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buttonpop
10-31-2015, 02:19 AM
One of my regulars bought me this dvd he though i would like. its about this guy with polio who has an iron lung, and his sex therapist. i have no idea why he thought i would like this movie?

then security had to taze this guy who wouldn't stop grabbing me on stage after I gave him 4 warnings and asked him to leave my stage. the tazer made this crazy noise and then he was sprawled out on the ground. i guess they'd given him several warnings throughout the night too, and he was refusing to leave the club. first time i've seen that happen, but it was nice that my security had my back.

on my way home it started raining very hard and flash flooding. i was a little freaked because there were several major accidents on the road already, and it was raining so hard i could barely see out my windshield. I had to swerve into another lane to narrowly avoid rear ending someone after they hit water and slammed on their breaks. then my phone died, but i tried to stay calm because even though i'm new in town i at least know my way home from the club (which is 30 minutes away from me.. long scary drive). i finally make it and my freeway exit is closed with zero warning. There's no other exits for several miles except for other freeways so when i finally get off the freeway i have no clue where i am. I think I'm northeast of my house so i start driving that direction (i was wrong). at this point, the streets are so flooded i can barely make it through them. my car stalled a couple times and im offically freaking out. finally after realizing i was going the wrong way i pull over and dig through my car, luckily find a phone charger and get directions. i made it back through the flooded streets somehow and when i got out of my car i was surprised to find water up to my calves. i was soaked within a second of opening my door.

tl;dr my first flash flood experience and i'm completely lost, alone at 3am with a dead phone.

whew.

SuperJa
11-01-2015, 11:07 AM
Club was dead but most girls knew to not bother showing up so at least weren't a ton of us hanging around.

Did get to see obliterated Marty McFly fall down the stairs twice tho which was priceless.

Aurora14
11-01-2015, 01:01 PM
I did awesome until midnight last night. Around midnight I had changed from my 'Parisian Showgirl' costume into my '5th Element Leeloo' costume. Leeloo was a conversation starter, but not money maker. I went to change and the dressing room was shut down and blocked off. Someone had left a hair iron on and burnt shit. So ya....

I also finally have regulars! There was one customer that came in because I tell his buddy to say Hi for me most night he comes in. My customer had gone to S American for a month and the other night I told the buddy that I didn't believe my guy was safe and home until he made it to the club. He came in last night :) I convinced him to start coming in on Wed and Thur, even if it is to have drinks and sit for an hour or two to have me look busy. I understand that he doesn't have tons of money, and I make more money on those days when I look like I'm 'taken', so win-win in my mind. Then I had another guy I met last week bring me in some brisket and was nice enough to wait around until I had gotten dances with all other available customers before getting dances with me.

The stripper gods were smiling on me last night.

Aurora14
11-01-2015, 01:04 PM
I did awesome until midnight last night. Around midnight I had changed from my 'Parisian Showgirl' costume into my '5th Element Leeloo' costume. Leeloo was a conversation starter, but not money maker. I went to change and the dressing room was shut down and blocked off. Someone had left a hair iron on and burnt shit. So ya....

I also finally have regulars! There was one customer that came in because I tell his buddy to say Hi for me most night he comes in. My customer had gone to S American for a month and the other night I told the buddy that I didn't believe my guy was safe and home until he made it to the club. He came in last night :) I convinced him to start coming in on Wed and Thur, even if it is to have drinks and sit for an hour or two to have me look busy. I understand that he doesn't have tons of money, and I make more money on those days when I look like I'm 'taken', so win-win in my mind. Then I had another guy I met last week bring me in some brisket and was nice enough to wait around until I had gotten dances with all other available customers before getting dances with me.

The stripper gods were smiling on me last night.

22lligm
11-01-2015, 03:41 PM
I worked at two clubs last night and the first one wasn't super busy but there were customers who like to get rooms that the managers pointed me towards so I had a good night there. Also not really sure how I should've tipped them but I gave them each 10% of what I made. I'm grateful one manager pointed me towards a guy because I totally judged one of the customers and assumed he wouldn't spend money because he was sitting off to the side alone drinking a beer. The second customer who got a room was from Italy and spoke in italian to me the whole time and it was SO HOT lol. I didn't know what he was saying but I sat there drinking champagne and loving it. Then the second club was so packed but I'm annoyed because I didn't know if you get there after 2 am you can't go on stage, and I definitely would've made double or more if I went on stage I think. But oh well I kind of just wanted to test out how tiring it would be to work at both clubs in a night and it really is exhausting but doable. Overall it was a good night and a good Halloween.. and I'm starting to really like living out here!

charlie61
11-01-2015, 03:51 PM
I thought Halloween would either be super dead (because people were going to parties instead of SCs) or super busy. But it was a surprisingly middle-of-the-road night. Lots of groups who just wanted to watch the stage / hang out and weren't looking for dances. Still did very well (due to my hustle, not because it was an easy-money night) and left happy.

mercyme
11-01-2015, 06:02 PM
Last night (Halloween) was rather slow, customer wise. Bar was never really full. But I was a fuckin Hustler. Being away a month, and working at a party club, has changed the way I interact. I didn't make a ton till just before midnight, but I knew I had a regular (my only) coming in at some point, so I stayed instead of going for fun. Then I found out that another guy missed me. I only remember talking to him a few times, but if he sees a relationship thats fine with me. Then bar reset, so I actually got time with the regular I had planned on. It was my best night, money wise, that I've had in this club.
And then I got a "talking" to. Because I caught more than a few handsy fuckers. And we're a no-touch club. And the manager on Sat doesn't enforce. So it's on us. I can't very well tell them outright to keep their hands off when theres another guy being much more handsy on the girl whos dancing for him without losing money. Whatever. Then I went and got laid. And woke up asininely early.

mm621
11-02-2015, 01:59 AM
LOL. I have no idea. So I had this gut wrenching feeling that I needed to come in tonight, regardless of the fact that I was bloated and felt fat. I go to the club, and see a semi-empty parking lot. Rather than driving away, I remembered last Thursday, when I ended up doing really well regardless of it being dead. Well, I got to the club at 8:30 (I'm getting better about coming in earlier! LOL), and I was sitting with enough to make house by 10:30. I told myself that if I go home with $100 after tip out, I was going to leave it at one and chalk it up to a bad night. Well, somehow, I ended up with about $100 more than my minimum amount I'm happy with!! WTF?! Lol maybe I make more money when I'm not so fixated on how much I need/want to make during my shift? It was the night after Halloween. It was a Sunday night. It was dead. I have no other explanation for this, but it doesn't matter--- I am happy and glad I came in tonight! :) it can make up for the shopping I did over the weekend. Lol

SuperJa
11-02-2015, 04:56 AM
Lol maybe I make more money when I'm not so fixated on how much I need/want to make during my shift?

I think this is true- lots of girls seem to mess up their hustle when they get too thirsty.

I always try to go in knowing I'll make money, and being relaxed about it. That way I don't miss out on landing a good customer by being all "omg i NEED to get money" out of some other guy.

mm621
11-02-2015, 12:02 PM
I think this is true- lots of girls seem to mess up their hustle when they get too thirsty.

I always try to go in knowing I'll make money, and being relaxed about it. That way I don't miss out on landing a good customer by being all "omg i NEED to get money" out of some other guy.

Makes sense. Lol thinking back on it now, this isn't the first time I was happily surprised about the amount I made after not really caring how much I made, as long as I made money. I used to be a lot better about having that attitude, but since this is the way I pay my bills now, it's been harder to maintain that mindset. :/ But whenever I go in with an exact amount I want/need to make, I find that I come out with LESS money, more often than not. Maybe guys can sense the desperation. Lol

charlie61
11-02-2015, 12:10 PM
I think this is true- lots of girls seem to mess up their hustle when they get too thirsty.

I always try to go in knowing I'll make money, and being relaxed about it. That way I don't miss out on landing a good customer by being all "omg i NEED to get money" out of some other guy.

Yeah, IMO this is one of the most important parts of dancing: staying ahead on your bills so that you can walk into work projecting a positive, non-desperate attitude. When you don't *need* the money, your entire hustle changes. You can even take more risks, which often lands you with more money and fewer burnout-related feelings. Even if you have to have a dinky part-time job to allow you the security to be able to dance with this attitude, it's worth it in so many ways.

mm621
11-05-2015, 08:29 AM
Ehh, money wise, average. Not great, but I won't complain about making my average. Lol I'm thinking I need to start coming in earlier, and work more hours. Lol I made the majority of my money last night from one guy. Normally, I don't spend too much time bullshitting with customers before they buy a dance, but I was bored and talked to him for like 5-6 songs. Wow. BUT, it paid off because he took me to VIP and bought 11 dances from me. Maybe I need to spend more time chit chatting... I became a "hey how are you? That's cool! *chatter for the rest of the first or second song* hey wanna dance?" Maybe some customers feel rushed by my approach.

The strap of my shoe completely broke halfway through my shift! I didn't feel like going to my car so I took off both bra straps, and used one to secure my foot into the shoe... It looked like the actual strap so I was pretty proud of my craftiness there. �� I love those shoes and I'm not ready to let them go, goddammit! Lol

Then I signed out without realizing how close it was until 2!! I was mad, because I could have had a cheaper house fee had I stayed like, 15 min. But I was tired and wanted to go to bed anyway. Whoops. Next time, I look at the clock before signing out.

SuperJa
11-05-2015, 10:54 AM
So last night was fairly quiet but it started off with a sweet couple who bought dances and I got dances from a guy who recognized me from years ago, so ended okay.

Had an idiot server from the wine bar around the corner show up- he got free cover because the managers know each other, but i immediately read him as the type to try and pick girls up... yep. Another dancer chatted to him for a bit and he kept trying to lean in and whisper in her ear so she bailed and went to hide with the couple. When I walked over to the bar he was shoving his phone at the bartender trying to get her number and she's like "o i don't have a phone" *has been texting all night behind the bar* So just tried to push dances quick and gtfo, he's like "you sure are keen on doing those dances" like yeah bro it's my job, we're a lapdance club, you're the one who came in here. Skipped away to go chat with the manager for a bit.

Buddy takes out his money and counts it right on the bar, weirdly paces around for a bit, then goes up to other dancer who is sitting with the couple and tells her that yeah he'll buy a dance, so they go upstairs and about a minute later he's at coat check trying to leave, I guess he tried to smack her ass on the way up the stairs and she told him to gtfo or she'd call the bouncer. While he was at coat check I could see him on the camera reaching into the door girl's tip jar, told the manager and he booked it out there and got the money back, and was like, "wow that idiot just got himself fired" cause he gets to call up the wine bar owner today and be like, server x is a pathetic thieving loser, caught on camera.

Oh and when I was getting eyelashes done today I told her the story and she was like, "does he look really hipster?" and I was like "so hipster he ordered a pabst when he came in..." and I guess he's also a pathetic excuse for a server cause she's had him there before.

Danni
11-05-2015, 11:03 AM
First Wednesday night I worked since starting back in July and that was a different club. Weather was nice so I predicted it would be good which it was for a Wed. night. Was really easy sales. Hit the floor had a dance within minutes (always try to get one asap, it sets the pace for the rest of my night.) Walking out of ld room got pulled right back by a nice looking lawyer who immediately got a 20 minute room after our dance. He smoked for the first 5-10 minutes and chatted and complimented me the whole time. Easy room. He promised a tip before the room and when he asked if $60 was ok I said of course but more is always better and he happily handed over $100. Another room and some random dances then my last 20 minute room was a nice way to end the night. He just wanted to sit and talk and touch my boobs once because, as he said, they were perfection. I still thank my ps every time I go in for botox for the amazing boob job! hehe. Got cut to leave after my last stage set around 1am and since it was rather empty I took off and was home and in bed by 1:30.

22lligm
11-05-2015, 11:05 AM
Wow the most annoying customer last night. He immediately grabs me and wants to go in the 'members only' area so I thought that was a good sign.. but I was wrong lol. We sit on the couch talking and I'm hinting at wine and asking him what he likes to drink. Then he says he wants to start with some dances. But mind you I've been talking to him for a little bit now. We go upstairs to do some dances and I'm sitting on his lap dancing a little and he says 'did we start? lets do the next song i don't like this one' I was getting annoyed but said okay. Then the next song starts and I pull my dress down since it's topless and he's trying to get me to take my bottoms off so I'm in just my thong and he's complaining I didn't take my dress off all the way and I won't take my bottoms off. He asks if I'm trying to 'control this' by not taking my bottoms off until a second song and I said he hasn't given me any money yet so I'm leaving those on. Then he goes on to say 'you don't feel comfortable.. i don't like this you won't relax..' so I just stand up and put my dress back on and walk away while he's still talking. WHAT A LOSER. Clearly he spends all his money to be a 'member' so he's cheap with the girls. After I left another dancer told me he's notorious for being cheap. Good to know! Oh and he kept saying he wants us to 'get to know each other' and he doesn't like to 'rush things' but did he expect me to sit with him for an hour for free just for a few 20$ dances? I'm not that stupid.

Aurora14
11-05-2015, 11:47 AM
I wish my regular VIP bouncer was working last night. Don't get me wrong. I like the guy that was working last night, he takes care of me, he just isn't as attentive as my fave bouncer.

It was the end of an ok night, but I was getting a migraine, and had just told a customer to go fuck himself because he tried to tell me how to feel (Cheer up baby, it's a great night! Even though he hadn't tipped me a single dollar all night). A random customer of a certain descent came up to me at the bar and asked for a dance. So we go in back and he says, "I like you. You're fiery. If you do a good dance we'll go to the champange room". I went along with it and just smiled and ran my fingers through his hair. God only knows why, but he decided to upgrade...

I start to dance and within 2 minutes I feel his hand down by his crotch. I turn around and tell him to get his hand out of his sweatpants and avoid doing that again. I was giving him an almost airdance at this point. I leaned over and he "nibbled" (I say bit) me so I warn him again. I lean back and I'm straddling over 1 of his legs, he starts pulling at my leg to fully straddle him so I told him "I decide how dances go back here. Got it? Now stop pulling at me or we are done." I honestly don't know why I was being so nice. About 2 minutes later he starts pulling at my leg again. I just got up, grabbed my shit, and walked out. I gave the bouncer the cliff notes while dipshit adjusted his wee, and when he came out he demanded a refund because my dance sucked. I told him his dance sucked because he kept trying to get me to sit on his dick and I didn't want to do that. The owner had to get involved because the bouncer said he couldn't really see what happened, but thought the dance was going ok because I didn't wave my hands for help (It is my clubs warning sign. First wave means watch me, second means get me out. I don't bother with it because I don't care if I hurt a customer's feelings. If I warn them and they fuck up I walk out). I told the manager to go review the tape. I warned him fairly.

I got to keep the money in the end, but I don't get why clubs try to appease customers like this. Let them leave and not comeback like they threaten to do. Ugh

Miss_Red
11-05-2015, 05:34 PM
My last two shifts have been so bad. So. Bad. They have both been bad nights overall for everyone at the club, but I just struck out at every opportunity. I've been having trouble getting the nerve up to go and talk to people--well, last night I talked to everyone and everyone rejected me hard. All night, I got the "I don't buy dances but I'd love to take you home", only to have some other dancer drag the custie into the back as soon as I left. People were insulting and rude. It's truly baffling to me how some people find me irresistibly, sexy, etc, and others seem actively repulsed by me. I guess I'm pretty depressed about how things have been going lately, and maybe that's showing in my energy. I tried so hard yesterday--took it easy before my shift, did everything I could to be positive and outgoing, hustled everyone in the room, and nothing. I'm not a crier, and I ended up crying in the bathroom at the end of the night for the first time ever. Ugh. I hope this turns around soon. I've just started getting better shifts and I'm worried I'm going to lose them when management sees how badly I've done.

Aurora14
11-06-2015, 01:12 PM
My club had to close at 12:30 last night because the water main in town busted somewhere and we had no water...

Selina M
11-06-2015, 08:10 PM
Dafuq, Friday?

Friday dayshift is normally great. Shitloads of girls, shitloads of guys, spending half the shift in the VIP room.
Today there were 3 of us (one an audition) for the first 2 hours, very few guys. I confess I entertained myself by cockblocking the auditioning girl, stealing her guy when she went on stage or swooping in as she was about to go to someone. I KNOW, it's super bitchy... I dunno why I felt like establishing myself as mega bitch, but I did.
It picked up a bit later but still wasn't much to speak of. I only got 3 VIP dances all day and was so tired from busting my ass doing 1-2 $10 dances for all the brokeasses, I left earlier than I planned. Forgot to pay the stupid $20 fee for using the VIP room. Let's see if I hear about that tomorrow.

miss.a.p1600
11-06-2015, 09:34 PM
Bouncer keeps trying to get me to go to his house - nope!

Pleasantly smirked as I walked past scumbunny dancer into vip several times while she watched in jealousy

Hit money goal

Aurora14
11-07-2015, 03:03 AM
VIP talking about Bernie Sanders, Halo, and Settlers of Catan.... Wish it was busier, but I'll take that.

iamthefox
11-07-2015, 04:17 AM
It really sucked for a Friday day, but this entire week was trash. Didn't feel like being there at all. Even tried to amuse myself by wearing crazy shit, and I still ended up leaving early. I also asked them to take my name off the schedule for next week so I can sort out what I actually want to be doing right now, rather than continue at a place where management doesn't kick out people that are visibly molesting dancers and they whitewash the jukebox regularly for the fulfillment of their own country-ass fantasies.

SuperJa
11-08-2015, 03:27 AM
So this week was so garbage that last night I was like "If I don't make $X this weekend I'm done with this club" and then I made a little over that number last night and again tonight so I'm like lol guess stripper Jesus is on my side rn.

Also that idiot from earlier in the week who stole from the doorgirl's tips came back like she wouldn't recognize him? She immediately yelled for the manager and buddy threw $20 at her as he ran out the door.

charlie61
11-08-2015, 05:03 AM
Made one of the lowest amounts I've ever made and had to hustle my ass off for every single dance. I guess I'm thankful to make what I made (~$60/hour)...it could've been much worse.

I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one who had a rough night. Sounds like post-Halloween week is a time of recovery for our customers? I'm hoping it doesn't stay this way for the whole holiday season...

Nina_
11-08-2015, 12:24 PM
My last shift was awful. One of the worst shifts I remember having, and it was a Friday. It was completely dead and I knew I was about to get my period so I was cramping and moody. I decided to leave early. I left with like $100 lol. I got my period a couple hours later.

miss.a.p1600
11-08-2015, 12:48 PM
Bouncer still trying to get me to call him and hang out with him ....ugh! Never!

His ugly friend tries to approach me as I'm leaving ..... Ugh! No!

I peeped dance counter sheet of the number of dances for the dancers and I'm stoked to see myself in second place. I hope that hating ass slore dancer isn't first she's such a cunt.

Pissed cause the last guy I danced for kept trying to control how I dance and wanted me to grind hard on his lap. I didn't enjoy dancing for him at all and just wanted money. And he kept trying to bargain down the price. I made him give me extra money.

The first and second guys I danced for were perfect gentleman. Surprisingly one was half Asian (I rarely am able to get dances from Asians for some reason) Both custies tipped me well and one of them paid my dance fees! I gotta make dudes do this more often.

The dj is annoying as f*ck .... Rant about this c*cksucker coming soon......

22lligm
11-08-2015, 04:17 PM
I did really good on Friday night so I came to work last night already with a lazy attitude and not feeling like I wanted to be there (for some reason I get like that after a good night). I was struggling to sell any rooms or bottles but was trying to keep the mindset that 'it only takes one'. Then around midnight I told myself if nobody buys a room in 30 minutes I'm going to a different club. I walk out the dressing room and BAM some guy asks me where the bathroom is and that he's currently in the most expensive room our club has and asked if I would like to join. So I ended up making the most last night that I've ever made so far as a stripper! I am really liking it out here lol. I always need to remind myself that it only takes one I always end up doing well when I remember that.

kaninchen
11-09-2015, 01:21 PM
During a slow spell I was chatting with a customer who had to have been in his 80s. He was telling me that he doesn't own a computer, saying, "You can spend hours a day on those things! Plus you can see everything under the sun on them. You can see naked ladies, ladies making out with men, even ladies making out with ladies!"

I was basically hyperventilating through my teeth trying not to laugh, because I love the idea that "ladies making out with ladies" is the most hardcore thing on the internet.

It should say a lot about my last shift that that comment was the highlight of it. :grumpy:

Aurora14
11-09-2015, 02:47 PM
Since shutting down early Thursday, I lost my mojo. Like just can't seem to get dances (at least it felt that way, explain in a minute). The other night I felt like a leper. I was talking to all sorts of people. Young, old. Well dressed, sweatpants (barf). Drinking alcohol, drinking water. I would spend a few songs talking with them, they would excuse themselves to get a drink, and since NO ONE offered/ asked to buy any I would excuse myself. I see them go back to the table, talk to some other chick for a minute, and go in back. This went on ALL NIGHT. It was really rocking my confidence. I got lucky and a few regulars came in though. Customers that do rooms, fetish rooms too, so I glanced at the dance chart when it was uncovered, and I was actually competing for 3rd! (1st and 2nd were ahead of us by about 15 dances) So I guess I just got all those other guys primed and ready to do singles.

I almost think I'm being too hard on myself. I ended up doing really well and had well trained customers for a few weeks and raised my standards in time for last weeks shit show lol. I still did ok though. And now it's a new week! Hopefully I'll do better!

Ms.Belle
11-09-2015, 11:09 PM
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travelsizegirl
11-10-2015, 03:29 PM
Had a rough second day. Started off well; made $100 right away from a super sweet guy... might have been the first one to sell dances. The advice in Hustle Hut about stacking dances is paying off in spades. I'm mostly selling 2-5 dances at a time, and the only two guys that only got one dance were guys that hadn't intended on getting dances at all, so I was proud that I even talked them into one. :)

Then my day took a turn. I was sitting at the bar for a minute smoking, and noticed there was a guy sitting by the second stage that no one had seemed to approach yet (if only I had known why). So I leaned over and asked one of the waitresses if she knew if he was a paying customer (my club has a LOT of regulars). She said "Yeah, he's a VIP member, try him." So I went and sat with him a minute. I should have known immediately when he started asking me if I was seeing anyone and telling me that he didn't have a problem with dating dancers blah blah go out with me. I tried to be polite and just let him know I'm not really into dating (I've been with the same guy for 6 years... I'm not going anywhere).

He takes me back and gets a couple of dances from me. He's SUPER aggressive. I keep having to tell him not to touch my kitty... over and over. He keeps asking me what my price is for sex. He keeps assuring me that I don't have to be scared, it's perfectly normal in the club, I won't get into trouble. He's just sure I'm into him because I'm being nice and not walking away. I finally detach myself and make the excuse that I have to go see when I go on stage. I avoid him for the next 3 hours. Finally he walks up to me again and wants to know how much I charge for for an hour in VIP. I say $400. He eventually agrees after trying to talk me into extras and assuring me he could have sex with any other girl in VIP for $400. I finally say "Well, then you should go find one of those girls" and start walking away. He stops me and agrees to my price. I tell him in no uncertain terms that I will NOT be doing ANY sexual favors for him and he'd better not expose himself. He assures me he'll be a good boy.

Of course, he's not. THE ENTIRE TIME we are back there he's super pushy and aggressive. He never let up for a minute. He's assuring me he'll be the best I've ever had *eyeroll* after telling me that his last girlfriend told him that he made her dry. LOL. He even whipped it out at me and I had to threaten to leave to get him to put it away. I finally agreed to make out with him just to shut him up because that was literally the ONLY time he wasn't trying to pressure me into dating him, having sex with him, trying to get me to promise I won't sleep with anyone else until I give him a chance, etc etc ad nauseum. He tried to talk me into another hour for $200 and I refused and said 30 minutes. He agreed. Then he tried to get me to give him a hand job for the $200 and I wouldn't have to stay the extra 30 minutes. I refused. I was so relieved when the time was up.

Here's where it gets really fun. We got out at the end of my shift. I'm ready to go home. And of course... his card is declined. He owes me $640, and his card is declined. He had the nerve to come ask me if "we could work something out" and let him pay me the next time he came in. I'm like "hell no." It took two hours before he finally got someone up there with another card and I got my money.

This was super fucking stressful, girls. I'm trying not to be too mad at myself for doing something I knew better than to do from the beginning. I knew he was going to be a dick. I've really got to remember that I get to say no. I don't HAVE to chase money like that. I admit, I'm glad I have the money, but it really wasn't worth it.

charlie61
11-10-2015, 03:32 PM
^Wait, you....made out with him? :ill:

mm621
11-10-2015, 03:32 PM
:D
Today some idiot customer unexpectedly pulled my butt cheeks apart so hard and so fast during our VIP that I farted. Serves him right for grabbing me that way!

HAHA. Sorry, but that's really funny!! (Just to clarify: the funny part was the farting in his face part-- not the way he grabbed you... That sounds painful... :x) :flower:
And it sure does serve him right!! ;D

travelsizegirl
11-10-2015, 03:48 PM
^Wait, you....made out with him? :ill:

Not my finest moment, but the making out was actually the least stressful part of that whole experience. I'm coming to dancing from being a GFE escort for 5 years, so making out with someone is not exactly outside my comfort zone, but that sort of thing is what I'm hoping to get AWAY from, so I'm not terribly happy about it.

I'm going to have to get better about saying no to money. For some reason, it was easier as an escort. I'm getting so into the hustle as a dancer that I'm not listening to my voice of reason. Live and learn.

miss.a.p1600
11-10-2015, 04:27 PM
Sucks you had to go through that.

I loathe aggressive and perverted customers.

Sometimes you don't know they are like that until you get in private then you literally have to duck and dodge their a$$ the whole time and its not enjoyable. They think that the money entitles them to unrestricted access to your body and thats not the case.

Hopefully you don't have to deal with that again.


Had a rough second day. Started off well; made $100 right away from a super sweet guy... might have been the first one to sell dances. The advice in Hustle Hut about stacking dances is paying off in spades. I'm mostly selling 2-5 dances at a time, and the only two guys that only got one dance were guys that hadn't intended on getting dances at all, so I was proud that I even talked them into one. :)

Then my day took a turn. I was sitting at the bar for a minute smoking, and noticed there was a guy sitting by the second stage that no one had seemed to approach yet (if only I had known why). So I leaned over and asked one of the waitresses if she knew if he was a paying customer (my club has a LOT of regulars). She said "Yeah, he's a VIP member, try him." So I went and sat with him a minute. I should have known immediately when he started asking me if I was seeing anyone and telling me that he didn't have a problem with dating dancers blah blah go out with me. I tried to be polite and just let him know I'm not really into dating (I've been with the same guy for 6 years... I'm not going anywhere).

He takes me back and gets a couple of dances from me. He's SUPER aggressive. I keep having to tell him not to touch my kitty... over and over. He keeps asking me what my price is for sex. He keeps assuring me that I don't have to be scared, it's perfectly normal in the club, I won't get into trouble. He's just sure I'm into him because I'm being nice and not walking away. I finally detach myself and make the excuse that I have to go see when I go on stage. I avoid him for the next 3 hours. Finally he walks up to me again and wants to know how much I charge for for an hour in VIP. I say $400. He eventually agrees after trying to talk me into extras and assuring me he could have sex with any other girl in VIP for $400. I finally say "Well, then you should go find one of those girls" and start walking away. He stops me and agrees to my price. I tell him in no uncertain terms that I will NOT be doing ANY sexual favors for him and he'd better not expose himself. He assures me he'll be a good boy.

Of course, he's not. THE ENTIRE TIME we are back there he's super pushy and aggressive. He never let up for a minute. He's assuring me he'll be the best I've ever had *eyeroll* after telling me that his last girlfriend told him that he made her dry. LOL. He even whipped it out at me and I had to threaten to leave to get him to put it away. I finally agreed to make out with him just to shut him up because that was literally the ONLY time he wasn't trying to pressure me into dating him, having sex with him, trying to get me to promise I won't sleep with anyone else until I give him a chance, etc etc ad nauseum. He tried to talk me into another hour for $200 and I refused and said 30 minutes. He agreed. Then he tried to get me to give him a hand job for the $200 and I wouldn't have to stay the extra 30 minutes. I refused. I was so relieved when the time was up.

Here's where it gets really fun. We got out at the end of my shift. I'm ready to go home. And of course... his card is declined. He owes me $640, and his card is declined. He had the nerve to come ask me if "we could work something out" and let him pay me the next time he came in. I'm like "hell no." It took two hours before he finally got someone up there with another card and I got my money.

This was super fucking stressful, girls. I'm trying not to be too mad at myself for doing something I knew better than to do from the beginning. I knew he was going to be a dick. I've really got to remember that I get to say no. I don't HAVE to chase money like that. I admit, I'm glad I have the money, but it really wasn't worth it.

MetalRoses
11-10-2015, 06:03 PM
This is unfortunately how many Custies in my city are like. I've actually lost potential repeat dances because I wouldn't allow a topless dance for a customer who wanted one but I wanted to follow our clubs new "no more topless" policy which has been enforced more diligently fairly recently by management. My club is known for a lot of extras so it can be challenging to make consistent money with all the crap that goes on here. When I get a customer who is a gentleman, I really appreciate them and work doesn't feel like a job so much.



Sucks you had to go through that.

I loathe aggressive and perverted customers.

Sometimes you don't know they are like that until you get in private then you literally have to duck and dodge their a$$ the whole time and its not enjoyable. They think that the money entitles them to unrestricted access to your body and thats not the case.

Hopefully you don't have to deal with that again.

SuperJa
11-11-2015, 01:53 AM
Night was dead but somehow a former dancer who is a complete and utter mess snuck in and when management told her she had to leave she grabbed a painting off the wall and booked it. They were literally too stunned to stop her.

kaninchen
11-11-2015, 11:08 AM
Went in last night with a zit, PMS bloat, and a chipped manicure and pedicure, yet was top earner and made twice my goal. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Sometimes stripping is just a huge mystery to me.

A drunk customer "complimented" me by saying, "You know why I like you? You know how you said tomorrow you're gonna be doing yoga and looking up new recipes for your cupcakes? All the other girls here are going to be eating TACOS tomorrow. That's what makes you different! You really are special!" He said it so scornfully, like eating tacos is tantamount to drug abuse or infanticide. Who hates tacos?!

kassie
11-11-2015, 11:16 AM
Saw some guy in front of me with his phone pointed towards me while I was on stage, so I told him to put it down; and then one of the bartenders had the nerves to approach me and say in a defensive manner that he's just doing work stuff on his phone. I then told her, I don't want any phones pointed towards me while I'm half-naked on stage. She then stormed away to the manager to complain (bitch, really?) Manager didn't say anything to me. I guess he figured that I was taking precautionary measures and that I have the right to protect my privacy.

I don't understand why she would even care. I'm the one putting myself out there so sorry, not sorry; but needless to say, she really pissed me off.

Then I had one of those "you can't bullshit a bullshitter" guys during a dance.I ended the dance the moment he said that; and he felt so stupid he tipped me an extra $20. Yeah okay buddy I just cut the dance short and you paid me extra for it. But overall I did good for a Tuesday mid-shift, left with almost $500.

SuperJa
11-12-2015, 02:58 AM
Made low weekly goal in one shift and I still have 3 left this week so yay. I haven't had a night like that at this club since 2013 so that's something.

Knew it was off to a good start when reg showed up wanting dances 10 minutes before we actually even open.

travelsizegirl
11-12-2015, 08:11 AM
Third time's the charm. Made not quite as much money, but still way more than I was expecting, and didn't have a single horrible custie. A girl friend came in with her SD and they dropped about $120 on me, had lunch, and left, so that was really nice. Drank a little too much, but no hangover so that's good. Babysat a brand new dancer since all the other girls were ignoring her and she was terrified. I managed to talk a couple of guys into getting some dances from her... felt good to help her make a little money and gain some confidence. All in all a much, much better day. :)

Danni
11-12-2015, 09:55 AM
Wore my new glasses which are red Ralph Lauren and I've been wanting for a while. Decided to go with a Lacey VS bra and sheer black thigh highs which tuned out to be a very good look. It was fairly slow but did well since none of the girls in this club hustle it's easy as long as there are a few men in the club. Left at 12:30 and as soon as I changed it looked like people had appeared including a group of women (ugh) sitting at stage. I decided I was better off getting some sleep. Also one of the girls came up to me in the dressing room while I was changing and told m several times how pretty I was. It was nice to hear but also nice to know that I wasn't so intimidating she would still approach me but intimidating enough that it was to give me a disgustingly sweet compliment. I don't go out of my way to be a bitch, but I refrain from interacting with any of the other dancers (one or two exceptions). I'm there to make money not friends and don't want to be dragged into petty drama or dragged down by whining. All too often I see girls getting fired or just being sucked into another girls slump.
It even happens with a friend I dance with at another club. If one of us is having a bad night and moping the other ends up being sympathetic and agreeing that the night sucks and the mojo slowly dies. And we KNOW better!

charlie61
11-12-2015, 02:02 PM
^Big groups of women at the stage fill me with dread. I'm not a pole girl (I dance sensually and show off my body), and since these girls are always hella straight, they're always disappointed when I get up there. Once I catch that vibe, I usually straight up ignore them and focus on the single guys around my stage (since they'll be the ones buying dances). But seriously, I cringe whenever I see groups of women! They have too high of expectations for our shows. Ugh.

Danni
11-12-2015, 02:05 PM
^Big groups of women at the stage fill me with dread. I'm not a pole girl (I dance sensually and show off my body), and since these girls are always hella straight, they're always disappointed when I get up there. Once I catch that vibe, I usually straight up ignore them and focus on the single guys around my stage (since they'll be the ones buying dances). But seriously, I cringe whenever I see groups of women! They have too high of expectations for our shows. Ugh.

Exactly! unless they are throwing money I'm not wasting my time. If they are I try and involved them/play with them do some splits or whatever else I can think of to keep the money raining down other wise I will avoid them.

charlie61
11-12-2015, 02:54 PM
Exactly! unless they are throwing money I'm not wasting my time. If they are I try and involved them/play with them do some splits or whatever else I can think of to keep the money raining down other wise I will avoid them.

Yes! I have like 2-3 moves in my repertoire that look somewhat impressive (like you said - the splits), so I'll see if they 'bite' and then move on if they don't. Cuz really, unless you're into my body and are sexually attracted to me, I'm a snoozefest on stage. :D

mm621
11-13-2015, 02:08 AM
My first night back in a week... It started out really good!!! I had like 4 guys ask me for dances the first time I got on stage. Made pretty good money off of them. And then. 1:00 happened. I did 4 dances for a guy, but he refused to pay $80 because "I didn't tell him the songs were over" and tried to justify it because he tipped me on stage? Yeah. Like $1. >=[
I got into an argument with him-- my first time ever getting into an argument with a customer. I was just telling him that he's not that stupid to think that that entire time we danced was only one song... And that it's not my fault he didn't count the songs as well. Then I told him that he was being cheap, and trying to rip me off and that's not cool. Needless to say, he paid me $40 and said that I should have told him the songs were over. Okay buddy. Whatever. Then I had to go back on stage shortly after, and when I was on the stage that he was sitting at, Rihanna's song, "Bitch Better Have my Money" came on. Hahahaha. Ironic. I made up for that $40 and then an extra $20 with the next customer I danced for... And I still made my goal I set for myself tonight, but that seriously pissed me off! I know I should have collected money up front, but I'm hesitant to do so in case the customer wants to get more dances than what he paid for up front. Hah. I suppose I should be thankful that it was only $40 and not $100 but still. Ripping me off is ripping me off. :/

Danni
11-13-2015, 07:47 AM
My first night back in a week... It started out really good!!! I've had like 4 guys ask me for dances while I was on stage. Made pretty good money off of them. And the. 1:00 happened. I did 4 dances for a guy, but he refused to pay $80 because "I didn't tell him the songs were over" and tried to justify it because he tipped me on stage? Yeah. Like $1. >=[
I got into an argument with him-- my first time ever getting into an argument with a customer. I was just telling him that he's not that stupid to think that that entire time we danced was only one song... And that it's not my fault he didn't count the songs as well. Then I told him that he was being cheap, and trying to rip me off and that's not cool. Needless to say, he paid me $40 and said that I should have told him the songs were over. Okay buddy. Whatever. Then I had to go back on stage shortly after, and when I was on the stage that he was sitting at, Rihanna's song, "Bitch Better Have my Money" came on. Hahahaha. Ironic. I made up for that $40 and then an extra $20 with the next customer I danced for... And I still made my goal I set for myself tonight, but that seriously pissed me off! I know I should have collected money up front, but I'm hesitant to do so in case the customer wants to get more dances than what he paid for up front. Hah. I suppose I should be thankful that it was only $40 and not $100 but still. Ripping me off is ripping me off. :/

Guaranteed he damn well knew how many songs or at least more than 2 but was ripping you off since you didn't have a great defense. This is why I always,always,always confirm doing another in some form and I don't stack more than 6-7 without paying a bad then doing more if he still wants to continue.

mm621
11-13-2015, 12:27 PM
Guaranteed he damn well knew how many songs or at least more than 2 but was ripping you off since you didn't have a great defense. This is why I always,always,always confirm doing another in some form and I don't stack more than 6-7 without paying a bad then doing more if he still wants to continue.

Oh, I know he did. :-\ and yeah, maybe I should have reminded him after every song... I usually do after say 5 dances... I'm more on it about reminding them if the guy just seems like the type that would try and rip me off (the bargain hunters, for example). But you know what? I'm not a babysitter for these guys; they are perfectly capable of counting songs as well. It's not that hard to do! Especially if one song is rock, then rap plays next, then some other genre... I mean, they can't be that stupid!!! Lol and if they know that they can't afford more than one or two dances, they have the ability to say, "no more dances, thank you." Maybe I'm expecting too much from these guys. ::) I suppose I could've gotten management involved, but it seemed silly (to me) to throw a fuss over $40... Even though I WAS pissed, I think it was moreso about being taken advantage of, than the amount "lost." Lesson learned. 8)

travelsizegirl
11-13-2015, 09:06 PM
I'm starting to think Friday day shift is not that great at my club. I've worked 4 shifts, two of which were Fridays, and they were not as good $$-wise as the other two shifts. Soooo many girls. We had like 30 girls today, and never were there that many guys in the club at one time.

I'm going to stick to Mon, Wed, Fri for a few more weeks and see how it goes, but if Friday doesn't get better, I might switch to Thurs.

Oh, and I tripped heading into the DJ booth and ripped not only my acrylic nail off, but pretty much my whole real nail, too. Came out from the nail bed... could probably pull the whole thing off if I tried. I'm holding it on with a bandaid. :( Don't know what to do... never had this happen before.

mm621
11-14-2015, 02:56 AM
$820. Thank. God. After all the stress I've been having lately, I needed a good night. It was slow from 9-12... I wasn't necessarily in broke mode, but I was at the point of being happy if I make $300... Which is good for a week night but I expect more for a Friday. ::)

But from 12 to the very last song, I was NON STOP with dances-- I didn't even have time to go in the back to count my money throughout my shift. I estimated about $600, but was happily surprised :)

My legs officially hurt now. Lol I work out every day, but dancing in those sky high heels must work different muscles than the treadmill. :D