Probably not. But I'm sure some sexual activity was going on: there were court docs that said she'd rub her boobs in his face when asking for more money. That to me, is still under the category of sex for money.
But a man simply paying for your time without any sexual activity whatsoever and is completely okay knowing its never going to occur? k.
Exxotica
12-20-2016, 10:33 PM
I feel like looking for a sugar daddy online is just not worth it now with all the media attention. I think the only way you'll find a real SD these days (well... one that isnt horrendously ugly, a womanizer wifebeater condescending type, and one that has decent social skills) is by NOT looking online. Like converting a regular from the SC or hanging out where wealthy men hang out.
Yup! I don't even take those websites seriously. I spend my online time on regular dating sites and in person connections. Sadly, a lot of women are just horrible at freestyling. No social skills whatsoever, but feel like they do fine when on the Internet. Not a good look.
Exxotica
12-20-2016, 10:34 PM
Also, i'm still unsure as to whether i use a persona/fake name, or the real me? with this guy i've used a nickname, so as to not confuse myself completely
Of course you use a fake name. That's a given.
HoneyMachado
12-21-2016, 01:54 PM
Freestyling really is the future.It takes extra effort but why limit yourself to two seeminly wealthy blue collar dudes on seeking arrangement when CEOs, executives, international businessmen & lawyers are all out there looking for a younger woman to spoil
DonaDiabla
12-21-2016, 02:01 PM
Actually, I love blue collar dudes. Also seeking arrangements was full of too many splenda daddies for my taste. However, you are right about freestyling! I do believe that more sugars should be freestyling or at least trying freestyle:)
Freestyling really is the future.It takes extra effort but why limit yourself to two seeminly wealthy blue collar dudes on seeking arrangement when CEOs, executives, international businessmen & lawyers are all out there looking for a younger woman to spoil
Camillauk
12-24-2016, 06:58 PM
Any of you tried sugardaddie.com? I have met a couple from there in the past years. I have had a couple of sugardaddies in the past and to be honest I wouldn't want one again. Too much hard work, having to kiss someone your not that into, sex etc... I like making my own money and spending it on what I like without having to get naked for dosh lol
DonaDiabla
12-24-2016, 07:29 PM
Yeah, everyone should know by now that most sugar websites are full of splenda daddies. That sugardaddie.com was one of the worstest sugaring sites ever. Sugaring if done with the right hustle and person can be pretty profitable. Also, sex should bring in higher profits than non-sexual arrangements. However, it can go sour if you have the wrong hustle, mentality, or sugar daddy. It was not too much work for me but I worked on my sugar baby hustle for one year before going out there. You need a clear cut hustle before starting in sugaring. Also, there is no major difference between sugaring and other forms of sex work. Many of us are pretending to be interested in these guys anyways. It really just a question of taste. :)
Any of you tried sugardaddie.com? I have met a couple from there in the past years. I have had a couple of sugardaddies in the past and to be honest I wouldn't want one again. Too much hard work, having to kiss someone your not that into, sex etc... I like making my own money and spending it on what I like without having to get naked for dosh lol
kortneykay
12-25-2016, 02:22 PM
If you guys use verifyhim and other sites like it sometimes the clients you screen have signed up on other sites. I saw a few were listed on SD sites. You know damn well that's easy mining and you can make some easy SD out of some clients you have so pay close attention when you screen. I found a few BR clients who are on SD sites. I'm going to make a pass, lol. "So, I saw that you were interested in a SB..."
Snowy0Star
01-18-2017, 03:40 AM
Yup! I don't even take those websites seriously. I spend my online time on regular dating sites and in person connections. Sadly, a lot of women are just horrible at freestyling. No social skills whatsoever, but feel like they do fine when on the Internet. Not a good look.
Freestyling really is the future.It takes extra effort but why limit yourself to two seeminly wealthy blue collar dudes on seeking arrangement when CEOs, executives, international businessmen & lawyers are all out there looking for a younger woman to spoil
Basically u r using vanilla dating sites to free style and find a sugar daddy?
Shannon.
01-18-2017, 05:28 AM
Basically u r using vanilla dating sites to free style and find a sugar daddy?
No, most free styling means going out to find them yourself where one would normally find wealthy men (exclusive golf clubs, conferences, high end hotel bars... etc).
Snowy0Star
01-18-2017, 05:38 AM
No, most free styling means going out to find them yourself where one would normally find wealthy men (exclusive golf clubs, conferences, high end hotel bars... etc).
i knew that i was just asking for clarification regarding the statements in the two post i quoted they are talking about using non sugar baby dating apps to find wealthy men