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StephanieXS
01-17-2013, 02:33 PM
They have to give it to you. You won't have it when you start off.

Meaganminx
01-17-2013, 02:36 PM
Thank you, i sent them an email about it too

MissSassyPickles
01-17-2013, 05:55 PM
*bump*

I have another question! I want to sign up for Payoneer. Who is the best partner to initially sign up with regarding fees? I heard that either ImLive or LiveJasmin were good to sign up with because they don't charge an activation fee?

Nocturnelle
01-17-2013, 06:14 PM
When I first got Payoneer I was signed up with ImLive and I didn't have to pay anything.

Kinda dumb but.. What do non nude models do on cam? I don't need a play by play just curious.

AliceFun
01-17-2013, 06:19 PM
Hi, i need some input please ladies, i am hairy (hairy pussy) and have this in my profile/ attributes, i often get guys asking me in freechat "how hairy are you?". Ok, i am NOT extremely hairy, dont have hair around my asshole, i am just "normal" hairy. If i answer them i am Normal or medium or regular or pretty hairy they leave right away. i dont know what answer they expect, i cant tell VERY hairy or so cause if they consider i am not hairy enough in pvt they could give a bad rating. So what to tell these guys? i am hairy, if i was any different i would state it in my room topic, profile, description.
Thank u lots xx

StephanieXS
01-17-2013, 06:22 PM
Tell them they can find out in private.

AliceFun
01-17-2013, 06:29 PM
Tell them they can find out in private.
Logical answer to us but its not working with these guys otherwise they wont ask having in mind i say i am hairy. Thanks

MissSassyPickles
01-17-2013, 06:32 PM
When I first got Payoneer I was signed up with ImLive and I didn't have to pay anything.

Kinda dumb but.. What do non nude models do on cam? I don't need a play by play just curious.

Thanks Nocturnelle!

I don't know much about non-nude modelling but I know there is one girl who is usually on the first row of MFC that is non-nude and she is a professional poker player I believe so she plays a lot of games!

prettypinkprincess
01-17-2013, 10:43 PM
Do any of you ladies work on ifriends.net? Pros? Cons? Thanks.

VoluptiousBriadda
01-18-2013, 01:37 PM
Do any of you ladies work on ifriends.net? Pros? Cons? Thanks.

I dont know a single thing about them,although i do know that if there isnt alot of girls working a site,theres usually a pretty good reason why- i cant recall anyone here saying they work for them (although im sure there are probably some girls here that do) use the search function here and pull up every single relevant thread you can about ifriends and read like crazy,you should be able to get your answers based off the general consensus.If you have trouble finding anything here using the search function,try using google,you could try searching stripperweb + ifriends.net - that sort of thing.

And im worried about the .net - sometimes studios will use .net instead of .com to try and trick girls into thinking its the main site - are you sure the real site isnt ifriends.com?? sorry i couldnt be more helpful!

VoluptiousBriadda
01-18-2013, 01:46 PM
So, I had someone request a custom clip, I quoted the $100 (for 30 minutes, I'm a fucking idiot) and they paid half up front via C4S tribute. Well, after receiving the script and trying to do it I've discovered that it's just not feasible. It's a limp clip and he wants to see me carried around, my bf having sex with me, tons of stuff and... well, unless find a different guy that I'm comfortable having sex with (NOT HAPPENING) this video can't happen because 1) it's absurdly complex and 2) my bf cannot lift my dead weight. I'm trying to get his money refunded by clips4sale but, if that's not possible what should I do? I really can't do this clip it's STUPID complicated and I didn't realize what I was getting into...

Im assuming youve already started a ticket or called C4S about this? I have a store but i havent uploaded any clips yet,I had a few things happen that prevented me from filming/uploading until now so I cant really give you any advice - have you tried going to industry insight and posting in the C4S thread there?Its usually one of the very first threads on the first page there- and responses are usually extremely quick,i bet someone there would be able to help you better!good luck and let us know what ends up happening!

MissSassyPickles
01-18-2013, 01:47 PM
Do any of you ladies work on ifriends.net? Pros? Cons? Thanks.

I was researching them on here and there is a security issue where hackers can go into your private shows very easily and download/record/anything much easier than any other site.

Wouldn't recommend them until it's fixed.

takiaya
01-19-2013, 12:33 AM
Can someone direct me to the topic of how to get videos taken down? someone recorded my free chat on mfcs, and I need it taken down off a certain site -.- I looked for the topic but cant find it for some reason

VoluptiousBriadda
01-19-2013, 01:11 AM
Can someone direct me to the topic of how to get videos taken down? someone recorded my free chat on mfcs, and I need it taken down off a certain site -.- I looked for the topic but cant find it for some reason

Search DMCA if searching "recorded shows" isn't coming up with anything helpful

I couldn't find the exact thread that I personally believe to be the most helpful and knowledgeable as far as this subject is concerned,but its 2 am and I have to go to sleep,busy wknd ahead.Heres one that tells you exactly how to do a DMCA takedown,follow the links at the very bottom of the thread to help you find more info as well if you need more
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?173818-How-To-NOT-Have-Your-Cam-Shows-Recorded-amp-Posted-Everywhere&highlight=DMCA+takedown

Good luck chick!!!

Nikita~
01-19-2013, 05:34 AM
Just started on LiveJasmin last night, and today I got a Performer Penalty/Sanction for posting my twitter link to a guy who bought private time (they were kind enough to include a link with a quote of the infraction!). I tried searching the words "suspended" and "penalty", but couldn't find anything LJ specific.

The only reason I'm freaking out is because the Support Team sent 2 emails, one saying "the following Performer Accounts have been closed:" with nothing after it, the other saying "the following Performer Accounts have been temporarily suspended:" followed by my screen name. I assume this only means I'm suspended, not banned...but it didn't mention the amount of time the suspension would last. I e-mailed them about that, but in the meantime I was hoping someone could shed some light on the subject. Thanks!

Nikita~
01-19-2013, 05:35 AM
Just started on LiveJasmin last night, and today I got a Performer Penalty/Sanction for posting my twitter link to a guy who bought private time (they were kind enough to include a link with a quote of the infraction!). I tried searching the words "suspended" and "penalty", but couldn't find anything LJ specific.

The only reason I'm freaking out is because the Support Team sent 2 emails, one saying "the following Performer Accounts have been closed:" with nothing after it, the other saying "the following Performer Accounts have been temporarily suspended:" followed by my screen name. I assume this only means I'm suspended, not banned...but it didn't mention the amount of time the suspension would last. I e-mailed them about that, but in the meantime I was hoping someone could shed some light on the subject. Thanks!

Classy_Katy
01-19-2013, 05:54 AM
Hi, i need some input please ladies, i am hairy (hairy pussy) and have this in my profile/ attributes, i often get guys asking me in freechat "how hairy are you?". Ok, i am NOT extremely hairy, dont have hair around my asshole, i am just "normal" hairy. If i answer them i am Normal or medium or regular or pretty hairy they leave right away. i dont know what answer they expect, i cant tell VERY hairy or so cause if they consider i am not hairy enough in pvt they could give a bad rating. So what to tell these guys? i am hairy, if i was any different i would state it in my room topic, profile, description.
Thank u lots xx

Are you able to have a photo on your profile showing how hairy? They could simply be freeloaders asking the question for the sake of it or just to get off on it.

Classy_Katy
01-19-2013, 06:01 AM
So, I had someone request a custom clip, I quoted the $100 (for 30 minutes, I'm a fucking idiot) and they paid half up front via C4S tribute. Well, after receiving the script and trying to do it I've discovered that it's just not feasible. It's a limp clip and he wants to see me carried around, my bf having sex with me, tons of stuff and... well, unless find a different guy that I'm comfortable having sex with (NOT HAPPENING) this video can't happen because 1) it's absurdly complex and 2) my bf cannot lift my dead weight. I'm trying to get his money refunded by clips4sale but, if that's not possible what should I do? I really can't do this clip it's STUPID complicated and I didn't realize what I was getting into...

Oh dear...seeing the script before you agree to do it really is a must, these guys often ask for scenarios without thinking about whether they are actually possible, and usually expect us to have a camera crew at hand to film it.

I would explain to him that what he has asked is impossible. You agreed to do the clip on the basis that his script was both reasonable and possible. Tell him what you could do that is similar to what he asked and see if he would be happy with that instead. You could have a problem with using the tribute as payment, we all agreed not to use tributes for this purpose when they brought it in...they will be seen as non-refunable gifts and it's a breach of the rules unfortunately.

AliceFun
01-19-2013, 06:22 AM
Are you able to have a photo on your profile showing how hairy? They could simply be freeloaders asking the question for the sake of it or just to get off on it.

Not able to, i am on SM, i think u very right Katy, they wanna talk hot about it most probably. Many thanks, kisses

StephanieXS
01-19-2013, 10:12 AM
Oh dear...seeing the script before you agree to do it really is a must, these guys often ask for scenarios without thinking about whether they are actually possible, and usually expect us to have a camera crew at hand to film it.

I would explain to him that what he has asked is impossible. You agreed to do the clip on the basis that his script was both reasonable and possible. Tell him what you could do that is similar to what he asked and see if he would be happy with that instead. You could have a problem with using the tribute as payment, we all agreed not to use tributes for this purpose when they brought it in...they will be seen as non-refunable gifts and it's a breach of the rules unfortunately.

Yeah, in hoping I won't get in trouble for that because I told him I didn't accept them as payment and he did it anyway...


Not able to, i am on SM, i think u very right Katy, they wanna talk hot about it most probably. Many thanks, kisses

You could change your profile pic to a nude one and 'censor' it with stars. I've seen alot I of girls do that and then you'd have there question answered.

prettypinkprincess
01-19-2013, 11:02 AM
Idk if this sounds weird but I was wondering what you girls do when your on your period? Do you just not cam? I see so many girls that cam pretty much every single day and I always wondered what they do. Maybe they dont get a period because of their birth control. I have heard that some girls use Divacups but those just are not very appealing to me so I thought I would ask you ladies.

Missbeth
01-19-2013, 11:06 AM
Idk if this sounds weird but I was wondering what you girls do when your on your period? Do you just not cam? I see so many girls that cam pretty much every single day and I always wondered what they do. Maybe they dont get a period because of their birth control. I have heard that some girls use Divacups but those just are not very appealing to me so I thought I would ask you ladies.

I'm not on birth control right now thanks to my insurance company rejecting my payment TWICE which I only found out when my pharmacy called me telling me they couldn't fill it.....so I will be getting my period in a few days and going on a mini vacation...lol.

Otherwise I'm on one of the 3 month cycle pills and just skip the week with my period and start taking a new pack of pills automatically so I never have a period...I talked to my doctor about it and she said it was perfectly fine.

StephanieXS
01-19-2013, 11:09 AM
Idk if this sounds weird but I was wondering what you girls do when your on your period? Do you just not cam? I see so many girls that cam pretty much every single day and I always wondered what they do. Maybe they dont get a period because of their birth control. I have heard that some girls use Divacups but those just are not very appealing to me so I thought I would ask you ladies.
I use SoftCups. They seem intimidatin at first but trust me, oce you get used to them you'll never go back.

ManyRoses
01-19-2013, 11:13 AM
So, I had someone request a custom clip, I quoted the $100 (for 30 minutes, I'm a fucking idiot) and they paid half up front via C4S tribute. Well, after receiving the script and trying to do it I've discovered that it's just not feasible. It's a limp clip and he wants to see me carried around, my bf having sex with me, tons of stuff and... well, unless find a different guy that I'm comfortable having sex with (NOT HAPPENING) this video can't happen because 1) it's absurdly complex and 2) my bf cannot lift my dead weight. I'm trying to get his money refunded by clips4sale but, if that's not possible what should I do? I really can't do this clip it's STUPID complicated and I didn't realize what I was getting into...

Hmmm....tough situation.

Can you find a way to work around your bf's limitations, and still get the majority of the fetish catered to? With a limp fetish, I am assuming that he wants you to be limp while you are being fucked, as well, right? Or...wait...you don't mean "limp" as in "limping because I twisted my ankle"? Christ, there are too many possibilities!

Either way..

1. If he wants a limping clip, could you make a big deal of the fall, of being supported/half carried by your bf (without him having to lift your entire body), etc etc
2. If he wants a limp (floppy) clip, could you do something similar - film and show you "going limp" in his arms (where he wouldn't actually have to support your whole weight) and then flopping you around on the bed, so that he doesn't have to take your entire weight, but is still showing you being limp, and the flopping around limply while you fuck? Or even see if you guys have a friend who CAN lift you up when you are dead weight, and just film him carrying you into the bedroom from the back, so you don't see his face, just you flopping over the sides of his arms, or even from the front without showing the guy's face...then cut to your bf fucking you?

Either way, I would e-mail him and say that it is FAR more complex than you originally expected, and you cannot refund him because he sent you money as a tribute even though you asked him not to. Tell him that because you are SUCH a lovely person, and because he cannot be refunded, you are still willing to do what you can for the clip, but you may not be able to do all of it.

And then live and learn - ask for way more (esp if you are doing a b/g clip!!!), and get the script up front.

Good luck!

StephanieXS
01-19-2013, 11:35 AM
Hmmm....tough situation.

Can you find a way to work around your bf's limitations, and still get the majority of the fetish catered to? With a limp fetish, I am assuming that he wants you to be limp while you are being fucked, as well, right? Or...wait...you don't mean "limp" as in "limping because I twisted my ankle"? Christ, there are too many possibilities!

Either way..

1. If he wants a limping clip, could you make a big deal of the fall, of being supported/half carried by your bf (without him having to lift your entire body), etc etc
2. If he wants a limp (floppy) clip, could you do something similar - film and show you "going limp" in his arms (where he wouldn't actually have to support your whole weight) and then flopping you around on the bed, so that he doesn't have to take your entire weight, but is still showing you being limp, and the flopping around limply while you fuck? Or even see if you guys have a friend who CAN lift you up when you are dead weight, and just film him carrying you into the bedroom from the back, so you don't see his face, just you flopping over the sides of his arms, or even from the front without showing the guy's face...then cut to your bf fucking you?

Either way, I would e-mail him and say that it is FAR more complex than you originally expected, and you cannot refund him because he sent you money as a tribute even though you asked him not to. Tell him that because you are SUCH a lovely person, and because he cannot be refunded, you are still willing to do what you can for the clip, but you may not be able to do all of it.

And then live and learn - ask for way more (esp if you are doing a b/g clip!!!), and get the script up front.

Good luck!

Shockingly enough they refunded it because I explained that the guy gave it to me assuming that I'd do a clip in exchange. I basically got a 'it happens all the time' kinda response.

MissSassyPickles
01-19-2013, 12:48 PM
Idk if this sounds weird but I was wondering what you girls do when your on your period? Do you just not cam? I see so many girls that cam pretty much every single day and I always wondered what they do. Maybe they dont get a period because of their birth control. I have heard that some girls use Divacups but those just are not very appealing to me so I thought I would ask you ladies.

Search "sea sponges" on here and you'll get some threads on how to use them

Personally the birth control I am on (IUD - Mirena) stops my period but when I did have my period I used these while escorting and they work. I had a fairly heavy period so I had to change them pretty often but it was worth it.

MissSassyPickles
01-19-2013, 12:55 PM
I use SoftCups. They seem intimidatin at first but trust me, oce you get used to them you'll never go back.

I tried those cups and they wouldn't fit me, very uncomfortable but I'm glad you can use them! I did like the Diva Cup though and that one is reusable. I never tried to be penetrated with it in but I don't think it would hold up lol.

StephanieXS
01-19-2013, 03:31 PM
I tried those cups and they wouldn't fit me, very uncomfortable but I'm glad you can use them! I did like the Diva Cup though and that one is reusable. I never tried to be penetrated with it in but I don't think it would hold up lol.

When was the last time you tried them? They changed the design recently so the fit girls who are a little narrower on the inside. That's why I can use them now! :)

Classy_Katy
01-19-2013, 03:37 PM
Idk if this sounds weird but I was wondering what you girls do when your on your period? Do you just not cam? I see so many girls that cam pretty much every single day and I always wondered what they do. Maybe they dont get a period because of their birth control. I have heard that some girls use Divacups but those just are not very appealing to me so I thought I would ask you ladies.

I'm on Adultwork so I can do period play when I have a period...now though I'm on a daily contraceptive pill (thankfully in the UK it's free) and it has stopped me having periods.

MissSassyPickles
01-19-2013, 04:18 PM
When was the last time you tried them? They changed the design recently so the fit girls who are a little narrower on the inside. That's why I can use them now! :)

A few years ago. Now that I'm on an IUD I don't get my period so I don't need them but if I do I'll definitely try them again! I'm glad they listened to their smaller shaped counterparts!

VoluptiousBriadda
01-20-2013, 11:35 PM
BUMP!

32644


Your welcome :rotfl:

CourtneyRaine
01-20-2013, 11:50 PM
Are you very talkative in free chat, or do you tend to ignore guys until they go private?

I am talkative, bubbly, engaging, like to have conversations, etc. It works for me, but I wonder if it really works for me? If it works as well as it could? I wonder if I'd do better if I ignore free chat members a little bit more? There are times when I'm a bit cranky or no one is talking so I kinda ignore guys. Sometimes I do get privates that way. Usually I don't. I tend to have longer privates and lots of repeat and regular customers, but I also have a TON of repeat and regular lurkers who think it's totally cool to hang out with me all shift, every shift and never buy a show or tip. I almost feel like I don't get as many privates as I could because my room atmosphere is relaxed and friendly and a lot of guys are lonely and want the free attention. On the other hand, I feel that my long privates and awesome regs bring me such nice money because they connect with my personality and it is precisely my talkativeness gets them hooked.

I'll be starting on a new free chat site to supplement my main one and I'm wondering if I should run my room a bit differently on the new site. I don't want to change my approach on my main site because my regs are used to me as I am and I don't want to mess with that, but I'm really considering being a bit more standoffish on this second site. What works for YOU?

AngeXx
01-21-2013, 06:51 AM
Are you very talkative in free chat, or do you tend to ignore guys until they go private?

I am talkative, bubbly, engaging, like to have conversations, etc. It works for me, but I wonder if it really works for me? If it works as well as it could? I wonder if I'd do better if I ignore free chat members a little bit more? There are times when I'm a bit cranky or no one is talking so I kinda ignore guys. Sometimes I do get privates that way. Usually I don't. I tend to have longer privates and lots of repeat and regular customers, but I also have a TON of repeat and regular lurkers who think it's totally cool to hang out with me all shift, every shift and never buy a show or tip. I almost feel like I don't get as many privates as I could because my room atmosphere is relaxed and friendly and a lot of guys are lonely and want the free attention. On the other hand, I feel that my long privates and awesome regs bring me such nice money because they connect with my personality and it is precisely my talkativeness gets them hooked.

That's me. If I ignore, just sit there, and don't say much (even with smiling)...it's doesn't get me anywhere. What makes me money is my personality. Which is why I have a hard time on SM I guess....it's so hard for me to be bubbly on there!

Nocturnelle
01-21-2013, 09:16 AM
Another question! I'm new to MGF and I have a guy requesting a tit fuck video. Would you girls recommend my guy hold the camera so it's POV and kinda shakey or should I put it on a stand?

Also, on MGF can I have a guy in my video? I can't actually find "other" participants in their rules and if that's allowed on MGF.

ABigNerd
01-21-2013, 12:42 PM
Which cam sites and clip sites allow period play? I've had several guys ask me about it, so I know it's a relatively popular fetish.

VoluptiousBriadda
01-21-2013, 12:46 PM
Are you very talkative in free chat, or do you tend to ignore guys until they go private?

I am talkative, bubbly, engaging, like to have conversations, etc. It works for me, but I wonder if it really works for me? If it works as well as it could? I wonder if I'd do better if I ignore free chat members a little bit more? There are times when I'm a bit cranky or no one is talking so I kinda ignore guys. Sometimes I do get privates that way. Usually I don't. I tend to have longer privates and lots of repeat and regular customers, but I also have a TON of repeat and regular lurkers who think it's totally cool to hang out with me all shift, every shift and never buy a show or tip. I almost feel like I don't get as many privates as I could because my room atmosphere is relaxed and friendly and a lot of guys are lonely and want the free attention. On the other hand, I feel that my long privates and awesome regs bring me such nice money because they connect with my personality and it is precisely my talkativeness gets them hooked.

I'll be starting on a new free chat site to supplement my main one and I'm wondering if I should run my room a bit differently on the new site. I don't want to change my approach on my main site because my regs are used to me as I am and I don't want to mess with that, but I'm really considering being a bit more standoffish on this second site. What works for YOU?

Can you not kick/ban repeat and regular lurkers who never tip or buy shows on your main site? Im not gonna name which site it is since you didnt in your post but Im not familiar with their rules since i only work on SM.Id definitely block them if you have the option,maybe give them some warning first? Ban the ones that do it the most often first and then slowly work your way to the minor offenders,leaving the message option unblocked if you have that option.Id just tell them that your banning bc theyre cheap bastards and youve BEEN letting them look at you for free,and if they want the PRIVILEGE of hanging out in your room,then they need to show some fucking respect and throw you some $$.

what works for ME?Personally,a mixture of the two.Some days I can get on in a great mood and emit a wonderful aura,picture flowers and rainbows shooting out of my ass lol,and Ill be in back to back privates.THEN,other times,I can be in the same mood and get taken advantage of by cheap fucks who want attention by a happy radiant camgirl but dont want to pay a dime.If i notice this is happening,and i KNOW im in a good mood and doing everything right,then ill start ignoring.Ill say something like "omg,all of yall are talking sooo fast,i just cant keep up guys!theres just too many of you in here,i promise im not ignoring you!" and then repeat every so often that Im sorry but the feed is scrolling too fast and that theyll have to take me private if they want to talk to me alone.So it really just depends on the customers in my room that night.

If it were me,id DEFINITELY change my approach on my new site.i mean,WHY NOT?whatcha got to lose? Itll be a fun experiment.There are many times Ive been really scared to try something new that someone has suggested here,but Ill be damned if it doesnt work like a freakin charm about 90% of the time for me.Id try it for several weeks- a month,enough time to get them used to how you run your room and to realize that you wont be giving away your amazing personality and conversation skills for free.

Guys love competition and THE CHASE.NO i repeat NO guy wants a girl that makes herself too available for him.But the second you act like you dont need him and that you have better shit to do?Thats when the tables turn my friend.They want what they cant have - which is why you see the total nerd in love with the smoking hot cheerleader that doesnt even know he exists,even if he has a really cute D&D chick friend that is borderline stage 1 clinger who thinks the world revolves around him only,whom he should really be with instead.

You can always decide to become more talkative later if you try it for awhile and decide it isnt working for you.I think itd be easier to go from standoffish to more talkative than from talkative to standoffish.You may just give the impression that youre finally "opening up more" if you go the first route,whereas the second could be misinterpreted as the site making you "jaded" and turning you into a resentful money hungry bitch.

AriaLove
01-21-2013, 12:47 PM
MGF allows couple vids. Also, for the period vids, I'd suggest hosting them on mediafire and password protecting the link. Period vids aren't allowed on any site I know of.

carmelcream
01-21-2013, 02:37 PM
I work on lj an have recieved the same email you recieved Nakita, but they only suspended me for 24hrs. Yea I was totally freaked out, they said I had accepted personal info in my pvt session, but I really did not I told the guy i could not accept his email but, he gave it to me anyway and I got suspended for it.

AriaLove
01-21-2013, 10:46 PM
That will happen on MGF also. If a guy gives you personal information, you have to report them right away with a screen shot.

ManyRoses
01-22-2013, 12:54 AM
Are you very talkative in free chat, or do you tend to ignore guys until they go private?

I am talkative, bubbly, engaging, like to have conversations, etc. It works for me, but I wonder if it really works for me? If it works as well as it could? I wonder if I'd do better if I ignore free chat members a little bit more? There are times when I'm a bit cranky or no one is talking so I kinda ignore guys. Sometimes I do get privates that way. Usually I don't. I tend to have longer privates and lots of repeat and regular customers, but I also have a TON of repeat and regular lurkers who think it's totally cool to hang out with me all shift, every shift and never buy a show or tip. I almost feel like I don't get as many privates as I could because my room atmosphere is relaxed and friendly and a lot of guys are lonely and want the free attention. On the other hand, I feel that my long privates and awesome regs bring me such nice money because they connect with my personality and it is precisely my talkativeness gets them hooked.

I'll be starting on a new free chat site to supplement my main one and I'm wondering if I should run my room a bit differently on the new site. I don't want to change my approach on my main site because my regs are used to me as I am and I don't want to mess with that, but I'm really considering being a bit more standoffish on this second site. What works for YOU?

I'm a chatty Cathy. Otherwise I get so BORED and log off.

Of course, I try not to get into really detailed conversations with people, because then I think that it puts other guys off - like they don't want to interrupt...and it trains guys to expect one-on-one attention for free.

But if no one is talking - I'll just chat away to myself. I like to think of it as being kind of a deranged cheerleader, pumping everyone up until they just can't say no to a gold show, or a pvt...because it will just be SO MUCH FUUUUUUN!!!! WOOOOOOOOOOOO!

I occasionally feel reeee-diculous doing it, but hey, it works.

Nikita~
01-22-2013, 04:00 AM
Thanks for the heads up, carmelcream. :) I definitely learned my lesson the hard way with this one.

carmelcream
01-22-2013, 06:53 AM
Your welcome, always here to help if I can.

VoluptiousBriadda
01-22-2013, 11:52 AM
I'm a chatty Cathy. Otherwise I get so BORED and log off.

Of course, I try not to get into really detailed conversations with people, because then I think that it puts other guys off - like they don't want to interrupt...and it trains guys to expect one-on-one attention for free.

But if no one is talking - I'll just chat away to myself. I like to think of it as being kind of a deranged cheerleader, pumping everyone up until they just can't say no to a gold show, or a pvt...because it will just be SO MUCH FUUUUUUN!!!! WOOOOOOOOOOOO!

I occasionally feel reeee-diculous doing it, but hey, it works.

^^ WOORRRDDD. i wanted to clarify that i do the same thing Courtney - i didnt want you to misunderstand and think that i meant that i ignore my room and just sit there...like *crickets chirping* lol i am constantly chatting or turning to a new song,singing along,acting sillly etc.I always try to be happy,radiant,talk talk talk not to only one guy but to the room as a whole(or just to myself,which happens alot) and only focus on a guy for maybe an answer or two then on to the next one.

But when everyone is wanting attention,and no one is taking me private,i pretend theres just too many throwing questions/talking to me and that i cant keep up and then i just talk my ass off/be silly/sing etc without it necessarily being to anyone in particular,i never just sit there in silence and ignore them.

BUT,sometimes i will tune back the *utterly blinding camgirl fabulousness* if no one is tipping or taking me private,but being extremely obvious that they are all really enjoying my company.thats when i start feeling like im giving shit away for free,and ill dial it down some,and go for another approach that doesnt give so much awesome sauce away that they just eat it all up in free chat lol

I do know that that works for some girls though,the whole "you gotta pay if you want my time " sort of deal but so far,that approach really didnt pan out for me.Sometimes its still hard for me to find the right combination depending on what guys are in my room,but youve been doing this much longer than i have,so trust your instincts lady,you can doo iiiit!

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MissAdriana
01-22-2013, 12:20 PM
^^ WOORRRDDD. i wanted to clarify that i do the same thing Courtney - i didnt want you to misunderstand and think that i meant that i ignore my room and just sit there...like *crickets chirping* lol i am constantly chatting or turning to a new song,singing along,acting sillly etc.I always try to be happy,radiant,talk talk talk not to only one guy but to the room as a whole(or just to myself,which happens alot) and only focus on a guy for maybe an answer or two then on to the next one.
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Thank you!! I find I do my best when I'm acting like "too busy" to pay attention to them. Not too busy on the computer - with other things like phone/music/etc... If I get into a conversation with a guy then an actual paying customer will come in and "not want to interrupt" so it's best to just ignore the fuck outta them.

VoluptiousBriadda
01-22-2013, 01:05 PM
Thank you!! I find I do my best when I'm acting like "too busy" to pay attention to them. Not too busy on the computer - with other things like phone/music/etc... If I get into a conversation with a guy then an actual paying customer will come in and "not want to interrupt" so it's best to just ignore the fuck outta them.

Ive actually had guys tell me that, before i knew any better! "weeeell,i wanted to take you private yest,but i didnt want to interrupt.." I used to play games in my room,I know it sounds weird bc im on SM but i thought itd make me stand out and be unique.Well it certainly did,and brought in more traffic to my room than ever before,but none of them wanted to pay besides some chump ass tips bc they were having "too much fuuuuun!*squeal*" to go private!

So i started announcing a disclaimer every 5 min that i was only doing that shit to pass the time and keep my room fun until someone decided to take me private,but that anyone could and should butt in and take me whenever they wanted,i was there to have naughty sexins time,not to play free games all night etc" yeaaaa,never worked,they all pussed out and the ones who WANTED to take me,would come back a week later when I wasnt playing a game or doing trivia and would take me private THEN or tell me how much they wanted to take me private during the game but couldnt til next friday now bc they were broke ugh!

I learned my lesson about giving too much away after i hit it off with this dude REALLY well.He was kind,polite,and we had extremely engaging discussions - we talked about our fave music (rock and metal),bands,tattoos and piercings,life etc etc - He made me really comfortable,so i was able to relax and be my regular funny self with him.I always had him dying laughing,and he'd shower me with "you are by far the coolest chick ive ever met,why couldnt i have met you before you got married,blah blah blah" He'd tip to be nice,but it got to the point where it got "weird" for him - any time Id talk to him about going private he'd be like " i cant take you private now,youre too fucking cool dude,i dont wanna mess that shit up" or "naah,itd be too awkward now that weve hung out so much" etc fuckin freeloader lol :banghead:

who knows how much money i lost not only from spending all my time talking to him without him taking me private,but from all the guys that didnt want to interrupt? WINNING! I was promptly spanked on the ass and sent to bed over that one...i had my tail between my legs for wks lol.. needless to say,learned my lesson quickly!

whirlerz
01-22-2013, 02:07 PM
Daily Pay for SM? I just looked thru Princess Jenny's thread, it just had the regular link for SM..I went in my profile (I now get a check) & I can't change it there..so, how do I sign up for Daily Pay for SM?
I'm sorry, my car won't start for two days, & I am going on cam now, so if someone could help, that'd be great, thanks so much!

BrightAndClaire
01-22-2013, 03:33 PM
Icky lubricant question!

I've been on SM actively working for 3 days now, and I feel like it's going extremely well, especially as I'm a complete n00b to camming in general. But I find I'm running into a bit of a toy problem. I do anal and the occasional DP, and, well, while it's a fun way to make a living, it's not particularly sexy after about the 5th time in one day, so I'm having lubricant issues. How can I make sure the toys are adequately lubricated without feeling like I'm wasting a guy's time on setup? Should I make lubing things up part of the show? Should I buy a gallon of the stuff and stash the toys point-down in a cup of it? I mean, a girl's gonna get sore here...

VoluptiousBriadda
01-22-2013, 03:33 PM
Daily Pay for SM? I just looked thru Princess Jenny's thread, it just had the regular link for SM..I went in my profile (I now get a check) & I can't change it there..so, how do I sign up for Daily Pay for SM?
I'm sorry, my car won't start for two days, & I am going on cam now, so if someone could help, that'd be great, thanks so much!

If youre already on SM,youll have to close your account with them first.Go to the DP website,http://adultworkwebcammers.co.uk/joomla/index2 click on the link that says open next to SM and go from there.

Im not sure if you can apply to DP WHILE youre waiting for your SM account to be closed,but Id probably contact Vanessa to get it closed asap when/if you do decide to actually close it and start a new one with DP so that she can get it closed faster for you.I would read the 4 million threads here that talk about all that stuff,sometimes they are under Princess Jenny,sometimes under Daily Pay,i know ive seen the answers to situations like yours a million times in those threads,i just cant remember everything off the top of my head.

Itll still take you awhile to get everything approved as far as closing account,and opening new one with DP goes but shouldnt be more than a wk or two tops,i was good to go in like 3 days but i didnt have to close an account first either..

whirlerz
01-22-2013, 05:48 PM
Yeah, thanks, sorry, I just I don't know I had taken the post off, I had found my answer, thanks . Just my car's not starting now I was panicky

VoluptiousBriadda
01-22-2013, 10:08 PM
^^ TOTALLY understand that feeling,thats what this thread is for my love,dont apologize