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Amira702
08-16-2019, 05:29 AM
Moved to Phoenix from Vegas last year and I would just go up to Vegas for work a couple times a month. Finally decided to bite the bullet and try the "busiest" club here in PHX, sold a VIP dance as soon as I got on the floor and 3 songs in the dude pulls his fricking dick out. I have been dancing since 2004, I have danced all over the US and this was my first time ever having that happen to me. I am like mildly traumatized.
StellaRose
08-16-2019, 07:46 AM
^ Lol. At least he did that in VIP. In Texas at some clubs, some of these guys are shameless and will pull it out for a floor dance. I just smile and shimmy in front of him, and say “well that’s nice. Ready for the dance now?”
He gets the hint and puts it away. It’s like dealing with a cat proudly giving you a dead animal.
AChildOfBoredom
08-16-2019, 11:14 PM
Two strippers got into a fight. So, another stripper and I decided to end our night a little early, as we live close to each other and decided to carpool tonight. Once that fight broke out between those two, there was no returning to the right atmosphere. No we’re riding back in her car, and I’m legit scared, because this girl is a horrible driver.
IvoryDoll
08-18-2019, 07:10 AM
Another horrible shift, which sucks because I had an amazing last week and yesterday. Left the club with $60. And my manager once again tried to give me shit and make me feel bad. The bouncer was sitting next to him as I cashed out and didn’t say a word about me sitting and talking with dudes all night, but why would he right
It was slow because our competitor club is always hosting pornstars to feature dance there, don’t know if I should risk tomorrow
mz_melanie048
08-20-2019, 05:40 AM
Out of all my years on and off dancing, I decided to try a Monday shift last night from 630-1230 with very low expectations due to it being Monday (and I’ve always avoided Monday/Tuesday due to fear of not making shit- there’s like 30+ girls on weeek day nights at my club). At first I was sitting on $50 profit for what felt like forever until I sat with some coked out dude as a last resort (unbeknownst to me initially) and he ended up getting 8 dances & tipped on top of it and made my night. I guess good things can happen on a Monday.
carmen_b
08-23-2019, 12:11 PM
Bleh!
Two day trip where I think I made something like :
Roughly $530 collected from customers ( not bad ) but then take costs out ....
- $80 in required tip outs
- $130 travel costs
= $320 in profit .
I was in the club about 7p.m. - Midnight each day.
I know .... partly my fault for not sticking in to the later hours.
It wasn't really worth going out of town for. I managed to NOT see any massage guys during the day time hours somehow.
If I would have had at least one massage guy each day I would have at least brought back over $500.
I wonder if this club / place is taking a bad turn. This girl came into the dressing room ( she is gorgeous and I always assumed she made a TON ) ...... she said that last weekend she got NO dances and tonight she hadn't either. ? ! ? wtf ....
On a positive note .... I was BURNT AF on my day job . It is not looking so bad now .
This place is only 3 hours from home ( my closest and most frequent club ) .
If / when I go back ( haven't decided for next weekend ) , I will find a way to pre-market massage offerings a few days ahead .
Spicecake
08-24-2019, 11:13 AM
I had the best night I’ve had all summer. I treated myself to a new outfit and some bomb new shoes and was in a great mood. I got to work early and had guys asking me for dances. One guy I hit it off with from a bachelor party made his friends get dances ( I freaking love easy customers). I spent most of the night dancing for this hot guy that was 6’6 that used to play basketball. I was in such a good mood after making more than my “ high goal” I decided to stay and shamelessly ask for tips towards my next trip. I ended up meeting this attractive scruffy old man who tipped me 200 because he liked my eyes and paid me to sit in the lap dance room with him. I should’ve pressed for a champagne room but I was ready to go.
StellaRose
08-30-2019, 06:37 PM
My last shift was a shitshow for the first five hours making nada. Finally made something towards the end, but before that...
A customer was just chilling in the main room at his table jacking off. This is the second time this month this has happened. Why...just why?
AChildOfBoredom
08-31-2019, 08:42 AM
Women as customers are the worst.
random stripper
08-31-2019, 11:41 PM
Women as customers are the worst.
Idk, most of my experiences with female customers have been positive. I rarely have a bad experience w/ women as customers. Guys on the other hand... Granted there are way more male customers so whatever.
Winged Dinghy
09-02-2019, 07:23 AM
I thought it was going to suck because August has been rough at my club, but I had a great shift yesterday. One of those effortless shifts where people are approaching and asking you for dances. A guy asked to buy my thigh-high boots, and since it was the end of my shift, I said yes. Hilarity ensued when he tried to walk in them.
AChildOfBoredom
09-02-2019, 01:04 PM
Idk, most of my experiences with female customers have been positive. I rarely have a bad experience w/ women as customers. Guys on the other hand... Granted there are way more male customers so whatever.
My experience with them is that they’re a mixed bag. For the most part, they’re not problematic, but when they are, they go all out with it and are more apt to take an “anything goes” mindset.
random stripper
09-02-2019, 06:23 PM
My experience with them is that they’re a mixed bag. For the most part, they’re not problematic, but when they are, they go all out with it and are more apt to take an “anything goes” mindset.
Yeah, I'm kinda a negative mindset complaining type of person, but even I have to acknowledge I've lost count of how many good experiences I have had with female customers in the club. I can literally only count on 1 hand the number of bad experiences with female customers soo... I mean I think that is saying something considering I am one to bitch and moan sometimes even on nights where I bank more than most. I bitch and moan about this that that. I barely need an excuse. So I just felt the need to pop in and defend these customers :) Sorry, but I would hate if some girl that is lurking/thinking of being a stripper automatically assumes the majority of customers of x type are bad. That is just ridiculous. Maybe they are bad in some areas?? But I have danced in quite a few regions, and still not having this multitude of bad experiences with women as customers. I will say that generally they don't promote a lot of club spending, but idk if ya got nothing better to do I will take the female who is tipping well on stage or whose husband is buying her dances from me over sitting and sulking in a corner. Or if it is busy, and I am being flagged down by couples wanting to give me money I'll take it. Shit, whatever.
I don't even know girls who dance in real life who fucking hate female customers as much as girls on here seem to on this website. Actually, a lot of shit on this website does not line up with what I have found in real life. Ok, gonna shut my mouth now on this tangent.
This is coming from a total tomboy in real life who has a much easier time making and keeping male friends than female friends.
I don't know about you. But it seems to me like with a lot of girls who have bad experiences with females or certain races on a regular basis that maybe it isn't what the customers are, but the stripper is giving off some vibe. You get what you give sometimes in life, ok. I know when I give off a stank attitude that sometimes customers give that shit right back.
Also, generally if I notice someone is a problem customer from afar, I don't even get near them. I see so many girls getting pissy about shit that is so obvious, and easily avoidable...
AChildOfBoredom
09-03-2019, 05:35 PM
Yeah, I'm kinda a negative mindset complaining type of person, but even I have to acknowledge I've lost count of how many good experiences I have had with female customers in the club. I can literally only count on 1 hand the number of bad experiences with female customers soo... I mean I think that is saying something considering I am one to bitch and moan sometimes even on nights where I bank more than most. I bitch and moan about this that that. I barely need an excuse. So I just felt the need to pop in and defend these customers :) Sorry, but I would hate if some girl that is lurking/thinking of being a stripper automatically assumes the majority of customers of x type are bad. That is just ridiculous. Maybe they are bad in some areas?? But I have danced in quite a few regions, and still not having this multitude of bad experiences with women as customers. I will say that generally they don't promote a lot of club spending, but idk if ya got nothing better to do I will take the female who is tipping well on stage or whose husband is buying her dances from me over sitting and sulking in a corner. Or if it is busy, and I am being flagged down by couples wanting to give me money I'll take it. Shit, whatever.
I don't even know girls who dance in real life who fucking hate female customers as much as girls on here seem to on this website. Actually, a lot of shit on this website does not line up with what I have found in real life. Ok, gonna shut my mouth now on this tangent.
This is coming from a total tomboy in real life who has a much easier time making and keeping male friends than female friends.
I don't know about you. But it seems to me like with a lot of girls who have bad experiences with females or certain races on a regular basis that maybe it isn't what the customers are, but the stripper is giving off some vibe. You get what you give sometimes in life, ok. I know when I give off a stank attitude that sometimes customers give that shit right back.
Also, generally if I notice someone is a problem customer from afar, I don't even get near them. I see so many girls getting pissy about shit that is so obvious, and easily avoidable...
I’m not really too keen on the implications made here. Re: vibe, the only real difference with me vs. other dancers is that I don’t ignore them. It’s not uncommon to see women in the club, but it’s not the norm for them to be interested in a one-on-one dance. So a lot of the dancers ignore them and I just figure there’s no harm in greeting them. In this particular instance, I was able to tell right away she was in the military and we talked about our experiences with that briefly. I don’t know what vibe you think I’m giving off… unless there’s some sort of Da Vinci Code you can explain, that whole interaction was pretty standard fare, so if you’re somehow reading that as a “yeah, just go ahead and grope me and ignore me when I tell you to stop” vibe or message, you’re gonna have to explain that one to me, because I’m not seeing it. When the vast majority of male customers I deal with seem to get the message regarding boundaries, so I don’t feel like I’m doing anything which implies I’m saying it with a wink and a nudge.
Nor are all problem customers outwardly obvious, especially when you’re seeing them for the first time. Unless you’d expect me to believe you’ve either had none or else the very thing you cite slipped by you before. I think we both know better.
Thinking back on it, maybe it’s just ratio which makes them stand out. One or two out of… I don’t know? 50? More?… I’m not really keeping statistics… guys who decide they want to test my (and the bouncer’s) patience is a bit more diluted than one out of a substantially smaller number of women.
Honestly, I think it’s more a matter of other dancers letting them take liberties and some become complacent with that. She said that she used to go there three years ago, then got stationed elsewhere. So I’m pretty sure I’m not the first she’s gotten handsy with.
random stripper
09-03-2019, 10:26 PM
Ok yeah, you're clearly not doing anything for her to randomly grope you. I wasn't sure what you were bitching about. I thought you just were upset some dumb customer bitch came in and said something hurtful or was generally being obnoxious to you.
Nobody ever really invites anyone to touch them in ways that are violating, and that isn't what I meant.
I very rarely have women randomly try and touch me whatever ways. They almost always ask me first which I cannot say the same for men. And if I tell a girl not to do something they never ever try that shit with me. Guys try that shit more imo like even when I tell them what not to do or move their hands to the sides when I start a dance. Idk what it is tbh. I think guys are disgusting and fucking rapey honestly. A lot of female customers that result in money for me act almost scared of me or some shit or just act like I'm a normal person (ie not a stripper).
Idk I am super all business when I am at work or I sit by myself or hide if I don't feel like hustling. I also find I don't really get fucked with as much as most girls do either by customers/other dancers, and that has been true at most clubs I've been. I bitch a lot, but when I hear the shit other girls go through at the same clubs- I guess I have to be more grateful.
That is a good point of a lot of dancers being more lenient with women at clubs! But even so when I used to work in a higher contact area- I still think the women were more obedient with my enforcing my limits. Whereas some guys seem to have short term memory loss or some shit and forget every 3 minutes that you just told them no touching.
AChildOfBoredom
09-04-2019, 04:16 PM
Yeah, usually they do. It’s just the ones who don’t go all out with it. But, at least it was only my breasts… the absolute worst place to touch me and which will make me go ballistic - the scar on the side of my neck. I wield sharp elbows when that happens. And it was a woman likewise who found that out the hard way.
You are right that they will normally - not always - ask before when it comes to anything beyond what you already said was permissible. Wish she would’ve done the same.
My biggest pet peeve when it comes to women and touching… what happened that night wasn’t the norm (and she apparently has a history of this from what I’m told)… what is quite normal is when it comes to touching my back. I can somewhat forgive guys for not already being aware of this, but less so with woman - flat hands. No fingertips. I am way too ticklish for that.
random stripper
09-05-2019, 09:11 PM
Sounds like she wasn't trained on how to act right and doesn't understand consent.
I'm sorry you went through that. That would have fucking annoyed me as well.
Selina M
09-05-2019, 11:09 PM
Moved to Phoenix from Vegas last year and I would just go up to Vegas for work a couple times a month. Finally decided to bite the bullet and try the "busiest" club here in PHX, sold a VIP dance as soon as I got on the floor and 3 songs in the dude pulls his fricking dick out. I have been dancing since 2004, I have danced all over the US and this was my first time ever having that happen to me. I am like mildly traumatized.
Oh goodness. I just saw this. I can guess which club this happened at... Sorry you had to see that! I hope the bouncers weren't assholes if you ended the dance early.
carmen_b
09-06-2019, 09:01 AM
Day 1 : Mid range goal achieved !
Not that the club helped in any way ( dead !).
I had pre-advertised. Otherwise would have been awful !!
Day 2 : It was hot as balls in the club. Super akward and disappointing environment .
My own advertising has saved this trip. If I would have relied on the club customers AT ALL I would be so severely disappointed right now.
Overall ............ just counted the money for two days in town ........ I'd be thrilled if it took one and feel ok about it with two days.
Not a waste of time by any means. If it were any less I'd be bummed.
Ladycaxe
09-07-2019, 05:38 AM
Went pretty well. I had to adjust to some changes moving home clubs ;P But I'm now feeling more comfortable at my new club. I'm finding there are somethings I actually better! <3 XO
IvoryDoll
09-07-2019, 05:47 AM
My night was going well but my VIP money got stolen :(
We use card to track our dances and i forgot to grab my card because he wanted to go to the atm so I ran down with him, his friends dragged him out right when we got to the atm and I suddenly remembered my card and I flew back to the vip and my card was snatched :( oh well now i know not to trust ANY BITCH and tomorrow I am making up for that shit!!
xxxthighhighs
09-09-2019, 07:37 PM
So I work in a very very small dive bar turned strip club type place (I’m hoping to go to a bigger club this week), there were only four girls here on Saturday night. I made great money considering the size of the club and what I usually make! I had a few dances, mostly made stage money tho. During one of my stage sets, a woman sat on her husbands lap and TOOK HER TOP OFF. AT MY STAGE. Her whole titties were OUT! I literally didn’t even know how to react Her and her husband were tipping really well but she was seriously wasted, I’m pretty sure they left after that haha
carmen_b
09-09-2019, 09:31 PM
^ Haha. My club is very laid back and ladies can pull their tits out here . As long as the $$$ is flowing my way, let em ! Haha.
xxxthighhighs
09-12-2019, 01:39 PM
I almost didn’t go in yesterday. I ended up going in because I bought a new lipstick and I wanted to see if it would fit in with my stripper persona lol (i’ve been leaning pretty heavily into a goth look for some reason? I dont dress anything like that irl haha). It ended up being great, especially for a Wednesday! I left with $250 which is really good for my club on a weeknight. A few guys said that the rules were causing us to not make as much as we should (like, no touching and we have to cover our butt on the floor) and that the bouncers watch the customers too closely but like whatever. I’d rather lose a few dollars and feel safe than the other way around
Spicecake
09-16-2019, 09:02 PM
I think it’s time to find a new club. I made my goal last weekend but the hostess had the Dj skip me on stage so I missed out on easy stage money and I’m pissed. She’s retaliating because I didn’t tip her but I literally tried to track her down to tip her wth why am I chasing after you to give you my hard earned money. I’m so over the favoritism and bullshit I just hate auditioning so much.
random stripper
09-17-2019, 02:10 AM
^ Word, fuck these stupid club politics omg.
AChildOfBoredom
09-17-2019, 01:44 PM
New DJ, and we’re not off to a good start. I had a couple regs who really go for the high energy stage sets with lots of pole work and heavy music, and they pay to see that. Fucking dickhead put on some pop song without so much as a warning and refused to play what I asked for. And we got into it at the end of the night. I refused to tip him anything more than the absolute minimum, and he huffed and puffed, he knew that wasn’t the right percentage of what I made, etc. I asked him why he thinks I should tip so much for doing such a subpar job. Just play the fucking music I ask you to. That’s literally all you have to do. The other DJ said he’d have the “come to Jesus” talk with him, as apparently I’m not the only one this new guy pissed off.
Selina M
09-19-2019, 10:25 PM
My paranoia is really starting to fuck with my money.
I had to leave my home club in July due to LE presence. Normally there is zilch to worry about. The place was regarded as 'lame' by most hobbyists because of how expensive it is with very few extras offered... All of a sudden we have undercover officers coming in & a girl who ended up in court for her license was tipped off by a lawyer that the place was going to be raided eventually. Apparently the club is being sued for over-serving a customer, who knows if that's why they are harassing us though. Half the house girls bailed including myself.
I've been at two other clubs since & am constantly terrified that any guy who acts weird is an undercover cop. Yesterday I left after getting freaked out upon dancing for some super handsy Mexican guy - I heard that high pitched electronic sound that hearing aids make, relaxed upon recognizing it, but then also felt some kind of pen-shaped object under his shirt. I panicked that it was a microphone :banghead: He didn't tip or get dances from anyone else and didn't ask for any extras/drugs/etc. See, I'm still overthinking it (someone please tell me I'm crazy).
I am *this* close to retiring though and cannot have any run-ins with the law. Agh. There is no way to dance here and make any decent money without breaking some technical rule of some kind. I hate this shit!
lurkingtitties
09-20-2019, 05:48 AM
^^No that’s legit with the field you’re trying to transition into, you gotta keep your record sparkling clean. How long do you have left?
Selina M
09-20-2019, 01:43 PM
^^No that’s legit with the field you’re trying to transition into, you gotta keep your record sparkling clean. How long do you have left?
About 10 months.
I'm sure there are people reading this who will be like "ThEn WhY wErE yOu A sTrIpPeR aT aLl?!" It seemed to be a different 'political climate' when I started. If you kept your own nose clean you were fairly safe, any undercovers were looking for legit prostitution and drugs. It's only the last 2 years that they have ramped up the harassment and enforcement of rules like taking tips in your costume, any form of touching, etc. I left the main city when that started and was at basically the cleanest club in the state (which was also under a different jurisdiction). Now it feels like nowhere is safe.
I really wanted to go in tonight but I'm grappling with being afraid to. The owner of this club swears they have never had ANY trouble with police at all but we all know how much club staff actually have your best interests at heart ::)
lightningfarron
09-21-2019, 04:38 AM
I'm in a robe club but I have preferred dresses lately as I like how they look. Bought a cute 2 piece dress off Amazon. Nothing super revealing but it is sexy, like something you'd buy off Fashion Nova, think date night at a fancy bar/nightclub. Anyway I wore it one day and was fine. Day 2 manager comes up to me while talking to a customer and told me I had to put a robe on. Apparently I wasn't covered enough even though a few other girls' robes were completely sheer and you could see everything through them, lol but anyways. I went to the back and pulled up the skirt to the top so it looked like a one piece mini dress, then I tied the strings from the top around my waist to make it more fitting. That was totally fine 😂😂
I'm honestly not even mad about it anymore cuz I like it better as a one piece dress.
somechick99
09-21-2019, 10:31 PM
I got to work and was rejected by the first 5 customers in a row I talked to, so I already wasn't in the best mood (it was still early though so I still had high hopes). I walk up to the bar to order a redbull and start chatting with this guy next to me. He started asking me about VIP prices etc so I explained them, and then he told me to "work for it" and "convince him to buy the room." I wasn't in the mood to deal with his shit, so I said "nah" and turned back to the bar waiting for my drink. He then continued harassing me (I didn't just want to walk away since I already bought the redbull and was waiting for change) going on and on about how I need to convince him. I told him he was being rude and he replied "chicks like being bullied a little bit." Keep in mind this loser was fat, ugly and clearly broke as well. I ignored him and he goes "If you quit pouting over there I'll give you $20 for a dance" like I was desperate and he was doing me a favor. I continued ignoring him which I guess pissed him off because he then turns to a random guy and loudly asks him to rate me on a scale of one to ten, thinking he would get under my nerves. Right as the bartender finally hands me my change, the guy he asked eyes me and says "ten" and takes me to VIP for a half hour.
LOL I'm guessing he was not expecting that outcome. Too funny.
Winged Dinghy
09-22-2019, 08:17 AM
I got to work and was rejected by the first 5 customers in a row I talked to
This was my last shift, but without the amazing turnaround. Get itttttt
Adrienne7
09-22-2019, 12:45 PM
Fuuuuck Portland and fuck entitled customers. We all left with under $80 on a Saturday evening shift. Completely unacceptable given the club was NOT dead. It's just that there are no consequences for these assholes to sit around at the bar, steal glances, and not tip. So jaded right now. I was so resentful of everyone there I could not even muster up the energy to feign interest in a conversation, let alone selling dances. The burnout is so real right now. Think it's time for a break.
Selina M
09-22-2019, 02:08 PM
I continued ignoring him which I guess pissed him off because he then turns to a random guy and loudly asks him to rate me on a scale of one to ten, thinking he would get under my nerves. Right as the bartender finally hands me my change, the guy he asked eyes me and says "ten" and takes me to VIP for a half hour.
That. Is. Amazing. Hahahahaha. I am delighted for you, that had to have been soooo satisfying and hilarious.
I looooove when they think the role reversal of us approaching them means we are going to put up with their BS and fawn over them. Idiots.
charlie61
09-22-2019, 08:25 PM
Out of all my years on and off dancing, I decided to try a Monday shift last night from 630-1230 with very low expectations due to it being Monday (and I’ve always avoided Monday/Tuesday due to fear of not making shit- there’s like 30+ girls on weeek day nights at my club). At first I was sitting on $50 profit for what felt like forever until I sat with some coked out dude as a last resort (unbeknownst to me initially) and he ended up getting 8 dances & tipped on top of it and made my night. I guess good things can happen on a Monday.
Awesome! Yes, Mondays can be very hit and miss...i do find that many dancers get very lazy on weekdays, so if any money walks in the door (usually businessmen between 6-8pm), you can clean up with a fairly quick hustle!
random stripper
09-23-2019, 04:22 PM
Awesome! Yes, Mondays can be very hit and miss...i do find that many dancers get very lazy on weekdays, so if any money walks in the door (usually businessmen between 6-8pm), you can clean up with a fairly quick hustle!
That's true I fucking hate weekdays normally and am very lazy. Haha
AChildOfBoredom
09-29-2019, 01:34 PM
One of the dancers last night was making a bunch of pop culture references from the 2000s, and I absolutely was not getting them. So she asked why, and I told her we just didn’t have TV in our home when I was growing up. So she asked what kind of family I came from, and I didn’t really feel like explaining it to her, so I just told her we were in Aum Shinrikyo, and figured she’d be confused and not pursue it any further. No, she had Siri look it up, and now I think she’s convinced I was a part of a Japanese death cult.
Winged Dinghy
10-07-2019, 07:16 AM
Low point of the shift: unknowingly sold a lap dance to a drunk guy who had pissed his khaki shorts. Luckily a fellow dancer stopped me before the dance to tell me!
High point: a couple of 30-year-old dudes who had been out all night gambling and doing molly came in. They'd won $8K at the casino and were very generous, AND it turned out we shared the same hometown and went to the same small Southern Baptist school.
High point 2: the Saints won! SACK CITY.
My shift average just keeps going up at this club. My look, hustle, attitude and stage set are really starting to come together. I'm at an age where most women are transitioning out of dancing (almost 40), but I actually feel like the next decade could be my best one yet.
lurkingtitties
10-07-2019, 10:22 AM
My shift average just keeps going up at this club. My look, hustle, attitude and stage set are really starting to come together. I'm at an age where most women are transitioning out of dancing (almost 40), but I actually feel like the next decade could be my best one yet.
Amazing!
Ladycaxe
10-08-2019, 07:49 AM
it's been a while since someone managed to skip out on their lap dance tab but here we are !! I'm pissed and annoyed at myself, it was only 2 dances man, but if I see him ever again im smacking the shit out of him!!
Ladycaxe
10-08-2019, 07:50 AM
I think it’s time to find a new club. I made my goal last weekend but the hostess had the Dj skip me on stage so I missed out on easy stage money and I’m pissed. She’s retaliating because I didn’t tip her but I literally tried to track her down to tip her wth why am I chasing after you to give you my hard earned money. I’m so over the favoritism and bullshit I just hate auditioning so much.
oh my gosh this!! I h8 auditioning but its about that time. :grouphug:
Ifyouseekamy
10-13-2019, 04:25 AM
Let’s start with the positive. Most the guys that said no were really respectful and nice about it. The negatives is most of the guys were broke cheapskates. I had to work really hard to make just a little.
I need to start talking to the girls after the game! I gotta go in with my game face on and keep it on until the end of the game. I get side tracked or involved in someone else’s drama. It brings my vibes down.
Winged Dinghy
10-14-2019, 06:19 AM
Been reading these LOA threads and listening to motivational stripper podcasts/Youtubes, so I set a money goal for my shift, and wouldn't you know, I hit it down to the exact dollar. Crazy how that stuff works.
Also, I schmoozed a lesbian couple and they didn't buy a dance but they did give me an edible.
SugarCookies
10-18-2019, 10:12 PM
I had a lucky day where I made $700 off one guy alone. But this month has sucked at my main club that I'm considering trying out a different club that I hear is hiring dancers. Slow days full of customers that don't want dances are no good.
Yvonne.
10-19-2019, 06:19 AM
Yesterday we had shit Friday. It was not busy like normally and very cheap guys. I made around 400$, but it was so hard... So much rejection just to finally get a few dances...
One of the managers hates me for I don't know which reason and it stresses me out. I am a quiet one, never making problems, not fighting with other dancers, just doing my work the best I can. But this manager has something against me. He never gives me shows, even though everyone said that I make the best shows on stage (customers and other dancers) and there are other non-friendly details. I feel like he uses passive aggression in order for me to leave the club or make less money, idk what he wants. I am just sad and unmotivated...
Ifyouseekamy
10-21-2019, 01:47 AM
Yesterday we had shit Friday. It was not busy like normally and very cheap guys. I made around 400$, but it was so hard... So much rejection just to finally get a few dances...
One of the managers hates me for I don't know which reason and it stresses me out. I am a quiet one, never making problems, not fighting with other dancers, just doing my work the best I can. But this manager has something against me. He never gives me shows, even though everyone said that I make the best shows on stage (customers and other dancers) and there are other non-friendly details. I feel like he uses passive aggression in order for me to leave the club or make less money, idk what he wants. I am just sad and unmotivated...
Just ignore him and make your money. Don’t let him fuck your money up. I say that with empathy and understanding. I know truly how someone like that can FUCK your vibe up. We gotta detach and just make our money. I totally feel you. I swear I’m busting my ass to make about the same. I can go to school part time debt free. So just keep pushing. Fuck, I’m exhausted!!!
I didn’t have a good night, but I made a little bit for a little bit of effort. I HATE being negative! I found myself complaining. I’m only human though. I feel like I need to bring some earbuds and when I get to the point where I want to kick a guy In the balls I need to listen to meditations or some law of attraction stuff. I need to remember to talk to the girls AFTER the game. I have to focus on making money while I’m at work. It’s just so hard when there’s the same cheapskates there, but no excuses. I need to ask every guy and if I can’t get a dance I need to find something productive to do with my time other than complain or chit chat. I did okay. I think sometimes I don’t push VIP because I don’t want to come off as pushy, but that’s my job. I need to start pushing for VIP and tips. Which we deserve since dances have not kept up with the cost of inflation. Trying to not beat myself up, but I know I can do better. It’s not even with being a dancer. I’m just in general trying to pull my energy away from things don’t serve me anymore: gossip, complaining, relationships, anything that don’t serve my highest good.
carmen_b
10-24-2019, 10:13 AM
It was alright for a Wed. Got there at 7 and there was a native american guy alone ( they can be notoriously cheap in this area but I wanted to try him ). Gave me a $20 after a minute or two. Then he got $200 in dances the first hour. I just was back there going " we should do one more right ? " and he kept saying yes. LOVE. He was a little weird. Wanted nipple play ( his not mine ! ) but whatever. Cash rolling immediately puts me in a great mood.
Then my regular was a pain in the ass and lingering / not arriving . I told him I'd leave at 10p.m. if he didn't come entertain me and he sent me a graphic of him half way there in an uber. ;)
^ Only $120 ? ..... lame. We missed each other on his last trip out. I had assumed he was really gonna treat me since it had been a bit. Oh well. He starts in on the chat about taking tomorrow off work to go to dinner with him. He's lovely to hang with but honestly not the spender I thought I guess ( he didn't offer me anything to take the night off and hit the town with him ). ;/
There was a birthday party for this young kid and each participant had at least $100 in stage ones to throw at us so stage was good and not a waste of time. I did a dance for him .
Overall not bad at all. I'd stay in town more but my elbow is killing me . I have to rest or risk aggravating it .
$440 after tips out for 7p.m. - 12:05 a.m. ( since I'm lame and can't stay awake even with energy drink ). Felt sad to not hit that happy even 5 benji's but my body did what it could and that's all it could give. Leaving at 12:05 to go cuddle my dog seemed worth any amount at that point.
Selina M
10-24-2019, 03:15 PM
Went back to home club. Ran into a customer who looooooves me, he did a half hour, though he was a big time suck beforehand which is unusual for him. I honestly left after that because I am still really jumpy about undercovers there.
All kinds of BS being spewed from employees about the legal issues... Some bouncer claiming he's "very well connected" saying it was hysteria for nothing and that they can't write the girls tickets or do anything, blah blah. Bro I'm the one who signed the paper when I got the license about how it's on me to know and abide by the laws.
The girl who was/is (?) my good friend wouldn't speak to me ITC and texted me saying she's getting in trouble for gossiping so she's not talking to anybody at work. If that's true that's fucked up, that means they were salty that she was warning girls off the club... Maybe y'all should be straight with us since it's our asses on the line.
So sick of all this nonsense.
Leica
10-24-2019, 06:55 PM
I can’t stand the DJ at my current club. He doesn’t play the songs you request or announce the girls but he’s there quick as fuck with his hand out at the end of the night. I’ve had words with him and don't work Friday nights cuz of his lame, exploitative ass. The last straw was eye he tried to embarrass a friend of mine because she’s had a shitty night she had barely made any money and he still wanted what little bit she made. I went off while she tried to drag me out of the club and into the car lol. I’m usually very no confrontational except when I witness fucked up shit like that.