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Fridays
07-20-2012, 07:51 AM
the reason why I have limits now is because I realized they are not worth the money.
I came to realize that people who have out of the ordinary requests dont really have alot to spend for it.
GlitteryGoddess
07-20-2012, 08:02 AM
the reason why I have limits now is because I realized they are not worth the money.
I came to realize that people who have out of the ordinary requests dont really have alot to spend for it.
That is also very, very true. And so easy to forget.
kinkydirtybitch
07-20-2012, 11:08 PM
the reason why I have limits now is because I realized they are not worth the money.
I came to realize that people who have out of the ordinary requests dont really have alot to spend for it.
And the beautiful thing is the inverse is true - as with life, some guys who have a niche fetish don't mind paying out of the ass for it, whether on cam or in real life so for some of us it's well worth the money but ONLY if it's within your boundaries
Break 'em enough & you will learn why not to.
Classy_Katy
07-21-2012, 01:26 AM
For me that's the difference between the guys who want the freak show - wanting to see all the weird and wonderful things you can do but are cheap (want it all and right now), and the guys who want a show that satisfies their niche fetish, are willing to pay for it and take their time enjoying it.
GlitteryGoddess
07-21-2012, 03:31 AM
For me, there is a huge difference in guys with a fetish and guys wanting a freakshow. The freakshow guys want everything-omfg-tits-ass-mouth-toys-gag-puke-shit-pee for $1. The fetish guys will pay and are respectful.
ManyRoses
07-22-2012, 02:52 PM
My limits are actually fairly fluid. It may make it a little confusing for the customers, but frankly, screw 'em! LOL...what I mean by that is - if I usually do anal with fingers, but say no one day because I have been having an unhappy stomach and just took an immodium, well, that is my prerogative. I'm not going to log off completely because I have a sore throat, so I can't deepthroat - I want the money that I can make doing everything else. But I'm not going to force a deepthroat on a day where it would hurt. If the customers can't understand that I am a human, not a bot, then I don't want them in my room anyway.
My limits are also flexible because it comes down to where I am doing the show and how much I am being paid. I will do more in skype shows and clips, because I don't do anything on SM that is against the rules - it's not worth a suspension. I also do more in skype because I know that I have been pre-paid for a certain amount of time - there is no way that I will start a messy/morally ambiguous show, then get cut off after 3 minutes and be left with a pathetic amount of money for what I just did.
The limits that I do have are usually based around my physical health/pain tolerance.
Under no circumstances will I do ANYTHING that hurts me. Ever. That means that I only do well-lubed anal with very small toys, and if it starts to get sore, I will end the show. End of story - I'm not tearing my ass open for a few bucks. Ditto heel-fucking, and using any objects for penetration that are not entirely smooth and/or rounded. I'm not going to risk even a tiny tear from a rough bit of vegetable peel that could get infected. I don't do atm, or switch up anal and vaginal/oral toys for health reasons - I am not risking a week off work throwing up or dealing with a facial staff infection because I was sucking on my anal plug. I don't do pain play, bondage, etc for the same reason - I don't want to deal with people asking me to hurt or bruise myself. I also do not do piercing play, even though it confuses people. NO, I will not take my nipple piercings out. They are incredibly sensitive, and I am not risking rejection or keloiding to get you off. Feck off!
Beyond the physical health boundaries, I have a few that are entirely to do with practicality, and money vs time. Messy shows, shower shows, shows where I move my camera around, creating entirely new set ups, etc are just not generally worth the set up time, unless the guy is going to hang out in private throughout set up. I will occasionally do messy shows if I am about to log off, or if I am offered extra money/block sessions. I also do not do smoking shows, although I do smoke and make smoking clips - because I don't smoke in the house, and I don't want to stink up my cam room and get smoke in my computer!! Similarly, I don't destroy stuff - costumes, stockings, panties - or do anything to myself that cannot be reversed within the 30 sec back-to-free countdown - shaving, cutting hair, removing nail polish, etc.
There are a few boundaries that are pretty solid, but that I may alter for a VAST amount of money (we are talking in the hundreds of thousands) - these include peeing, pooping (although not eating, or smearing the poop on myself), period play, fisting, anal with a dildo, and family based roleplay (with the caveat that all members are playing someone who is over 16, and willing).
Then there are those limits that are absolute - no amount of money would persuade me to break these lines.
- Animals (including crushing animals). Sorry, I wouldn't be able to look my babies in the face. I once allowed a guy to stay in a show when he was talking about dogs (I was JUST starting, and was a little....uncertain) and I felt like throwing up for about a week after that...and that wasn't me talking or doing anything, that was just HIM talking about dogs. Regret that one.
- Children. I will do 16+ because I was very sexually active at that age, and because I have done some "schoolgirl" roleplay in my own personal life - neither myself or my partner have any interest in ACTUAL girls that young, obviously, but the play was fun. However, I would never, ever be able to portray a child younger than 16.
- Snuff. It just crosses a line for me.
- Anything that gives me that little "off" feeling. This is very customer specific, and a hard one to pin down. There are times when I can spend time with one customer talking about making him eat my shit, but the next guy who starts talking about cleaning my toilet just sets off little alarm bells. I have worked in the industry long enough to have a well-developed spider sense about the times that guys will pull out a phrase that will leave me retching for days, and I cut those guys off instantly, even if they have done nothing wrong so far. When I don't, those are the ones that will start talking about animals, murder, etc. Its the same as working in the strip club and anticipating the asshole who is about to whip his rig out.
- My last limit is an odd one - I won't do ANY sub work. It's odd because in rl, I am a sub, so you would think that I would enjoy it! But when I have done it in the past, I have then found that when I am with my partner, it starts to get weird - the lines between work and play blur a little. I have to be honest, I don't really get off on what I do, I just want the money, and it actually creeps me out a little if I start to get off on the interaction (rather than, say, the physical stimulation of a hitachi). I feel almost guilty - like I am cheating, not working. And because my SO and I indulge in sub play a lot, if I do it on cam, I feel that I am crossing a line - that I am bringing my real life into the cam room. I know that a lot of girls really DO get off on the interaction, and love that aspect of it, and there is nothing wrong with that, but I will actually set limits on the stuff that may feel a little too good - a little too close to home. I save my sub side for my SO, and I always will.
justanothercamgirl
07-23-2012, 08:19 PM
Interesting about the religious thing. I was raised Catholic too, and I still can't get that 'morally wrong' feeling out of my head. I don't see anything wrong with it on a personal level, but I guess the strict morals are still engrained in my head, because I can't do it/feel a bit mentally ill at the thought of doing it.
I was raised Roman Catholic. I was also confirmed and had seriously considered becoming a nun before life took me on a different path.
I also have zero problem with religious role-playing. In fact, at the risk of being struck with lighting where I stand I will even go as far to confess I actually find it to be sexy fun.
Isn't it funny how we can start off in similar type situations and end up at completely different end points.
BlondebombGA
08-14-2012, 01:24 PM
I'm so glad this thread was started. My definite limits are anything extreme. For me this includes anal/dp/pee/poo/ and the like. I had thought I was pretty open to Roleplay minus racism and religious stuff, but that changed as of last week. I'm in my late 30's and have natural DD tits. I'm the furthest from childlike a custy could find. Therefore I was in the mindset that, by doing extreme underage roleplay he truly is just working through some stuff or he would find a girl who looks prepubescent. I know there are some out there. What began as teasing got deeper and more extreme, and although I stand by my thought that...no way can it be believed because of my appearance...I just felt I had personally gone too far. It wasn't worth it for me, and I won't be doing anything past age play teasing from now on.
I see a common thread here that many of you don't go near ageplay, so perhaps I'm the extreme one here. Lol
temptingmodel
08-14-2012, 03:17 PM
You took the words right from me TY! :)
My limits are pretty much a) will this get me banned on this site, and b) will this injure/threaten my health in some way?
Other than that I am pretty open, no pun intended :D
In terms of hard limits (in a general sense), I do think for enough money I might bend the rules. But it depends on what's going on. For example, I would never engage in beastiality or pedophilia for any amount of money because I feel that is abuse/rape of the innocent. In that case, it's more imposing on/breaking the limits of others though.
blueroo
08-15-2012, 06:47 AM
I like what ManyRoses said and I feel similarly, I think.
I won't engage in actual illegal/immoral acts such as but not limited to the obvious: necro, bestiality, pedo, or anything that will cause permanent harm to me, my client, or anyone/anything else (such as animals).
I choose to not engage in anal, penetration with toys, scat/golden shower, squirting, real orgasms, submission. I pee/poo are just not what I want to be recorded doing. Haha. And banned on many sites.... I don't do the other things because they are personal for me. I save my orgasms, my submission, anal, penetration, and squirting for my monogamous long term relationship. It might sound goofy but it keeps me sane, keeps me with solid boundaries.
I know a LOT of guys come to me with diaper/adult baby fetishes because other girls won't do it--too close to darker things in their minds? not sure. I find it fun and innocent. I'll do age roleplay. If I were single I might consider doing submission roleplay but I'm not sure. My persona is a Domme. I like to keep the worlds separate. I know some submissives who cam as subs... and their partners are aware, and encourage it and support them. I don't feel like mine would, and I have no desire to submit to ANYONE else... so... it's a limit.
Audrina Parks
08-16-2012, 08:53 PM
I do not do pee/poo/vomit/child/animal/spitting on tits/ racial abuse/anal/dp/fisting. Likewise, despite the great money potential, I do not touch the world of dom and sub with a 10 foot pole, as it is too much of a mind- fuck for me. Adult diaper baby gets on my LAST nerve for some reason. Finally, I do not do humiliations of any kind.
neliana
08-16-2012, 08:59 PM
Adult baby gets on my last nerve too lol. Really wish I wasn't so weirded out by it because I get requests for it pretty frequently! Props to the girls that do that fetish, there must be some good $ in it!
hf487
08-17-2012, 07:00 AM
im so glad ive set boundaries it gives u a sense of power saying no to something!
I dont do
- Squirting
- roleplay involving rape/incest/racial
- DP
- Anything really messy or something that would take too long to do for an obviously short show
- anal with big toys
- pee/poop/vomit/blood
- anything really humiliating
- no big toys
I do anal rarely but sometimes if the guy isn't pushy and is a good customer i'll do it with small toys.
Im not really into SUB if the guys is a dick about it or asks for too much but if he is kool about it and pays
then i'll do the normal stuff but no smacking pussy or anything that will hurt or be really embarassing.
I don't Like to spit it's too messy but if you catch me at the end of the night then yah i will spit on my tits or whatever.
Im sure i could think of more but thats about my list. Oh and i don't like to cum for real when on cam sometimes i do but
i like to save those for my relationship too.
Thanks god for them they really do keep me sane and allow me to work day in and day out.....
ManyRoses
08-17-2012, 08:53 PM
I had an interesting situation this week with a new client, and it made me think of this thread....I'd love to hear your limits around the following situation:
A guy comes in and asks for "stories" from me all the time - being one of those guys that just gets off more on the words than the visuals. Usually I tell stories about sex in public, threesomes, group sex, voyeur clubs, etc etc. Your standard my-life-is-a-penthouse-letter stuff.
So one day, we were in pvt, and he was being told about the first time that I had a threesome with two guys, and a second customer comes in and listens to the story.
Now bachelor number two comes back in and asks for stories, but they are all "tell me about the first time that you....". Seeing as I actually tell the truth, for the most part, and I got started pretty young, some of these stories are now starting to cross over into talking about being underage.
I'm really not sure how I feel about this, or how this fits with my limits (I do not do ageplay, although I will do "schoolgirl" fantasy stuff, when the age is specified as over 16). He is not asking me to ROLEPLAY being 13, he is not fixated on the age part of things (he always asks, but he also asks what I was wearing, how much I weighed at the time, what color the room was painted, what brand the condom was.....he's just really into the details!), and he is happy to hear about the "first times" that happened after age 16 or 18. He's not even involving himself in the scenario or the story - he literally just listens and asks for details occasionally. And I am not naked while talking, or even telling them in a "sexy" way - I tell them the same way that I would tell a friend if they asked.
Would you girls consider this age-play if you were asked to do it? Would you talk about your first time if that "first time story" featured you as a minor?
At the end of the day, my limits on things that aren't damaging or illegal are based on how I feel doing them or considering doing them, and this doesn't set off that shudder-button, so I'll continue to tell him stories for the time being....but I thought that it was a really interesting situation.
sweetgapeach
08-17-2012, 09:11 PM
Would you girls consider this age-play if you were asked to do it? Would you talk about your first time if that "first time story" featured you as a minor?
I have this guy who just talks to me sometimes too. Nothing sexual, camera on, not even jerking. Just wants to hear my wild crazy stories. I like those conversations ALOT!! I had my wild and crazy days in my youth and are not ashamed of speaking on them. It's funny though because, since he obviously isn't being sexually fulfilled by my conversations, I never thought of it as age play until I read your post. Guess it's something to ponder now....I always was just worried that all my stories would run out and he would not find me amusing anymore.
ManyRoses
08-17-2012, 09:39 PM
I have this guy who just talks to me sometimes too. Nothing sexual, camera on, not even jerking. Just wants to hear my wild crazy stories. I like those conversations ALOT!! I had my wild and crazy days in my youth and are not ashamed of speaking on them. It's funny though because, since he obviously isn't being sexually fulfilled by my conversations, I never thought of it as age play until I read your post. Guess it's something to ponder now....I always was just worried that all my stories would run out and he would not find me amusing anymore.
That's pretty much how I feel about it - I just got started pretty young! It got me thinking when I was telling a story about the "first bj" and realized that I was talking about a 12-13 year old....usually I would be swinging the banhammer if someone mentioned that age!
Classy_Katy
08-18-2012, 07:43 AM
I have guys wanting to hear about my early experiences too...they are getting off on it, and at worst they can use it to justify behaviour to themselves because we are confirming that minors can have sexual feelings and consent, albeit not legally. For that reason I feel it can be more dangerous than age play, since that is just a fantasy situation.
TheVixen
08-18-2012, 12:13 PM
I have guys wanting to hear about my early experiences too...they are getting off on it, and at worst they can use it to justify behaviour to themselves because we are confirming that minors can have sexual feelings and consent, albeit not legally. For that reason I feel it can be more dangerous than age play, since that is just a fantasy situation.
This actually happened to me a couple nights ago. A couple guys asked me how young I was when I first had sex and asked me questions about it. Then they were asking some questions about later experiences.
I didn't really think it was weird until I read your post.
BlondebombGA
08-19-2012, 08:10 PM
Well, I think SPH just became a new limit. I always enjoyed it until tonight. I had my first SPH where he wanted me to open his cam. I was pretty damn mean, and I feel GUILTY! It was unusually little...really, really little and I felt sad for him afterwards. I almost feel like I've somehow scarred my own Karma or something. I know he comes online to pay for it, but I almost wanted to talk about his feelings regarding his "issue" instead. Lol. Guess I'm just more of a softy than I want to believe.
ManyRoses
08-20-2012, 11:44 AM
Well, I think SPH just became a new limit. I always enjoyed it until tonight. I had my first SPH where he wanted me to open his cam. I was pretty damn mean, and I feel GUILTY! It was unusually little...really, really little and I felt sad for him afterwards. I almost feel like I've somehow scarred my own Karma or something. I know he comes online to pay for it, but I almost wanted to talk about his feelings regarding his "issue" instead. Lol. Guess I'm just more of a softy than I want to believe.
Aw! You are so sweet.....but don't feel guilty - he is enjoying it! He is asking for it!!!
I always feel bad if I am doing SPH in pvt and someone else pops into the room - they haven't asked for it, so I'm guessing that being told that shaving isn't fooling anyone into thinking it's a normal dick, but at least it'll make it easier to find when they need to pee.....probably killed the hard on for the day!
BlondebombGA
08-20-2012, 11:31 PM
Thanks ManyRoses. I'll try to keep that in mind. :)
EvelynHeartsYou
02-03-2013, 06:22 PM
I don't do:
Anal
Incest
Underage play
Panty Stuffing
Spanking
Receiving humiliation
Anything submissive really :P
Deep throat
DP
Blood
Scat/piss
Beastiality
Vomit
Racial slurs
Huge toys
Blackmail
Snowy0Star
02-03-2013, 07:15 PM
wow eve - what did u put in the search box to necro this thread lol
zivlet
02-03-2013, 07:30 PM
I CAN'T do (so I by default won't)!
Gagging (I'm not good at it and find it painful)
Squirting
Toys in ass (I'll finger my ass or pretend to, I found out about this when a guy thought I had my finger in my ass and I hadn't, and he said 'ooh fingering of ass, NICE)!I wouldn't normally do this.
Animals (even pretending, it would probably make me cry)!
big toys, or a lot of the time, if I use anything, I just pretend! I don't own a vibrator or dildo and if a guy asks, I use one of my boyfriend's truncheons!But I put the cam on just my pussy, and I pump my hand up and down as if it's actually going in when it's just touching. I'm small down there, and extremely sensitive, I won't hurt myself for money.
I WON'T do;
Piss. I don't want to be cleaning that up-I hate the scent of piss and I can't imagine it being easy to clean up-if I missed something and could smell it the next day , ugh!
Scat (I find it too embarrassing).
Vomit -it affects health-health is more important than money
I do;
Most other fetishes
Ageplay -to a point!Some guy the other day wanted to have underage porn on in the background, I wouldn't have that.However I look younger on cam, I have a chubby round face, small boobs, small ass even though I'm not even anywhere near the weight/size I want to be-it works for me and I make more money if I do ageplay. I see it as, if a guy can get his kick of watching me, a grown woman pretending to be young, even if he's inclined to be devious, he's less likely to be if people like me can give him that kick without deviating.
Most roleplay , I am a fair actress and will get into character
Sub/Dom although I'm not so good at that-most variations I can do.
I've probably missed something. Disclaimer, to girls who can do the things I can't, or will do the things I won't, I pass NO judgement at all. Just me and everybody is different and has different needs and different levels of comfort.
EvelynHeartsYou
02-03-2013, 08:01 PM
wow eve - what did u put in the search box to necro this thread lol
It's not THAT old if you look at the dates, compared to 2 year old necro bumps :P I figured it was time to bump it since we've been getting a lot of questions about boundaries, limits, and legalities from our new girls.
SweetLilyRaven
12-10-2013, 12:39 PM
Evelyn - thank you for reviving this thread! I've always been interested in what the other girls are doing in their shows, but I didn't want to ask because limits can be very personal. Because I'm a relative newbie to camming, I'm so glad to see that you all can stick to your limits while still earning money. I'm a sub in real life and I've seen a LOT in the last two years of playing monthly at a local dungeon...and I'd developed a pretty set hard-limits list for my real life play. I thought it would be the same list for camming, but I'm finding that it's got some big differences. I wish I could get more D/s shows - I don't know how much more blatant I can get without writing SUB on my forehead at the start of my shift. I am completely against playing with animals, but...I did just let a guy pay me to watch him get fucked BY his dog last week. If it had been the other way around - he was fucking the dog - I would have banned his ass. If it's only talk, then I have no issue with it...it's not something I'll ever engage in, but if they just want to talk about it, then it's not harming anyone.
I'm working on developing a Domme personality but it's a real struggle for me. I just enjoy being submissive far too much. I also have no issue with pain, bondage, degradation and humiliation (which I never seem to get!), and most of what other women have listed...like another poster said - "One girl's limit is another girl's niche!"
My limits so far:
Scat and vomit
Crushing
Incest
Any type of ageplay (as a mom, I just cannot fathom it myself...but no judgement of others!)
Anal - unless it's scheduled and preplanned, or I know I'm going to be doing it with hubby or boyfriend later that night
Vore/Snuff
ADL - but I have no issue with lactation fantasies and bonus since I can still get some milk out a year after I stopped nursing!
IvyRose
12-10-2013, 01:09 PM
Some I had to learn the hard way; as in doing it once and knowing immediatly even while getting ready I didnt liked it at all. But as a newbie I found it hard to reject a request. It has been a good lesson to learn how to say no :D
My limits:
animals (why even think about it)
leaving marks
hitting myself at any other place than my ass
inserting any other object than my toys or fingers
not more than 4max (and will play this one out one at a time) fingers at a time
ageplay below 18
incest
vomit
hard gagging (I learned this the hard way... and puked one time from it- gross.. the guy wanted me to keep doing it- even more gross)
any toilet play
druss/alchohol (why do they even ask?)
farting
My soft boundaries (so normally I dont do them) - can be passed by a very good member (as in a very good payment)
anal with normal sized toy (instead of a little one)
pantystuffing
fingers in ass (dont like it at all! not even one)
oiling myself up (dont like the feeling)
hitting myself on my ass with an paddle
hitting myself on my ass and turning it red (my best regular requested it- I dont mind pain but I do mind having to take time of letting it get back at the normal colour)
wearing no makeup at all on request
smoking
having a normal chat (I dont like getting personal at all)
drinking my own squirt (should be a best regular though)
daddyplay - I dont do it when I get a "weird fibe" or when it gets to graphic - I only do it when it feel innocent. And it helps that English isnt my motherlanguage, I coudnt have done it otherwise (for some reason I always liked the word as sort of a nickname)
schoolgirl - same as above I dont like it when the guys get creepy on me
thats all I can think of for now
But since the guys are so good in finding new gross things to ask I wont be suprised I will find out about new ones!
Camigirl
12-10-2013, 01:15 PM
OH God, Oh Lord please don't be angry with me but I am having a very very hard time reading what you wrote about the guy and his dog SweetLilyraven. I do dog rescue/training and own many, so coming from my background it's so very hard to understand why anyone would abuse an animal. I will drop that there. Oh my. Poor poor dog.
My limits change with my mood. I think some limits do change with a performer at times.
I will never, no way, ever do or tolerate any sort of animal talk that is sexual. EVER.
1) Animals = huge taboo for me, and a harsh ban forever for the idiot
2) underage = I (talking about my feelings) feel like a pedo. if I go there.
3) SCAT = gross to me, it smells and it's messy... embarrassing.
4) Urination = no, just don't want to make a mess with piss, and most sites say no anyway.
5) gagging = Never. Does not feel good.
6) Vomit (Roman Fetish) Gross, never.
7) Simulating abuse on my body. If it does not feel good I won't do it.
8) Period play. Never say never in my case. Did cam during Shark Week a few nights ago in pvts. Not bad.
9) Race play. Not interested, I have many friends who are of many races.
10) Incest. Not for me.
11) Anal. Have used butt plugs in privates. Not really into it.
12) Being a Sub. I can not work under orders from a customer telling me what to do. I tried, not for me. I dislike it very much.
13) Squirting = I can squirt an ocean. But don't like the cleanup. Rarely will I squirt.
That's all I can think of right now. I seem to limit myself much. But I chose to be a sweet sex kitten kinda woman I guess. Sounds boring I know.
SweetLilyRaven
12-10-2013, 01:41 PM
Double post - sorry...
SweetLilyRaven
12-10-2013, 01:55 PM
OH God, Oh Lord please don't be angry with me but I am having a very very hard time reading what you wrote about the guy and his dog SweetLilyraven. I do dog rescue/training and own many, so coming from my background it's so very hard to understand why anyone would abuse an animal. I will drop that there. Oh my. Poor poor dog.
Oh, trust me, I get it..I really really really hate animal abusers. I rank them right up there with child rapists. He kind of sprung it on me...and in that split moment I made the choice to watch it. My rationale was that the dog was the one doing the act on the guy, not the other way around. As soon as he logged off, I sat there for a moment wondering WTF I had just witnessed and decided that if he came back to my room, I'd ban him simply because I don't want to see that shit again. I completely understand your horror at it...I'm still trying to figure out how to track him down and report his ass to the ASPCA.
I also moved a tiny bit into race play last week. I ABHOR the N word in real life...and it was for my very first custie who asked me to call him a big dicked N...I managed to choke out the word...and he could see from how awkward I was afterwards that it wasn't something I was okay with, so he thanked me for my valiant effort and that he wouldn't ask me to say it again (BIG relief!). I can now put it on the hard limit list and I'm glad "John" was so understanding...
MellyMay
12-10-2013, 02:23 PM
-anal. it's just not for me. and NATURALLY this is requested every fucking day.
- impregnation fetish.
-young age play/pedo stuff.
-MILF stuff. I'm not a fucking MILF, I hate kids, and being 30 (damn, 31 tmrw) does not mean I have kids
-calling people Daddy
-feeder fetish/ food consumption
-boy/girl content
-scat/golden shower stuff
-rape fantasies.
-no fan signs or writing dudes names on my body.
- NATURALLY, no paypal. lol.
-adult baby/diaper fantasies
-meeting custies outside of the web, IRL
-mom/son fantasies
prob some other stuff too.
Katie Desire
12-10-2013, 02:25 PM
Never forget, it's YOUR room, not theirs. You'd be surprised how often a guy hears "no" yet will still stick with you. Sometimes it builds respect and a certain kind of reputation. And....despite the money pressure we all feel, there are more fish in the sea!
MellyMay
12-10-2013, 02:25 PM
I'm working on developing a Domme personality but it's a real struggle for me. I just enjoy being submissive far too much.
I feel you girl. I kind of don't like sissy boys BUT I'm a great dom when I apply myself. Plus, I do NOT like being degraded by some asshole I've never met.
Katie Desire
12-10-2013, 02:33 PM
Curious: How do you roleplay Anorexia (not how can you justify it, actually what and how you do it?) Never heard of that one before...
Things I don't do:
- Vomming (I am NOT cleaning up the mess on my bedsheets)
- Scat/ass to mouth (ew)
- Pee (I did a pee show my first night cause I'd always been curious, but I don't think it's worth the risk of suspension)
- Rapeplay (I'm kink positive, but any guy who fantasises about raping girls is a problem and I'm not encouraging him)
- Pain (I have low pain threshholds)
- Squirting (I can't)
- Animals/kids (ew)
- Big toys in my ass (it's way too tight)
- Fisting (again, way too tight)
Things I do do:
- Anal
- DP
- General kink
- Racial humiliation
- Heel in pussy
- Anorexia (this one makes me sad as hell for the fetish existing, but better a guy wank off over me than an actual anorexic)
- Xenia Onatopp roleplay o.O
I've only had one pvt where I felt so uncomfortable I called time on it. The guy entered my chat and instantly started barking orders and kept on going with a constant stream of fairly abusive shit. I put up with it for a few minutes until he told me to tear my stockings. At that point I dropped character, told him he'd need to pay about 20 bucks more for me to do that and booted him from my room.
audritwo
12-10-2013, 02:36 PM
Curious: How do you roleplay Anorexia (not how can you justify it, actually what and how you do it?) Never heard of that one before...
Well, they want you to talk to them about your "eating disorder" and how hot it is. It's fucking sick. I didn't it was such thing until I started camming.
annikah
12-10-2013, 06:45 PM
I have different boundaries for phone, cam and clips. My phone gigs are the most open. I have yet to find a topic I won't discuss. I have refused a customer because he gave me the creeps, though, and was very graphic in his taboo fantasy, to the point I was convinced I was talking to an offender, and didn't want any part of that. My clips are a little more conservative. I haven't done many yet. Just a few vanilla ones, but I'd be willing to do more kink if it was asked for. Especially if I don't necessarily have to show my face. I won't do age play in a clip at all, though. No scat, rape, talking about kids/animals either. Live camming is where I run across the most boundaries. It would probably be easier to list the things that I will do, instead of won't, and even some of those requests won't be entertained if I'm not feeling it at the moment. Like sub play. I'm occasionally able to be a sub, if I'm in a mood that is pretty chipper, but if I'm having a bad day, I'm not going to make it worse by inviting someone to bark at me. I'm also okay with age play, as long as it is kept vague, and isn't extreme. I most definitely look like a woman (full bush, pregnancy stretch marks and all), not a kid, so if they want me to pretend to be younger, the visual they sought out in me tells me I'm probably not preforming for a pedo. If I get a bad vibe, though, or they want to be really graphic, it is a no. And I never do that kind of accomplice play at all. I also don't do full anal. I do anal teasing, but again, only when I'm in the mood. I don't gag or puke on live cam either, but I would consider it for a custom clip. Being picky about what I do is probably bad for my immediate bottom line, but really, I want to be in this for the long haul, and doing what I'm up to seems like the best approach to avoiding burn out.
I also don't do anything except nude chat/vanilla play/dirty talk in private. And anything fetish or taboo must be done in exclusive. Those limits are just there for business purposes, though.
SophieL
12-10-2013, 08:11 PM
I limit most everything to Exclusive or blocks only.
I will not to ATM at any price nor large toys anywhere in my body...
Certainly anything that can get me banned from site is off limits completely.
I do only nude boobs and BJ in private (about to change that too due to the 30 sec peepers).