View Full Version : Do you ever feel insulted by compliments?
TheBrownFox
12-08-2012, 03:44 PM
There's something about the way a guy says "Okay, I guess I'll just go ahead and give my last 20 tokens to you, Fox" that irritates me a bit.
LaurenAus
12-08-2012, 03:53 PM
I keep getting compared to a very famous pop star who..I don't find all that attractive so I just started blocking guys who keep saying this in my chat
RaineyLane
12-08-2012, 04:39 PM
The other night a guy said I had "nice mature tits!" They were in a push up bra and my boobs are pretty perky. I called him out for trying to get a free flash and he was outta there! LOL Douche bags!!
Benefit
12-08-2012, 05:25 PM
I keep getting compared to a very famous pop star who..I don't find all that attractive so I just started blocking guys who keep saying this in my chat
The same thing happens to me ... I hate it. I'll just say "I don't find her pretty, but that's cool, I guess." Sometimes they'll say "bb, you're hotter." Yeah, okay ...
CinnimonKiss
12-08-2012, 05:48 PM
I get told I look like the girl from True Blood literally every night, Im almost suprised if a night goes by without at least 2 guys telling me this. Oh and that I look like a older singer, i forget the name, It gets annoying actually.
Lol but the other night sum dude, a reg of mine comes and tells me " have you been working out STILL? " (which I have NOT been, ive been slacking big time ) and I said no why am I getting fat? lol and he was like no no no its just u seem "curvy" to me now, "I like that!". To me that was NOT A COMPLIMENT !!! god dammit!...
I need to get back on my shit, uuuuughhh
Oh and that same night sum other dude said he wanted to see my FAT ASS!!! :O ..
made me kinda sad, not gunna lie..lol
miss_me
12-08-2012, 06:43 PM
I hate when guys feel like they have to insult other body types/appearances to give me a compliment. Like saying I'm so "_____", unlike those other girls who are/n't "_____". I just find it so rude and unnecessarily negative.
The one I hate the most is when they try to compliment my bush by saying that women who shave/wax look like children and anyone who find them attractive is a pedophile.
That really pisses me off because:
(1) I think that is just a really nasty thing to say about someone just because they choose to style their HAIR differently (or like that style of hair).
(2) Just because I'm hairy doesn't mean I'm at war with smooth pussies. It's not a "them or me" thing, there's enough room for everyone. and
(3) I LIKE how smooth pussies look and you're not winning any points with me by calling me a pedophile. >:(
FiendishGyrator
12-08-2012, 09:08 PM
"You've lost SOOO much weight since the last time I saw you!!!"
"Um, I'm the exact same weight that I've was when you last saw me. Thanks for falsely thinking I was such a fat cow before though!"
Vela Valentine
12-08-2012, 11:22 PM
"MM yeah, I love your stretch marks!"
... Crushed. Those guys seriously make me wanna sign off immediately. I swear my face flames red and I lose my hustle right away. Insta-insecure.
RaineyLane
12-09-2012, 01:28 PM
I almost forgot about the guy that said my C-section scar is sexy and he wanted to lick it!! HAHA!
simone87
12-09-2012, 02:12 PM
"MM yeah, I love your stretch marks!"
... Crushed. Those guys seriously make me wanna sign off immediately. I swear my face flames red and I lose my hustle right away. Insta-insecure.
wow i think i might be in tears if somebody said this..i have a pretty thick skin but not where my stretch marks are concerned, what an ass!!
Vela Valentine
12-09-2012, 04:16 PM
Yeah I think he mightve said it to be mean, I'm not sure, he wasn't a regular. Deffffinitely one of my biggest insecurities, that & my loose skin from being pregnant. Never had anyone comment on that, though.
PS -- to the girls who have the nipples with extra tiny nipples/bumps on the areaolas... I never knew that that WASNT normal... And I have a child but didn't breastfeed, and I've always had them. I just ran into the other room and was like, "ARE MY NIPPLES WEIRD OR SOMETHING? DO OTHER GIRLS HAVE THIS?!" He said more women than not that he's been with have had them and he's never thought for a second that they were abnormal... So... Unless I'm completely talking about something different, then disregard that. I think he wonders wtf we talk about here sometimes based on my random questions and exclamations, lol.
CourtneyRaine
12-09-2012, 04:22 PM
^ Vela, I think it is absolutely normal. Are you talking about Montgomery's Turbercles? If so everyone has them. I once had a friend joke and say the bumps are actually braille for "Suck here." :)