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o0Pepper0o
02-11-2013, 12:20 AM
hahaha amazing thread

ok:

Guys who imply [not say outright but imply] that you're asking for too much for a goal and they'd toootaallly tip you if it was lower.

Guys who generally whine about everything arbitaray like hair color, piercings, bra, panties, but are sure to finish it with "oh but you have a hot body..."
like, if they psychologically make you feel ugly MAYBE you'll show the your hot parts?!?!? ><

Sam38g
02-11-2013, 12:47 PM
When they use the line "I love you." "No, you don't understand, I love you." Means they want a free show.

Or the "Do you know (other porn star name)?" means they want you to talk about another girl & never take you private.

"I just want to be your friend. You can confide in me." Means I am cheap & want free shows & sex cause they think you are lonely and have no friends.

"Do you escort?" Never tips or takes a girl private.

Oh, and the ones who say they live in my area. Never take me prvt. So to get rid of them, I respond "Great, I need a sugar daddy. I need new furniture, new Mercedes & to go shopping." I never hear from them again. :)

Smooches,
Sam

BrightAndClaire
02-11-2013, 01:39 PM
Another vote for the "I love you, you're so amazing" guys. Who always want me to visit them in *insert state here*. I even had one guy claiming he was investigating plane tickets to get me out to Norway where he claimed to be.

I never really know what to do with these guys at first; I just had to ban a repeat offender who kept hanging out in my room demanding my attention--he was so boring to talk to that I didn't even get the energy boost I sometimes get from these chatters. I keep some of them around if they're interesting because, if I'm talking about interesting stuff and acting engaged and witty, sometimes the quieter lurkers with money decide they like me enough to go private. But this guy, enough was enough already...

And yet, one guy in the "I love you, I want to come to where you are, we should be together forever" camp clearly has some kind of fetish for the "twue wuv" fantasy, because he keeps coming back and paying for hour long shows but has never tried to give me his real name or any other personal info. So you can't tell right away what their deal is.

Glamourmilf
02-12-2013, 09:01 AM
The guys who come into free and without even saying hi, ask~'Where do You live?' When i first started camming, and didn't know the 'game', I used to answer with a fake state, and EVERYTIME, without fail, he says that he lives there also,or is planning a trip there. LOL!! So, when I got hip to them being timewasters, I started to say "ALASKA", as my answer, and, of course, the guy would say he lives there too! Too funny!
Now, I make a game of it, and tell them to tip 5 gold to have a hint and I will tell them if they get it right. Some tip, and others get huffy about it, and leave.
I can understand why guys are always curious, because I have watched too many cam models admit that they escort, and are just using camming to meet clients. No wonder guys are confused, as to who is camming, and who is just there to escort.

CourtneyRaine
02-12-2013, 11:45 AM
You know what kinds of guys never take you private? The guys who come in your room for the first time an immediately start talking about how amazing they are in bed and how much they can satisfy you. Talkin' 'bout how they can lick the poom poom for hours and will bang you all night long and they start getting really descriptive about what goes where and how they'll have you seeing double after a passionate night of fucking. Lol. And then when you suggest they take you private so you can see how well they can satisfy you, what do they do? They bounce. Come on man, you just told me you could do me for 12 hours straight, can't ya take me private for 10 or 20 minutes?

MissSassyPickles
02-12-2013, 04:00 PM
On a related note:

How to know if a guy will pay? He pays.

:P

roast
02-12-2013, 06:52 PM
Savvier people can probably crack these ones, but my "never will pay" types have tended to be people who do the following (and I tend to ignore instead of ban unless theyre egregiously rude, so many have plenty of time to crack):

-Guys who immediately on entry or within the first msg write something like: "Do you take S ......kY....pe or [email protected]?" or some version of that. we've prob all converted offsite only payment types but the ones who know how to break up the words like that means theyve been busted or lectured by someone before but keep on doing it.

-Anyone saying they only want 24/7 arrangements

-Spam exhibitionists. I mean the guys who clearly go from room to room, profile to profile, with the same multi paragraphed message carefully copy and pasted.

-Anyone who said they were recently castrated or are currently outside nude? lol that's really specific and may just be me, but never had any of these pay.

-If they respond to a cheerful "How are you?" With: "Bad :(" then go on to weep a bummerfest.

-Dudes with celebrity names who pretend to be said celebrity.


Honorable Mentions (sometimes give in but usually not so much):

-"Im in a band ^___^ "
-"You know I could help you - just hit me up anytime bc Im a social media specialist / graphic designer / website designer / photographer / porn maker ^___^ "
-"Oh Im just here doing research"
-"My exgirlfriend is a stripper" "My exgirlfriend is a camgirl"
-"I know the site owner"
-"I am the site owner"

Those are mine. After awhile it may be a self-fulfilling bias bc my eyes just glaze over. One say Ill be proven wrong though.

CourtneyRaine
02-13-2013, 09:49 AM
Oh, the "I love you" guys. This goes one of two ways for me. If he immediately starts telling me he loves me without ever having done a show with me, he's not going to pay. If he tells me he loves me during or after a private show, he's going to pay a LOT. Maybe it's a little mean but I don't actually encourage it, if a guy tells me he loves me I'll just say "oh, that's so sweet" or "you're such a sweetie pie." And then I hear a "Ka-Ching!" sound go off in my head.

BrightAndClaire
02-16-2013, 09:21 PM
If, when I ask him how he is, he replies, "Better now that I've seen you," he won't pay.

(I wish I understood why this was.)

Vogue
02-17-2013, 02:00 AM
I love you (obviously he never took you private, tip or spend anything on you, and if you dare to mention ... well they respect u too much to get you naked LOL )
I wish we could be friends – for free of course
What is your fb – freeloader
I like you can I have your Skype? - Freeloader
I’m horny can you make me hard? - Of course in free chat
Tell me about your hobbies – attention seeker he will try his best to get all your attention
Guys who keep typing crap not paying attention to my answers
Oh you are too pretty you shouldn’t be doing this
Trolls that camp in your chat to tell you how ugly you are – attention seeker, fishing for free public humiliation
Do you escort?
How much do you make doing this?
I wish we could meet
Guys who write you a whole sad story when you ask how they are
Anyone who answers monosyllabic but when you ask the if they would join pvt suddenly you get a long story about why is impossible to him to do it now
Fishing details about your life location name
Slaves that ask what u would do to them in private
Guys who ask others to tip or ask other guys to take you private
You are too expensive

Cammi
02-17-2013, 04:15 AM
This is less who won't pay and more who will be cheap. The guys who immediately turn on c2c when the pvt starts will never stick around for long.

Marina Starr
02-17-2013, 07:18 AM
Yes, girl! I noticed that :)

This is less who won't pay and more who will be cheap. The guys who immediately turn on c2c when the pvt starts will never stick around for long.

~Carmen~
02-17-2013, 08:06 AM
The guys who ask "Are you wet?" NEVER go private.

Snowy0Star
02-17-2013, 08:32 AM
of course not theyre trying to get off for free and get cyber sex

LittleLexy
02-17-2013, 02:04 PM
My experience is a lot like you girls here. I am still learning and I'm getting a bit more strict on some guys. Most guys with anything to do with money in their name have never took me into a show. Out of all the guys that have had names like that..I have had one that tipped me quite often. He never did a show..but he was always throwing 1.00 tips at me for things. So when he popped in..I knew that I would at least make $20.00 off him in tips.. my cut. One guy comes in and his name is moneyslave with some numbers behind it. He's a joke! Wanted to send me a picture of himself and wanted me to tell him what I thought. I told him to send me gold for even thinking about looking at his picture. He of course didn't..left and came back in asking me to go look at his picture he just sent. He kept asking me to go and look and I told him No..and that when I did go to my mail..I was just going to delete his picture without looking. He still pops in but has never did a show or gave gold. He's super close to getting blocked. The mistress guys hardly ever do shows either, with the exception of one man. He comes in and says "Mistress may I dress for you" so I tell him what to put on and he comes back ready to play and does shows. All other guys that come in saying "Mistress" never pay. I get a lot of foot fetish guys or guys that love shoes. I have gotten more strict with them. They ask to see my shoes or my feet..they are already doing their fetish..if you show, they won't pay, they are getting off in free chat. I don't show...I used to since it was just feet or just shoes, but you learn pretty fast. How's showing your feet or your sexy shoes any different then straight up dildo shows or anthing else men pay for?They are not getting it for free anymore from me. Camming is a learning experience and you just have to be a bitch after you learn how it rolls.

KimKlass
02-17-2013, 03:23 PM
Ughhhh GlamourRouge, what the fuck is that thing in your signature?? Holy hell it freaks me out LOL!

Holly_xoxo
02-17-2013, 04:57 PM
"You seem like such a smart, respectable woman. I would just feel weird now if I took you private. I couldn't treat you that way" and then they try to linger in my room.
Or I get the "I just want to get to know you first".....ummmm, right. I had one today come in for the 3rd day in a row who used this line and I pointed out that men who say that never go private. His response was "I will but not when you expect it. I've only been in here 3 times"

And the other one I get alot is "I just sent you a pic. Can you check it while you're still in free chat?"

As for the other clues they won't go private. You ladies have covered most of them :)

Sunnylexie
02-17-2013, 10:09 PM
Guys typing in all caps

justanothercamgirl
02-19-2013, 01:10 AM
As a side rant, I freaking hate the 'can you show me your feet, bb' guys.

If you aren't going to do a show with me (which to date I have never had ONE that asked to see my feet ever do) at least you should tip for your request like everyone else. When they request to see my feet and I tell them to tip $1 only one in a hundred ever do. They always seem to think they are somehow special and exempt from paying.

missprimula
02-19-2013, 01:21 AM
people who are interested in my personal life, if I got live sex lately, my work and the name of my cat will not be 'never in private with me!

callilove
02-19-2013, 02:26 AM
anyone with any variation of boobs/big naturals/hugetitlover as their username. they come in my room constantly, but i've never had one take me private, which confuses me since i'm a g cup.

Via Flaminia
02-19-2013, 01:54 PM
I have a 2-question rule. I don't announce this rule in my room, but if they ask more than 2 questions, they are not serious.

Unless, of course, they are looking for a specific fetish, act, etc. Even then, when the questions get too detailed, it's obvious they are time wasters.

ThatBitch
02-19-2013, 07:47 PM
It's all pretty much been said but those who use things like gent4u, patheticpiggy4princess, any version of paypig, anything too specifically fetishy, or anything like bigdick4u, almost always are timewasters. If a guy has a username like any of these and says any of the "freeloader" lines, he isn't going to spend money. Ignore him.

sexysusie
02-19-2013, 07:55 PM
I'm not a big indie girl so don't take this as 100% accurate, but i always find that unless they specifically state that they want a show, in a short, to the point intro message, they have no intention of paying! I dunno, perhaps they do, but it's not worth my time trying to find out when i could be getting ppm on another site. The good indie custies I've had so far all messaged me with something like "saw you on ____, interested in a show", and even better if they state how long or ask if i can do/ wear/ say x, y, z (shows genuine interest). I never add them to skype until they've emailed me first/ messaged me on a directory site.

ThatBitch
02-19-2013, 10:14 PM
^It's true, the guys who want a show pretty much ask for it right away. On very rare occasions someone will just want to chat a bit in exchange for money or gifts, or chat then get a show, but these are a rarity and I'm not spending my time on anyone who is just chatting unless I already know him as a good spender. Even then, I want them to get to the point in pretty short order. I don't have all day!

Sexy Shana
02-20-2013, 07:09 AM
Any guy who has his dick size in his user name, or comes in bragging about his dick size and asks you if you have had anything as large before.

For me, those guys are only freeloader and time-wasters....every damn time.

I agree 100%. Guys that talk about their big cocks, its only in their dreams.

Snowy0Star
02-20-2013, 07:43 AM
I agree 100%. Guys that talk about their big cocks, its only in their dreams.

I read somewhere else recently theres another model that says she has a tape measure and when guys talk about there size she gets it out and goes all like really u say its 12 inches 9 6 etc. . She also useses it to meausure herself live I think shes a BBW model.

She is evil genuis >: P

Sunnylexie
02-20-2013, 09:50 AM
ANYONE who wants you to do/show things in free chat so he could decide if he wants a show or not, no matter what it is. Spenders are gonna spend, beggars are gonna beg. If he saw your pictures and free chat performance but still cant make up his mind on if he wants you or not, that very specific type of panties or toenail polish color isn't gonna become the last straw to bend him into getting a show.

Snowy0Star
02-20-2013, 10:00 AM
ANYONE who wants you to do/show things in free chat so he could decide if he wants a show or not, no matter what it is. Spenders are gonna spend, beggars are gonna beg. If he saw your pictures and free chat performance but still cant make up his mind on if he wants you or not, that very specific type of panties or toenail polish color isn't gonna become the last straw to bend him into getting a show.

omg yes I remember this one time before I knew what 'Full back' Knickers were the convo went something like this

Are you wearing panties
Yes
What kind ? Full?
Full what?
Full back
Full back? 0.0....
Then he left lol

Before I read much in here I had this guy that was obessesing about me having and putting on shiny silk panties before he took me pvt. I do have some fairly shiny panties (not slik but theyre a bit shiny) but he was all like "they need to be REALLY shiny I wont take you pvt unless I see them on u and I like what I see " I wasnt gonna go digging in my undies drawer before he took me pvt (I knew that much :P ) and at that point because he wasnt taking me pvt I thuoght he was bullshitting.

Was he bullshiting? I read a thread about men having a shiny panties fetish when they buy panties from models but do cam cusites have shiny pantie fetishes when they buy pvt shows too? 0.0 I would think it wouldnt matter what your wearing as long as theyre not granny panties covered in shit stains and holes.

TheBrownFox
02-20-2013, 10:58 AM
Was he bullshiting?


Yeah, he was bullshitting. Guys who intend to go private will usually do it with very few questions asked beforehand. And then there are guys who will sit in FREE chat asking you 100 questions about clothing/dildos that you have, or sex questions (cuz sexy, detailed answers helps them "get off").

A guy who asks "U like White guys, bb?" followed by "How many White guys have u fucked?" is probably sitting there stroking his dick while reading your answers. That dude's not gonna go private or even tip.

TeenageAnnie
02-20-2013, 11:08 AM
And this thread ladies is a good example why you should all go paid chat only. If a man is going to waste my time, he's going to pay per the minute to do so.

justanothercamgirl
02-20-2013, 03:35 PM
And this thread ladies is a good example why you should all go paid chat only. If a man is going to waste my time, he's going to pay per the minute to do so.

May I ask where you do pay chat? Doesn't take much to convince me. ;)

TeenageAnnie
02-20-2013, 03:41 PM
May I ask where you do pay chat? Doesn't take much to convince me. ;)

Adultwork and ImLive

BrightAndClaire
02-20-2013, 03:46 PM
So now that we've come up with so many ways of identifying the time wasters...what do we do about it? What do you ladies do--block them quickly? Kick? Call them out on it in the hopes that they will either flee or learn their lesson? I find myself at a loss for what to do when these guys show up, unless they're blatantly rude. The 100 question guys, or the ones who seem like they're trying to seduce you for some reason, especially, what do you say to them? I feel like I need to deal with them more effectively. Camming is draining me a lot right now because I don't know what to do other than keep smiling and acting pleasant.

justanothercamgirl
02-20-2013, 03:47 PM
Adultwork and ImLive

Thanks! :-*

Sunnylexie
02-20-2013, 05:11 PM
omg yes I remember this one time before I knew what 'Full back' Knickers were the convo went something like this

Are you wearing panties
Yes
What kind ? Full?
Full what?
Full back
Full back? 0.0....
Then he left lol

Before I read much in here I had this guy that was obessesing about me having and putting on shiny silk panties before he took me pvt. I do have some fairly shiny panties (not slik but theyre a bit shiny) but he was all like "they need to be REALLY shiny I wont take you pvt unless I see them on u and I like what I see " I wasnt gonna go digging in my undies drawer before he took me pvt (I knew that much :P ) and at that point because he wasnt taking me pvt I thuoght he was bullshitting.

Was he bullshiting? I read a thread about men having a shiny panties fetish when they buy panties from models but do cam cusites have shiny pantie fetishes when they buy pvt shows too? 0.0 I would think it wouldnt matter what your wearing as long as theyre not granny panties covered in shit stains and holes.

Yes, he was bulshitting. True fetishists are not THAT picky. I have custies who are into shiny panties, but NOONE of them wants them to be a specifis type or color/pattern or GTFO. They mostly prefer fullbacks, indeed (the more shiny panties, the better)))), but they are pretty happy with anything else as far as it is shiny. When a guy is serious about getting a show, a "yes" answer to his "do you have_____?" is enough. He will never ask you tons of questions on the details or ask you to show things to make sure you're telling the truth or it's really what he needs.

AliceFun
02-20-2013, 05:25 PM
Adultwork is profitable to UK girls mostly and Imlive is not a great site cause business is dead there and chargebacks are a big issue. I prefer freechat and to make money than paid and sit dead.

laurielegs
02-20-2013, 06:16 PM
And this thread ladies is a good example why you should all go paid chat only. If a man is going to waste my time, he's going to pay per the minute to do so.


Adultwork and ImLive

Between ImLive's chargebacks and Adultwork's slim traffic for hosts not in the UK, I'd starve if I tried that.

I wish there was a place with no free chat I could make a living on! I miss the good old days before everything was free...

TeenageAnnie
02-20-2013, 08:01 PM
Between ImLive's chargebacks and Adultwork's slim traffic for hosts not in the UK, I'd starve if I tried that.

I wish there was a place with no free chat I could make a living on! I miss the good old days before everything was free...

Fair enough AW might be bad for none Uk girls. But I find that on MFC i was spending 5 hours online putting 100% effort in for like 300-1000 tokens at the end of the shift. Spending 5hours pretending to be happy, chatty, flirty, teasing and all that other crap. 200+ viewers just freeloading my room everyday. It made me so angry that i quit for 2 months, very depressed. i came back and starting doing paid chat only, i only have 2 put in 'effort' when the chat starts and i know i am being paid for everything i do. when im not in chat i play my video games lol. so i actually dont mind going to work. whereas when i did free chat i dispaired at the thought of having to get on cam. Its not for everyone I know. But it is for me. Also I dont tried ImLive i just suggested it as i knew it had paid chat only option. I dont know about chargebacks.

justanothercamgirl
02-20-2013, 09:15 PM
So now that we've come up with so many ways of identifying the time wasters...what do we do about it? What do you ladies do--block them quickly? Kick? Call them out on it in the hopes that they will either flee or learn their lesson? I find myself at a loss for what to do when these guys show up, unless they're blatantly rude. The 100 question guys, or the ones who seem like they're trying to seduce you for some reason, especially, what do you say to them? I feel like I need to deal with them more effectively. Camming is draining me a lot right now because I don't know what to do other than keep smiling and acting pleasant.

How I handle it is that when anyone asks me a stupid question I spam them with a message that says if they have a question to check my profile and if it isn't on my profile it must be something I will tell them in private and then ignore them completely. If the persist in their freeloading behaviour or become insulting than I silent ban them.

The ultimate goal of all their scams and games is my attention. If I refuse to play along and give them any of it then they will eventually move on to an easier target.

AliceFun
02-20-2013, 09:27 PM
MFC is just another thing, i tried the site and i dont like it, is not my style, i am not willing to put up with all the crap there. Adultwork is good for you cause u in UK and in general working nights with your target members is good on any site.
For example if u in UK ur target are the UK guys so they come to see u when they got time in the evening/ nite and are horny but u will not get americans or australians much cause time is different there.
If you are in US and is night there u'll get american/ canadian members but not brits cause they are at work as is day time in europe.
Again, depends where u located are and what sites u work on, if the site has a display country for guys to see ur location and if there is freechat available and paid chat or just free or any other combination.
For example ImLive doesent have display country so u could get all kind of members from all over the world but if u stay in paid chat only u make nothing unless u have a good fan-base. Chargebacks are a huge issue for many girls and site staff is crap. Ifriends, Livejasmin, webcams have paid chat only too but traffic is bad there so these sites are good to splitcam with eventually.
The point is to find ur good sites where u target specific members that are available to go private, means they are mostly at home at the right time having privacy.

ThatBitch
02-20-2013, 10:35 PM
omg yes I remember this one time before I knew what 'Full back' Knickers were the convo went something like this

Are you wearing panties
Yes
What kind ? Full?
Full what?
Full back
Full back? 0.0....
Then he left lol

Before I read much in here I had this guy that was obessesing about me having and putting on shiny silk panties before he took me pvt. I do have some fairly shiny panties (not slik but theyre a bit shiny) but he was all like "they need to be REALLY shiny I wont take you pvt unless I see them on u and I like what I see " I wasnt gonna go digging in my undies drawer before he took me pvt (I knew that much :P ) and at that point because he wasnt taking me pvt I thuoght he was bullshitting.

Was he bullshiting? I read a thread about men having a shiny panties fetish when they buy panties from models but do cam cusites have shiny pantie fetishes when they buy pvt shows too? 0.0 I would think it wouldnt matter what your wearing as long as theyre not granny panties covered in shit stains and holes.


Yeah, he was bullshitting. Guys who intend to go private will usually do it with very few questions asked beforehand. And then there are guys who will sit in FREE chat asking you 100 questions about clothing/dildos that you have, or sex questions (cuz sexy, detailed answers helps them "get off").

A guy who asks "U like White guys, bb?" followed by "How many White guys have u fucked?" is probably sitting there stroking his dick while reading your answers. That dude's not gonna go private or even tip.

Not necessarily. Some guys DO have fetishes for specific clothing items and won't buy anything (video or cam time) unless their fetish clothing is available. The same way we aren't interested in doing free shows, they also aren't interested in paying when they can't get what they want. With this guy I'd have told him yes I have pink shiny silky panties but he has to take me private to see them on me. Not all guys who ask for specific things are deadbeats - they just have very specific fetishes.




As for what to do with a timewaster - I will give him one chance and if the response is anything but paying me he gets ignored. I'm indy so I don't necessarily block them immediately but I make notes and if they bs me more than once then I will block. On a camsite I'd just kick them and if they come back to harass but no spend then block. There is really no point wasting any time or energy on these guys. They're just bloodsuckers.

CourtneyRaine
02-21-2013, 10:11 AM
So now that we've come up with so many ways of identifying the time wasters...what do we do about it? What do you ladies do--block them quickly? Kick? Call them out on it in the hopes that they will either flee or learn their lesson? I find myself at a loss for what to do when these guys show up, unless they're blatantly rude. The 100 question guys, or the ones who seem like they're trying to seduce you for some reason, especially, what do you say to them? I feel like I need to deal with them more effectively. Camming is draining me a lot right now because I don't know what to do other than keep smiling and acting pleasant.

Well, I try not to plug someone as a timewaster within the first few lines they send even if they meet some of the criteria I've mentioned, just because you never know with 100% certainty what their intentions are at the very very beginning. But I am wary when I see a red flag, and if a suspected timewaster asks me a question while I have already in a conversation with the rest of the room I will answer his question but go back to my conversation. So I don't actually ignore but I don't give a lot of attention either. When guys start going on about how they would seduce me I tell them they've got to take me private if they'd like to have sexual conversation or play with me. If they try to ask me a million questions I will answer the first couple (assuming it's not too sexual) and then will ask them in a semi-joking tone, "Why are we playing 20 questions?" They usually tell me they just want to get to know me better. I then tell them if they'd like to get to know me better they can ask all of the questions they want in private chat where I can give them my undivided attention. If they ask another question I reply that I'll answer in private chat. If they keep on asking I just ignore them and they usually leave. If a guy keeps going on and on and on and does not take me private after I suggest he do so, I tell them (not in a mean tone), I think it's time they go visit another model's room because I am done with their conversation.

My site main site doesn't have the option to kick guys temporarily or even ban them, I can only silence them but they can still view my free chat, they just can't type anymore. I only silnce guys if they are being blatantly disrespectful, I've silenced maybe half a dozen guys in five months. Freeloaders usually get the hint and leave on their own, or will just shut up and sit there and watch me in free chat without talking.

TheBrownFox
02-21-2013, 10:31 AM
Not necessarily. Some guys DO have fetishes for specific clothing items and won't buy anything (video or cam time) unless their fetish clothing is available. The same way we aren't interested in doing free shows, they also aren't interested in paying when they can't get what they want. With this guy I'd have told him yes I have pink shiny silky panties but he has to take me private to see them on me. Not all guys who ask for specific things are deadbeats - they just have very specific fetishes.

No one on here said that "all guys who ask for specific things are deadbeats," so I'm not sure where you're getting that from. We said that guys taking up too much time asking "Do you have this? Do you have that?" are usually time-wasters. If they want a specific thing, then they should be able to ask for it within a few questions. I'm not gonna spend 10 minutes answering a ton of questions about what I have or what I do in a show, and like I said before...I'd really love it if there were a 10-minute block session option on all cam sites. :) I'd make every single one of those 'outfit change' guys buy a block session.

TheBrownFox
02-21-2013, 10:58 AM
If they try to ask me a million questions I will answer the first couple (assuming it's not too sexual) and then will ask them in a semi-joking tone, "Why are we playing 20 questions?"

HAHA...that is exactly what I do. :P

I asked a guy on SM just the other day "What's with the 20 questions?" because he was asking me questions you'd ask a potential Match.com date, and probably asking stuff that's answered on my profile. I like guys who are conversating with me, but instead of making me feel like I'm on a job interview, why not tell me some things about yourself too, ya know? And one of the most annoying questions I hear is "What made you wanna do this?" Part of me is expecting them to follow up with the question "And what does your mother think?" LOL.

kortneykay
02-21-2013, 07:00 PM
We should make some old fashioned hand held church fans with the answers already written on them and hold them up when they ask. I think I might do that. "Can you stand bb?" (sign: Go private to find out) "Can you show your feet?" (sign: I take tips for that) I'd be holding them up and putting them down all day but at least the point will get across and I don't have to repeat myself lol.

Snowy0Star
02-21-2013, 07:09 PM
Not necessarily. Some guys DO have fetishes for specific clothing items and won't buy anything (video or cam time) unless their fetish clothing is available. The same way we aren't interested in doing free shows, they also aren't interested in paying when they can't get what they want. With this guy I'd have told him yes I have pink shiny silky panties but he has to take me private to see them on me. Not all guys who ask for specific things are deadbeats - they just have very specific fetishes.




As for what to do with a timewaster - I will give him one chance and if the response is anything but paying me he gets ignored. I'm indy so I don't necessarily block them immediately but I make notes and if they bs me more than once then I will block. On a camsite I'd just kick them and if they come back to harass but no spend then block. There is really no point wasting any time or energy on these guys. They're just bloodsuckers.

So u show them the requested item in ur hand only then put on it private?

Snowy0Star
02-21-2013, 07:13 PM
We should make some old fashioned hand held church fans with the answers already written on them and hold them up when they ask. I think I might do that. "Can you stand bb?" (sign: Go private to find out) "Can you show your feet?" (sign: I take tips for that) I'd be holding them up and putting them down all day but at least the point will get across and I don't have to repeat myself lol.

Maybe I'm too big of a bitch but I love the line "Yes I can" witch normally results in "Will you" then "In pvy only" So if I was to do that I think my sign would say "Yes I can do that for you if we go pvt"

BrightAndClaire
02-21-2013, 08:39 PM
So u show them the requested item in ur hand only then put on it private?

That's the only way to do it. If they demand that you put it on and show them, they're just getting off on being a demanding jerk. You are not there to do a free fashion show.

TheBrownFox
02-22-2013, 12:05 AM
So u show them the requested item in ur hand only then put on it private?

I'm gonna assume that's what she meant. I just wanna know why she quoted me and made it sound like I said ALL question-askers are time-wasters when that's not even what I said at all...lol.

Anyway, I'm sure that most of us (especially the independent cam models who don't fuck around with 'free chat' sites) who have been doing this for a while have gotten pretty good at realizing when a guy really is a time-waster.