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MelissaRenee
12-17-2015, 02:42 PM
I wasn't going to go in, but two of my girl friends texted me that they were coming in as customers to see a band play there (my club is weird and has bands play sometimes) so I went in even though I was super tired. When I came in there was a girl screaming in the dressing room and I was told to stand back because she had apparently maced a bouncer? Got approached for a dance right as I got on the floor and he dude was very drunk and I wasn't sure if he was a time waster. Eventually I got him to do a 100 dollar dance with me and he told me he's the CEO of a decently big clothing company...so I know he had money, you know? He was drunk to the point of not being comprehensible and I was tired so I didn't hustle him as hard as I should have. Plus I kinda wanted to drink with my friends if I'm perfectly honest! My friends tipped me even though I told them they didn't have to, and I had plenty of guys come up to my tip rail on stage. A guy who doesn't speak much English got a VIP with me and got pissed off when I didn't get full nude (club is only top less on stage) prompting the best line of the night "you are stripper out there but not in here!" He got so mad he tried to talk to a waitress and he manager both who put him in his place. He sat at the stage pissed off all night. Lol. Whatever.
Did another few dances and another VIP and left pretty happy for a week day! Plus I had fun.
wednesday86
12-17-2015, 10:18 PM
Today was better..definitely sticking with day shift. 2 vips with mellow guys in their 30's/40's > crowds of 21 year olds.
mm621
12-18-2015, 01:51 PM
So after several $200-$300 day shifts, I decided to work a night shift last night. Made $500. Yup, I guess the night shift is a better fit for me. Either that, or I just can't be bothered with the slow hustle that comes with the territory of day shift anymore. However, I did notice that Friday day shifts are better than weekday day shifts, in terms of business. While I prefer to work on Friday nights, I'll probably do a day shift today due to possible plans tonight. If my plans fall through, I'll just work through the night.
Selina M
12-19-2015, 08:44 PM
Is anybody else having a painfully dead December?
I've had one decent shift all month.
SammiMinasu
12-20-2015, 12:54 PM
Is anybody else having a painfully dead December?
I've had one decent shift all month.
Glad it's not just my club/area. My lowest Saturday so far was $250, last night I made $55 in 7 hours.
Legz541
12-20-2015, 05:17 PM
Is anybody else having a painfully dead December?
I've had one decent shift all month.
Here too. With the exception of this past week it's been pretty rough. Fall and Winter is usually the time to bank so idk what's going on. Weekends have been mediocre and during the week there's more girls than customers.
Last night was just weird. Started fairly busy but no real money being spent. The first guy I danced for barked like a dog...yes barked. It literally startled me, sounded like someone stepped on a Yorkie. Club was dead by 1ish. Couldn't sell a dance to save my life but somehow could sell CR time. Guess it could be worse.
22lligm
12-21-2015, 01:46 PM
Omg I have the most annoying customer at work now and this just reminds me why I hate having regulars and would rather just meet new customers every shift.
This guy is recently divorced I think and really lonely. I felt bad for him at first but now he's just too annoying. When I first met him he got a few dances and just wanted to talk so I figured he would be an easy regular and I got his number. But then he started talking about going out to dinner soon (& not pay me). He sent me all these texts the next day updating me on his day and telling me which restaurants we should go to and I just ignored him... but then he shows up Saturday night when the club is PACKED. He comes up to me all pissed off saying he messaged me and why didn't I respond and I 'missed out on a great dinner' (he didn't say it nicely but like he was trying to make me jealous and was genuinely pissed off at me). Then he follows me around to each stage only tipping like a dollar and wanting to talk at each one (there are like 7 stages and the club was really busy so that's interrupting the real tips I can make). He's literally following me like two steps behind.. I dropped a dollar at one point and he jumped in to get it for me (give me some space dude!!). Then he tells me he wants a lap dance but the club is really busy and I had told multiple guys before him that I would find them after I'm off stage.. he says he'll be waiting upstairs. Obviously he wasn't a priority (he barely tips me so I might as well dance for anyone else) so I give some other customers dances and as I'm dancing I see him walk by right in front of us glaring at me and looking pissed off. Sure if the club was slow I would make him a priority but come on the club was literally packed and when it's busy like that I can't walk two feet without a customer approaching me for dances. I'm not gonna waste time and money telling guys no just so I can go find him and only do a couple dances.
Anyway this guy really needs to find a relationship somewhere else.. sign up for eHarmony or something. Maybe if he was nice and polite I wouldn't mind but this guy is acting like he should be my priority when I just met him, he doesn't spend THAT much on me, and he's trying to take me out for free when I'm probably 30 years younger than him. Oh and then yesterday he sends me all these texts for directions to a mall (?? he's not trying to take me shopping he's just letting me know lol). I can't deal with annoying regulars!!
Aurora14
12-21-2015, 02:37 PM
Is anybody else having a painfully dead December?
I've had one decent shift all month.
I've made half my monthly goal and only have 5 more shifts left. Not happy about it. I haven't even gotten a single Christmas tip from any of my regulars. In the past I've gotten $500-1000 in Christmas tips. Not happy about that either. This is a shit month so far.
precise212
12-21-2015, 02:42 PM
I work in upscale Manhattan club and business is slow, too. Saturday was really bad, which is big surprise considering this time of the year in New York.
charlie61
12-21-2015, 03:13 PM
Yeah, I'm definitely not the recipient of any Xmas generosity this year. I only work once a week, so it's hard to say for sure, but this month seems slow. There are people in the club, so stage is decent (not my usual money maker), but fewer dances are being sold. Sigh. I'm just focusing on what I can control instead of what I can't, showing up for my shifts instead of making excuses, etc.
Leica
12-21-2015, 04:09 PM
My last shift was my forever last shift at my home club. I walked into dressing room to an announcement from the manager that that evening was our last night. The club has been steadily going downhill money wise and the grinch (owner) just decided that same day to close.
22lligm
12-21-2015, 05:11 PM
Oh yeah and my last shift this fat guy turned me down because he 'isn't into blondes' and I just said 'damn you're so my type I'm really upset' and left lol. I guess that wasn't really rude of him but I thought it was annoying at the time lol I swear these guys get so cocky and picky when they're in the strip club.
mm621
12-22-2015, 10:11 AM
Oh boy. This must just be holiday-week slowness. :O Where are those generous customers?! On Friday, after making $180 on dayshift (after reporting that Friday dayshift is pretty good ::) ), I decided to do a night shift last night. Make $220. Blahhhhh.
I had one customer who wanted me to "love him like it was 1988." Oh, okay… I don't know what that means but I went with with. Then he kept trying to make out with me, but that wasn't the worst part. His breath literally smelled like play-doh. I don't really want to know how or why…. Then when we were done, he asked me to the prom. This guy is older--- but seriously stuck in the 80's (and was pretty drunk). At this point, he wanted to just chat (waste my time), so I excused myself and said that I had to freshen up in the back. Luckily, when I got back out, another customer came up to me and asked for a dance. We did one dance, and I got my money up front for that one (he didn't speak English, and I didn't want there to be any confusions about dance prices should I stack them. I'm getting better about using discretion about stacking dances! Go me! 8) ). After that, he insisted on doing 10 for $50! :confused: Then he asked for sex on top of it. Yeah dude, I'll fuck you in the back for $50. ::)
And even though I was late, the manager still gave me the cheaper house deal for today/night. So, that was nice. :D
MelissaRenee
12-23-2015, 03:08 AM
Ughhhh so slow!
I lazy-hustled this one guy who came in because he was the only customer not with a girl, and I was sick of trying after having my time wasted by two "lawyers" (pretty sure they were two broke guys who came in in suits to try to get attention...or just really terrible lawyers.) Anyway, we went for a dance and he was like "oh you don't do VIP?" so I took him to VIP and he did a half hour and then did a 3 for 100! He was really into me and wanted me to meet his family?
Went on stage for a last try at tips from new customers, though I really wanted to go home early as I could. My night ended with a group of Japanese tourists who wanted to shake my hand from the stage.
tempest666
12-23-2015, 04:32 AM
So Doubles now has a new VIP room as opposed to CR. (cause we don't serve the bubbly)
It's small but tastefully decorated. I got my first with a kinky pensioner who had a surprising amount of vigor. He knows how to smack an ass!
Leica
12-23-2015, 07:04 AM
I had one customer who wanted me to "love him like it was 1988."
Haha. I actually used a variation of this line last night at my new club. A customer approached me & requested that I join his bachelor party. Lol , he was confused like " isn't it supposed to be 1999? "
Leica
12-23-2015, 07:32 AM
I tried a new club last night. It's the sister club of my old place. I went with my girlfriend & was slightly nervous going in because I wasn't sure if we'd be hired. This club is known for hiring very slim girls only (which is dumb as fuck as we all know). I'm 5'4 and 170lbs. I'm well portioned with a big booty so it's distributed pretty well but still you know? Luckily my former manager had put in a great word for me and the hiring manager texted me before I arrived to let me know that I was hired! I hadn't even met her yet so I stoked. The club itself is huge. As soon as my friend and I walked in we were approached by a custy wanting us to join his bachelor party. I rushed upstairs to get ready but by the time I was done the bachelor party was spoken for. This was around 5pm. I make my rounds and start chatting with an older fellow who smiled at me. He bought me a drink, tipped me $20 , took me for a couple of dances & left. After that, I ended up doing a 15min CR with a guy I'd been chatting with for a few. He tipped me and headed home. Next, a guy tipped me $100 after I chatted with him for a while. I was kicking myself later thou because I wasted a bunch of time with a guy who came in selling outfits and stuff. I tried on a bunch of gowns and ended up buying a lime green gown. Not my usual color choice but I was kinda tipsy. Nowadays I stick mostly with dark, drapey gowns. I wore it out on the floor for about 20 minutes or so but my friend said it wasn't flattering and I wasn't making any money so I changed back into my prior gown. At this point I had about 20 minutes left in the shift . Figured I might as well scrounge up some last minute dances. As soon as I get downstairs this fine ass hottie visiting from NYC asks me for dances. We do a couple & he gives me $160 and pays the dance fee. It was a fantastic way to end the shift. I didn't go onstage at all but after tip out I left with about $620 something. All in all, I'm pretty happy with that considering I didn't have anyone trying to inappropriately grope/molest me. I did notice some areas I need to improve on thou like I took way too long getting dressed and in the dressing room period. I also could've gone up to a few more people. The club definitely has $$$ potential. I'll be leaving a review for my northeast ladies after I complete my first week.
Aurora14
12-24-2015, 11:58 PM
Yesterday was the day of gifts from regulars for me. It rocked. Beautiful necklace, gift certificate for a massage, and one guy made the mistake of saying "You can have whatever you want tonight". Got a date to see Star Wars on Sunday. Then tonight, one of the guys drunk texted me that he loves me O.o
Whiskey
12-25-2015, 02:44 AM
OOOH! I was doing a standard full nude private lap dance for some random guy. I got my money up front. Told him the rules, no touching and the like. Sit back and relax, and never mind the cameras.
He asked, "Who's watching?"
"The DJ and bouncers , of course." I replied.
Fine and dandy. I start the dance thinking the talking was over. Nope, he grabbed my leg. I reminded him the simple little rules... and continued. Again with the grabbing. I am upside done in his lap. I waggled a finger at him to no avail.No touchy, like I shave my legs for this job and why are you touching me? Let my leg go!
A muffled, "NO" came from me down below. (I had fallen to the carpet trying to escape his grasp.)
The DJ boomed over the mic, "No touching the girls! We have a 'touch and go policy', you touch, you go!"
The man had the audacity to flip the camera off, both cameras in fact. ( I could not see this, as I was upside down. The DJ did however.
"Did you just flip me off? Me? You are flipping me off? Not in my club! Out!"
Not in this club, not that DJ. The DJ called for bouncers. Bouncers were there in a second and the bartender, twice as wide as the bouncer, came running. They flung his ass out the door, and his little creepy friend, too.
There I sat, in an upside down, crumpled up heap on the floor counting my money, laughing my ass off. I was worried no one would say anything and I would have to just walk out with his cash and explain in my best 'no-no voice' you can't grope me. I am like the wind. I touch you, but you do not touch me.
Thank you for enforcing the rules, I love it. Still laughing. Mostly at myself.
charlie61
12-25-2015, 07:11 PM
Worked Xmas eve, and it was the oddest experience. I was the only one (customers and staff included) who wore anything festive, no one mentioned Christmas at all, and one guy even asked me why I was wearing a Santa hat (??!!). The club didn't put up lights or any sort of Christmas decor. Definitely didn't get a single gift or extra tip in the holiday spirit. No one was talking about it, with the exception of staff occasionally to comment on whether it'd be busy or slow due to the holiday.
Made decent money. Just thought it was really bizarre how little "Christmas cheer" was in the air. The sex industry is so tacky...I'm used to even the smallest of holidays being excuses for people to dress up and say cheesy stuff and whatnot. Felt like a typical Thursday night, tbh.
Leica
12-26-2015, 07:42 AM
Merry Xmas my beauties!
It was raining like crazy out here on Wednesday and I'd been running around like a maniac all day so ended up being two hours late for my second shift. Walked in with my two girlfriends and the GM (whom I hadn't met yet) ripped us a new asshole in front of the entire dressing room. He was pissed that we were pulling this shit especially being new girls. He totally had a valid point and I hate being late but he was rude as fuck. Anyways, he banished us to the sister club across the street. It was a downgrade from the main club although the staff is awesome. Dead as fuck, made $30 bucks. Meanwhile, the other club is packed to the rafters. Tell you what thou, I won't be showing up late to work again.
Anyways, tonight was very slow. I was chatting with a custy who offered me a drink right away . I'm sipping on my cognac when he tries to pull my wig off my head. " I just want to see what's under there!" By the grace of the steipper gods I walked away without clawing his face off. I make my way to the tip rail and sit with a guy who I notice is looking around the room. After we've been talking for a little bit he suggests a dance and I manage to convince him to do a half hour VIP. As we're discussing the details one of the girls start dancing for us. Dressed as a super cute, sexy reindeer , killer body , good dance moves. This guy didn't tip her a single dollar ( she realized very quickly he wasn't into her and left) and tells me " I don't like black girls". Mind you, I'm Dominican so so wtf ?! I completely understand and respect that everyone has a preference but he could've fucking tipped her. Now I don't want to spend any excess time with him so I rush him upstairs to VIP and this mofo is so coked out he can barely function. He left early because he "had to go to his car for something". So I got to keep his money for half the time. So thanks for giving me your $$$.
wednesday86
12-26-2015, 10:10 AM
My last shift was Tuesday. I worked 7pm until 2am and made about $30...After 8pm our only 3 customers had left and we literally didn't have anymore until around 12:30. There were about 9 girls all sitting in the dressing room talking, chain smoking and watching the clock. So effing boring. By that time some customers came in I was so annoyed and over it I didn't want to talk to anyone. No one came in ready for dances..they all wanted to hang out at the tip rail and drink for hours. Really hope things pick up after New Years. I don't have time for that BS.
Leather_Jacket
12-27-2015, 09:41 AM
Rrrg, I hate working Saturdays... sure the money is worth it; but the drama and the assholes, combined with the shitty staff we have on the weekends make me want to just stay home. The weekend DJ was the assistant manager at one point, then he decided it was his duty to DJ on Friday and Saturday night... and he is always... ALWAYS... coked out of his fucking mind. He has repeatedly screwed up the music and talks into the mic excessively while saying things like, "yeah (dancer name), motorboat him (guy on tip rail)!" But the thing that pisses me off the most about him is whenever he works, he fucks with the stage rotation and some girls get on stage every other song while the stage money is good, while others (like me) make it onstage ONCE during their entire shift (and stage money is a big thing on the weekends at our club... so yes I want on stage, damn it!). He seriously picks and chooses whatever dancer he wants on stage regardless of tip money.
Number 2 reason why I hate Saturdays. I usually never find myself in the middle of any drama... but if it does happen, lord knows it'll be a god damn Saturday. About a week ago, I was finishing up a shift while chatting with a girl who I'm friendly with. I mentioned how it was nice having our weekday DJ considering how shitty our weekend DJ is. We laughed and whatever else and I added that it didn't hurt that he was also kind of a hottie. She stopped and gave me this look, then told me he was dating a friend of hers. I immediately told her that I'm in a relationship of my own and while yes, the DJ's cute, that doesn't make me interested in him.
Well surprise surprise, the chick I thought I was somewhat cool with must have blown what I said completely out of proportion to another dancer, the girl the DJ's seeing. She came up to me and told me she was dating him. At first I was so confused as to why she would pull me aside just to tell me she was dating the DJ and then I remembered the conversation mentioned previously. I was a bit dumbfounded so my wording was shit, but I tried to reassure her that I wasn't a threat (the way she approached me was respectful so I wanted to mirror that back to her.) Then she mentioned that she had, "heard some things". Ugh, whatever. Honestly, this is the second chick that I know of whose dating a club employee. It's just weird and unprofessional to me; not to mention a complete disaster waiting to happen. Pretty sure there are rules about this.
MelissaRenee
12-27-2015, 11:52 AM
Club was dead last night and I figured it was going to be a waste of time as I hadn't made a single dollar in about two hours. There was a guy by himself at the bar and I figured why not, I'll go over and at least drink with him. He ended up being from the same area in England as I am (what are the chances?!) and was a total sweetheart! He got about an hour with me in total and I barely went on stage and just hung out with him. I had a pretty good night!
culitos
12-30-2015, 02:49 AM
Felt like every guy in the club was trying to wife me tonight. Why can't they understand that they're at a strip club, not a regular bar. Sheesh. At least I made my money.
22lligm
12-30-2015, 12:28 PM
I almost didn't go in last night but went in anyway really late and I'm glad I did. I made a decent amount even though it was pretty slow. Plus I got a nice reminder to not judge any customers by how they look lol this grundgy looking older asian man with a neck tattoo told me he wanted dances when I got off stage. I couldnt find him and forgot about it until later in the night when I wasn't busy and saw him again. He ended up being so sweet and kept getting dances until we closed. Hopefully he comes back he would be an easy regular to have.
Adrienne7
12-30-2015, 01:08 PM
I was dressed and ready to go home, in a green hoodie, black jeans and old combat boots. I was at the bar trading out my ones, when an older regular offered to buy this younger guy a $20 dance from me, in my hoodie and jeans we all agreed, so I went back there and was as sexy as I could be in my going-home clothes. We were both cracking up and it was pretty fun ☺️.
Leica
12-30-2015, 01:33 PM
Went to a dive club I used to work at ages ago. It's close to where I'm staying so I might make it my home club. There's plenty of money in there thou so I'll ignore the lack of doors in the bathroom stalls and the minuscule dressing room. My friend and I were chilling in our civvies waiting to speak with a manager when a customer came and grabbed me to do dances. I declined since I hadn't been rehired yet. After we got hired i saw him and we did a couple. Good lord, was he ever grabby! After that, I ended up sitting with a Christian couple that was trying to convert me. All while I'm sitting on the husbands lap and they're tipping me $20s and buying me drinks. Once they leave I go hangout with a nice looking fella . We get a couple dances and then go together to the bar to get drinks. I'm wasted wasted wasted by this time (like a dumbass I went and had Ketel One for lunch and dinner). Seriously so mad at myself. Anyways, we make our way to the bar where I promptly fell off my chair in front of everyone. Now I have a nasty deep scratch on my back and a bump on my head. The manager and my friend cleaned my cut and bandaged me up. I'm going in tonight and am so embarrassed. Well, at least I didn't go home empty handed. Made a little over $300 in my drunken ass state.
MelissaRenee
12-31-2015, 12:04 PM
My friend came in to try my club tonight so I was super excited to have a friend with me there! Anyway, the guy from the other night who spent a bunch of money on me was there again and we talked. I apologized for kinda walking out the other night (was drunk and my fiancée was waiting outside to pick me up and I felt bad making him wait!) anyway, he didn't get dances with me and told me he was at he club the past few nights. My friend (different one) had told me earlier she had a guy who promised he was coming back for her. I put two and two together and walked away. She spoke to him longer throughout the night and i noticed she sat with him for ages. So she did deserve his money and she's my friend, so I'm happy for her but can't help but feel a little sour. But it is what it is. I danced for a really cute couple in VIP and then did some lap dances in between so my time wasn't wasted.
When my friend who was coming in got there and got hired, we noticed two guys by the bar and I sensed they were going to spend something so we went over. I hustled and got my guy to agree to a VIP and then he convinced his friend to come along with mine :) they got a half hour total. My friends guy seemed awesome but was a lot more shy and they just talked the whole time haha. Mine was kinda rude honestly and kept talking about how I would make more money if I escorted, but other than that generally respected my comfort zones as far as touching and he did tip me! So that was something. But yeah, weird night and I was on my feet most of the time so my legs hurt today. Gah.
Miss_Red
12-31-2015, 12:14 PM
My last shift was on the 28th. I've been in a slump for about a month--just absolute shit money generally--and I finally had a good shift. Walked with $580. I'm just relieved to find I'm still capable of making money.
Leica
12-31-2015, 11:00 PM
Happy New Years ladies!!! It's been a rough last half of the year so I'm very grateful to have welcomed 2016 with $$$. Did a day shift at my new dive club. Drank way too much (per usual). Had a delightful time with the managers best friend. Usually I stay away from 'friends' of the managers or DJ but he was actually amazing. Which makes sense because the day manager is actually pretty awesome. We had drinks , he tipped me about $50 on my first stage set and was a complete gentleman. Then he bet me that if I could throw a paper plane further than him he'd give me $200. I tried my little ass off but it was an epic fail lol. We all had a blast and he gave me the $200 anyways. Then his friend took my BFF for dances and was gonna take me after but I was dancing for someone else and he had to leave so missed out on those. I didn't do too much in the way of dances nor did I do a VIP but for a day shift in a not packed club I made about $400 and I was quite happy with that. If only every shift was like that.
Neonsugar
01-01-2016, 02:30 AM
Worked New Year's Eve night 7 hours and was expecting more than $780..I set high standards for myself lol
22lligm
01-01-2016, 03:44 AM
Wow I am so glad I worked tonight I was expecting a depressing slow shift but it was BUSY! Not too many girls and lots of customers. Really happy I worked and started this new year off the right way. Plus money and no hangover definitely beats no money and a shitty hangover lol. Happy happy.
MelissaRenee
01-03-2016, 11:11 AM
A dude grabbed my ass at work and when I called him out on it called me racist because he was black. Ummmm no, I called him out on it because it's rude to grab strangers...
That pretty much sums up my night. Ugh.
charlie61
01-08-2016, 01:39 PM
Very slow shift - grateful I did as well as I did. Weird that I can still do that well on such slow nights. I was expecting it to be slow after the holiday push and at the beginning of tax season. And because it was a weekday. So no biggie.
When it gets slow and I talk to customers more than usual, I have a habit of letting my real personality slide into my work persona, which isn't healthy. I'm making note of that - room for improvement. I was getting increasingly snarky as the night went on. That's not okay for me! That kind of stuff leads slowly to burnout.
MelissaRenee
01-09-2016, 12:14 PM
My friend and I were sitting in an empty club on a Friday at 1am. The club closed at 2. So we tried the club up the road and immediately made money, fingers crossed I can work at both clubs because I like them both for different reasons...also completely drunkenly filled out the paperwork yikes.
lilylilylily
01-09-2016, 01:25 PM
A female client asked me to go for dances. That hasn't happened in ages since women rarely come to my club. It was a strange shift over all. First it was slow, then busy, slow then busy again. I did well though so I'm happy.
charlie61
01-10-2016, 05:36 AM
Sloooooow. I worked for every dance I sold. Ended up doing better than I predicted after the first couple of hours of making nothing on stage (extremely rare) and only selling a few dances. The people in the club just weren't tipping or buying dances. I hustled my little buns off. Whew! Ready for a break. I shan't talk to a single person for the next four days.
charlie61
01-11-2016, 03:19 PM
This thread sure is quiet these days. Mehbeh some people only post when they bank? :D
22lligm
01-11-2016, 06:43 PM
^ lol I started keeping track of each shift in detail on a spreadsheet and I guess it's turned into my own personal 'my last shift' thread
But now that I think about it.. towards the end of the night Saturday the manager told me to go to one of the sky boxes where there was a party going on and I'm giving dances to one guy and I see the girl next to me put a condom on a guy's dick with her mouth and then have sex with him. I was like :O wtf.. the guy made eye contact with me and didn't even look into it at all. Like he was probably fine with regular lap dances lol. So disgusting! The guys I danced for were super respectful though and the guy paying for everything kept making it rain the whole time so other than the fucking I witnessed it was a decent time lol.
charlie61
01-11-2016, 06:46 PM
^ lol I started keeping track of each shift in detail on a spreadsheet and I guess it's turned into my own personal 'my last shift' thread
But now that I think about it.. towards the end of the night Saturday the manager told me to go to one of the sky boxes where there was a party going on and I'm giving dances to one guy and I see the girl next to me put a condom on a guy's dick with her mouth and then have sex with him. I was like :O wtf.. the guy made eye contact with me and didn't even look into it at all. Like he was probably fine with regular lap dances lol. So disgusting! The guys I danced for were super respectful though and the guy paying for everything kept making it rain the whole time so other than the fucking I witnessed it was a decent time lol.
Whaaaaaaaat. I think I'd run out screaming. Omg.
22lligm
01-11-2016, 06:50 PM
Whaaaaaaaat. I think I'd run out screaming. Omg.
Yeah I was shocked like is this really happening right now..? But it was a big party and everybody else was just dancing which is why I thought it was a little ridiculous this girl felt the need to do that. The guy didn't look like he even wanted it lol could she not just keep her damn panties on?
carmen_b
01-11-2016, 08:21 PM
^ So Bizarre , :/
mm621
01-13-2016, 07:43 AM
Yesterday was my first shift in 2 weeks. I was out of town during the week of New Years, and last week I just didn't want to go in. It might just be burnout from a crappyish month in December, or I'm finally ready to start thinking about hanging up those heels! Lol it's getting to the point where I have to drag myself to go to the club. But, I finally got a regular job that pays enough to where I don't really need to dance anymore. It's not super high paying or anything, but I never worked enough to make 100k (let alone 50k) on dancing alone. It's always been a way to have supplemental income, and I've learned that I prefer it that way. :)
Anyway, I worked a mid-shift. It was pretty slow, but there weren't many girls either. The good thing was that guys that were there were spending, so I still did okay. It was a good way to get back into the swing of things, and while I was there, my feelings of "ugh, I don't want to do this anymore!" just went away. I just didn't think about it, really!
Selina M
01-13-2016, 01:16 PM
^ Ours was exactly the same. I went in at 5 because I was done with class and didn't wanna wait around until 9 for the night crowd. Ended up making over my minimum goal and leaving by 10:30.
It was really dead but I only had to dance for 4 guys to make goal, and went 3 for 4 on getting them in VIP (and the 4th was my regular who didn't have enough money to do it... he literally always goes though so I forgave it, haha). Very pleased with my sales skills :P
I think one of the old cocksuckers (literally, she looks like a 50 year old chain smoker and DOES suck dick) who is also a thief, heard me when I was in the DJ booth saying "If she can't close that sale within 10 minutes she needs to move on, not stalk the customers around". Whatever. Don't literally follow around a customer for 45 minutes, when there's nobody else here. It's rude to other girls. It may ruin the customer's night, if he wants another girl and is too nice to tell you to fuck off. Get some sales skills and some urgency and sell a damn dance or get up.
I've been treating this like a full-time job for 2016, instead of a part-time pay-the-bills gig. I have a 4 day work week, and a minimum goal for each shift that guarantees me X amount of $$ every week. That helps stave off burnout since bad money is what seems to do it for me. I'm a Stripper Machine, and I haven't got any patience for other girls nonsense right now. Anyone that gets between me and money in there is gonna have a bad time :bullwhip:
NatilyExotic
01-14-2016, 04:35 PM
My last shift was my first shift at spearmint rhino. It started off as most first days do.Paperwork, tour and rules you know the drill. It was the 2:30 AM shift this morning. I ended up only making $36 if you consider the fact that I had to pay a housefee.I don't count anything until that is paid.This guy paid me $100 to give a man and his wife a dance that was cool. :) I kept getting the "You are hot but I'm broke." or" I only came for my friend ." etc.It was horrible. Let's see what tonight has in store .
MelissaRenee
01-14-2016, 08:25 PM
Got a VIP with the first guy I was talking to. The club was going some kind of amateur contest to win Plastic surgery (would never trust "free" surgery lol!) and had roped me into doing it because nobody else wanted to. I hustled hard for that VIP to avoid doing this hahah. Anyway, when I got back out I went on stage and asked the DJ to play me Bowie, and tipped him. He didn't. I got mad because there were no other good customers and the guy I had danced for before had hit the withdrawal limit on his card (grrrr!) so I left and went to club #2 and did my Bowie set (yay!) and got tipped on stage but that was about it...blah.
Aurora14
01-15-2016, 10:32 AM
I'm hitting my 'graceful' burnout crash. I made NOTHING last week. Last Wednesday I stayed sober, talked to everyone, I only got 2 dances. Thursday I drank moderately and made negative money. Only positive to that night is that there were 8 dancers and only 21 dances were done the whole night. Friday I got plastered and ended up slapping a couple of customers in the face (One bit my nipple during a dance, the other tripped me in the bar). My BF came in to try and cheer me up, but it didn't work. I got sent home. I called out on Saturday and went to the movies instead.
This week I'm 'making' money. but it is so painfully dead that doing 8 dances actually makes you a top earner... Last night I talked to my manager about cutting my days in half. So now I'll be doing 4 days, every other week. Today is my birthday, so I'm taking the night off and going back in on Saturday. I'm praying to the stripper gods for a miracle...
precise212
01-15-2016, 11:35 AM
I'm hitting my 'graceful' burnout crash. I made NOTHING last week. Last Wednesday I stayed sober, talked to everyone, I only got 2 dances. Thursday I drank moderately and made negative money. Only positive to that night is that there were 8 dancers and only 21 dances were done the whole night. Friday I got plastered and ended up slapping a couple of customers in the face (One bit my nipple during a dance, the other tripped me in the bar). My BF came in to try and cheer me up, but it didn't work. I got sent home. I called out on Saturday and went to the movies instead.
This week I'm 'making' money. but it is so painfully dead that doing 8 dances actually makes you a top earner... Last night I talked to my manager about cutting my days in half. So now I'll be doing 4 days, every other week. Today is my birthday, so I'm taking the night off and going back in on Saturday. I'm praying to the stripper gods for a miracle...
Happy Birthday, Aurora, i am Capricorn too, mine is tomorrow! I just took the whole week off till tonight since my clubs were awfully slow too last week. Wishing you great Saturday, hopefully you ll meet someone who ll shower you with money!
charlie61
01-15-2016, 01:41 PM
Holy fucking deadness. I'd never actually seen girls crying in the dressing room before last night. I hustled and somehow walked with a $100/hour average, which is...crazy. Many of my coworkers had $2 before tipout. I had no regulars to rescue me. Just hustled my ass off from the second I hit the floor. We had so few customers that I only made around $10 total from stage the entire night.
ETA: I wanted to mention that I cleanly LOST a sale last night. I'd actually made the sale - we were chatting, getting ready to go back for dances. And then he was like, you know what, actually, I'm going to pass on this tonight. At first he gave me some line about how he didn't want to go home smelling like my perfume (he was married), but then he confessed that that wasn't why he didn't want the dance. I had been talking him to him about his work - it felt like we were really connecting on that level - but I steered the conversation too far in that direction. He was there to decompress / escape from work, and there I was, rattling on about some article I'd read related to his job.
I let my ego get in the way of keeping things light and sexy. It turned out to be a 'good thing' that I lost that sale since I found someone who wanted to spend far more money on me. But still, that was a bit of a wakeup call! I am not perfect...that is for sure. Slow nights reveal areas of improvement for me.