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JenniferNorth
03-21-2017, 05:51 PM
I had worked Arousr in 2014, but I ghosted. Does anyone think it might be worth reapplying? I have a different last name now, so I'm not sure if she would remember me.
MistressX
03-22-2017, 09:39 PM
I guess I spoke too soon because I've been on for 4 HOURS and not had ONE guy contact me. I am talking to a couple other girls and it is the same for them. Really sucks. I did so well on there my first week and even the second even though it wasnt as good.. dont know what happened this week but I've only made a few bucks :(
Also I'm scared to use the app now because the app still isnt pushing messages through. Its not just me either I have had a couple other people say that the same thing is happening to them... I sit on the app and get no messages then go into my chat logs and see a bunch of highlighted names with 3600 response time, meaning I missed them. But they never showed up... So now I cant even use the app! Which is half the reason I bought this new android... ugh!
space_cowgirl
03-24-2017, 09:43 AM
^Mistress X, did you get paid on time?
MistressX
03-24-2017, 02:10 PM
Yep I have gotten paid really fast both weeks I have been on there. Now as for the app Linda called me and spoke to me about the app issue. The app has only been out for 8 months she said so theres bugs I guess. I told her what was happening.. the app isnt pushing messages through then it will log you out due to "excessive delayed responses", but when you look there are no messages showing up. It seems to happen only on certain phones. I have an LG V20 and its a pretty new phone so maybe thats why. It probably has something to do with the android operating system.. But as a result my response time has tanked and I've missed a lot of potential money.
I notice on the site my placement seems to bounce around a lot. I'll be at the top at one moment then way down buried under all the girls the next.. I dont like that because guys are stupid and dont scroll. I am wondering what factors play into placement? Right now it seems to be pretty wonky. If any of you sign up and get on there I recommend putting a LOT of hours in the first week. I have noticed a huge drop in traffic after my first week. I know Linda gives us more when we first start to give us more regulars which is totally awesome.. but I didnt know how long it was going to last. Also it seems like you really have to be consistent every day with hours because if you take a couple days off it seems to really hurt.
That's hard for me without being able to use the app. I hope they fix it soon. I hate being tied down to my computer. I am going to work as much as I can the next few days because I just had to shell out a ton of cash for a vet visit. I notice a lot of the time the site is completely dead for me, like not one person for hours at a time. They just fixed the camming feature and I am going to try that soon. The guys have to buy block time and you get paid for the whole amount even if they disconnect before the time is up. And then when the time IS up, they automatically get disconnected. So that to me is awesome! I'll try it out this weekend and see how it goes.
LolaLu
03-24-2017, 02:33 PM
I guess I'm not what they're after as I applied a week or so ago and not heard back. Oh well.
MistressX
03-24-2017, 03:33 PM
It took a few weeks when I applied.
xxxGothBarbie
03-24-2017, 05:06 PM
So when I am in paid chat with them , can I send more than one response to add more to the sexting convo or is that a no no? I worked for an hr last night & really liked it but when a guy would say something I'd try to get a sexy response in quick before the 30 sec thing then i'd add something a bit more after that before his next response.
MistressX
03-24-2017, 05:22 PM
You only get paid for his texts to you as far as I know. you can only send 4 messages to him before the system will tell you that you are flooding the customer.
I've been logged on the computer for almost 3 hours and not had 1 guy message me. So yeah.. feast or famine right now. After I got off the phone with linda yesterday I made $70 in a pretty quick time so I really dont know. It's been REALLY dead lately.
xxxGothBarbie
03-24-2017, 05:37 PM
You only get paid for his texts to you as far as I know. you can only send 4 messages to him before the system will tell you that you are flooding the customer.
I've been logged on the computer for almost 3 hours and not had 1 guy message me. So yeah.. feast or famine right now. After I got off the phone with linda yesterday I made $70 in a pretty quick time so I really dont know. It's been REALLY dead lately.
Oh shit :( I hope it doesn't stay that way bc I'm hoping to only have to cam at my leisure since free chat is draining the life out of me. I started last night & really like it but holy shit when you get multiple ppl messaging you at the same time trying to make that 30 sec thing lol stressful. Is there also a way I can keep a check on my dashboard as to how many hours I've done? How do you check to see how much you've made total? Sorry for so many questions x0x0
xxxGothBarbie
03-24-2017, 05:42 PM
You only get paid for his texts to you as far as I know. you can only send 4 messages to him before the system will tell you that you are flooding the customer.
I've been logged on the computer for almost 3 hours and not had 1 guy message me. So yeah.. feast or famine right now. After I got off the phone with linda yesterday I made $70 in a pretty quick time so I really dont know. It's been REALLY dead lately.
Oh shit :( I hope it doesn't stay that way bc I'm hoping to only have to cam at my leisure since free chat is draining the life out of me. I started last night & really like it but holy shit when you get multiple ppl messaging you at the same time trying to make that 30 sec thing lol stressful. Is there also a way I can keep a check on my dashboard as to how many hours I've done? How do you check to see how much you've made total? Sorry for so many questions x0x0
MistressX
03-24-2017, 05:54 PM
I got inundated when I first started too. No more.. still on and still no one messaging me. Not sure whats up.
you have to log out to see how much youve made... which is kind of annoying. I have yet to find out a way to see how many hours youve been logged on. i dont think there is a way to do that tbh. I am also wanting to do this so i dont have to worry about camming but looks like even though it sucks big monkey balls I am going to have to go back to streamate.
xxxGothBarbie
03-24-2017, 06:01 PM
I got inundated when I first started too. No more.. still on and still no one messaging me. Not sure whats up.
you have to log out to see how much youve made... which is kind of annoying. I have yet to find out a way to see how many hours youve been logged on. i dont think there is a way to do that tbh. I am also wanting to do this so i dont have to worry about camming but looks like even though it sucks big monkey balls I am going to have to go back to streamate.
Well you can always keep it open while you are on SM & that way it's splitting it as a side egg & it still has potential. That's what I'm gonna go if it slows down for me after my first 2 weeks on there. I usually keep phrendly open in another browser if I'm in free chat & bored bc sometimes I'm getting messaged on there & making at least some chump change lol whereas while camming I don't make shit just sitting & waiting for a private. Maybe it'll pick up when everyone gets paid again, that's something I've noticed on Phrendly. It's slow & dead until the 1st or 15th then for a few days it gets crazy.
xxxGothBarbie
03-24-2017, 10:23 PM
So after they are in paid chat & they stop responding , do I close the chats to help me keep up with my other guys messaging me or ?
MistressX
03-25-2017, 01:53 PM
you dont have to close them... sometimes theyll buy more credits when they run out.
I wouldnt recommend splitting with SM. if youre in a pvt on SM and youre typing to someone else its going to look bad and your customer might get mad. On Arousr you have 30 seconds to respond to guys messages and if you get into a conversation with a guy you cant leave. If you close the chat and he is still talking to you I notice that when you log back in, on the computer anyway, his message still comes through and it will count against you as a missed message. So if you already have a chat open with a guy, he can end the convo but you cant. If he chooses to keep the conversation going and youre not there.. it will show up in your chat logs as a missed message with 3600 as the response time and it will be highlighted in yellow.
Just my experience and observations. The platform definitely could use some work, I'm just not sure how open Linda is to suggestions. It makes business sense to try to prevent the girls from prematurely ending chats... but sucks when you have guys who are asking for illegal stuff or being harassing or whatever. I'm not sure how to block screen names, you might have to ask Linda to do it for you. I hate that you cant just do it yourself.
xxxGothBarbie
03-25-2017, 05:16 PM
you dont have to close them... sometimes theyll buy more credits when they run out.
I wouldnt recommend splitting with SM. if youre in a pvt on SM and youre typing to someone else its going to look bad and your customer might get mad. On Arousr you have 30 seconds to respond to guys messages and if you get into a conversation with a guy you cant leave. If you close the chat and he is still talking to you I notice that when you log back in, on the computer anyway, his message still comes through and it will count against you as a missed message. So if you already have a chat open with a guy, he can end the convo but you cant. If he chooses to keep the conversation going and youre not there.. it will show up in your chat logs as a missed message with 3600 as the response time and it will be highlighted in yellow.
Just my experience and observations. The platform definitely could use some work, I'm just not sure how open Linda is to suggestions. It makes business sense to try to prevent the girls from prematurely ending chats... but sucks when you have guys who are asking for illegal stuff or being harassing or whatever. I'm not sure how to block screen names, you might have to ask Linda to do it for you. I hate that you cant just do it yourself.
oh ok thanks :) good to know! Ya I worked 3 hrs last night & omg did i get overwhelmed, it said my avg reply was 20 sec but still my brain def needed a break after that much time on there. I'm still not at 15 hrs yet for this week so I dunno how in the hell I'm gonna pull it off by tm at midnight when she told me to send in my payment request. I'm on my period, feel like shit and just can't handle the stress that site demands right now. I only closed them if they hadn't replied back after awhile & after it said customer needs more credits to message me. I just logged off bc I literally had a headache from trying to keep up with everything.
How do you handle when guys want a pic of a specific thing right then & there when you don't have one uploaded in your pvt gallery to share? I just told them I was new & couldn't upload one just yet. I'm scared Linda will can me though since I'm still trying to just keep up & not miss any messages or piss any custys off. Maybe she'll not be too hard on me lol
MistressX
03-26-2017, 03:15 PM
My experience was the same. However I think after your first week youll want that to continue, youll be wanting to be inundated with guys and wont be. I have been on for many hours the last few days and hardly had anything. They really need to start paying for some advertising...
Thats a problem I have too and I cant really give you an answer. I've had guys get mad and leave because I couldnt upload pics on the fly on the computer. I think its really short sighted not to be able to have a picture upload feature while you are online chatting. Makes no sense.. Just try to take a lot of pics and upload a ton of stuff you think guys might wanna see while they are talking to you. If they ask just tell them the system makes you log off completely in order to upload pics. Usually they understand.
space_cowgirl
03-27-2017, 09:48 AM
An FYI - Linda doesn't want us talking publicly about Arousr (it was in a message a year or so ago, though we have every right to do so, of course), so I would suggest we revive the private group "PSO Land". Just don't want anyone who might have the same name there to get in trouble.
Lacey-
03-27-2017, 11:37 AM
I I'm thinking of signing up but wanted to know is it literally setting from your pc as I don't have an android phone. Do you have to offer cam and phone sex too or can you choose to just text? Thanks x
space_cowgirl
03-28-2017, 08:10 AM
I I'm thinking of signing up but wanted to know is it literally setting from your pc as I don't have an android phone. Do you have to offer cam and phone sex too or can you choose to just text? Thanks x
Yes, I only use my desktop. I'm not sure if you can only do texting or not.
MistressX
03-28-2017, 01:20 PM
I didnt know there was a no discussion clause. Wonder why that is.. I am not in any groups currently but am up to join one
xxxGothBarbie
04-01-2017, 02:11 AM
How do you guys handle when you get calls & texts at the same time from different members? I'm trying to reply to everyone but when I get slammed it's hard to keep my sexy focus on the phone & worry about the 30 sec thing.
blondhottie
04-09-2017, 04:17 AM
I have tried to apply here twice and got no response both times. Bummer because I signed up with Dreamlover a week ago and have gotten nothing yet, and nothing lately on Sextpanther either.
AvaRenee
04-09-2017, 04:42 AM
I literally JUST signed up with Phrendly. Who knows what will come of this?
https://www.phrendly.com/tf/kmLo28
xxxGothBarbie
04-18-2017, 09:41 PM
Does anyone know if we can raise our rates on here for the phone calls? Thanks
melanielive
05-30-2017, 10:31 AM
I was just checking out that site but it doesn t say girls get paid to sext there... or u just signed up to find new custies?
space_cowgirl
06-06-2017, 11:58 AM
Yes, you get paid to sext. The site, and the lady you work with (Linda) leave a lot to be desired.
kortneykay
06-06-2017, 02:27 PM
Does anyone know if we can raise our rates on here for the phone calls? Thanks
No everything is set in stone when you're hired. There is a feedback section so perhaps with enough mentioning it, they will allow a raise for phone.
space_cowgirl
06-08-2017, 05:00 PM
No, they don't send a 1099. You could email
[email protected] to check on your application.
melanielive
06-12-2017, 04:11 AM
Is it just me or the phone connection quality is pretty bad there?
I get guys calling me and like it breaks up and cannot hear them well they hang up or give me bad reviews... smh
Bambi7
06-12-2017, 05:36 AM
Is it just me or the phone connection quality is pretty bad there?
I get guys calling me and like it breaks up and cannot hear them well they hang up or give me bad reviews... smh
Yes this has been happening to me. Same with texts. They will text me but no messages will show up. I've missed out on money this way :/
Bridgetxo
06-13-2017, 12:52 PM
Can anyone tell me about how long it takes for Linda to contact you? I applied and was accepted. I set up my profile and uploaded all necessary pictures 3 days ago.
space_cowgirl
06-13-2017, 12:59 PM
Short answer = who knows. You can try emailing her. She'll want to do a phone call with you to "walk you through" the site.
xxxGothBarbie
06-13-2017, 01:05 PM
Are the phone/video calls down right now??
space_cowgirl
06-14-2017, 05:56 AM
Video is down.
blondhottie
06-14-2017, 10:30 AM
I've tried to sign up for Arousr 3 times now and never got any response! I don't know why-I'm not ugly lol. Oh well, I give up.
melanielive
06-18-2017, 12:28 PM
Is it just me or many times the phone connection quality sucks??
I get a few guys calling but I either don t hear a thing or the call breaks up and I cannot understand them so they hang up....
There are a lot of times when I feel just doing text and don t do phone at all if the connection is gonna be bad and I m gonna get a bad rating for a 10 secs call....
Bambi7
06-18-2017, 03:48 PM
I'm having such a hard time lately. I started out making great money with ease. It slowly got slower which is expected and I had some regulars. The past 2 weeks have been rough though, I've been getting texts from guys and as soon as I respond it says they are out of credits. It has been happening so much! They also call and the connection is bad and thr call drops. It's so frustrating!
xxxGothBarbie
06-18-2017, 07:56 PM
How do you deal with the new custys w/ free credits, get $10 conversion deal? That shit burns me out bc I know I've had several of them buy more credits with me & I didn't get my $10 except maybe twice.
Bambi7
06-22-2017, 01:35 PM
Can anyone help me figure out how to update my pics? I have been working solely through the app since I got hired. I never did the walk through so I have no idea how to sign in through the website so I can change my pics. I don't even see a log in for chat hosts on the arousr site. Pls help!
space_cowgirl
06-22-2017, 03:02 PM
How do you deal with the new custys w/ free credits, get $10 conversion deal? That shit burns me out bc I know I've had several of them buy more credits with me & I didn't get my $10 except maybe twice.
I would email Linda and ask how you can get on the conversion list and what the guidelines are for the program.
Bridgetxo
06-22-2017, 04:20 PM
Linda finally got back to me about my profile. She said the pics I submitted are too big and to resubmit everything with smaller pics. Does anyone know how big the files can be? I submitted a mix of pics I took with my cell phone and pics I took with my DSLR. I'm guessing the DSLR pics are too big but I have no idea how small to make them.
kortneykay
06-22-2017, 05:17 PM
I'd just do 600x whatever and keep it on aspect ratio change so it's not distorted. Medium is good. Anything over 1000 tends to load slow up get rejected.
Arwen25
07-17-2017, 05:47 AM
I've been working this site for a couple of weeks now..it's definitely a different hustle lol.
Doing OK, but it is very low pay. Make sure you've got a good range of photos before starting otherweise it just gets stressful!
I had a couple of questions: do you get guys to tip for dirty photos or do you get the talking for a bit first? I find, especially with younger guys, that they just want nudes straight away and not any of the chat or build up..A lot of the time they only have $3 in their account, then we don't get very far and it's pretty pointless for me.I do send dirty photos, but I want to make sure some chat is established first.
Also, I think I'm right in thinking that outside the US and Canada minimum for wirse transfer is $500? I guess it'll be nice when I reach that but argh!!
Do you use Arosr while waiting for privates on other sites? If it's quiet and I turn it on, I inevitably find that a private show request comes in (which I'm obviosuly going to prioritise) and the guy I'm chatting with wonders where I've gone..I mean, I can muti-task, but that's a level I don't think I can manage!
Just wondering what everyone's experience was with this?
I'm thinking it may be best to keep Arousr for when I simply can't cam (heavy shark week, at parents, etc. ) Woul appreciate any feedback or experiences :) X
AmeliaAnnxoxo
07-20-2017, 10:23 AM
I've been working this site for a couple of weeks now..it's definitely a different hustle lol.
Doing OK, but it is very low pay. Make sure you've got a good range of photos before starting otherweise it just gets stressful!
I had a couple of questions: do you get guys to tip for dirty photos or do you get the talking for a bit first? I find, especially with younger guys, that they just want nudes straight away and not any of the chat or build up..A lot of the time they only have $3 in their account, then we don't get very far and it's pretty pointless for me.I do send dirty photos, but I want to make sure some chat is established first.
Also, I think I'm right in thinking that outside the US and Canada minimum for wirse transfer is $500? I guess it'll be nice when I reach that but argh!!
Do you use Arosr while waiting for privates on other sites? If it's quiet and I turn it on, I inevitably find that a private show request comes in (which I'm obviosuly going to prioritise) and the guy I'm chatting with wonders where I've gone..I mean, I can muti-task, but that's a level I don't think I can manage!
Just wondering what everyone's experience was with this?
I'm thinking it may be best to keep Arousr for when I simply can't cam (heavy shark week, at parents, etc. ) Woul appreciate any feedback or experiences :) X
The picture thing is completely up to you. When the "send nudes" guys pop up, I already know they're not gonna spend money, so why waste your time giving them what they want? I usually respond with "let's get to know each other before I send you pics". They're trying to use their free credits for pics so you better believe I'm gonna make them waste their free credits. I try to keep them talking and if they keep asking for pics, I tell them that my pics come at a price then I tell them my tip price. They NEVER pay it. When they try to haggle me down to free, I tell them (nicely) if they want free pics, they can try google. I've actually had a guy hear my price then respond with "how about a pic of your pussy for a pic of my dick". Like in what universe did he think that would work?
These rules are completely up to you, if you want to send them for $.20 then that's fine, but you're on there to make money so why not upcharge for a nude pic? Know your worth and stick to it. Those guys who are looking for freebies aren't worth your wasted time.
Bambi7
07-22-2017, 08:45 AM
Wow this week has been unusually slow for me! I'm not sure if its because the app keeps logging me out, or it's just a slow week?
Arwen25
07-22-2017, 09:33 AM
Hi Amelia, thank you for your reply darling - that is excellent advice. I haven't quite got the hang of sexting sites yet, it's definitely a different kind of hustle. On cam once they're in private I know how to work it so it's profitable for me but they're still happy.. You also keep an eye on the amount increasing. I hope like camming, the v hustle will come with practise!! I tried what you suggested in my just shift and it worked really well.. I got mainly sissies and they didn't ask for photos.. The only cheapo revealed himself as soon as I mentioned wanting to chat before getting to sending photos.
Bambi: I'm new to the site so not sure what is considered slow. I didn't have anything for the first 20 minutes then had two on the go about an hour. Nothing now though. I've only ever worked about three hours in a day. X
AmeliaAnnxoxo
07-22-2017, 09:51 AM
Hi Amelia, thank you for your reply darling - that is excellent advice. I haven't quite got the hang of sexting sites yet, it's definitely a different kind of hustle. On cam once they're in private I know how to work it so it's profitable for me but they're still happy.. You also keep an eye on the amount increasing. I hope like camming, the v hustle will come with practise!! I tried what you suggested in my just shift and it worked really well.. I got mainly sissies and they didn't ask for photos.. The only cheapo revealed himself as soon as I mentioned wanting to chat before getting to sending photos.
Bambi: I'm new to the site so not sure what is considered slow. I didn't have anything for the first 20 minutes then had two on the go about an hour. Nothing now though. I've only ever worked about three hours in a day. X
Awesome, I'm glad it worked for you! It'll become easier once you get the hang of it, I find that writing is much easier because you can be watching Netflix or whatever on your end and hey have no idea. With camming, you have to completely act a certain way, which doesn't bother me, but with sexting you can completely be lazy haha. And it has been a little slow, I think it just depends on the day, time of day, whether it's a holiday or pay week etc. But I know there have also been problems with the site so maybe a little of both.
Arwen25
08-16-2017, 05:06 AM
I'm trying, I really am. A new thing I'm trying is making sure they spend $6 before I send them any teasing/partially clothed snaps..I figure I wouldn't get boobs out until then on cam, anyway.
Just got a call from one of the few English guys I've had on this app..After 2 minutes he was like: "Are they charging me for this?" No darling, I do phone sex for free..FFS. It annoyed me so much I hung up lol. Finally made the $500 payout so that was good!
melanielive
08-26-2017, 03:31 AM
I'm trying, I really am. A new thing I'm trying is making sure they spend $6 before I send them any teasing/partially clothed snaps..I figure I wouldn't get boobs out until then on cam, anyway.
Just got a call from one of the few English guys I've had on this app..After 2 minutes he was like: "Are they charging me for this?" No darling, I do phone sex for free..FFS. It annoyed me so much I hung up lol. Finally made the $500 payout so that was good!
I got a guy once asking me " r u getting paid for this"? lol and I thought it was obvious so I said " Yes I am" and he hung up LOL
melanielive
08-26-2017, 03:34 AM
is it me or since they started that 10.00 bonus from turning " free customers" into paying ones ( when guys get more credits after the initial free credits run out) there r a lot more cheapos there??
Also, now they say that girls with 10 messages average conversation might get their account deleted and my # keeps going down cause I get a lot of guys on chat that either ask for phone and they hung up after a minute or they want free pics, etc....
Don't u guys think it s unfair for us to have our accounts shut down cause a bunch of cheap jackasses have invaded the site lately??