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ClaudiaBlack
09-04-2019, 08:13 AM
Hello ladies! Ill apologize upfront I am super overwhelmed! I have cammed before for a few months before my whole life turned upside down and I stopped for awhile. Now Im ready to get started again but I want to make some real money not like 20 here 50 there. Right now Id be working mostly on MFC I made way more money on there than I did Stream or Chaturbate but I want to max the earning potential. Im kinda dumb when it comes to Skype and Snap idk how to set it up for paid viewing or what pay app to use to deposit into my bank without a shit ton of hassle. Right now I am a single momma to 4 working a full time job so I can reasonably devote about 3 hours a night to camming but I am moving out of state and will be able to do more full time then while the kids are all in school and in the night hours as well. Tips and tricks please! All advice welcome! Thanks
lilminx90
09-04-2019, 03:31 PM
I'm sorry if there's a thread on this already (happy for someone to link me if so!)
How do you keep yourself entertained during free chat though when it's quiet?! I have a short attention span as it is, I get really restless and I find myself staring into the screen blankly and probably looking very disinterested and unappealing. I put music on and dance but there's only so long I can do that sat in the same place before I start to zone out again.
Any tips/suggestions appreciated!
That's a good question, another reason why the previous site that I mentioned is probably a fix.
I couldn't really help there, I have done it a few times myself. I would just say to try and engage as much as possible, even with the freebies in hope that it turns into a conversion :) x
Kileycorrupt
09-05-2019, 12:11 PM
Hay me again, the queen of technical difficulties that probably have simple solutions I’m just too dense to see them.. so I’m on smconnect and I clicked my mouse while moving and zoomed in somehow? I know you can move the camera window to make it larger or smaller but I fixed that part. Now the guests list is super zoomed so I can only see one members name at a time? The room topic area and all the others below it are enlarged too.. I tried logging in and out to see if it would reset and it didn’t.. trying to figure this out and I feel like it’s super obvious..
seicento
09-05-2019, 12:23 PM
Hay me again, the queen of technical difficulties that probably have simple solutions I’m just too dense to see them.. so I’m on smconnect and I clicked my mouse while moving and zoomed in somehow? I know you can move the camera window to make it larger or smaller but I fixed that part. Now the guests list is super zoomed so I can only see one members name at a time? The room topic area and all the others below it are enlarged too.. I tried logging in and out to see if it would reset and it didn’t.. trying to figure this out and I feel like it’s super obvious..
I can't figure what you did there but have you checked the zoom in the browser?
Kileycorrupt
09-05-2019, 12:37 PM
I can't figure what you did there but have you checked the zoom in the browser?
Annnnnd it’s fixed! I feel like a cave woman when I’m on the computer. I’m a bad millennial. Thank you for responding so quickly it’s all squared away
Tigrillo
09-05-2019, 12:39 PM
Choose it in your smconnect settings under "stream settings" and also run LogiCapture on it's own in the background. Click record on on LogiCapture. You will get it :)
YOU JUST SAVED MY LIFE
I couldn't figure out how to run logi and smconnect at the same time. GODDESS. THANKS.
seicento
09-05-2019, 12:43 PM
Annnnnd it’s fixed! I feel like a cave woman when I’m on the computer. I’m a bad millennial. Thank you for responding so quickly it’s all squared away
Glad it worked.
Miss_ShaSha
09-05-2019, 01:13 PM
I'm sorry if there's a thread on this already (happy for someone to link me if so!)
How do you keep yourself entertained during free chat though when it's quiet?! I have a short attention span as it is, I get really restless and I find myself staring into the screen blankly and probably looking very disinterested and unappealing. I put music on and dance but there's only so long I can do that sat in the same place before I start to zone out again.
Any tips/suggestions appreciated!
Here's a good thread:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?224773-How-do-you-amuse-yourself-during-slow-times-when-you-are-streaming
Tigrillo
09-05-2019, 01:30 PM
Here's a good thread:
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?224773-How-do-you-amuse-yourself-during-slow-times-when-you-are-streaming
for me, the 'you can play sims while camming' was a gamechanger for me. I have it running on a tablet next to my keyboard and it allows me to sit down there for longer and not feel like I've accomplished NOTHING. My simtown is thriving and I've definitely been able to acommodate much longer times online.
(hope you like the sims)
JessRyan
09-05-2019, 04:03 PM
what is this little white mini earbud microphone I'm seeing on chaturbate? It looks like it goes in the ear like an earbug and is only an inch long?
EvelynPink
09-06-2019, 02:25 AM
what is this little white mini earbud microphone I'm seeing on chaturbate? It looks like it goes in the ear like an earbug and is only an inch long?
could be an airpod...which by the way, i bought some for camming and HATED them. my two cents. returned em next day. I've seen some people rock them and have good audio but they were a pain in the ass to set up and did not sound good out of box.
minniesoporno
09-06-2019, 09:39 AM
what is this little white mini earbud microphone I'm seeing on chaturbate? It looks like it goes in the ear like an earbug and is only an inch long?
It's the earpods from apple that only work with a macbook
Kileycorrupt
09-06-2019, 01:13 PM
Having trouble locating where the referral link is for new models on SM. I looked through Streamate help and didn’t see it.. thought it was in this thread, maybe I passed over it. Have a friend who wants to start and she asked if thre was one. TIA
seicento
09-07-2019, 02:23 AM
Having trouble locating where the referral link is for new models on SM. I looked through Streamate help and didn’t see it.. thought it was in this thread, maybe I passed over it. Have a friend who wants to start and she asked if thre was one. TIA
http://streamaterecruiting.com/modelreferrals/
izshadow
09-14-2019, 03:41 PM
I saw a girl on SM today that said she was streaming from the mall. At first I thought wow that takes some guts but after I watched for awhile, it dawned on me that things were not right. The couch was fabric, the pillow, no one looking at her. Not typical of a mall scene. But hey, who knows. So at times I would leave then come back and then it happened. It glitched. I was like oh look that cup on the trash can is gone, the lady that was taking trays away must be done with her shift. Then I saw the glitch, the skip and boom the cup was back on the trash can, the people I saw earlier were back in the seats, the lady was getting trays again and it was all back to the beginning but she wasnt! She was real. The background was a stimulation and I want to freaking know how to do that!!!!!! How did she do that?!?! There was no shadow from her moving around either. I was insanely impressed. I am by no means a tech/computer geek but this has me all geeked out and wanting to know! It looked so real and if no one paid attention to those little details, no one would notice!
Its like those girls on SM that run those games on their computer screen or watermark their computer screens. I must say you ladies impress me.
I hope its okay to mention that here. I'm not putting this girl down by any means. Quite the opposite. I'm blown away impressed.
naomi_doll
09-14-2019, 05:47 PM
I saw a girl on SM today that said she was streaming from the mall. At first I thought wow that takes some guts but after I watched for awhile, it dawned on me that things were not right. The couch was fabric, the pillow, no one looking at her. Not typical of a mall scene. But hey, who knows. So at times I would leave then come back and then it happened. It glitched. I was like oh look that cup on the trash can is gone, the lady that was taking trays away must be done with her shift. Then I saw the glitch, the skip and boom the cup was back on the trash can, the people I saw earlier were back in the seats, the lady was getting trays again and it was all back to the beginning but she wasnt! She was real. The background was a stimulation and I want to freaking know how to do that!!!!!! How did she do that?!?! There was no shadow from her moving around either. I was insanely impressed. I am by no means a tech/computer geek but this has me all geeked out and wanting to know! It looked so real and if no one paid attention to those little details, no one would notice!
Its like those girls on SM that run those games on their computer screen or watermark their computer screens. I must say you ladies impress me.
I hope its okay to mention that here. I'm not putting this girl down by any means. Quite the opposite. I'm blown away impressed.
She's using a green screen. PhatGirlDynomite probably knows much more than I do about how it works.
samuimoon
09-15-2019, 08:07 AM
Hi Ladies,
Great resource here, i have read for many hours, thank you.
I have a question, what is the model of the remote control
is see some models use to move the cam up and down and
zoom and what exactly is the set up in relation to how is the
camcorder positioned and what camcorder do they use?
NitaBaby
09-15-2019, 08:51 AM
Hi Ladies,
Great resource here, i have read for many hours, thank you.
I have a question, what is the model of the remote control
is see some models use to move the cam up and down and
zoom and what exactly is the set up in relation to how is the
camcorder positioned and what camcorder do they use?
Okay so I'm the weirdo who picked up her phone straight out of the shower to check stripperweb, so I can't drop the Amazon link quite yet. But those models are using a specific webcam. If you're using LogiTech C920 there is no remote control for that, you will have to get the webcam that specifically comes with remote control
samuimoon
09-15-2019, 09:10 AM
Okay so I'm the weirdo who picked up her phone straight out of the shower to check stripperweb, so I can't drop the Amazon link quite yet. But those models are using a specific webcam. If you're using LogiTech C920 there is no remote control for that, you will have to get the webcam that specifically comes with remote control
Aaah Thank You NitaBaby!! So kind of you to respond so quickly. Was looking to get the C920, but i NEED that smooth camera action of the remote control, as i am v. tall and look like a blummin decapitated giant on my built in cam ive been practicing with. Your gifs never get old, make me chuckle everytime.
NitaBaby
09-15-2019, 10:45 AM
Aaah Thank You NitaBaby!! So kind of you to respond so quickly. Was looking to get the C920, but i NEED that smooth camera action of the remote control, as i am v. tall and look like a blummin decapitated giant on my built in cam ive been practicing with. Your gifs never get old, make me chuckle everytime.
lmaoo glad i could help. and thanks lol
kamiliam
09-15-2019, 01:09 PM
Hi Ladies,
Great resource here, i have read for many hours, thank you.
I have a question, what is the model of the remote control
is see some models use to move the cam up and down and
zoom and what exactly is the set up in relation to how is the
camcorder positioned and what camcorder do they use?
They are most likely using the Logitech bcc950. It was what I used when I started and must say I prefer my c920. You are probably going be happy with an adjustable tripod or arm to get a variety of angles. The bcc kinda limits you in that regard.
samuimoon
09-16-2019, 05:38 AM
They are most likely using the Logitech bcc950. It was what I used when I started and must say I prefer my c920. You are probably going be happy with an adjustable tripod or arm to get a variety of angles. The bcc kinda limits you in that regard.
Looks like i still have alot of research and practice to do. Thank you so much for taking the time to relay your experience and preference, very helpful. Going to look at the tools you mentioned..
gbjenna
09-19-2019, 08:20 AM
To work on token sites, is it a 'must'/expected to get fully nude in free chat? Or would I struggle to make any money if I didn't go full nude?
I keep thinking of trying them out but I've always worked on private sites and getting my pussy out in freeview really doesn't appeal to me so I don't know whether I'm pretty much ruling them out for myself!
MissAliss515xx
09-19-2019, 08:34 AM
To work on token sites, is it a 'must'/expected to get fully nude in free chat? Or would I struggle to make any money if I didn't go full nude?
I keep thinking of trying them out but I've always worked on private sites and getting my pussy out in freeview really doesn't appeal to me so I don't know whether I'm pretty much ruling them out for myself!
I think so, that it is a must. But not mandatory. I rarely get nude or show everything because people are not tipping enough for it in a session. But if I reach my goal, yes, I do it.
samuimoon
09-19-2019, 08:39 AM
To work on token sites, is it a 'must'/expected to get fully nude in free chat? Or would I struggle to make any money if I didn't go full nude?
I keep thinking of trying them out but I've always worked on private sites and getting my pussy out in freeview really doesn't appeal to me so I don't know whether I'm pretty much ruling them out for myself!There are plenty of models on MFC that never get nude but get packed room and high tips. From what ive noticed once the men see the goods its harder to get more money out of them, they almost get bored of the free pussy that is ever available. Just try MFC, if they like your face they will show it by flooding your room and give you tokens just for looking cute, then its up to you to keep them paying. Take your time and guage where you are at in regards to attracting a crowd with just your face and personality.
gbjenna
09-19-2019, 09:00 AM
I think so, that it is a must. But not mandatory. I rarely get nude or show everything because people are not tipping enough for it in a session. But if I reach my goal, yes, I do it.
So I’m guessing you must set a high goal, a goal that’s worth it to you for you to get fully nude in freeview?
I think I’d probably not mind to get fully nude if I set myself a high enough goal for myself and and hit it, cause I’d also be comfortable not hitting it as I wouldn’t plan on making it my main income earner. Does that make sense?
MissAliss515xx
09-19-2019, 10:13 AM
So I’m guessing you must set a high goal, a goal that’s worth it to you for you to get fully nude in freeview?
I think I’d probably not mind to get fully nude if I set myself a high enough goal for myself and and hit it, cause I’d also be comfortable not hitting it as I wouldn’t plan on making it my main income earner. Does that make sense?
Yes exactly.
I have a price in my head, that I'll go nude for x$ but it's way above my low goal, mostly like my high goal (that I still don't reach lol). I also can't wait till autumn/winter, as I'll dress up more so I can make goals like take the sweater/dress/whatever clothes off. I get more tips if I tease while being clothed. And most of my income is when guys tip for my toy to vibrate so naked or not, doesnt make a difference IMO. But if you don't want to go naked, don't ! Like samuimoon said, some girls make a lot of token while not getting naked at all. Do what you want :).
gbjenna
09-19-2019, 11:20 AM
Yes exactly.
I have a price in my head, that I'll go nude for x$ but it's way above my low goal, mostly like my high goal (that I still don't reach lol). I also can't wait till autumn/winter, as I'll dress up more so I can make goals like take the sweater/dress/whatever clothes off. I get more tips if I tease while being clothed. And most of my income is when guys tip for my toy to vibrate so naked or not, doesnt make a difference IMO. But if you don't want to go naked, don't ! Like samuimoon said, some girls make a lot of token while not getting naked at all. Do what you want :).
Yes that makes total sense, thank you so much!! That's really helpful. I haven't got the tip vibe yet so I'm going to invest in that next I think and then get myself signed up. :)
ASandra
09-23-2019, 02:08 PM
Hi lovelies! What kind of a webcam has a remote also? I've seen some fellow models and the image is so nice and clear, and the remote is such a plus! Could you tell me if you are using that kind of a webcam with a remote and what is it, pretty please? Thaaank you!
seicento
09-23-2019, 03:54 PM
Hi lovelies! What kind of a webcam has a remote also? I've seen some fellow models and the image is so nice and clear, and the remote is such a plus! Could you tell me if you are using that kind of a webcam with a remote and what is it, pretty please? Thaaank you!
Logitech bcc950 has a remote. I used it for a while, it was OK.
LoraDoll
09-23-2019, 06:55 PM
https://www.amazon.com/Logitech-960-000867-Conference-Cam-BCC950/dp/B0080IA1J4/ref=sr_1_17?crid=2PXO4JYTIZV46&keywords=logitech+ptz+pro+2&qid=1569289934&s=gateway&sprefix=logitech+ptz%2Caps%2C265&sr=8-17
or
https://www.amazon.com/Logitech-ConferenceCam-Connect-Collaboration-Solution/dp/B00SQG16MG/ref=sr_1_14?crid=2PXO4JYTIZV46&keywords=logitech+ptz+pro+2&qid=1569289934&s=gateway&sprefix=logitech+ptz%2Caps%2C265&sr=8-14
or
https://www.amazon.com/Logitech-Video-Camera-Conference-Rooms/dp/B07MZCDFGS/ref=sr_1_8?crid=2PXO4JYTIZV46&keywords=logitech+ptz+pro+2&qid=1569289934&s=gateway&sprefix=logitech+ptz%2Caps%2C265&sr=8-8
If u wanna go for the studio look, u chose the 3rd. I used the orb camera before. It s okay. Now i have a logitech c930e. But I ll buy the ptz soon.
As far as i know these are the cameras with remote control. The ptz doesnt have built in mic i think, so for that one u ll need to buy a microphone too.
ASandra
09-24-2019, 04:17 AM
Thank you so so much! <3
laurielegs
09-24-2019, 06:54 PM
To work on token sites, is it a 'must'/expected to get fully nude in free chat? Or would I struggle to make any money if I didn't go full nude?
I keep thinking of trying them out but I've always worked on private sites and getting my pussy out in freeview really doesn't appeal to me so I don't know whether I'm pretty much ruling them out for myself!
Some hosts don't. I don't even show my ass in a thong any more.
I only offer privates, not even flashes, but it's just my style, and I always splitcam so I've got more than one source of income coming in at all times. I prefer roleplay and fetish type sessions, just less boring for me and those types of viewers I get tend to be more loyal and polite.
bestdaytoday
09-27-2019, 09:40 AM
Hello, can someone explain to me something -
This week I have been camming 25hours and I have 1000$ for the week that it has not ended yet. I usually make 1000-1500$ per week.
And I have never ever been in the top 500 of any contests so far?
How much other cammodels make per week then? I am aware that there are some girls who are banking, but still... how much do the other 499 make??? Omg.
Is it because of selling videos, or what?
I have good equipment, my rates are 5,99/9,99 ... and that's it.
Thank you, please someone to explain it to me - and I will be happy if someone who is in the top 500 of this contest to share her earnings.. lol.
LaraLee
09-27-2019, 10:53 AM
Hello, can someone explain to me something -
This week I have been camming 25hours and I have 1000$ for the week that it has not ended yet. I usually make 1000-1500$ per week.
And I have never ever been in the top 500 of any contests so far?
How much other cammodels make per week then? I am aware that there are some girls who are banking, but still... how much do the other 499 make??? Omg.
Is it because of selling videos, or what?
I have good equipment, my rates are 5,99/9,99 ... and that's it.
Thank you, please someone to explain it to me - and I will be happy if someone who is in the top 500 of this contest to share her earnings.. lol.
I know for a fact that the top 50 girls in most contests are making over $5000 for the week. I have a good friend who is a top model and makes over that, and she does NOT sell or make any videos. Some girls can just have it like that!
bestdaytoday
09-27-2019, 11:55 AM
Wow, can you believe that... That actually motivates me and makes me feel miserable at the same time, haha. Awesome
NitaBaby
09-27-2019, 11:56 AM
The "1k a day" thread will probably give you a better idea of their earnings since they like to post screenshots in there. Shit, I would too if I was making that much.
LaraLee
09-27-2019, 12:06 PM
Wow, can you believe that... That actually motivates me and makes me feel miserable at the same time, haha. Awesome
Its crazy! I can stay online almost the same amount of time as her and she makes more then I ever could. I'm happy to make enough to pay the bills.
Glamourmilf
09-30-2019, 08:57 AM
Rookie question coming up, but... I can't figure this out.
Does anyone know if, when I plug my router extender cord into my laptop.
Do I need to unplug it when I turn off my computer?
Or do I leave it in there?
Thanks in advance.
nattyfetish
09-30-2019, 09:35 AM
Rookie question coming up, but... I can't figure this out.
Does anyone know if, when I plug my router extender cord into my laptop.
Do I need to unplug it when I turn off my computer?
Or do I leave it in there?
Thanks in advance.
If you talk about what i think you talk about, just leave it inside of your computer if you don't need it for anything else. It won't cause any harm.
Glamourmilf
09-30-2019, 09:37 AM
If you talk about what i think you talk about, just leave it inside of your computer if you don't need it for anything else. It won't cause any harm.
Thank You.
That's exactly what I was wondering. If it was still sending signals/ juice to my computer that's shut off, AND unplugged.
izshadow
09-30-2019, 09:38 AM
Rookie question coming up, but... I can't figure this out.
Does anyone know if, when I plug my router extender cord into my laptop.
Do I need to unplug it when I turn off my computer?
Or do I leave it in there?
Thanks in advance.
You can keep it plugged in. I only unplug it if I decide to move my laptop to another room to cam, then plug it in to the other extender I have in that room.
AlexiaJacobs
09-30-2019, 10:13 PM
So since I started camming I've gained some weight and its really obvious in my stomach area. I don't really have that hourglass figure so much anymore. Because of this, Im finding that I'm situating myself on cam in ways that try to hide my midsection. Its uncomfortable and I feel afraid to move around much for fear of being caught at a bad cam angle. I guess my question is for you ladies, are guys really gonna care if I have a stomach? Or is it that I'm giving off a vibe that I'm not comfortable with myself that's now putting them off? I know that there are girls of all shapes and sizes camming and its not necessarily about how you look but how you carry yourself and confidence. But its sooo hard to be at that level when you have to see yourself on cam everyday; critiquing your own body. It sucks when things are slow and I start to think its gotta be the way I look or I look terrible at this angle. This job is so hard on your psyche lol
izshadow
09-30-2019, 10:21 PM
So since I started camming I've gained some weight and its really obvious in my stomach area. I don't really have that hourglass figure so much anymore. Because of this, Im finding that I'm situating myself on cam in ways that try to hide my midsection. Its uncomfortable and I feel afraid to move around much for fear of being caught at a bad cam angle. I guess my question is for you ladies, are guys really gonna care if I have a stomach? Or is it that I'm giving off a vibe that I'm not comfortable with myself that's now putting them off? I know that there are girls of all shapes and sizes camming and its not necessarily about how you look but how you carry yourself and confidence. But its sooo hard to be at that level when you have to see yourself on cam everyday; critiquing your own body. It sucks when things are slow and I start to think its gotta be the way I look or I look terrible at this angle. This job is so hard on your psyche lol
I've gained 30 pounds doing this and I feel disgusting. I also work angles. I will flip over super quick, I'll stretch out when on my back to flatten my torso.. I suck in hard when standing. I'm trying to figure out how to lose it. Exercise hurts. Its really hard for me to do but I need to try and to figure out what to eat cause no matter what I do (salads, no carbs, carbs, no meat, meat, etc)... I'm stuck with this stomach weight. Shit I cant even fit in to my damn jeans that I wore last winter and I have no money to buy new jeans so I mean my stomach needs to like go. I feel you. I am no help but I wanted you to know I to am trying to hide it, I hate it and I want my old stomach back.
Miss_ShaSha
10-01-2019, 02:13 AM
So since I started camming I've gained some weight and its really obvious in my stomach area. I don't really have that hourglass figure so much anymore. Because of this, Im finding that I'm situating myself on cam in ways that try to hide my midsection. Its uncomfortable and I feel afraid to move around much for fear of being caught at a bad cam angle. I guess my question is for you ladies, are guys really gonna care if I have a stomach? Or is it that I'm giving off a vibe that I'm not comfortable with myself that's now putting them off? I know that there are girls of all shapes and sizes camming and its not necessarily about how you look but how you carry yourself and confidence. But its sooo hard to be at that level when you have to see yourself on cam everyday; critiquing your own body. It sucks when things are slow and I start to think its gotta be the way I look or I look terrible at this angle. This job is so hard on your psyche lol
I hear you. I'm relatively fit, but I have a tummy. I don't like mine either which is why I'm on a new keto diet...but girl, legit guys don't care and your vibe is putting them off before your stomach. I'm a fitness instructor and see a personal trainer often who LOVES my body. When I talk about my stomach he says women are supposed to have a tummy LOL. So I'm like fuck...I'm sexy. And girl, when I see my rolls on cam I almost cringe, but guys think I'm sexy AF.
I suggest two things: clothing that is flattering or every time you see your tummy say silently "I am sexy".
NitaBaby
10-01-2019, 03:12 AM
So since I started camming I've gained some weight and its really obvious in my stomach area. I don't really have that hourglass figure so much anymore. Because of this, Im finding that I'm situating myself on cam in ways that try to hide my midsection. Its uncomfortable and I feel afraid to move around much for fear of being caught at a bad cam angle. I guess my question is for you ladies, are guys really gonna care if I have a stomach? Or is it that I'm giving off a vibe that I'm not comfortable with myself that's now putting them off? I know that there are girls of all shapes and sizes camming and its not necessarily about how you look but how you carry yourself and confidence. But its sooo hard to be at that level when you have to see yourself on cam everyday; critiquing your own body. It sucks when things are slow and I start to think its gotta be the way I look or I look terrible at this angle. This job is so hard on your psyche lol
Same. I was a bony 128lb vegan when I first started. I'm 190-something now. The extra weight gave me an ass but now i have a stomach, too. I thought being skinny with stretch marks was bad....being fat with them is murder. But of all the insults I have gotten on cam i have never been called fat. A guy will inevitably see my rolls during an exclusive and make a point of saying how beautiful i look. He's blind asf but my point is these guys don't care.
I put myself in the BBW category just to offset the chances of me attracting a dude with a ribcage/bony ass preference and I like to think it's the reason no one has given me grief.But I don't fit in with BBWs because guys always come in and argue that I'm just thick or "yammy". I don't give a fuck really. I'd rather be thinner than he expected than fatter.
It's really weird, knowing that these guys don't care but still worrying your whole shift that someone is going to log in and become horrified the second you hit that forbidden angle. There's a girl who's top row during night shifts and we are the same height, weight, and cup size. And she doesn't hide a damn thing. Seeing her confirmed it for me. We have a personal requirement for what we deem attractive and we're projecting it out onto these guys. I'm still going to hide my kangaroo pouch but I've gotten better at throwing those vibes to the side when I'm on cam. You're not the Store Brand version of a bad bitch just because you have a stomach.
seicento
10-01-2019, 03:15 AM
So since I started camming I've gained some weight and its really obvious in my stomach area. I don't really have that hourglass figure so much anymore. Because of this, Im finding that I'm situating myself on cam in ways that try to hide my midsection. Its uncomfortable and I feel afraid to move around much for fear of being caught at a bad cam angle. I guess my question is for you ladies, are guys really gonna care if I have a stomach? Or is it that I'm giving off a vibe that I'm not comfortable with myself that's now putting them off? I know that there are girls of all shapes and sizes camming and its not necessarily about how you look but how you carry yourself and confidence. But its sooo hard to be at that level when you have to see yourself on cam everyday; critiquing your own body. It sucks when things are slow and I start to think its gotta be the way I look or I look terrible at this angle. This job is so hard on your psyche lol
I'm on the other side, I lost weight and with it, I lost my regulars of years too.
Anyway, I have been on the BBW side for years. In the beginning I would try to hide my belly, even in pvt I would let my top down and not get completely naked. Although belly wasn't my only problematic area, I was more conscious about it. In time, I accepted it and stopped hiding it. I did well as a BBW, a lot of guys are into into fat. Now I am on the thick side and I don't plan on going thin, I will always have a belly but as long as I don't look like a pig anymore, I am fine with it. A bit of belly can be sexy, love handles can be sexy. If you can't accept it, then get rid of it but believe me when I say that a bit of belly has nothing to do with your bad days.
caramelcraze
10-01-2019, 03:16 AM
So since I started camming I've gained some weight and its really obvious in my stomach area. I don't really have that hourglass figure so much anymore. Because of this, Im finding that I'm situating myself on cam in ways that try to hide my midsection. Its uncomfortable and I feel afraid to move around much for fear of being caught at a bad cam angle. I guess my question is for you ladies, are guys really gonna care if I have a stomach? Or is it that I'm giving off a vibe that I'm not comfortable with myself that's now putting them off? I know that there are girls of all shapes and sizes camming and its not necessarily about how you look but how you carry yourself and confidence. But its sooo hard to be at that level when you have to see yourself on cam everyday; critiquing your own body. It sucks when things are slow and I start to think its gotta be the way I look or I look terrible at this angle. This job is so hard on your psyche lol
I'm about 30lbs heavier than when I started camming and I make far more now that I'm curvier than i did when I was a size 0. buy flattering clothes in good colors/patterns and emphasize your other body parts if you're uncomfortable. tbh, most guys don't give a flying f what your belly looks like and if they do, either they're super into it (I had one guy ask me to show him all of my stretch marks and he's been a repeat customer for months now) or easy to block. don't take anything personally & if you do decide you're unhappy with your body, take control and make that change. I recently lost about 6lbs and to me it shows. None of my customers have said a darn thing about it but my self esteem has certainly gone up just from that small change.
Miss_ShaSha
10-01-2019, 03:30 AM
Same. I was a bony 128lb vegan when I first started. I'm 190-something now. The extra weight gave me an ass but now i have a stomach, too. I thought being skinny with stretch marks was bad....being fat with them is murder. But of all the insults I have gotten on cam i have never been called fat. A guy will inevitably see my rolls during an exclusive and make a point of saying how beautiful i look. He's blind asf but my point is these guys don't care.
I put myself in the BBW category just to offset the chances of me attracting a dude with a ribcage/bony ass preference and I like to think it's the reason no one has given me grief.But I don't fit in with BBWs because guys always come in and argue that I'm just thick or "yammy". I don't give a fuck really. I'd rather be thinner than he expected than fatter.
It's really weird, knowing that these guys don't care but still worrying your whole shift that someone is going to log in and become horrified the second you hit that forbidden angle. There's a girl who's top row during night shifts and we are the same height, weight, and cup size. And she doesn't hide a damn thing. Seeing her confirmed it for me. We have a personal requirement for what we deem attractive and we're projecting it out onto these guys. I'm still going to hide my kangaroo pouch but I've gotten better at throwing those vibes to the side when I'm on cam. You're not the Store Brand version of a bad bitch just because you have a stomach.
*MIC DROP* Cosign this so fuckin hard!!!
AlexiaJacobs
10-01-2019, 11:47 AM
^^^Thank you to everyone who responded. Even when I was skinny, my stomach was sorta "saggy" and like NitaBaby mentioned, I also had no ass and I would stress about that lol. I have my ass back now but now its my stomach I hate. Its always something right? I've known for a long time that I need to work on my confidence and be less concerned about what men think. As I was typing out my post last night I was already thinking that this was my answer. You all literally gave me something I resonate with big time and this helps so much to feel like Im not so alone in how I feel.
I have nights where guys are responding like crazy to what I do and then other nights where there is nothing but silence. I try to remind myself that a lot of these guys just have their dick in their hand and too busy to type lol. Im gonna work on my confidence instead, think less about what they think, and well....fake it till ya make it. Thanks loves <3