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PixiieGirl
08-17-2019, 04:14 AM
I asked this question too!
The answer is no you can not promote your chat listing, in the same way you promote your phone listing.
You can promote your link for it offsite though, like on twitter
hope this helps:)
do you know how the order that flirts are shown on the chat page is determined?
LilPoundCake
08-17-2019, 08:57 PM
do you know how the order that flirts are shown on the chat page is determined?
From what I can tell it's a bit like sextpanther. The more people you're messaging + your response time= placement.
alleykat217
08-17-2019, 09:11 PM
From what I can tell it's a bit like sextpanther. The more people you're messaging + your response time= placement.
That's definitely true because I noticed that when I'm not getting messages I seem to start moving back. Once I get any messages, I move up some.
StrawberryDreams
08-18-2019, 09:14 PM
Phew, thanks guys, I'm glad to see that it was something other people wonder/did wonder about. I thought I was missing something obvious on the NF website! I was confused because each category has tabs for live phone calls, recorded calls, and chat, and it seems chat is the only one of the 3 you can't bid to promote. I wish you could promote it, but I kind of get it...if customers were clicking a bunch of promoted chats in the first page spots and not getting quick responses because those ladies only actually respond for like an hour or two each day, it'd turn customers away from chat entirely because "the girls are never on". So it does make sense to me that ladies who already have proven that they can and WILL quickly respond to tons of chats would get the top spots.
alleykat217
08-18-2019, 09:40 PM
Phew, thanks guys, I'm glad to see that it was something other people wonder/did wonder about. I thought I was missing something obvious on the NF website! I was confused because each category has tabs for live phone calls, recorded calls, and chat, and it seems chat is the only one of the 3 you can't bid to promote. I wish you could promote it, but I kind of get it...if customers were clicking a bunch of promoted chats in the first page spots and not getting quick responses because those ladies only actually respond for like an hour or two each day, it'd turn customers away from chat entirely because "the girls are never on". So it does make sense to me that ladies who already have proven that they can and WILL quickly respond to tons of chats would get the top spots.
Unless I'm misunderstanding what you're saying about it making sense not being able to promote chat, if we were able to promote it and someone doesn't want to take any chats they wouldn't be promoting in the first place so they wouldn't be on the front pages. It's like that on Phrendly.
izshadow
08-19-2019, 09:34 AM
I hate chat. Even with notifications turned on, I sometimes dont even get a notification or I'll wake up the next morning, look and have a chat showing from the night before. How? I refreshed my page before bed and nothing. I'm sitting right here and saw/heard nothing but there it is the next day. Sigh.
LilPoundCake
08-19-2019, 09:55 AM
I hate chat. Even with notifications turned on, I sometimes dont even get a notification or I'll wake up the next morning, look and have a chat showing from the night before. How? I refreshed my page before bed and nothing. I'm sitting right here and saw/heard nothing but there it is the next day. Sigh.
I have problems with that too!
Especially, with existing customers.
I've just started leaving my headphones plugged into my pc, with the volume on max. I've been missing far less messages this way.
Blue-Velvet
08-20-2019, 05:21 AM
Is anyone in the UK still waiting on their cheque to arrive? Mine still hasn't appeared.
Carmel57
08-20-2019, 05:45 AM
Me, mine hasn’t either. This will only be my second one so not sure if it’s late or not.
MissGD
08-20-2019, 04:35 PM
I'm sorry it's slow for you too! It really does suck. Do you do well with audio clips? I use content so I don't webcam or do video clips, but I have a good voice and the guys that have actually purchased my audio clips have given me great feedback so I'm trying to expand there but I wasn't sure if it was worth the effort if guys were more into video. I've been studying and dabbling in erotic hypnosis for the past year and I've written a couple full scripts for recordings with background sound, etc but I wasn't sure if it would sell and if I could market those recordings elsewhere.
Sorry for taking forever to reply, my lo got sick and then I got sick and blahhh. Anyway lately I have been doing well but that is because they are just audio they are in specific categories that lack content often or that not many people will do because they find them weird or hard to understand. I usually don't perform well in clip sites but this month I've sold almost 200.00 worth of clips. Half of them audio and half videos. I'm featuring in top clips/studios in multiple categories this month because of targeting unknown niches and with everything being so dry it is making it all worth it knowing I'll have at least that much coming in. I totally suggest you putting out some erotic hypnosis mp3s and vids if possible if you keep going consistently people WILL take notice and if you have a period where they buy everything up and then stop sometimes in the future you clip can become hot again because that category is hard to find GOOD producers
yesmisslibby
08-20-2019, 08:06 PM
Is there any mechanism in place to stop me from deleting a listing with a low star rating and replacing it with a similar listing in the same category? Like, would the people who decide what gets approved notice/care?
Spemily
08-20-2019, 08:10 PM
Is there any mechanism in place to stop me from deleting a listing with a low star rating and replacing it with a similar listing in the same category? Like, would the people who decide what gets approved notice/care?
No, go ahead and do it. It's a widely used strategy when a new listing gets hit with a bad rating.
Girly_Girl
08-21-2019, 09:23 AM
A customer just called me and said he was a boobs guy buy wanted to know what age that I started growing boobs. I told him that we werent allowed to talk about anything under the age of 18 and of course he hung up. Are we allowed to answer those kind of questions? I know age play isnt allowed but not sure if me answering his question wouldve been breaking the rules or not? Just asking so I will know if something like this comes up again....pretty sure its against the rules, but just want to make sure?
Spemily
08-21-2019, 10:20 AM
A customer just called me and said he was a boobs guy buy wanted to know what age that I started growing boobs. I told him that we werent allowed to talk about anything under the age of 18 and of course he hung up. Are we allowed to answer those kind of questions? I know age play isnt allowed but not sure if me answering his question wouldve been breaking the rules or not? Just asking so I will know if something like this comes up again....pretty sure its against the rules, but just want to make sure?
It's against the rules.
https://www.niteflirt.com/help/niteflirt_rules#Prohibited-Content
Child Pornography or any depiction of a child. Discussions about your kids, what you were like before you were 18, the term “Lolita” or kids in general is not allowed. Wish lists with children's items are not permitted. Images of children are not permitted. If a photo includes a minor under the age of 18, it is not permitted on NiteFlirt.
luna93
08-21-2019, 09:07 PM
I’m trying to make PTVS and whenever I try to insert an image and paste a url from my file manager, I just get a small black box and no image to be seen anywhere. Earlier it was working, and now it’s not. I’m going absolutely mad.
MistressX
08-22-2019, 12:34 PM
Can we take tributes on niteflirt for custom videos? I have never done it that way before and I thought I saw someone mention before that they didnt like that or they didnt like taking tributes for cam shows on there or something. I just want to make sure I'm not breaking any rules
PixiieGirl
08-22-2019, 12:44 PM
Can we take tributes on niteflirt for custom videos? I have never done it that way before and I thought I saw someone mention before that they didnt like that or they didnt like taking tributes for cam shows on there or something. I just want to make sure I'm not breaking any rules
I think taking tributes for anything is against the rules, what I do for customs is I’ve a good bag they buy to pay for it
MistressX
08-22-2019, 12:57 PM
How do you do that? Like a goody bag named 10 minutes custom video or? What do you put inside it?
PixiieGirl
08-22-2019, 01:54 PM
How do you do that? Like a goody bag named 10 minutes custom video or? What do you put inside it?
yeah, and I put inside just a random photo
Spemily
08-22-2019, 02:21 PM
How do you do that? Like a goody bag named 10 minutes custom video or? What do you put inside it?
I usually send them a payment request with all the details we've agreed on in the body of the mail. That way they can pay the proper amount and we both have a record of what was agreed to.
PixiieGirl
08-22-2019, 04:14 PM
I usually send them a payment request with all the details we've agreed on in the body of the mail. That way they can pay the proper amount and we both have a record of what was agreed to.
thats a much better idea Im gonna do this!
Falcia
08-22-2019, 05:55 PM
I understand that there are guys that specifically call new girls, girls with zero stars or low feedback. I experienced this really well in my 1st week here, and was wondering, now that I'm in my 3rd week, and over 300 stars on my main listing, would it be optimal to delete that particular listing and start a listing in that category over? Has anyone else done that, and if so, did it make much of a difference? I know I could just promote a new listing, but I like this one particularly because it's in a not as populated sub category, which made it super cheap to advertise when I was new, and is still the cheapest one for me to advertise even though it's gotten such a high LVS. I know LVS contributes to featured listing advertising bid, but even a listing with a similar LVS is almost double the price.
I figured I could change my listing picture to something that I haven't used yet and maybe guys will be more inclined to call if they don't recognize the picture. Anyone ever tried this? Did it work out well for you?
alleykat217
08-22-2019, 08:12 PM
I've been on here for about a month. Is it just me or is bidding just not worth it? I mainly get chats, which I know has nothing to do with the bidding, but I'm trying to figure out if maybe because I bid they clicked on my listing then chose my chat card. The thing is, out of the last 30 chats, only 1 was qualified. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy about that but that just shows that 29 of them found me other than featured listing. So even if I wasn't bidding I still would've made money. Or am I missing something here?
Also, all the other qualified clicks were either "member since...", which means no money made or it shows their name only because they either sent me mail or favorited me.....also no money.
queenelayliah
08-22-2019, 09:12 PM
I've been on here for about a month. Is it just me or is bidding just not worth it? I mainly get chats, which I know has nothing to do with the bidding, but I'm trying to figure out if maybe because I bid they clicked on my listing then chose my chat card. The thing is, out of the last 30 chats, only 1 was qualified. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy about that but that just shows that 29 of them found me other than featured listing. So even if I wasn't bidding I still would've made money. Or am I missing something here?
Also, all the other qualified clicks were either "member since...", which means no money made or it shows their name only because they either sent me mail or favorited me.....also no money.
Well because of the slow down that started October 2018 and then it currently being summer. Alot of people have been mentioning how so many more girls are bidding and it seems like its not worth it. But in my opinion it is worth it because, unless you have a huge following and consistently bring in customers. If you dont bid you will get very few or no calls at all.
queenelayliah
08-22-2019, 09:19 PM
Sorry for taking forever to reply, my lo got sick and then I got sick and blahhh. Anyway lately I have been doing well but that is because they are just audio they are in specific categories that lack content often or that not many people will do because they find them weird or hard to understand. I usually don't perform well in clip sites but this month I've sold almost 200.00 worth of clips. Half of them audio and half videos. I'm featuring in top clips/studios in multiple categories this month because of targeting unknown niches and with everything being so dry it is making it all worth it knowing I'll have at least that much coming in. I totally suggest you putting out some erotic hypnosis mp3s and vids if possible if you keep going consistently people WILL take notice and if you have a period where they buy everything up and then stop sometimes in the future you clip can become hot again because that category is hard to find GOOD producers
Hi if you don’t mind me asking, what clip sites do you use? And how did you learn to make audio clips? Also what program do you use to edit your audio recordings?
LilPoundCake
08-22-2019, 11:05 PM
I've been on here for about a month. Is it just me or is bidding just not worth it? I mainly get chats, which I know has nothing to do with the bidding, but I'm trying to figure out if maybe because I bid they clicked on my listing then chose my chat card. The thing is, out of the last 30 chats, only 1 was qualified. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy about that but that just shows that 29 of them found me other than featured listing. So even if I wasn't bidding I still would've made money. Or am I missing something here?
Also, all the other qualified clicks were either "member since...", which means no money made or it shows their name only because they either sent me mail or favorited me.....also no money.
I find it worth it.
I'm good at conversing with the customers so on average I spend 30 mins or more on a call.
I generally can keep them talking for upwards of an hour.
They never would have called if I wasn't featuring myself.
And I have also only been using the site for a month.
I've made a pretty penny this month, and I have zero social media presence. If it wasn't for featuring I would never get any calls.
SapphireXO
08-23-2019, 11:59 AM
I find it worth it.
I'm good at conversing with the customers so on average I spend 30 mins or more on a call.
I generally can keep them talking for upwards of an hour.
They never would have called if I wasn't featuring myself.
And I have also only been using the site for a month.
I've made a pretty penny this month, and I have zero social media presence. If it wasn't for featuring I would never get any calls.
My first 4 months on NF were insanely busy! It dies down. NF customers LOVEEEEEEE new girls.
LilPoundCake
08-23-2019, 07:41 PM
My first 4 months on NF were insanely busy! It dies down. NF customers LOVEEEEEEE new girls.
Girl, no offense. But I don't see how you're comment has anything to do with mine?
I was answering a question about bidding?
izshadow
08-24-2019, 09:21 AM
Girl, no offense. But I don't see how you're comment has anything to do with mine?
I was answering a question about bidding?
No need to be rude. You clearly said you had been on NF for only a month so newsflash, you ARE a new girl. So between bidding and you being a new girl, you will be making good money. Once that new girl status dies down, pray for your bids to make your phone ring.
alleykat217
08-24-2019, 10:36 AM
I made a second account about 3 weeks ago and not once has any bidding done me any good. There are way too many q-clicks on here and any calls or chats that I get are BARELY from featured listings. I've changed up things on my profile and if it helps get me more customers it's just not from bidding.
When you girls bid, do you go by your placement under Find Women or your category/sub category? I've tested all of them out and nothing seems to help.
LilPoundCake
08-24-2019, 11:56 AM
No need to be rude. You clearly said you had been on NF for only a month so newsflash, you ARE a new girl. So between bidding and you being a new girl, you will be making good money. Once that new girl status dies down, pray for your bids to make your phone ring.
I was not trying to be.
I try to be nothing but positive. seriously.
and I was responding to a question from someone who was also new.
She had been on for a month and asked if bidding was worth it.
as someone who has an account that is the same age as hers, I answered yes it has been worth it for me.
then I got a response that, I felt, really didn't have anything to do with her question or my answer of yes bidding has been worth it.
I'm probably just reading it wrong.
Honestly, I come on here to be nothing but helpful. If I came across as rude def not my intention.
Growlerpussy
08-25-2019, 12:12 AM
Anyone has the "Tickle guy"? Goes on for ages with his tickle fetish and the 2 women he invites over. So annoying to laugh for ages ...... still making a good amount of money with him. And I want to block him at the same time...........
LilPoundCake
08-25-2019, 02:29 AM
hit 2500 across my MULTIPLE profiles. not just nf. LOL. this has been a good week hoping to hit 2-3 gs next week too. It's crazy I have not advertised raise the rate games, but multiple people have hmu for it. Loving all these losers spending money on me. I guess when you are not salty and postive the universe hits your ass up.
ps I said out loud "universe, girl, you're going to bless all these positive women, on niteflirt" im new to nf but im not new to the fucking hustle, wishing all you ladies the best of luck.
NitaBaby
08-25-2019, 04:57 AM
hit 2500 across my MULTIPLE profiles. not just nf. LOL. this has been a good week hoping to hit 2-3 gs next week too. It's crazy I have not advertised raise the rate games, but multiple people have hmu for it. Loving all these losers spending money on me. I guess when you are not salty and positive the universe hits your ass up.
AYYYYEEEE. I'm happy for you!! This is the kind of stuff I truly just love, love, love hearing. Even if I'm having a bad cam day or something it always gives me a boost to hear about someone else's success. I'm going to be soaking this one in for the rest of the day.
And, hell, yeah, that salty shit has a time and occasional place but there is a limit. Venting is fine but some people live, sleep, and have breakfast in their negative space. It's really weird when someone shares ONLY bad news or the latest stress and then wonders why nothing positive seems to break the pattern.
Wishing you more weeks like this, and better, in the future :heartbeat
MistressX
08-25-2019, 12:26 PM
So when you have a customer call who is obviously new, and didnt even bother giving himself a name (member 123456, etc), and he is talking to you as though you are not just a phone sex operator but someone who will come to fulfill his sexual needs at his actual home, how do you handle that? Obviously I let them know that isn't allowed, but this guy became abusive afterwards. Was not sure how to handle it except to hang up and block. Is that the wrong way to go about it? How do i report such behavior? Where is NF advertising that men are thinking we are actual escorts who will show up at their homes?
StrawberryDreams
08-25-2019, 04:08 PM
There's actually a thread about that near the top of the NF site boards right now, so it's pretty common. It seems like for most (but not all) of the men doing this, it's merely a fantasy where they wont disclose in plain language that it's a fantasy, because they don't want to break the illusion that "it could happen!"
Falcia
08-25-2019, 05:06 PM
Had an incredible month this month. Started up a new character this month and she blew up. No profile has ever gotten this much attention. I've made $8.3k since August 1st, which since I'm Canadian is gonna end up over $11k. It'd be great to see if I could hit $10k US before the end of the month but that might be super rough unless my phone never stops ringing for the rest of this week.
yesmisslibby
08-25-2019, 06:09 PM
So when you have a customer call who is obviously new, and didnt even bother giving himself a name (member 123456, etc), and he is talking to you as though you are not just a phone sex operator but someone who will come to fulfill his sexual needs at his actual home, how do you handle that? Obviously I let them know that isn't allowed, but this guy became abusive afterwards. Was not sure how to handle it except to hang up and block. Is that the wrong way to go about it? How do i report such behavior? Where is NF advertising that men are thinking we are actual escorts who will show up at their homes?
The guys with just member numbers are typically guys who just called in and then chose a girl through the phone system, without even looking at the website. I've noticed this because those guys have not seen my photos, and ask more about my appearance. I wonder whether nf's tv ads (or print? do they advertise in magazines?) are a bit ambiguous about what's being offered.
Anyway I'm sorry that happened. Having a caller turn on you like that sucks.
izshadow
08-26-2019, 08:19 AM
Its been dead on NF so so so bad. I mean it has been bad for awhile but I hate when you get spurts of good and think YaY here we go! And then your phone goes back to being dead. Four profiles have been on 24/7 and its been days since a couple of them have even rang. Feels weird getting full night sleeps in since the phone isnt waking me up to take a call.
SapphireXO
08-29-2019, 12:29 PM
Had an incredible month this month. Started up a new character this month and she blew up. No profile has ever gotten this much attention. I've made $8.3k since August 1st, which since I'm Canadian is gonna end up over $11k. It'd be great to see if I could hit $10k US before the end of the month but that might be super rough unless my phone never stops ringing for the rest of this week.
Thats extraordinary! Congrats.
yesmisslibby
08-30-2019, 01:23 AM
I just had a twenty minute call where he went silent after about 18 min, I waited two min and was like "are you there?" etc and then i hung up. The call shows on the "my account" page but not "transactions," and when I click his username it shows 1 call lasting 0 min and earning $0. I tried looking through the nf help pages and googling without luck. Does anyone know what could have happened?
edit: to be clear it's not only on his customer page that it says $0. My actual earnings show no change. I truly was not paid for the call.
Edit #2: Okay now it says that it was 70 min and I earned $87, which is also very inaccurate. It just changed this minute. I think it was 70 from the start of the call until now. I am still extremely confused. Has anyone ever experienced something like this?
Sweet_Sadie
08-30-2019, 10:48 AM
Blue-Velvet
08-30-2019, 02:42 PM
Has anyone here in the UK had any trouble in the past couple of months with paying in cheques in $USD? I bank with HSBC and for the past 6yrs when I pay in a cheque, it gets "negotiated" and hits my account the next day at a fee of £12. Last month for the first time, they sent the cheque for "collection" and it took several weeks to clear at a fee of £28. It appears they've done the same thing this month as well. I'm waiting to hear back from them with regard to lodging a complaint, but I was wondering if it was just my bank suddenly being funny or if anyone else has had any issues paying in foreign cheques. It still astounds me that NF refuses to pay non-US people by cheque instead of SEPA bank transfer or Paxum or anything other than a bloody paper cheque.
caramelcraze
08-31-2019, 05:24 AM
I've had 4 dropped calls today. 3 were cam shows and I know the guy wasn't anywhere near his phone so it's definitely a NF issue.
izshadow
08-31-2019, 08:55 AM
I just had a twenty minute call where he went silent after about 18 min, I waited two min and was like "are you there?" etc and then i hung up. The call shows on the "my account" page but not "transactions," and when I click his username it shows 1 call lasting 0 min and earning $0. I tried looking through the nf help pages and googling without luck. Does anyone know what could have happened?
edit: to be clear it's not only on his customer page that it says $0. My actual earnings show no change. I truly was not paid for the call.
Edit #2: Okay now it says that it was 70 min and I earned $87, which is also very inaccurate. It just changed this minute. I think it was 70 from the start of the call until now. I am still extremely confused. Has anyone ever experienced something like this?
It happens. The system doesnt actually disconnect. Enjoy the extra cash! Support doesnt reverse charges. The guy may be pissed (most are not though and used to that happening from time to time and have learned not to have a ton of money in their account when they call).
izshadow
08-31-2019, 08:57 AM
I've had 4 dropped calls today. 3 were cam shows and I know the guy wasn't anywhere near his phone so it's definitely a NF issue.
Had this happen to me two days ago. Was in the middle of a cam show and boom, it was telling me how long the call lasted. I'm like uh no. The guy was no where near his phone either and it never warned us we had one minute left and the guy said he had plenty in his account. So he had to call back and we finished the show.
Smurfette
08-31-2019, 05:26 PM
So do Skype numbers not work for NF?? My MagicApp isn't recieving calls for some reason so I bought a Skype number as an alternative... but the calls are not coming through there, either.
I'm freaking the fuck out, as I REALLY REALLY NEED TO WORK. Any idea what could be wrong???
Spemily
08-31-2019, 06:15 PM
I used a Skype number once, for about six months and it worked just fine. On the NiteFlirt end, I didn't do anything special, just entered the Skype number on my account as you would any number. On the other end, I logged into the Skype app on my cell phone and the calls came in reliably enough.
izshadow
08-31-2019, 10:49 PM
So do Skype numbers not work for NF?? My MagicApp isn't recieving calls for some reason so I bought a Skype number as an alternative... but the calls are not coming through there, either.
I'm freaking the fuck out, as I REALLY REALLY NEED TO WORK. Any idea what could be wrong???
You can also get a google number. Thats what I use for one of my NF accounts. Just make sure you turn off the feature where it announces who is calling as it can cause issues connecting you in time to not miss the call.
Smurfette
09-01-2019, 07:30 AM
Thanks everyone. Google number is only for US as far as I can tell.
Thankfully, I fixed the problem. In my skype settings, "allow skype to screen calls" (or something like that) was automatically checked. It was blocking NF as a spam caller.
So if anyone's having trouble receiving calls over Skype, make sure that you uncheck that setting.