CamL
03-26-2013, 08:48 AM
As a general matter some people just dont understand they are not entitled to get all they want, some people are soo used to preferential treatment that when they dont get it anymore they just dont know how to cope with new situation. It's crazy but true, some will develop mental issues when they loose things in life like partners, jobs, friends, they feel betrayed and act not normal anymore, seen this with my ex fiance when he lost his good job (he was fired and i never knew the real reason they fired him as he said he left on his own).
That job meant soo much for him that he could not cope with the situation and all his life went upside down also causing our relation to die.
If things dont work out for u the way u want them to work dont make the mistake to show this to ur members, people dont care who u are (were) on site, what is ur reputation, they just want to see a hot lady looking to please them and is important they get positive vibes from you so they want u for a pvt show. Now if u start bitching, complaining, showing how smart u are towards others or site staff u'll get the opposite, guys will leave u 'in peace' to deal with ur own shit, they'll go to other model willing and ready to take care of their sexual needs. well, we talking here about a basic instinct we need to fulfill in our members, the sex, so be sexy, smart (but keep it to urself dont brag about it towards them), dont bash other models or site staff, keep a low profile and do your job. no matter how frustrated i am, i'll not let it off on cam, i'll always wear my sexy smile and positive attitude on cam.
Another thing, i have 2 principles i follow in life: "Never bite the hand that is feeding you" and "dont be an ass kisser or company advocate". i will now explain how i see things regarding these principles.
If u work on a site but not happy with how things work for you and u bash them (site staff) in front of ur members and all over the place, oh well, this is looking pretty bad to everyone, 1st of all u should not be there, staying and bashing it shows how incapable u are to conduct ur business, so either do things better so u dont have to bash or leave for a better place where u happier.
About being an ass kisser and site advocate, this is also a wrong approach in my eyes cause first of all u have no credibility towards ur co workers, sometimes it happens u will not be in their favor anymore for whatever reason and well, things can turn ugly for you. I dont want to tell more and give specific example but some of you know what i am talking about. Be as neutral as possible, do ur job and do it good no matter how bad u feel about it or how frustrated you are, if u feel not happy with ur job or company better leave for a better place, do it with dignity and start from scratch or give up camming and do something else if u want a drastical change that will improve ur life quality.
Just my 2 cent, Have peace!
w/o fail you can see this model (the one with all the years experience blah blah) tear-up and appear to be on the verge of crying every-night that she is online. Last-night she was complaining that she was on the 7th page. I just so happened not to be logged in and found her on the first page.... so I logged in to tell her that she was indeed on the first page. A normal person would be relieved, but she had 3-8 people in her room. She proceeded to go on a diatribe about how these 5 or so additional members (bumped her to around 11) were streamate plants or bots. Moreover she thought streamate moved her from page 7 to page 1 b/c she was complaining and making the conspiracy too obvious. I just wanted to yell at her and be like seriously... you make no money.... and you think streamate cares enough to play games with you? Its a delusion of self-importance to combat the one true problem that all of us have or will encounter in this industry.
We age and die. In general, as we age, our incomes will decline unless we diversify and hustle even harder, but in the end it will decline. You can complain and pretend that declining revenue is attributable to some outside factor. I'm still beautiful. As someone said before, don't let a sense of entitlement be a bar to success. Maybe and hopefully you will be beautiful at 100 but we must face facts. The model in question is not 100 but she has the self-induced attractiveness of someone in that general age.
In conclusion, SM may fizzle. I nor anyone else knows that date. The only thing I can focus on is myself and dealing with the fact/adapting to the fact that I may age-out prior to SM--don't force yourself into early retirement by going mental!
That job meant soo much for him that he could not cope with the situation and all his life went upside down also causing our relation to die.
If things dont work out for u the way u want them to work dont make the mistake to show this to ur members, people dont care who u are (were) on site, what is ur reputation, they just want to see a hot lady looking to please them and is important they get positive vibes from you so they want u for a pvt show. Now if u start bitching, complaining, showing how smart u are towards others or site staff u'll get the opposite, guys will leave u 'in peace' to deal with ur own shit, they'll go to other model willing and ready to take care of their sexual needs. well, we talking here about a basic instinct we need to fulfill in our members, the sex, so be sexy, smart (but keep it to urself dont brag about it towards them), dont bash other models or site staff, keep a low profile and do your job. no matter how frustrated i am, i'll not let it off on cam, i'll always wear my sexy smile and positive attitude on cam.
Another thing, i have 2 principles i follow in life: "Never bite the hand that is feeding you" and "dont be an ass kisser or company advocate". i will now explain how i see things regarding these principles.
If u work on a site but not happy with how things work for you and u bash them (site staff) in front of ur members and all over the place, oh well, this is looking pretty bad to everyone, 1st of all u should not be there, staying and bashing it shows how incapable u are to conduct ur business, so either do things better so u dont have to bash or leave for a better place where u happier.
About being an ass kisser and site advocate, this is also a wrong approach in my eyes cause first of all u have no credibility towards ur co workers, sometimes it happens u will not be in their favor anymore for whatever reason and well, things can turn ugly for you. I dont want to tell more and give specific example but some of you know what i am talking about. Be as neutral as possible, do ur job and do it good no matter how bad u feel about it or how frustrated you are, if u feel not happy with ur job or company better leave for a better place, do it with dignity and start from scratch or give up camming and do something else if u want a drastical change that will improve ur life quality.
Just my 2 cent, Have peace!
w/o fail you can see this model (the one with all the years experience blah blah) tear-up and appear to be on the verge of crying every-night that she is online. Last-night she was complaining that she was on the 7th page. I just so happened not to be logged in and found her on the first page.... so I logged in to tell her that she was indeed on the first page. A normal person would be relieved, but she had 3-8 people in her room. She proceeded to go on a diatribe about how these 5 or so additional members (bumped her to around 11) were streamate plants or bots. Moreover she thought streamate moved her from page 7 to page 1 b/c she was complaining and making the conspiracy too obvious. I just wanted to yell at her and be like seriously... you make no money.... and you think streamate cares enough to play games with you? Its a delusion of self-importance to combat the one true problem that all of us have or will encounter in this industry.
We age and die. In general, as we age, our incomes will decline unless we diversify and hustle even harder, but in the end it will decline. You can complain and pretend that declining revenue is attributable to some outside factor. I'm still beautiful. As someone said before, don't let a sense of entitlement be a bar to success. Maybe and hopefully you will be beautiful at 100 but we must face facts. The model in question is not 100 but she has the self-induced attractiveness of someone in that general age.
In conclusion, SM may fizzle. I nor anyone else knows that date. The only thing I can focus on is myself and dealing with the fact/adapting to the fact that I may age-out prior to SM--don't force yourself into early retirement by going mental!