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carmen_b
09-12-2015, 01:43 PM
I might troll some hotel bars today for massage customers. I'm feeling really impatient to close my goal . I'll report back.

Amira702
09-12-2015, 11:02 PM
Made good money yesterday after having only 100 for hours. Got my period today and I'm laying on my couch with chocolates and a book.

carmen_b
09-13-2015, 05:08 AM
I forgot about my own hotel bar trolling suggestions and ran online ads.
$46 over daily average goal today. Two more days of working the gross / touristy area bleh.
It's hard to balance body rub and day job but I'm going for Maximum impact lately with minimum time. I bundle everything for day job and work from a coffee shop near the tourist hotels . It's only " half focused " work since I'm paying attention to the massage phone but it's working for now. If I have wifi and some level of feeling productive ( moving day job sales forward ) it takes the edge off from waiting in between sessions.
Two days to go until I think I'll have the $ goal I came back for.

Selina M
09-13-2015, 10:02 AM
Booshit, booshit, booshit.

The most entertaining part was watching a group of obnoxious women get tossed. One had already pouted when I refused to take $1 out of her mouth with my mouth (EWW), and when I told her she was pretty and should be dancing, she said "I know!" Oh, honey. You're 100 lbs overweight... I was just trying to be nice... ::)

They were dancing around the stage; bouncer told them 3 times to quit; they ignored him and apparently he made a comment about "It's like the damn Jack Links commercial up in here" and all hell broke loose. They threw them all out, and one kept trying to run back in and fight him, yelling that "He called me sasquatch!" I couldn't leave for 15 mins bc these morons were still in the parking lot.

SuperJa
09-13-2015, 02:03 PM
Last night we experienced the rainpocalypse, so it was pretty empty most of the night.

It started off with a customer that basically none of the girls will even acknowledge because he shows up with his greasy ponytail, reeking of body odor, cigarettes, and alcoholism, on top of being a terrible person who tries to haggle for cheap dances and kiss you. Ew yuck no. The last time he came in there was a group at the bar I was talking with and one of them asked him how the girls were here and he looks at me, "well, SOME of them are nice" and I had to go back in the DR and tell everyone and we all died laughing. Listen, if you can't get any of the girls at a club to talk to you even when it's empty, it is very likely that you are the problem and might want to consider changing something, like idk showering?

Anyways I did pull out a bunch of singles and then one of the kids I did one for came back later with more money and bought 15 minutes (which isn't supposed to be a vip) but since he was the best customer of the night I was like "SURPRISE VIP UPGRADE!" cause the vip room girl will let me do that and he tipped me decently after as well.

I'm not sure wtf is wrong with the other girls because I don't feel like I tip the vip girl a lot, but apparently it's substantially more than the other girls, because she'll always give me the dance totals at the end of the night, which isn't a huge deal but it's nice info to have so I can tell if it's just the night or if I need to change something. There were 28 dances in total and I did 16 of them so I can't feel too badly, and my tips were alright so I wasn't totally mad about what I left with.

littlelizard
09-14-2015, 01:47 AM
Ugh worst shift I've had in months. Made $170 within the first hour and then nothing for 3 hours! Literally nothing! I ended up leaving early because I was dying of boredom. I probably would have made more money if I stayed until 2 a.m., but I couldn't tolerate the club any longer. I come home and sign up for streamate bc I'm sick of stripping. Afterwards, I go to the ATM to deposit my money and buy some backwoods. I realize I forgot my id, so I go back home. I head to my liquor store and it's fucking closed! My only option is 7/11 so I go over there and fuck they don't have sparkling water or xxx hot cheetos. So I'm just like fuck my life: I made shit money, I have to settle for zigzags, and I get no sparking water and xxx hot cheetos :( :( :(

littlefox
09-14-2015, 09:38 AM
I had a really good weekend. Made enough to cover my outgoings for the month and didn't have any gross or rude customers. Plus one guy booked me in vip just to talk right at the end of my shift on Friday!
The girls in my club keep putting candle wax on the pole though, and after a few people have been on it gets really smooth and slippy. Does anyone else do this? Surely wax defeats the point?
Oh also, I didn't fall over! Think I've finally broken the curse of the bambi legs! Plus a new girl was really sweet to me and gave me her spare tampon when mine started leaking. Really loving my job right now!

kirakonstantin
09-18-2015, 12:31 AM
My usual Thursday customer was having such a good time that he kept me in the cabana for three hours. Hourly rate... $450. I cleaned the club out of cash.

Good thing because I'm supposedly closing on my house tomorrow. Supposedly.

MetalRoses
09-18-2015, 01:41 PM
Ugh worst shift I've had in months. Made $170 within the first hour and then nothing for 3 hours! Literally nothing! I ended up leaving early because I was dying of boredom. I probably would have made more money if I stayed until 2 a.m., but I couldn't tolerate the club any longer. I come home and sign up for streamate bc I'm sick of stripping. Afterwards, I go to the ATM to deposit my money and buy some backwoods. I realize I forgot my id, so I go back home. I head to my liquor store and it's fucking closed! My only option is 7/11 so I go over there and fuck they don't have sparkling water or xxx hot cheetos. So I'm just like fuck my life: I made shit money, I have to settle for zigzags, and I get no sparking water and xxx hot cheetos :( :( :(

kind of sounds like my shift last night. A bunch of young douche African guys who wouldn't tip any $ at all on stage, but I got like 3 dances that went straight to the house and a half hour vip that I had to spend on my hotel room. I need 350 for my apartment deposit and 400 for my storage so I feel like I'm fucked pretty much. I just started day shift but kept getting turned down so far but I'm trying to stay positive with no sleep.

SuperJa
09-18-2015, 03:07 PM
Yesterday was pretty quiet but managed to have a good night anyways. Actually had a decent number of guys in the door for a weeknight, but none of them stayed around for very long, which is totally fine imo.

Got to spend some time helping out a newbie that I actually like. She wanted advice on working with groups and a few other things, and I'm always down for helping a girl out that actually takes my advice seriously. Wednesday night I hustled stage shows for myself, her, and another girl out of a guy, and she was asking how that worked- since the club pays us for shows, they don't make girls do stage unless they have enough guys in the club to justify it. So on nights when there's only a couple guys in and they really want to see a show, I'll just explain that they can pay to put a girl on stage, and I ask for more than the club pays. So the guys are happy cause they get a show, the club is happy cause they don't have to pay a girl, and the girls are happy because they get more money than they normally would.

One of the regular girls hasn't showed up in days because she is apparently not very smart and is mad because new girl apparently "stole her hour package" which wasn't what happened at all. Basically on Tuesday this guy came in and I grabbed him right off the bat and went for 4, then angry girl literally camped him for an hour and a half, no joke, and then got 4 out of him. Then when they came back downstairs, she jumped on him again and sat there for 45 minutes before the manager was like, "this is fucking ridiculous" and went over and told them they either needed to go for dances or she had to move on, with him being our only customer and there being four other girls working, and us having signed a contract that says if you haven't sold the guy in 20 minutes (which is more than reasonable i think) you have to move on. She made no mention at this point of having almost sold a package, and new girl talked to him next for a few minutes, they went for a half hour and he liked her a ton and bought another half hour.

Anyways, so wednesday night angry dancer doesn't show up but texts other manager about how "rude" it was that tuesday night manager pulled her away from a customer, which he of course forwarded to tuesday night manager, and she's basically just fucked herself over. We're a small club so we keep weeknight shifts to 5 girls, and between the 3 girls that always work and the two new girls that want to be full time, this dancer suddenly doesn't get to work weekdays cause guess what, she didn't show up last night when we did the schedule. She would have had priority over the newbies if she had bothered to show up and didn't try to pull that drama.

Anyways, rant over and hoping for a good weekend. Buying a newer car on Sunday and I'm sitting on the cash, but I'd like to have more large bills for the seller if possible. Stripper problems.

wednesday86
09-18-2015, 03:24 PM
Last night was awesome! I actually had fun. First I got to tell off this old regular who isn't consistent but always grabs my ass when I talk to him. It felt so good to shut that down, make him pay and ignore him all night. I love firing regulars almost as much as I love their $ (I think something might be psychologically wrong with me.)
Then a girl in the back read my tarot cards. They were spot on accurate and really helped soothe some things I've been worrying about lately...I bled all over this guy's lap in VIP which I've always been terrified of, but when it actually happened I had to hold back laughing. He must not have been that offended by it because he begged me to come back over to him after I took care of myself and bought MORE dances (?!?)
Did a couple more dances and another VIP. Walked out with the best $$ I've made in 2 weeks. I hope this weekend continues to be fruitful.

Selina M
09-18-2015, 07:37 PM
I went to my old club for dayshift on a whim, and did REALLY good. I left after 4 hours, I had made enough $$ and then some. It was mostly luck of 2 really long VIP sessions though, but it was nice to be in a place where I didn't feel staff eyes on me all the time.

Oh, but apparently one of the doormen got shot and killed... so that was kind of a downer. He was such a nice guy.

TiffTiff
09-18-2015, 08:18 PM
My last shift was the worst of my life. I worked 12-7, then we had a memorial for Vayda Kiss. The whole day was somber and sad. It gt 1000 times worse when old dancers and dj's started pouring in at 8pm and the tears started flowing. I had not been in the club since 9/10, the day before Vayda killed herself. After Saturday, I don't feel like I want to go back. I have no desire to work, to make money, to drink or enjoy my time at the club. When I go upstairs I get a knot in my stomach because you could always her her laughter as soon as you entered the hallway, before you even went up the stairs.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/253813961458769/

kirakonstantin
09-18-2015, 10:55 PM
^^^Fuck, I am so sorry you're going through this. It's incredibly difficult to lose someone you're close to.

When we lost my dad... the whole house seemed wrong in so many ways, because he wasn't there. It's still not right, but we've gotten used to it and we've grown around the enormous hole in our lives. While we still notice it, we've gotten used to it.

I wish I could say that you'll get over it and the pain will go away, but I'd be lying. I can tell you that you'll make peace with it, that remembering her laughter will eventually bring back good memories and that you'll grow around the pain.

Until then, being gentle with yourself and allowing yourself to grieve and heal, on your own terms, at your own pace is the best thing you can do for yourself. If a new club would help, find a new club. If you're just too sad to work, take some time off, if you can. Taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do right now.

PM's are open to you, should you need someone to talk to.

mm621
09-19-2015, 03:06 AM
Holy shit. Words cannot express how lucky I got tonight.

Here's a back story. This morning, I was having a breakdown/freak out that I haven't yet gotten my paycheck at my "day job" (quoted because I still have yet to be paid). Since I was promised to start getting paid this week, I was fine about not going to the club much this week. Well, unfortunately, no paycheck and now I need to spend $700-$1000 on car maintenance. So I was freaking out because I was in that position of, 'hmmm. risk getting evicted and not pay my rent, or risk my brakes failing on me randomly while I'm driving…." Well, before going in the club, I took a leap of faith that somehow it will all work out at the the end of the month, and scheduled my car maintenance.

So I go in the club, and literally from 9pm - 1am, I spend it with ONE GUY who spend $1,060 on me. HOLY SHIT. I've made $1000 on like, 2 nights of my entire stripping career. I was going to leave at 1, but I had to be on stage. As soon as I got off stage, I made about $400 off of a group of Indian men. WHAT?! I left with about $1350, which also happens to be my best night EVER. Somebody was seriously watching over me tonight, I swear. I am no longer stressed out about affording my car maintenance on top of rent (and other bills due at the end of the month), and I can work relatively stress free during the last week of September. Phew!!! I will never take this night granted, though. A night like this does not come often (okay, ever lol) and I am so grateful that it did during this time in my life. Now, it's time for a glass of wine and bed. LOL

Prettyglitter
09-19-2015, 06:17 AM
I am so tired of stripping!!!!! I'm tired of small talk and people asking for my number. It's exhausting. Like I just want to blow my club up! And I am the worst sales person in the world. Like I really suck. I'm just a badstripper honestly because I like making people gadfly bUT I need to be all about the money. I don't know how to do that. I hope it will come. Also, the only thing I hate worse than stripping is stripping for celebrities and rAppers. They are so damn tight fisted with their money. All their stupid flashy chains but can't buy dances or compensate for my time. Gtfo. Like I seriously need a break I'm ducking sick of stripping. I'm sick of entertaining men!!!! I'm starting to Hate them. I was never made to be a scheduled stripper

SuperJa
09-19-2015, 02:19 PM
Night started off well because I went through my stripper closet and pulled a bunch of outfits I wanted to sell and since we have so many newbies right now I basically got rid of all of them in the 30 mins before we opened.

Was one of those nights where it didn't seem good but it didn't seem that bad either, trucked through and kept selling a few dances at a time, and got home and counted and was confused as to how I had made that much money. Girls at my club can be so bad for being like, "UGH all these guys are cheap" when they don't buy packages, and I'm like, if you do 2 songs for 25 guys you've done 50 dances. The only club I can't deal with is an empty one. Obviously I'd rather get bought out if possible, but work with what you've got, right?

Helped new girl close a sale with two guys right at the end of the night- she was dealing with that classic "why should I take you for a dance" question and struggling- I always just turn it around and just pop a hip and be like "uh, why would you NOT take me for dances? You know you'd be missing out on the best thing to happen to you tonight" and we got six with them and a decent tip. After alcohol sales finish, dance prices go up so late dances add up fast, which is great.

If tonight is at least as good as last night I will be a very happy camper.

wednesday86
09-19-2015, 03:27 PM
I barely made $200 last night..the crowd was just NOT spending on anyone, but I still had fun dancing with my stripper buddies out on the floor...and bullying guys for shots together and acting crazy. We kinda just treated it as a girls' night out since the customers were on some bullshit. ;)

Trena
09-19-2015, 10:38 PM
Last night was absolute SHIT and I feel like SHIT. I made $82 fucking dollars on a FRIDAY NIGHT. That's how dead it was. Wtf????

Selina M
09-19-2015, 11:53 PM
^ Girl I just walked out with $21 and I am a mega hustler most of the time...

I had been planning to stay until 1am and catch up on last week, but fuck. I sold 2 dances between 6 and 11. The club appeared to be starting to get busier when I left, but I couldn't anymore. I was starting to fight off panic attacks and have equilibrium issues (something's wrong with my left inner ear).

At least the manager didn't charge me house. I think that's what he was implying. I started to rattle off that I'd tipped out the DJ and blah blah and he just went "We'll catch you next time" *shrug*

Positives: My phone charger that I forgot on Tuesday was right where I left it. I was pleasantly surprised. Strippers usually steal everything not nailed down. Guess it's probably bc it's for an iPhone 4, hahaha. Oh, and I put my $21 into my gas tank and almost got it full; gas is $1.99 out there :D

catlover0106
09-20-2015, 01:12 AM
Extremely irritating. I did make around 600 bucks, which yeah is not bad, but I usually average around a grand at least for saturday night because I work super long shifts at a high end club and hustle my ass off. The money wasn't what upset me, I'm glad I made something, just the people were so terrible. I came in extra early and hustled like crazy, I got burnt out quick though because every single guy I put effort into talking up who thought I was so beautiful and awesome would say later without fail. I had 3 different guys agree to lap dances only for me to walk all the way upstairs to the lap dance area with them for them to change their mind. One of them we got back there he said we had to wait til the next song even though the song had just started, but trying to be polite I said "ok." A few minutes later the next one finally starts I start the dance for around 30 seconds til he says "no you no what I can't do this sorry" and walks out without giving me a single dollar. Finally got one guy to do a dance who only gave me half of what the dance price was and put up a big stink when I asked him to pay the rest, finally when I threatened to get the manager he was like "you don't deserve it but I'll give you the rest because I don't want to deal with your drama." Finally got a few dances with one of the "later" guys at the very end of the night, of course at the end he asked me if I would come back to his hotel room. I'm just happy the night was over. I don't know how much more I can put up with these guys though...

kleptomaniac
09-21-2015, 03:15 AM
Danced for annoying Indian who first tried to bargain with me. He ended up loving me and wasn't too bad except for his breath. After VIP he got a 30 min room, and wanted more but his cards all declined. BOO. Then he got another 2 songs and didn't tip for any of it.

Then danced for some young kids who loved my butt.

Then danced for possibly the sexiest man ever. He was a Spanish guy with a group of his friends, going back to Madrid in two days. UGH I WANTED TO BANG HIM.

Last, there was an annoying man and brought his wife in on it too. They paid for VIPs in ones :O

wednesday86
09-21-2015, 08:05 AM
Did shots and 4 songs with cute guy whose gf just dumped him. It was one of those times I really felt like I was doing something meaningful as a stripper. He thanked me for making him feel better and putting a smile on his face. aww! <3
Two VIPs with this guy who refused to let me dance for him. Every time I tried to dance he would spazz out saying it turned him on too much, and asked me to just sit there and talk...lol ok dude. Had a customer accidentally smack me in the mouth with his shoulder when he stood up really fast after our dance. Gave me a fat lip for a few hours. It was kind of funny though. Bitched out two guys until they left because they sat there for 3 hours, didn't spend a dollar and hurt my friend's feelings. Overall a fun night :)

tempest666
09-22-2015, 01:26 AM
Severely intoxicated patron : " I want to have your babies! "

MetalRoses
09-23-2015, 03:48 AM
Came in to work about 9:30. Made a little over 300 on a dead night with a lot of girls including some new ones who came from other clubs. I even met a very well-known Former Sonics player who told reporters about all the high end business real estate like retail, dining and clubs which he owns. I had a feeling he was a former pro ball player especially when he told me his first name, then eventually told me his last name as well. Very cool night!

MetalRoses
09-23-2015, 03:50 AM
Ugh I hate my autocorrect...,

Selina M
09-25-2015, 10:06 PM
Yay regulars making me easy day shift money, being respectful while at it! And leaving after the dances are done, not hanging out expecting more attention! :D

Boo cheapskates who wanna tell me about how they got kicked out of a club by a girl who ripped them off... while they were trying to buy sex... and guys who stink... and guys who say things like "What's the most you've ever made? WOW how many times did you have sex for that? What do you mean you're not friends with the girls? I bet you just don't know their names."

(Quite the winning crowd on day shift lunches)

Aurora14
09-25-2015, 11:36 PM
Motivated to get some quick emergency money since things are a bit topsy turvy at home right now. I've Already worked twice this week. Wednesday was decent. Could not complain about what I made since there were only 10 customers. Thursday blew, nothing but young kids and a guy that wanted to have me go to his hotel. I'm hoping for luck tomorrow. I'm motivated to work, so I'm trying to take advantage of it before I decide to take another vacation from the club.

mm621
09-28-2015, 08:15 AM
Last night: dead dead dead. I pulled into the parking lot and it only had about 10 cars in it. Lol I thought, "oh, what the hell? I've already made it this far..." I still made money... But as soon as I made about my average/lowest I'm happy with making, I bounced. Lol so overall, I'm glad I went in. I left around 1 am, but I don't regret not staying until 2. unless I got really lucky, the earnings potential wasn't that great. So this is probably why I stopped coming in on Sunday's. Lol

Thursday night: everybody was complaining about how shitty it was, and how slow it was, but I still ended up making above my typical average... Which is weird because Thursday's are typically not my high income days. Lol still can't complain, though!

22lligm
09-29-2015, 12:04 PM
I found out at work two girls who I worked dayshifts with were in a really bad accident the other day after work. They were both drunk I guess and it was the driver's 4th DUI so she's going to jail for at least two years. She has 3 kids and one is really young :( The other girl was messed up really badly and may not be able to walk for a long time so she definitely won't be able to go back to work. I feel so so bad for them. I hate learning about bad things happening to girls I work with.

cleopatra216
09-29-2015, 11:53 PM
I drank way too much! I'm almost humiliated to go back anyone else been there? I was doing good and not drinking too much but lately I can't seem to get in under control. I've got to get myself back on track. I think I need a change of scenery I'm ready to travel to another city and dance this winter!! My club is so small and its so hard to make money with just doing dances but I get so tired of going back to the private rooms it makes me want to drink more. Its so depressing. Hope I can cut back on the booze soon.

mm621
09-30-2015, 01:48 AM
Well. I guess not every night can be a good night. Probably won't be leaving with any more than $250 after tipout and whatnot. Blahhhhhh. But. Too many girls. Not enough guys. That's okay, I guess. My bills are paid, I'll have some money I'll be able to save, so tonight was just an extra end of the month shift for me.

It's funny. I really wanted to come in last night, but decided against it. I was iffy on coming in tonight, but decided to anyway. Lol I don't know how last night was, but maybe I should listen to my gut feeling next time! Lol

Correction: sometimes I hate being the last girl on stage. But I guess it pays off! Some guy just tipped me a $20 and another guy tipped a $5! Lol I love when that happens! Still didn't make my minimum, but that just made me really happy. LOL

mma
09-30-2015, 07:47 AM
After several nights in a row of crappy money, last night I finally made what I'm used to making in the fall. WHEW. Lots of money came walking through the door...I heard over the walkie in the dressing room that one VIP group asked for $5,000 in ones...there were only 12 girls working (which is unheard of at my club), so EVERYONE had a good night. If only every night we could be pelted with stacks of $100s on stage...LOL.

22lligm
09-30-2015, 12:09 PM
I drank way too much! I'm almost humiliated to go back anyone else been there? I was doing good and not drinking too much but lately I can't seem to get in under control. I've got to get myself back on track. I think I need a change of scenery I'm ready to travel to another city and dance this winter!! My club is so small and its so hard to make money with just doing dances but I get so tired of going back to the private rooms it makes me want to drink more. Its so depressing. Hope I can cut back on the booze soon.

Try working at another club and just force yourself to work one shift dead sober. It'll be hard and awkward at first but when you make money you'll realize you don't need to drink to make money. Then you can ease back into drinking unless it gets out of hand again. This has happened to me and I feel like sometimes it's just the club itself that makes you want to not be sober. I recently switched to dayshifts because nightshifts at my home club have turned into that. Definitely try another club tho for a change of scenery that should help a little bit.

crystalize
09-30-2015, 05:36 PM
I am so tired of stripping!!!!! I'm tired of small talk and people asking for my number. It's exhausting. Like I just want to blow my club up! And I am the worst sales person in the world. Like I really suck. I'm just a badstripper honestly because I like making people gadfly bUT I need to be all about the money. I don't know how to do that. I hope it will come. Also, the only thing I hate worse than stripping is stripping for celebrities and rAppers. They are so damn tight fisted with their money. All their stupid flashy chains but can't buy dances or compensate for my time. Gtfo. Like I seriously need a break I'm ducking sick of stripping. I'm sick of entertaining men!!!! I'm starting to Hate them. I was never made to be a scheduled stripper

I've been burned out lately too, but only cause the money is bad. I think if we always had nice customers that shower us in 100s nobody would get burned out (wishful thinking!)

My last shift I left with -20 and told myself that I won't go back to a club where I have to deal with broke losers.

mm621
10-03-2015, 09:38 AM
Good night! Though some weird things happened. A guy took me to VIP, but then got butt hurt because I didn't remember dancing for him before. I could have sworn I never danced for him, and that he must have me mistaken for another girl… but I apologized anyway and told him that since we're already back there, we might as well get the dance. Don't remember what else was said, but he was just like, "I'm sorry. I'm picky." I was just like, "okay, what's that supposed to mean?" and he just exclaimed that he's rich and walked away. Okay, dude! It really pissed me off, especially since that was at the very start of my shift!

Ended up being good after that - no asshole customers. But then one of my very last customers of the night asked if I wouldn't make out with him "because he's negro." I'm like, "no. I just don't make out with strangers…." then he got really depressed because apparently, he missed his wife and I reminded him of her. He seemed genuinely sad, but I didn't ask questions.

SuperJa
10-03-2015, 11:11 AM
A guy took me to VIP, but then got butt hurt because I didn't remember dancing for him before.

I've dodged this one by explaining it as, 'oh _____, I meet so many people in this job that I only remember the ones I have red flagged in my mind to avoid. If I don't remember you it's a good thing" or something along the lines of that. It usually gets a laugh or "well I'm surprised you didn't red flag me" or something like that.

I seriously can't be bothered to remember like 95% of people so I'd rather just explain it away later than actively try to remember people.

SuperJa
10-03-2015, 11:18 AM
Last night was pretty quiet, weather was garbage so I assume most people were hibernating.

Did half hour vip + a couple songs for this guy that always claims he has no money but then as he drinks keeps pulling cash out of the atm. I got him when he was only drunk and talky, he degenerates rapidly into drunk and grabby as the night goes on so if I don't grab him within his first hour of being there I pretty much ignore him.

We had a table of two that came in early and took forever to do anything, one of the guys finally went for dances so I went over to chat up his buddy again and buddy was like, "I'm not really interested in dances tonight but I'd love to see you on stage again" and I was like, "Why, so you can not tip me again?" and he left like 2 mins after that and everybody else was like, "WHOA SAVAGE" when I told them but i'm like, if you can sit there all night and drink and not get dances you can at least throw some money on stage, like, come on.

Then his buddy came back from dances, I explained he had left and we did a half hour.

Selina M
10-03-2015, 11:50 AM
Dude, what is going ON, is the universe telling me to quit dancing or something? How is it this bad on a Friday night?

I waited around all day to get my stupid license, figured I'd go straight to the club at 5 and get a jump on the night... nope. It was absolutely stupid all night. At 10 there were 3 customers and the bar was just a line of strippers, all turned around to the floor watching for new ones. A few more trickled in but all except for 2 trios were time wasters; I had my time wasted by them and then so did every other girl that approached.
And then on the way out I got a lecture from the bouncer about that it was OUR fault the club was like that because we depend on it to bring us customers. Um, yeah, that's it's job. If I wanted to go find my own customers, I'd be an escort.

wednesday86
10-03-2015, 12:04 PM
^last night was dead for us too, which sucked cause we had an awesome 80's party and I dressed up in leg warmers and glowy outfit and I'm sorry, but I looked cute as hell. I stayed for 11 hours and only did one VIP and a handful of dances, drank way too much because reasons. I was going to stay til close but a customer BIT ME really hard during $1 dances. I slapped the shit out of him and had the bouncer throw him out.

whirlerz
10-03-2015, 01:20 PM
OMG! Please keep that area clean w/alcohol & put tea tree oil or something on it, take some extra vitamin C? Wtf's wrong w/ppl?

NicoRico
10-03-2015, 10:27 PM
My club was bad too! Just danced for a reg in VIP who saved the shift.

SuperJa
10-05-2015, 04:45 AM
Ugh I want to run a class on how to properly use moisturizer srs

We have a greasy bitch and when I find out who it is it's not going to be a good time.

The point of moisturizer is to be absorbed by your skin so your skin is nice and soft, not to lube you up like some sort of human dildo. And honestly if you are a normal human you probably won't need it if you're eating enough good fat. Load up on avocado and coconut oil for a week and then see how your skin is. If you happen to just have super dry skin then use it properly and within reason and not minutes before work phuck sakes

/rant

mm621
10-05-2015, 08:19 AM
I can't say that it was a bad night money wise... Made more than I thought I would and broke my average... But I literally HAD to leave at one. I just couldn't take it anymore. If dudes weren't trying to touch my crotch, they were trying to pinch and play with my nipples. If they were t doing that they were trying to make out. I did not have the patience to play dodge the hands and mouth last night. I was literally about to scream and I was just like, "fuck this. The $10 savings in house (if I would have stayed until 2) is NOT worth it."

Prettyglitter
10-05-2015, 02:13 PM
Things have gotten better for me! Do I want to strip, nope! But now I'm changing my approach. I think I needed to let enough people walk over me to realize if I didn't stand up for myself and stop trying to people please by crossing my own boundaries, my mental state was going to continue to deteriorate. Now I'm all about the money. If you're not spending it in two songs, I'm gone. Oh you want my number? Nope. Oh you want to meet up? Nope. It feels so liberating to walk off from people who are time wasters and perverts! On a side note, I inderstand why girls do OTC. The money potential is huge, but not my thing at all! Last shift I made 760.

Legz541
10-06-2015, 04:26 AM
Been a while since I've posted a positive reply to this thread.

Tonight was my first night at a new club. I was pissy before I even got there tho BC the hiring manager wouldn't even tell me audition times until I sent them a body pic. He got a faceless pic of me in a tight dress lol.

I got there and in all modesty was easily the best looking. Club was pretty dead but I made my weeknight high $ goal quite easily. Sweet deal:)

My only slight concern is that when I was talking to a guy I know from the club scene (strip and normal), he thinks I'll probably be susceptible to haters. I wouldn't give a shit in a bigger club but in small clubs those type of girls can get so damn annoying. Anyway...fuck bitches, get money!

Tonight was officially a success:)

Nina_
10-06-2015, 10:07 AM
Was awful. I haven't even counted my money yet and I don't want to. I know it can't be over $250ish. And the last 5 shifts prior to this I calculated and found my average to be $953. So I took a few nights off and come back to work for this bullshit night.


And to top it all off, a couple in their mid/late twenties came in and specifically requested me, then left without giving me the $60 (plus tip imo) they owed me. I'm not one to trip over that little of an amount but I very rarely get ripped off, so I was pissed but brushed it off. And the joke is really on them because when she got up to use the bathroom, he trash-talked her and flirted with me. When he got up to get drinks, she trash-talked him and said their relationship won't last much longer, so good for them ❤ Hahahaha.

Selina M
10-06-2015, 11:24 PM
That's IT, this club is ridiculously unpredictable and I cannot deal with it. This is the third shift I've made <$100. I cannot stand this hustle where girls sit for 45 mins to sell a $100 set. I'm so sick of spending 4 songs with a guy to hear "Well maybe in a bit" because they're used to the free attention.

Oh and the last, last straw was a guy was doing the "I have no money" bit and refusing to pay a girl I'm friendly with; she's young and burnt out already so she just let the $20 go; I was not having that horse shit and told the bouncers. They ended up convincing him to get $$ out of the ATM. She thanked me later for it and said they told her they only did anything bc she was the 3rd girl that night. EXCUSE ME? Oh hell no. You do not just allow scumbags to rip girls off! That irked me so bad. The guys at my home club have been known to choke guys unconscious over money owed or inappropriate touching. They don't let guys go until they've run every credit card in their wallet trying to get the girl her $$.

Seriously. I'm gonna go work either at my old club or the bullshit dive down the road tomorrow. I'd rather sell dances all day long and do a quick hustle than deal with this russian roulette.

Leather_Jacket
10-07-2015, 03:36 PM
Had the second to worst night in my 7 months of dancing thus far, barely made over $100. I had to pretty much play "good-girl" with the one customer in the club for over 30 minutes (which I barely ever allow myself to do); before playing up the "you-owe-me-all-the-money-you-withdrew-so-get-some-god-damn-dances" girl. I typically don't like to pull teeth that hard, but it worked and it seemed like he did have a good time. That was basically the only money I made. It really sucks due to all the surprise bills I've been handed, the fact that my car needs some work, and how I WAS planning on having a mini vacation at the end of the month. Ugh I have to send myself into work like crazy but these shitty nights make me so unmotivated.

charlie61
10-07-2015, 04:01 PM
The last time I worked (a couple of weeks ago), we had people in the club, but NO ONE was buying dances. I mean literally, NO ONE. Dances were not being sold by anyone. You know how nights seem to have themes? The theme of that night was groups of people who'd tip on stage but had no interest in buying dances. And there were so many girls working that I only went on stage like three times during my five-hour shift.

I sold my first dance a few hours into my shift, which is unheard of for me and for my experience with this club. At that point, I was like "a'ight, I'm gonna have my first sub-$100 shift ever!". I made peace with that. Figured it's good for the ol' dancing ego. I'd made maaaaybe $60 before 1:00 am. And yet literally an hour before close, I started selling (I sold a half-hour room and a few $40 dances), and somehow walked out with $450.

I just told myself that I'd keep trying until we closed, since that's the only thing that was within my control: to try. Even if I hadn't ended up making anything, at least I would've gone home feeling proud of myself. But staying and keeping my attitude fresh for each customer paid off!