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oldster
09-24-2013, 09:57 AM
Glad you've got it worked out, maybe I'll get to see you dance sometime!

yoda57us
09-24-2013, 11:05 AM
Boston is a tough city to dance in if you live in the city with no transportation. There are only two clubs in town and the better money is within an hour or so drive from the city...

That being said, "podunk" is hardly a word that I would use to describe a city and metropolitan area with some of the finest Universities, Hospitals and medical research facilities in the world...not to mention the Red Sox 8)

rickdugan
09-24-2013, 11:11 AM
That being said, "podunk" is hardly a word that I would use to describe a city and metropolitan area with some of the finest Universities, Hospitals and medical research facilities in the world...not to mention the Red Sox 8)

And let's not forget the Patriots! :)

(Even if they do not look so sharp just yet).

oldster
09-24-2013, 11:21 AM
[thread drift]


Born and raised here, and a T system that closes at 1AM, and commuter rail that ends before midnight is more what one would expect in Butte than an east coast city. For the DUI issues alone, not to mention a game going into OT or extra innings you cannot stay to the end. There was a proposal recently to keep it going later, but I don't know what happened to it.

yoda57us
09-24-2013, 11:59 AM
As a mod I can't really partake in a blatant thread derailment but I could whine about the MBTA for hours!

Lets not however. If someone wants to start a mass transportation thread in the lounge go right ahead...

rickdugan
09-24-2013, 06:52 PM
The gist is, aside from my deliberately inflammatory opening line, I pretty much avoided absolutes, and I think you were responding to what a lot of people say/think rather than the point I was trying[apparently ineffectively] to make.

I can only respond to what you post, not what you are thinking. ;)


I think most of the dancers at the club I frequent enjoy their job, and have customers they enjoy hanging with. My comments were not regarding dancers at large, but specifically the topic of this conversation, postings here. I think I can tell the difference between someone blowing off steam and someone who really cannot stand her job/customers/situation, and I said nothing about this being any percentage of dancers posting.

Neither you nor I can ever really know how a group of dancers feels about their job. Some of the girls on SW who make those comments are strong earners, and they do so by looking happy and making the guys believe that they are special/interesting/etc. On here, however, they vent. Simple.


Again, my point being. per the topic, that the only postings that I think might scare away customers are those that are profoundly negative[custys suck] and those that treat their customers as marks in a con, which is VERY different from acting. IMHO dancers are primarily in sales, selling their beauty, the idea of sex, companionship. One common trait of very successful salespeople is believing in their product. Con artists do NOT believe in their product

Comparing this to any other sales job is not really apropos. This is a highly personal service where many customers need certain illusions present in order to spend money. The best at this job, IMHO, can provide that those illusions. I don't think that this makes them "con artists." But whatever you call it, anyone who cannot handle getting a peak behind the curtain and seeing these girls' frustrations with, and perhaps even disdain for, some of these guys, should stay off of here IMHO.


I think my frame of reference regarding misbehavior is different from yours, as reading some of your posts you frequent higher contact clubs/areas a bit to the south of where I am. What you would consider normal levels of contact would be unacceptable up here.

I club all over the country and I think that some of the things that you mentioned, such as sticking fingers or tongues in various orifices, are pretty much bad behavior anywhere unless a girl has made it clear that she welcomes it.


I do not get where anything I posted implied any us vs them mentality. I have immense respect for dancers, I certainly would not have the guts to get naked in public[not that anyone would want me too] I pay for the entertainment that is provided me, with no expectations of anything else, Would I like more, hell yeah, but I do not have the balls you do to go after it so there it is.

The us vs. them thing was an offshoot topic not specifically tied to what you said. As far as my "balls" to go after it, I don't think that I'm out on the edge. I've just been doing for a long time and have found the things that work best for me. It is amazing how far one can get simply by having the right balance of calmness, kindness and just enough resolve to avoid being viewed as a pushover. The rest largely takes care of itself.

whirlerz
09-24-2013, 07:31 PM
[thread drift]


Born and raised here, and a T system that closes at 1AM, and commuter rail that ends before midnight is more what one would expect in Butte than an east coast city. For the DUI issues alone, not to mention a game going into OT or extra innings you cannot stay to the end. There was a proposal recently to keep it going later, but I don't know what happened to it.

Huh?/:O

rickdugan
09-24-2013, 07:38 PM
Huh?/:O

LOL. The "T" is the nickname for the subway system in Boston. Oldster is right about it closing down too early, especially when bars/clubs in downtown Boston are open until 2. If you are partying in Boston and need to get home late, you either need to drive (not the best choice after drinking for hours) or take a cab. Cabs are very expensive in Beantown compared to many other places, including NYC, so it is not a choice that is eagerly embraced by those who are on a tight budget.

Nina_
09-27-2013, 11:56 AM
I understand that some comments here can certainly be a turn-off to customers. I don't think that's anything I have to worry about. None of my regulars frequent this site, at least not that I'm aware of. And if they do, they must not mind what I say because they continue to spend money. And if any of my regulars were to see what I've written, they'd see that I always acknowledge how appreciative of them I am. But again, I seriously doubt any of them come here. As far as the non-regulars go, I don't think I have a habit of saying mean things about customers, but I can understand why some girls here do - the nature of our job can really bring out the worst in men. Never the less, there are plenty of fish in the sea so if one or two guys gets turned off by something a girl said, that isn't going to impact her earnings in a significant way.

estafador
10-01-2013, 01:27 PM
Nust hop off the forum, go to a club with beautiful enagmic women and you'll forget everything you read within 5 minutes.

AmyLynne
10-29-2013, 04:11 PM
I still believe this is true!
Seriously the minute I start to care about what customers think is the minute I get that much needed mental help aftr 10 years of doing this bullshit!

atlantaboy
08-01-2014, 06:41 AM
this site actually just make me wanna go to a strip club more for some reason

Tourdefranzia
08-01-2014, 10:11 AM
This thread made me laugh. It has never crossed my mind that a site dedicated to dancers sharing business tips would hurt business. If anything, it is good for both dancers and customers.

zeke
08-01-2014, 10:17 AM
go to club
have fun with hot chix
feel some titties
get my cock a good ride
go home

nope....nothing changed for me.

whirlerz
08-01-2014, 10:38 AM
Wow. Thanks for the enlightenment, Z.

Vyanka
08-01-2014, 11:59 AM
The clientele I like doesn't have time for any type of social network, bc he's too busy make that money. So, no. I'm not concerned.

I do however, wished there were no guys on here butting into everything that doesn't concern them. It's annoying. I wish it was industry girls ONLY. Customers/trolls/non industry folks coming on here to aggravate us with stupid comments is hell of annoying. This is suppose to be our little cyber haven.

FasaCorp
08-01-2014, 06:54 PM
The clientele I like doesn't have time for any type of social network, bc he's too busy make that money. So, no. I'm not concerned.

I do however, wished there were no guys on here butting into everything that doesn't concern them. It's annoying. I wish it was industry girls ONLY. Customers/trolls/non industry folks coming on here to aggravate us with stupid comments is hell of annoying. This is suppose to be our little cyber haven.

The first six Forums on this site are dedicated to dancers only. Since those six alone make up nearly half of all posts on this site, I'd say you already have the cyber haven well established.

tuesdaymarie
08-01-2014, 07:08 PM
^Idk, I've seen many male-centric forums link to this site to talk about how slutty and awful females in general are. It was mentioned once on a site I already frequented, so it made me do a quick google that I almost immediately wished I hadn't conducted. It made me very aware that this isn't the cyber dressing room I sometimes felt like it was. I know it's stupid to think that anything you write online has any expectation of privacy, but it was jarring to see my own posts used as evidence of the evilness of womankind. I don't really think I'm a psycho feminazi soulless slutbag gold digger or what have you, but some of those fellows had me questioning that assessment...

Again though, as I think someone else already stated in this thread, the types of guys who would go through the effort to look through this site to quote strippers out of context as pseudo-evidence that women in general are scum probably aren't the kind of customer I'd want anyway. I believe I have run into these types a few times in the club, and I exit the situation as quickly as possible. No money or happiness to be found there.

Selina M
08-01-2014, 07:14 PM
^ They call us "slutbag gold diggers" because they resent that we're taking their money... which is stupid... because they are the ones walking into a strip club.
Men baffle me.

FasaCorp
08-01-2014, 07:15 PM
Again though, as I think someone else already stated in this thread, the types of guys who would go through the effort to look through this site to quote strippers out of context as pseudo-evidence that women in general are scum probably aren't the kind of customer I'd want anyway.

Well, the concern I have is this sort of behavior has metastasized since broadband internet exploded. The bottom-feeder customers can congregate in their own chat rooms and feed off each other. And it spreads like cancer.

arielbriel
08-01-2014, 08:48 PM
100% agree with Vyanka. :)

zeke
08-02-2014, 08:06 AM
I do however, wished there were no guys on here butting into everything that doesn't concern them. It's annoying. I wish it was industry girls ONLY. .

I wish the cowboys win the Super Bowl this year but that aint happening.

rickdugan
08-03-2014, 07:14 AM
Obviously I'm biased when I say this, but I wonder if allowing guys to participate, in some fashion, is a necessary evil. It's my understanding that another site tried the female-only model and that it was a ghost town. There are now less than 3,000 clubs nationwide and only a handful of big cam sites, with a lot of transience in the female populations of both. Guys not only continue to generate buzz for the site and let girls know of its existence (through customer boards, directly and elsewhere), but I suspect that a % of girls who use this site find at least some benefit from male participation. Idk.

But truth be told I'm not really sure why any dancer or cam girl should feel like they are constricted from fully using this site. There is a Ladies Only section for stuff that posters don't want guys reading at all and a dedicated semi-public section in which guys cannot post. Ladies could (and some do) discuss life support issues, work challenges and a variety of other things in those places all day long without a single iota of male participation or even male viewing. The ladies who post in the sections open to men do so by choice.

The one group who I think lacks enough options on here are the escorts. IMHO they deserve their own section in the restricted area of the site, but there may be other issues around this that I am unaware of.

Aurora_Sunset
08-03-2014, 10:48 AM
The one group who I think lacks enough options on here are the escorts. IMHO they deserve their own section in the restricted area of the site, but there may be other issues around this that I am unaware of.

Yeah, I wish there was an Escorting section the same way Camming eventually branched off and got its own section, but I'm pretty sure the reasons for that are to legally avoid looking like the site condones or participates in promoting an illegal activity. It might seem like a stretch, but idk, I'm sure if an LE official got pissed enough at this site for whatever reason, they could find a way to shut it down if it looked like the site was actively trying to carve out a spot for illegal sex workers. The Other Work section works pretty well, though I agree it would be nice if it was like the Stripping and Camming sections where it was restricted to the females, because I do get annoyed when too many guys pop in with unwanted comments in an escorting thread. But, oh well. They're usually not too bad.

Aniela
08-03-2014, 07:19 PM
Yeah, I wish there was an Escorting section the same way Camming eventually branched off and got its own section, but I'm pretty sure the reasons for that are to legally avoid looking like the site condones or participates in promoting an illegal activity. It might seem like a stretch, but idk, I'm sure if an LE official got pissed enough at this site for whatever reason, they could find a way to shut it down if it looked like the site was actively trying to carve out a spot for illegal sex workers. The Other Work section works pretty well, though I agree it would be nice if it was like the Stripping and Camming sections where it was restricted to the females, because I do get annoyed when too many guys pop in with unwanted comments in an escorting thread. But, oh well. They're usually not too bad.

Agree w/ this ^^^^ I think the legal concerns are what outweigh the creation of a separate section dedicated to escorting.

Re: the thread topic, I would be surprised that many customers even know abt this site. I have found myself kinda curious as to how the male posters find it, unless they stumble upon SCJ first. Is it purely by word of mouth?

whirlerz
08-03-2014, 07:48 PM
Well, they google it maybe?

Kellydancer
08-03-2014, 09:37 PM
^Idk, I've seen many male-centric forums link to this site to talk about how slutty and awful females in general are. It was mentioned once on a site I already frequented, so it made me do a quick google that I almost immediately wished I hadn't conducted. It made me very aware that this isn't the cyber dressing room I sometimes felt like it was. I know it's stupid to think that anything you write online has any expectation of privacy, but it was jarring to see my own posts used as evidence of the evilness of womankind. I don't really think I'm a psycho feminazi soulless slutbag gold digger or what have you, but some of those fellows had me questioning that assessment...

Again though, as I think someone else already stated in this thread, the types of guys who would go through the effort to look through this site to quote strippers out of context as pseudo-evidence that women in general are scum probably aren't the kind of customer I'd want anyway. I believe I have run into these types a few times in the club, and I exit the situation as quickly as possible. No money or happiness to be found there.

I've done that too and found a post I made 4 years ago in anger used on many sites proving that all women are gold digging whores. I've even stated I made that post when I was going through hell with an ex and that I didn't believe it and was posted in anger.

I don't mind the men who contribute, it's the idiots who admit they have never even gone to a stripclub and have these stereotypes (real or fake)about women in general but especially industry women.

Chili Palmer
08-03-2014, 10:19 PM
Re: the thread topic, I would be surprised that many customers even know abt this site. I have found myself kinda curious as to how the male posters find it, unless they stumble upon SCJ first. Is it purely by word of mouth?

Historically speaking, the majority of male posters have no idea the SCJ basement even exists, let alone ever post there (at least until a mod moves a post to that section).

As it stands now, male posters cannot post in any "relevant" stripping sections, and have not been able to for a number of years. Hard to buy that we are "ruining" the "Stripping" or "Hustle Hut" or Club Chat" sections when none of us are allowed post there anymore (with Hustle Hut posts by men probably responsible for the most stripper angst formerly when it was allowed).

If you're that concerned about posting on an open forum, then join ExoticDancerNet.com, a site specifically formed by SW dancers/members (after The Accusation) and restricted to verifiable women viewing and posting their thoughts and opinions. That site, as has been pointed out, is exactly what you wish for here, yet seems to be a bit of a ghost town. For the record, I've also been invited to join a few private dancer-only sites (with a few of us "cool" custys allowed to participate, as we "knew our place" in the hierarchy), and those all went down in some horrible dancer-on-dancer flames.

Just like you tell the guys here, if you don't like what you read, then don't read those sections. To the ladies, if you don't like having men participate at all, even in our limited capacity, then simply stay out of Customer Conversation on Pink and SCJ at all. Problem solved, and you can continue with the hive mindset that most are so comfortable with here.

CP

rickdugan
08-04-2014, 03:40 AM
Re: the thread topic, I would be surprised that many customers even know abt this site. I have found myself kinda curious as to how the male posters find it, unless they stumble upon SCJ first. Is it purely by word of mouth?

I can only speak for myself, but I found this site through references on tuscl. There are a handful of customers who post on both sites and a number of tuscl-only posters who, for reasons only they understand, like to read and discuss what SW dancers have to say about customers. After a pretty spirited discussion some years back about a SW thread complaining about customers, I came to see what all the buzz was about.

oldster
08-04-2014, 04:36 AM
If I remember I found this site from a comment in a posting on another site [was it tits and sass?]that I found in some random way

I have found no use for TUSCL both for its bad format and lack of interesting content

While it is unfortunate that there are men who join here just to be dicks, I would hope there is some value in seeing that there are a group of men who value you and what you all do enough to at least try to be of some help on occasion, even if it is sometimes annoying

Kellydancer
08-04-2014, 12:08 PM
I'm not and have never been upset about Tuscl. Sure, some are mean spirited and don't know what they are saying but others are saying things that we all know to be true. We'd all like to think all strippers are educated, sane and doing it to better themselves but the reality is there are too many stereotypical strippers. I have no use for the ones who are morons, who have loser boyfriends and the like but the clubs then and now were full of them along with those who were smart with their money, or using it to pay for college.

Btw I'm not a male poster but I found this site because of posting on another exotic dance site. When I first started posting online in 2001 someone I knew from dancing became a mod on another now defunct site and asked me to post there. At the time I was still doing parties quite regularly but not really chatting about it and she thought it would be a good thing to discuss my past with new dancers. Someone on there posted a link to SCJ, became curious and I registered. I didn't post here for a few years though because there (at the time)were a group of posters who seemed cliquish.

renaissancelove
08-04-2014, 08:10 PM
Most DANCERS I know don't even know about SW. I'm definitely not worried about customers finding out. lol

velvet
08-04-2014, 10:23 PM
If you're that concerned about posting on an open forum, then join ExoticDancerNet.com, a site specifically formed by SW dancers/members (after The Accusation) and restricted to verifiable women viewing and posting their thoughts and opinions. That site, as has been pointed out, is exactly what you wish for here, yet seems to be a bit of a ghost town. For the record, I've also been invited to join a few private dancer-only sites (with a few of us "cool" custys allowed to participate, as we "knew our place" in the hierarchy), and those all went down in some horrible dancer-on-dancer flames.

CP

Hi SW! I haven't been here in a year and a half, it was fun reading tonight! It's also good to see a few familiar faces.

Of course I saw this my first night back heh

We are still there and still industry only. While hardly a ghost town we are a small group and always have been. We were never going to have the numbers like SW. We are two different places on the web. :) I know quite of few of our members are still here or lurk or have new names. ;)

whirlerz
08-05-2014, 07:55 AM
HI Velvet! Great to see you back on here again!!!

Anyway, no I'm not concerned about custys on here :)

SweetJulia
08-05-2014, 02:01 PM
Not a bit. Anyone who's naive enough to let the posts on a site like this burst his bubble is likely one who'd bawl like a baby if told there's no Santa Claus as well. Sometimes profitable, sometimes not. Never worth it. There's too many customers with a better grip on reality to worry about hurting someones' ego.

ushar
08-07-2014, 01:12 PM
Strangely enough it's not the content of the posts that turns me off. I've had a good idea of how it all works since my early twenties, so no surprises there.

No, what gets me is the hostility towards some of my own views. To some extent that is to be expected on a stipper-oriented forum, but it can be a rough ride. Some people fairly hear me out and even if they disagree with me, they do it in a way that isn't a slap in the face. I always appreciate those types of people on any forum and in life. Others jump to conclusions or take what I think is undo offense and throw me to the wolves! I stick around because I do want to hear the perspective from the other side of the transaction. How else do you have empathy for the people you interact with?

Chili Palmer
08-08-2014, 11:37 PM
No, what gets me is the hostility towards some of my own views. To some extent that is to be expected on a stipper-oriented forum, but it can be a rough ride.

Okay, I've written this before for other n00bs here, but this seems like a good time for a SW refresher.

StripperWeb was born out of the ashes of a site called StripperPower, of which Curtis Pryce (the founder and original owner of SW) was the webmaster until that site imploded (the dancer whose site that was was a bit, uh, high strung). In the earlier days of this site, there was a Ladies Only section, but other than that, men could and did participate in all the other forums (often to the chagrin of the dancers). We also had some wonderful get-togethers (SWFest) in which dancers and customers alike participated. At SWFest-Phoenix, Pryce himself attended, and I got to chat 1-on-1 with him. Being from LA, he was aware of who I was and my long association with Z-Bone, and I took the opportunity to complain about how men were second class citizens, and our opinions meant less than zero and in any confrontation between male and female poster, the male was automatically assumed wrong. I expected Pryce to defend or deny this; instead, he told me that that attitude was exactly what he intended for this site.

That being the case, I accepted his position and so I rarely post on Pink and stay mostly in SCJ, which is our site. Notice how SCJ is located at the bottom of the home page listings, even under Site Issues and it is the only SW Forum where the home page does not show the latest topic being discussed. This is by design. Your opinion, and mine, and those of every other male poster are only as meaningful as the women here want them to be, and if they want to take a big steaming dump on anything you or I say, that is well within the rules of this site.

The girls aren't required to show empathy or give a rat's ass about your opinions, no matter how cogent you feel they may be. It's not a level playing field and it is not supposed to be. Welcome to the Internet. Hopefully, this helps you understand how SW works and help your experience here.

CP

PrincessWhooty
08-09-2014, 02:41 AM
Idgaf.


38543

ushar
08-10-2014, 09:16 PM
Okay, I've written this before for other n00bs here, but this seems like a good time for a SW refresher.

StripperWeb was born out of the ashes of a site called StripperPower, of which Curtis Pryce (the founder and original owner of SW) was the webmaster until that site imploded (the dancer whose site that was was a bit, uh, high strung). In the earlier days of this site, there was a Ladies Only section, but other than that, men could and did participate in all the other forums (often to the chagrin of the dancers). We also had some wonderful get-togethers (SWFest) in which dancers and customers alike participated. At SWFest-Phoenix, Pryce himself attended, and I got to chat 1-on-1 with him. Being from LA, he was aware of who I was and my long association with Z-Bone, and I took the opportunity to complain about how men were second class citizens, and our opinions meant less than zero and in any confrontation between male and female poster, the male was automatically assumed wrong. I expected Pryce to defend or deny this; instead, he told me that that attitude was exactly what he intended for this site.

That being the case, I accepted his position and so I rarely post on Pink and stay mostly in SCJ, which is our site. Notice how SCJ is located at the bottom of the home page listings, even under Site Issues and it is the only SW Forum where the home page does not show the latest topic being discussed. This is by design. Your opinion, and mine, and those of every other male poster are only as meaningful as the women here want them to be, and if they want to take a big steaming dump on anything you or I say, that is well within the rules of this site.

The girls aren't required to show empathy or give a rat's ass about your opinions, no matter how cogent you feel they may be. It's not a level playing field and it is not supposed to be. Welcome to the Internet. Hopefully, this helps you understand how SW works and help your experience here.

CP

I wonder why strip clubs are so hostile.... ::)

Vackra
08-11-2014, 02:44 AM
^^ Jeeebus. I'm never hostile at work.

Djoser
08-11-2014, 03:45 AM
Sweetie, no. No, no, no... when we said those things, we were talking about all the other guys in the club, not you. You'd know that if you just took us to private chat. We can get way more intimate in there! ;)

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:


The last thing I worry about here is maintaining the fantasy/illusion/delusion of the typical stripclub customers.

Djoser
08-11-2014, 04:04 AM
Hi SW! I haven't been here in a year and a half, it was fun reading tonight! It's also good to see a few familiar faces.

Of course I saw this my first night back heh

We are still there and still industry only. While hardly a ghost town we are a small group and always have been. We were never going to have the numbers like SW. We are two different places on the web. :) I know quite of few of our members are still here or lurk or have new names. ;)

So cool to see you back here Velvet...

;D

Djoser
08-11-2014, 04:34 AM
Con artists do NOT believe in their product...

Slightly off-topic--but the best Con Men of all DO believe in their product. This was driven home to me many years ago when I used to do design drawings for large sign companies in Texas. I mean very large signs--or there would have been no point in paying me to design them. Anyway these two guys who ran one of the biggest companies had ripped off so many people in the city that they could hardly sell anymore signs, but they sure kept trying. As long as they paid me, I still did the drawings. When they bounced checks, I made them pay cash. One day the one partner complained to me (within a week or so of literally snatching my incomplete invoice of several drawings & adding it up for me--shorting me by 30$*) 'Everyone in this town is trying to fuck me over!!', and it hit me...he really, truly BELIEVED this was true! Then after that, more & more, I started noticing it was true in many other fields and situations. In fact, the higher-pressure the sales atmosphere, the more valuable this perverse talent of self-delusion can be.

And I have seen it at work in stripclubs, too.

*Then he accidentally paid me an extra 50$ bill. So he wound up shorting himself 20$ by trying to rip me off. I let him.

ushar
08-11-2014, 01:44 PM
^^ Jeeebus. I'm never hostile at work.

That's what I like to hear! But I've seen plenty of hostile customers and dancers both. I can only guess it's because of the nature of the business; eat or be eaten.

SweetJulia
08-11-2014, 02:09 PM
Yeah Ushar, the blue side will like you more lol.

ushar
08-11-2014, 06:24 PM
Yeah Ushar, the blue side will like you more lol.

No doubt. But I'm not overly concerned with being liked, though sometimes I regret figuratively having put my foot in my mouth when I should have done it literally instead!

SweetJulia
08-11-2014, 08:57 PM
^They'll appreciate exclamation marks more as well.

DesuvsDeath
08-11-2014, 09:15 PM
Even if a customer were to find this site. Are they really going to just so happen to come into your club, remember your face from hundreds of girls, recognize you IRL, and remember your posts and the things you've said?
Who cares.
If someone comes into this club talking about some awful site full of mean girls who hate customers you just gasp in horror and say "Oh my god, that's so awful! I love my job and customers like you totally make it worth coming in!" and move right on.
Who gives a shit?

Customers who are super wrapped up in the idea that you actually like them and want to be their BFF are annoying anyway. They linger when they're out of money to the point that you literally have to walk them to the door like "Have a good night!" I'd much rather deal with realistic guys who know how things work.

Almost Jaded
08-12-2014, 06:34 AM
Well, let's see - there are dozens of threads every month dedicated to the question of dancers dating customers. And if you've read them, you know how impossibly stubborn those poster's are to arguing that what they experienced was REAL, and this stripper had a REAL CONNECTION WITH THEM. After not only reading around on this site, but having a dozen girls laugh at them and say they got taken.

So no, I don't think anyone here is worried about it.

Also note, there is NOTHING more destructive to one's perception of what strippers think than dating a dancer, yet after dating my first stripper, my attendance at clubs increased substantially, and after marrying one, even more so, and my spending did too. There are many reasons for this in my personal situation, but the fact is - knowing the game and hating it aren't causally related as you might suspect. If anything, reading around here should give guys a better understanding of how to behave AND ENJOY THEMSELVES in a strip club.

Frankly, if reading this site turned you off to SC's, you're probably a nightmare custie anyway, and nobody will miss you OR your money...

whirlerz
08-12-2014, 10:42 AM
Well, let's see - there are dozens of threads every month dedicated to the question of dancers dating customers. And if you've read them, you know how impossibly stubborn those poster's are to arguing that what they experienced was REAL, and this stripper had a REAL CONNECTION WITH THEM. After not only reading around on this site, but having a dozen girls laugh at them and say they got taken.

So no, I don't think anyone here is worried about it.

Also note, there is NOTHING more destructive to one's perception of what strippers think than dating a dancer, yet after dating my first stripper, my attendance at clubs increased substantially, and after marrying one, even more so, and my spending did too. There are many reasons for this in my personal situation, but the fact is - knowing the game and hating it aren't causally related as you might suspect. If anything, reading around here should give guys a better understanding of how to behave AND ENJOY THEMSELVES in a strip club.

Frankly, if reading this site turned you off to SC's, you're probably a nightmare custie anyway, and nobody will miss you OR your money...

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