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vanessa_mtl
06-20-2017, 03:14 PM
yeah, where i'm at now it's 20$ so whatever but in Niagara they want a lot of money and at places like FYEO it's 45$ and the money's not at all consistent... I'm like who wants to pay for the chance to make money, it's not a gamble it's a job.
Layla.00
06-20-2017, 03:42 PM
I paid 115 in Niagara the other night! Craziness!
Selina M
06-20-2017, 04:20 PM
Ugh! My friends were planning to move to Canada and wanted us to go with. I looked into how the clubs work and was totally sold. I wish they took traveling dancers :(
Anyway back on topic, it was super slow last night. I think only 1 girl broke $100 after fees. Ugh.
Some guy and his girlfriend came in the last hour & when I offered him a dance he said no but she'll take one. She declined politely... He threw $40 at me and told me to take care of her. She was not happy. I insisted I didn't want to make her uncomfortable and he goes "I'll give you extra if you do, har har har".
Since we had to go to the back of the club anyway I asked if she just wanted me to kinda pretend & she was like "YES let's do that". I mean I'm glad for the money but I can't stand when guys force dances on their girlfriends who don't wanna be there.
SuperJa
06-20-2017, 07:15 PM
Our power went out so we're sitting here in the dark hoping it comes back on soon. Power company says 11pm. Whole city basically out so we shall see.
I'd go home but i have no idea how long it would take me to get there rn with stoplights out
Update: So we had no power from just before 7pm to just before 11pm. I was kinda bummed about what I made and then the VIP hostess reminded me we were basically open for 3 hours and then I was like 'oh yeah I guess that is okay then".
Got trapped in a convo with the WORST custie though. I don't even know what he was saying cause he was one of those guys that spits when he talks and it was so bad he was basically misting the front of my body. I was trying to politely escape but my brain couldn't come up with anything other than shrieking internally. He like turned to say something to his buddy and I just started running
SuperJa
06-23-2017, 11:57 AM
My custie came in last night at like 630 so thank god i had an early show or he might have sat there for hours before i got in.
When i was on stage later there was a kid on the row that smelled soooooo bad it was assaulting me even when i was like 5 feet away. So of course that was the one who asked for dances and i was like "i guess i can tough it out for a couple songs" but when i got to vip he unexpectedly picks the 40 min package because of course he did.
Literally the worst type of customer. Like polite and friendly, spends money, but hasn't showered since who knows when. You're dancing for them just begging they try something so you can throw them out.
Financially was a good night but if any guy had made the comment that my job was easy like they do sometimes i probably would have straight up decked them
Selina M
06-23-2017, 12:31 PM
Ok I'm over it being slow. Seriously. It's bad enough the manager is asking everyone "How much you make?" and cutting house fees without prompting. Yikes.
I have to be petty for 5 seconds here. Generally I ignore what other girls are doing but...
Anyone else have a dancer at your club that just puts off bad vibes 24/7? I've never encountered this before but there's one at this place. I cringe internally as soon as I see her. Someone else said the same thing last night about the nasty aura she carries.
It doesn't help that I am uber competitive & her close rate is suspiciously high. I've never seen this girl NOT get someone into at least a 30 min VIP, never mind all her regulars. It's like 90% likely she's doing extras; we know she sees some of the guys OTC & she just lays on top of them in VIP (which IME means they're getting a discreet hand job). She actually has one of my old regs that I dumped because he was always trying to put his fingers up my bits; seeing as he's doubled his spending on her, I wonder what THAT means ::)
The shit attitude that comes off in waves + not being able to outearn her because the playing field is unlevel = irritated Selina
Layla.00
06-24-2017, 08:09 AM
Its Pride weekend in Toronto which is a HUUUUGE event. So many fun parties to go to, no one in their right mind wants to hang out indoors in a strip club. But thankfully the stripper gods pulled through for me and I made 1035 working from 7-11:30. I only had three customers though and one was a middle aged executive type who likes to wears ladies panties and needed help figuring out how to talk to his wife about it.
charlie61
06-24-2017, 01:53 PM
Ugh! My friends were planning to move to Canada and wanted us to go with. I looked into how the clubs work and was totally sold. I wish they took traveling dancers :(
Anyway back on topic, it was super slow last night. I think only 1 girl broke $100 after fees. Ugh.
Some guy and his girlfriend came in the last hour & when I offered him a dance he said no but she'll take one. She declined politely... He threw $40 at me and told me to take care of her. She was not happy. I insisted I didn't want to make her uncomfortable and he goes "I'll give you extra if you do, har har har".
Since we had to go to the back of the club anyway I asked if she just wanted me to kinda pretend & she was like "YES let's do that". I mean I'm glad for the money but I can't stand when guys force dances on their girlfriends who don't wanna be there.
I always put so much effort into making sure I'm projecting good energy ITC that when I see women succeeding despite giving off terrible vibes, it makes me feel like all of the energy I've spent on seeming positive counts for nothing. Hate that feeling! Totally relate. Very similar to the feeling of working with women who put zero effort into their appearances, when I refuse to show up unless I'm at my absolute best. And yet they still make some money!! Grrrr!!! <rageface>
SuperJa
06-25-2017, 01:34 PM
Started off last night with a group of 3 on my row asking for dances after. They went for 2 songs but since 3 of them I get paid for 6 which was nice. Then was hustling hard but it was like pulling teeth.
After doing laps and laps around the club I had 2 more dances and I was just like fuck it I am done with these losers, if they want dances they can ask for them, and I sat at the bar for a bit. Probably 10 mins later a guy came up and was like "what are you up to?" "waiting for somebody to get me naked" "oh i'd love to do that" and he bought an hour. So ended up being an okay night despite 90% of the crowd totally sucking.
Leather_Jacket
06-25-2017, 05:35 PM
Worked 7 hours and took home $260 on a Saturday... kind of a disappointment. I suppose things could be worse but I'm starting to realize I really need to change things up. I'm really comfortable at my club, prob too comfortable and I know I should be making more. There's a high likelihood that other clubs near by are turning more of a profit this time of year. I really need to put my big girl panties on and try more clubs. Been at this one since I started dancing 2 years ago and have only tried one other club in my career once... for a single day there. It wasn't bad either, I just never went back. I think I'm going to give them another try and this time, stick around a little longer.
vanessa_mtl
06-25-2017, 07:31 PM
money was meh this week, i felt meh about working but I put in my four days and it all really does add up. my stripper average is still more than twice what my friends are making at their office jobs or public servant jobs. Treated my friends to a spa day today b/c I had to miss one of my friends bachelorettte party b/c it fell on the Formula one race day and the $ was too good to pass up on. We were planning on being there for 3hrs but the gardens were so huge and the day was so beautiful we ended up spending like 6hrs there and my friends bought me dinner and drinks at the spa restaurant so I feel zen, generous and grateful.
Selina M
06-26-2017, 01:56 AM
Could do without rude comments from staff when it's slow... Just cause rooms were sold does not mean it wasn't shitty for a lot of us. There's at least 4 girls who did jack shit tonight. Just the wrong crowd for our looks.
Legz541
06-26-2017, 04:38 AM
Was asked to come in on my day off. Somewhat busy but I was making absolutely nothing. Got drunk (I NEVER do). Had a small breakdown, walked out on my shift and quit. Yes I'm ready to retire from dancing but this was not the right time. I have no other job and I don't want to work at any of the other clubs in my area. Ffffffuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!
Nadia_
06-26-2017, 05:19 AM
Was asked to come in on my day off. Somewhat busy but I was making absolutely nothing. Got drunk (I NEVER do). Had a small breakdown, walked out on my shift and quit. Yes I'm ready to retire from dancing but this was not the right time. I have no other job and I don't want to work at any of the other clubs in my area. Ffffffuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!
Damn bro I did that before too
Solidarity
Nadia_
06-26-2017, 05:36 AM
My last shift a group of dudes doing a bday party we're there
A friend bought the bday boy a dance from me
The little piece of shit wouldn't even look at me when he said "no absolutely not" lol
I was not giving the $20 back I was dancing for someone god damnit
Forced the one who paid to just dance
nobody was happy in that moment stupid as fuck
There is no return policy here lol...maybe if I had actually made money but I was not making money at all so I needed that $20 smh
Been doing shitty as fuck at this certain club as well....you either gotta have an ass as fat as bean bag chair or be a Eastern European/Russian/Ukrainian etc. super hustler type with no actual soul and ability to strong arm the clientele
i keep going back tho cuz I really don't have too many options its a shame ...
goth22
06-27-2017, 08:08 PM
last week for me picked up a bit i was just sooooooooooooooooooooo tired because my period started ugh it made me cramp and my hustle drive was low but still pulled money .. hopefully this week is good
vanessa_mtl
06-28-2017, 12:35 AM
After a few songs the customer goes, wait how long have I been here, I've lost track, then he goes, wait, I have 500 dollars in my wallet, I don't care.
Sirocco
06-28-2017, 10:38 AM
Worked SUMMER night monday shift. I usually enjoy mondays. But not in the summer, not in the summer... It's that shift when you make like a hundred at the beginning, then just walk around for 4 hours questioning your esteem and identity, and then make some more in the last moment when you already heading out to finish the shift. Scraped out like 300$ and feeling blessed.
seashell
06-29-2017, 09:37 PM
I've been trying to quit stripping, but decided to go back today so I could at least get a workout from dancing on stage. I didn't make much money, but the customers were alright, and it was nice to socialize. Camming has made me a bit of a shut-in, and I honestly appreciated the conversation with customers today, lmao. Steered clear of the weirdos and walked away from one guy who was a jerk... and made most of my money with fun, friendly guys. :)
vanessa_mtl
07-01-2017, 10:24 AM
New no grinding rule!!! Guess the management got skeeved out by all the extras happening since the club went contact. There is a god and he loves strippers.
ElleMae
07-03-2017, 05:28 AM
Sold my first champagne room! And to a great guy who I really clicked with and isn't bad looking to boot. I told him I'd be back again tonight, he said he'd try to come back in and see me. I'm hoping he'll become a regular.
Nadia_
07-03-2017, 07:42 PM
Hell yea my last shift I didn't make shit all nite until 3am when a very drunk young rich "business man" (the family business for the spoiled brat lol) from Hong Kong made my whole nite.
Then he offered me $2,000 to go to his hotel to party lol....
I low key almost went but I didn't cuz I have strict rules I live by on seeing Custies otc and I never wanna get burned again lol
SuperJa
07-08-2017, 05:31 PM
Last night was like a winter weeknight, not a summer friday. Quiet but super high quality customers. Vip room girl said the lowest number of dances was 22.
Rest of the week has been fairly slow and very summer tho
Layla.00
07-10-2017, 12:39 AM
After a whole night of lousy customers, tonight was a blessing. No BS, long strings of dances and 1465 dollars richer. Who would expect Sunday to be better than Sat?
ioienvyioi
07-10-2017, 12:53 AM
I quit my home club of 8 years today. I got an opportunity for a new job not dancing. I'm praying it all works out . Bittersweet. On to the next journey
seashell
07-10-2017, 05:28 PM
Slow night, but the guys who were there were really spending! Also, some of the girls were being wild on stage, we had some impromptu girl-on-girl stage action, haha. A very fun Sunday night.
My hair for some reason kept turning into a rat's nest after a few dances... darn extensions lol
Selina M
07-12-2017, 09:29 PM
Currently working 'my last shift'... Or trying to, there's not much going on... But dear other girls, there is NO REASON to just sit next to a guy without talking. None. Especially not for 25 minutes. If he's not interested, move the fuck on. It's basically cockblocking.
LoveyDovey
07-13-2017, 07:24 AM
Cleared 500 easily and bounced. Woohoo!
SuperJa
07-14-2017, 12:05 PM
long post cause updating on the whole week.
Originally I had this week off so I was just gonna freelance and last week I joked to another girl that had it off about how they'll probably need us anyways. Worked Monday night and a customer of mine came in but that was legit all that happened. Worked Wednesday and did okay, girl from last week was on the lineup replacing a girl that got fired.
Thursday I was looking forward to having the night off cause fuck working amateur night and got a call that one of the girls was sick so could I cover her Thurs-Sun so I was like goddamnit but last night was actually pretty decent. Met a great customer earlier on in the night who ended up going for a few and then later on him and his friend got me and another girl for an hour and a half.
Had a good chat with an acquaintance of mine who came in. She's worked lots of clubs but has been out of them doing "other work" for a bit and was floored at how hot the girls are where I'm working now. We chatted about a third girl we used to work with a lot but I haven't in a couple years because we literally prefer the exact opposite clubs. The one I am at now likes to think of itself as more upscale, and they have pretty serious rules and standards and fire at least one girl every week and honestly I like it cause I prefer to work with strong hustlers who are hot.
Also I haven't worn black lipstick in years but got in the mood to try it out last night and I might end up using it a lot. The club is pretty dark and loves red and blacklights so they actually just read as "this girl has lips" when I'm on stage which is the first color that has actually worked for that. I feel like it makes my teeth look white as fuck and it was my smile that allegedly sold the initial dances (off the stage, also) and nobody I talked to made any comments about them so will probably do it more. I also talked with the gm in daylight when I first got there and he didn't say anything which was my major worry.
Anyways I'm hoping the rest of the weekend kicks ass.
Sirocco
07-15-2017, 08:13 AM
About 500 on a day shift. While I could not pull more then 300 on night shifts recently. And oh yeah -a week ago I did 20 $ only profit on my lousy day shift -the worst ever happen to me in my dancing career. But it was after 4th july crap.
SugarCookies
07-15-2017, 10:25 AM
I started dayshift at a small divey club a few days ago. First day I sold a few dances. A quite good looking Chinese business guy that looked around 30/40 years old took me to VIP and unfortunately he tried to finger me and kiss me. Claimed he goes there often and it's what the girls do. Whether he was trying to take advantage of my being new or if he spoke the truth as I've heard this area has been known for extras.... I don't know but I'll keep in mind. Pretty shitty to get groped on the first day...
Second day was sloooowwww. But I feel I did okay. I still sold a dance and finally went on stage and got tipped.
I hope the weekend will be better.
SuperJa
07-15-2017, 11:50 AM
Selling dances last night was like pulling teeth but at least I was managing to get 3 packs not singles. Also 3 is $90 so you basically always end up with a $10 tip by default.
Ended the night with a guy who had never been for dances before who ended up tipping me $70 on $150 of dances so finished off well.
My second last guy was awful, just super negative and being like "idk why you work here when you could go to x city and work, so much more money blah blah" and it's like duuuuuude you don't know what I make, and I know girls that dance in city X and on top of that the club you are claiming is so good hasn't even been open for half a decade lol...
The gm was in again cause a manager is on vacation so he's covering their shifts and he literally made a girl spit her gum out into his hand at the bar (we have a no gum rule) and I would have fucking died honestly.
LoveyDovey
07-16-2017, 07:02 AM
Made 350 on a dayshift. Had a few regulars come in. A few guys made it rain on my stage and when I asked the DJ for a stage sweep (we use a broom to sweep up our money) he pitched a total bitch fit about it and idk why because that is part of his job. Even my regular saw. Well at the end of the day, when I approached him with his tip ( which I reduced significantly due to said bitch fit) he apologized to me and refused to take my money. We hugged it out and I even cried a little because usually I like working with him and it meant a lot that he said he was sorry. So we're good now. Don't know why I got emotional lol. I'm not like this with the girls there bc some of them are just bitches but when the dj and I have issues, it's harder for some reason and idk why.
SugarCookies
07-16-2017, 10:41 AM
First dance I did yesterday was good. Wasn't very grabby and only touched my ok areas. My most annoying interaction so far, an old mexican guy with the "you should be better for this, this isn't a respectable job for a good woman, I know you're here out of desperation because you have/are nothing...". I walked away but he went back looking for me to talk to me again saying the same repetitive shit he already spewed out. If you really think so low of strippers why even go into a strip club. As a mexican girl, I know his type well. "Traditional" mexican men are so hypocritical.
ScarletKitten
07-17-2017, 01:43 AM
Worked for the first time in over a month. I had a couple different guys ask me if I would go home with them. Ummmm, no! I only worked a 6-hour shift, but I am plumb tired. I kept taking breaks after every stage set I did tonight. Goddamn, am I getting old or something? lol. Not working for over a month really fucks with my energy when I finally do return to work. There was this one guy who came up to me on stage and tipped me and said, "There is something about you. I'm not sure what it is, but I like it." hahaha.....that was a strange compliment. But it made me feel like I had this mysterious quality to me or something. Didn't make alot, but I made something, so I'm grateful.
tempest666
07-17-2017, 03:11 AM
GOT season premiere was on tonight. We had no girls so I couldn't wiggle out of my shift. Very exhausting but lucrative night.
Selina M
07-18-2017, 03:21 AM
^ That plus the lightning and rain is probably why we had no customers. Like even the manager was complaining he was bored. I think the top earner made $173 after she paid out the stupid amount of fees.
I was supposed to be off today but went in because I've been in that addicted/money hungry phase. Expected it to be slow though, almost talked myself out of going, but promised myself a reward if I did the extra shift.
... So my $33 profit is going to a dress I've been coveting, a cardigan, and tomorrow's pre-shift latte. Because hey, I still went in!
Grace108
07-18-2017, 09:04 AM
Last night was my first night in a new club. I was in the ex club for almost a year an a half but things were no as used to be. Whee I started there they introduced so many new rules and many top customers (billionaires as I was told) left. When I was hired at ex club was like a dream for me. That club was a legend. The reality was bit different tho, with the years passing the club lost his vibes and his customers although they still benefit of their name.
The rules were strict the first month the stuff was like bit bullying new girls, threaten to fire girl if don't follow the rules. Once I got suspended as I left a customer touch my bam, with my dress on lol! In VIP!
Btw I also saw the most stoning amazing dancers there, some were really ex models. And nice. Very elegant.
I learnt a lot. Was a goo experience.
My body recently couldn't take anymore the late nights and going to sleep at 7.30am.
But the point is that I was and still wait some money from them and one night I approached the owner to ask clarification and as I was in a bad mood he fired me. I was shocked. In 20 seconds he fired me, without even wanting to hear me, just because I asked clarification for my money that I needed! He told me: 'a ne word more and u r out' This is never happened to me yet lol! I really thought I was giving too much for what I was getting there. Although I like upscale clubs.
Sorry I went out of topic here!
So yesterday was a very nice experience, was a shit night but I made few dances anyway. Seams a relaxed place the girls are nice and one already drive me home free as in her way. The house mom is nice no bossy. And the best at 3am I was at home :-)
This club maybe little less prestigious but has excellent reviews. Yesterday the girls were no smoky hot need to say.
I need some good costumer now and possibly some wealthy regulars ;-))
seashell
07-19-2017, 07:39 PM
Just came home from what may have been my last shift ever... and omg. What a day. I don't know what I was doing wrong, but I kept getting rejected again and again. Granted, there were barely any guys in the club, and most were regulars with their fave dancers. I found one sweet guy who promised me VIP but took another girl. And then right before I left, I had this awesome connection with a customer who had met me a year before... but he had already paid for VIP with another girl. Arrrggghhh fml
What really got to me was one guy who blatantly stared at me while I was walking over, so that I would come to him, and then he proceeded to talk about his favorite dancer, and how much better she was than me. What the fuck? Sociopath behavior right there.
Grace108
07-19-2017, 07:52 PM
First decent night at new club. Don't say great, but ok considering that shifts are half of the previous ones, more relax and house few variate in dependency of the earning. So if I don't earn much I don't pay much neither :)
LoveyDovey
07-20-2017, 07:03 AM
Made 145 dollars and left early. One of those days I felt like a slug on stage. Borrrrringgg...
22lligm
07-20-2017, 11:23 AM
The club has been so slow lately I'm so over this summer money! And on top of that girls' attitudes just stink so bad it's like the entire club is a toxic environment. I got to work while my friend had already been there for a few hours and she was just sitting in a chair all pissed off saying how shitty it was and we need to find a new club. I was like uh I'm gonna head to the bathroom I'll see you later... lol. Luckily I had a regular from out of town who I hadn't seen in a few months come in and do a VIP. But then the club cleared out at like 12:30 and was so dead until we closed. Can it be football season now please?
ScarletKitten
07-22-2017, 12:51 AM
Fucking bullshit. I quit.
Sirocco
07-22-2017, 11:43 AM
It's depressing summer. We have tons of desperate girls from other clubs that bring negative vibes. Naturally, customers see the girl crowd around and feel "spoiled" and barely get dances. I worked day shift. It was deplorable. There are a lot of night girls too who driven to work doubles to make money. One of my "regulars" who learned that I don't do certain things and don't meet outside -simply ignored me that shift. So his dances initially with me decreased from 15 to 8 then to 5. Yesrterday it was just "no, thank you". Oh well. Cleared out like 300 on friday day shift, so thanks all Stripper Goddesses.
Selina M
07-23-2017, 03:52 PM
Tried out a new club that one of my former DJs is now a manager at. Hopefully they let him have a fair amount of say in things; he was one that was always trying to get rid of the ghetto crowd (both dudes and dancers) & the guys who don't spend money.
Anyways I need a break from my hard-hustle club sometimes & this place seems very similar to my old home club, so that's nice. I also needed somewhere to meet up with my old regulars that aren't going to drive 50 miles... so I can go out here once a week and meet them.
They have a really really stupid music system where you select your own songs on this 'jukebox' type thing & a pre-recorded DJ voice inserts stage names to announce girls. There's like jack shit for good music & it will automatically pick other shit for you if it runs out of stuff. It sounds cool but it was really irritating by the end of the day. Then you still have to tip out a DJ. Wtf?!
The girls seem a little bitchy... one made a joke about hazing me... I just said "Yeah no"... she stopped talking to me after that ::) Then I was getting the stink-eye all day from other girls.
Another one was one of those older hot mess type dancers and was talking to me all day. When I was leaving she was trying to convince me to carpool with her to this little shithole club up north. I told her fuck no, my friend lives across the street & her husband has worked on the club's cable.. Both he and the whole town say the owner is a drunken, thieving asshole. She starts telling me it's cause girls don't understand his fee system & the town just doesn't want a strip club... whatever.
SugarCookies
07-24-2017, 10:39 AM
Thinking of quitting my stressful vanilla job, and finding a different club as well. I believe the rumors of this club being extras friendly might be true. Had 2 VIPs and both of them were expecting prostitution. This beer belly hairy gross old guy said he'd been coming here for years, laughed at me and said I was ridiculous if I think I'll make money as a "dancing only" stripper and that $100 is a rip off if the guy gets no sex. Second guy "surprised me" by pulling out his dick during a dance.. gross! I think I've seen some dancers rubbing guys out in the open. Eww no, sex with strangers is not my thing.
I don't know of a good quality club that would accept me. I'm too chubby for the "spinner" lovers and people who seek out the stereotypical real life Barbie stripper, nowhere near big enough for the BBW lovers, and I have small boobs so I'm not voluptuous.
SoCalGinger
07-24-2017, 04:05 PM
My last "night", I was working a dayshift in Vegas. It was a porn-star feature night, & a very slow day; I don't think any girls had made more than $20 for the first 4 hours I was there. I jumped up over 400 in the last 2 hours. Saved my night really. I bounced at the end with $286, after all of the VIP, house fees, & tip outs. A regular straight out of my past came in and made my night
~*SwanPrincess*~
07-25-2017, 07:05 PM
Today was kind of rough. I was sitting with a young chubby guy and he asked me a bunch of personal questions and then goes, "So, what time do they kick you out? They kick out all the old girls before night shift, right?"
No motherfucker. I can come and go whenever I want, day or night, thank you very much.
Ugh. Im 31, but most people gues Im 22-25ish. So that started my day out in a not very good way.
It all went downhill from there. Sometimes I love my job so much, and days like today I start to feel like I might be out growing it.
Sirocco
07-25-2017, 07:32 PM
Say -right after they kick out all cheap fat losers from here. LOL.
SuperJa
07-27-2017, 12:03 AM
Tonight was super slow and the customers we did get were awful but the girls i'm with are awesome.
We've started this thing where when somebody gets a terrible customer and complains about it in the dr we yell "but stripping is easy money!" at them and i love it.