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Anabelle
04-09-2013, 09:25 PM
You could be outted for working on ANY site so why not maximize your income and work for the site that you could make the most money on?

Because, at the moment anyway, the increased money is not worth the increased risk of being outted. Granted that it's a possibility on any site but from what I've read on this forum combined with my own experience, it seems to be a greater risk on SM than on other camsites that I've used. Recordings being used on affiliate sites also seems to be more of an issue on SM. Increased revenue is often associated with increased risk in all walks of life, it's just a balance that one has to find out for themselves and strike appropriately. I suppose that's all I'm trying to do.

kortneykay
04-09-2013, 09:33 PM
That's because they sell the videos for $14.99 a month to customers lol. It's bound to show up haha. That's why I changed my cam look and hair color too.

Brilynne
04-09-2013, 11:32 PM
I've been outed, people I know have even bought shows from me (revealing identity afterwards..douchebags.) My family knows, my friends know, my ex knows (and cyber stalked me to death and purchased vids..at least I got his $$!!) old coworkers know from when I had a vanilla job...At first when these people were popping up in chat I had a feeling of dread shoot down my spine but I just kept on going about my business. I'm not ashamed of what I do, so why go to lengths to hide it? I'm proud I have what it takes to be successful at something, especially something unstable in nature. My fiance is supportive of me getting back into it, so you might as well slap a "Hi, I'm a camgirl" sticker on my forehead and let me go about my life. Camming rocks. If someone has issues with me over it, well they can go **** themselves. Or better yet, I'll go fuck myself. On cam. And make lotsa $$ doing it ^_^

maryjaynexo
04-10-2013, 06:14 PM
At first when these people were popping up in chat I had a feeling of dread shoot down my spine but I just kept on going about my business. I'm not ashamed of what I do, so why go to lengths to hide it? I'm proud I have what it takes to be successful at something, especially something unstable in nature. My fiance is supportive of me getting back into it, so you might as well slap a "Hi, I'm a camgirl" sticker on my forehead and let me go about my life. Camming rocks. If someone has issues with me over it, well they can go **** themselves. Or better yet, I'll go fuck myself. On cam. And make lotsa $$ doing it ^_^
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Love this, love it to bits. You rock.

tlulu
04-11-2013, 01:35 PM
I haven't been outed. Or if I have, I don't know about it. For the most part, I'm just waiting for the day when someone tells me that other people know. I'm pretty sure that most of their reactions would be "I'm not surprised" and I'll just shrug and be like "Ok. Good for them. Pervs lol."

I mean, I wouldn't want it to reach my parents, but at the end of the day, I'm not out on the streets and I work safely in my home. My boyfriend knows and he's cool with it, that's all that matters to me right now. If my parents ever told me "We raised you better than that!" I'll say "Yes Dad. But YOU were the one who told me that I had to know how to learn how to sell myself... Soooooo... Yeah. I guess I took your advice literally LOL."

MonaLittle
04-11-2013, 02:01 PM
Yeah with certain sites posting your vids and pics in various places, it's inevitable if you work online or post ads or what not online, you will be seen. A guy I used to date showed up in my room the other night on SM. Told me who he was in an email. Creeped me out, so I blocked all people from my region but that doesn't help when SM and other sites have the right to post your pics and vids all over. Good luck hon. Just ignore their comments and stares and smile and keep on rockin'.

MellyMay
05-16-2013, 01:27 PM
It's not so much that I've been outted, per se.....but....some awkward moments.

An ex boyf from NINE YEARS AGO has continued googling me (compliment? or creepy?) and found my ELM info which directed him to my cam-related blog. He contacted me on MGF and didn't know he can't give me personal info. They blcoked him for trying to give me his email....... what an idiot, as we are FB friends!

The weord moment happened the other night. An acquaintance from tumblr who I know recently got married found me whilst trolling MFC. He went, "Wow, this is the first time I've seen anyone I know!" Luckily, he wasn't looking to out me and was kind enough to just PM and say hello. I think he tipped a bit out of his own embarrassment. I thought it was pretty funny.....but evidence that maaaaaaaannnnnnnn, anyone can find you, even if you're a newb listed on one of the last pages, lol.

SweetieBelle
05-17-2013, 12:12 AM
I'm sorry, this thread made me giggle because of something that happened about two-ish weeks ago. I had been reading SW so much and was reading about being outed along with all of the other things new girls need to read. Then I was out and about doing some shopping and this old man drives past slowly. He waved at me and leaned over so hard I thought he would fall into his passenger seat. I had to laugh because I knew I MUST be too new to be noticed yet and was just being paranoid, but I couldn't help wondering what the hell was up with that. Maybe he really did see me on cam. I sure didn't know him since I tend to keep to myself. It's honestly weird to think about anyone recognizing me around town.

Babybunny
05-17-2013, 12:43 AM
If I get outed I hope they spend $ on me. And as far as judging me, wth were they doing on the site? Before I cammed I had never been on one(shrug).

I love my job! I want to shout it from the rooftops! If I get outed I'm inviting them to come have sex with me on cam!

Marina Starr
05-17-2013, 07:04 AM
I think it's only natural to think that because you're new, you haven't been noticed but we all know that you can cam for 5 minutes and still be outted because we live in a world full of worthless busybody.

I had to laugh because I knew I MUST be too new to be noticed yet and was just being paranoid, but I couldn't help wondering what the hell was up with that. Maybe he really did see me on cam. I sure didn't know him since I tend to keep to myself. It's honestly weird to think about anyone recognizing me around town.

SweetieBelle
05-17-2013, 07:53 AM
I think it's only natural to think that because you're new, you haven't been noticed but we all know that you can cam for 5 minutes and still be outted because we live in a world full of worthless busybody.

Too true.

cammodel
05-18-2013, 07:40 AM
No. But I have only one best friend that I see maybe 3 times per year. My immediate family knows and they think it's a good idea that I do caming to make extra money because it's using my resources. It's smart because it saves gas and I can do it when its convenient for me and I get a lot of money for my family.

I'm a professional and I don't just do caming and nobody has ever said a word to me. A lot of people watch porn but the chances of someone you personally know seeing one of your videos or seeing you pop up on a porn site like youporn I think is slim. I work with people that I'd never recognize if I saw them on a porn site anyway. It's also not the end of the world. A lot of people work as dancers and to me caming is just virtual stripping. And another note, if we worried about what people thought of us we'd be worrying all the time. If it pays the bills and you are happy and it's not hurting your personal relationships with people you care about, then my word of advice to being outed is "f*ck em". Until they are paying your bills their opinion don't matter. And as for a job, it's highly unlikely unless you are really intentionally putting yourself out there as a porn star or amateur adult star that any boss will know who you are when you get hired or interview. And to my knowledge most employment background checks aren't going to find your cam model page that is listed under a different screen name.

For precautions I also don't use photos of my face in any of my profile photos. The way I see it is, they log on and see me on cam in person, that's what they care about, not my bio photos.

cammodel
05-18-2013, 12:58 PM
I've been outed, people I know have even bought shows from me (revealing identity afterwards..douchebags.) My family knows, my friends know, my ex knows (and cyber stalked me to death and purchased vids..at least I got his $$!!) old coworkers know from when I had a vanilla job...At first when these people were popping up in chat I had a feeling of dread shoot down my spine but I just kept on going about my business. I'm not ashamed of what I do, so why go to lengths to hide it? I'm proud I have what it takes to be successful at something, especially something unstable in nature. My fiance is supportive of me getting back into it, so you might as well slap a "Hi, I'm a camgirl" sticker on my forehead and let me go about my life. Camming rocks. If someone has issues with me over it, well they can go **** themselves. Or better yet, I'll go fuck myself. On cam. And make lotsa $$ doing it ^_^

Yes. Exactly. My question to anyone who may be scared of being outed is "Is it really all that bad if you are outed?" Are there that many people out there who hate you enough to tell the world? Probably not. We are all adults and we all have private lives. What about the people who are swingers who advertise on Craigs List or Adult Friend Finder? Strippers dance in person and people locally know they work at the club. Do they care? Nope. And they do full nude and toy shows in some clubs. They don't care for many reasons but you know you can always say, like you did, "I'm getting paid well because I'm so attractive to certain men that they throw money at me and in turn, I probably make more than you do per hour and per minute and do a lot less hard labor". Plus you can say "I have no boss", "I work when I want", "I don't have sex with people, I don't even touch them" or if it's a female you can always say "I'm sorry that you couldn't see yourself doing such a thing, but don't knock me because I have enough self esteem to get naked in front of men who adore me and collect $$$ doing it".

If it's an employer that finds out then I'd say simply, "What I do is legal and I'm an adult. It has no bearing on how I perform this job and there's no contract that says I cannot work in the adult industry and still hold this job". As for co workers or anyone else who has something to say "If you are interested, come chat. If you have a problem with it then don't visit my page again and leave me alone about it." That's just what I'd say if someone said something. It's not like I've ever been a "good girl" anyway so if people really know me they wouldn't think a thing of what I do. And I'd bet all of the people who work in the adult industry whether it's as a big star or a small amateur who wants to keep things on the DL, we all have a certain personality where if people personally know us it wouldn't come as a surprise.

cherryblossomsinspring
05-19-2013, 09:29 AM
Yes I had some loser say my real name in chat. I blocked his fucking country but the bitch just log into to a different ip and says "he's on vacation". Some loser from my myspace days. I knew chatting with a bunch of posers on that site would come back and bite me in the ass later. Ohh well.

Then another "loser" that kept asking me out for a year popped into the site and started texting me like crazy when I was on cam. When I logged off I bitched him out and deleted him from my facebook. Another guy sent me a picture message of us in a photo at a club and said "remember me" then said he was providing moral support to his one of his "cam girlfriends". Yawn more bullshit " blocked and deleted from facebook.

It's funny that their behavior changes as if they need to prove to the room that they somehow know you but really you just saw them in passing. A few laughs that last 30 mins at a theme party club event doesn't count as knowing me.

I even had someone from work contact me every few months asking if I still work at the old job. Lol bitch that was 6 years ago that I left and he left 8 months before I did. He obviously knows I cam but is trying to see if I'll fuck his married ass. It's like umm I didn't want you back then and sure as hell don't want you now wtf? He was one of those guys that worked with his wife and actually was fucking around on her at the same damn job. I only admired his work ethic because the man put in hours meant for a zombie. Because he negotiated his salary hard and worked like he did he was making about 6 figures when he left. With all of that I appreciated his sage wisdom but umm that's not enough to fuck someone. Sorry lol

There have been a few others that all of a sudden once they see me on cam it's like 360 stupidity comes out. I have no idea what the hell they are thinking .

cammodel
05-19-2013, 01:34 PM
Yes I had some loser say my real name in chat. I blocked his fucking country but the bitch just log into to a different ip and says "he's on vacation". Some loser from my myspace days. I knew chatting with a bunch of posers on that site would come back and bite me in the ass later. Ohh well.

Then another "loser" that kept asking me out for a year popped into the site and started texting me like crazy when I was on cam. When I logged off I bitched him out and deleted him from my facebook. Another guy sent me a picture message of us in a photo at a club and said "remember me" then said he was providing moral support to his one of his "cam girlfriends". Yawn more bullshit " blocked and deleted from facebook.

It's funny that their behavior changes as if they need to prove to the room that they somehow know you but really you just saw them in passing. A few laughs that last 30 mins at a theme party club event doesn't count as knowing me.

I even had someone from work contact me every few months asking if I still work at the old job. Lol bitch that was 6 years ago that I left and he left 8 months before I did. He obviously knows I cam but is trying to see if I'll fuck his married ass. It's like umm I didn't want you back then and sure as hell don't want you now wtf? He was one of those guys that worked with his wife and actually was fucking around on her at the same damn job. I only admired his work ethic because the man put in hours meant for a zombie. Because he negotiated his salary hard and worked like he did he was making about 6 figures when he left. With all of that I appreciated his sage wisdom but umm that's not enough to fuck someone. Sorry lol

There have been a few others that all of a sudden once they see me on cam it's like 360 stupidity comes out. I have no idea what the hell they are thinking .

Do you or have you told anyone that you are a cam model and on what site? You mention club events so is the adult industry your main job? I'm asking because some people only do camming on the side and don't want to work on promoting themselves as an adult entertainer, etc. So it would be good for people who may be worried to know if those who are more open about their job/are trying to actually make a career in the industry and a name for themselves get outed more often than say, the mom next door who never tells anyone her part time job.

Vela Valentine
05-22-2013, 09:00 PM
I got outed and it's been the worst experience ever. Mainly because I wasn't outed by some pervs finding me (as far as I know) but by people I know that felt vindictive and posted the links on facebook.... That was months ago and even today, I'm still dealing with it. Sucks, cuz it was mostly controversy about Clips4Sale, which... yanno, is a fetish site. People like weird stuff... Just last night, I got a text at 5:40am from a number I don't know, sending me nude photos of me from a clip of mine, saying, this is you! ... Ugh. I deleted my C4S at this point and my streamate & everything else. I have people that have been harrassing me for months now about this stuff, posting stuff about me on facebook... Pretty humiliating. Just make sure you don't tell ANYONE that doesn't need to know.

VoluptiousBriadda
05-22-2013, 09:41 PM
^^ OMG Vela I am SO FUCKING SORRY!!! I saw your name pop up as the last poster on here and was like "Holy shit,I havent seen her around here in FOREVER!!" I'm sending you an e-:hug: and some e-love...fucking bastards..

I'm not shocked at their behavior or anything,I know that my time will come as well,but it still pisses me off nonetheless when I read another horrible outing happened to another good chick...yet again...

Vela Valentine
05-22-2013, 09:48 PM
TY VB -- I appreciate it! I am not ashamed of what I do, but that doesn't mean I'm not trying to be private about it -- I'm just gonna start over, but when, I'm not sure. Getting outed sucks, but you gotta stay strong and remember that the people that chastise you for this are always doing something equally as scandalous. Stay strong ladies, no matter what!

Marina Starr
05-23-2013, 05:32 AM
I am so so sorry you have to endure such cruelty. I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone and don't let anyone steal your joy! I'm sending lots of love and hugs your way!

I got outed and it's been the worst experience ever. Mainly because I wasn't outed by some pervs finding me (as far as I know) but by people I know that felt vindictive and posted the links on facebook.... That was months ago and even today, I'm still dealing with it. Sucks, cuz it was mostly controversy about Clips4Sale, which... yanno, is a fetish site. People like weird stuff... Just last night, I got a text at 5:40am from a number I don't know, sending me nude photos of me from a clip of mine, saying, this is you! ... Ugh. I deleted my C4S at this point and my streamate & everything else. I have people that have been harrassing me for months now about this stuff, posting stuff about me on facebook... Pretty humiliating. Just make sure you don't tell ANYONE that doesn't need to know.

cammodel
05-23-2013, 11:10 AM
I was outed....no just kidding. My mom came over and asked what I was doing to make extra money and I told her. She said "are you serious they will pay that to not even touch you? What a bunch of losers....bleed them dry". Haha my mom never gives a shit.

VoluptiousBriadda
05-23-2013, 11:22 AM
^^ That's awesome!! If only ALL our parents were as understanding and open-minded..

cammodel
05-23-2013, 12:00 PM
^^ That's awesome!! If only ALL our parents were as understanding and open-minded..

Well it depends. See my mom can brag to her friends I have a college background and a day job that's impressive as compared to a lot of jobs. I am sure if I had said...hey mom I'm making a living masturbating on cam she would b e pissed. Its not like she feels she can brag about that.

TeenageAnnie
05-25-2013, 01:09 PM
were u quite discreet and hidden away?

qurl
06-08-2013, 02:30 PM
Just curious if anyone here is completely out by their own choice?

Marina Starr
06-08-2013, 02:53 PM
I am completely out to my whole family by my own volition.

Just curious if anyone here is completely out by their own choice?

kortneykay
06-09-2013, 11:39 AM
My soon to be ex husband tried outing me to my cousin over text message. She fired back how much of a coward he was, how dare he try and put his own wife on blast, that he was clearly immature and he fucked with the wrong family. That's as far as that went. My family may not particularly like the news if they found out but his hopes for them disowning me got shot down quick. He must have mixed my family up with his. We don't get down like that.

SadieTaylor
06-09-2013, 12:09 PM
I am going on week 5 of camming. I ended up visiting my parents after week 3 and telling them and my sister what I'm doing. I kept it vague and I just told them that I am naked on the internet and it is considered pornography. They actually laughed and asked if I was doing it with another girl. I wanted to be honest so I could market myself and remove the geoblock. And now since I am a sahm I can afford things like swim lessons this summer and preschool in the fall for my twins. I have also told several close friends and everyone except for one of them has been very cool with it. And quite frankly, I don't really give a fuck. I'm just not telling my bf/bd's family, but if they find out, oh well..... It feels good to be financially independent and I'll be damn if anyone tries to take away my newfound pride from all my hard work.

Marina Starr
06-09-2013, 12:51 PM
Unfortunately that's how a lot of outting happen these days! One person texting another and before you know it, it travels like wildfire because we have too many worthless busy body in this world so that's their way of gaining "control" and "power".

My soon to be ex husband tried outing me to my cousin over text message. She fired back how much of a coward he was, how dare he try and put his own wife on blast, that he was clearly immature and he fucked with the wrong family. That's as far as that went. My family may not particularly like the news if they found out but his hopes for them disowning me got shot down quick. He must have mixed my family up with his. We don't get down like that.

kortneykay
06-10-2013, 10:41 AM
So true Marina, he was doing it to be vindictive. My cousin called and told me a month after and he was smiling in my face, fucking me, and sleeping in my bed and I had no clue haha.

Marina Starr
07-26-2013, 02:24 PM
Da fuck? Are you serious?! THE NERVES!!! I have been outted so many times, daily that I am immune to it! I don't know this people, they don't pay bills so they really dont matter. I wish someone would come up to me though!
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Moved to a different area and was outed yet again. Was at the grocery store and a woman said, "My son said you're on the internet doing nasty things, doing porn." I looked at her and asked "So you let your 16 year old son peruse online porn sites?" She said nothing else. Ladies, if you do this for a living there is a good chance you will be outed. Make sure it's worth it to you. This is not a game, not a whimsical adventure, it is very real despite the naughty fantasy aspect. Consider your choice wisely. Weigh the risks.

lTina
07-26-2013, 05:01 PM
I just started doing this and so far only my bf knows(he knew before I even started). My family knows I'm making money and staying up late(I live with my mom) but she thinks I'm translating stuff on the internet, freelance-style. I'm planning on telling them once I save enough money to move out with my boyfriend(might be later on this year). My family is pretty open-minded but who knows... maybe they'll flip their shit, or they won't. It's a coin's toss.

Megamind69
07-27-2013, 03:25 AM
I've just been outed such a nerve wrecking experience I was completely flabbergasted but I'm slowly getting over it now

Marina Starr
07-27-2013, 06:54 AM
It was none if her business to begin with. I guess that was the highlight of her day by trying to shame you? How sad! I like your response. Big hugs!

These people must have nothing else to do in the county where I live. No tact whatsoever asking about things that are none of their business. I do try and be as discreet as I can, but inevitably it 'gets out'. I'm not ashamed of doing this to support myself and my child (they're certainly not offering up any cash assistance, lol), so I'm not going to lie about it nor am I going to glorify it. When she said 'doing nasty things, doing porn' I felt she was wanting to brand me with a scarlet A and have my hair shorn off to shame me or something. Blasted harlot that I may be, I don't feel the personal issues are mine.

Marina Starr
07-27-2013, 06:55 AM
Wow, I am sorry. If you don't mind sharing, how did you find out?

I've just been outed such a nerve wrecking experience I was completely flabbergasted but I'm slowly getting over it now

Megamind69
07-27-2013, 03:41 PM
Wow, I am sorry. If you don't mind sharing, how did you find out?

Star you can read all abt it here
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?185734-Oh-dear-god-I-ve-just-been-outed&p=2516774#post2516774

Megamind69
07-27-2013, 03:42 PM
Wow, I am sorry. If you don't mind sharing, how did you find out?

Star you can read all abt it here
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?185734-Oh-dear-god-I-ve-just-been-outed&p=2516774#post2516774

Marina Starr
07-27-2013, 04:03 PM
It is because of being outted that I am no longer afraid or living in fear of being outted. I feel free, empowered and liberated!

Megamind69
07-27-2013, 04:09 PM
It is because of being outted that I am no longer afraid or living in fear of being outted. I feel free, empowered and liberated!

very well put living in fear is like not living at all

Marina Starr
07-27-2013, 04:10 PM
No, it isn't! And you can't out the willing :)

very well put living in fear is like not living at all

lTina
07-28-2013, 02:18 PM
Well scratch what I said a few days ago. My sister-in-law went snooping in my bf's cell and read all the messages talking about me camming and the money and such. She told my boyfriend's whole family who in turn asked him if he was okay with dating such a whore... He quickly shot them down saying that I've been camming a total of 12 hours and made more money than them in two weeks lol. They shut their mouths and my MIL and FIL actually support what I'm doing now LOL! The only one disagreeing is my hateful SIL(the one who outted me) who keeps saying what a whore I am and a cheater and other stuff. Fuck her.

Marina Starr
07-28-2013, 02:30 PM
WOW, where are the boundaries? Or is there any?

Well scratch what I said a few days ago. My sister-in-law went snooping in my bf's cell and read all the messages talking about me camming and the money and such. She told my boyfriend's whole family who in turn asked him if he was okay with dating such a whore... He quickly shot them down saying that I've been camming a total of 12 hours and made more money than them in two weeks lol. They shut their mouths and my MIL and FIL actually support what I'm doing now LOL! The only one disagreeing is my hateful SIL(the one who outted me) who keeps saying what a whore I am and a cheater and other stuff. Fuck her.

lTina
07-28-2013, 02:39 PM
WOW, where are the boundaries? Or is there any?

She's crazy. Like, batshit insane. My boyfriend had a very old phone, it was starting to act up and when my mom bought a new cellphone a few days ago she gave him her old one. So yesterday my boyfriend left the old phone in his room when he came visit me; his sister went into his room looking for something, saw the phone, grabbed it and looked at EVERYTHING. Photos, calls, messages. When he got back to his house his parents confronted him. Then I went to his house and we talked and his sister was laughing like a maniac the whole time saying what a slut I was, that I was a prostitute, things like that and finally confessed to everything.

Edit: Forgot to add, she also had kind of a meltdown, saying that HER FATHER probably watches and buys my shows. She's been saying that I like to show my ass and boobs to her dad for MONTHS, even telling my boyfriend that our daughter is not his, but his dad's. SHE'S INSANE.

Marina Starr
07-28-2013, 02:40 PM
I've lost a lot of faith in humanity a long time ago!

She's crazy. Like, batshit insane. My boyfriend had a very old phone, it was starting to act up and when my mom bought a new cellphone a few days ago she gave him her old one. So yesterday my boyfriend left the old phone in his room when he came visit me; his sister went into his room looking for something, saw the phone, grabbed it and looked at EVERYTHING. Photos, calls, messages. When he got back to his house his parents confronted him. Then I went to his house and we talked and his sister was laughing like a maniac the whole time saying what a slut I was, that I was a prostitute, things like that and finally confessed to everything.

MellyMay
07-28-2013, 04:40 PM
It's not so much that I've been outted, per se.....but....some awkward moments.

An ex boyf from NINE YEARS AGO has continued googling me (compliment? or creepy?) and found my ELM info which directed him to my cam-related blog. He contacted me on MGF and didn't know he can't give me personal info. They blcoked him for trying to give me his email....... what an idiot, as we are FB friends!

The weord moment happened the other night. An acquaintance from tumblr who I know recently got married found me whilst trolling MFC. He went, "Wow, this is the first time I've seen anyone I know!" Luckily, he wasn't looking to out me and was kind enough to just PM and say hello. I think he tipped a bit out of his own embarrassment. I thought it was pretty funny.....but evidence that maaaaaaaannnnnnnn, anyone can find you, even if you're a newb listed on one of the last pages, lol.

Oh man, more to report:

I now have ANOTHER ex and my most recent ex's BEST FRIEND popping in and out of my room as guests. Again, not outted yet.
BUT-
I went on a casual barely-even-a-date kinda date from this silly site (like a friendster/FB/OKCupid-ish start up by a friend). I put that I cam in my little bio as IDGAF. Within 10 mins the dude was being totally inappropriate, assuming I was just gonna fuck him immediately. When I was like, "Uhhhh, no dude," he replied with "I KNOW WHAT YOU DO."
O rly? I outted myself, loser. Needless to say, I told him off and was gone within 30 mins.

Marina Starr
07-28-2013, 05:19 PM
For safety reasons, I personally wouldn't put that on my profile. There are way too many crazy out there that the last thing you want is sexual assault. When men know you're in the adult industry, the majority will see it as a green light for nothing but sex.

Oh man, more to report:

I now have ANOTHER ex and my most recent ex's BEST FRIEND popping in and out of my room as guests. Again, not outted yet.
BUT-
I went on a casual barely-even-a-date kinda date from this silly site (like a friendster/FB/OKCupid-ish start up by a friend). I put that I cam in my little bio as IDGAF. Within 10 mins the dude was being totally inappropriate, assuming I was just gonna fuck him immediately. When I was like, "Uhhhh, no dude," he replied with "I KNOW WHAT YOU DO."
O rly? I outted myself, loser. Needless to say, I told him off and was gone within 30 mins.

MellyMay
07-28-2013, 05:40 PM
For safety reasons, I personally wouldn't put that on my profile. There are way too many crazy out there that the last thing you want is sexual assault. When men know you're in the adult industry, the majority will see it as a green light for nothing but sex.


Oh, I made sure to take it down immediately. No need to deal with such nonsense, amirite?

Thx Marina for your input! I'm finding an almost 70/30% split on my friends' opinions of camming in general. I've certainly not outted myself to some individuals, but for the most part, my besties know. Soooo many are so supportive and like, "Yeah, that's awesome. You're perfect for that kinda thing" yet a small faction (including ONE of the ex's previously mentioned) are like, "You're better than that. Blah blah blah."

But yeah, from here out, I'm not gonna lead with my cam girl status in certain situations.

Marina Starr
04-13-2014, 03:45 PM
This is hitting home again so I want to bump it!
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BellaK
04-13-2014, 06:13 PM
I have never been outted, but I know like someone else said, it will happen some day. Someone has claimed to have attended H.S. with me in freechat (yeah. right). I've really thought about it. Ive decided in like the recent years to care so much less about what people think. Its not as socially accepted, yet millions of people login daily just to see chat/"fuck"/ even be "in love" with US. So, they are the ones with the problem, if anyone, not us. The customers arent judged as much as we are, not fair. So again, should we care about being outted, because we show what we do, while most people hide it? NO. :-) However, I know some camgirls have something to lose by being outted, I sure don't!

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Marina Starr
04-13-2014, 06:23 PM
http://i158.photobucket.com/albums/t94/tsmelania/oprah-crying_zps43689500.gif (http://s158.photobucket.com/user/tsmelania/media/oprah-crying_zps43689500.gif.html)

I have never been outted, but I know like someone else said, it will happen some day. Someone has claimed to have attended H.S. with me in freechat (yeah. right). I've really thought about it. Ive decided in like the recent years to care so much less about what people think. Its not as socially accepted, yet millions of people login daily just to see chat/"fuck"/ even be "in love" with US. So, they are the ones with the problem, if anyone, not us. The customers arent judged as much as we are, not fair. So again, should we care about being outted, because we show what we do, while most people hide it? NO. :-) However, I know some camgirls have something to lose by being outted, I sure don't!

HAD TO SHARE:

37129

sammii
04-13-2014, 07:03 PM
Yes. A lot of people I know in real life know both my real name and my cam name. It started off with me telling 1 or 2 people, into "I heard that you webcam." Word can spread like wildfire if you're not careful.