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PrincessN
06-18-2013, 06:41 PM
Some random guy last weekend, says to me hey honey you shouldn't be dancing
You should be home cooking, cleaning
And I told him he should stop being a first class pussy and be a man
Than he had two dances from me the cheap ass
anonymous camgirl
07-18-2013, 06:12 PM
I have news for you! I thought the same thing but the guys in the late thirties and forties are the worst. What a disappointment to find out they don't get better..
@Aurora OMG yes!!! I just had to shut this dude down because he thinks he's entitled to sex. A few weeks ago he was texting/begging me in all caps: CMON!!! PLEASE?!?!?!?!?!?! (yes, he used all those exclamation points and question marks). Like, are you fucking serious? He's 32 begging for sex. He's attractive, smart and he's athletic (hockey) so I don't understand why he feels the need to beg for pussy.
Also, he lies to try and get what he wants (claimed he's a gentleman etc). He must think that because I'm 24 I'm stupid. I thought older guys were less selfish/treat women better, but nope.
anonymous camgirl
07-18-2013, 06:21 PM
Uh just one word! EGO because they have no chance with you therefore they will berate you and make you feel bad for having your own brain and opinion and know what you want.
I mentioned this in the online dating thread but I HATE when men contact to be nasty. Basically I no longer do online dating but still have profiles up. Most of them are hidden but the ones that aren't are either there to post in various forums like POF or because I forgot like OKC. POF does not have my photo, OKC does but that's because until recently I never got responses. In fact I completely forgot about it because I never received email.
Anyway in the last few days I have been getting messages from both POF and OKC and most have been rude. Everything from "how dare you not date dads, you bitch" to "here's my dick" to "you are a bitch" to well anything nasty you can think of. Why do men online send messages to women just to be nasty? I don't send messages to the men who are 70 and want 20 year old women saying "you are delusional" so why do they do this to me? Btw I went and hid my POF profile and will do the same to my OKC too. The funny thing is none of my profiles are especially nasty, but I stress I am only open to childless men. I didn't call them names or anything just said something like "you must be childless". I also mentioned I was not open to casual sex. I added both of these after getting responses from dads and perverts complaining I was rejecting them.
Kellydancer
07-19-2013, 12:08 AM
^^^
Exactly. These men are angry I rejected them for something I mention is unbreakable and they get mad. I don't get mad when I see men not looking for women like me (delusional or not)I figure it's preferences. Sure, I think for example more 25 year old men are sexier than 40 year old men but I don't contact 25 year old men not looking to date someone my age (I am 42). I'm not looking to date men these young btw just using it as an example.
Agreed about men in their late thirties and forties being awful. That's my age range for dating and for one decent man there are 10 who are complete douchebags. I think that's why I don't care anymore about dating. I met a great 50 year old guy I am crazy about and whether we get together remains to be seen (he has a business and now is busy time)but if not I'm not bothering again because there are just so many weird creepy men in their late 30's and up. If anything I may even go younger because guys don't seem to get weird until late 30's
anonymous camgirl
07-19-2013, 06:01 AM
Haha, btw I am 40 and I do not care about dating anymore either. I have been on 2 dates in the last 2 yrs.
^^^
Exactly. These men are angry I rejected them for something I mention is unbreakable and they get mad. I don't get mad when I see men not looking for women like me (delusional or not)I figure it's preferences. Sure, I think for example more 25 year old men are sexier than 40 year old men but I don't contact 25 year old men not looking to date someone my age (I am 42). I'm not looking to date men these young btw just using it as an example.
Agreed about men in their late thirties and forties being awful. That's my age range for dating and for one decent man there are 10 who are complete douchebags. I think that's why I don't care anymore about dating. I met a great 50 year old guy I am crazy about and whether we get together remains to be seen (he has a business and now is busy time)but if not I'm not bothering again because there are just so many weird creepy men in their late 30's and up. If anything I may even go younger because guys don't seem to get weird until late 30's
Kellydancer
07-19-2013, 12:15 PM
Yeah, I'm to the point I just don't care anymore. It's not being anti man (this is something I was accused of on another site)or whatever, dating is just not worth it in many cases. I have a full life and being alone doesn't scare me. I always get the "if you don't date dads you'll be alone" and then I tell them being alone is preferable to being miserable handling something I don't want to. Even when I was doing online and got dates sometimes I would think "why am I going through this again?".
anonymous camgirl
07-19-2013, 12:42 PM
yea that POF site was the deal clincher.. made me finally give up on internet dating for good.. I did it for like 11 yrs nothing but scum on these dating sites i found.
Yeah, I'm to the point I just don't care anymore. It's not being anti man (this is something I was accused of on another site)or whatever, dating is just not worth it in many cases. I have a full life and being alone doesn't scare me. I always get the "if you don't date dads you'll be alone" and then I tell them being alone is preferable to being miserable handling something I don't want to. Even when I was doing online and got dates sometimes I would think "why am I going through this again?".
Kellydancer
07-19-2013, 01:04 PM
Online dating is a nightmare. I did it on and off for several years and most of the men there are yuck. I met a great man on a paid religious site who would be a great boyfriend if he lived closer and was older but mostly a waste of time. I met a decent man on POF but there was no chemistry between us (I would have given him another chance but he wasn't interested). The problem I think is the few decent men on the sites have their choices so many of them take the hottest and youngest women possible. The rest though are definitely scraping bottom of the barrel. I had my profile deleted at POF because several men complained I wouldn't date them. Sorry but am not interested in dating a man with several baby mamas and thought we had the right to chose who we wanted to date.
I think the best men don't do online dating. At least I want to think that way because I dealt with some pretty low class men on dating sites. The paid ones are better but even so I still came across married men on them or guys looking for sex.
MommieLongLegs
07-22-2013, 10:09 AM
I hate it that I can't walk down the fucking street without some guy pulling up next to me asking if I need a ride. No, I don't want a ride from you!!! I don't know you!!! Stop honking at me, and stop staring stupidly at me for fucking 30 seconds while you pass me. Shouldn't you be looking at the fucking road?! Arghhh! I'm buying a gun, taser, mace or all the above. Men act like fucking socially awkward predators, and wonder why women hate them. Ok, I just had to get that off my chest.
Selina M
07-28-2013, 07:39 PM
^^^ Yes that too! I live down the street from Starbucks, so if it's a nice fall/spring day I might walk to get my latte. It sure interrupts my pleasant jaunt to get honked at or creeped on!
I was in a stripper store one day and this wannabe-dancer with a guy trailing her started chatting to me... turned out she had walked to another store from her hotel, and the guy with her had picked her up and been driving her around all day. So creepy! I wanted to lecture her like a child!
MommieLongLegs
07-29-2013, 05:47 PM
^^^ Yes that too! I live down the street from Starbucks, so if it's a nice fall/spring day I might walk to get my latte. It sure interrupts my pleasant jaunt to get honked at or creeped on!
I was in a stripper store one day and this wannabe-dancer with a guy trailing her started chatting to me... turned out she had walked to another store from her hotel, and the guy with her had picked her up and been driving her around all day. So creepy! I wanted to lecture her like a child!
Yeah I don't understand why guys are like that. They need their licenses taken away since they can't drive without almost causing an accident because OMG Me..see.. FeMalllle! *swerrrrvvvvve*
This guy was honking at me from across the street(parking lot), turned into the street, then yelled "Hey you tryna get a ride?!" like 3 times. I just shook my head "no" and kept walking.
Or the guy who slowed down and stared at me. I said "Um you might wanna look at the road". He waved/smiled and slowly drove off. Then he came back outta nowhere, and waved as he passed...
Another guy has pulled into the upcoming parking lot to ask if I need a ride (twice). The second time I quickly shook my head no before he could he even roll down his window, and he waved/smiled and drove off.
Who is breeding these assholes!!? I wanna get shirts made that say "NO I DON'T NEED A RIDE", "I'M NOT INTERESTED", "I HAVE MACE", "I'M CRAZY" and whatever else I can come up with. O, and purchase a taser and/or bat.
Selina M
07-29-2013, 10:34 PM
^^^ Yeah I always say I want a little hat with a bouncy sign on top that says "DON'T FUCKING TALK TO ME".
charlie61
07-29-2013, 10:53 PM
Mine is currently that I have a tattoo on my shoulder, written in italicized cursive, obscured by clothing most of the time. Occasionally a girl will politely say "Excuse me, what does your tattoo say?" But at least 3x a week, guys in public will come up behind me and move my cami and bra straps to read it. I want to scream at them.. You don't just walk up to a stranger and move her clothing around. I have had a couple go so far as to say "Well you shouldn't get a tattoo if you don't want people to read it, and I had to move your shirt to read it". What the fuck. Argh.
Okay, I physically recoiled from my computer screen when I read this. What the fuck? Who does that?? You have every right to be pissed.
It must be similar to the pregnancy phenomenon - I've heard that people feel totally comfortable walking up to pregnant women and touching their bellies. In a twisted way, it's a compliment. But it's also completely inappropriate!
Selina M
07-29-2013, 11:10 PM
Okay, I physically recoiled from my computer screen when I read this. What the fuck? Who does that?? You have every right to be pissed.
It must be similar to the pregnancy phenomenon - I've heard that people feel totally comfortable walking up to pregnant women and touching their bellies. In a twisted way, it's a compliment. But it's also completely inappropriate!
Oh I KNOW. When my friend was pregnant, she said women would come up to her all the time at the grocery store line and touch her stomach, a lot without even asking. It was super disturbing to her. I can't even fathom why someone would want to do it at all - it's not your baby, that's a complete stranger's distended stomach, ew ew ew.
I think it's partially gender related too... like, men feel like they have a "right" to move my straps around, and the belly-toucher women have that weird "Sisterhood" ideal going on, where we all touch each other's pregnant stomachs and it's supposed to be okay because it's another "sista". Just my take on it.
I hate when guys say " its a mans world" ugh b**ch no its not, if I was a man, id be broke, cause nobody would be paying me like they do now to see me naked.lbs.
Also, if a guy does something shitty you want to check him for but somehow you end up having sex with him, he feels hes just made up for it and all is good now, no b**ch I was just horny, now back to checkin your bi*chass..(this doesnt work tho so I see why some girls have back up bootycalls, ha)
When they think its ok to c*m in your mouth but you havnt established that yet, f*ck no!
It pisses me off beyond belief when a guy I have f*ckd doesnt do wtf I tell him to, it just makes me so mad, *irk*
When a lame ass guy thinks he can get you and comes to you all cocky like you must want his d*ck just cause hes hot shit and no other reason at all.
When a guy even alludes to the thought that he has done something for you cause he paid for your meal after a few dates, b**ch i can buy my own, np. Youve done me a favor when you bought out the gucci store, thank you!
MommieLongLegs
07-30-2013, 08:10 AM
^^^
You are freakin hilarious @"no b**ch I was just horny, now back to checkin your bi*chass" lmao
Also, I fuckin hate when guys (well, people in general) think it's ok to call me sweety, honey, hun, or abbreviate my (real) name. Who the fuck do you think you are? Did I say you could call me *abbreviation for my name* or give me a pet name? You do not know me like that.
Example: Hi, I'm *Ashley*. Nice to meet you.
Next day: Hey, what's up *Ash*? or Hey Sweety.
O hell no, hoe!
Kellydancer
07-30-2013, 12:07 PM
Oh I KNOW. When my friend was pregnant, she said women would come up to her all the time at the grocery store line and touch her stomach, a lot without even asking. It was super disturbing to her. I can't even fathom why someone would want to do it at all - it's not your baby, that's a complete stranger's distended stomach, ew ew ew.
I think it's partially gender related too... like, men feel like they have a "right" to move my straps around, and the belly-toucher women have that weird "Sisterhood" ideal going on, where we all touch each other's pregnant stomachs and it's supposed to be okay because it's another "sista". Just my take on it.
True story but years ago a rumor went out I was pregnant and random people came up to me and touched my stomach. The irony is I had a flat stomach and was not pregnant so I told them to leave me alone. That was freaky and I can imagine if I was pregnant it would be worse.
MommieLongLegs
07-31-2013, 04:06 PM
O, there's more. I was walking past a store front and this man yells "Smile!"...Had he not said anything to me, I wouldn't have noticed him there. I looked in his direction, still "frowning", and continued walking.
I wanted to, and probably should've, cussed his ass out. But, camming showed me that men may actually like that, so I didn't. I just...Why do men think it's their right to tell a woman to smile?! Really what I hear is "Smile for ME. *I* want to see you smiling, and I want you to smile at ME so smile. ME ME ME". Bitch, fuck you!
You saw me, an attractive woman who's not interested in your corny ass, and thought of the corniest way to get my attention: Ooh she looks mad. I'm gonna tell her to smile, but only because I think she's hot. If she wasn't hot or it was a guy, I couldn't have cared less.
Again...fuck you stupid men who think it's ok to demand someone change ANYTHING about themselves for your enjoyment/entertainment/ego/self-entitlement.
Renton
07-31-2013, 07:41 PM
I hate when anyone tells me to smile. When I was little people would always say "aww you look so much prettier when you smile!" and it made me more pissed off, lol. Nobody tells me what to do, damnit :|
OT: When a guy you hate gives you compliments to make you not hate him anymore, or because he expects a compliment in return. Well, thanks for the compliment, but I still hate you and you're still ugly. Fuck off.
Kellydancer
07-31-2013, 07:49 PM
I hate the smile comment too.
MommieLongLegs
08-01-2013, 08:31 AM
Yeah, that whole "you look prettier when you smile" bullshit. Why the fuck would I care about what's visually pleasing to you? Despite what you think, I don't need compliments. I already know I'm the shit. And, no one around me, including you, is smiling...maybe because nothing is fucking funny/amusing right now. So, why do I need to be singled out to smile like I'm so strange for not walking alone with a fucking Joker grin for no reason? Again, you're not even smiling, so...and you don't know me.
I'm not a fucking robot. I guess I should say "I'm sorry, the manufacturer fucked up and forgot to assemble me with a fucking smile button that turns off all non-happy human-like emotions".
Ugh men piss me off thinking they're doing a girl/woman a favor by complimenting her or telling her she's prettier when *fill in the blank*.
When I was little, this lady was like "That's a pretty picture" (I was coloring). My response was "I know that already". Ok? Nuff said. lol (Of course I'd just say thank you now, but the point is I already know lol)
charlie61
08-01-2013, 12:22 PM
I HATE it when men say "It's a guy thing..." I'm like "Yes, I know it's a guy thing. Your 'guy thing' is very easy to understand. I get it. But I still think it's hella fucking stupid."
Selina M
08-01-2013, 12:54 PM
Just because it seems to fit in the stupid men theme we've got going here, the "cowboys" at my stable are pissing me off SO BAD lately. They are such sexist bastards and I think they get off on trying to overpower horses. It's such a fucking male ego thing to do that with animals.
Back story: My horse had a temper tantrum the other day and started loping back to his stall and was ignoring my cues to stop. He eventually did of course. Normally he stops on a dime with just the word "whoa", so this was a one time thing.
I found out later that the one who owns the place was "concerned that I couldn't stop him". I was so offended... like, gee thanks for thinking I don't know what the fuck I'm doing, this horse is trained 10x better than any of your personal ones. Then they're all yelling at me to put a really harsh bit on him and when I tried to explain that he usually stops on a dime in a nice soft one, I got a smirking comment of "But this is a different one"... which makes zero difference - you don't retrain for every bit.
They are such fucking idiots, who don't understand the mechanics of anything they use, yet they act like they're such hot shit because they can physically yank their horse around in a really fast spin or whatnot. I hate watching them jerk on them like that and force them into situations the animals are terrified of. And they wonder why they've been thrown off so many times!
There's a couple that are also super rude and condescending to me, and it hit me that day that it's because I'm the only pretty girl around there, and they take that as "not capable". I cannot STAND that shit, them thinking you're inferior at something because you dress like a girl. Apparently I have to cut all my hair off, dye it brown and wear dirty t-shirts all the time to be taken seriously. I wanted to tell them yeah, I'm SO uncapable... you fuckheads couldn't handle this horse, so he sat in a stall for 4 years until I bought him and somehow despite my inferior skills managed to train him... yeah... :banghead:
Oh, and I hate when they get butthurt when you decline assistance with something. We were training on opening gates, and one of them came over and went "Do you want some help with your horse?" - poor egotistical dude was so astonished when I said "no thanks" that he actually said "you DON'T want my help?" No, now go the fuck away. The best part was when he backed off, I swear to God my horse knew I was irritated and he did the maneuver perfectly. Egotistical Cowboy's face was priceless :D
Yeah, that whole "you look prettier when you smile" bullshit. Why the fuck would I care about what's visually pleasing to you? Despite what you think, I don't need compliments. I already know I'm the shit. And, no one around me, including you, is smiling...maybe because nothing is fucking funny/amusing right now. So, why do I need to be singled out to smile like I'm so strange for not walking alone with a fucking Joker grin for no reason? Again, you're not even smiling, so...and you don't know me.
I'm not a fucking robot. I guess I should say "I'm sorry, the manufacturer fucked up and forgot to assemble me with a fucking smile button that turns off all non-happy human-like emotions".
Ugh men piss me off thinking they're doing a girl/woman a favor by complimenting her or telling her she's prettier when *fill in the blank*.
When I was little, this lady was like "That's a pretty picture" (I was coloring). My response was "I know that already". Ok? Nuff said. lol (Of course I'd just say thank you now, but the point is I already know lol)
LMAO @ like i am so strange for not walking alone with a fucking joker grin!
THis is so true about the smiling, why the fuck would we walk around smiling at everyone and their mom like were on crack or something... When guys say this shit to me I want to say make me smile then bitch, buy me gucci, louis, prada, gimme $$ or stfu and keep ya comments to yourself!
Apparently I have to cut all my hair off, dye it brown and wear dirty t-shirts all the time to be taken seriously.
Selina M, this is so true with ugly women and I freakin hate it! Ugly women are haters and should put all that energy into making themselves better rather then hating on prettier girls, ugh.
Apparently I have to cut all my hair off, dye it brown and wear dirty t-shirts all the time to be taken seriously.
Selina M, this is so true with ugly women and I freakin hate it! Ugly women are haters and should put all that energy into making themselves better rather then hating on prettier girls, ugh.
Kellydancer
08-02-2013, 11:36 AM
Apparently I have to cut all my hair off, dye it brown and wear dirty t-shirts all the time to be taken seriously.
Selina M, this is so true with ugly women and I freakin hate it! Ugly women are haters and should put all that energy into making themselves better rather then hating on prettier girls, ugh.
Ugly women are jealous. I posted this in another thread but many years ago when I started dancing me and a friend went to a dancer shop to buy outfits and were looking at them when we sat down in the mall's food court. These fat slobs at the next table started talking about us and said "look at those sluts". We weren't even doing anything to them but fat ugly women love to do this.
Anyway the other day yet another man said smile to me. I told him I wasn't there to entertain him and he shut up.
charlie61
08-02-2013, 08:48 PM
In many ways, I don't blame unattractive women for being envious of attractive women. Hot women get a TON of privileges that less attractive women don't get, which is technically 'unfair'. True, it's often harder for us to be taken seriously, but let's be honest: we'd all rather be attractive and have to deal with the occasional stereotype than unattractive and be taken seriously all of the time.
I grew up as a very geeky-looking and generally unattractive + awkward kid, so I've now been on both sides of the coin. As a child/teen, it was really upsetting to see how differently beautiful women got treated both by boys and by their friends. Girls with terrible personalities and no brains were "popular," and I was the kid people threw rocks at and asked on dates as a joke. I'm extraordinarily thankful to have transformed so dramatically during my late teens/early 20s.
whirlerz
08-03-2013, 07:12 AM
ok..isnt most everything they say/do stupid
Selina M
08-03-2013, 03:32 PM
I've had mostly problems with middle aged women with fat asses (literally they are all the same). They like to stick their nose in and give unwanted advice. It probably is jealousy but its petty and stupid.
I never had problems with ugly women, even when I taught dance they were always über sweet. It's the borderline attractive-but-not-quite ones I've had issues with... They may have gotten the male attention before I came around and now they're threatened.
MommieLongLegs
08-03-2013, 04:05 PM
In many ways, I don't blame unattractive women for being envious of attractive women. Hot women get a TON of privileges that less attractive women don't get, which is technically 'unfair'. True, it's often harder for us to be taken seriously, but let's be honest: we'd all rather be attractive and have to deal with the occasional stereotype than unattractive and be taken seriously all of the time.
I grew up as a very geeky-looking and generally unattractive + awkward kid, so I've now been on both sides of the coin. As a child/teen, it was really upsetting to see how differently beautiful women got treated both by boys and by their friends. Girls with terrible personalities and no brains were "popular," and I was the kid people threw rocks at and asked on dates as a joke. I'm extraordinarily thankful to have transformed so dramatically during my late teens/early 20s.
I'd just like to add that being attractive doesn't necessarily mean special treatment. As a child, I got pushed in the mud face first, made fun of, had a stick thrown at me, my pony tails pulled (all by boys). I also fought a boy because he tried to push me down the stairs (pushed him against the wall and kneed him in the nuts). Actually, I didn't really make friends until 7th grade because the guys all made fun of me and the girls hated me. Not to mention, I was like 2 feet taller than everyone til 7th grade (People thought I was in 6th grade when I was in 2nd lol).
Even in highschool this guy called me a wannabe Tyra Banks, and this random girl (I hadn't noticed her before) in class tried to fight me but the teacher got in the way threatening to suspend us both. I always got told I thought I was all that, when even though I'm confident, I don't think I'm better than anyone. Part of it is probably because I'm quiet and stay to myself, so pretty girl + quiet = stuck up I guess.
People look at me and assume I've had it so easy, but in the words of Lil Boosie (lol) "You don't know what I dun been through". And to be honest, I've never considered myself popular. I'm just me. I do understand your perspective though.
MommieLongLegs
08-03-2013, 04:27 PM
I've had mostly problems with middle aged women with fat asses (literally they are all the same). They like to stick their nose in and give unwanted advice. It probably is jealousy but its petty and stupid.
I never had problems with ugly women, even when I taught dance they were always über sweet. It's the borderline attractive-but-not-quite ones I've had issues with... They may have gotten the male attention before I came around and now they're threatened.
I hate the ones who compliment my figure then say "You're gonna get fat one day" or "It probably won't last". Well, let's see. I've looked exactly the same in every picture since like...birth lol. The only real difference I've gotten is height and occasionally changing my hair styles over the years. But, even my grandmother (63?) still looks amazing and gets hit on all the time by men of all ages so yeah...And I believe true beauty comes from within and shows through on the outside anyway, if that makes sense.
I'd just like to add that being attractive doesn't necessarily mean special treatment. As a child, I got pushed in the mud face first, made fun of, had a stick thrown at me, my pony tails pulled (all by boys). I also fought a boy because he tried to push me down the stairs (pushed him against the wall and kneed him in the nuts). Actually, I didn't really make friends until 7th grade because the guys all made fun of me and the girls hated me. Not to mention, I was like 2 feet taller than everyone til 7th grade (People thought I was in 6th grade when I was in 2nd lol).
Even in highschool this guy called me a wannabe Tyra Banks, and this random girl (I hadn't noticed her before) in class tried to fight me but the teacher got in the way threatening to suspend us both. I always got told I thought I was all that, when even though I'm confident, I don't think I'm better than anyone. Part of it is probably because I'm quiet and stay to myself, so pretty girl + quiet = stuck up I guess.
People look at me and assume I've had it so easy, but in the words of Lil Boosie (lol) "You don't know what I dun been through". And to be honest, I've never considered myself popular. I'm just me. I do understand your perspective though.
WORD to all this! IVE Been through all this and your right pretty girl plus staying to yourself does equal ppl thinking your some stuck up girl, I have always been that way, oh well thats me...
I'd just like to add that being attractive doesn't necessarily mean special treatment. As a child, I got pushed in the mud face first, made fun of, had a stick thrown at me, my pony tails pulled (all by boys). I also fought a boy because he tried to push me down the stairs (pushed him against the wall and kneed him in the nuts). Actually, I didn't really make friends until 7th grade because the guys all made fun of me and the girls hated me. Not to mention, I was like 2 feet taller than everyone til 7th grade (People thought I was in 6th grade when I was in 2nd lol).
Even in highschool this guy called me a wannabe Tyra Banks, and this random girl (I hadn't noticed her before) in class tried to fight me but the teacher got in the way threatening to suspend us both. I always got told I thought I was all that, when even though I'm confident, I don't think I'm better than anyone. Part of it is probably because I'm quiet and stay to myself, so pretty girl + quiet = stuck up I guess.
People look at me and assume I've had it so easy, but in the words of Lil Boosie (lol) "You don't know what I dun been through". And to be honest, I've never considered myself popular. I'm just me. I do understand your perspective though.
WORD to all this! IVE Been through all this and your right pretty girl plus staying to yourself does equal ppl thinking your some stuck up girl, I have always been that way, oh well thats me...
cherryblossomsinspring
08-04-2013, 08:44 AM
^^^
You are freakin hilarious @"no b**ch I was just horny, now back to checkin your bi*chass" lmao
Also, I fuckin hate when guys (well, people in general) think it's ok to call me sweety, honey, hun, or abbreviate my (real) name. Who the fuck do you think you are? Did I say you could call me *abbreviation for my name* or give me a pet name? You do not know me like that.
Example: Hi, I'm *Ashley*. Nice to meet you.
Next day: Hey, what's up *Ash*? or Hey Sweety.
O hell no, hoe!
Everytime a guy does this I'm just going to call him "DICK".
My inside joke on cam is when someone types " hi bb" I respond with " hi dd" dd= DUMB DICK.
They obviously think " aww she's dumb she doesn't know the different between b and d. Probably got them backwards poor thing. Nope I'm secretly calling you a a DUMB DICK. hehehe:)
Kellydancer
08-11-2013, 04:13 PM
Men suck. There is a guy I really like who fits everything I desire and more. It's literally like I handed someone a checklist for a man and I am handed him. Anyway I keep waiting for him to ask me out which he claims he wants to do but then nothing. He stares at me constantly and gets goofy when he sees me. He asks like men typically do when they are interested yet when I mention getting together he makes excuses. I know he has other issues (like court for a DUI) but if not interested why not tell me? So now I have reinstated my free online dating profiles and once again it's a bummer. Guys I like never like me and the guys who like me repulse me.
Aurora_Sunset
08-11-2013, 06:20 PM
And, no one around me, including you, is smiling...maybe because nothing is fucking funny/amusing right now. So, why do I need to be singled out to smile like I'm so strange for not walking alone with a fucking Joker grin for no reason? Again, you're not even smiling, so...and you don't know me.
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Oh my GOD, I hate this! Like, why the fuck would I just be walking down the street grinning for no goddamn reason? I actually read a study once where they asked men and women to rate other men and women's facial expressions and determine what mood they were in. Women could tell when other women were in a neutral mood/neutral face and men could tell when other men were in a neutral mood, but an overwhelming number of men rated women's neutral faces as "mad" and them smiling as "neutral." Soooo, apparently to men, you do need a big "fucking Joker grin" all the time just to look neutral!
Also, this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3v98CPXNiSk
MommieLongLegs
08-11-2013, 07:44 PM
Oh my GOD, I hate this! Like, why the fuck would I just be walking down the street grinning for no goddamn reason? I actually read a study once where they asked men and women to rate other men and women's facial expressions and determine what mood they were in. Women could tell when other women were in a neutral mood/neutral face and men could tell when other men were in a neutral mood, but an overwhelming number of men rated women's neutral faces as "mad" and them smiling as "neutral." Soooo, apparently to men, you do need a big "fucking Joker grin" all the time just to look neutral!
That vid was hilarious lol. And men are just stupid and have no clue about women, which is why our feelings have to be literally voiced otherwise they have no idea how you're feeling, and even then they don't get why you feel that way. Then there's other men who think you're supposed to smile simply because you're a woman or they want you to specifically smile at them as if you're actually interested in smiling at them.
I asked my dad about this, and he said they're just tryna get noticed...Well, it's not my problem they're attention whores. I guess they'll know they got my attention when their eyes are stinging with pepper spray. Mission accomplished? *slow claps
Also, another man decided it was cool to give me a fucking pet name. I had to let that fool know. He looked all hurt and probably thinks I'm a bitch. Good! It's fucking disrespectful. Just met me 2 seconds ago and wanna call me "sweety". Bitch, fuck you. You better address me with some damn respect like the grown ass woman I am. Betta recognize who you talkin to.
simone87
08-11-2013, 07:53 PM
^ yes, i have ALWAYS had men say this to me, my whole life. "smile, beautiful!" " oooh look she's actually smiling!". it's simply something they do because they think its cute and flirty and have no idea how annoying it is. i don't need to smile and look happy for you, that's not my mission in life. i was just talking about that with my friend last night!! there's a shirt i want to get that says "don't tell me to fucking smile". just a little preemptive gesture. :)
Selina M
08-11-2013, 09:37 PM
The following is "stupid shit that men do" because I can't figure out why they do it.
It's kinda strange, but I feel weird and get annoyed with guys who want to talk to me when A) I'm not at work B) they know I have a long-term boyfriend
I noticed it first with some oil change tech; he knew it was my bf's car, yet he basically held my card hostage at checkout, trying to chat with me about where I worked and if I went to clubs and shit. Soooo weird. Now there's this guy at the stable who will literally cross the property to talk to me, is now offering to turn my horse out, and gave me his number today "in case I ever want to talk". He's always inviting me and bf to barbeques too. This stuff supremely weirds me out.
I am thinking it's cause I have never had a guy try to make friends with me with no intention of trying to date me. Literally all of my male friends had crushes on me at some point, or had a fling with me. I'm also kinda set in my "ways" - my friends are 90% people I met in high school or earlier, because I know they're not backstabbers, and we all know pretty much everything about each other. New people trying to worm their way in freaks me out, especially when it's guys.
Anyone else relate or am I just a weirdo?
^^Yes, me too, guys always have some sort of agenda with me always. They never just want a friendship they just want to get in your pants and pretend there all nice and only want a friendship with you but really I feel they are all just waiting on their chance to get with you, they will wait for a window of opportunity and then take it when they feel its there, ugh. Also, I feel anyone new trying to worm their way into your life can be creapy cause its kinda like why, I feel there must be an agenda. I just dont trust ppl like at all.
Selina M
08-11-2013, 10:45 PM
Yes! That was how I felt. Like, "Ohhh you have a bf NOW but just wait..." like they are biding their time. Some of my guy friends now will get super interested whenever I have an argument with bf; it's so obvious they are all hoping to swoop in.
Yeah, I have made like... 3 friends in college, all girls. 2 of them ditched me for no apparent reason and are exhibit A as to why I don't bother making new friends. I meet enough interesting people at work, I don't need new friends, and I'm pretty content to be around animals instead of people anyway.
justanothercamgirl
08-11-2013, 11:39 PM
I don't get why as soon as I become 'friends' with a guy that they always think this now means that they have carte blache to comment on the size on my tits or make sexual comments to me. Just because we have hung around each other enough to get familiar with each others existance doesn't mean you get to fucking comment whatever you want on the parts of my body. You don't seem me commenting about how SMALL your fucking dick looks in those pants.
Or my guys who are supposed to be my 'friends' and then try to talk dirty to me because of my job. I had a guy friend try that shit the other day and when I pointed out to him that it is like trying to get a chef to talk about food after a long day at work he says to me, "I thought you'd be able to roll with it like you do at work." I told him if he wanted me to roll with it like I do at work, then I could start charging him per minute.
cherryblossomsinspring
08-12-2013, 02:51 AM
I have news for you! I thought the same thing but the guys in the late thirties and forties are the worst. What a disappointment to find out they don't get better..
Actually what's strange is that this has been my experience as well. I don't date now but I remember any guy that was pushing 40 or 40+ was always over the top when desperately trying to get laid. My physical elbow-in-the-throat comment was dealing with them. Then when I went out with a guy that was 33 it was smooth sailing. I was like yah finally someone that isn't trying to create a "fuck me" moment on date 1. Even talking to them by phone before a first date was horrible. They always without a doubt bring up their dick in conversations. It's either how many people they fucked, who they fucked last, even stories about their best sex highlights reel. It's like wait what? It's as if they completely mentally go off the rails as to not even be concered with how they appear to the woman they are talking to. They almost talk to women as if they're men with the exact same mental switch. So " let me talk about how many people I have fucked and she'll want to be next in line. Lol Do they realize that this has the opposite result on any woman with self esteem? This isn't about shaming them with their sex habits, it's more of T THE FUCK M I!! I don't need to hear any of that in a first or third conversation.
If that doesn't work then they go into this "ooh you don't like sex?" or " ooh you need more sex" blah blah.
I even had some guy say well you don't fuck alot so you must not like men. I told him I have no intentions of faking orgams to appease some guy's ego trip. That tends to shut conversation down:)
I think 35 years of age is my cut off if I decide to date again. My dating pool options are shrinking every year and I don't even date now.
^ugh, all of this! I hate guys that talk like this, I take this personally, like they think I am dumb enough to actually fall for it and I get offended. I would be alot less offended if they buy me cool presents then I can allow for creapyness a bit more but to think my self esteem is so low that telling me these things will some how make me wanna give it to u is just freakin insulting, I am not ugly either and I run into this all too often, its so annoying.
MyButter
08-12-2013, 05:41 PM
I went to the beach with my family yesterday, and some middle-aged guy wandered over and after some friendly conversation proceeded to try to harass me into going on a date with him INFRONT of my brother and my parents. He seriously didn't want to take no as an answer-going so far as to try to bribe me into a date through promises of financial compensation.
If i was dressed promiscuously, or otherwise looked "sexy" maybe i could understand. But dude, I was wearing an ankle legnth terry cloth robe and I haven't shaved in over a week. I clearly was not 'looking for attention' ya know?
I s'pose I found the whole thing a little upsetting because it made me feel like I was at work.
Kellydancer
08-12-2013, 08:38 PM
Older men truly are the worst. You have the men my age harassing women in their 20's and early 30's (because to these losers I am too old)while the men old enough to be my father often harass me (and likely younger women too). I'll never get why some men seem to think much younger women would want them, especially since most of these men are fat, ugly and poor. I had some guy older than my dad harass me into going on a date because according to him older men are better in bed. Sure, gramps you are probably better at oral sex because you remove your dentures beforehand. However I'd be afraid you would have a heart attack.
Of course I have often talked about my horrible online dating experiences where men my age bypassed me because I was too old for them. Yeah, too old for their saggy balls and balding hairline. Meanwhile these same losers sit for years on dating sites complaining they can't find anyone.
MommieLongLegs
08-13-2013, 12:37 PM
Older men truly are the worst. You have the men my age harassing women in their 20's and early 30's (because to these losers I am too old)while the men old enough to be my father often harass me (and likely younger women too). I'll never get why some men seem to think much younger women would want them, especially since most of these men are fat, ugly and poor. I had some guy older than my dad harass me into going on a date because according to him older men are better in bed. Sure, gramps you are probably better at oral sex because you remove your dentures beforehand. However I'd be afraid you would have a heart attack.
Of course I have often talked about my horrible online dating experiences where men my age bypassed me because I was too old for them. Yeah, too old for their saggy balls and balding hairline. Meanwhile these same losers sit for years on dating sites complaining they can't find anyone.
Those men are losers, and they know they're losers. They go after younger women because they want someone they think is naive or will take their shit, or they feel having a younger woman means they still "got it". Bottom line, these men are either looking for "easy" booty calls, sugar babies or will die alone because they'll never grow up.
I say change the game and try to date a younger man. I mean, what do you have to lose? We've already established that older doesn't mean more mature. If he's a jerk at 20, he's probably still gonna be a jerk at 30, 40 and 50. Either he was raised right or he wasn't. It's all about the character. I'd also suggest giving the online dating a rest, and just breathe. Otherwise, you might drive yourself crazy. I can only imagine those guys treat dating sites like cam sites.
Edit: O and just for shits n giggles, this is the kind of guy I wanna find; laid back, cool and funny:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nXP5H444Rps
That's my fave rapper. Don't know if you like rap, but here's one of his songs(I'm always sharing music lol) . It's short but it'll do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxQJKwhuIkA
Kellydancer
08-14-2013, 08:04 PM
Those men are losers, and they know they're losers. They go after younger women because they want someone they think is naive or will take their shit, or they feel having a younger woman means they still "got it". Bottom line, these men are either looking for "easy" booty calls, sugar babies or will die alone because they'll never grow up.
I say change the game and try to date a younger man. I mean, what do you have to lose? We've already established that older doesn't mean more mature. If he's a jerk at 20, he's probably still gonna be a jerk at 30, 40 and 50. Either he was raised right or he wasn't. It's all about the character. I'd also suggest giving the online dating a rest, and just breathe. Otherwise, you might drive yourself crazy. I can only imagine those guys treat dating sites like cam sites.
Edit: O and just for shits n giggles, this is the kind of guy I wanna find; laid back, cool and funny:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nXP5H444Rps
That's my fave rapper. Don't know if you like rap, but here's one of his songs(I'm always sharing music lol) . It's short but it'll do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxQJKwhuIkA
The ironic thing is when I reinstated my one free online profile I got a lot of messages from men around 30-38 or so. 30 seems young but 38 isn't that much younger so I may consider these guys. Apparently they are all never married and childless too. I met a 25 year old guy a few years ago who thought I was around his age and keeps asking me out (but he's not looking for anything serious). But yep, the guys seeking much younger are losers and most will either be alone or get taken advantage of, like my loser ex who is 45 and seeking 18-35. He is fat now and homely and doesn't make much so he won't get a woman 10 years younger unless she thinks she can use him. He has been used by women he met online and men like him don't learn so I hope he gets it again.
Aurora_Sunset
08-17-2013, 12:39 PM
Ok, one more re-visit to the "smile" topic. I just recently slept with a guy who kept saying "you have such a serious look on your face" "don't smile or anything." WHAT? :O I mean, I understand having fun during sex and teasing and smiling a little bit during those moments, but in general, who the fuck just plasters a grin on throughout sex? What the hell kind of expression am I supposed to have on my face? Sorry mah O-face doesn't meet your standards??