View Full Version : A Beginner's Guide To Being A Bitch Hermit
thatgingercamgirl
09-03-2014, 12:32 PM
I can relate to all of this. I was so relieved when banks started releasing apps so that you can deposit checks using your phone, without going to the bank. Woot! What else helps you guys be successful bitch hermits?
Glamourmilf
09-03-2014, 08:37 PM
^^ can someone instruct me on how to put a youtube video on here...and I will tell u^^
AliceFun
09-03-2014, 09:29 PM
I am soo happy to have my son doing shopping every day (the small stuff like food, beverages, sweets, toilet paper, etc), i go too when i need to buy specific stuff but sometimes few days will pass by without me getting out of the house. When i go shopping i hate to carry the heavy bags cause of my back and feet hurting a lot from it (no car here); i really got used to stay at home and dont want to go out when is too hot or too cold outside, i dont like the crowds, the noise & the smelly people, big crowded places get me soo tired. When i see heavy snow, extreme heat, rain etc i feel lucky to be able to work at home now, even cam job is not ideal it's better than what i had before.
Glamourmilf
09-03-2014, 09:53 PM
^^Ditto, Ditto a million times! You've hit it right on the head! Those smells, hot weather, crowds:crowded: all of it... ughh!
I had to go out again today because I forgot to get something from when I went shopping yesterday.. My back is already achy from carrying all those bags yesterday. After I got home, I almost couldn't cam, it was so bad.
I also had laundry to do and I literally got so overheated, and drained in the basement of my building where the laundry room is, that I suddenly got so sick to my stomach!
Thankfully, it's cooler tonight than it has been, so I'm resting comfortably at home, with a wonderful cool breeze coming in through the windows.:chillpill
Glamourmilf
09-03-2014, 10:13 PM
http://youtu.be/9Ig_DPkTKt0
Glamourmilf
09-05-2014, 09:59 AM
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darlingdarling
09-05-2014, 08:43 PM
Relevant:
http://38.media.tumblr.com/b47270c2efb9e96d8c765344c923d284/tumblr_n1txzp4Rge1sl17bdo1_400.jpg
JaneBurgess
10-18-2014, 12:49 PM
I was invited to a party tonight and honestly I dont want to go. I dont drink and they always get so drunk and then I get annoyed and bored. Theres nothing wrong with wanting to stay at home and not socializing.
thatgingercamgirl
10-18-2014, 12:55 PM
Yep, I know exactly what you mean...is being around all these people worth the energy I have to expend to be social? I get more selective the deeper I get into the bitch hermit life :)
RaineyLane
10-18-2014, 07:06 PM
When I'm invited to something, I think to myself... "Is going to _________, worth not making $200-500?" The answer is usually NO. Except the other night, I went to a badass concert. That was TOTALLY worth it. We do need to have some fun with our money and free time! Let's not forget that. I make a point to do SOMETHING fun and social at least once a week. It's usually my weekly trip to a 24hour Korean style spa that I'm addicted to! There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with wanting to stay home, but please try to have some personal time. It's also fun when you make friends with other cam girls and get to hang out together IRL! :)
Glamourmilf
10-19-2014, 08:28 AM
Love Being Home! Sooo Glad I listened to my intuition and didn't go to the art show yesterday. A huge mele broke out, and lots of people got injured. Made lots of money on cam, so alls well, that ends well!39369
Glamourmilf
10-26-2014, 09:56 AM
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ivybunny
10-26-2014, 11:19 AM
I feel the same way about my friends who smoke. They get all excited about getting it, the paraphenalia, etc, and then when they finally do, they all just get quiet and stare into space, or worse, only say the most inane bullshit. GREAT. I'M HAVING SO MUCH FUN.
I was invited to a party tonight and honestly I dont want to go. I dont drink and they always get so drunk and then I get annoyed and bored. Theres nothing wrong with wanting to stay at home and not socializing.
audritwo
10-26-2014, 11:57 AM
I have closed all my hurricane shutters. Why? The sunlight hurts my eyes.
Glamourmilf
10-26-2014, 03:51 PM
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audritwo
10-26-2014, 04:59 PM
Lol I never wear pants. Everytime someone comes over without my knowledge I'm screaming, "let me find pants!"
Heid009
10-26-2014, 09:08 PM
^Me too. But I usually just hide and pretend I'm not home if people come unannounced.
Fitandpretty
10-27-2014, 04:58 AM
^Me too. But I usually just hide and pretend I'm not home if people come unannounced.
This is me too! I think it's rude to just show up to someone's house without calling anyway
justanothercamgirl
11-08-2014, 07:13 AM
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Glamourmilf
11-08-2014, 09:04 AM
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Glamourmilf
11-21-2014, 11:44 AM
Letting people in who I thought were my friends... No More!!
I was going to go out of town on Turkey Day, but my 2 friends out there turned shitty. (I wrote about why in 'pissy annoyances' thread.)
My hermit lifestyle is reactivated.
Going to stay home on Turkey Day, and have a wonderful movie marathon. No work, no people, ... just me, myself, and I.
Walking around the city that day will be it's usual quiet, and calm self, for once.
Can't wait!!
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Glamourmilf
11-30-2014, 11:34 AM
Today is the first rainy day in over a year, so I'm digging being home, and having the crazy, noisy city outside be QUIET!!! For once!! Love my solitude!!!!39827
JessaBelle
11-30-2014, 01:11 PM
That would be awesome to get to meet and hang out with other cam girls IRL - to have someone to talk to about things in the biz, etc. I have no idea where most cam girls are from. But I am glad that I can come to SW every day and read what's going on here. Love this thread!
Glamourmilf
12-02-2014, 11:45 AM
I really don't want to buy-into this being the time of year for crime sprees, but I'm not taking any chances.
I've been watching on the news that thieves are now stealing x-mas packages, and robbing mailboxes!!
I'm becoming more of a hermit than ever until the season's over! Bah Humbug!39852
Glamourmilf
12-25-2014, 05:09 AM
Bumping, because now that it's the Holidays, I'm officially burnt out on people!!
I'm in the middle of packing to move soon,(and not knowing where to, or how I'm going to pay for it all). and sooo many friends don't understand that I'm working and packing/looking for apts. all day, everyday. They want to talk on the phone, text constantly, and have invited me to see them for lots of social events. Most of them don't have to work, and the few that do are off until January.
It's not that I wouldn't enjoy going to all of the festivities, it's that I'm working 3 jobs, and am on a time line to get things done.
What's wrong with people that they are so self-centered that they don't respect boundaries, and other people's time restraints, no matter how much I tell them?
I'm probably going to make some enemies by withdrawing my attention to them, but idgaf at this point, because my health is starting to suffer.
Last night I finally had to shut off my phone, and have some 'me' time. Watched a Netflix movie uninterrupted for once in forever, it seems. Felt so good to get back into my hermit ways.
Rant over. Thanks for listening.:-*
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ScarletKitten
12-25-2014, 06:52 AM
I love this thread! :)
Glamourmilf
12-31-2014, 08:21 AM
After all of the holiday hoopla, STOP the train, I'm going BACK into Hermit Mode!! Yep, Hermit mode activated! Do NOT disturb!!!:)
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justanothercamgirl
12-31-2014, 10:20 AM
http://static.someecards.com/someecards/usercards/1349117313959_3979321.png
Glamourmilf
01-10-2015, 08:53 AM
People in my life...Will You PLEASE STOP calling/texting me all day, everyday!! I have too much to do, to listen to ur petty problems!! I don't want to be bothered!!! I miss being a hermit, and cant wait until I move someplace where I can shut out the world...even a roommate. I'm under way too much stress right now to even be one tiny bit social.40230
justanothercamgirl
01-12-2015, 05:55 AM
http://sadmoment.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/I-Dont-Want-To-Get-Out-Of-Bed-Comic-By-Sarah-See-Anderson.jpg
^^^ Me today.
Glamourmilf
01-26-2015, 08:55 AM
Bumping this because...Yeah..Been hermitting a lot lateley just so i can get things done. My sleep schedule is now 6 pm-2 am love being up whe people are sleeping! I miss everyones annoying phone calls and texts.
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Glamourmilf
03-10-2015, 08:35 AM
Bumping this because...Yeah, it's back to being a hermit (and loving it).
I was so excited to 'get out in the world' again, now that I've moved and don't have the financial pressures that I thought made me a hermit in the first place (cause I was camming so much).
However, being out there with people and their problems (cause that's all anyone seems to do is complain), I'm exhausted from it all, and want to crawl back into my hermit shell.
I realized it the most when I took some 'me' time yesterday to sit under the big oak tree in my back yard, and just revelled in the peace and solitude that I have been craving so much. Just listening to the silence, and the birds chirping, with the noon day sun caressing my back. Ahh.
It was so rejuvenating. Well the fact that I have had to lay down the 'do not disturb' law with my nosy and encroaching roomie, and just shut the door to my room, and be ...alone! Love it!8)
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khunkykoko
03-23-2015, 02:43 PM
THIS would drive me bananas! My friends and I are quite affectionate with each other (we hug, snuggle, sit on each others laps) and that is all fine and dandy, but it would drive me mental if random people who I didn't know thought it was okay to touch me.
I live in a bubble, and only certain pre approved people are allowed to be in my bubble with me.
I feel the same way! I hate it when random people get in my bubble, especially when they try to touch my hair! >:( (I have natural/curly hair)
Glamourmilf
03-28-2015, 04:06 PM
I've been noticing that by being a hermit, I get soo much done! Since I do most of my work at home.
Glamourmilf
04-17-2015, 12:05 PM
Just to add to that^^ I'm going full 'hermit' mode, starting today. The people in my new town, some I've known for years, some new are just asking for way too much attention ......well, help with b.s. things
They all know I work a lot, make shot money compared to them, yet are CONSTANTLY pestering for me to give them rides places,give them phone numbers to my connections I've mentioned in the recent past,etc.
I've triedflipping it, and just for kicks asked THEM for things,info, whatever,and they all of sudden become mute.
I'm so behind in my financial goals this month, by trying to be a good friend, in-law, date, but, ENOUGH!
Maybe if I was retired, or had nothing else going on in my life, but self- preservation is number one is of primary importance now. I hate feeling used. It's one of the worst feelings. ..EVER!
Serena-Shields
04-17-2015, 05:41 PM
I'm glad I'm not the only hermit around here! Outside of camming I rarely go out in public places and when I do, I have the luck of inheriting the ''Don't look in my direction you will die'' look from my mother! I walk super fast out of habit, which only helps in making me unapproachable. I used to have terrible social anxiety to the point where I would have my friends pay at the register for me to avoid people paying attention to me. I'm not like that now, I just hate people. I think my self actualization has depleted my anxiety, but not my incredible dislike of casual social conversation.
Leave the house? Fuck that. I can walk around in my underwear here!
Prussia
04-17-2015, 09:39 PM
http://s3.amazonaws.com/theoatmeal-img/comics/working_home/6.png
Funny because it's true. At least for me once I started camming full time.
Violet_Z
04-18-2015, 08:57 AM
Just to add to that^^ I'm going full 'hermit' mode, starting today. The people in my new town, some I've known for years, some new are just asking for way too much attention ......well, help with b.s. things
They all know I work a lot, make shot money compared to them, yet are CONSTANTLY pestering for me to give them rides places,give them phone numbers to my connections I've mentioned in the recent past,etc.
I've triedflipping it, and just for kicks asked THEM for things,info, whatever,and they all of sudden become mute.
I'm so behind in my financial goals this month, by trying to be a good friend, in-law, date, but, ENOUGH!
Maybe if I was retired, or had nothing else going on in my life, but self- preservation is number one is of primary importance now. I hate feeling used. It's one of the worst feelings. ..EVER!
I can completely empathize with you. Most of my friends pester me all the time about how I have money, why I always say I'm busy even though they know I work 3 jobs, and why I won't drive to the next town to give them a ride some place....
I'm beginning to think that there are more bad people out there than I ever realized that will just use anyone even there friends.
It's probably better to hermit some times....
Glamourmilf
04-18-2015, 11:57 AM
^^I agree that it is good to hermit...a lot,esp. If your emotional/ physical tank is on empty.
Now that I'm a tenant is someone's house, ( a very nosey and encroaching person), and her friend who is now living here, I have very little space to myself. It really sucks, because my jobs are very demanding in and of themselves, with trying to please tons of people.
When I'm alone in my room,I need to totally unplug and recharge. I'm NOT going to let anyone
take that precious time away from me!:frown:
Glamourmilf
05-10-2015, 05:19 PM
I'm in overdrive mode, to try to get a jump on all my projects before the summer slowdown.
Mercury is also going into retrograde until mid June, so I like to hunker down and not have too much interaction with people at that time.
They tend to get argumentative, esp. if they don't understand what is really going on.
Glamourmilf
05-12-2015, 06:50 PM
Bumping...Even leaving the house for the grocery store brings so much anxiety.
Kept thinking how I just couldn't wait to be back home. Theres a cam customer stalking me, so that adds to my anxieties.
kaninchen
05-12-2015, 07:54 PM
On Saturday I went to my boyfriend's grandmother's 85th birthday party. It was outside in her lovely, gorgeous garden (okay slight diversion here but she had a brugmansia, a dozen pink and yellow rose bushes, a lush clover lawn and just beautiful green stuff everywhere, I loved it!) but it was also LA-sunny and there were 20 people there plus probably 10 small children.
Oh. My. GOD! I was there for four hours. I tried to hide in the kitchen and clean to get some quiet time, but all these fucking brats kept coming by and asking me, "Have you seen my moooooommmm? I want another taco! Can I touch your hair?" The noise and forced smiling almost killed me. I'm barely exaggerating -- I had a splitting migraine by the time I left.
I went home and got in bed around 6pm because I was so worn out by it all. I can't believe I have to do this shit every fucking year!
justanothercamgirl
07-22-2015, 06:14 PM
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audritwo
07-22-2015, 07:30 PM
I look tanner. I haven't really been outside more then 15 minutes this week during the day. This is confusing.
sexysusie
07-22-2015, 08:04 PM
http://sadmoment.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/I-Dont-Want-To-Get-Out-Of-Bed-Comic-By-Sarah-See-Anderson.jpg
This is me all over, EVERY day! Now and then I have rare hyper moments (usually wine and metal music fuelled!) when forced out to parties and then people don't know what's hit them because i am the life and soul! I can never work out how i manage that though, there doesn't seem to be an on/off switch. I think it's only when there's absolutely no pressure and the people around are mostly just acquaintances i.e. I won't have to like PHONE or VISIT them regularly! I often feel guilty at how much of a shit friend/ family member/ fiance I am, but I just need huge amounts of time to msyelf otherwise I get frazzled and can't function.
Issabelle
07-22-2015, 09:40 PM
Went into a Walmart today, unattended, for 12 minutes.
Done socializing for the week.
Good god, why did I do that to myself?
ShaylaScott
07-27-2015, 12:06 AM
I will be making my second debut into the cam world this weekend after a seven year hiatus and looking forward to the day I'm able to tell my shitty, un-challenging vanilla job to stick it up their ass and get back to my very comfortable introverted roots!
Glamourmilf
08-11-2015, 12:28 PM
I'm hermitting at my friend's place while she's out of town.
I love it so much!
Getting lots of work and reading done.;D
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SweetNSouthern
08-12-2015, 09:52 PM
I'm such a hermit that leaving to go a minute down the road to the dollar store is a chore...le sigh. I understand what you all mean with the whole phone thing. Mine goes off all day, everyday...one person is a dear friend, but always sending me at least 5 messages in a row that are like 15-20 lines long before asking if I'm mad at her. I just get exhausted reading about her problems and do ignore the phone about 2 hours of the day just so I can focus solely on work. Hermit mode is on full-force and I'm actually loving it because I can just relax in my undies or naked and just focus on what I need to focus on. Amazon has really saved my ass lol...
Glamourmilf
09-08-2015, 12:18 PM
Another exhausting family Labor Day bbq yesterday. NEVER again!
Hermit mode activated.
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