View Full Version : racist cockolding
TXCamgirl
02-04-2013, 02:44 PM
I make racial videos and I post a caption before the video that says something along the lines of "Any racial words used in this video do not reflect my views of people of any race or color."
They may not like seeing it and people may cut it off and post my video anyways but atleast if somebody passes it around intact it covers my ass against being labeled a racist by a bunch of ignorant people. I haven't had any complaints about it yet.
vivianbear
02-05-2013, 12:14 AM
Exactly. Just because you do racial fantasies doesn't make you a racist and if anybody says so they are just stupid. I do a LOT of racial stuff and it doesn't mean I'm racist. I have a few black people in my family and before I started doing this I even asked one of them if they thought it was ok if I was playing out a fantasy for a customer and they said they thought it was fine... it's not like I'm spewing hateful racist shit just for the kicks.
I don't think anyone in the thread is implying that by doing race-play, one is at all actively being a racist or invested in a racist identity. That's not the point of the OP. The point is that by doing it, you're simply expressing the boundary of what you will and won't do. Race-pay is obviously within you capability to preform, that's all. The OP sort of implied that she was startled about how easy it was to participate and felt somewhat "ticked" into doing it, by the customer. That's not the case. She did it because she could and wanted to. There's no good or bad in that. Folks are just saying, if you do it, OWN it. Whatever your intent behind doing it (it turns you on, you're getting paid well, etc..) is really no one's business but yours.
Just FYI, just because a white person is related to/close to POC, in their family doesn't automatically make them immune from racism or racist privilege. Knowing Black people doesn't excuse one from being the beneficiary of systemic racism. I do think it's cool that you created a little "warning" before your clips. I hadn't thought of doing something like that. That might put my mind at ease about preforming race-play.
Sugarmama
02-05-2013, 02:42 AM
Well I talk about BBC vs Little White Butter Bean Cocks and BWC vs Small Black Wiggle Worms, I am forever dressing up sluts of all color's to get pimped out for that BBC, and I am a melting pot of blk, white, and Irish our family photo album looks like a meeting of the United Nations.
I say all this to say rock on girls with what you doing it is all just fantasy I have worked taboo phone lines where I played out snuff scene's in deep detail from Criminal Minds soon as the call was over I would go on back to do what I was doing sleeping, looking at tv, etc..... How could I $$$$$$ so set your limit's, be upfront about it, and rock on.
This business is so full of political incorrectness trying to be so correct will cause you more headache than needed.
CourtneyRaine
02-05-2013, 10:07 AM
^GlamourMilf, I did read your entire post and I read that you stated, "This is why WHITE people can't stand black people" and that you banned his "black ass." I personally think that is unacceptable to say on a support forum for cam girls of all different races and backgrounds. I'm sorry, I am not confrontational by nature but I don't think it's appropriate to make those kinds of sweeping judgements and when I see someone say something that comes off as intolerant I feel it is only right that I speak up. I'm not trying to pick on you, but as someone who's been on the receiving end of racism from a young age I can't just let that kind of stuff go.
Perhaps a more enlightened way of dealing with that customer could have been, "This is why webcam models can't stand guys who just want freebies, and then I banned his broke ass." We can all relate to that I'm sure and wouldn't blame you for it. I'm not sure why even bringing up the fact that he's black and that white people hate him because of that is an issue? We'd all do well to save the racial slurs for paid privates where the customer is requesting that kind of thing. To call out a guy for his skin color out of frustration is irrelevant and mean. It doesn't matter how many black friends you have of that you were married to a black guy or whatever, proclaiming that all white people hate black people is NEVER okay. Unless you're getting paid for it, of course, because then it's merely a sexual fetish that has nothing to do with reality :P
LittleLexy
02-05-2013, 12:25 PM
Hi girls,
I really like this forum. It's nice to come here to read and share things with other cam girls. I want to say sorry about the racial slur in my quote. I didn't mean to hurt any ones feelings. I feel bad if I caused anyone pain, that wasn't my intention.:(
BlondebombGA
02-05-2013, 12:28 PM
SugarMama, I am so glad to hear someone else say that. I sometimes wonder how I'm Ok role playing some CRAZY stuff over the phone, and then on with my day. Lol.
OP, it's been said here already, but follow your gut, and boundaries will make themselves very obvious to you. Personally, I have phone and cam limits that are very different as well. I keep pretty strict limits on cam, because I just feel so much more transparent, but early on it took some trial and error, so just live and learn.