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Ladybuggie
06-19-2019, 05:05 PM
After two slow days, and me feeling very tired and slow myself, I had a fantastic night! almost $350, and I'm back on track for my monthly goal! Hoping that this isn't a fluke and it keeps being decent for the rest of the week! x

izshadow
06-19-2019, 07:13 PM
I've kinda been logging on here and there due to bronchitis and insomnia, but I've noticed I've done way better like early mornings like 2-7 AM or so than when I try to do early afternoon. I guess I must attract all the night owls haha. But i have noticed that every time I have been online, I've been on page 2 so at least that's consistent haha. I just got eligible for gold shows, the break button (FINALLY), and got my stream preview thumbnail to stay my biopic within the last week or so.

You totally got this!! Get on and make that bank girlie!

Is it okay to ask what you are charging? I'm at $4.99 private and $6.99 exclusive and was told by another girl on here thats pretty standard but I like to see if maybe I'm to high for being so far back in pages and needing to push to the front of the pack faster, then raise the rate once I am....

Miss_ShaSha
06-19-2019, 07:19 PM
^^Keep your rate. You deserve that. You're worth that. Just follow your schedule, be consistent, & you'll move plus generate a following.

You got this!

izshadow
06-19-2019, 07:26 PM
^^Keep your rate. You deserve that. You're worth that. Just follow your schedule, be consistent, & you'll move plus generate a following.

You got this!

Has anyone ever told you that you are the forum angel?!?!?! I'm sending you so much love!

JackAlexander
06-20-2019, 06:50 AM
Is it okay to ask what you are charging? I'm at $4.99 private and $6.99 exclusive and was told by another girl on here thats pretty standard but I like to see if maybe I'm to high for being so far back in pages and needing to push to the front of the pack faster, then raise the rate once I am....

Do not lower your rates!!!!!!!

There is a lot more to it in order to get to page one. And since the new algorithm, I am not sure page 1 matters anymore.

I started a custy account on my Opera browser and looked at the girls I had on my page one vs someone not logged in on Chrome. 100% different. I had page 3 girls now on my front page.

On Opera, I had given gold to a bbw. All I got was 90% bbw after that. I changed it up and threw the same amount of gold to other types I had to go seek out. I then started to get a mix, but the algorithm was beautiful coming from a performer placement point of view.

If you want to push to the front faster, get on and stay on.... no one can pay you money if you are not logged on. :D

Moral of the story is, you are NOT too high for being further back because the customers who like your type might not ever know. And once you are in someones favs, you are ALWAYS on the first row. Promote them to fav you!!!

Miss_ShaSha
06-20-2019, 07:34 AM
If you want to push to the front faster, get on and stay on.... no one can pay you money if you are not logged on. :D

THIS! Excellently communicated.

Miss_ShaSha
06-20-2019, 07:37 AM
Has anyone ever told you that you are the forum angel?!?!?! I'm sending you so much love!

Girl, lovin ya right back xoxo

BubblyBlonde
06-20-2019, 06:05 PM
Not a bad way to start the evening!

51509

SapphireXO
06-21-2019, 09:00 AM
Looking over my stats, I've had a few days where I put in an excessive amount of hours with little pay. HOWEVER, averages are sicking firm for 2019 so far being 6 months out of 12. I hope this is motivating to anyone who is experiencing a bad day. A few bad days even themselves out with a few great days.

Miss_ShaSha
06-21-2019, 02:41 PM
Dude, just so fuckin grateful! I just met weekly goal, not low weekly goal, but weekly goal I had set before the slump hit me. Two weeks were just bad and I was legit sad. But two days this week with my regs and new foot guys coming to play seriously saved my ass.

I still have 2 more hours to stream today plus tomorrow and I'm super fuckin relieved.

The best part about today was two regs did awesome exclusive shows then came back later to do it all over again. Seriously, mind fuckin blown.

THANK YOU UNIVERSE!
Camming fuckin rocks!

caramelcraze
06-22-2019, 06:11 AM
Had my best night so far this year $ wise by over a grand. I'm in shock. it's been slow this week and it's just what I needed.

Miss_ShaSha
06-22-2019, 12:51 PM
There must be a full fuckin moon or something. It's so wild today. Men who used to worship my old foot fetish content are showing up in my room. I feel like a star for real. 4 of the 6 shows I've done today are fans of my old stuff. And all the shows today were with footguys.

Seriously surprised to have hit high goal in 2.70 hrs ALL from footguys.

I'm not sure what's going on. The last two weeks I was so cold, and this week I'm hot like lava.

My old content brought them to me, but it's camming that makes doing what I truly love possible.

Camming rocks!

Serena113
06-22-2019, 02:03 PM
There must be a full fuckin moon or something. It's so wild today. Men who used to worship my old foot fetish content are showing up in my room. I feel like a star for real. 4 of the 6 shows I've done today are fans of my old stuff. And all the shows today were with footguys.

Seriously surprised to have hit high goal in 2.70 hrs ALL from footguys.

I'm not sure what's going on. The last two weeks I was so cold, and this week I'm hot like lava.

My old content brought them to me, but it's camming that makes doing what I truly love possible.

Camming rocks!

The full moon was last week. This is all you, Sha! Your hard work and perseverance are paying off :D

Miss_ShaSha
06-22-2019, 02:12 PM
^^Serena, you legit just made me tear up. You're right about one thing...I didn't give up. I cried a few nights tho cause sales were so bad. Thank you so much!!!

pippapippa
06-24-2019, 09:53 AM
Hit my daily goal in three hours today. I'm planning to work up to eight hours every day through Sunday until I reach my goal. It's going to be miserable, but I'm thrilled today was easy. I had five awesome customers, including one regular I hadn't seen in a bit. I need to make logging on in the morning a priority, because I usually do well then.

caramelcraze
06-24-2019, 10:22 PM
made my goal $500 for the day, worked my ass off, and managed to exceed it. tomorrow it'll be time to do it over again.

Miss_ShaSha
06-25-2019, 08:57 AM
^^Girl! You been killing it!

Capryce
06-27-2019, 05:12 PM
Alright, the evening started pretty slow, but in 4 hours I have made my daily goal x3 :D I am sooooo happy, yesterday was so slow but today really catch it!!!

Miss_ShaSha
06-27-2019, 05:18 PM
Dude, so fuckin grateful I stuck today out. While I didn't bank...I certainly made more than $0 as I wasn't even gonna cam. My anxiety today was so fuckin wretched. I dissociated today in cycle class and then it just got worse. I got home and felt the dread and doom of a severe anxiety attack. I looked at my Fitbit and HR was 127 bpm and stayed elevated for 40 minutes. I got down to 117 bpm and took the med I'm prescribed for these types of episodes.

I tried to soothe, talk kindly to myself, then decided "it's time to shower Sha, you've got 30 min til showtime...GO!" So I showered, had a banana, 20 oz water, then got pretty to some fav music tracks.

I managed to log in 2 min after shift, but I was on. Legit: I was scared to smile. I was scared to interact. But I fuckin did it. AND today with how utterly slow it was (sometimes on SM I'd go 5 minutes without a soul in my room) I managed to make $8 from high goal.

I'm so completely grateful to the number of regs that came through today. And, fuck, my smile and friendly conversation got some new clients who, GASP, came back to do another fuckin show. Dude, two guys said I was irresistible. WTF?!?! I was a mess for like 3 hrs!!!

Seriously, camming fuckin rocks. Even on my worst day men find me alluring. There just isn't a job I've had that makes me feel so damn good on a damn bad day.

Camming ROCKS!!! THANK YOU UNIVERSE!!!

caramelDip
06-27-2019, 10:01 PM
Last night was my first time back “on cam”. I didn’t get a chance to get on SM or any other site because I got tired lol. I’m ashamed, I really have to get my stamina up.

But one of my lovely regulars decided to hit me up for a Skype show. Easy $80 for 15 minutes sent straight to my PayPal. He has been with me since 2013.

ravenskyy
06-28-2019, 06:27 AM
I have a regular that has been there for me every week since we met. We're practically friends now. I talk to him about normal stuff and he pays me for my time. We don't even do regular shows. He sends whatever he can, whenever I need it. I never even ask for it. Well, not directly anyway lol Things were slow one week, he sent $100. Needed my utilities paid, but didn't have the money, he sent $250. This week has been extremely slow and I needed $300, he sent it. He asks for nothing in return. He does nothing but encourage me, compliment me and motivate me to stay focused and never give up. Cam custies can seriously rock!

Miss_ShaSha
06-28-2019, 10:18 AM
^^Girl, that legit made me tear up. I'm so happy to read this!!!

crazylilly
06-28-2019, 10:32 AM
I have been posting a lot today, I'm usually a "lurker." Just wanted to say camming rocks right now! I am lucky enough to stay home and make decent money. Already made high goal today, so just have 2 hours of leisurely making money. Whenever shit gets stressful, I just think how lucky I am to not be stuck at an office job right now! I love being my own boss, because I bust my butt doing it. YOU are in charge of how much you make. Stay strong and positive ladies/gents! It will be totally worth it. Even on your worst days, this is far superior to the 9-5 grind. Trust me, been doing that sh*t for years. Thank you all for being so motivational! Good luck/vibes sent your way :) :) :)

pippapippa
06-28-2019, 06:04 PM
Trying to put in twelve hour days for the next three days. Started tonight off with a $100 tip, so I’m taking it as a good sign and saying camming fucking rocks!

caramelcraze
06-30-2019, 12:04 AM
Second best week ever on cam. I am so grateful!

Ladybuggie
06-30-2019, 01:26 PM
The Cam Goddess listened, and I had one of my favourite SM regulars find me on Skype. Did a CMD show with him for the amount of time he normally gets on there (1h 15 min), and beat my daily goal in one go, also getting more $ for the same time cause my cut is higher. I don't feel like camming super rocks yet, but it definitely sucks way less than it did a few hours ago, and it's given me energies and hopes for the rest of the night. Gonna have a meal and jump back on! x

Lovely_charlie
07-01-2019, 03:39 AM
$800 + day yesterday on sm. wanted to do a long shift, and it payed off! yessss

Bananabunny
07-01-2019, 07:05 PM
I have very very less slow days ever since I use the trick of a fellow famous camgirl who makes a lot without to do too much. I literally just put my worth higher and all the generous dudes came along and worship me!

Also my life rocks in general, I was accepted for art school (my dream school) and signed the papers. Now I'm thrilled to start a new chapter in my life in 2020 when school finally starts! No more isolation! No more fear of my hopeless future! Finally I can see the light at the end of the very long ass tunnel I am in since 2010. Really grateful I found many ways this year to improve my life situation, stand up and stop whining that life sucks and that I don't want to be here anymore. Nope. I turned the fucking tables!!!! I noticed life is too short to be stuck in a situation I don't want to be in. I decided to change the negative things and become more strict with myself and my customers. No more men who command me around and make me feel uneasy, now I am the fucking mofo boss! I'm not gonna deal with any of their bull. And if I do I charge them more!!

euro_princess
07-02-2019, 12:10 AM
I've haven't had such a good night in a long tiiiime! Last year, first week of July was my best earning one for 2018. Planning to keep the tradition.

$1583 and ready to rock my way to 7K.

SweetSouthernElle
07-02-2019, 06:12 AM
I've haven't had such a good night in a long tiiiime! Last year, first week of July was my best earning one for 2018. Planning to keep the tradition.

$1583 and ready to rock my way to 7K.

Wrote!!! How long were you online? Do you cam on streamate? What are your prices? That is seriously inspiring!!

euro_princess
07-02-2019, 06:20 AM
Wrote!!! How long were you online? Do you cam on streamate? What are your prices? That is seriously inspiring!!

8h, split in 2 shifts. Yes, on SM. $9 with $12.

NitaBaby
07-02-2019, 09:32 AM
8h, split in 2 shifts. Yes, on SM. $9 with $12.

Very inspiring. Are most of your customers regulars? Or do you you simply cater to a certain fetish. I hate the constant stream of "damn, bb you expensive" comments every time I go over $6 :headache:

euro_princess
07-02-2019, 11:58 AM
I would say 65% yes, are regulars (last year, last 2-3 years). I have just a hand full of people being with me over 4-5 years and those are my whales, level 5 guys. My sugar daddies and people I've developed a true bond with.

I'm not a domme for sure. But with my bratty attitude, I get submissive guys from time to time. I have some clients for blasphemy (I don't promote myself, I just happen to be an atheist and disclose that), but then again that's less than 10% of my earnings.
What fits my agenda best is GFE, being assertive with my members and bumping their ego. Most of them like me cause I'm reliable and down to earth. I do nothing special, I'm close to 30, so not a teen anymore, but neither milf. I'm not glamour, got no big tits or ass, got no dancing skills, as I said in a post above, just a big mouth. I entertain them and they entertain my bank account.

What probably helps me most is "never stay online when you're bored or pissed". People will notice and today's guest, might be tomorrow's whale. I had this dude who for years used to peek only. Fast forward to now, he's hands down my best client, doing sessions of 4-5h exclusive or even more. Yeah, he's weird and high as fuck, but I'm nobody to judge.

I'm always in a good mood. If I'm not, then it's time to fold some clothes and watch Netflix. I would rather not work a few slow hours, than make under my average per hour and maybe lose some customers with my defensive attitude. I'm not saying it's the right way, that's how I hustle and that's how I preserved my clientele.

NitaBaby
07-02-2019, 12:56 PM
I would say 65% yes, are regulars (last year, last 2-3 years). I have just a hand full of people being with me over 4-5 years and those are my whales, level 5 guys. My sugar daddies and people I've developed a true bond with.

I'm not a domme for sure. But with my bratty attitude, I get submissive guys from time to time. I have some clients for blasphemy (I don't promote myself, I just happen to be an atheist and disclose that), but then again that's less than 10% of my earnings.
What fits my agenda best is GFE, being assertive with my members and bumping their ego. Most of them like me cause I'm reliable and down to earth. I do nothing special, I'm close to 30, so not a teen anymore, but neither milf. I'm not glamour, got no big tits or ass, got no dancing skills, as I said in a post above, just a big mouth. I entertain them and they entertain my bank account.

What probably helps me most is "never stay online when you're bored or pissed". People will notice and today's guest, might be tomorrow's whale. I had this dude who for years used to peek only. Fast forward to now, he's hands down my best client, doing sessions of 4-5h exclusive or even more. Yeah, he's weird and high as fuck, but I'm nobody to judge.

I'm always in a good mood. If I'm not, then it's time to fold some clothes and watch Netflix. I would rather not work a few slow hours, than make under my average per hour and maybe lose some customers with my defensive attitude. I'm not saying it's the right way, that's how I hustle and that's how I preserved my clientele.

Getting detailed answers like this is honestly rare in the cam girl world so thanks a bunch for responding the way that you did. Highly appreciated:hug:

euro_princess
07-02-2019, 01:20 PM
^ In a true feminist way, I'm all for fair play. There is space for everybody under the sun. And girls should stick together. I almost take it personal when other people blame other chicks for their slow days. Honey, that's not the attitude, bashing somebody won't help no one. I never blame other performers or myself, 99% it's tech or custies being spoiled brats and acting up. But other girls, they are doing what pays their bills and bread and butter. Live and let live.

You getting better or any other girl, will raise the standards of this industry. I believe we are a team, a team to educate men into respecting this service.

(you can see I'm such a libra type, always being the pacifist and finding justice in the world. lol)

SweetSouthernElle
07-02-2019, 01:54 PM
I would say 65% yes, are regulars (last year, last 2-3 years). I have just a hand full of people being with me over 4-5 years and those are my whales, level 5 guys. My sugar daddies and people I've developed a true bond with.

I'm not a domme for sure. But with my bratty attitude, I get submissive guys from time to time. I have some clients for blasphemy (I don't promote myself, I just happen to be an atheist and disclose that), but then again that's less than 10% of my earnings.
What fits my agenda best is GFE, being assertive with my members and bumping their ego. Most of them like me cause I'm reliable and down to earth. I do nothing special, I'm close to 30, so not a teen anymore, but neither milf. I'm not glamour, got no big tits or ass, got no dancing skills, as I said in a post above, just a big mouth. I entertain them and they entertain my bank account.

What probably helps me most is "never stay online when you're bored or pissed". People will notice and today's guest, might be tomorrow's whale. I had this dude who for years used to peek only. Fast forward to now, he's hands down my best client, doing sessions of 4-5h exclusive or even more. Yeah, he's weird and high as fuck, but I'm nobody to judge.

I'm always in a good mood. If I'm not, then it's time to fold some clothes and watch Netflix. I would rather not work a few slow hours, than make under my average per hour and maybe lose some customers with my defensive attitude. I'm not saying it's the right way, that's how I hustle and that's how I preserved my clientele.

Thanks so much for such a detailed response! I see you have cammed for several years. How long would you say it took for you to get to those rates and make that much consistently?

SapphireXO
07-02-2019, 02:24 PM
When someone new buys half my library of clips. #awesome

NitaBaby
07-02-2019, 02:31 PM
^ In a true feminist way, I'm all for fair play. There is space for everybody under the sun. And girls should stick together. I almost take it personal when other people blame other chicks for their slow days. Honey, that's not the attitude, bashing somebody won't help no one. I never blame other performers or myself, 99% it's tech or custies being spoiled brats and acting up. But other girls, they are doing what pays their bills and bread and butter. Live and let live.

You getting better or any other girl, will raise the standards of this industry. I believe we are a team, a team to educate men into respecting this service.

(you can see I'm such a libra type, always being the pacifist and finding justice in the world. lol)

Couldn't agree more.

I started camming a year ago and figured ...hm... maybe there is a reason for the vagueness. Posting a question that didn't receive a "look through the forums" type of answer was like pulling teeth. I mean, I would ask really specific questions and make sure to include the usual disclaimer ("I know that everyone hustles different, blah blah blah, not everyone has the same rates, yada yada yada") but you could almost hear crickets every single time. They weren't un-answerable questions. There was just an obvious unwillingness to be bothered.

Unless the question is something violently basic like "how many privates do you get per hour" or something else that is truly a matter of variables then I will gladly write 5 paragraphs answering that question lol. But when I first started I couldn't figure a few things out. I scoured the forums and combed through the internet before finally asking my question -and still manage to attract that one cam girl with the laziest "this is a hustle and you should adjust your expectations if you thought it would be easy" type of response. Thanks, bright eye. I hadn't guessed.

Maybe you have to be struggling on cam yourself to develop this allergic reaction to revealing your 'secrets' but alas ...a year later... I still see no problem with being helpful. Not saying that anyone OWES other cam girls a spreed sheet of all the things they do and how they do it. But the general feeling of widespread no-shits-given is just odd. No advice could someone ever give me that would subsequently take money out of their own pocket. And vice versa.

But enough of that :soapbox:.

Don't think I've seen any cam girls blame others for their slow days but the thought alone is hilarious. They quite literally have the same opportunities in front of them as the well-performing ones. Experience is probably one of the few variables that someone else can have over you but even that isn't something to "blame" on anyone. People are funny.

Holly_xoxo
07-02-2019, 03:48 PM
Finally I can post in here!! After a painful last week, I was able to make 250 in a 4 hour shift which isn't common for me. Fingers crossed the rest of the week goes well. Last week just about did me in Lol

izshadow
07-02-2019, 04:21 PM
Couldn't agree more.

I started camming a year ago and figured ...hm... maybe there is a reason for the vagueness. Posting a question that didn't receive a "look through the forums" type of answer was like pulling teeth. I mean, I would ask really specific questions and make sure to include the usual disclaimer ("I know that everyone hustles different, blah blah blah, not everyone has the same rates, yada yada yada") but you could almost hear crickets every single time. They weren't un-answerable questions. There was just an obvious unwillingness to be bothered.

Unless the question is something violently basic like "how many privates do you get per hour" or something else that is truly a matter of variables then I will gladly write 5 paragraphs answering that question lol. But when I first started I couldn't figure a few things out. I scoured the forums and combed through the internet before finally asking my question -and still manage to attract that one cam girl with the laziest "this is a hustle and you should adjust your expectations if you thought it would be easy" type of response. Thanks, bright eye. I hadn't guessed.

Maybe you have to be struggling on cam yourself to develop this allergic reaction to revealing your 'secrets' but alas ...a year later... I still see no problem with being helpful. Not saying that anyone OWES other cam girls a spreed sheet of all the things they do and how they do it. But the general feeling of widespread no-shits-given is just odd. No advice could someone ever give me that would subsequently take money out of their own pocket. And vice versa.

But enough of that :soapbox:.

Don't think I've seen any cam girls blame others for their slow days but the thought alone is hilarious. They quite literally have the same opportunities in front of them as the well-performing ones. Experience is probably one of the few variables that someone else can have over you but even that isn't something to "blame" on anyone. People are funny.

You are not alone and why I think I failed at camming in the past. No one would help me on here. Instead I felt judged if I was even able to get a response. Now I'm trying again and NOW I'm motivated. Now I'm getting questions answered. Now I feel like there is a small TEAM of us on here to hit our goals in life. I love all of you that have been so active within this forum, both new and veteran! I can now say I have models I look up to and inspire to be instead of feeling jealous and bitter. THIS IS WHY CAMMING NOW ROCKS and I can post in here saying it does haha!!!!!

NitaBaby
07-02-2019, 04:27 PM
^Agree. I could probably name 5 or 6 of you who are either super positive or super motivating and I love you guys for that.

pippapippa
07-02-2019, 08:24 PM
Stayed the fuck on when I was dying to get off and got a fifty minute long Skype show at the end. Made my whole night.

euro_princess
07-02-2019, 09:12 PM
Thanks so much for such a detailed response! I see you have cammed for several years. How long would you say it took for you to get to those rates and make that much consistently?

I have over 6 years in the industry. It took me 2 years and a lot of discipline and screaming my lungs out for people to respect me. Being an eastern european wasn't easy at that time, people didn't trust us, we were seen as uneducated or scammers. I remember a client being shocked when I told him I've been at the dentist. "You have dentists in your country?! Damn. I thought you were crazy poor and had no access to health". That was the attitude, customers were ignorant. But I never took it personally, I made it my mission to educate them about our culture, way of living and history (to this day).
So no, I didn't start with those prices, I got all the way up from $1.99 (cause that's what others were charging). I was working 45-50 or even more hours to get to my goal, which was a few hundreds. You can't imagine my happiness when I first made $500 in a week, I was astonished with myself.

I was always caring about my customers, taking in depth notes, trying to remember the smallest details, trying to give them enough info about me, so I could be seen as somebody in that sea of girls.
That's one of my advices, market yourself as special. You definitely are. People will remember you for odd unusual reasons, "oh, that chicks that really likes Asian food and never stops talking about it" more than "that chick with big tits". That's how I see my customers also. That dude that's really into country music. Or that guy who loves surf and never listens to apply SPF. You seen, small details that make a huge change. Suddenly you are not just an attractive woman, but a casual girl caring about them.

After being at $1.99 for a while I boomed my prices to $5, nobody cared. I was making more and more and way easier, less work, but more quality time online. Then I started bumping my prices every few months and that was it. I don't think I would go over $10 for premium. I feel like that's my personal limit, but hey, I'm pretty satisfied with it.

euro_princess
07-02-2019, 09:25 PM
Couldn't agree more.

I started camming a year ago and figured ...hm... maybe there is a reason for the vagueness. Posting a question that didn't receive a "look through the forums" type of answer was like pulling teeth. I mean, I would ask really specific questions and make sure to include the usual disclaimer ("I know that everyone hustles different, blah blah blah, not everyone has the same rates, yada yada yada") but you could almost hear crickets every single time. They weren't un-answerable questions. There was just an obvious unwillingness to be bothered.

Unless the question is something violently basic like "how many privates do you get per hour" or something else that is truly a matter of variables then I will gladly write 5 paragraphs answering that question lol. But when I first started I couldn't figure a few things out. I scoured the forums and combed through the internet before finally asking my question -and still manage to attract that one cam girl with the laziest "this is a hustle and you should adjust your expectations if you thought it would be easy" type of response. Thanks, bright eye. I hadn't guessed.

Maybe you have to be struggling on cam yourself to develop this allergic reaction to revealing your 'secrets' but alas ...a year later... I still see no problem with being helpful. Not saying that anyone OWES other cam girls a spreed sheet of all the things they do and how they do it. But the general feeling of widespread no-shits-given is just odd. No advice could someone ever give me that would subsequently take money out of their own pocket. And vice versa.

But enough of that :soapbox:.

Don't think I've seen any cam girls blame others for their slow days but the thought alone is hilarious. They quite literally have the same opportunities in front of them as the well-performing ones. Experience is probably one of the few variables that someone else can have over you but even that isn't something to "blame" on anyone. People are funny.

Thankfully, I discovered this forum when I was already for a few years in the industry. I had no clue it was such a big online community for this industry. I was bat shit naive.
My experience with other cam girls wasn't too lovely. I remember being on a group with a few of them (not from here, veterans from SM) and they were gossiping like crazy another chick. That didn't make me feel comfy at all and I started seeing the ugly side of the industry.
People being all rainbows and shit, until somebody makes more than them. I wasn't taken seriously either, because xenophobia and nobody is cooler or better than an american. Since then, I stay in my lane.

I am open and I keep no secretiveness, because I wish somebody was this way with me. I wish somebody would have told me little things to bump my confidence. That wasn't the case.
If I'm part of this community, then at least I can make myself useful and share my experience. That's not going to take away John or Michael from me or any other customer, I'm confident in myself. After being a veteran, I can tell you people spend left and right. There is no such a thing as exclusivity, never! Don't believe them and fall into that trap. So if I'm not online making money out of this dude, then I hope another girl is treating him right and smashing his daily limit. Tomorrow his limit might be bigger, to cover us both.

NitaBaby
07-03-2019, 07:04 AM
^FACT.

Miss_ShaSha
07-03-2019, 11:15 AM
I was always caring about my customers, taking in depth notes, trying to remember the smallest details, trying to give them enough info about me, so I could be seen as somebody in that sea of girls.
That's one of my advices, market yourself as special. You definitely are. People will remember you for odd unusual reasons, "oh, that chicks that really likes Asian food and never stops talking about it" more than "that chick with big tits". That's how I see my customers also. That dude that's really into country music. Or that guy who loves surf and never listens to apply SPF. You seen, small details that make a huge change. Suddenly you are not just an attractive woman, but a casual girl caring about them.




Pretty stellar advice.

SapphireXO
07-03-2019, 12:13 PM
I used to do that. Then I realized it is not reciprocal. We are so easily replaced. Consistency and always being a "good product" has worked better than me emotionally investing or keeping details on customers. Too much effort with out enough pay out. I found it easier to show up to work, predictably, with a playful, fun, positive attitude is gold for me. Then consistently producing and putting out content that is predictable for customers. Whatever you do, do it well. Not half assed. Don't show your bad emotions on a not so stellar day. Fake it til you make it. Be a reliable product/service that never disappoints.

KatDaniels
07-03-2019, 09:08 PM
^ In a true feminist way, I'm all for fair play. There is space for everybody under the sun. And girls should stick together. I almost take it personal when other people blame other chicks for their slow days. Honey, that's not the attitude, bashing somebody won't help no one. I never blame other performers or myself, 99% it's tech or custies being spoiled brats and acting up. But other girls, they are doing what pays their bills and bread and butter. Live and let live.

You getting better or any other girl, will raise the standards of this industry. I believe we are a team, a team to educate men into respecting this service.

(you can see I'm such a libra type, always being the pacifist and finding justice in the world. lol)

Nice reply, truly, hugs chica well done!

NitaBaby
07-04-2019, 06:51 AM
I used to do that. Then I realized it is not reciprocal. We are so easily replaced. Consistency and always being a "good product" has worked better than me emotionally investing or keeping details on customers. Too much effort with out enough pay out. I found it easier to show up to work, predictably, with a playful, fun, positive attitude is gold for me. Then consistently producing and putting out content that is predictable for customers. Whatever you do, do it well. Not half assed. Don't show your bad emotions on a not so stellar day. Fake it til you make it. Be a reliable product/service that never disappoints.

Exactly. I'm one of those people that can't fake stuff like that. If I don't give a shit about your day then pretending to comes off really hallow and the topic dies quickly. Unless you tip me so much that I'm forced to remember you OR you are always breaking the monotony in my room with interesting convo then I'm not going to remember you any more than I remember the next username on my screen. Really couldn't care how that affects these guys. When I log on that means they need to pay me for sex stuff or leave, period. Only once I've logged off does my wall finally come down for the people who's birthday I didn't have to force myself to remember. Seriously, even with what I make when I log on and stfo they still don't pay me enough to jot down their girlfriends zodiac sign or the name of their 80 year old dog. Logging on with a fresh perspective is the only way I can do this long-term.

((Guys definitely show that they want to be remembered though. I can almost feel it in the way some of them ask, "do you remember me?" before I give a prompt, "nope." Somehow they get over it. It costs way more than some gold and a few compliments to rent space in my brain like that.))

ravenskyy
07-05-2019, 11:27 AM
It costs way more than some gold and a few compliments to rent space in my brain like that.))

Girl!!! I freaking lost it at this part. I'm screaming! :rotfl:

Made half of my daily goal in the first 2 hours on cam. Made some new customers and I'm now 75% of the way to my high goal!!! 5.5 hours left in this shift. Fuck yea!!!