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simone87
12-30-2012, 04:21 PM
hun i know that he may have other great attributes and that you like him, but him being like this can really damage your self-esteem and sexual life. idk how experienced or how old you are, but i was young when i was with my vagina-hater ugghh ( the gay one. and i have nothing agains gay men but this one was bad). being with a man for years who i loved and who hated my vagina really hurt me. he pretty much trained me to never expect to have an orgasm during sex or be touched down there, and also made me feel like my vagina was something to be ashamed of and hidden. that's what makes you a woman and its beautiful! for years after we broke up i was uncomfortable and totally self-conscious about anyone going down on me, i couldn't relax and i always felt like i wasn't clean/good enough .. and it took me awhile to even achieve orgasm again or feel ok about myself. be careful with this guy. he obviously has issues and is either gay, immature, or a total misogynist asshole. there are plenty of fish in the sea, do not settle!

strippername
12-30-2012, 04:25 PM
How many times have you heard a girl/women whatever say that penises are disgusting? Does he touch it? Has he touched other ones? Does he throw up when he touches them? Is the song funny?

BlkSharpie
12-30-2012, 05:05 PM
I like penis' :D But for sure if its attached to the guy Im attracted to....I wanna see it and be on it as much as humanly possible lol

I mean yeah, its different if its just some random guys schlong, but I cant really say Ive been romantically involved with a guy who I thought was disgusting, or said things to him to hurt and demean him. And no way Id want to be witha guy who treated me like that...thats abuse plain and simple.

charlie61
12-30-2012, 08:31 PM
Thank YOU ALL for your responses. I didn’t expect anyone to read this ridiculous post of mine but you have all given me such wonderful advice! Problem is I am still not sure what to do (facepalm). After posting this I decided to try and make myself feel better by Googling the issue. I found hundreds upon hundreds of sites where boyfriends, husbands, girlfriends, and wives talk about how vaginas gross them out. I am DEFINITELY not alone. So at this point I am not sure whether or not to accept it or just move on. I am hung up on the fact that this man is just so amazing in many other aspects. The whole hating-on-vaginas thing is his only major flaw. Maybe he needs to grow the fuck up or spend some more time around my vajayjay – who knows? All I know is that I miss having a guy who couldn’t wait to get between my legs.

This is going to sound like an asshole comment... But I think you should do some deep questioning at this point. You've presented the situation very clearly to this community, and you're getting unanimous "it's a no-brainer" responses to dump the dude. Yet you're still unsure as to what to do. That sounds...odd to me. Why would it be so clear to us and yet still unclear to you? It's not my place to suggest answers.

Doc Holliday
12-30-2012, 08:35 PM
So when this guy goes to strip clubs, does he tip the dancers to put their clothes back on?


Not to derail the thread too much... but I've questioned my own sexuality at times and a big part of what I like about strip clubs is the music, the dancing and the theatrics. I'd rather have an average built/looking dancer who can really dance and tease, than an endowed Playboy Bunny type with no rhythm and just bounces in your lap like a wind-up toy.

But, that does not mean I don't still love vaginas and every part of them! Now I have my own labia preference, but I also like how they all differ in shape, size, and color -- like beautiful orchids or tulips of intense pleasure. And I like when it takes some effort to see one. In fact, I don't like when a dancer will flash her kitty for a mere few bucks, I want to be made to pay more, and (in nude clubs) will request a dancer wait a few songs before removing her bottom.

So as much as I love the music, the rhythm, the dancing and the teasing, that vagina is still the icing on the cake I came to see and which I go home thinking about how lucky the guy (or girl) back home is who she fully shares it with.

It's stories and people like this guy who I can't relate with and anger me for making someone feel ashamed of a part of their body that is just as beautiful as it is enjoyable.

Also, I wasn't a biology major, but I don't think any of us would be here without them.

So, please, any time anyone makes you feel down about your lady bits, know there are several more of us out there that appreciate and admire them.

Pottymouth101
12-30-2012, 08:43 PM
I think there should be a thread of the year award. My vote for 2012...is this one. For sure!

msincredible01
12-30-2012, 09:11 PM
The lesson I take from this post: Never date a man who hates Mexican food.

But in all seriousness, sit on his face until he changes his mind.

Nuclear Martini
12-30-2012, 10:00 PM
I would dump my bf if he said that to me and I have been with him for two years. FUCK THAT! He is angry that he hasn't come out of the closet.

Addison
01-05-2013, 07:54 AM
I would simply make fun of his penis until he felt really insecure about it. Then again, I'm immature.