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kittykrane
08-10-2012, 06:34 AM
Not that I don't believe in a creator, but I don't depend on god for anything. I'm in control of my life, my choices, etc... Stay in control ladies, that's all I can say...Big hugs to her and if anything, she should use that anger to her advantage..go the Domme route honey..some guys will hate you for, others will LOVE you, worship you...Just leave your personal life out of it. I know some think they don't have a choice, they need the money, they have to do this.... no they don't...What is needed is a break...be it a few hours or a day..Just TAKE it or the jerks will suck the life out of you.

SarahTime
08-10-2012, 10:46 AM
Ive only came close to breaking down on cam, but manage to log of and take it out on Michael.


Who's Michael and why do you take it out on him? One the worst thing we can do is take out our frustrations about free chat assholes out on our significant others...

I have not "freaked out" on cam, but I have gone off on guys before when it got to be nothing but ass bb tits bb... but I did so in a comical way that was not like I had lost my mind, it was more a making fun of them rant rather than a flip out omg I want to kill everyone rage fest. I think you can "go off on" guys without appearing like you've completely gone off the deep end, although I still don't think it's a good idea to do it at all.

SarahTime
08-10-2012, 10:48 AM
Not that I don't believe in a creator, but I don't depend on god for anything. I'm in control of my life, my choices, etc... Stay in control ladies, that's all I can say...Big hugs to her and if anything, she should use that anger to her advantage..go the Domme route honey..some guys will hate you for, others will LOVE you, worship you...Just leave your personal life out of it. I know some think they don't have a choice, they need the money, they have to do this.... no they don't...What is needed is a break...be it a few hours or a day..Just TAKE it or the jerks will suck the life out of you.

Even if you do be believe in a Creator, YOU are still in control of your own life. We make our choices, no one makes them for us. You are right one of the most important things we need to remember is to stay in control.

I hate when women in general victimize themselves like oh poor me, this is all happening TO ME. No it's not, get a hold of yourself, YOU make your choices, YOU are in control of your life, DO SOMETHING. That is why I felt zero sympathy for her the moment she said she had been waiting 12 years for a man to take care of her.

OJenni!
08-10-2012, 11:15 AM
My thoughts? I have seen this girl on several times and she always seems very "over the top". Don't get me wrong, it may just be part of her marketing ploy, but it is one of those things that make me wonder if its really her or not.

ukmissy
08-11-2012, 09:50 AM
Who's Michael and why do you take it out on him? One the worst thing we can do is take out our frustrations about free chat assholes out on our significant others...



Not at all , My SO enjoys a good spanking or down talking after a difficult shift :D Different strokes for different folks ;) Perhaps Michael does too . Haha

lilbellea
08-11-2012, 05:50 PM
Ok I'm watching her right now and she is going on and on about God. And how her and Brittany Spears and Anna Nicole are same because she shares the same birthday. She is using this to get more views. I kinda felt bad for her but now I don't. She is downing camming and going on and on about how it isn't even a job.

CammiStar
08-11-2012, 07:23 PM
Ok I'm watching her right now and she is going on and on about God. And how her and Brittany Spears and Anna Nicole are same because she shares the same birthday. She is using this to get more views. I kinda felt bad for her but now I don't. She is downing camming and going on and on about how it isn't even a job.

I really don't think she is using it to get more views. She has been camming a long time (10 years) and from what I gather she was not always this way. Camming has just taken it's toll on her.

I think she is being 100% real. Real angry. I have seen her flip out multiple times and IMHO, her angry and upset is not staged. There are buttons that get pushed that set her off. She doesn't start off on cam screaming at people. She can be really personable and friendly when she wants to be. If someone pushes the right buttons, and/or she has had enough to drink she just reacts.

Honestly, most of the things she has said while raging regarding some members and the industry is usually true and things I have thought at least once myself. Even though I may agree with some of the things she says, I am smart enough to not scream it at the members who are possibly going to spend money on me. But there are moments when I am watching her where I can't help but give a "hell yeah!". BUT, members are there for the fantasy. They don't want us to share our REAL feelings about EVERYTHING, even if they claim they do want us to be "real". And she is clearly aware of this. She just does not give a fuck anymore.

The only thing that really bothered me was hearing her scream at the top of her lungs at her son about how she wished he was born a girl. If someone wants to bite the hand that feeds by screaming and ranting online so be it. But when you have developed such a strong hate for what you do that you actually despise your own child for being a man, I think it's time to make some changes in your life.

Holly_xoxo
08-11-2012, 07:43 PM
Okay..curiousity got the best of me and I peeked in on her room. Only stayed 2 minutes though because she was going on about how all women in any part of the adult industry were victimized at some point in their lives by men and that's why they went into the industry. We all have low self esteem....blah blah..

Kind of reminded me of Shelley Luben ( I think I got the name right lol)

lilbellea
08-11-2012, 08:34 PM
Yeah I didn't stay too long either because I couldn't feel bad for her. She talks about other cam girls like they are crap. Really she dogs all women. And the way she talked about her son even tonight was bad. She was going off about her son being sick and how it destroyed her life and how all men were pieces of shit. I don't believe that some are, some women are but not all. She even says camming isn't a real job but that she could never have a real job. I can't and would never feel bad for her.You can always change your situation even if its in the smallest way. She talked crap about people who were on foodstamps. She's just a very negative person.

loveshooks
08-11-2012, 10:18 PM
^^^^^often times people who feel judged and depressed and perceive themselves to (wrongly) be without options lash out at others...it's human nature. Low income populations and sex workers are easy to insult because they're already stigmatized by general society. I don't like it but I do understand it.

Isobel and I are really hoping that sw can be a source of support for this chica, if she finds or has found this community and wants to use the resources available here to figure ish in her life out.
On that tip, there's been some fantastic posts in this thread regarding issues of burnout, dealing with trolls, dealing with the alienation this job can sometimes foster. If the chica in the video asked us for advice, what would we say?

All I can say is that we always have options, it's a matter of finding the most palatable or even at times the most bearable unpalatable option available. If the best option available sucks, we have to push through until we can create another option. If any of us hate where we are we need to make a plan to change it. Feeling like we have agency in our own lives and doing something to change our circumstances is a powerful feeling, and it's a resource we all innately possess.
I would also hope the chica in the video realizes that feeding trolls only encourages them, making the work environment completely unbearable. We all deserve better than to have to fight with assholes every shift.

maryjaynexo
08-12-2012, 12:53 AM
If she asked me personally for advice, I'd tell her that she'd make an amazing dom. And would likely look awesome in a latex catsuit. ;D /pervy

temptingmodel
08-12-2012, 01:07 AM
If she asked me personally for advice, I'd tell her that she'd make an amazing dom. And would likely look awesome in a latex catsuit. ;D /pervy

I thought it was a public humiliation and she was tipped or camming elsewhere .... That is the only thing that made sense

SarahTime
08-12-2012, 01:11 AM
Not at all , My SO enjoys a good spanking or down talking after a difficult shift :D Different strokes for different folks ;) Perhaps Michael does too . Haha

Sounds kinky! lol :)

naughtybekie
08-12-2012, 01:13 AM
i think the whole thing is a marketing ploy, much like the "weird cat loving girl" videos that promoted e-harmony. BUT it taps into a streak that exists with in people that wants to see others meltdown, screw up, go completely bat shit.

lilbellea
08-12-2012, 09:22 AM
I think she's doing it for attention, I really do, maybe it didn't start out that way but now she's playing the victim and oh poor me card. Because I tried to tell her she could go to school, with 2 kids, and one that does have diabetes she could get enough grants she could go for free and do online classes that way it wouldn't get in the way of camming or taking care of her kids. Listen I worked a full time job in high school, then I worked full time and went to school full time until I became disabled. Now I'm finishing up my last year which should have been one semester but it got split because two classes were at the same time. I don't know what went wrong in her life for her to become so hateful and jaded but when you go on and on about the only good thing you have is looking forward to your death something is bad wrong and you need to change and seek help.

DominicanDream
08-12-2012, 11:36 AM
I was on MFC just going to random rooms bc I'm bored, and this Russian girl is sobbing about all types of stuff. Damn!

IsobelWren
08-12-2012, 07:44 PM
Let's add some more useful comments to this thread. Some people have found that the cam girl in the video is aware of SW and possibly reading this thread (I totally would, I'm a gossip whore when it comes to me). Since she's most likely reading this thread, let's give her some advice and constructive feedback.

Here's mine:

Stop camming if you can. It's obvious that you hate it and that it damages you. If it's true that the breakdown you had on video is a typical one for you, this is really harming you in a permanent way. You seem like you could be a really great person, you're very pretty, and I'd hate for you to go on doing this to yourself. Get a job outside of the industry, if you can, and seek therapy. Your accent indicates that you're from the US. There are lots and lots of programs for low or no cost therapy sessions. You can get in one, I'm sure. If you get in one and you don't like the therapist, go to a different one. Your therapist works for you. You need to be happy with the person and able to talk to them and be comfortable sharing intimate things. You can do it. I trust and believe in you. Your sense of self and will is clearly very strong. If you apply that to doing something that makes you happy and to healing from this ordeal, I'm sure you will be successful.

Vogue
08-12-2012, 11:23 PM
i saw it yesterday twice , damn i do hope is fake . Acted or not it will haunt her forever that was a bad bad move , it will haunt me for sure

EmberReigns
08-12-2012, 11:36 PM
Ohhh my God....I'm sick to the pit of my stomach for her:( What asshole is counting the number of youtube hits he's getting from recording this poor girl's HORRIBLE time on cam? What a fuckin' douche. She was obviously stressed out. I feel so bad that she had to experience that, then have it plastered all over the net. Poor girl...sunniest thing I can think of is hey, it might get her some traffic? Lol. But seriously, that dude needs kicked in thr balls on cam.

DiamondCupcakes
08-12-2012, 11:56 PM
..........

DesuvsDeath
08-13-2012, 12:42 AM
The funny thing is she logs on specifically to "break down". I've personally been in her room and no one was trolliing her or saying anything...but she was going on and on.
This is sort of how I felt about the video I saw... no one was trolling her or saying anything bad until AFTER she was freaking the fuck out for several minutes and even then... it wasn't that hard or that bad.

LAChloe
08-13-2012, 01:44 AM
The only thing that really bothered me was hearing her scream at the top of her lungs at her son about how she wished he was born a girl. If someone wants to bite the hand that feeds by screaming and ranting online so be it. But when you have developed such a strong hate for what you do that you actually despise your own child for being a man, I think it's time to make some changes in your life.

Seriously? I'm going to pray for this poor kid tonight. Emotional abuse is the worst. :(