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vanessa_mtl
09-29-2017, 09:51 PM
I'm so fucking disgusted. I can't even tell my boyfriend because he's a hypochondriac. He'd die.

Layla.00
09-30-2017, 02:26 PM
Some asshole got out of their damn chair and licked my asshole during the first song. I told the bouncer and he didn't even kick him out, I was like are you gonna let him stay here and do that to another girl? He told me that didn't happen. I said my ass is wet right now. He was like, what do you want me to do wash it for you? You're overreacting. I was like, it's my fucking body. It's not your body. He was like, it's contact, shit happens.

Fuck.. Thats so gross. Im sorry you had to go through that. Also that bouncer is a P.O.S.. like what exactly is your job buddy?

Can you talk to a manager/owner about what happened and why you want to leave? That guy is clearly incompetent at his job.

Layla.00
09-30-2017, 02:42 PM
I went to my usually shitty but close to my house club last night. I got there at 930 .. didnt do anything until 11ish and then ended up making 1040 by 230am.

Thats the most Ive ever made there and it was almost entirely from a dad who was taking his sons and their friends out on a fun night. He kept handing me 100s to dance for each of the guys he had there with him. Hurray!

BarbieNYC
10-01-2017, 09:46 AM
vanessa i am so sorry that happened to you :( take some time off for yourself to process.<3 I absolutely hate bouncers who don't do their job

vanessa_mtl
10-01-2017, 01:13 PM
^^ thanks for the support!
Layla, I wish I could talk to someone but the owner is 88 and senile, and the manager is his son in law who steals from him and does literally nothing else. Unfortunately, I have experienced bouncers who don't care about protecting the girls in every gentlemans club I've ever worked in, including a certain muscle head we both know in a certain Toronto bar telling me a man tried to stick his finger in my ass during the first song was "because he was German, and you should know better than to dance for a German." Dives have better bouncers usually who have your back but then there are all the downsides of working in a dive! A true Catch-22.

Layla.00
10-02-2017, 09:53 AM
^^ thanks for the support!
Layla, I wish I could talk to someone but the owner is 88 and senile, and the manager is his son in law who steals from him and does literally nothing else. Unfortunately, I have experienced bouncers who don't care about protecting the girls in every gentlemans club I've ever worked in, including a certain muscle head we both know in a certain Toronto bar telling me a man tried to stick his finger in my ass during the first song was "because he was German, and you should know better than to dance for a German." Dives have better bouncers usually who have your back but then there are all the downsides of working in a dive! A true Catch-22.

You're so right... I've had bouncers really help me out in dive bars. They're not worried about appearing unprofessional and go above and beyond to help you out. Baby stripper me in Northern Ontario once needed a guy to pay me 900 dollars because I stacked dances all night with one guy who didn't want to pay. The bouncer took his phone, forbade him to leave and threatened to call his wife and mom if he didn't cough up the money.

Anyways, what ended up happening? Did you clean up your locker?

vanessa_mtl
10-02-2017, 01:59 PM
No I didn't hahahahahaha. Now that I'm not angry I'm not officially quitting because I don't want to foreclose any options but I'm working in a different place this weekend. I'm still going in for my shift tonight but it'll be my last in a bit.

vanessa_mtl
10-03-2017, 11:51 AM
Worked the Monday I was on schedule for and made a good stack so at least I'm not leaving with a bad taste in my mouth. Wish I didn't have so much work to do during the day or I'd travel dance.

SugarCookies
10-04-2017, 11:34 AM
I tried out another club around my area last month, working night shift this time. I seem to do well there. Despite it also being a high contact and known for extras club. It can be hard to sell VIPs as a non-extras girl. But the customers here mostly seem to be nicer and respect your choices, and will still buy dances from you." Unlike the other club where most of the guys would get upset and offended about you not breaking the law with them.

Oh, and I inspired one of my customers to go vegan. Thought that was pretty cool. :D

Wondering if I should go in tonight or not. Had a runny nose this past weekend, but also recently quit my vanilla job as it was stressing me out A LOT!

vanillaandpeaches.
10-05-2017, 06:42 AM
i had my very first shift EVER last night and it went better than i thought it would. considering i dont know how to do shit on stage and im not a good hustler at all, i paid a housefee of 40$ and an additional 30$ for accidentally missing half of my stage set, i still made 240$ between 8pm and 2am mostly from giving private dances :) i am v happy because my only goal was to make back the housefee! going back in tomorrow

vanillaandpeaches.
10-05-2017, 07:05 AM
Oh, and I inspired one of my customers to go vegan. Thought that was pretty cool. :D


that is so awesome!!!! you go girl!!!!!!!

LolaCandy
10-05-2017, 04:55 PM
So after reflecting on how i interact with custies, i noticed that the bitchier aggressive girls always make it to Champagne. So sunday I went in and decided ima be a assertive ass bitch with the custies! I've also tried to practice the law of attraction to increase my sales. i met a potential regular who is super into spanish girls. The floor guys call him sunburn sam after an infamous beach trip with him. Anyways... he was into my assertive attitude (#winning) and he took me upstairs. He told me he knew the owners and did international business with them etc. He said he loved me and another girl so much he's coming back to get us both upstairs at the same time. Woop woop. Sucky part is he didnt tip :(. But something is better than nothing! Has anyone ever noticed that the custies that 'know the owners' never tip?

My money counting machine came in from groupon and its such a life saver!! If anyones checked out the money counts thread you know my struggle. Looking foward to going into work next time!!

Layla.00
10-06-2017, 12:51 AM
Did a whack load of dances for a middle aged man named Kevin who used to "date" a girl at the club and kept repeating "Dont worry baby.. I know the game". LOL

LoveyDovey
10-06-2017, 09:24 PM
Made 857, the place sang to me, and coworkers and loved ones brought balloons and flowers and a red velvet cheesecake.. Happy Bday to Me! (It's on Sunday, but just celebrated today.)

vanessa_mtl
10-07-2017, 12:35 AM
^^ yay! My night was good too! Really rough start with a guy who ordered enough shots to fill the table. Demanded I bring two of my coworkers with us into the champagne room with his friend who had two girls already, then he says, whoa, this is gonna be expensive. I'm like, yeah. Then he sends my coworkers away, then he says, actually, I don't want you, I'll just take one of my friends girls. He didn't even want to pay for the table dances he'd already had! What a chump! Everyone after was super generous and I was sort of coy and didn't even have to work to convince anyone which was exactly what I needed after a start like that!!!

LoveyDovey
10-07-2017, 07:05 PM
Eeeeee! Another happy day! Made nearly 600 and worked for only 3 hours. Damn I wish my Bday was every day!!!!

lilylilylily
10-07-2017, 08:15 PM
Happy Birthday!

LoveyDovey
10-08-2017, 12:07 AM
Happy Birthday!

Thank you! :-)

Selina M
10-11-2017, 11:49 AM
Super slow night. Like really bad. But at least there weren't many girls. Got "lucky"... Lucky because I got a half hour at least, not lucky because he seemed normal and sweet but rapidly turned into YICK.

I was essentially stressed out the whole time because he constantly had a hand trying to do something it shouldn't. He kept toeing the line to where I couldn't end the room because he wasn't *technically* breaking any rules, but it was just how constantly he was coming thiiiiiiis close. Most guys try once or twice, get their hand smacked, and knock it off. Nope.

Le sigh.

SuperJa
10-11-2017, 07:53 PM
^^ ugh this is the worst. And nobody wins. They get a shit dance because you are constantly on guard and you're stressed the whole time.

Right up there with stinky guys who get long vips. Like fuuuuuck i can't toss you just for smelling bad. You spend the whole time hopijg they will break a rule so you can end it but they don't.

Arieldances
10-12-2017, 01:32 PM
One of the other dancers got really drunk and sucked on my titty. And it was a night with the creepy bouncer so all around shit night with the staff.

Layla.00
10-13-2017, 12:59 AM
Australian customers are going to be the death of me. I usually avoid them like the plague but today I fucked up thinking a guy was British or something and he did a wonderful job reminding me why I avoid them.

SuperJa
10-13-2017, 04:07 PM
"I don't really do dances, i'd rather pay you 4 or $500 and take you home."
"Nope not interested"

*10 mins later, buddy comes back*
"I'd totally take you for a dance but i just can't cheat on my woman, you know"

Alrighty then...

LoveyDovey
10-13-2017, 08:04 PM
I had a steady flow of regulars, so a really good day. I saw one of the girls sitting with her legs draped over a customer's lap, kissing him! And the guy had THE worst bo ever. Wtf????

whirlerz
10-13-2017, 08:08 PM
OMG, I'd be sooo sick, she must have 0 sense of smell!:yuck:

LoveyDovey
10-14-2017, 07:27 AM
OMG, I'd be sooo sick, she must have 0 sense of smell!:yuck:

Trust me, I nearly asphyxiate when I collect a tip from him. Yes, his BO is that bad! That girl had to have been wasted. Ugh! So gross!!

vanessa_mtl
10-14-2017, 11:33 AM
Danced for a guy who'd been in the hospital for the last five years! Really puts into perspective my version of what a bad night is and my complaints about my body, like shin splints and not being toned enough, lol.

Layla.00
10-14-2017, 12:41 PM
Made a stack in 4.5 hours which is a personal record of mine...

That was my last shift for a month or so .. Sunday I travel to Greece for two weeks and then aim
Going on a road trip to EasternCanada!

Good luck out there stripperweb friends .. I hope the next month is a fun and lucrative one for you all.

lovelydancer
10-14-2017, 12:52 PM
I worked this past Thursday, but ultimately it was the last shift I would work ever again. I was given a significant pay increase and promotion at my vanilla job that day...so I am hanging up the heels and officially retiring. There are parts of dancing I will always like, but ultimately I’m looking forward for what’s next to come.

Selina M
10-17-2017, 09:28 PM
Hate hate hate leading young guys on. Especially really sweet ones. Ruin a nice chill CR with wanting my number and to go out.
I took his in my phone just to not have to bust his bubble right then.

I like how stripper conscience kicks in once every bazillion customers.

Josielilac
10-21-2017, 01:56 AM
I only left with $61 after house fee/tipout for 5.5 hours but I gave two dances to the sweetest guy! He's a single father who hardly has time for himself and decided to pop in the club. He didn't once try to touch me and even apologized for being nervous. It was cute.

LolaCandy
10-22-2017, 02:25 PM
sold 3 30min rooms. Woo hoo. One guy was so into the dirty talk he wanted me to meet him outside the club. I was like yea sure...

Prettyglitter
10-22-2017, 03:21 PM
I woke up this morning feeling bad about dancing, I'm not sure why. Wondering why I'm back doing this when I don't have to. When I missed it I only remembered the good parts but I forgot all he stressful parts. I made my goal but my exhausted. I want to just learn how to sell these champagne rooms because I actually hate doing dances!! Not sure where ty go from here but I appreciate my day job so much more now!

vanillaandpeaches.
10-23-2017, 04:16 AM
last week, a customer who is madly in love with me gave me a bracelet and a diamond ring. i declined the ring, i couldnt take it. he is one of the sweetest guys i have ever met and also ridiculously hot. he kept giving me money all night just for talking to him.
towards the end of my shift, he announced that he wouldnt be coming back to the club as he was starting to get jealous when i'd dance for other guys and he was falling in love with me and really, really, reaaaally wanted to meet me outside the club.
im going to miss him ::)

SnuffleUffleGrass
10-25-2017, 08:52 AM
Frickin hilarious...a super drunk young man from rural Minnesota tried telling me while I was on stage that I had a flat ass. I actually laughed at all this because I've been aware of my flat ass since I was 19....my chest has kept me well fed all my life so the ass isn't a huge concern. Just lol. Drunk people say the weirdest things...

SugarCookies
10-25-2017, 11:55 AM
The last 2 weeks were good for me. Walked home with a good amount and gained some new regulars. But last night completely sucked. The place was pretty much empty until around 10 when a few people started coming in. The other girls were complaining about not doing so well, but at least they were still selling dances and VIPs. I didn't even sell one single dance at all. The regulars who said they planned to see me this week were busy yesterday and couldn't make it. The only person who tipped me on stage only put out ONE dollar. The other girls always say that the last week of the month and first week of the following month are always the slowest. Though I hope tonight I can make something.

charlie61
10-25-2017, 09:22 PM
I want to start working again. Soon. The search for a club begins..

vanessa_mtl
10-26-2017, 11:08 AM
When you get a CR with the first guy you talk to and he just wants to sit next to you and show you pictures of his dogs, boats, and cars and is juts grateful that you're "such a beautiful person" he keeps you til the lights come on. Le sigh. Last night I found my strip club prince charming.

trustfundkiller
10-26-2017, 04:16 PM
Hate hate hate leading young guys on. Especially really sweet ones. Ruin a nice chill CR with wanting my number and to go out.
I took his in my phone just to not have to bust his bubble right then.

I like how stripper conscience kicks in once every bazillion customers.
About a year ago I remember going to the ATM with a 21-yr-old boy who was absolutely wasted. Caught a glimpse at the screen and noticed he only had a little above $100 in his savings account which he withdrew for dances. I actually felt bad for a minute because I doubt that was just one account of many, that was probably his one and only bank account.

~*SwanPrincess*~
10-26-2017, 07:14 PM
Today was fun. It was one of those days where $ just came so easy, and everyone was making $.

This guy I met last week who lives 1 1/2 hours away, came back in today to see me today. I could be paranoid, but something seems "off" about this situation. He's one of the hottest guys I have ever seen, is generous, and has a really cool personality. He never tries to touch me aside from rubbing my back, and says he just really wants to kiss me. Something about his EXTREME sweetness is almost suspicious to me. I cant help but wonder if he's law enforcement. He totally looks like a cop but says he's in "security."

Leica
10-26-2017, 08:19 PM
Dipped my toe in the dancing waters again for the first time since January. Was apprehensive about going back. So I was nervous but a friend I worked with at a previous club encouraged me to check it out. It’s a little over 2 hours from home and traffic was insane. I’m supposed to get there st 7pm but life n the weather were not cooperating. It’s poyring and then I find out the World Series game is on! But I liked the management and staff. I danced for 2 hours and left with $350. One stage set (during which I looked like a newborn giraffe finding its legs), a few dances and one hellish 15 min CR with a guy who kept in surging on extras even thou I was very clear before we even went in that was not gonna happen. I ended up just walking out. I really liked the club thou. Chill management (waived the house fee for me since I got there so late and traveled far), the other dancers were as well. Only downsides are the small dressing room (but not planning on spending a ton of time in there anyways). However, we get to keep all our dance money and we can set our own prices for VIPs after the club gets their cut. Just gotta figure out how to balance this with my demanding vanilla job.

Leica
10-26-2017, 08:22 PM
When you get a CR with the first guy you talk to and he just wants to sit next to you and show you pictures of his dogs, boats, and cars and is juts grateful that you're "such a beautiful person" he keeps you til the lights come on. Le sigh. Last night I found my strip club prince charming.

Nothing better than this.

vanessa_mtl
10-27-2017, 12:44 AM
Tonight I broke up two girls in the change room who had stepped to over some insignificant shit. It's not glamorous and stress free every night is it?

Girl Anachronism
10-27-2017, 10:28 AM
two separate bachelor parties got all butthurt that i didn't come over to their table after my stage set, and they couldn't find me until later on in the night. sorry dude i was busy dancing for a local who was tipping me 20's and getting dance after dance. you probably only want two dances and you're from another state so i'll never see you again. idgaf.

the best is when they say shit like "well you didn't come over after stage like you said, so now my bro is having fun with another girl sorry you should have come by earlier it's your loss"

omg chad no.. i'm sorry.. i really fucked up this time plz forgive me and let me dance for your bro :'(

SugarCookies
10-28-2017, 01:13 AM
I wonder what's going on this time. This whole week there have been so many dancers showing up to work but not enough clients coming in. Maybe girls are trying to make money to take Halloween off, or perhaps for the other upcoming holidays.. Btw, I love Halloween but I hate Thanksgiving/Christmas/New Years time. It feels crowded and hectic (I mean at the shops, in the streets, don't know how it's like at the clubs yet since I'm still a newbie stripper).

My days since Tuesday have been better. Most of my money made coming from stage tips. Another thing I find odd currently as usually a lot of the custies around here are cheap when it comes to stage tipping, but lately some good tippers have been coming in.

SuperJa
10-28-2017, 06:37 AM
^^ it's super common for end of the month to be full of girls as many don't plan ahead for bills/rent and have to scramble for the last week of the month.

LoveyDovey
10-28-2017, 02:58 PM
It's so slow. My regular doesn't show up for another 2 hours. Please Universe, send money!

BarbieNYC
11-01-2017, 10:32 PM
Danced for a guy whose friend kept paying for our dances because his friend owes him money. Lol so everytime his friend would go get dances we would go too. It was so funny

It felt good to go back to work but man i need to hit the gym again. Thank goodness for that lighting LOL

Also i had to work with the owner's wife who is a bartender but kept going up on stage to dance and giving dances to customers. Not only that she gives really dirty dances and the security has to look away because she is the owner's wife smh so customers see that and expect more from us. I thought i left bartenders acting like strippers back in new york. Good news is she was doing double dances with another girl who is charging way less so when a customer gave her less money and argued that the other girl was doing cheaper dances, I could see her get mad. They fire girls for undercutting here and that girl was a bitch so I'm sure the owner's wife made sure to tell the owner. Karma came back both ways to those 2.

LexyNYC
11-03-2017, 12:55 AM
Tonight was uncharacteristically slow. A guy called me down off the stage to basically ask me why I wasn't cheerful when I hadn't made a dollar yet. He then gave me a whopping 3 dollars and told me to come around the bar. I went up to him, said hello, he asked me if I was "good", I said yeah and started dancing on him. Not 60 seconds later, I'm 3 dollars richer and realize my butt feels extra warm all of a sudden and I turn around to see that his dick is poking out. I regret not slapping him. I just bolted away in disgust and had a bouncer kick him out.

I've been dancing for 7 years and have had guys pull their dicks out during lap dances but I've always seen it first and ended the dance immediately without it ever touching me. Tonight was a first. This job has totally changed my life (for the worse) and in hopes of turning things around, I'm 7 days sober today. I don't understand how I'm (or anyone) is supposed to stay sober when my job involves getting sexually assaulted. I thought I was depressed because I'm an alcoholic but now I'm thinking I'm depressed because my job gives me good reason to be. Who wouldn't be depressed when going to work means risking having a stranger rub his dick on me and the rest of the night is spent moving perverts' hands away from between my legs?

LoveyDovey
11-03-2017, 01:22 AM
^^ I am so sorry that happened to you. Wtf is wrong with people? I don't care if it's a strip club. It doesn't give anyone the right to behave that way. You did the right thing by having the doorman handle it.