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We had a rabbit like you
09-12-2016, 01:02 PM
Are we talking like morbidly obese here, or just thick/average weight dancers?

DonaDiabla
09-12-2016, 01:58 PM
No one was telling you to spend money on girls who you did not find attractive. My posts were a response to your body shaming not your taste in women. You like what you like. I was saying you do not have to body shaming chicks you do not like. Gosh, it took you awhile to answer the handsome question. Interesting.:)



Well, I'm not sure what in my post qualifies as a lie. I do think the term BBW, if anything, is a lie. It's just a politically correct term for fat. Given that strippers earn their money off their looks, I'm not sure why I shouldn't expect them to be at the top of their game. I mean, I'm supposed to spend $40 on a lap dance on someone I don't find sexy? You are right, you don't have to care about my opinions. But the reason the better clubs are strict on hiring because the customers' opinions are important. And to respond to the post topic, "Is there a place for BBW dancers?", in my opinion, there is not.

I'm not sure why you are so obsessed with my looks. Most strippers only care about the cash we spend. I'm actually reasonably handsome, I'm a software developer and earn quite a good living, though I'm certainly not rich, and my penis size is just a bit above average in size. If you are really that obsessed, I could send you a pic :)

SexxiLexxi
09-12-2016, 01:59 PM
After reading this thread....Some of the comments are just so disrespectful, hurtful, and ignorant. I think this is the first time I have ever been offended while reading a thread on SW.

If BBW, Milf, Gilf is not your thing....Move on. It is really that simple. There is no need to be a dick and make unnecessary comments...even if it is 'your opinion'. Didn't your parents ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say then shut the fuck up & move the fuck on?! Damn.

KaraLynn
09-12-2016, 02:07 PM
after reading this thread....some of the comments are just so disrespectful, hurtful, and ignorant. I think this is the first time i have ever been offended while reading a thread on sw.

If bbw, milf, gilf is not your thing....move on. It is really that simple. There is no need to be a dick and make unnecessary comments...even if it is 'your opinion'. Didn't your parents ever teach you that if you don't have anything nice to say then shut the fuck up & move the fuck on?! Damn.

fucking exactly.

gameover
09-12-2016, 02:17 PM
No one was telling you to spend money on girls who you did not find attractive. My posts were a response to your body shaming not your taste in women. You like what you like. I was saying you do not have to body shaming chicks you do not like. Gosh, it took you awhile to answer the handsome question. Interesting.:)

I wasn't planning to answer because I thought it was a silly question, but you persisted in asking so I responded. I'm not trying to date you, so if it makes you happy to think I look like a troll, go for it. I'm guessing you aren't my body type anyhow. :)

I'm not body shaming, I'm criticizing their qualifications as a dancer. Just like I would criticize an artist who couldn't draw, or a quarterback who couldn't throw a pass. Just because a woman is willing to take off her clothes in public, doesn't mean that she should.

SexxiLexxi
09-12-2016, 02:42 PM
I wasn't planning to answer because I thought it was a silly question, but you persisted in asking so I responded. I'm not trying to date you, so if it makes you happy to think I look like a troll, go for it. I'm guessing you aren't my body type anyhow. :)

I'm not body shaming, I'm criticizing their qualifications as a dancer. Just like I would criticize an artist who couldn't draw, or a quarterback who couldn't throw a pass. Just because a woman is willing to take off her clothes in public, doesn't mean that she should.

To be completely honest with you dear, you are quite frankly expressing your 'opinions' in a very disrespectful manner. To quote you


BBW is a nice name for overweight or fat. Seeing them in a club will make me seek out other clubs. I don't care if they cam, but if they are in a club, it is impossible to avoid seeing them on stage. A requirement for dancing is being fit and toned. If you aren't, you aren't qualified to dance and shouldn't be in the club. Too many fat dancers in a club will hurt other dancers in the club by driving away customers. If you are overweight and want to dance, lose some damn weight. Sorry, but I can see nude women everywhere. Gorgeous, fit, women. I don't want to waste a club visit watching fat women dancing. That may sound harsh, but frankly, there are some women in the clubs I'd pay NOT to have to see naked.

BBW is not a nice way of saying fat. BBW clearly means big, beautiful, woman(women). Someone in the double digits in pants/dress size is typically classified in the BBW category. A requirement for dancing: know how to dance? maybe? There a number of BBW, milf, gilfs that can dance and they should be allowed to do so if they are comfortable in doing so and have the talent to do so...I don't see how that affects another dancer. Being fit is not a requirement for dancing, a requirement for dancing is clearly having the talent to do so. Each and every dancer should be focusing on their own hustle. Just like I think the guys/gals who go to the club looking for entertainment should seek out what they are into, focus on that. See a bbw? Turn the other cheek. See a milf or gilf? Keep a closer eye on the dancer you are attracted to then who is right in front of you. If you are looking at those women you aren't interested in then maybe the women who you are interested in arent keeping your attention very well then are they which means that may just suck at being a dancer themselves?!

Name calling and being a dick doesn't get you anywhere with the ladies around here. Just makes you look more like a jackass.

For my own sanity, that is all I'm going to say about it.

gameover
09-12-2016, 03:01 PM
To be completely honest with you dear, you are quite frankly expressing your 'opinions' in a very disrespectful manner. To quote you BBW is not a nice way of saying fat. BBW clearly means big, beautiful, woman(women).

For the record, I'm not referring to dancers with a few extra pounds. I'm referring to BBW, which is a euphemism for "fat", per the urban dictionary:

"a politically correct description for the plus size woman as opposed to the derogatory term of Fat."

I'm all for calling them BBW as a kinder term, but I don't think they should be dancing. We disagree, and I respect your opinion, and I'll just leave it that we agree to disagree.

We had a rabbit like you
09-12-2016, 03:21 PM
What is attractive is subjective, theres a very wide range. It's also generational and cultural. Looking at the exotic dancers at the turn of the century , I'm sure many now would call them fat and our skinny dancers now would be gross to them. I feel like white culture also prizes thinness a lot more than other cultures. Just because you don't like seeing it doesn't mean every other guy agrees with you, and you aren't the ONLY guy who goes to clubs lol. I think you're overreacting a bit and being a bit of a delicate flower w the whole rotten strawberry analogy but w.e.
And what is wrong w milfs and gilfs? There are a ton of moms who strip and age shouldn't matter if you look good.

KaraLynn
09-12-2016, 04:04 PM
What is attractive is subjective, theres a very wide range. It's also generational and cultural. Looking at the exotic dancers at the turn of the century , I'm sure many now would call them fat and our skinny dancers now would be gross to them. I feel like white culture also prizes thinness a lot more than other cultures. Just because you don't like seeing it doesn't mean every other guy agrees with you, and you aren't the ONLY guy who goes to clubs lol. I think you're overreacting a bit and being a bit of a delicate flower w the whole rotten strawberry analogy but w.e.
And what is wrong w milfs and gilfs? There are a ton of moms who strip and age shouldn't matter if you look good.

Most older women (40+) I've worked with BANK and make way more than the younger girls. They know how to hustle and I don't know many guys who would turn down a hot older women. The MILF fantasy is a thing for a reason.

tempest666
09-12-2016, 07:23 PM
For the record, I'm not referring to dancers with a few extra pounds. I'm referring to BBW, which is a euphemism for "fat", per the urban dictionary:

"a politically correct description for the plus size woman as opposed to the derogatory term of Fat."

I'm all for calling them BBW as a kinder term, but I don't think they should be dancing. We disagree, and I respect your opinion, and I'll just leave it that we agree to disagree.

From a purely statistical point of view, the average American woman is now overweight or obese. If you wanted to see "average" women you may as well save your money and go to the mall.
I second the opinion that you should stick to upscale clubs. They are strict for a reason.
I'm not exactly a "rotten strawberry" but I did see some "withering" on the scale. No biggie. Just gonna clean up my diet and work harder.
With regards to "body shaming": This is a looks based industry and certain clubs have certain standards. Not everyone will fit them. Hell, I can't get into a lot of clubs at my present weight.

Dominic.2
09-12-2016, 07:55 PM
Gameover, there are guys who like bigger gals, including BBWs. This ties into Tempest's statistics. At the risk of writing something crude, a man I worked with used to say the following, "do you know how I know God loves bigger girls? Because he made soooo many of them!" It's hard to argue with that logic. :D

He was a highly compensated blue collar chap. And he wasn't afraid to spend it, after his family was taken care of. :thumbsup:

Glamourmilf
09-12-2016, 10:43 PM
Also, you should make sure that you paid those hot strippers handsomely because you sound like a nightmare to deal with. That is my two cents on this subject :)

:yes::yes:
He's exhausting. I bet I would hit the 'block' button so fast if he ever came into my chat room.
And at the club? I would pray the music would drown him out.
He has strong views, because more than likely, the ' one who got away,' when he was in puberty, was the neighborhood Milf/ BBW, or even gilf .
Poor thing has never been able to let that go.

DonaDiabla
09-13-2016, 06:31 AM
Just like you was not body shaming anyone. I was criticizing your qualifications as both a good customer and hot man. Just like you are guessing that I am not your body type. I am guessing that you are not my wallet type.:)


I wasn't planning to answer because I thought it was a silly question, but you persisted in asking so I responded. I'm not trying to date you, so if it makes you happy to think I look like a troll, go for it. I'm guessing you aren't my body type anyhow. :)

I'm not body shaming, I'm criticizing their qualifications as a dancer. Just like I would criticize an artist who couldn't draw, or a quarterback who couldn't throw a pass. Just because a woman is willing to take off her clothes in public, doesn't mean that she should.

SexxiLexxi
09-13-2016, 07:40 AM
One more thing...

If you aren't into Milfs, Gilfs, or BBWs...Why did you decide to click on a thread that talks about them specifically? Especially if you had nothing nice to say? I mean I get it is a free world and on this forum you are free to speak your mind....but it boggles my mind that you just *had* to throw out your offensive opinion intentionally to most likely hurt someone else who may very well fall into this category. It doesn't take much to just skip over a thread that discusses women you aren't even interested in.

Just saying.
/rant over

RyanXO
09-13-2016, 09:52 AM
Jesus Christ this thread! I shouldn't engage, but I'll bite just this once.

Gameover:

1.) First off, I do get your point that strip clubs should have beautiful women. This is a looks based business and strippers are supposed to be beautiful entertainment.
2.) However where we disagree and what the other girls are saying is just because a girl is bbw or older DOES NOT mean she is unnatractive.
3.) Many Clubs hire these women because customers have different tastes. It's ok if you like the cliche skinny young chick with giant boobs. Nothing wrong with that! But you don't speak for all men. Lots of men enjoy these types of entertainers as well as heavier or older ones.
4.) I'm so confused at your strong animosity towards bigger ladies. If you don't find them attractive then fine, but I don't see how seeing one heavy woman is so repulsive to you that it ruins your whole time.

To any heavier Dancers: don't let this get you down!!!! You are not "just some woman from the mall" because you are thicker.

tempest666
09-13-2016, 01:03 PM
"Thicker" and other euphemisms don't do anyone any good, myself included. I gained weight and it doesn't look good.

gameover
09-13-2016, 10:00 PM
One more thing...

If you aren't into Milfs, Gilfs, or BBWs...Why did you decide to click on a thread that talks about them specifically? Especially if you had nothing nice to say? I mean I get it is a free world and on this forum you are free to speak your mind....but it boggles my mind that you just *had* to throw out your offensive opinion intentionally to most likely hurt someone else who may very well fall into this category. It doesn't take much to just skip over a thread that discusses women you aren't even interested in.

Just saying.
/rant over

I posted because the thread asked if there was a place for BBWs in strip clubs, and I believe pretty strongly that there isn't a place for them. They really kill the mood for me in a club. I felt strongly about it and so I posted. Why should I not post about a topic that really bothers me?

And, I've said nothing against milfs or gilfs. I'm fine with milfs and gilfs as long as they are attractive and fit.

gameover
09-13-2016, 10:10 PM
Jesus Christ this thread! I shouldn't engage, but I'll bite just this once.

Gameover:

2.) However where we disagree and what the other girls are saying is just because a girl is bbw or older DOES NOT mean she is unnatractive.

How many BBW do you see in Playboy? There is a reason. It is not helpful to an obese woman to tell her that she doesn't need to change. Being obese is bad for your health, and is not attractive to most people. It is something they CAN change. Calling them BBW is a disservice to them. To me, this is just as stupid as not keeping score at kids sports games. Telling kids that scores don't matter is not preparing them for the real world. In business and life, we DO keep score.

We had a rabbit like you
09-14-2016, 08:02 AM
^ they just recently did a playboy w Ashley graham actually lol. Hardly obese but she's no twiggy blond chick w fake bolt ons. They also had an older woman on there.
As I said, what's considered attractive is changing as it's very much generational and cultural. Maybe morbidly, morbidly obese has never been "in" but there's so much in between. YOU don't find it attractive =\= it not being attractive at all lol sorry

KaraLynn
09-14-2016, 08:40 AM
How many BBW do you see in Playboy? There is a reason. It is not helpful to an obese woman to tell her that she doesn't need to change. Being obese is bad for your health, and is not attractive to most people. It is something they CAN change. Calling them BBW is a disservice to them. To me, this is just as stupid as not keeping score at kids sports games. Telling kids that scores don't matter is not preparing them for the real world. In business and life, we DO keep score.

Well, playboy has a different sort of look they like so of course there really aren't any BBWs but I still don't think playboy is everyone's ONLY standard of hot. I am a woman who is into woman and the women I see in playboy don't really appeal to me. I prefer exotic women with body mods and playboy doesn't tend to go for those types either so I don't necessarily think someone isn't desirable just because they would never appear in playboy. I know quite a few men who feel the same way as I do. I definitely go for more sucidegirl and than playboy.

You prefer fit women and smaller body types. I get that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody has a right to their preference no matter what that preference is, but I think what people are trying to say to you is that there ARE men who want to see other things which is why strip clubs hire some women who aren't necessarily appealing to you.

I also won't deny the fact that VERY large women are an acquired taste. It's a niche but there are men out there who are who only love very large women, so that's why some strip clubs have one or two there. If they weren't making ANY money and NOBODY wanted to see them they wouldn't be working there.

tempest666
09-14-2016, 11:04 AM
Well, playboy has a different sort of look they like so of course there really aren't any BBWs but I still don't think playboy is everyone's ONLY standard of hot. I am a woman who is into woman and the women I see in playboy don't really appeal to me. I prefer exotic women with body mods and playboy doesn't tend to go for those types either so I don't necessarily think someone isn't desirable just because they would never appear in playboy. I know quite a few men who feel the same way as I do. I definitely go for more sucidegirl and than playboy.

You prefer fit women and smaller body types. I get that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody has a right to their preference no matter what that preference is, but I think what people are trying to say to you is that there ARE men who want to see other things which is why strip clubs hire some women who aren't necessarily appealing to you.

I also won't deny the fact that VERY large women are an acquired taste. It's a niche but there are men out there who are who only love very large women, so that's why some strip clubs have one or two there. If they weren't making ANY money and NOBODY wanted to see them they wouldn't be working there.

Just a side note but I think Playboy bought suicide girls.

KaraLynn
09-14-2016, 11:28 AM
Just a side note but I think Playboy bought suicide girls.

ooooo for real? I had no idea. I don't hear much from suicide girls anymore. I figured it was no longer a thing.

gameover
09-14-2016, 11:39 AM
Well, playboy has a different sort of look they like so of course there really aren't any BBWs but I still don't think playboy is everyone's ONLY standard of hot. I am a woman who is into woman and the women I see in playboy don't really appeal to me. I prefer exotic women with body mods and playboy doesn't tend to go for those types either so I don't necessarily think someone isn't desirable just because they would never appear in playboy. I know quite a few men who feel the same way as I do. I definitely go for more sucidegirl and than playboy.

You prefer fit women and smaller body types. I get that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Everybody has a right to their preference no matter what that preference is, but I think what people are trying to say to you is that there ARE men who want to see other things which is why strip clubs hire some women who aren't necessarily appealing to you.

I also won't deny the fact that VERY large women are an acquired taste. It's a niche but there are men out there who are who only love very large women, so that's why some strip clubs have one or two there. If they weren't making ANY money and NOBODY wanted to see them they wouldn't be working there.

Playboy is mainstream, but so are strip clubs. You are right, BBW is a niche. So are Mexican Donkey Sex Shows. I don't want either in the club.

tempest666
09-14-2016, 11:46 AM
Playboy is mainstream, but so are strip clubs. You are right, BBW is a niche. So are Mexican Donkey Sex Shows. I don't want either in the club.

Lol lol. I'm sorry but I just spit out my coffee laughing. That was great. However, I must point out today Portland, Oregon has a lot of strip clubs that are far from "mainstream". Casa Diablo, for one.

tempest666
09-14-2016, 01:09 PM
You better hope that your words don't prove prophetic, Game over. Now there might be strip clubs that have bbw donkey shows.

SweetJulia
09-14-2016, 04:41 PM
If they can make money, why not? Higher end clubs are pickier about weight, if you're so sensitive that the mere presence of a BBW ruins your whole night. Lord.

jasmine22
09-15-2016, 06:18 AM
One thing I learned is that most people think they have a "type", but when someone catches your eye you can't help how you feel. Also what people like changes and evolves over time. I think that the reason man get addicted to these clubs bc they feel like they can discover what they really like in a fantasy way.

November_Scorpio
09-15-2016, 11:19 AM
Although I posted before that the type I prefer is a young girl in 20's with thin spinner build or a very short girl 5' or shorter, I do get bored with the same body type over and over again. I do like variety once in a while. I been having a craving to get dances and VIPs from two body types for a change just because it would be a new experience. I like novelty and to try things different sometimes. I want to find a BBW dancer that I find attractive to spend money on and I want to find an extremely super skinny girl( like the skinniest dancer I can find out of all the Chicago clubs) to spend money on in the clubs. I just am feeling bored in the clubs getting dances and VIPs from girls with the same body type all the time.

uzman
10-10-2016, 08:15 PM
Im definitely exited to find more BBW Strip Clubs. Would like to get my BBW style Music Video played in them:
seXXtra Music Video


If you know of any clubs or any BBW Dancers who would like to have this song to dance to, it can be downloaded here:

DonaDiabla
10-11-2016, 12:47 AM
Actually, Uzman, I would like to say I do not understand why you are promoting your music in thread? You seen to have bump this thread because you saw the word "BBW" and thought would be cool. Which is great but this thread was about how BBW/milf/gilfs lovers like yourself really do not have too many opinions inside of most clubs. Many BBW dancers that I have seen either worked for private dance companies or dive/urban clubs. Sure, there are a few at some mid-tier clubs but none at the high-end clubs. Remember that most strip clubs will catered to Western beauty standards even more than camming and other forms of the sex industry.
As far as your promotion of your music on stripperweb, it has a very dancehall sound to it and it covers a very niche market outside of the Caribbean or Caribbean diaspora. Many dancers want to cater to mainstream music taste unless she wants to stand out or work for urban clubs. If I was you, I would try to get music on either shakinit or worldstarhiphop. Convince models of all sizes to dance to your music. :) Good luck !



Im definitely exited to find more BBW Strip Clubs. Would like to get my BBW style Music Video played in them:
seXXtra Music Video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqrWc9ugcqY

If you know of any clubs or any BBW Dancers who would like to have this song to dance to, it can be downloaded here:
https://soundcloud.com/uzman/sexxtra