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worriedgirl
04-01-2013, 07:33 PM
Well, my mom was dating my dad and got knocked up but they were married by the time I was actually born. Still, she got preggers before they got married so it's still fornicating lol.

Haha.

Oddly since my mom is such a strict christian. But she's had sex with every boyfriend she's every had after her divorce. I called her a fornicator and she got so mad. She even drove up to my job to yell at me about it. But I didn't say anything that wasn't true.

simone87
04-01-2013, 07:37 PM
did you get out ok? any update? :) even though its your mom and all, that sounds like a toxic situation! my father was like that, he used helping me out to blackmail and coherse me into doing whatever he wanted it was a horrible situation so i understand what you are going through.. even with being an adult now everyone says they wish they were children but i would never go back to that ever, i love doing what i want and having my own space and the added bills are well worth it. and now that im on my own we have a much better relationship, i think at your age the best thing would be to get out and do your own thang !

worriedgirl
04-01-2013, 07:51 PM
did you get out ok? any update? :) even though its your mom and all, that sounds like a toxic situation! my father was like that, he used helping me out to blackmail and coherse me into doing whatever he wanted it was a horrible situation so i understand what you are going through.. even with being an adult now everyone says they wish they were children but i would never go back to that ever, i love doing what i want and having my own space and the added bills are well worth it. and now that im on my own we have a much better relationship, i think at your age the best thing would be to get out and do your own thang !

That sounds awful. I'm kind of glad this situation happened as it gave me a good excuse to leave. It'd be silly to continue to jump through hoops just to make her happy and get nowhere in the end.

I'm leaving mid-month. My mom gave me exactly a month since I've first posted. I rather not be treated like a rabbit with a carrot in front of it's nose. Especially if its a carrot I'm not likely to EVER get. Things have calmed down and she's no longer pressuring me as hard. She still is a bit but nearly as much. I'm so glad I didn't cave and show her in the first place. She still has no idea.

I'll update again when I've hit the bricks.lol :)

kortneykay
04-01-2013, 08:27 PM
did you get out ok? any update? :) even though its your mom and all, that sounds like a toxic situation! my father was like that, he used helping me out to blackmail and coherse me into doing whatever he wanted it was a horrible situation so i understand what you are going through.. even with being an adult now everyone says they wish they were children but i would never go back to that ever, i love doing what i want and having my own space and the added bills are well worth it. and now that im on my own we have a much better relationship, i think at your age the best thing would be to get out and do your own thang !

I agree, my mother and have never really been on bad terms but we are both happier for my decision to move out those years back. It's strange saying that because she put up a fit and was really upset with me for wanting to move out. Nothing is better than having your own shit and being able to take care of yourself. Sometimes the best way to prove it is to live it.