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BarbieNYC
11-04-2017, 01:57 AM
Lexy im so sorry :/ that's so traumatizing and awful. I like to think there are special places in hell for people like that
Tonight brought out the wackos and crazies and not the good kind that spend money. A bunch of bartering and hassle I wasn't down for. And a lot of timewasters. I'd like to think tomorrow's shift will be better.smh
random stripper
11-04-2017, 02:37 AM
Yeah I am a newbie, but I feel the same way. My night got ruined for multiple reasons I wouldn't get into on here, but I hate how I am supposed to be ok with idiots trying to feel my ass for free or smacking it when I'm walking around or standing and talking to someone. Like what the fuck? If I was anything other than a stripper these guys would get sexual harrassment charges but instead I am supposed to put up with this bullshit like I don't even have rights as a human? The bouncers and management don't care at all.
And yeah the guys trying to get between my legs during lapdances constantly is getting really fucking old. It isn't just the customers that make this shit awful sometimes though. It's also some of the staff/dancers. Damn. I'm new and already burnt out, but my bullshit tolerance is extremely low and the bullshit I put up with doing this work is just insane.
LoveyDovey
11-04-2017, 05:48 PM
Lexy im so sorry :/ that's so traumatizing and awful. I like to think there are special places in hell for people like that
Tonight brought out the wackos and crazies and not the good kind that spend money. A bunch of bartering and hassle I wasn't down for. And a lot of timewasters. I'd like to think tomorrow's shift will be better.smh
Omg today I managed to scrape together 100 dollars during the day bc all these guys wanted extras but I told them I was a clean dancer so they each only bought 1 dance bc I wasn't dirty enough. Wtf? I get v suspicious of guys like these.
Girl Anachronism
11-04-2017, 10:17 PM
Tonight was uncharacteristically slow. A guy called me down off the stage to basically ask me why I wasn't cheerful when I hadn't made a dollar yet. He then gave me a whopping 3 dollars and told me to come around the bar. I went up to him, said hello, he asked me if I was "good", I said yeah and started dancing on him. Not 60 seconds later, I'm 3 dollars richer and realize my butt feels extra warm all of a sudden and I turn around to see that his dick is poking out. I regret not slapping him. I just bolted away in disgust and had a bouncer kick him out.
I've been dancing for 7 years and have had guys pull their dicks out during lap dances but I've always seen it first and ended the dance immediately without it ever touching me. Tonight was a first. This job has totally changed my life (for the worse) and in hopes of turning things around, I'm 7 days sober today. I don't understand how I'm (or anyone) is supposed to stay sober when my job involves getting sexually assaulted. I thought I was depressed because I'm an alcoholic but now I'm thinking I'm depressed because my job gives me good reason to be. Who wouldn't be depressed when going to work means risking having a stranger rub his dick on me and the rest of the night is spent moving perverts' hands away from between my legs?
oh my god i'm SO sorry that happened!!! UGH. what the fuck is wrong with people?!
so strange, i actually came here to vent about my shift last night because the same thing happened to me! we had done about four dances and when i turn around after that "warm", not the usual pants-boner feeling, this fucker has CUT A HOLE in his damn SHORTS where the dick is. he immediately adjusted really quickly and tried to claim his shorts had just happened to rip there. i cussed him out in front of the whole dance couch and demanded $200.. then ran back to the dressing room to collect myself. by the time i came back out 10min later he was gone, of course. i am so mad at myself for not getting him kicked out/demanding more money. i can't believe my dumb ass threw out such a low number because he was super panicked and paid it with no hesitation. i just acted on the spot.. ugh. security is pretty non-existent at that club anyways. and i feel you with the sober thing because i've recently cut down on drinking at work and shit like this makes me so grateful bc i'm not sure i would have noticed that right away had i been drunk, which sickens me. but after that i ended up having a few drinks.
i feel so disgusted i'm just taking tonight off and feel really guilty for it bc it's saturday and i should be making money right now
Leica
11-05-2017, 09:01 AM
i feel so disgusted i'm just taking tonight off and feel really guilty for it bc it's saturday and i should be making money right now
I can relate to the guilty feeling when I feel like I’m missing out on money but your mental health is way more important for your well being and your long term financial success. I’m sorry you had to deal with such a shifty person. Hope you do some self care.
Leica
11-05-2017, 09:14 AM
So I worked Friday at my the last club I used to work at . For some reason I was so damn anxious that it took me ages to get dressed and downstairs. Apparently Fridays are poppin at this club but it seems this Friday missed the memo. I mostly spent it celebrating my return with my dancer girlfriends. Didn’t seem like many of the girls made money. I did exactly 2 dances. I definitely didn’t put in my best striper effort but even my top earner hustler friend left with $100.
Saturday I got in late as well ( I’m trying hard to stop doing this) and only danced for two guys. However, I converted both of those into VIPs. The first one I forgot to ask for a tip. The second one I asked right away. So I gotta remember to ask for a tip on everything. The other hustle mistake I made was that I had two other custies approach me multiple times for dances but I was headed to do dances/VIP w/another custy. By the time I was done it was towards the end so I didn’t have time to take advantage of the custies that expressed interest. I feel like I could’ve done a better job of figuring out a way to get money out of all of them. I also need to get over my stage fright and just go up. So I left with $650 from the 2 custies after house fees but I definitely left money there. I could easily see it being a $1K+ night if I had gotten there earlier.
LoveyDovey
11-05-2017, 11:06 AM
Omg today I managed to scrape together 100 dollars during the day bc all these guys wanted extras but I told them I was a clean dancer so they each only bought 1 dance bc I wasn't dirty enough. Wtf? I get v suspicious of guys like these.
So I took a break from this awful shift and worked the whole night. Made about 400 thank God. 300 of it came from one of my spendy regulars.I was so tired but I'm glad I stayed. After I got my 2nd wind I got one of those "money buzzes" that comes after you quickly make a few hundred. I feel all tingly and sparkly and then suddenly everyone wants dances. Woohoo!
Selina M
11-05-2017, 12:58 PM
Super slow for a Sat. Tons of girls. Blah blah.
I went home before I got into a petty fight. Idk what it was but a lot of girls were just being inconsiderate bitches. This new ratchet looking girl kept knocking into me while I was eating in the DR and later I found her nasty bottoms on top of my bag... I threw that shit on the dirtiest corner of the floor.
Another girl who is nice but always high on pills would not move when it was my turn for the first half of the stage. When there's 2 girls up, you stay on your side of this line in the marbling. She wouldn't move and then halfway through, she's back on my side grinding on a customer. I tried to mount the pole without kicking her dumb ass and caught my heel in my stockings, which ripped a huge hole.
Fucking annoying. I don't do stupid drama but I was not in the mood for those girls.
carmen_b
11-06-2017, 08:42 AM
If they touch , make them pay or threaten to get them thrown out.
Yeah I am a newbie, but I feel the same way. My night got ruined for multiple reasons I wouldn't get into on here, but I hate how I am supposed to be ok with idiots trying to feel my ass for free or smacking it when I'm walking around or standing and talking to someone. Like what the fuck? If I was anything other than a stripper these guys would get sexual harrassment charges but instead I am supposed to put up with this bullshit like I don't even have rights as a human? The bouncers and management don't care at all.
And yeah the guys trying to get between my legs during lapdances constantly is getting really fucking old. It isn't just the customers that make this shit awful sometimes though. It's also some of the staff/dancers. Damn. I'm new and already burnt out, but my bullshit tolerance is extremely low and the bullshit I put up with doing this work is just insane.
random stripper
11-06-2017, 04:04 PM
If they touch , make them pay or threaten to get them thrown out.
Something I just posted a whole thread about lmao. This club will NOT throw them out. I do demand them to pay. They do not pay most times and when they do it is just 1 fucking dollar. Bouncers here and management says this happens all the time when u bring it up and they have no intention to throw any of these guys out honestly. I think the mgmt/staff is part of the problem, but also the other girls allow this shit- not all, but a lot of them do.
mahogany_xo
11-06-2017, 07:56 PM
My last shift .. :smiley_bo
I went to work today, got there to do dayshift (3:00 p.m. 'til 9:00 p.m.), was on the floor at 3:55 p.m. It was just me and one other girl there. Our first customer didn't come in until close to 4:30 p.m. He comes in and tips the stage set $10. While I'm on stage, another customer comes in and asks can I dance for him after my stage set, I tell him "yea, that's fine." I wasn't too eager to dance for this customer because he likes to talk entirely too much and when he finally is ready to dance you, he only gives you $10-$20 (our dances are $5/song) So I approach him and he immediately wants me to sit in his lap. He likes for me to sit in his lap because he likes to grind my ass, for free, while I'm sitting on it. >:( I sat there for like 3-4 songs and asked him if he wanted a dance.. he said no, he didn't like the song that was playing. So I told him I had to excuse myself because I needed to get a paper towel because I was hot and sweating. I got up and went and sat with another customer that had walked through the door.
It was now a little after 5:00 and I was sitting, conversing with this customer and I like this customer because he has money. He will sit and talk with you forever but he will dance you and not waste your time. The last time I danced for him, he bought $50 worth of dances from me. (that's 10 songs) So again it is a little after 5:00 p.m. My customer and I had only been talking for a good 10 minutes and then BOOM the whole club becomes pitch black, there's a power outage. >:( Some idiot near by hit a pole. My customer literally sat with me in the darkness in hopes that the lights will come back on. Sat there for at least an hour before my manager came to the conclusion that we were going to close for the day because he wasn't sure if the lights were going to come back on pretty soon. Y'all I was so pissed! I only made $10 today and I am broke asf >:(
I'm really starting to hate the club I work out. I've heard from a dancer that previously worked there that the club is cursed and I believe it. I only work day shift but night shift isn't any better if you're not a veteran. I've been dancing for 1 1/2 years at this club, only been dancing for 1 1/2 years period, and this club makes me hate this industry. I've rarely make more than $200 on a shift at this club! Once I did make $500, but that was that ONE day. I chose this club because I thought it would be a good club to get a feel for the industry at and now I'm starting to hate it. In Atlanta you have to buy a permit once a year to dance at a club, I don't know why I renewed my permit for this club! I was trying to be loyal I think. But loyalty isn't paying my bills! I can't remember the last time I was able to afford to pay to get my nails done. This club is such trash! I try so hard to be positive in hopes that $500 day will come again but sheeesshh I'm losing all respect and hope for this club!
LoveyDovey
11-06-2017, 08:31 PM
^^^ Girl I know how you feel. Tired of my club hiring out of shape overweight 50 year olds who cause drama , blame others and run customers away. I swear, the older they are, the more immature they act. The club has become trash and I am tired of these nasty hags and their crap.
Made 50 dollars today. I think it's time to ditch this sinking ship.
SugarCookies
11-06-2017, 08:40 PM
Think it's time to find a different club. So fed up with all the extras seeking customers and all the guys who think it's okay to lick/bite/shove fingers. I signed up to be a stripper (aka dancer), not to fuck customers.
Wondering if I should try the topless club nearby. Same owner as the current club I'm at, but I hear extras seeking custies complain that it's too low mileage for their liking, and dancers seem to make good money there. As a non-drinker I'm a little nervous working around alcohol but I guess it's worth a try.
LoveyDovey
11-06-2017, 09:06 PM
Think it's time to find a different club. So fed up with all the extras seeking customers and all the guys who think it's okay to lick/bite/shove fingers. I signed up to be a stripper (aka dancer), not to fuck customers.
Wondering if I should try the topless club nearby. Same owner as the current club I'm at, but I hear extras seeking custies complain that it's too low mileage for their liking, and dancers seem to make good money there. As a non-drinker I'm a little nervous working around alcohol but I guess it's worth a try.
Going through the same exact thing. It is worth a try. I don't drink either but I still make money.
juliette_
11-07-2017, 11:18 AM
Sooo last night I went downstairs to the dressing room at closing and started taking dollar bills out of my bodysuit outfit (where my last customer had been shoving them to access my pussy area/boobs, smh) and laying them out on the counter to flatten them so I could cash out. A very drunk coworker who I just met earlier that night comes over to get her makeup bag, which was next to where I was organizing my money. All of a sudden she starts yelling about how "that's [her] money and [her] stuff." I, being sober, new to the club, and conflict averse assured her politely that in fact, the bills I had just been removing from my literal fucking person were indeed mine. She seemed to get distracted for a moment, so I figured she'd probably been joking. Then, as I'm removing more bills from my own wristlet, she starts SCREAMING about how I stole her money again. It was extremely uncomfortable because it's generally a very sweet, low-drama working environment. Everyone was just like 'ok, there's a security camera literally right above us, go check the footage if you think she stole your money,' to which I added my full support, because, like, I didn't steal her money. Her friend (who was very sweet and apologetic to me the entire time) had to check the security footage because she was too drunk to function... and too drunk to remember that she'd already cashed in her singles and dance chips for large bills and then hid her money deep in the recesses of her makeup bag. Of course, she easily made more than twice what I had, lmfao. Her friend had to dig through all her shit and find the cash for her. Then she started crying about how she just needs to make money to feed her kid and started yelling about all her family drama... idk if the momentary trauma of having "lost" her money set her off or if she was embarrassed and trying to make up for the fact that she baselessly accused me of being a thief in front of a room full of women I barely know and our manager. I don't harbor any resentment towards her (we all have our nights!) but wow I really did not enjoy that experience.
ElleMae
11-08-2017, 03:14 AM
Tonight was a self esteem killer if there ever was one. Made $117. I rarely make over $150 on weeknights, and this past Saturday I didn't even make $200.
My last shift sucked because I was the only girl (of about 6) to not do any private dances. Here's the kicker: Every guy I sold a couch dance to immediately went for a private dance with another girl. I always bring up the private dances before I bring up couch dances, and during/after each couch dance I always try to upsell to private. Every guy said no to me then went right for a private dance with the next girl. I don't know what I'm doing wrong or what is wrong with me. This already happens to me often enough (guy turns me down for VIP, then goes with another girl later), but tonight was slow and I'm the only girl who didn't make any money. I was also the only black dancer on shift tonight, and I'm feeling more and more like that's the issue. I just feel like guys won't shell out the big bucks for a black dancer even if they're attracted to us, but they'll happily do it for a white or Asian dancer because we're not worth it in their eyes. So many customers come in and tell me how sexy and wonderful I am until I mention the price for a private dance, then I'm too expensive. I already ask for less than most of the other dancers because otherwise I wouldn't be able to sell any rooms at all because hardly anyone is ever willing to pay the full price for me. 15 minutes in my club is 90 to the house and suggested 90 to the dancer, I tell customers I'll accept a minimum of 60. House fees are high in my club so you're broke if you don't sell at least one room. I don't have any regulars after almost 5 months. It's starting to affect my attitude too. Lately I feel like "why even go bother to talk to that guy? he's just going to say no to a dance like everyone else you've asked." One of the girls who made more money than me started a week ago, has never danced before, and already has regulars and is doing VIP and VIP every night. She's very pretty and white.
I'm just feeling really discouraged anymore. I've invested in outfits, hair, I've read the advice and put it to use but I'm just not doing well at all. Maybe it's time to find a new club, or maybe black girls just can't do well in upscale clubs. I really don't know.
Girl Anachronism
11-09-2017, 09:47 AM
yet another frustrating shift. spent a looong time talking to a guy who clearly had money, and he really liked me it seemed. kept telling me how "real" and cool i am and how good my attitude is... no talk of extras or sexual stuff. he's rubbing my back and seems pretty normal. but later, finally, after he turns down another girl i get him to agree to 30min in VIP. and suddenly he becomes an animal trying to grab at my pussy and get inside my panties, grope and hump me, roughly insisting that he cum.. in a very angry tone. if i try to move in a way he doesn't like, i get a lecture about how i should know what feels good and that my dance is "doing nothing" while he violently tries to scrape my skin with his rough pants!! wtf? if he had just told me up front that's what he expected i wouldn't have taken his money and would have just politely excused myself! he ended up cussing me out and walking out after 10min. what a fucking asshole but at least i got paid up front. and later ended up getting paid for a full hour even though it was 30min before closing and the guys mostly wanted to drink and hang and talk. they were awesome company and good looking, too.. so it ended on a good note.
but damn. i'm sick of tipping out at this club because i have no security or help with anything. i've worked in a lot of clubs and this place has the most drama and the least helpful staff of anywhere i've ever been. /rant
Leica
11-11-2017, 01:11 PM
Posting late cuz was too exhausted this last week from my jump back into the stripping game. Worked last Sunday and Monday. I really enjoyed both nights. Not too many girls, not too many customers but the ones that were there spent money. Left with about $600 each night. And then promptly paid a nearly $900 bill
after I deposited the cash. Hurt but felt good to be able to pay it.
SuperJa
11-11-2017, 01:48 PM
^^
Those are my favorite kinda nights.
Did a stage only club for a couple nights this week. Wednesday was basically empty but the couple guys that did tip meant i made over $500 that night just going on stage 3 times.
Thursday sucked though lol.
Leica
11-11-2017, 02:22 PM
^^
Those are my favorite kinda nights.
Did a stage only club for a couple nights this week. Wednesday was basically empty but the couple guys that did tip meant i made over $500 that night just going on stage 3 times.
Thursday sucked though lol.
Damnnnn woman, that’s a nice haul for 3X on stage. And this is why I need to conquer my fear of stage.
SugarCookies
11-11-2017, 03:29 PM
Another slow week, but with some pretty nice customers. Not too many guys seeking extras this week either. Extras girls were complaining about how they were making less money because no guy they approached wanted their services. One customer last night was cool to talk to, plus he gave me a very large tip just to sit and chat with him for the last hour of the night.
Sticking around for another week at this club and then moving on.
vanessa_mtl
11-19-2017, 02:35 PM
Worked four shifts this week surpassed my goal for every night but Wednesday... Friday had a customer whose wife is dying celebrating his fortieth birthday with his friend... he was like my wife was so beautiful if I showed you a picture you wouldn't believe she'd be married to a guy like me but she's had kidney failure for so long and you're so healthy. Too real! I love that I can share my health and beauty with customers to earn a living but this was heartbreaking.
juliette_
11-21-2017, 03:49 AM
Club was deeeeeaaaaaad but I pulled decent money relatively speaking ($250 - $130 in $10 lap dances and the rest was tips). Also met a charming young man who shoots documentary footage in high risk conflict zones (and had the insta to prove it). Apparently the night before he heads out on a work trip, he hits up our club. Supposedly he keeps a lap dance token from the club on his person while he’s filming for luck, or something.
Also, finally read what it says on our custom water bottles. ;D
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Lady Xplicit18
11-24-2017, 05:43 PM
Haven't danced in almost 4 years from having a long term SD. Ready to get back into the stripper world this upcoming week..
SuperJa
11-28-2017, 04:43 PM
So last night was meh financially but interesting.
My first customer just wanted to chat in the back for 3 songs, because i was "such a good listener" but in reality he had a massive, youtube worthy cyst on the side of his neck and all i was really capable of was nodding and being like "oh yeah," while screaming internally
It reminded me of a guy i danced for years ago who basically had a tooth rotting oit of his head like yoooo how did you get to this point and also this is not the place you should be rn
A guy on the canadian Olympic gymnastics team told me i was in unreal shape and to "keep doing whatever you're doing" re workouts cause it is "clearly working" which was awesome.
I took a pretty drunk kid for the 3 last songs of the night and he only had $55 of the $60 and he was so confused i.e. "i know i took out $60" but he had forgotten about paying the fee to get back into the vip. So i was like whatever by the time we go to the atm and shit over $5 it really isn't worth my time, i just want to get out of here and eat. He was like "i'm sure i havr something though" and kept looking through his wallet so i ended up with $55 and a free large 3 topping pizza coupon lmao
SnuffleUffleGrass
11-28-2017, 10:25 PM
Club was deeeeeaaaaaad but I pulled decent money relatively speaking ($250 - $130 in $10 lap dances and the rest was tips). Also met a charming young man who shoots documentary footage in high risk conflict zones (and had the insta to prove it). Apparently the night before he heads out on a work trip, he hits up our club. Supposedly he keeps a lap dance token from the club on his person while he’s filming for luck, or something.
Also, finally read what it says on our custom water bottles. ;D
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That's really cool. I met one of my exes right before he shipped out to Iraq with the Marines. I'm glad he did that for himself in case his trip to war ended badly.
vanessa_mtl
11-28-2017, 11:36 PM
and kept looking through his wallet so i ended up with $55 and a free large 3 topping pizza coupon lmao
LOL!!!
Reminds me the time a guy owed me 40$. Insisted it was the atm not his card and left his winter coat as collateral. He never came back so I gave his coat to a very happy homeless man!
crystalize
11-29-2017, 05:06 PM
man i love day shift! how times can change, i used to hate day shift so much... started dayshift at an old club of mine and customers are so polite. and i work sober with no issues and can relax at home after. win win win.
carmen_b
11-29-2017, 08:40 PM
Aw, SuperJa, I kind of love that he gave you that pizza coupon to make it right !
vanessa_mtl
11-30-2017, 01:25 AM
I hate working class guys from working class towns because they will flat out ask during the first song, "can I suck on your titties?"
I love them tho because when I say, "nah babe, that's how you get meningitis from the last guy who took me to the VIP, is if I let people do that." thé dude will laugh and then tonight he kept me for an hour anyway.
crystalize
11-30-2017, 06:18 PM
I hate working class guys from working class towns because they will flat out ask during the first song, "can I suck on your titties?"
I love them tho because when I say, "nah babe, that's how you get meningitis from the last guy who took me to the VIP, is if I let people do that." thé dude will laugh and then tonight he kept me for an hour anyway.
at least they ask lol! i just get the open fish mouth.
had a guy try to touch my pussy during a friggin table dance today. the audacity...
vanessa_mtl
11-30-2017, 07:11 PM
^^^ yes, definitely. More love than hate.
Layla.00
11-30-2017, 11:21 PM
A customer told me he saw me and my dog at the beach months ago ... in a town that's at least two hours from me and three hours from him. And then he said that he was upset I lied about having a boyfriend because he saw me with him at the beach. And described what I was wearing that day. Creeped me out so bad.
Also I was 80 bucks short from my 1000 goal and that annoys the fuck out of me. I spent almost three hours casing that eighty bucks.
Selina M
12-01-2017, 02:03 AM
God I hate club customers sometimes. My friend and I worked on this asshole for way too long cause there were hardly any decent customers at the time. We got aggressive in the end and he finally takes us to the host... When they told him the price, that he already knew, for both of us, he instantly changed his mind. He took my friend because she was doing the physical side of the hustle and he had been insinuating he was into not-allowed-activities.
Granted I made just as much money staying on the floor without some jackass trying to put fingers in holes, but it was still aggravating.
vanessa_mtl
12-01-2017, 10:18 AM
A customer told me he saw me and my dog at the beach months ago ... in a town that's at least two hours from me and three hours from him. And then he said that he was upset I lied about having a boyfriend because he saw me with him at the beach. And described what I was wearing that day. Creeped me out so bad.
Also I was 80 bucks short from my 1000 goal and that annoys the fuck out of me. I spent almost three hours casing that eighty bucks.
I'm sorry that is so creepy. Our job is hard enough without adding a creep dimension.
Girl Anachronism
12-01-2017, 10:45 AM
it's been almost two weeks since i worked at the club and i'm kinda nervous. my last shift was a shit-show. i went to my dive club and got a vip with a dude who was pretty cool, i saw him take out the $440 in dance dollars at the bar then we went back and got a bottle of champagne. it was dead and he didn't even want dances, just to hang mostly, so i hung out with him for a bit longer than the hour. i made it clear that we were over the time limit. so after that, i guess the next time i went to the DR/bathroom i took too long and he assumed we were done.... because he just left. i ran around the club like a chicken with it's head cut off trying to find him but he was gone! thank the stripper gods he had put his number in my phone. i quickly un-blocked it (lol) and called him a million times. he was just drunk and didn't realize he still had the funny money in his pocket. he actually had the uber come back to the club so he could drop off my money.
i usually have a pretty good instinct about who i should get paid up front by.. this guy was definitely chill and not trying to rip me off. but that whole situation should have been avoided. this is why i should not drink at work. i don't believe in always getting paid up front because for some guys that can throw off the mood and make him want to spend less. i almost never get ripped off doing it this way.. but i need to be more careful. after the time is up i need to get the money if he doesn't want to renew. that was really fucking dumb of me.
Girl Anachronism
12-02-2017, 12:57 PM
went back to the dive again and fights kept breaking out ALL NIGHT. like, "bad girls club" status. some of the girls there are just so fucked up and wild. one girl came up to me after the lights went on and tried to convince me to give her $200 cash for her 200 funny money because she needed cash now for rent/bills stuff. i thought about it and said ok, but you know they take 10 percent right, so i won't give you the full amount. she tried to push me to give her the cash saying that she just cashed some other ones out, and they don't take ten percent, it's fine etc.
in my head i was like uhhh yes they do.. and if you JUST cashed some out why are you even asking me this.. we both know they take 10% and don't cash them out this late. i might have helped you out but not if you're gonna be like that. and i doubt it's really for rent anyways like why can't you just come back tomorrow afternoon and get the cash? they open early? i've done it lots of times.
vanessa_mtl
12-03-2017, 12:28 PM
^^^ my club also had some crazy drama last night. These girls were fighting over a dirty look situation from last Saturday! They were arguing about how they should hold one another to a higher standard because one went to the others birthday, and their men's know each other, they're about that life, they're family, and then of course they realize their in the DR and we're all changing to go home and they're like let's not tell these girls all our business lets go outside.... my coworker was giving me a ride home and more than a block away we could still hear them screaming! It sure was a full moon.
aliwonderland
12-05-2017, 04:00 PM
I went in last night after a three week break. I needed the time off because I had a lingering virus, but nonetheless I'd been berating myself for not marching my ass into the club sooner than that.
Last night just about everyone I spoke to--custy and dancer alike--told me there's a creepy customer who's drugged 11 (!!) dancers in the past couple weeks. He was there last night, and management was watching him like a hawk to try to catch him in the act.
Holy shit... maybe it was lucky I got sick and took some time off D:
In money terms, I only had two guys want LDs but they both bought a few so I had a solid night.
vanessa_mtl
12-05-2017, 07:16 PM
^^why has no one called the police? What's watching him going to do? That's crazy. Ask your boss if they can identify the man why law enforcement has not been called.
aliwonderland
12-05-2017, 08:12 PM
^^why has no one called the police? What's watching him going to do? That's crazy. Ask your boss if they can identify the man why law enforcement has not been called.
I have absolutely no idea. None of it made sense to me, and it seemed like something fishy was going on... he and his gaggle of cohorts were in and out of the VIP area (my club doesn't do special LDs prices or champagne rooms or anything--it's just the part of the club for paying members only) and no one did anything about it even though he wasn't VIP.
I would think at the VERY LEAST that they wouldn't allow him back at the club, although they seriously need to call the cops on his ass. I'd be raising holy hell if I got roofied and knew who'd done it.
Layla.00
12-06-2017, 02:13 AM
Things have been rough. This is supposed to be the busy time of year but I've made less in twenty hours over two days than what I usually make in one six hour day shift.
I don't know what happened to my stripper mojo :(
I think this weekend I will work days at my upscale club and hit up a dive or a mid tier club at night. Wish me luck.
vanessa_mtl
12-06-2017, 10:17 AM
^^last night was oddly slow for me too. I think Christmas parties should bring clients in later in the week and things will pick up over the weekend. Regular people feel generous at Christmas so a mid-tier or dive is a great idea.
LoveyDovey
12-06-2017, 09:28 PM
A boring 82 dollar day. Woo hoo! :-/
Bree69
12-06-2017, 10:27 PM
Outed?
Selina M
12-06-2017, 10:44 PM
It's been really slow here too. Monday & Tuesday combined I made slightly less than what I would make on 1 decent night. There were a lot of girls who couldn't pay house or tip out even.
Thank God for the owner of another local club. He hangs out at my club, never ever buys dances or even tips any girls on stage, but several times the bouncers have seen him pull $100-$250 out in all $1s and rain it on me... which they then come ask me "How did you get money out of him?!" Psh I'm not telling!
random stripper
12-08-2017, 02:07 AM
Today was pretty slow for a Thursday. Here's what pissed me off:
1. A guy was offering to buy another guy a lapdance from me, and said dude declined... like seriously wtf?? First time this has ever happened to me.
2. After I get done with my shift i overhear guys saying "that bitch wanted 25 for a lapdance." Hello i don't even know if he was referring to me but that is the price this club sets. Just because some girls cut that price down a lot doesn't mean I am going to. These guys are so god damn cheap and mentally deficient. This was definitely a regulars kinda night ie *some* girls that been there years did well everyone else made bs.
3. Oh and some dude I tried to hustle that didn't spend a penny on me came to me as I was scraping frost off my car and said hi and asked if I remember him. Yes I did, but I said "No." I really don't feel he deserves even an explanation of why I don't give a fuck about him. I'm really short with stupid people which is just about every guy in there tonight. Also it is fucking creepy u come up to me in the parking lot like dude just don't. I don't feel like getting murdered in a strip club parking lot by some creepy fuck.
4. Some girl got all pissy at me in the dressing room for something I did some other day. I got on a guy maybe a few minutes after she left... After she was sitting by him at least an hour. I understand this is a smaller city, but I've had a brief stint in Vegas, and I can honestly say a lot worse cut-throating was done to me there so I don't even know what she was on about. When a guy is free of a girl he is free and fair game for me to approach.
5.Some guy I talked to earlier came up to me pulled out his wallet and showed me his cash (it was only like $50 tops) and said he woulda spent on me if I sat there and chatted with him a while and was there for him. Um hello I ain't gonna chat all night for bs money!!!!! That is some passive aggressive shit too. You didn't wanna spend on me ok, find some girl to spend on. Don't you bother me with your pathetic attempts at running game on me.
There was more bs too but I realize my post is already long lol! It seems like I deal with the most bullshit whenever the money is slow. It is like the guys watch the other guys sitting back and not spending or spending extremely pathetic measely amounts. I feel like the cheap attracts more cheap???? And the truly fucked in the head really love the slow nights for trying to run game or bs you or try and cut your prices blah blah blah.
Don't get me wrong. I really love this job when I make what is considered decent money here (I take day of the week into consideration of course). I love this job when there are rich old white men in the club because they almost always spend on me.
I feel like I post too much of the negative stuff on here and I don't really post when I have a great or excellent day, so I will *try* to be a little more mindful in the future. Sorry I just needed a place to vent and not feel like I am insane.
Layla.00
12-08-2017, 10:00 AM
Things are getting better and Christmas parties are coming in finally but now I'm working doubles to make up for the shit start of the week.
Made 850 during my 2-8 day shift and then did a two hour room during my 11-2am shift. Left with 1650 which is decent but I'm exhausted and it really doesn't make up for the fact that Monday and Tuesday were the worst days of my career.
Girl Anachronism
12-09-2017, 09:42 AM
ugh. there's one manager at work who i've always gotten along with and thought was nice, but other girls seem to have issues with him. last night was the first time i've seen him be kind of rude.
i did dances for some guy who was really grabby. after EVERY song i told him we were going into another and it was 20, 40, 60. after 3 i got vibes that he didn't quite understand what was going on so i asked him to pay. he scooped up some ones he threw off the floor and gave them to me. i told him it wasn't enough and he tried to claim he gave me 20's already. after a few minutes the dj was like "you're on stage right now". so i asked the manager not to let the guy leave because he owed me money.
soon the manager came up to me on stage and gave me $20 and told me the guy paid me the rest already and i must have dropped it. i said no, i know he didn't. he got annoyed with me and sarcastically said something along the lines of "what am i supposed to do kick his ass over $20".
it's like we can't win sometimes? if i stack more dances than that, it's my fault for stacking dances. and if it's only a few then they act like it's no big deal and to get over it.
LoveyDovey
12-09-2017, 06:01 PM
Made 559 on a dayshift, 400 was from one guy. Good day!