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KittenGirl
09-25-2022, 02:38 AM
I’ll answer all the questions in a single post.

1) Yes, TikTok is geobased. It shows content based on your IP and sim. But you can easily bypass that with an American SIM card ($4 on Amazon) and a VPN used 24/7 or even a vpn router in your house. This method works, I currently have over 5 accounts I’m growing this way. The down side is you’ll need separate phones, just buy a cheap android or use your old phone. I recommend max 3 accounts per phone. I have 4 phones in my house just for TikTok. I know girls that have 10+ phones.

2) I’m close to 30, so def not the Gen Z generation. Do I get hate about it? Yes, but I get hate about everything. I use that for my benefit. How? TikTok will push clips that have a lot of engagement. Hate it’s engagement, so basically, my haters help me go viral. None of the hate bothers me, I’m just cold and know nobody of those men or women have any clue about what they are talking. Most I get called it’s “mid”, which means “mediocre” and I always clap back and ask if that’s their most creative insult, cause everybody uses it. At least, call me a walking stick or anything funny. You def need to be grounded so you can get past the insults. I never cry cause of it. I only cry if my clips don’t get views, lol. My latest viral clip has close to 1K hateful comments, still it made me over 400 subscribers (around $3.5K). Who lost? Not me, I got the money, they got the rage. XD

3) The way I see it, everyone uses TikTok, from kids to grandpas. I doubt rich people don’t scroll the app, cause they def do. It’s up to you to find the right audience.

4) Why TikTok, tho? Think about a different social media that can get you viral overnight (1-2-3M views). There is none!!! TikTok is the most organic app, so use it in your benefit while it’s still around. In 6months, I never gotten viral on IG or Twitter and I posted a lot in my first months, on TikTok, I got viral after 1month of consistency.

5) The only real downside to it are the rules, very strict. I’ve had tons of videos removed and never reinstated, I got temporary bans, I had profile bans. So treat TikTok accounts as socks and have multiple ones on hand for backups.

How do you "go viral" on tiktok? I even paid for a promotion and only got up to 1,800 views and two followers on it. I'm trying to hustle hard to build my instagram and casually promote my onlyfans but every fucking guy wants to just slide in my dms and write me sex messages. They hardly ever follow or comment.

I live in a pretty small town and a random friend from school started following me. That must be the geo thing. Will getting VPN thing help me reach a bigger audience?

euro_princess
09-25-2022, 01:04 PM
There isn’t a secret to going viral, other than what you learn from google (post consistently, use trending sounds, make relevant content, have good lighting). You need to keep on trying and trying, until something pops. Tiktok works in real time, your content will do based on how an audience reacts to it and you can’t predict that, cause you don’t even know what that demographic might be. Sometimes is middle aged men, sometimes is young women, sometimes it’s mixed. Thankfully, you have stats for every video and can track the analytics.

If you are in the US, all you can do is block your friends and family from that account. A VPN won’t help you much, because your account might still reach other states. For example, I have my VPN set for Dallas, but I still reach New York or Minnesota. Once a clip goes viral, it spreads like wild fire. Having a VPN helps me stay safe cause I’m in Europe and reach 70% US, so I don’t really care which city or state.

Also, one advice, don’t pay for views EVER. Not a million years! Stop doing it, you’re wasting money. You’re better off posting 14 days, twice per day than giving Tiktok any $. Good luck!


EDIT: don’t engage with people in your dms, lol. don’t ever answer a thing, you’re giving them what they want, which is attention. why would they pay from that point?
another thing, you don’t have to directly promote your Onlyfans on social media, I actually advise against it. have a link with all your paid platforms and people will subscribe from there. IG followers and Tiktok followers mean shit, you don’t need them, you need views. A brand new account can get you a viral clip of 5M views, just like a 1M account can get you 2K views.

Cutie101
09-26-2022, 09:42 PM
@Euro, I have a question.
Is it possible to pre- record content for Tik Tok and just release it daily? Just like you do with content? Only that I guess I can't schedule it, due to ban risks and I am ok with posting it manually.
For example, I wanna pre record for 6 months in advance and just take care of manually release it, during those 6 months.

I know tiktok is not like instagram and twitter, I know there are trends and things like that, but I don't have the app installed yet so I don't know exactly how it works, with the background work.
It would be really easy (time and mentally speaking), to just release daily, pre recorded content, not having to read comments and deal with viewers, especially since you said we need more than one account, lol. It would be an automatism I'd gladly do. So... is it possible?

euro_princess
09-28-2022, 01:02 PM
@Euro, I have a question.
Is it possible to pre- record content for Tik Tok and just release it daily? Just like you do with content? Only that I guess I can't schedule it, due to ban risks and I am ok with posting it manually.
For example, I wanna pre record for 6 months in advance and just take care of manually release it, during those 6 months.

I know tiktok is not like instagram and twitter, I know there are trends and things like that, but I don't have the app installed yet so I don't know exactly how it works, with the background work.
It would be really easy (time and mentally speaking), to just release daily, pre recorded content, not having to read comments and deal with viewers, especially since you said we need more than one account, lol. It would be an automatism I'd gladly do. So... is it possible?

Hmm, it’s complicated. Technically, you can do it, but I’m not sure you’ll get the best results, unless you focus exclusively on transition ideas (switch from PJs to domme clothes, for example), but with that you’ll need to show as much skin as possible or cleavage, something sexy for sure. If you’re not showing personality, AKA following trends and applying those to your online branding, you need to attract attention somehow. So depends how comfy you’re with creating your brand solely based on looks and “sexiness”. It can be done, look up “Notkatiegcups” and “PaigeStarr21”, but I’m afraid with thirst traps you risk to lose accounts more rapidly.
For me that doesn’t work out great, I tend to have more luck with funny crap, but Tiktok isn’t one size fits all, that’s why I would say to focus on creating different strategies before sticking to one.

Also, I know you mean well when you say 6 months of content, but that would be like over 200 clips (double if you do transitions, cause you need to show before and after) and I think you’ll burn out fast. And yeah, 200 short clips sounds like nothing, but you need to change angles, outfits, hair etc, not to look redundant. The good part is if you’re running multiple accounts, which you should, that’s going to be fairly easy to mix and match clips. But try!

KittenGirl
09-28-2022, 03:06 PM
There isn’t a secret to going viral, other than what you learn from google (post consistently, use trending sounds, make relevant content, have good lighting). You need to keep on trying and trying, until something pops. Tiktok works in real time, your content will do based on how an audience reacts to it and you can’t predict that, cause you don’t even know what that demographic might be. Sometimes is middle aged men, sometimes is young women, sometimes it’s mixed. Thankfully, you have stats for every video and can track the analytics.

If you are in the US, all you can do is block your friends and family from that account. A VPN won’t help you much, because your account might still reach other states. For example, I have my VPN set for Dallas, but I still reach New York or Minnesota. Once a clip goes viral, it spreads like wild fire. Having a VPN helps me stay safe cause I’m in Europe and reach 70% US, so I don’t really care which city or state.

Also, one advice, don’t pay for views EVER. Not a million years! Stop doing it, you’re wasting money. You’re better off posting 14 days, twice per day than giving Tiktok any $. Good luck!


EDIT: don’t engage with people in your dms, lol. don’t ever answer a thing, you’re giving them what they want, which is attention. why would they pay from that point?
another thing, you don’t have to directly promote your Onlyfans on social media, I actually advise against it. have a link with all your paid platforms and people will subscribe from there. IG followers and Tiktok followers mean shit, you don’t need them, you need views. A brand new account can get you a viral clip of 5M views, just like a 1M account can get you 2K views.

"IG followers and Tiktok followers mean shit, you don't need them, you need views." - I can't even tell you how much THIS and all you said helped me. I'm getting like 650 views on my IG stories but now I only have like 68 followers. I started over because I didn't like how the other page was going. Just didn't seem consistent. I hardly have anyone commenting on my posts but I'll get like 10 DMs a day. Seriously. If I could tip you, I WOULD!!! What you said was so unbelievably helpful.

KittenGirl
09-28-2022, 03:08 PM
Hmm, it’s complicated. Technically, you can do it, but I’m not sure you’ll get the best results, unless you focus exclusively on transition ideas (switch from PJs to domme clothes, for example), but with that you’ll need to show as much skin as possible or cleavage, something sexy for sure. If you’re not showing personality, AKA following trends and applying those to your online branding, you need to attract attention somehow. So depends how comfy you’re with creating your brand solely based on looks and “sexiness”. It can be done, look up “Notkatiegcups” and “PaigeStarr21”, but I’m afraid with thirst traps you risk to lose accounts more rapidly.
For me that doesn’t work out great, I tend to have more luck with funny crap, but Tiktok isn’t one size fits all, that’s why I would say to focus on creating different strategies before sticking to one.

Also, I know you mean well when you say 6 months of content, but that would be like over 200 clips (double if you do transitions, cause you need to show before and after) and I think you’ll burn out fast. And yeah, 200 short clips sounds like nothing, but you need to change angles, outfits, hair etc, not to look redundant. The good part is if you’re running multiple accounts, which you should, that’s going to be fairly easy to mix and match clips. But try!

Another amazing response. This sort of answers another question I had, like "what the hell do I post?" I have multiple different things I like to do. I'm not just a "one-size fits all" kind of girl, but I've heard from some people to narrow in on one thing and make that YOUR thing.

euro_princess
09-28-2022, 03:37 PM
Yaaas! Get those $$$. Be consistent and watch to have your “suggestion button” on your account (on IG), you can easily check it while being logged in a different account. Focus on views, make good content and results will show.

In terms of what you should post, follow creators from the industry, see what they do and remake their ideas. From there you should have an idea of what fits your brand and audience. If you need some names to follow on Tiktok, send me a DM and I’ll give a 500 list, lol.

Cutie101
09-28-2022, 10:24 PM
Hmm, it’s complicated. Technically, you can do it, but I’m not sure you’ll get the best results, unless you focus exclusively on transition ideas (switch from PJs to domme clothes, for example), but with that you’ll need to show as much skin as possible or cleavage, something sexy for sure. If you’re not showing personality, AKA following trends and applying those to your online branding, you need to attract attention somehow. So depends how comfy you’re with creating your brand solely based on looks and “sexiness”. It can be done, look up “Notkatiegcups” and “PaigeStarr21”, but I’m afraid with thirst traps you risk to lose accounts more rapidly.
For me that doesn’t work out great, I tend to have more luck with funny crap, but Tiktok isn’t one size fits all, that’s why I would say to focus on creating different strategies before sticking to one.

Also, I know you mean well when you say 6 months of content, but that would be like over 200 clips (double if you do transitions, cause you need to show before and after) and I think you’ll burn out fast. And yeah, 200 short clips sounds like nothing, but you need to change angles, outfits, hair etc, not to look redundant. The good part is if you’re running multiple accounts, which you should, that’s going to be fairly easy to mix and match clips. But try!

Ohhh, I am more of a sensual domme, I only wear domme clothes on jasmin because they have shit rules that are forcing me to wear specific attire, otherwise, in my clips I am more of a lingerie girl with occasional fetish clothing. Actually, my members love the fact that I am funny and chatty with them, I am basically the "bratty" girl next door. I guess I can figure out something for TT, funny that can also suggest I am a domme.
Speaking of 6 months, that would be an extreme measure, maybe if I will be pregnant and I don't want anyone to know (making content for sites and content for promo in advance, so it can look like I am still there), but I was thinking at 2-3 months in advance and that's not that hard, since I can create extra clips besides the usual ones, for backup. For example, if I get boobs implant, or any surgery and I need recovery time, to have a backup, to keep things going on.
Anyway, I will figure out a strategy when the time will come. Those backup clips definitely won't be done in a couple of weeks, I will do it along with the ones I immediately post, so I will build a backup stash for the future.

Thanks a lot! I am so happy to hear this! if you say I can record in advance and not always need to be up to the latest trends, this is excellent news!!! Thank you!!!
Planning outfits wouldn't be so hard, because I still have to record clips and I can record some footage for tiktok with that outfit and hair, then play with it and add extra stuff here and there, mixing and matching, etc.

PS: Omg I looked at both of accounts and yeah, it's a bit of thirst trap there but woaaah, I love love love their ideas! Especially Paige! Only watching those two, gave me tons of ideas right away!! Hahaha!! I need to order those SIM cards and gather all the old phones around the house ASAP.

euro_princess
10-01-2022, 05:34 AM
If you do it gradually it’s possible. For me it wouldn’t be, as I mostly focus on trending sounds and have to make videos weekly, but as I said, if you focus exclusively on transitioning or more simple ideas, you can bulk content.

Once you see those creators, Tiktok will take you down the rabbit hole and you’ll find new people from their following and what the FYP is suggesting to you. Good luck!

Cutie101
10-02-2022, 01:27 AM
If you do it gradually it’s possible. For me it wouldn’t be, as I mostly focus on trending sounds and have to make videos weekly, but as I said, if you focus exclusively on transitioning or more simple ideas, you can bulk content.

Once you see those creators, Tiktok will take you down the rabbit hole and you’ll find new people from their following and what the FYP is suggesting to you. Good luck!

Yeah, for now I will try to do it normally, as... focusing on trends, I will always do that, I was just making sure I can keep the promo going during times when I can't really do it in that moment (pregnancy, surgery, taking a break due to burnout, focusing on something else, vacation, etc etc etc).

Again, thank you so much, your response really really helped me to... calm down... hahaha.

DonaDiabla
10-05-2022, 02:44 PM
I found that you can promote yourself on discord by joining NSFW discord servers. Discord.me is your friends.:) I would watch it through and pay attention to the rules of each server. Good luck.


How to promote on discord?

hotmodel
10-09-2022, 03:39 AM
Does anyone else notice that just by sitting up on streamate or whatever cam platform your on (i'm on streamate)...but, I notice that when I just hang out and talk and don't take exclusives or privates (the longer i'm in the free chat...because I get more exposure). I tend to get more funnels of men to my other places like onlyfans, etc. Like, you don't even have to say, "go look for me." I feel like guys are just automatically googling your cam name. Was curious if any of you ladies noticed the same results?

euro_princess
10-10-2022, 10:41 AM
Does anyone else notice that just by sitting up on streamate or whatever cam platform your on (i'm on streamate)...but, I notice that when I just hang out and talk and don't take exclusives or privates (the longer i'm in the free chat...because I get more exposure). I tend to get more funnels of men to my other places like onlyfans, etc. Like, you don't even have to say, "go look for me." I feel like guys are just automatically googling your cam name. Was curious if any of you ladies noticed the same results?

Depends how many you’d get per day and at what price point. If just by sitting in free chat for a few hours can get you 20-30 people/h at a sub of $8-10, then it might be worth it. Otherwise, Tiktok live should bring you that number just by sitting there and looking cute.

sweetcandy121
01-12-2023, 02:02 PM
Hello everyone. Do you have any tips on getting customers through forums or just through non-SW sites. It seems that I get a lot of messages from people but can't lead them to pay. They just want free conversation and will not move forward. What am I doing wrong?
Any advice is appreciated.

kortneykay
01-12-2023, 02:12 PM
Hello everyone. Do you have any tips on getting customers through forums or just through non-SW sites. It seems that I get a lot of messages from people but can't lead them to pay. They just want free conversation and will not move forward. What am I doing wrong?
Any advice is appreciated.

Some guys on fiverr so adult banner ads. If you go on the forum you should be able to find their advertising link.

sweetcandy121
01-12-2023, 03:38 PM
Alright. Thank you! I'll check out which forums have ad space that I can afford. I was under the impression that chatting with people could lead to something but this seems like more of what people are talking about.

euro_princess
01-13-2023, 08:33 AM
Alright. Thank you! I'll check out which forums have ad space that I can afford. I was under the impression that chatting with people could lead to something but this seems like more of what people are talking about.

It never does, sorry! They be chatting with you cause you allow them to, otherwise it would be an empty page and crickets. Why buy the cow if you can milk it? In this business not every customer will be a paying one and you can’t convert them all. Accept it and focus on the paying ones, not the cheap casanovas.