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HaydenBlue
03-26-2013, 06:06 PM
LOL this thread. So many trainwrecks this week - choo choo! BAM!

I'm a fatty. BBW and I make GREAT money. Infact, my income + hourly average has gone UP since I began camming and so has my weight, lol. And it continues to go up (the money! lol getting a handle on my weight). I'm now anywhere in the top 1-4 rows on SM (always flucates depending on whos on). I have great success with C4S. Lots of other larger women have great success too!

There are BBW girls who rank higher than me on C4S who make at least 5k and only post a couple of videos a month. So don't stomp in here and say that BBW women don't make any/good money, or that men don't like big people. I just had sex the other day so your argument is shit! LOL.

All of these arguments are AGAIN, people's own negative shit trying to pick up a turd and throw it at other people to try to bring them down. "BBW don't make any money." Generalized nonfactual bullshit. Needs to be said as "*I* don't make any money." and so on and so forth. This is just as bad as that SM thread. lol.

Whateverrrrr I'm out!

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QUEENOFCURVES
03-26-2013, 06:07 PM
I DONT HAVE TO watch anything you not my parents first if i am not rude calling name and i never said uselss to anyone all i said face the truth when no one like you because u fat. end bye ..
Watch your words. I wouldn't consider any of the above posters as useless. You, however have continued to be disrespectful and have not contributed besides spreading misinformation that if a BBW was reading this would get discouraged (maybe that's your purpose? I honestly have no idea). Either way you need to be more respectful.

QUEENOFCURVES
03-26-2013, 06:08 PM
ohh i am done forgot lol let some one take over. xoxxo

MissSassyPickles
03-26-2013, 06:15 PM
I DONT HAVE TO watch anything you not my parents first if i am not rude calling name and i never said uselss to anyone all i said face the truth when no one like you because u fat. end bye ..

Um, yes you did


i just tell it as it is no point going back and forth in this thread useless people dont like hearing the truth rather take the time and get on my excercise stepper xoxo peace out.

And you do need to be respectful or else you're not going to last long here.

So yes, let someone else take over.

Oh... and truth? Pretty sure bank accounts don't lie.

kortneykay
03-26-2013, 06:45 PM
i just tell it as it is no point going back and forth in this thread useless people dont like hearing the truth rather take the time and get on my excercise stepper xoxo peace out.

You're not telling it like it is, you are telling it from YOUR perspective which is basically you don't make much money being fat. What you mean to say is that YOU are useless as a BBW. That is YOUR situation, not EVERYONES. Never in my history of camming have I made $10-15 per hour bb so I simply cannot agree with you. If a stair stepper is what you need to make yourself feel better, and the customer/people in your life to accept you, so be it but you do NOT speak for everyone. And you can stair step all day but if your attitude (and it is) is rotten you won't make shit then either.

AliceFun
03-26-2013, 07:07 PM
Can we have a dislike button here too?! I want to 'dislike' what some people post. OMG!

VoluptiousBriadda
03-26-2013, 07:22 PM
33139

This is where I gracefully bow out - sorry your thread was ruined Foxxy,we know you meant well hun..

MarleyCat
03-26-2013, 07:55 PM
No way.

This thread can be saved and I'm going to get it back on track with something nice as a newbie BBW camgirl.

I'm a BBW, super curvy, dark skinned, wearing (neat!) dreadlocks, and getting on cam wearing no makeup except lip gloss. I've been playing up the girl next door/stoner/nerd girlfriend and guys have been falling all over me. I had a feeling curvy black girls with useless sci-fi knowledge would be an unfulfilled niche and boy was I right. When I did my first show Sunday night I was terrified no one would like me because I'm dark skinned, my hair isn't permed, or because I wasn't as thin as the other girls I'd seen when I was stalking to find out if Streamate was where I wanted to get started.

So I just put on nice music, smoked a bowl, grooved to the music and I couldn't get the money to stop flowing even if I wanted to. I told myself that my cam space and my room is a positive space. I wasn't going to let any insecurities get me down. I wasn't going to let myself look uncomfortable at anytime because this is my safe space. Once I got that in my head, I was smiling more, dudes were falling in love with me. I had a guy that came back at least 4 times that night for long private shows.

I've been making MOOLAH on SM. I only just started but I know it can be done. If you feel confident and beautiful guys will pick up on it, doesn't matter what size you are. There will always be those haters but money talks and it tells me I have more people that love me than hate me.

I’m just feeling super beautiful, regal, and independent right now.

It’s an awesome and empowering feeling I haven’t felt in a long time.

QUEENOFCURVES
03-26-2013, 10:00 PM
dont get mad with trolls get mad with the world most of them who wont accept you get real.

loveshooks
03-26-2013, 10:12 PM
No way.

This thread can be saved and I'm going to get it back on track with something nice as a newbie BBW camgirl.

I'm a BBW, super curvy, dark skinned, wearing (neat!) dreadlocks, and getting on cam wearing no makeup except lip gloss. I've been playing up the girl next door/stoner/nerd girlfriend and guys have been falling all over me. I had a feeling curvy black girls with useless sci-fi knowledge would be an unfulfilled niche and boy was I right. When I did my first show Sunday night I was terrified no one would like me because I'm dark skinned, my hair isn't permed, or because I wasn't as thin as the other girls I'd seen when I was stalking to find out if Streamate was where I wanted to get started.

So I just put on nice music, smoked a bowl, grooved to the music and I couldn't get the money to stop flowing even if I wanted to. I told myself that my cam space and my room is a positive space. I wasn't going to let any insecurities get me down. I wasn't going to let myself look uncomfortable at anytime because this is my safe space. Once I got that in my head, I was smiling more, dudes were falling in love with me. I had a guy that came back at least 4 times that night for long private shows.

I've been making MOOLAH on SM. I only just started but I know it can be done. If you feel confident and beautiful guys will pick up on it, doesn't matter what size you are. There will always be those haters but money talks and it tells me I have more people that love me than hate me.

I’m just feeling super beautiful, regal, and independent right now.

It’s an awesome and empowering feeling I haven’t felt in a long time.

^^^holy fuck this is an awesome post. please stay??

I'm not gonna close this thread, but anyone who continues trolling will get points cuz it's gotten a bit ridiculous. Enough

MissSassyPickles
03-27-2013, 12:16 AM
For anyone that's wondering, I'm not even on BBW or a SSBBW. However I am someone that thinks everyone should accept and love themselves and don't like to see anyone being bullied.

I identify a lot with BBW's though because common themes apply that can be useful for all camgirls, that if you have a niche you need to embrace it and work it and be confident. It is clear that it doesn't matter what you look like, if your attitude sucks then you will make sucky money, period.

Even when I put on my domme persona I actually can't be a bitch in the way that most people who don't know a lot about BDSM would assume (I learned that lesson myself pretty quick lol), you still need to have a good attitude and respect your customers (and yourself!).

Of course if someone wants to lose weight great, of course if someone wants to get plastic surgery great, but only if you want to do it for yourself, not what you perceive as other people's or society's standard of beauty.

I'm glad this thread got turned around to the positive, because I think the underlying message is really great. :)

MissSassyPickles
03-27-2013, 12:22 AM
P.S. - I recently lost 35lbs and got hit on A LOT more before I lost it. ;)

tlulu
03-27-2013, 03:57 AM
You know what, I'm not a BBW at all. But DAMN am I proud of all of you who own your bodies, no matter who you are!

Just gotta say though, you BBWs have great boobs, and that's something that I'll NEVER have unless I got surgery... or pregnant *shudders*

Screw what people or society says. We need to unite as women, not tear each other apart! Men do that enough, it's time for some solidarity ladies :) People will always judge "you're too thin," "you're too fat," "you're too tall," "you're too short,"... etc. The beauty about the camming industry is that we CAN be any of those things and people will love us for it. Sure, there will be different trends as centuries go by, but at the end of the day the human population is so very diverse (thankfully!). Haters will be haters.

thatgirl2011
03-27-2013, 08:43 AM
like it or not hon it the facts dont take it personal.. most people dont like fat people and as someone being a ssbbw or over a big bbw it will be hard for people to take you serious i see a lot of ssbbw in sm and dont get as much privs. i sat today because i cant work i have a flu and there is a like a ssbbw lady and 2 more size 20 not as big and no privs they keep going over to mfc. i felt like wow if there is the fetish guys who like them why arent they getting lot of privs ..one even started a dollar gold show today ssbbw no one tip NOT EVEN A DOLLAR. SO the true fact most cam sites like mfc and sm dont really cater for massive people unless u have traffic . what size is the top performers on sm and mfc slim right? that is the way it works with most men.since i been losing the weight get of my lazy ass after this flu this week and work out i can tell you my income will go sky high like it did. i use to make $10-12 now losing weight n toning i went up double with my hourly income...so back to why people or men dont like big people it is the way it is the true fact xox later doll.. xoxxo


If this is true how the hell did my fat ass make $500 in 2 days? Now off to the camming rocks thread!

BANHammerGoddess
03-27-2013, 01:32 PM
Okay, so I've been offline a bit and wow! Interesting turn of events here.

I just wanted to post that Foxxxy wrote me a letter explaining she hadn't caught the PM her roommate had sent out.
Now, who knows the truth behind what anyone writes on the internet-- this isn't slamming Foxxxy at all. It's just that, after you see a few flamewars start going, I mean, you kind of have to laugh. It's people who don't know each other, having a misunderstanding over something that really shouldn't affect their day whatsoever, and yet people get butthurt. I like to argue and debate especially when people take it personally because after I explain myself and people still take things personally, I'm like, "okay, you're making a choice to be offended here when no offense towards you was meant." Really, it doesn't matter, and a thread isn't ruined because really-- all women should rebel against beauty ideals, because otherwise we'd be shaving twice a day, spending 2 hours on hair and makeup, and being strapped into really uncomfortable clothes and shoes that are deemed "sexy."

My point in writing this is that Foxxy and I don't know each other. But both of us feel the same way that women should fucking LOVE their bodies, and I felt my central point was lost-- the more you love your body, the more you'll find others love it too.

I'm going to post my response to her because as I was writing her it got so long that I just felt, fuck it-- I'll post this since it's on topic in this post.

No sweat. It wasn't actually a big deal. You seemed to take stuff I said personally when all I was saying was that being ugly or being beautiful has really very little to do with one's outside appearance. Thus me calling someone in the privacy of my own mind a cow cunt has more to do with her being a cunt than being overweight. Cow just modified, in my mind, how her face did this prissy little face of distaste and she pranced on past me after dissing my dog because her's barks a shit ton and somehow that's my dog's fault. Same thing with the skinny chick with the body dysmorphic issue-- if you're skinny but you have issues and you take those issues out on other people, then I don't have to wear kid gloves. Now, just to be clear, I'm not out to tear down people's self-esteem. I don't know what the fuck happened in that thread that you took my generalized comments that personally. Even if someone takes out their issues on me, I try to diffuse the situation first typically, and even if it gets into an argument, I'm not calling names except "bitch," because anything else is irrelevant. I'm sorry your mom was a mega-cunt. In terms of using curse-words like this that seemed to offend you, life can be pretty shitty sometimes to EVERYONE-- I find laughing and coming up with funny curse words makes me a lot happier than expecting everyone to treat everyone like how it'd be in an ideal world.

In any event, keep on rocking your BBW-self. When I said I had a partial bias towards overweight people, I wrote why. But when it comes to women who aren't annoying with their self-issues, especially in the sex-industry, I am ALL about getting as MUCH MONEY AS POSSIBLE out of the penis crowd.

So yeah :) Now that you're reclaiming what it means to live in your skin according to YOUR terms and no one else's, the only way is up for you :)

Oh, and definitely check out The Beauty Myth.

I'll be posting this response in the thread (I wasn't going to, but it's long enough to be a thread response so wtf.) I'm not sure what's up with Queen-- I mean, it IS the internet. We all take what anyone says with a grain of salt....well, let's just say a salt lick. It really doesn't matter to me if you wrote the first email or not. I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, and once you stopped acting like I was a complete bitch for even THINKING "cow cunt" in my mind and taking it personally, then I had no beef with you. Because really, if you haven't learned this already with your mom (not to be personal-- but she's the perfect example) the second you let one person dictate who you are to yourself, it's just going to be a miserable existence. And definitely don't ever give that power to someone on the internet, which is why I chose the name BANHammerGoddess because I just LOVE pressing that button, even if it means I'll have a slow room.

maryjaynexo
03-27-2013, 03:26 PM
I've never had a problem finding customers being overweight, and at times I've been slightly chubby to very overweight. Truthfully, my earnings get bigger along with my ass if my weight fluctuates. I used to feel extremely terrible about my weight, but despite the trolls I get sometimes, my job has only let me appreciate different types of beauty more, fat or skinny, I think you can be sexy both ways. Obviously lots of people aren't going to agree with that, but once I stopped caring about the assholes and trolls, life got so much easier. Although I still have issues with self-esteem (as I'm sure many other people do), I find it so much easier to replace those negative thoughts with positive ones after broadening my definition of sexy :)

angelzimm
03-28-2013, 11:14 AM
I was scared at first to go on camera as a BBW, but after 10 minutes I found I had more followers than expected, and realized there is a huge following for my BBW style. men tell me that they need a chubby woman to get off and all kinds of crazy related B be /w fantasies. kink will always be here and bbw is a huge neesh for kink, all you skinny girls have major competition, we even have entire web cam website dedicated to us. and it's not because we have a few followers it is because we are a worldwide fantasy.

kortneykay
03-28-2013, 05:28 PM
Yay for being a BBB BIG BANKING BEAUTY! HAHA! And fuck, Marley, that's awesome! You're making me wanna smoke a bowl myself once I get back into the swing of camming. My ass would be smiling the whole time though and giggly which would make me super flirtatiousness with the men friends ;)

CurvySweet
04-01-2013, 02:21 PM
Wow BanHammerGoddess you are cute!

Joan Rivers comment about Adele annoyed me today. People like that do my head in but as I always say as long as I know i'm looking after myself eating heathly and keeping fit. Why should I care what some asshole who doesn't know me from hell know what I do or don't do.

CarmenF
04-02-2013, 03:13 AM
I don't get why my posts didnt get interpreted the right way. I've never said that bbws or brunettes don't have market... lol looks to me like these girls rock, like we all do when we find what we are good at! On a side note I did put up some weight (around 5kgs) and I am 163 cms so you see it in my ass mostly. Well my bf and I enjoyed joking about it (me especially) until saturday he picks on me for that like 20 times in few hours. When I ordered the second serving of sushi he said something like That's why you are chubby and I burst into tears. Now I know guys pay to watch me blah blah but I felt like he didn't like me anymore because of the jokes. He apologized like crazy and did make me understand he is crazy for my body. But yeah my pussy was like ice walls ahah :)

kortneykay
04-02-2013, 10:00 AM
Yeah, I've learned that guys who say things like that don't deserve to be with or be fucked by girls like us. Lose him because I guarantee he will say it again and even more. It's called emotional/verbal abuse and I'm about to drop a loser just like that.

CarmenF
04-02-2013, 10:04 AM
^^ was that for me?

kortneykay
04-02-2013, 08:11 PM
^^ was that for me?
Yes ma'am. But I may have read it wrong, if so I apologize.

CarmenF
04-03-2013, 05:43 AM
Ah KK dont worry, but I can count the times I told him je was fat and pissed him off while his was first time xD I didnt specofy that. Just complaining about regular human interactions :)

CarmenF
04-03-2013, 05:44 AM
UGH ugly typos sorry phone typing