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TheBrownFox
05-11-2017, 07:20 PM
What do you think is a good price to charge per guy for that Netflix Party feature? I really need to check that out.

olianajaay
05-12-2017, 08:52 PM
what kind of poses tend to attract the most attention? like how do you guys get people to talk to you or come into your room? on sm to be specific.
im noticing that if i dont show my face i get the most attention
but its still not as much as i like
im not sure if im just ugly or mean looking :/

Rispy_Girl
05-12-2017, 10:55 PM
What do you think is a good price to charge per guy for that Netflix Party feature? I really need to check that out.

I'd first test it to make sure it won't share info you don't want. I think it's easier to do that over Skype and using screen share

LizzyMe
05-14-2017, 07:02 AM
I am just curious if anyone uses electronic cigarettes/ vapors on cam and what has your experience been with them? I have never used them and I am thinking about using them on cam sometimes.

DemoniaDay
05-17-2017, 12:30 PM
Hi. I am a newbie *big grin*
I really want to know how to get images on to my cb profile. I have tip lists and all the adminy stuff I want to post to do my branding butu I am struggling with the HTML.... Help?

Thanks everyone.
Lovely site, super helpful :)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-18-2017, 08:34 AM
Do any of you ladies know if a customer can get my personal real life info when I give him my email address? Gmail?
Thanks in advance.:-*

No. They can only get what's linked to the gmail account. So if you don't use your real name, location,age etc then there's nothing there to poach information from. Also something to think about it if you list this gmail account on any webpages it appears in google searches. This is why we always say to use separate emails for adult ventures and mainstream.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-18-2017, 08:38 AM
Hi. I am a newbie *big grin*
I really want to know how to get images on to my cb profile. I have tip lists and all the adminy stuff I want to post to do my branding butu I am struggling with the HTML.... Help?

Thanks everyone.
Lovely site, super helpful :)

You will need a place to host your images before you can enter the img into your html code. I'm not really sure what other issues you may have?> Here is the CB thread. Someone there may be able to help more https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?183458-The-Chaturbate-thread

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-18-2017, 08:40 AM
What do you think is a good price to charge per guy for that Netflix Party feature? I really need to check that out.

You just turned me onto something new. I have never heard of this before.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-18-2017, 08:42 AM
what kind of poses tend to attract the most attention? like how do you guys get people to talk to you or come into your room? on sm to be specific.
im noticing that if i dont show my face i get the most attention
but its still not as much as i like
im not sure if im just ugly or mean looking :/

How To Break The Ice (https://rebrand.ly/boleymodels-freechat)

xxxluv
05-19-2017, 07:38 AM
I am just curious if anyone uses electronic cigarettes/ vapors on cam and what has your experience been with them? I have never used them and I am thinking about using them on cam sometimes.

This is on my menu on the rare occasion I live cam - I use hookah pens and the smoke fetish guys really enjoy it.
I also do cam session highlighting me using my hookah pen.

While most smoke fetish guys want real cigs - I dont smoke cigs so this was a nice middle grown for them.

xxxluv
05-19-2017, 07:52 AM
What do you think is a good price to charge per guy for that Netflix Party feature? I really need to check that out.

So in the past I have charged from $15-$20 per guy for about an 1 hour and half movie with a min of at least 10 guys and this was just with the chat feature.

Just casual, flirty chat. I then almost tripled the price to have them pop in to a private live stream to see me just being my sexy self did not sell it as much however part price point part was not meeting min so price would increase.

This was good for my voyeur guys because this was a still compared to my per min one on one rate and still a bit of interaction.

TheBrownFox
05-20-2017, 04:20 PM
So in the past I have charged from $15-$20 per guy for about an 1 hour and half movie with a min of at least 10 guys and this was just with the chat feature.

Just casual, flirty chat. I then almost tripled the price to have them pop in to a private live stream to see me just being my sexy self did not sell it as much however part price point part was not meeting min so price would increase.

This was good for my voyeur guys because this was a still compared to my per min one on one rate and still a bit of interaction.

$15 - $20 is what each guy paid you, or what you got in your pocket for each guy? Thanks.

Rispy_Girl
05-22-2017, 09:54 PM
What's the current going rate for FanSigns? (Pics with the fan's name written on a pic and held up by the girl)

Rispy_Girl
05-25-2017, 06:27 AM
Bumping because I really funny know what the going rate is

DeepThoughts
05-25-2017, 08:08 AM
You just turned me onto something new. I have never heard of this before.


BROWNFOX this is awesome! Like I can totally charge a guy to watch a movie with me AKA get paid to watch TV! I wish HBO had it so I could get some GOT fans to pay me to watch with them. Such a cool way to make money while im eating my dinner #everylittlecounts Im thinking $50 per movie $20 per tv episode! Have you tried it yet??

Glamourmilf
05-25-2017, 10:02 AM
BROWNFOX this is awesome! Like I can totally charge a guy to watch a movie with me AKA get paid to watch TV! I wish HBO had it so I could get some GOT fans to pay me to watch with them. Such a cool way to make money while im eating my dinner #everylittlecounts Im thinking $50 per movie $20 per tv episode! Have you tried it yet??

Did You know that you can get HBO on your tablet or mobile phone?

DeepThoughts
05-25-2017, 04:22 PM
^^ Yeah I have it but does it have the party feature? I didnt even look.

Glamourmilf
05-26-2017, 06:55 AM
^^ Yeah I have it but does it have the party feature? I didnt even look.

Not sure, but I'm willing to bet that it does.

Panthera
05-27-2017, 04:38 PM
Hello! I would like to know what are some good camming sites without mandatory free chat. Are there any left, even?? I am on Streamate and IMlive but Imlive is dead and burried since a long time ago, and Streamate is scary dead too, lately. I am desperate to get on more sites, because I can only work for like 4-5 hours a day, but I don't do well with free chat, I feel it's actually working against me instead of helping me :( I am just not a free chat-able girl. Thank you for answering and I wish everyone a great day!

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-27-2017, 04:50 PM
Hello! I would like to know what are some good camming sites without mandatory free chat. Are there any left, even?? I am on Streamate and IMlive but Imlive is dead and burried since a long time ago, and Streamate is scary dead too, lately. I am desperate to get on more sites, because I can only work for like 4-5 hours a day, but I don't do well with free chat, I feel it's actually working against me instead of helping me :( I am just not a free chat-able girl. Thank you for answering and I wish everyone a great day!

Cams has a nude chat option that you can use right from the start. I however do not recommend using it if you really want sales and are just starting out. They too are having tech issues however. It seems that many of the private chat sites are while they try to upgrade and may be the cause of the slow down for many people. Read about being a Cammodel On Cams.com (https://rebrand.ly/camsdotcom-boleynmodels) What I say and many of us have said about camming is you will need to build your own brand and start creating your own platform from which you can perform. If you really don't want to endure freechat you should look into self promotion and think about what other things you do well. Then promote that.

Magical_Hoohah
05-28-2017, 11:54 AM
Hello! I would like to know what are some good camming sites without mandatory free chat. Are there any left, even?? I am on Streamate and IMlive but Imlive is dead and burried since a long time ago, and Streamate is scary dead too, lately. I am desperate to get on more sites, because I can only work for like 4-5 hours a day, but I don't do well with free chat, I feel it's actually working against me instead of helping me :( I am just not a free chat-able girl. Thank you for answering and I wish everyone a great day!

In addition to Cams Nude Chat, AW will let you turn off free chat. Just be aware that AW requires you to have a passport and is not a very fast paced site (especially if you aren't British).
I could be wrong, but I think Camcontacts has no free chat. I've heard their traffic is quite slow.

Technically it's possible to sit in a "fake group show" on SM and F4F, but I don't think either site wants you skipping out on free chat altogether. I can imagine them penalizing you for abusing the fake show feature.
Also, those are sites where the majority of guys that will join your group show are guys that were hanging out in free chat earlier or have seen you before. I don't think those sites have a lot of customers that are willing to join an ongoing "group show" with a model that they can never check out in free chat. It's just not part of the site culture.
On top of that, SM allows peepers and F4F (I think) shows members occasional screen shots of what's going on in your group chats. Guys want to join an ongoing show, so if they see you sitting there reading a book, they probably won't come in/stay long enough to pay.
In short, I wouldn't recommend trying to work SM or F4F as non-free-chat sites.

Your best bet is to do indy camming. If you work on it, you can have better traffic than you would get on any non-free-chat site.

Panthera
05-29-2017, 02:34 PM
Thank you so much! oxoxox

shysara79
05-30-2017, 05:34 PM
Hi guys. I just had a quick question for someone that knows about internet. I am in the process of moving to a very rural mountain town with cruddy internet options available. Not living there is not an option.

Anyway...My main platform is SM. My choices are DSL, satellite internet, or Mobile broadband verizon. I know all the choices suck, but which one sucks the least? LOL Thanks a bunch in advance !!

naomi_doll
05-30-2017, 07:53 PM
Satellite is really really really bad. My parents had it for a little while and then finally gave up on it. DSL is going to be fastest.

lixxxylilac
06-01-2017, 10:15 AM
Hey, I suspect this question has been asked a million times but search isn't helping. What's the best way to receive payment? I know PayPal is bad, not sure what the problem with direct payments are, but what service does everyone use?

Also, for premium Snapchats, does someone just pay a one-off fee or an ongoing sum to have access to it? Unsure how it works.

Magical_Hoohah
06-01-2017, 11:45 AM
^We desperately need a sticky about this.


Why no direct payments: Except for bitcoin and similar virtual currencies (which have their own problems) there is literally no free way to send money from one person to another that is safe for us. We really love the idea of getting 100% of the money, so this community scrutinizes all these services quite thoroughly, and there isn't a good one. NONE of them permit payments for services that are remotely adult in nature (including services where your clothes stay on). ALL of them have relatively high likelihood of: exposing your real name and contact info, allowing the guy to easily rip you off and get his money back, shutting down your account and keeping all the money you have there, taking back funds out of your bank (yes, they can do that), and/or fining you.

Rule of thumb: if your payment service isn't keeping AT LEAST 7-15% of the money the guy pays you, it probably isn't a safe way to collect money. This is simply a cost of doing business in the adult industry.

Stuff I wrote recently about getting paid with Amazon gift cards (and at least the last two points are valid for any type of gift card):

Amazon gift cards are debatable, but I would personally say no in most cases. The reasons I think Amazon gift cards aren't great:


UPDATE (Feb 4, 2017): Apparently guys can get a refund even if you've already spent the GC, and the balance will be deducted from your account. The jury's still out on whether the guy can take the money back. Current wisdom says that you should be ok if you spend the GC right away, but that's a pain in the ass, and could change in the future. At some point they could decide that GCs are refundable until anything you order has actually shipped.
Amazon GCs aren't money and don't pay your rent. If you have a policy of accepting GCs, everyone will want to pay you that way (they don't look as suspicious on a credit card bill), and then you'll have a bunch of stuff but no rent money.
Most importantly, a 14 year old can buy an Amazon GC. You don't want to start the Skype call only to see a kid wanking on the other end.


Stuff I wrote recently about good ways to get paid as much as possible. Except for Skyprivate, they can all be used for various services, not just cam shows:

I can't recommend any method that would give you 100%. The fact is that getting money safely and anonymously isn't free. That said, you can definitely get a larger percent of the money. Some reputable indie cam sites include:


LiveCamModelShows - pays 85%; Thread: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ndent-Camgirls
CamModelDirectory - pays 75-80%; Thread: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...odel+directory
SkyPrivate - pays 75%; Thread: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ght=skyprivate
IndieBill - not a listing site, but can help you build your own website, pays 85%; Thread: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ut-chargebacks

lixxxylilac
06-01-2017, 11:52 AM
This is really helpful, thank you. I was just signing up for Skyprivate, the others are a good shout also.

lixxxylilac
06-01-2017, 11:55 AM
Also agree a sticky would be great :)

DeepThoughts
06-06-2017, 08:44 AM
Im a bit late here with this but I can stream on SM without doing Freechat. Just sit in private and wait for people to enter. Maybe its an option you can ask for. If any ones interested I can show you how.

TheBrownFox
06-11-2017, 12:27 PM
Im a bit late here with this but I can stream on SM without doing Freechat. Just sit in private and wait for people to enter. Maybe its an option you can ask for. If any ones interested I can show you how.

What?! This is an actual thing on Streamate?!

clairecorrinne
06-14-2017, 11:18 AM
So, I'm ridiculously new. I just turned 18 and I really want to start camming (already saving up for better webcams and the like), but how would someone even go about camming when they still live with their parents? Should I just wait till I move in with a roomate? And does anyone have any other advice they can give me? <3 Losta love

maddiebabe
06-14-2017, 11:10 PM
What do you all with horrible dry eye do about blinking too much?

I feel like it doesn't look good on screen and so I hide my face a lot. Eye drops only help very temporarily.

mishimishi
06-19-2017, 08:49 PM
hi everyone

*sigh* I feel like ive fallen into a rut...

Ive been working on mfc as my fulltime job the last 4 years, I have a pretty big following via social media 60k that I also tweet about when im logging on cam and never have issues getting people in my chatroom, I usually average 200-400ppl just chatting but its just CONSTANT silence...

I talk alot, im always upbeat..and I never can get a hello back, sometimes I say "if someone says hi ill do a free flash this one time!" and not a single hello, and theres 600ppl in my room...

I also offer a deal if someones never tipped me and they tip anything that ill give them my first cum vid and nope cant get a single token

Things like this seem to really start to severly nag at me, knowing you have a big following and get the views but its pure silence via token and talking. I LOVE camming when its talkative and tipping but it honestly gives me bad anger issues when its pure silence and I feel like its messing with my mental health. I dont want to quit working at home (also I have bills and dont want to take a break), but I just get SO frustrated sitting there happy as can be chit chatting and having killer deals and its just quiet. And then in my head im like "I have a big following, views and no ones talking, wtf is there something wrong with me?" and then I get severly upset and log off.


what do you ladies do when your frustrated with cam? any tips? I dont know whether to take it slow and try switching sites or what...ive thought of trying phone sex but i think im far to nervous for that...and then i want to try sexting but i dont know if sexting even pays well...

firefoxxx
06-19-2017, 08:58 PM
How will camming affect my future jobs? Will they be able to find me on background checks?


P.s I have no interest in becoming I doctor, lawyer, teacher, etc. Just wondering for regular jobs.

DonaDiabla
06-19-2017, 11:56 PM
Honestly, it depends on your job ;) You work in many different fields without them caring too much about your adult industry past. :)


How will camming affect my future jobs? Will they be able to find me on background checks?


P.s I have no interest in becoming I doctor, lawyer, teacher, etc. Just wondering for regular jobs.

~Carmen~
06-20-2017, 04:04 AM
What do you all with horrible dry eye do about blinking too much?

I feel like it doesn't look good on screen and so I hide my face a lot. Eye drops only help very temporarily.

Visine A (Allergy relief). I have tried all kinds of eye drops and this is the only one that works. My eyes get dry, red and irritated easily.

whirlerz
06-20-2017, 06:17 PM
I just bought today, Similasan brand Allergy Eye Relief drops..my eyes get sooo itchy w/allergy season. They had several different types.
It's a Swiss, homeopathic formula.

Anyway, I DID search for this, but got so many threads..can you cam from/with a phone? I know someone said Chaturbate but I'd like to try another.
I guess I couldn't hook up the camera to the phone though?
Don't laugh, I just not tech savvy.
Thanks! :)

myaa
06-22-2017, 01:30 PM
I'm sure this has been asked a million times already lol but how do you get over the first time cam jitters? i can't seem to do it every time i want to go live for the first time i chicken out. I know I can be capped and i'm fine with that. (well not fine with it but i know it happens) I'm cool with posting nudes and what not on twitter but when it comes to live it just scares me. thanks in advance ;D

naomi_doll
06-22-2017, 01:45 PM
Remind yourself how in control you actually are in the situation. You can block whoever you want, talk to who ever you want, take any show you want or not take any shows! You can dance, sing, sit perfectly still or ignore everyone. And as soon as you don't feel like doing it anymore, you can turn it all off. You've got all the power!

myaa
06-22-2017, 01:54 PM
Remind yourself how in control you actually are in the situation. You can block whoever you want, talk to who ever you want, take any show you want or not take any shows! You can dance, sing, sit perfectly still or ignore everyone. And as soon as you don't feel like doing it anymore, you can turn it all off. You've got all the power!

that made me feel a lot better thank you :D

cat1989
06-24-2017, 04:44 AM
Hey ladies...
I think I have kind of a problem. haha... I started camming 3 months ago and kind of lost all interest in men since a few weeks. I made a decent amount of money during the first weeks but then it dropped down. I wondered why because I thought I don't do anything different but today I realized that I kind of block anything sexual besides if they tip for something thats on my menu and basically is just playing with myself with or without toys.
I've never been big into dirty talk, actually not at all. I still love to talk to them, about everything. But now if it comes to something sexual I just ignore it. The thing is I'm not even interested anymore in sex and men in real life. And I ALWAYS was so much. I'm pretty worried I'm not such cam girl material as I thought. I looooved it in the beginning. Now I rather clean the whole house instead of logging on because sexuality mostly just bores me. That makes me very sad because as I said, I've never been like that.
Any ideas how I can get my interest in it back? lol... I'm so worried you will say I should stop because it's not the right thing for me... :(
And another thing, like about c2c, actually I can't be bothered at all to watch random dicks if I didn't want to see the dicks of guys I like but yeah, they ask so often so I thought maybe I should do. For money for sure. I've had one today who's actually pretty good looking, me a few months ago would probably sleep with him in real life. Well, surely not saying I meet my custies but he's the type of men I like. And he asked me if I like what I see. And I just didn't know what do say. Looking at dicks is for me now like. Don't know, looking at an apple. It's an apple. Great. Heaps of apples out there. I have seen many. Nothing special. And I'm soooo bad in lying, omg. So what do you say when they ask you if you like them? Especially when you really have to lie because you don't like what you see. Do they actually believe what you say? I can't imagine some fat old guy would believe me if I tell him watching him makes me horny.
Wow that's all so negative. I wasn't negative at all a few weeks ago, what happened... :(

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-24-2017, 11:03 PM
Hey ladies...
I think I have kind of a problem. haha... I started camming 3 months ago and kind of lost all interest in men since a few weeks. I made a decent amount of money during the first weeks but then it dropped down. I wondered why because I thought I don't do anything different but today I realized that I kind of block anything sexual besides if they tip for something thats on my menu and basically is just playing with myself with or without toys.
I've never been big into dirty talk, actually not at all. I still love to talk to them, about everything. But now if it comes to something sexual I just ignore it. The thing is I'm not even interested anymore in sex and men in real life. And I ALWAYS was so much. I'm pretty worried I'm not such cam girl material as I thought. I looooved it in the beginning. Now I rather clean the whole house instead of logging on because sexuality mostly just bores me. That makes me very sad because as I said, I've never been like that.
Any ideas how I can get my interest in it back? lol... I'm so worried you will say I should stop because it's not the right thing for me... :(
And another thing, like about c2c, actually I can't be bothered at all to watch random dicks if I didn't want to see the dicks of guys I like but yeah, they ask so often so I thought maybe I should do. For money for sure. I've had one today who's actually pretty good looking, me a few months ago would probably sleep with him in real life. Well, surely not saying I meet my custies but he's the type of men I like. And he asked me if I like what I see. And I just didn't know what do say. Looking at dicks is for me now like. Don't know, looking at an apple. It's an apple. Great. Heaps of apples out there. I have seen many. Nothing special. And I'm soooo bad in lying, omg. So what do you say when they ask you if you like them? Especially when you really have to lie because you don't like what you see. Do they actually believe what you say? I can't imagine some fat old guy would believe me if I tell him watching him makes me horny.
Wow that's all so negative. I wasn't negative at all a few weeks ago, what happened... :(

Three months in and this is how you feel? Be honest with yourself and decide if this is something that you really want to do. If you said I've been at this for a few years then I'd say "Oh this is burnout. Typical." But you just got started. There are so many other things that people can do online to make money without being a sex worker. Even non-nude takes work and requires sexual interactions. Be honest and ask yourself "Why am I doing this?"

cat1989
06-24-2017, 11:42 PM
Three months in and this is how you feel? Be honest with yourself and decide if this is something that you really want to do. If you said I've been at this for a few years then I'd say "Oh this is burnout. Typical." But you just got started. There are so many other things that people can do online to make money without being a sex worker. Even non-nude takes work and requires sexual interactions. Be honest and ask yourself "Why am I doing this?"

Thanks for your reply! Yeah, that's what I'm thinking, after 3 months is a bit early to feel like that. I have to say I had to deal with a lot of stuff around it that stressed me a lot, and kind of still does because a lot of things about my life are unsure. Which was like that before camming too, but now it's kind of different. I feel guilty for every day that I'm not online. Because I'm losing money, maybe losing regulars, not gaining more followers etc etc. I have to have a time out in a a few weeks anyway because I have to do another job for a few months where it probably won't be possible to cam on the side. On one hand it's good because I will get away from it a bit. On the other hand all I can think about is that it probably will be like starting completely new after these about 4 months and that stresses me soo much. So maybe I just put too much pressure on myself and that kills all the sexual mood?
Why am I doing this. Because I still like the whole idea of it. Being independent, being creative, the potential of good money, expressing my sexuality (as long as I'm at least a bit in the mood) and also creating a good experience for someone - which I don't do anymore at the moment lol.
I'm just getting super mad at men in real life as well as soon as they show sexual interest on me. A random guy asked me a few days ago at a bar if he can get my number because he would like to take me out for dinner. I said in a friendly way something like "Oh that's really nice, but I'm sorry I'm not dating at the moment" and turned around. Then he said it doesn't have to be a date, we could just hang out. And I super overreacted, yelling on him why the hell it is so hard to accept a fucking no and who he think he is, just because there wasn't an explicit NO in the sentence it doesn't mean I'm playing a game and want to get convinced to anything etc. Huh... that's not me actually.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-25-2017, 12:25 AM
Thanks for your reply! Yeah, that's what I'm thinking, after 3 months is a bit early to feel like that. I have to say I had to deal with a lot of stuff around it that stressed me a lot, and kind of still does because a lot of things about my life are unsure. Which was like that before camming too, but now it's kind of different. I feel guilty for every day that I'm not online. Because I'm losing money, maybe losing regulars, not gaining more followers etc etc. I have to have a time out in a a few weeks anyway because I have to do another job for a few months where it probably won't be possible to cam on the side. On one hand it's good because I will get away from it a bit. On the other hand all I can think about is that it probably will be like starting completely new after these about 4 months and that stresses me soo much. So maybe I just put too much pressure on myself and that kills all the sexual mood?
Why am I doing this. Because I still like the whole idea of it. Being independent, being creative, the potential of good money, expressing my sexuality (as long as I'm at least a bit in the mood) and also creating a good experience for someone - which I don't do anymore at the moment lol.
I'm just getting super mad at men in real life as well as soon as they show sexual interest on me. A random guy asked me a few days ago at a bar if he can get my number because he would like to take me out for dinner. I said in a friendly way something like "Oh that's really nice, but I'm sorry I'm not dating at the moment" and turned around. Then he said it doesn't have to be a date, we could just hang out. And I super overreacted, yelling on him why the hell it is so hard to accept a fucking no and who he think he is, just because there wasn't an explicit NO in the sentence it doesn't mean I'm playing a game and want to get convinced to anything etc. Huh... that's not me actually.

Your response to that man has nothing to do with camming. :) This is apart of the world. I don't know that you overreacted? Maybe next time don't yell it but some of these guys need to be told to back off. It's frustrating having to explain to a person that you don't even know why you don't want them. You shouldn't have to do that and you owe them nothing. Before I became involved I'd just walk away if I didn't like what they were saying. I do like the idea of being pursued but only if I send out the signal first. Don't feel bad for wanting some space.

I don't know if you have a second job, but I would suggest holding on to it until you decide what exactly it is that you want from this industry. And decide what format is right for you. Maybe camsites aren't what you need? I don't know. But 3 months in and already facing a burnout? 

cat1989
06-25-2017, 03:20 AM
Your response to that man has nothing to do with camming. :) This is apart of the world. I don't know that you overreacted? Maybe next time don't yell it but some of these guys need to be told to back off. It's frustrating having to explain to a person that you don't even know why you don't want them. You shouldn't have to do that and you owe them nothing. Before I became involved I'd just walk away if I didn't like what they were saying. I do like the idea of being pursued but only if I send out the signal first. Don't feel bad for wanting some space.

I don't know if you have a second job, but I would suggest holding on to it until you decide what exactly it is that you want from this industry. And decide what format is right for you. Maybe camsites aren't what you need? I don't know. But 3 months in and already facing a burnout? 

Thanks about what you said about the situation with the guy. That makes me feel much better. I just had a look at the symptoms of burn out and I feel exactly like that. It's weird after only 3 months but as I said I put myself under a lot of pressure. Maybe I'm just really bad in handling stress and way too sensitive lol. I quit uni a few years ago because it was too much. A few weeks ago I was super super happy about everything, I just loved it and I felt strong and excited about everything now yeah. I just did 2 hours and feel so exhausted in my mind, I have a headache and I'm tired and close to crying even if they were nice and not demanding at all today.
It's my only job right now but as I made quite a lot of money in the beginning I have some savings plus the job I'm gonna start in August. Maybe I should just stop trying for now and just leave it for a while. Maybe go somewhere to see something different and try to think about something else. Thanks again!

anni
07-05-2017, 01:50 AM
(Mods, feel free to move this thread around if it's not meant to be here!)

I now have some experience camming, in and out for two years. It's always been a casual thing as I really enojoy it but I never really made as much money as all of you and I didn't have the time to establish a timetable, fanbase, etc.

Now it's summer and I started somewhere new, camming everyday and taking it seriously. Having lots of fun, making money but lately I've been compared to other girls who are "dirtier" and "know how to ask for the money" (token site). With time I tend to act more like myself online and act all nice and close, I can't help it. I feel not being able to act dirty or flirty or just bitchy is really getting on my way, but the more time I spend on a site the more stupid I feel when doing it, as if guys will realize I have no idea what I am doing.

I mean, I can get dirty, but it's like an off and on switch! ;D Do you have any tips on acting firtly online and making guys feel they owe you something?

SpiralingNymphette
07-08-2017, 09:41 PM
Amazon Wishlist Address Privacy: I saw that there's a way for people who purchase people items on their wishlist to see the recepient's address. If I make a wishlist w/o an address tied to it, does anyone know what will happen? Will it ask for an address? Am I better off making a wishlist and just having people send me amazon gift cards for it?

anni
07-09-2017, 07:57 AM
Amazon Wishlist Address Privacy: I saw that there's a way for people who purchase people items on their wishlist to see the recepient's address. If I make a wishlist w/o an address tied to it, does anyone know what will happen? Will it ask for an address? Am I better off making a wishlist and just having people send me amazon gift cards for it?


I asked Amazon EU and they told me that yeah, they can see my adress and even the reciepient's name. I am living on a rented appartment (so my name's not there) outside the country I tell the guys I broadcast from and from where most of them are (so I don't mind about them having the address, it's a country away!). But I'd like to know if there's a way.

anni
07-10-2017, 02:23 AM
Silly question... MFC refers to MyFreeCams or MyFetishCams? I read it a lot around here but when I enter it seems like a really bad cheap site, but it seems so popular!

Magical_Hoohah
07-10-2017, 06:31 AM
MFC = myfreecams
It looks cheap and ancient, and everyone knows it. The video resolutions are surprisingly low, too. But the models and customers love the site anyway, and it's probably the highest grossing cam site in existence right now. Why they don't redesign and modernize is a mystery. Some people argue that the brand recognition is really strong and that's worth keeping the 90s feel.