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PixiieGirl
10-29-2019, 11:28 AM
I hate that it is because you cant Skype and be connected with NF with someone on their mobile phone.
yeah its annoying - I assume its cause they cant monitor it or something
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 11:44 AM
I hate that it is because you cant Skype and be connected with NF with someone on their mobile phone.
Huh? I just did it. Perhaps I'm misunderstanding. I was on the call the whole time while on Skype via my laptop. Did I do something wrong?
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 11:46 AM
yes, dont take a tribute as payment its against the ToC of NF x
I have a button to buy my Skype then took the call. Is this correct?
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 11:58 AM
How did you do?
Chat volleys & one cam call total $45.68
This seems low. I've had 3 ppl inquire about Skype but not buy my ID. Is this usual? They aren't buying the ID they are just asking for Skype. Only one guy was serious & bought ID so I took his call.
Are guys trying to weasel their way out of paying for cam?
PixiieGirl
10-29-2019, 12:21 PM
I have a button to buy my Skype then took the call. Is this correct?
it is, what is meant is if they are on skype on their phones, they cant call and skype us - I did have a client manage it once but no idea how he did lol
also Im not sure what you mean by seems low sorry so cant help there
but yeah - I have loads message and ask for my skype, my skype ID is only $2 so if they cant pay for that I doubt they're legit - when I get this I tell them to buy my skype and if they dont well, they dont lol
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 12:35 PM
it is, what is meant is if they are on skype on their phones, they cant call and skype us - I did have a client manage it once but no idea how he did lol
also Im not sure what you mean by seems low sorry so cant help there
but yeah - I have loads message and ask for my skype, my skype ID is only $2 so if they cant pay for that I doubt they're legit - when I get this I tell them to buy my skype and if they dont well, they dont lol
Oh. Gotcha!
I bid up the ass & only made that so far. I've paid almost what I've earned. That's why I say it seems low. I'm frustrated. Lots of clicks hardly any calls. This blows.
izshadow
10-29-2019, 12:54 PM
I never bid more then 50 cents a listing. You dont need to be at the top to be seen. I like to be on page 2 as guys like to scroll. So as long as your on at least page 2 of your category, your golden. NF comes in waves. Some days you will be busy and some days or even weeks you can go without a single call. And this is with multiple account/characters in multiple categories.
BubblyBlonde
10-29-2019, 12:56 PM
Chat volleys & one cam call total $45.68
This seems low. I've had 3 ppl inquire about Skype but not buy my ID. Is this usual? They aren't buying the ID they are just asking for Skype. Only one guy was serious & bought ID so I took his call.
Are guys trying to weasel their way out of paying for cam?
I have strict instructions. They have to buy my ID and add me on Skype BEFORE they call. They have to buy it or I don’t answer the call. I rarely have problems with it. If it slow and I am bidding I answer and stall them like I do on Streamate before giving my ID.
The past few days I am getting lots of clicks, but less sales. They are there, but not spending much right now.
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 12:56 PM
I never bid more then 50 cents a listing. You dont need to be at the top to be seen. I like to be on page 2 as guys like to scroll. So as long as your on at least page 2 of your category, your golden. NF comes in waves. Some days you will be busy and some days or even weeks you can go without a single call. And this is with multiple account/characters in multiple categories.
Thanks (((hugs)))
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 12:59 PM
I have strict instructions. They have to buy my ID and add me on Skype BEFORE they call. They have to buy it or I don’t answer the call. I rarely have problems with it. If it slow and I am bidding I answer and stall them like I do on Streamate before giving my ID.
The past few days I am getting lots of clicks, but less sales. They are there, but not spending much right now.
Thank you for that! Kk I'm on the right track.
PixiieGirl
10-29-2019, 01:00 PM
I only bid 0.35 personally! hope it picks up <3
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 01:07 PM
^^Good to know. Xoxo
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-29-2019, 02:29 PM
This has been said many times and I'm sure most here know this...but just in case you're new to NF and haven't read the thread yet...callers DO NOT need to purchase your Skype ID to initiate a call. Once they call you through Niteflirt's automated system you are required to give them your Skype ID. At this point they've already become a paying customer, you can't then ask them to pay for additional access. IMO feedback isn't that big of a deal but I would hate to see a newbie get hit with negative reviews because they didn't know the tos.
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 02:43 PM
^^Thanks!
PixiieGirl
10-29-2019, 03:05 PM
ah I should have said when I tell them to buy my ID I mean if they message for free - if theyre on the phone, or through chat (unless its the first message) I give it them
laurielegs
10-29-2019, 03:36 PM
While I'm totally against giving things away for free (I don't even flash in free chat for tips lol because it irks me to no end that freeloaders are seeing) I do make an exception with my Skype ID on Niteflirt. If they ask for it in Niteflirt messaging or chat I give it to them, asking them to tell me what theirs is so I can put it in customer notes and add them. I also make it clear in the same Niteflirt message that I do not chat on Skype at all and will not answer there, strictly used for transmitting my cam. If they try to chat I direct them to niteflirt message or chat, one warning and then they get blocked.
My reasons for that is I make a ton on cam calls and I'm not going to turn down a guy who might net me thousands of dollars for a few dollars made on a skype ID sale. This is a customer who has a registered credit card on file, not a random freeloader, so odds are way better that he will spend.
Miss_ShaSha
10-29-2019, 04:28 PM
^^Thanks. That's good insight.
izshadow
10-29-2019, 06:38 PM
Once you get established to on NF with your listings, sometimes you dont even have to bid. I always have to bid my PSO lines, on all accounts but my cam listings, I dont. I'm always top 15 with both cam listings without bidding so bidding would be a waste of money. So always pay attention to your ranking so your not wasting money on unnecessary clicks.
Victoria_Gray
10-29-2019, 08:06 PM
Is there anyone here who just sells - or knows people who just sell - content through NF? I tried using the site to promote myself as a PSO a while ago but couldn't get the hang of it. Wanted to use it to just sell content through their goodie bags, but unsure if that would work.
Miss_ShaSha
10-30-2019, 01:04 AM
Once you get established to on NF with your listings, sometimes you dont even have to bid. I always have to bid my PSO lines, on all accounts but my cam listings, I dont. I'm always top 15 with both cam listings without bidding so bidding would be a waste of money. So always pay attention to your ranking so your not wasting money on unnecessary clicks.
Kk good advice
PixiieGirl
10-30-2019, 04:51 AM
While I'm totally against giving things away for free (I don't even flash in free chat for tips lol because it irks me to no end that freeloaders are seeing) I do make an exception with my Skype ID on Niteflirt. If they ask for it in Niteflirt messaging or chat I give it to them, asking them to tell me what theirs is so I can put it in customer notes and add them. I also make it clear in the same Niteflirt message that I do not chat on Skype at all and will not answer there, strictly used for transmitting my cam. If they try to chat I direct them to niteflirt message or chat, one warning and then they get blocked.
My reasons for that is I make a ton on cam calls and I'm not going to turn down a guy who might net me thousands of dollars for a few dollars made on a skype ID sale. This is a customer who has a registered credit card on file, not a random freeloader, so odds are way better that he will spend.
I didnt know that they had to have a CC on site - I might do a little experiment and try this and see how it goes - thanks for sharing!
MsMeta
10-30-2019, 12:21 PM
How do you guys handle a customer that is a lot of work? I have this guy who called on my submissive line and wants me to turn him gay. I told him I don't really know how to do that, being submissive and all, and he's like, "you can learn." And he demands my full attention while chatting, wants me to read stuff to figure out how to turn him, wants me to watch videos so I can learn and trick him. I told him if he wants my undivided attention he can pay for it so he said I could just get to it when I can but he texts me every couple minutes "How are you gonna do it? Any ideas?" I want to block him but frankly the traffic is so bad I need the money. It's exhausting.
ETA: I don't think he's especially cheap, I think he's high maintenance. He says he wants one thing and wants ME to want it, he wants ME to want to turn him gay, he wants ME to want to trick him, etc. Ugh I can't imagine how he is in real life.
Spemily
10-30-2019, 12:52 PM
How do you guys handle a customer that is a lot of work? I have this guy who called on my submissive line and wants me to turn him gay. I told him I don't really know how to do that, being submissive and all, and he's like, "you can learn." And he demands my full attention while chatting, wants me to read stuff to figure out how to turn him, wants me to watch videos so I can learn and trick him. I told him if he wants my undivided attention he can pay for it so he said I could just get to it when I can but he texts me every couple minutes "How are you gonna do it? Any ideas?" I want to block him but frankly the traffic is so bad I need the money. It's exhausting.
ETA: I don't think he's especially cheap, I think he's high maintenance. He says he wants one thing and wants ME to want it, he wants ME to want to turn him gay, he wants ME to want to trick him, etc. Ugh I can't imagine how he is in real life.
Is his name Nick? Does he mention very large breasts or hypnotism? If yes, a lot of people have had this guy and it's pretty much impossible to make him happy. Grit your teeth and make the money as long as you can stand it.
MsMeta
10-30-2019, 12:58 PM
Is his name Nick? Does he mention very large breasts or hypnotism? If yes, a lot of people have had this guy and it's pretty much impossible to make him happy. Grit your teeth and make the money as long as you can stand it.
Ha! No I've had that guy before and you're right, he's a pain. I blocked him a long time ago lol. No this guy is married and says he's not gay but he's curious and wants me to force him to hook up with a guy and every time I make a suggestion, he says "that won't work maybe I should try this." So I'm like, okay, try this and he replies "but will that work? Tell me what you're thinking." JFC
sexysusie
10-30-2019, 02:53 PM
How do you guys handle a customer that is a lot of work? I have this guy who called on my submissive line and wants me to turn him gay. I told him I don't really know how to do that, being submissive and all, and he's like, "you can learn." And he demands my full attention while chatting, wants me to read stuff to figure out how to turn him, wants me to watch videos so I can learn and trick him. I told him if he wants my undivided attention he can pay for it so he said I could just get to it when I can but he texts me every couple minutes "How are you gonna do it? Any ideas?" I want to block him but frankly the traffic is so bad I need the money. It's exhausting.
ETA: I don't think he's especially cheap, I think he's high maintenance. He says he wants one thing and wants ME to want it, he wants ME to want to turn him gay, he wants ME to want to trick him, etc. Ugh I can't imagine how he is in real life.
Send him pay per view emails with your ideas, and more expensive pay per views with audio recordings of you watching the videos he suggests etc. If he wants to discuss in depth he must call you. Make him pay for everything. If he annoys you make him pay more. Guys like this will usually pay it :D
Miss_ShaSha
10-30-2019, 03:14 PM
^^Great advice!
yesmisslibby
10-30-2019, 06:10 PM
How do you guys handle a customer that is a lot of work? I have this guy who called on my submissive line and wants me to turn him gay. I told him I don't really know how to do that, being submissive and all, and he's like, "you can learn." And he demands my full attention while chatting, wants me to read stuff to figure out how to turn him, wants me to watch videos so I can learn and trick him. I told him if he wants my undivided attention he can pay for it so he said I could just get to it when I can but he texts me every couple minutes "How are you gonna do it? Any ideas?" I want to block him but frankly the traffic is so bad I need the money. It's exhausting.
ETA: I don't think he's especially cheap, I think he's high maintenance. He says he wants one thing and wants ME to want it, he wants ME to want to turn him gay, he wants ME to want to trick him, etc. Ugh I can't imagine how he is in real life.
in chat i'd just try to reply to every message he sends with even just like "mm" or "lol" to maximize that volley count. if he keeps coming back even if he seems dissatisfied, what difference does it make really?
Growlerpussy
10-31-2019, 12:30 AM
Nothing better than the first caller today who tells me, after I say Hi "OMG, you have an awful voice, not sexy at all. Bye!" and leaves me 1 star. What the hell goes on in those heads? I only said "Hi" ...........I wish Niteflirt had a rule that costumers can only leave a review after spending at least 2 or 3 minutes in a call ...... this is nonsense!
Miss_ShaSha
10-31-2019, 10:55 AM
^^What a bitch! Man, that's an unfair rating. 1 is exceptionally poor service. If your voice didn't make him stand erect right away doesn't mean your service is poor.
I'd be pissed!!!
takiaya
10-31-2019, 11:19 AM
Is there anyone here who just sells - or knows people who just sell - content through NF? I tried using the site to promote myself as a PSO a while ago but couldn't get the hang of it. Wanted to use it to just sell content through their goodie bags, but unsure if that would work.
I dont have a current niteflirt account but when i did i had phone sex listings set up but never used them, uploaded content via the goody bags and yes people did buy them sometimes.
MaryElizabeth
10-31-2019, 05:25 PM
Is his name Nick? Does he mention very large breasts or hypnotism? If yes, a lot of people have had this guy and it's pretty much impossible to make him happy. Grit your teeth and make the money as long as you can stand it.
My guy isn't name nick but have had this sort. The type that basically wants to put you to work with all his requests (pick out lingerie, post him to reddit sissy personals, etc etc etc etc). Yea, PAIN, so much you want to tell him to fuck off and hit the ignore but its usually just chat and when I look at the customer details and see this then I just keep at it. Eventually most guys move on to find 'fresh meat' but when a guy is tossing money at you don't dissuade him from it.
My overly irritating guy:52228
Victoria_Gray
10-31-2019, 11:30 PM
I dont have a current niteflirt account but when i did i had phone sex listings set up but never used them, uploaded content via the goody bags and yes people did buy them sometimes.
I am guessing they probably didn't buy as often as on clips sites, etc. though?
Victoria_Gray
10-31-2019, 11:32 PM
Regarding this annoying guy too... I wouldn't block, like others have said. I would keep him talking. PPV messages and audio messages are a great idea, too! He just wants wank fodder for his very specific fantasy, of course he won't do this, or he'd already be doing it.
izshadow
11-02-2019, 08:48 AM
Lovely. NF just called me with it showing "restricted" on my caller ID so I didnt pick up. Only figured it out from the VM that was left. I hope this isnt a new thing cause I would have no way of knowing if its NF or a scam caller or debt collector.
BubblyBlonde
11-04-2019, 11:08 AM
I don't know what is going on but I did 4 hours last night and made ZERO sales. Ran through all my bid money and nothing. Then this morning I am bidding again and people are trying to call me and unable to connect.
izshadow
11-04-2019, 11:41 AM
I don't know what is going on but I did 4 hours last night and made ZERO sales. Ran through all my bid money and nothing. Then this morning I am bidding again and people are trying to call me and unable to connect.
I have accounts that havent rang in well over a week but they are active and my bids get taken but zero sales. I'm so sad NF is no longer what it used to be. I sure do miss the good ole days.
MsMeta
11-04-2019, 04:47 PM
About 1/3 the calls I get every day mysteriously drop. Happens either as soon as it connects or (today) at 7 minutes. Sometimes they call back, sometimes they don't. I feel like I'm losing out on money and it's pissing me off. It's not my phone service; I get a lot of personal phone calls and I've never had one of those drop.
And I'm also having my bidding money drained. I don't even bid that high but it's just disappearing and weirdly, I'm not picking up new customers (my profiles have a bunch of ptvs to click so I get their usernames for mailing lists) when typically I usually get at least a few a day when I'm getting clicked to death.
MaryElizabeth
11-04-2019, 07:07 PM
Is there a way that I am missing to sign out of all the profiles of an account at once? thx
Spemily
11-04-2019, 08:40 PM
Is there a way that I am missing to sign out of all the profiles of an account at once? thx
There is only one profile per account. If you mean sign out of all the listings on an account, that is done My Account page. At the top, there's a drop down menu labeled My Call Status. If you set it to Away - Not Taking Calls, none of the listings on that account will be available for calls.
If you meant, all the different accounts associated with one telephone number, no, there is no way to log out of them all at once. You must log into each account with your username (or email) and password combo, and select Away - Not Taking Calls on each My Account page.
emmaivy
11-04-2019, 09:27 PM
Same thing happening to me with the dropped calls. It's weird. I also am sure it's definitely not my phone service. It's pissing me off as well. I have just sent mail saying sorry I don't know if the call dropped but if so just call back. Annoying for sure...
Staci
11-05-2019, 09:12 AM
There is only one profile per account. If you mean sign out of all the listings on an account, that is done My Account page. At the top, there's a drop down menu labeled My Call Status. If you set it to Away - Not Taking Calls, none of the listings on that account will be available for calls.
If you meant, all the different accounts associated with one telephone number, no, there is no way to log out of them all at once. You must log into each account with your username (or email) and password combo, and select Away - Not Taking Calls on each My Account page.
I miss the old days when we could use a program (I used Call Sniper) that would sign us in and out of all accounts with just one click.
MsMeta
11-05-2019, 06:33 PM
On one of my accounts today I racked up $15 from clicks. Had 6 calls; two dropped as soon as they were answered, one dropped 2 minutes in. None of the guys called back.
Luckily I had some good chats and goodies sales but if NF is getting 30% of the revenue + my bidding money they could at least have a system that works properly so we don't lose out on money.
Spemily
11-06-2019, 11:02 AM
Does anyone know if a google voice number instead of Skype will work in the Uk?
Google Voice isn't available to people outside the US.
SuperPookie
11-07-2019, 02:32 PM
I just want to say thank you to all the ladies who helped me with setting up the additional accounts with Google Voice. While I can't say I am making bank with them they are definitely making a noticeable difference in my NiteFlirt income which I really needed badly. I appreciate it!
izshadow
11-07-2019, 06:13 PM
I usually dont care about feedback. I never go and read it but it does irritate me when someone buys your skype ID and then leaves you a one star review saying how rude and unprofessional you are and they are also a flirt and would never treat someone so poorly, etc, etc.
Sad thing is... all I did was politely remind them to call me on NF for a cam show and not wait till I add them on Skype because its not necessary. Which they said they knew that, they were also a flirt ... and they exploded on me. I deleted the email before deciding to contact support. They didnt even put the negative feedback on my cam listing but on a phone only listing. I've never ever contacted support over feedback but it was so vindictive that I had to. Then they went on Skype and were like hope you like your new review. Who does that?
I also noticed a negative review that says I flatly rejected his fantasy and the call wasnt even 25 seconds long. I'm sorry but I would rather someone tell me immediately if they will do something or not then waste my time and money. I didnt report that as it wasnt vindictive. The guy was just an idiot and any normal person would see right through that and be like I'm glad she is blunt like that with what she will and will not do.
These people should not be allowed to leave reviews after simply purchasing our IDs. If it ends up being a problem on there, I'm not going to sell it and they will just have to get it when they call me.
You could just sell it as a Goody Bag, link it to your listing, and delete as necessary if you get shitty reviews like that.
izshadow
11-08-2019, 06:28 PM
I think I'm just going to delete the option in its entirety. They can call me and get it while on the phone with me. I'm sure it would weed out the time wasters and those feeling entitled to some free chat.
xxxGothBarbie
11-08-2019, 07:47 PM
I think I'm just going to delete the option in its entirety. They can call me and get it while on the phone with me. I'm sure it would weed out the time wasters and those feeling entitled to some free chat.
This is exactly what I do & it def weeds out timewasters. I've even sent a ptv to a guy once & charged him $5 LOL , he still called me & did a nice decent show.
Midwest-Mistress
11-08-2019, 09:15 PM
How Often is it that Niteflirt checks for profiles for original content ownership? I know they ask if you have 2257 but that's only if the photo is nude... I know I've seen a few profiles around where it's a girl who's snagged a random girls selfie from IG, or content stock photos from random sites, etc. Lol I like to scroll and lurk on my downtime, the juxtaposition it's so obvious it's funny. Of course it is all fantasy and the guys don't care, How ever you gotta get that money honey :jester:.
izshadow
11-08-2019, 09:17 PM
This is exactly what I do & it def weeds out timewasters. I've even sent a ptv to a guy once & charged him $5 LOL , he still called me & did a nice decent show.
Do you give it to them if they hit you up by the paid chat? Or just redirect them to call you? I know if they ask for it via email, I'd do as you do and send where they have to pay for it.