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Marina Starr
04-13-2014, 07:33 PM
Oh wow bb, I'm sorry to hear! Do you feel betrayed?

Yes. A lot of people I know in real life know both my real name and my cam name. It started off with me telling 1 or 2 people, into "I heard that you webcam." Word can spread like wildfire if you're not careful.

sammii
04-13-2014, 09:14 PM
Oh wow bb, I'm sorry to hear! Do you feel betrayed?
Thanks bb. Yes I definitely feel betrayed but I don't think the intention was to hurt me ... Just a gossip thing. "Don't tell her I told you but she gets naked on webcam." I'm still friends with those people but I don't trust them anymore. If I'm outed, it should be by me and not by anyone else.

Nocturnelle
04-13-2014, 09:27 PM
I want to be out to my family and friends so bad. My online friends know and my boyfriend but god damn would it be easy to just be open about it.

Marina Starr
04-13-2014, 09:29 PM
I totally agreed with you. When someone outed you without your consent, it robbed you of your right to do so. I'm a firm believer that if a person would betray you by gossip, they would betray you any other way if they had the opportunities. It's a blessing to know you can longer trust them.

Thanks bb. Yes I definitely feel betrayed but I don't think the intention was to hurt me ... Just a gossip thing. "Don't tell her I told you but she gets naked on webcam." I'm still friends with those people but I don't trust them anymore. If I'm outed, it should be by me and not by anyone else.

DiamondCupcakes
04-13-2014, 10:24 PM
I just recently met a guy that found out what I did and would send links of my videos via text to friends of his that I would meet! One of them told me and I felt like such a fool for trusting him. I dont care if people know what I do but I like to be the one to tell them myself. Not have them see me masturbating myself before they even know my name.

I'm sorry you got outted bb. Be careful who you trust. Some people just arent mature enough to appreciate its a fun job and says nothing more or less about us than if we did any other job. Well except that we're way cooler than everyone else ;-p

Marina Starr
04-14-2014, 08:44 AM
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I just recently met a guy that found out what I did and would send links of my videos via text to friends of his that I would meet! One of them told me and I felt like such a fool for trusting him. I dont care if people know what I do but I like to be the one to tell them myself. Not have them see me masturbating myself before they even know my name.

I'm sorry you got outted bb. Be careful who you trust. Some people just arent mature enough to appreciate its a fun job and says nothing more or less about us than if we did any other job. Well except that we're way cooler than everyone else ;-p

whirlerz
04-14-2014, 10:43 AM
[QUOTE=DiamondCupcakes;2617245 Well except that we're way cooler than everyone else ;-p[/QUOTE]

THIS^

SophieL
04-14-2014, 05:43 PM
Yes, outed a year ago with other adult work -> loss of vanilla work. :( or :D I am still not 100% sure. Everything I ever did was found by the multi-state area of the US I live in, I do believe. Strange stares when I went out to run errands, relatives no longer speak to me (don't care about those people). A lot of vanilla friends unfriended my on that fb. Top of the charts on the local gossip pages for months. Have had vanilla customer's come into cam room and say my real name, my real profession, etc on free chat. Plus all the harassment from the cheap free people who are not even signed up (why I was so glad to finally know how to block them). Did not care for myself but for other close family members. To my remaining close friends 4/5 know everything I do. The fifth one knows but is too much of a friend to ask me anything. She just gives love and support. Hubby... best in the whole world. So now I am discreetly open about with a few others. At this point it is really a moot point to try to hide anything... I just don't openly flaunt it to all.

Does it suck? You bet... again not so much for me but for other's I care about. My friends were asked questions by their spouses and other friends. Fortunately, that 5 are the best friends a girl could ask for.

I just hate it that all of those other people are too busy living in their small minded world to have any fun in life.

DiamondCupcakes
04-14-2014, 05:50 PM
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HAHAHA best gif ever! That was the look on my face hen I found out

Marina Starr
04-14-2014, 05:59 PM
What he did was horrible and disgusting! It's a blessing that his friends were nice enough to tell you!

HAHAHA best gif ever! That was the look on my face hen I found out