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Leica
10-24-2019, 07:01 PM
Bleh!

Two day trip where I think I made something like :
Roughly $530 collected from customers ( not bad ) but then take costs out ....
- $80 in required tip outs
- $130 travel costs
= $320 in profit .

I was in the club about 7p.m. - Midnight each day.
I know .... partly my fault for not sticking in to the later hours.
It wasn't really worth going out of town for. I managed to NOT see any massage guys during the day time hours somehow.
If I would have had at least one massage guy each day I would have at least brought back over $500.

I wonder if this club / place is taking a bad turn. This girl came into the dressing room ( she is gorgeous and I always assumed she made a TON ) ...... she said that last weekend she got NO dances and tonight she hadn't either. ? ! ? wtf ....

On a positive note .... I was BURNT AF on my day job . It is not looking so bad now .

This place is only 3 hours from home ( my closest and most frequent club ) .
If / when I go back ( haven't decided for next weekend ) , I will find a way to pre-market massage offerings a few days ahead .

This is what I hate about having to travel 2-3 hours each way to dance. The hotels/food/transportation costs. I try to plan intelligently and go in when I’m looking my best, most energetic, etc...but it’s no fun walking into a club knowing that you are already in the hole. Like if it was a slow night and I live up the street I wouldn’t feel bad about a couple hundred dollars but when that only covers my hotel room it’s the worst. I haven't danced in 3-4 months but am going back soon and when I do I’m trying to schedule my refs for 1-2 days I’m there and only work the shifts when my bartender friend works cuz she points me to the spenders.

carmen_b
10-24-2019, 11:02 PM
^ yup. it's a risk every time.
Even when I have a reg. saying they are coming ect.

I have all kinds of tricks. Day time side hustles + bringing some day job tasks up to do during the day to kill an hour here and there between resting during the day.

SugarCookies
10-25-2019, 10:47 AM
Yesterday we had shit Friday. It was not busy like normally and very cheap guys. I made around 400$, but it was so hard... So much rejection just to finally get a few dances...

One of the managers hates me for I don't know which reason and it stresses me out. I am a quiet one, never making problems, not fighting with other dancers, just doing my work the best I can. But this manager has something against me. He never gives me shows, even though everyone said that I make the best shows on stage (customers and other dancers) and there are other non-friendly details. I feel like he uses passive aggression in order for me to leave the club or make less money, idk what he wants. I am just sad and unmotivated...

I'm typically a quiet keep-to-myself-unless-spoken-to type of person too. I've found that quiet people get hated on as much as the loud drama queens because some people mistake quietness or shyness with arrogance and dislike... and this is even more true if you're conventionally attractive. Too many assume a shy/quiet hot girl to be a stuck up bitch who thinks she's too good to talk to anyone.

I've had similar experience. At one club, the waitresses and managers didn't like me for being quiet.One day the club was having a stage show contest. The waitress and manager in charge of running the event excluded me but considered all the other girls there that day, even though customers and fellow dancers alike always commented on how good I was on the pole. Favoritism and cliques.

carmen_b
10-25-2019, 01:36 PM
^ I'm one of the quiet ones. I don't give a damn who has a problem with it. I go in , do my hustle routine, chill , and am overall polite.
If anyone has a problem with me not being willing to give extensive chit chat ( in moments I'm recovering from that with the customers ) fuck em.

Spicecake
10-26-2019, 03:59 PM
It was such a strange shift, pretty much all night my timing was just off. There’s a customer that’s been starring me down for several days now but he’s always surrounded by girls .I’ve even had girls come over and tell me to go to him and try to Idk I guess help me out because he’s rich. I finally get a chance to introduce myself and chit chat and he gives me nada wth ? I was onstage right when groups of guys came in so they weren’t settled in and hadn’t gotten ones yet but by the time I got off stage girls were literally on top of them.

This kid I did dances for kept stopping other guys from tipping me and grabbing me and trying to talk to me. Guys kept grabbing my butt wth ? The crowd was just super grabby. I ended up doing 12 double dances with this really nice guy and this hot older Latina and I’m super grateful for her because she called me over for him and talked him into the double dances but then I ended up missing my stage set when guys were drunk and throwing money* shrugs*

AChildOfBoredom
10-27-2019, 02:24 AM
Decent shift, but I did that thing again where the other dancers stare at me blankly. Some were telling jokes in the dressing room at the end of the night. So I offered one…

What do an alcoholic and a necrophiliac have in common?

They can’t resist the urge to crack open a cold one.

Yeah, it didn’t sit too well with them.

skittle
10-29-2019, 11:12 AM
Made $1100 my first night back, $300 my second night.

Leica
10-29-2019, 01:46 PM
Made $1100 my first night back, $300 my second night.

Nice average. Good job babe.

SugarCookies
10-31-2019, 11:06 PM
Today was fun! Very few dancers and customers, but still good for us. I felt cute in my costume. One customer brought several dances so I made twice my quota within my first hour, and two regulars come in. A good ending for this month.

Chadoinct
11-06-2019, 11:45 AM
Long time lurker (almost 7 years, haha!) first post!!!!

I took a mental health day on Monday after my last two shifts having been miserable and miserably low earning, that I surprisingly did not at all feel guilty about - usually when I skip out on a shift I had planned to work I may tell myself that it’s guilt free but then the next shift I do go in for I feel anxious and like I don’t want to, can’t even, should have gone yesterday, opportunity cost of not having the full week, etc.

The past few months have involved going in very often with low goals ($500-$700), trying to sell only dances and making sure I really enjoyed myself, all the while believing that soon once again I will sell good long VIPs to good customers, and keeping the faith even though I was seeing no evidence yet. This was my way of experimenting to see whether I was permanently burned out, and if so, whether or not I would be okay with working 4-5 shifts at those lower amounts for the next few years and retiring more modestly. I was okay with that possibility, and was so grateful for that money! Like you wouldn’t even BELIEVE! coming from someone who has been a consistent top earner in past eras! but still I kept the faith because I needed to be open to it!

I went in last night, felt totally in the flow, no guilt, got right into it, did some dances and sold a 2-hour VIP with ease! The customer seemed alright and passed my screening process on the floor (I actually do tell people outright that nothing “happens” in VIP with me - always have been that kind of hustler, never the vague shit but total respect for that hustle because as you guys know many ladies really pull it off and give the customer a clean experience he’s happy about and tips generously on!). We get into VIP and he’s CRAZY aggressive. The whole time. I was surprised he wanted to renew and I was surprised I even felt like I had the stamina to deal with him for another hour. It was A LOT of work, but by the end he’d said he had a good time. Stiffed me on the four-figure tip he’d said he’d give me, but I honestly was so happy to accept the $400 he did leave even though I know I deserved more!

In the past I would have internalized this and felt miserable and shitty, but I really was, and am, so grateful! I feel like I’m really on the right track now with getting clearer with the Universe about the kind of customers I really want to find on the floor!! Or be put into rooms with by management, even, potentially!! I know management knows good respectful customers that never go on the floor!! Doesn’t matter how it happens, as long as it does, and as long as it’s with the right customers and IT IS COMING!!!

Falling in love with dancing again. Never really fell OUT, per se, but I had a very hard time coming out of this long slump.

I hope this post was an inspiration to all of you lovely ladies!

Keep on stripping! Keep on loving our AMAZING gig!

random stripper
11-10-2019, 03:45 PM
"emotional gold-diggers" I'm loving it LOL

Love how you're keeping it 100% real in that post haha. Thank you, it brightened up my day although I am sorry these motherfuckers are stupid cheap jackasses over there :/

I usually just act like an airhead bitch that doesn't understand much beyond $$$$. Sometimes when I get exhausted acting, I start acting like myself which is basically a straight up bitch. Once in a blue moon I am actually nice, and this is the exception, not the rule. All personalities make money. :)

carmen_b
11-10-2019, 05:54 PM
Ifyouseek , I can so relate !
I have those days where I’m totally polished and others where “ wanna dance “ is all I can give emotionally . I thought you described that feeling so beautifully.

EmeraldGoddesss
11-12-2019, 02:15 PM
^ I'm one of the quiet ones. I don't give a damn who has a problem with it. I go in , do my hustle routine, chill , and am overall polite.
If anyone has a problem with me not being willing to give extensive chit chat ( in moments I'm recovering from that with the customers ) fuck em.

Yeah allot of girls dont like me for being quiet, but you know what as soon as I start trying to be friends with these girls 25% wants to insult me, belittle me, start petty drama. I hustle and focus on talking to customers. If i connect with a girl or two thats fine I made a good friend. But quality over quantity, I cant waste my energy on all the girls, because some dont deserve it. lol

carmen_b
11-12-2019, 07:18 PM
^ Not to mention it's just *expended* social energy that is just gone ...... when you have to give SO much to the customers already. It's just too much even though strippers are so often incredibly interesting people.

Winged Dinghy
11-13-2019, 07:33 AM
Y'all, that full moon had everyone wilding. One of my customers got kicked out for being too drunk, and then he threatened to kill the manager, and then my manager called the cops.

Another customer kept sitting at the tip rail and saying rude stuff, like "how much for you to sit on my face for 10 hours? Your boobs are terrible. You're a virgin, I can tell. I'm gay. You love anal, don't you? I want to suck your nipples. Sit on my face." He really upset one of the dancers, but all I could hear coming out of his mouth was "I'm a drunk asshat, take my money."

It was my highest earning shift EVER at this club, and on a Tuesday afternoon when there wasn't shit going on in town.

Plus, we had our first real cold front and it was fun to finally wear winter stripperwear (long sleeved, crushed velvet crop top and thigh high boots) and sit by the fire pit in the courtyard with whiskey and a smoke.

StellaRose
11-16-2019, 01:55 PM
Pretty good yesterday. First few hours was terrible with like 30 girls and 5 customers. It picked up. And the highlight was being given a $100 bill on stage shortly before I left. Customer may have been drunk haha

AChildOfBoredom
11-16-2019, 08:14 PM
We’ll see how tonight goes. Did surprisingly well last night considering how o wasn’t feeling it after waking up at 3 in the morning to get those horses moved to Georgia.

skittle
11-17-2019, 09:19 AM
$300 and it was like pulling teeth. Couldn’t give much emotionally and stayed longer than I should have. Oh well! I’m even more motivated to do better this Wednesday.

AChildOfBoredom
11-17-2019, 07:56 PM
The regular house mom is on vacation. The one standing in brought food… it was Hamburger Helper. It looked like cheesy diarrhea, too. She couldn’t figure out why nobody ate it.

lurkingtitties
11-18-2019, 08:21 AM
The regular house mom is on vacation. The one standing in brought food… it was Hamburger Helper. It looked like cheesy diarrhea, too. She couldn’t figure out why nobody ate it.

That's a pet peeve of mine about the industry! We're supposed to be watching our figures and yet all the food available to us during shifts is trash. Even the small minority of housemoms who have their shit together still bring in unhealthy snacks and some variation of noodles and gravy.

AChildOfBoredom
11-18-2019, 02:10 PM
That's a pet peeve of mine about the industry! We're supposed to be watching our figures and yet all the food available to us during shifts is trash. Even the small minority of housemoms who have their shit together still bring in unhealthy snacks and some variation of noodles and gravy.

Absolutely. The bar also serves some pub food (which harkens back to North Carolina’s restauranteur laws for serving alcohol), and of course it’s all deep fried. Nobody’s expecting five star dining at a strip club, but would it kill them to maybe just be a little mindful about not serving absolute shit?

IvoryDoll
11-22-2019, 04:47 AM
I met a pimp tonight lol. I asked him for a dance and he wanted me to sit and chat a bit. My shift just started so I said why not. He was saying stuff like “girl what are you doing here? You could be making much more doing other things.” I thought he was a fucking porn recruiter at first lmao!! He said he ran some escort agency but I can’t look it up because it’s some deep web shit and that he has to get 20% of whatever I charge. He honestly sounded legit but that’s just not my thing. But yeah eventually I got him to VIP (I was just leading his ass on like I’m naive and soooo interested in order to get that VIP lol) and he kept stuffing money in my bra and panties. Then he wouldn’t shut up about my number so I gave him a fake one (imagine if I gave him the sheriff’s just to fuck with him lmao he was an out of towner) anyway he ended up biting my tit super hard so I ended that.
The night was pretty slow until these hammered college guys came in 30 mins to close and bought dances from all the girls that stayed until then end :)

IvoryDoll
11-22-2019, 04:58 AM
OMG!!! The other night there was a new girl and I came up to talk to her when it got slow. She said she got fired from the other club and I was like aww why girl?! And she all casually was like “cuz a customer started eating my pussy and the manager got all mad and made me leave.” LMAO like what??? I had to explain to her that you can’t do that and she was confused. Omg sometimes I hate being a dancer because OTHER girls are so damn stupid, you know? It makes me feel like “damn what am I doing here?” Then when we were cashing out she was asking me for tips and I told her she needs to talk more to the customers not just wanna dance them. And she’s like “but they’re all SO ugly. I HAVE to be attracted to them. Do you dance for ugly guys too??” I told her all I see are dollar signs and left and haven’t seen her since.

carmen_b
11-22-2019, 10:58 PM
ahahah
^ Gets canned for extras.
Runs to other places to talk about doing extras. Lol.
Can't help those who can't help themselves.

skittle
11-22-2019, 11:09 PM
Just need a hug.

AChildOfBoredom
11-23-2019, 01:38 PM
Was going to go to Denny’s afterwards, but I saw customers from the club getting out of the car as I was pulling in, so I gunned it and hauled ass out of there. I know they saw us - that Duramax will roar - but I’m pretty sure they didn’t see who it was, and they probably wouldn’t expect me to be there type’ who would drive THAT, so I’m pretty sure I’m in the clear.

Oh, yes… the stand in house mom was really pushing to try selling us some of her Hamburger Helper. Again.

SnuffleUffleGrass
11-23-2019, 02:48 PM
Was going to go to Denny’s afterwards, but I saw customers from the club getting out of the car as I was pulling in, so I gunned it and hauled ass out of there. I know they saw us - that Duramax will roar - but I’m pretty sure they didn’t see who it was, and they probably wouldn’t expect me to be there type’ who would drive THAT, so I’m pretty sure I’m in the clear.

Oh, yes… the stand in house mom was really pushing to try selling us some of her Hamburger Helper. Again.



Hugs to skittle!!!!

Also - regarding being discreet in traffic...wear a baseball cap or just grab food at a drive through. Getting recognized by 2AM diner afterparty goofballs is the worst.

Adrienne7
11-24-2019, 09:15 PM
Fuck yeah. Love it when I make $300 in the first hour so the rest of the night is just icing on the cake with no stress. Thank gawd for my regular

Spicecake
11-25-2019, 09:10 AM
The club was dead all weekend but last night was painful. There were 25 girls working last night and 7 customers all night. I’m not sure if traveling during the holidays is a good idea.

AChildOfBoredom
11-30-2019, 09:05 PM
Had a custie try to hit me tonight. He asked how much money it would take for me to go home with him. I just laughed and walked away. He grabbed me, spin me around, and tried to backhand me, but I ducked. The bouncers got to him before he could try again. He was drug out screaming a bunch of threats at all of us. I’m not frightened of this guy, but it kinda kills the vibe.

IvoryDoll
11-30-2019, 10:00 PM
Y’all last night around 12 these little old ladies came in trying to sell Christmas lights to the customers. They were walking around with bright ass lights . Lmao I’m wondering if they made them pay the cover or just said fuck it?? And last week we had these random women come in giving the girls business cards for plastic surgery. Sounds legit!

IvoryDoll
12-05-2019, 03:31 AM
Has it been shitty for anyone else? Yesterday I made $117 and today I left with $15 :( wtf man...

Winged Dinghy
12-07-2019, 11:34 AM
A middle-aged white guy from San Francisco was asking what I do outside the club, and he was all, "You don't want to still be doing this when you're 35."

I had to bite my tongue to keep from saying "bitch I'm 40."

skittle
12-10-2019, 01:05 AM
$340 and it was sooo hard. There were hrs where no men were in sight. Almost started pulling them off the street! ��

StellaRose
12-12-2019, 06:06 PM
“Let me touch your pussy”
“Nooo baby, I’ll get in trouble”
“Oh no you won’t. Don’t worry, you know me”
“No I don’t, we just met”
“Oh...you’re right.”

Proceeds to tip an extra $30 on top of the dance. Mexicans amuse me

mz_melanie048
12-14-2019, 09:56 AM
After a 3 month (I think) hiatus, I finally auditioned at a club 15 min from my house instead of driving an hour to the next town over. On the positive side, I feel less nervous and antsy about being “caught” than I did in the past. On the bad side, I still don’t know if I like dancing in my city bc the rules are so different from club to club on how we can give dances.
Anywhoo, I worked the day shift which there were only two regulars who don’t get dances in the club for the longest time and it was three hours until I sold a 15 min VIP to someone and eventually ended up selling two regular dances before the end of my shift and I got a good amount back on drink sales. So I netted $128 after tip out. At my old clubs I loved the happy hour shift but I don’t think my city has that going on at any club :( or at least not the two I have been to.
I think next week I’m going to try the night shift to see if it’s better and try to make the best of the club but there seems to be a lot of rules that I’m not used to and the dances are pretty cheap with a high club cut so I’ll see where this goes. The management and girls seemed pretty friendly so far too.

Spicecake
12-18-2019, 03:33 AM
I realized this is the thread I post in the most, it feels like one long locker room chat anywho. The club was dead but I’m not surprised Because everyone’s gotta buy gifts and etc. I did have something really frustrating happen. A customer was tipping me well on stage because he liked my pole tricks. This girl goes up to him, refuses to accept no and then causes a scene and calls him racist because he doesn’t want to dance with her. Like hello.. I’m unambiguously black, he just tipped me and he’s waiting for me to get off the stage. She then has him kicked out by security because he cursed at her after she started the altercation with him.

IvoryDoll
12-18-2019, 11:13 PM
I am taking a break until mid January. It’s just been too slow and I’m losing my motivation/patience. Been snapping at too many dudes.
But I have ordered new shoes, new hair extensions, new clothes. Going to come back a new bitch and work all the way through tax return season }:D

jen_ten
12-22-2019, 10:54 PM
I’m relatively new to this new club that just opened up even though I worked for the company before. I met one of like the vps or something higher up and one of the hosts introduced me and told me to try to get him in the room and he just finished doing 5hours and the guy agreed. So we were chatting and then I brought up rooms and dances and he said he can’t because he works here and I was like earlier you said you did lol and he was like no I’m just here for my friends.

Since we were talking for awhile and it wasn’t super busy I asked if he could get me a drink and the bartender took my order and totally ignored us after and he kept complaining to me about it and a different bartender got my drink and he complained to the hosts about it too and said he wanted them to fire her.
Anyway we talked a bit more and I asked him to tip me for my time since I am working and he said no and changed the subject so I kind of gave up and just told him I would talk to him later.

I just went in today to try to work the day before my bday to make extra money and they said my contract had been expired that day and I asked if I could speak to management and they were like she didn’t know because there weren’t any notes besides to expire my contract.

AChildOfBoredom
12-23-2019, 12:03 AM
I worked this weekend, under the nose of my parents. Last night, they stayed up later than I had anticipated, but they didn’t tonight, fortunately… I had to be ambiguous about what I was doing last night and didn’t want to have to do that two nights in a row.

Winged Dinghy
12-23-2019, 12:07 PM
We had our holiday party yesterday at Hustler. A bouncer dressed up as Santa. The manager brought homemade eggnog. There was an open bar and free food. The fire pit was roaring in the courtyard. Candy canes, snowflakes and Christmas lights were hung from the balcony with care. I genuinely love strip club Christmas. Plus, I made decent money.

Nerissa
12-28-2019, 02:47 AM
Hoo boy literally my 2nd shift ever tonight and it was dead asf for the first half. Stage was the only place to get money as literally no one was buying dances from any of us. VIP looked so sad and empty all night! I did get lucky (it was weird af tho) and had some guy throw decent cash for a dual dance from me and another girl before the night ended so I walked with over 300 at least. This guy though kept trying to lick both of us and kept trying (and succeeded) once at taking his dick out. We got him covered up and back in his pants fast, then finished our dances. Icing on the cake is this guy is so drunk that he can't even find his card at the atm; we ended up having to take him to the bar and have him cash out there. This took nearly 30min of him now fumbling to also find his ID (which was just in his pocket jfc) to give to the cashier so we could get paid. This job is weird but beats a day job haha.

Winged Dinghy
12-30-2019, 07:56 AM
Yesterday was absolute trash. Bourbon Street was busy, but the club was empty and the few customers were beer-nursers who didn't tip the stage or buy dances. I've been lucky and done well so far in December but I knew the shit would eventually hit the fan. That day was yesterday. oh well at least it is over now.

Spicecake
12-30-2019, 09:01 AM
My favorite manager died a few days ago and I went to his viewing yesterday. I knew I should’ve went home after but I got a ride to work. I spent most of the night sad, agitated and too miserable to hustle.

Nerissa
01-02-2020, 03:03 PM
I had no plans for new years so I figured why not and went to my club's party to work. It was so dead and I was there from around 745pm to 4am and it was not worth it. On the plus side, I got an awesome custy who bought 2 dances from me to just cuddle and hang out and stroke my hair. He was very sweet and comforting; that was a nice break from the rather dull evening.

carmen_b
01-04-2020, 10:28 AM
I knew it was risky last night ( potentially people tapped through holidays ).
I made " enough " but it was pretty hard honestly.
I wasn't happy overall with earnings ( $300-$320 ish 7:40 - 1:50 a.m. , $40 to club , $60 went to my gas and hotel ). Profit only $200 - $220 ish.
I knew it was a risky day and it was day 1 of this strip trip ( I had driven 3 hours to get to this club which is the most frequent in my rotation ) . I hate day #1 because it's just an exhausting day.
Sometimes I think I'm crazy for doing this. I really am hoping to leave town with at least $500 .
December was SO lean for me day job wise. I am just very cash hungry and eager for the immediate pay dancing offers.
I'll try to get it even it takes awhile with post holidays energy working against me.

I feel on the fence about leaving but know I should push through.

AChildOfBoredom
01-04-2020, 01:17 PM
Last night was a bit of a mediocre night. That aside, why does it seem that so many custies stay at the bar expecting us to go out of our way to talk to them and that this technique will somehow get us to go home with them?

Nerissa
01-05-2020, 06:24 PM
Last night was traaash. As a baby stripper I was told after-holiday slump would be bad; I had my first sub 300 night. FeelsBadMan. If every custy who gave me the "maybe later" line actually bought a dance from me when I came back later it mighta been a good night; just say "no" so you don't waste my time. And I agree with the custies at the bar nonsense, they're all squished in with their backs to the floor. I don't wanna have to nose my way in between all of you. I mean I will, but I don't like it. Why even come to a strip club if you're not even gonna at least WATCH the dancers? Go to a normal bar jeez.

Winged Dinghy
01-06-2020, 08:36 AM
I hustled so hard and only took home my summer (off-season) average. Thought it might be good because the Saints had a playoff game in the Dome, but they lost and all the butthurt fans went home. And the Minnesota fans who did come out were cheap AF. Let's pray this post-holiday slump ends soon!

Selina M
01-06-2020, 01:14 PM
Saturday my vanilla job got shut down for a gas leak so there went my lucrative double shift. Damn.

I went to my night shift club instead for a few hours. Made more than I would have at vanilla job but definitely not even my minimum stripper goal. There were easily 30 girls (15-20 is a good number there) and very few spending customers. By 1:30 there were only 10 VIPs of any sort sold. Guys were saying shit like "Why are the girls so mean when we say we're just here to drink?" Uhhhhh....

I got very lucky in that I followed my stripper intuition and sat next to a legit cowboy at the bar, who ended up suggesting on his own that we do 15 mins. He later went back for another round. He also gave me his number and said to text him when I'm at my day shift club, since he prefers day time. Yay, customer poaching :D I also ran into a regular customer who loves to buy his friends dances, so that added a few bucks to the total.

The negative vibes are still at the club though, probably because it's slow. A girl I'm friendly with got chilly after cowboy took me to VIP, because she knew him I guess. She had walked away from him earlier so tough shit. A new girl straight up interrogated me, asking what other clubs I worked at. I dodged that question. Girl I don't know you, why should I help you?

Someone I *was* good friends with also randomly decided to stop talking to me with no real explanation and now straight up runs away whenever I come near. I had to ask her to move out of a booth & she wouldn't even make eye contact. It's super weird. We had a lot of customers in common and they keep asking me about her, and looking confused when I say I don't talk to her anymore.
She started acting weird when I said I'd spoken to managers about the alleged raid activity and that they said it was totally safe to come back. My SO thinks she was trying to sabotage me or something by reporting false info? But it wasn't all false, managers did admit the cops had been nosing around/chest beating until the owner lawyered up...