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BlackSheEp3
04-02-2013, 02:50 PM
I sweaaaaar men ALWAYS see it as a challenge. For me though, a few times their persistence paid off. I judge them at first glance like we all do, thinking we wouldn't have anything in common, but we ended having almost too much in common because they saw it and I didn't.

This actually happened with my best (male) friend. He was relentless with wanting to be friends, AND THEN when I agreed, he wanted to hang out daily and would come over and force himself inside practically lol. But now I <3 him and we're like each others artistic muses and have been for like 3 or 4 years. So I could see how it COULD work out, but often times no means no.

I don't lol...I mean if the girl says no I am already turned off from trying to do any more. I would be embarrassed to try anything more...I would just walk away.

ArmySGT.
04-02-2013, 07:53 PM
As the title states, why do some women completely ignore a call/text from a guy when she is not interested? Because saying no is confrontational, a goodly number of women would rather throw themselves off a cliff then engage in a confrontation.

So she will tell her friend, her hairdresser, the neighbor, the cashier at grocerymart, and etc. all in the hope that the "no" gets back to you via third party.

Kellydancer
04-02-2013, 08:16 PM
Something happened to me last night that reminded me of this thread. Mind you, it happens VERY often but here's an example:

I'm at the gas station and this guy pulls up next to me, hitting on me. I tell him "No" multiple times then told him I had a boyfriend. I said it politely at first then I got annoyed with him. He kept trying to challenge me. So then, I stopped saying anything to him, just stopped talking. Then he goes on and tell me I am stuck up. LOL.

I HATE this when it happens. People always say to me I would think differently if it was a man I was interested to which I say of course it would change whether I was interested in or not. Most of the guys who do this are bottom of the barrel looking men who average or above average women who never consider. Nice looking men generally don't do it because they don't have to. Also, most of the time these men say rude or sexual things to me. I have to wonder how many times women say yes to an ugly rude man asking for sex.