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izshadow
11-08-2019, 09:20 PM
How Often is it that Niteflirt checks for profiles for original content ownership? I know they ask if you have 2257 but that's only if the photo is nude... I know I've seen a few profiles around where it's a girl who's snagged a random girls selfie from IG, or content stock photos from random sites, etc. Lol I like to scroll and lurk on my downtime, the juxtaposition it's so obvious it's funny. Of course it is all fantasy and the guys don't care, How ever you gotta get that money honey :jester:.
They never ask for it. Been with NF and Keen (before the adult portion over there became NF) and never ever. But I make sure to personally have licensed content just because it makes my anxiety feel just fine haha but its not the end of the world if you dont.
Midwest-Mistress
11-08-2019, 09:30 PM
They never ask for it. Been with NF and Keen (before the adult portion over there became NF) and never ever. But I make sure to personally have licensed content just because it makes my anxiety feel just fine haha but its not the end of the world if you dont.
It's just interesting to me because I know a lot of clip sites don't keep up with it either - unless there's an issue then they issue a DCMA takedown for stolen content like that, I wonder if Niteflirt has done the same hmmmm.
izshadow
11-08-2019, 09:45 PM
It's just interesting to me because I know a lot of clip sites don't keep up with it either - unless there's an issue then they issue a DCMA takedown for stolen content like that, I wonder if Niteflirt has done the same hmmmm.
The only company I have ever had to actually submit my content licensing to was Talk to Me. No other company has ever asked me for it.
Midwest-Mistress
11-08-2019, 10:39 PM
The only company I have ever had to actually submit my content licensing to was Talk to Me. No other company has ever asked me for it.
Really? Huh, that's strange cause I'm on TTM and I never have done so, must have changed a lot over the years. I heard TTM is owned by C4S so it makes sense if they did at one point. Must be real laxed cause it's just phone sex I guess, lol now if it was BP now thats a whole different story lolol.
Midwest-Mistress
11-09-2019, 10:02 PM
Question To those who work multiple phone sex sites... Beginning of the year I tried to juggle NF and TTM, and another site all at once at one point and would get a little jumbled up.
With niteflirt which is better to do?
A. Turn off your avaibality completely "Away not taking calls" - with the send text sign on
B. Go into the listings settings and select "mail only" on my listings and keep my availability on
The thing I don't like about NF is that when I'm bidding if I turn my avail off then it sends my listing to the back, but if I change it to mail only would it do the same? Make customers not want to click it? Thoughts?
Thinking about having my schedule on at the bottom and saying something like "if my line is off during these hours shoot me a text"?
MaryElizabeth
11-11-2019, 03:12 AM
Go with "A" you can make money with text/chats while you are on the phone, you can start a chat and then when the guy hangs up you can keep chatting. Mail sucks, it doesn't earn much of anything. I have guys that never call me but we chat all the time and it makes bank. Using mail to line up calls is 'ok' at best and when guys want to cum and there are hundreds of other gals to call so usually only your hard regulars will wait for you.
Going with multiple sites is pretty much a necessity I think. I have had a week where NF is dead to me and TTM is through the roof. I think of it as having as many hooks in the water as possible. Yea, when you get a call and log out of a differing site you are going to miss calls, this is unavoidable. I have it where calls come in together from differing sites which sucks since one or the other is going to get hung up on. If you drop a call send a message and apologize, if its NF send minutes to entice them to call if they are worth it.
Good luck.
Question To those who work multiple phone sex sites... Beginning of the year I tried to juggle NF and TTM, and another site all at once at one point and would get a little jumbled up.
With niteflirt which is better to do?
A. Turn off your avaibality completely "Away not taking calls" - with the send text sign on
B. Go into the listings settings and select "mail only" on my listings and keep my availability on
The thing I don't like about NF is that when I'm bidding if I turn my avail off then it sends my listing to the back, but if I change it to mail only would it do the same? Make customers not want to click it? Thoughts?
Thinking about having my schedule on at the bottom and saying something like "if my line is off during these hours shoot me a text"?
Midwest-Mistress
11-11-2019, 11:53 AM
Does anyone know if Niteflirt is able to compile all of your past character account information for you?... I may or may not have went on an unjustified character making spree when I first started in '17 and would like to know the total $ I've made on each separate account. I've been on and off for the past few years.
MsMeta
11-11-2019, 04:07 PM
Okay, off topic of my normal NF complaints about low traffic and tech issues...I'm going through a really rough time. I caught my bf of many years cheating on me with a girl from his gym and instead of apologizing to ME, he dumped me and has ghosted me completely for her. I'm in a bad way right now and didn't work last week at all but I have to get my ass back online. I've taken a few calls and cried (silently) through them. It's so painful to exist let alone have to get off horny guys or even worse - pretend to be the lovey girlfriend.
When I say caught them I mean literally caught them post coital, kissing, him stroking her hair, smiling at her...FUCKING TERRIBLE. I can't get it out of my mind. How do you guys function when your personal life overshadows your work? Normally I can switch "Phone Sex Mode" on and off like a switch but it's kinda broken right now. For all the dirty talk and fetish shit I do on NF, I'm actually kinda romantic and not kinky personally and very monogamous and scared to death I'm going to be alone forever now. Working from home doesn't allow you to meet many people and I don't have many friends here. I also hate dating apps cause they don't seem spontaneous. I just want to be madly in love with an amazing man...and get random guys off over the phone lol.
How do you work through hard times in your personal life? Am I just being too sensitive and need to get my big girl panties on? I'm trying to up my PTV game so I have to worry less about talking on the phone (already watched Lexi's videos) but so far I'm not getting very far and it's hard to stay motivated. I know I'm complaining a lot but it's been a stressful week +. I need to shut off the personal stuff and get through the work and I don't know how.
Spemily
11-11-2019, 06:33 PM
Okay, off topic of my normal NF complaints about low traffic and tech issues...I'm going through a really rough time. I caught my bf of many years cheating on me with a girl from his gym and instead of apologizing to ME, he dumped me and has ghosted me completely for her. I'm in a bad way right now and didn't work last week at all but I have to get my ass back online. I've taken a few calls and cried (silently) through them. It's so painful to exist let alone have to get off horny guys or even worse - pretend to be the lovey girlfriend.
I went through a breakup in June. It wasn't a sudden betrayal like you and I didn't get ghosted, but it still hurt horrible. Like you, I cried throughout many of my calls especially when the guys wanted a sweet, loving call or when they wanted me to have an orgasm. At the time, real orgasms made me cry, so I was avoiding getting myself off. Turns out fake ones had the same effect. It was, and still is, difficult, though things have improved.
I have three accounts on NF, one using my own pics and largely based around my own personality and a version of my own sexual interests. It's the account where I do best because I think authenticity helps me connect better with my customers. My two other accounts use content girls and I try to project two different attitudes that aren't quite me. I found it easier to take calls on those lines, because there was a bit more of a buffer between my real self and the call. I also found it easier to work on those accounts because I hated looking at pics of myself, especially the ones my ex had taken. My two best-selling goody bags feature photos of his cum on me. Ugh.
Anyway, I realize that most of what I wrote isn't advice, just commiseration. It sucks. Do what you can manage. If you don't already one, try making another account. Either go very different from yourself or channel your feelings into a character who is recently single and looking to fuck every guy alive to get over her cheating ex.
MaryElizabeth
11-12-2019, 01:47 AM
Does anyone know if Niteflirt is able to compile all of your past character account information for you?... I may or may not have went on an unjustified character making spree when I first started in '17 and would like to know the total $ I've made on each separate account. I've been on and off for the past few years.
My Account > Reports > Performance Reports > Performance By Period
You can get everything that listing has earned. Bit of clicking you can get all the money you have made from each account going back at least 5 years.
Midwest-Mistress
11-12-2019, 07:23 AM
My Account > Reports > Performance Reports > Performance By Period
You can get everything that listing has earned. Bit of clicking you can get all the money you have made from each account going back at least 5 years.
opsss I'm sorry I should have been a bit more specific... I made a whole bunch of random accounts, opened and closed a few... Would they be able to trace them with my banking info with each account or is that something I had to keep up with? I made a whole bunch of e-mails and different characters I haven't logged into in a year :-X... I only was on a few months in 2017 then completely gone for 2018 the whole year.
yesmisslibby
11-13-2019, 04:44 PM
I'm having a terrible time with dropped calls, as many of you have mentioned. I even have seen girls get 1-star "she hung up on me" reviews out of it, and I can see why. I thought my callers were hanging up on me at first, why wouldn't they think that flirts were hanging up on them? Now that I know what's going on, I have been sending free minutes and apologies and emphatic praise of how good the call was, but liiiike. Something has to give, right? I can't work like this for long and make a living.
edit to add: Has anyone tried the "submit a request" thing in Help? Has anyone tweeted at them? I looked at their twitter replies and it seems like they haven't public replied to anyone, but maybe privately. Idk I might try either or both of these. I think they need to know how bad it is.
mariaxrr
11-14-2019, 06:35 AM
Hi! :) I am new on this of working by phone, after several years of doing full services I am switching because of chronic illness
but I am from Spain and I can't make it through the aply appointment because of it. The only way they can confirm your age is by sending your credit card information? It's the first time I see a website asking that.
caramelcraze
11-14-2019, 11:33 AM
Hi! :) I am new on this of working by phone, after several years of doing full services I am switching because of chronic illness
but I am from Spain and I can't make it through the aply appointment because of it. The only way they can confirm your age is by sending your credit card information? It's the first time I see a website asking that.
Hi and welcome! They require your ID and credit or debit card number in order to become a flirt. The latter is odd but I’ve never had an issue with them making odd charges or anything.
grneyesnfl
11-14-2019, 07:35 PM
edit to add: Has anyone tried the "submit a request" thing in Help? Has anyone tweeted at them? I looked at their twitter replies and it seems like they haven't public replied to anyone, but maybe privately. Idk I might try either or both of these. I think they need to know how bad it is.
Tons of flirts have complained about dropped calls in the NF forum for YEARS. They have submitted endless requests to NF about the issue and have said NF was of no help. If you go in the forum, you will see almost daily posts about this. Go ahead and put your request in as well, but don't expect a lot of help. I guess it's very difficult for NF to nail down what the issue is, since it could be your phone or your service causing the problem.
How long have you been on NF for? I’ve been on there about a year and a half now, and so far this second year is starting to follow the pattern of the first year in terms of traffic to me. November was slow last year and is slow again this year. Hoping it picks up in December like it did last year! Now is a good time to work on content/goody bags so you can cash in when the next rush hits. Good luck!
SuperPookie
11-15-2019, 07:43 AM
I just want to add a bit of positivity to say that with some revamping of profiles adding new characters etc I'm seeing improvement in my NF earnings. While I'm probably never going to see the big numbers that some of you do just seeing that something I did had a direct effect is making me feel better. My fingers are crossed that this is a trend and not just a temporary earnings spike.
SuperPookie
11-15-2019, 04:07 PM
Is there a reason why I ocasionally get charged for clicks by existing customers? It was my understanding that once you converted them you were No longer charged for any additional clicks.
BubblyBlonde
11-15-2019, 04:45 PM
Is there a reason why I ocasionally get charged for clicks by existing customers? It was my understanding that once you converted them you were No longer charged for any additional clicks.
If it’s been 30 days since the click was charged then they charge you again. It annoys me especially when the same name clicks repeatedly on my profile. It’s like we have to pay so they can jerk off to our pictures.
grneyesnfl
11-16-2019, 12:21 AM
If it’s been 30 days since the click was charged then they charge you again. It annoys me especially when the same name clicks repeatedly on my profile. It’s like we have to pay so they can jerk off to our pictures.
This is only partially correct and needs to be clarified.
If you're featuring yourself (bidding) and a guy clicks on your featured listing and calls you, chats with you, buys a goodie, etc..., then he can click on that featured listing all he wants for the next 30 days and you will not be charged for anymore clicks. BUT, after that 30 days, if he continues to click on your listing WITHOUT making another purchase... you can be charged one click EVERY 24 HOURS!! You need to keep an eye on your stats to make sure your customer isn't costing you daily clicks. Sometimes, depending on how much money you made off the customer... it may be the right decision to block someone.
BubblyBlonde
11-16-2019, 10:48 AM
This is only partially correct and needs to be clarified.
If you're featuring yourself (bidding) and a guy clicks on your featured listing and calls you, chats with you, buys a goodie, etc..., then he can click on that featured listing all he wants for the next 30 days and you will not be charged for anymore clicks. BUT, after that 30 days, if he continues to click on your listing WITHOUT making another purchase... you can be charged one click EVERY 24 HOURS!! You need to keep an eye on your stats to make sure your customer isn't costing you daily clicks. Sometimes, depending on how much money you made off the customer... it may be the right decision to block someone.
Thank you! I am going to keep an eye on this now.
izshadow
11-16-2019, 01:36 PM
I really need to add more characters and stop being lazy. I'm up to 4 accounts but I'd like two more. I will say since removing my buy my skype name before a show has really improved the type of guys. No time wasters or BS messages sent asking if I'm available or how I'm doing. They just call and get my ID on the phone with me. Wish I did that sooner.
alleykat217
11-17-2019, 12:21 AM
Is anyone else having an issue with getting text notifications on their phone when they receive a chat message? I wasn't having any problems up until a few days ago.
MaryElizabeth
11-18-2019, 01:30 AM
When guys want to talk about fucked up shit I don't really worry about it - the guys that are spending a couple bucks a minute to go into dark territory are not the problem types in the world.
This guy though, has been calling me for a couple weeks with his TV blaring and his smoke alarm chirping constantly. How can a person be so out of it - that sort of thing doesn't register in his donked skull for WEEKS ??
BubblyBlonde
11-18-2019, 01:23 PM
When guys want to talk about fucked up shit I don't really worry about it - the guys that are spending a couple bucks a minute to go into dark territory are not the problem types in the world.
This guy though, has been calling me for a couple weeks with his TV blaring and his smoke alarm chirping constantly. How can a person be so out of it - that sort of thing doesn't register in his donked skull for WEEKS ??
I wonder if this is the same guy who calls me....always has a TV blaring and I can barely understand what he is saying. I did a few cam sessions with him too and he is snorting cocaine and constantly smoking cigarettes and you can see wherever he lives is falling apart.
xxxGothBarbie
11-18-2019, 06:32 PM
Just out of curiosity, is it possible for me to do a cam w/ phone call from my phone with skype open & going at the same time they are on speakerphone?
izshadow
11-18-2019, 07:04 PM
Just out of curiosity, is it possible for me to do a cam w/ phone call from my phone with skype open & going at the same time they are on speakerphone?
No you cant. Its sometimes why guys ask to tribute for a show. Yes it goes against the rules but they cant skype and talk to you at the same time from their phone. It has to be from a computer.
izshadow
11-18-2019, 10:18 PM
^ Yes you can i do this all the time. He calls your phone which you keep on ( otherwise how would you know if he's ended the call) and also talk to him on skype.
Ugh god, I misread what she wrote. I thought she meant doing it all from her phone. Glad you read that right!
xxxGothBarbie
11-19-2019, 12:41 AM
Ugh god, I misread what she wrote. I thought she meant doing it all from her phone. Glad you read that right!
I did mean doing it all from my phone LOL if it's not possible, ok.
PixiieGirl
11-19-2019, 03:22 AM
I was actually gonna ask for a guide on this, I've had guy both call and skype me from their phone so I think at least on some phones it's possible, but I've no idea how they do it to guide other guys lol
SuperPookie
11-19-2019, 12:15 PM
I was actually gonna ask for a guide on this, I've had guy both call and skype me from their phone so I think at least on some phones it's possible, but I've no idea how they do it to guide other guys lol
Me either!
queenelayliah
11-19-2019, 12:31 PM
^ it depends on the phone but majority dont because of the audio feature. Since both applications are trying to use the “one” audio available. Because if im watching youtube and a call comes in and i go back to try to play the video while on the call. It wont let me.
Also how is everyone doing on niteflirt for the last week? Last week i think i made less than $75 but my bids are being eaten alive. Sigh. I miss the days when $500 a week was possible for someone like me who does not drive her own traffic to the profiles (not for a lack of trying).
izshadow
11-19-2019, 12:41 PM
^ it depends on the phone but majority dont because of the audio feature. Since both applications are trying to use the “one” audio available. Because if im watching youtube and a call comes in and i go back to try to play the video while on the call. It wont let me.
Also how is everyone doing on niteflirt for the last week? Last week i think i made less than $75 but my bids are being eaten alive. Sigh. I miss the days when $500 a week was possible for someone like me who drive her own traffic to the profiles (not for a lack of trying).
I've made like $25 bucks so far this week. Maybe. I miss the good ole days to. I could work four days/nights a week and bring in about $800. Now I'm begging for dollars and working almost 24/7.
sexysusie
11-19-2019, 12:50 PM
^ it depends on the phone but majority dont because of the audio feature. Since both applications are trying to use the “one” audio available. Because if im watching youtube and a call comes in and i go back to try to play the video while on the call. It wont let me.
Also how is everyone doing on niteflirt for the last week? Last week i think i made less than $75 but my bids are being eaten alive. Sigh. I miss the days when $500 a week was possible for someone like me who drive her own traffic to the profiles (not for a lack of trying).
Generally terrible, i get barely any new guys any more and my bids are just gobbled up in minutes. BUT the new guys i do get are whales. Last week one guy spent $1000 on me in 1 1/2 days. So they are still out there, it's just very feast or famine now.
PixiieGirl
11-19-2019, 02:30 PM
I now work part time again due to a vanilla job so this is my first day of the week but its actually been really good for me, couple of long calls. I dont pull anywhere near the amount you girls do though!
also, is there anyway to do a PTV type button but have it as free? I know I could do a goodie bag but they dont help the listings rating do they? Im trying to put a free voice sample on my listings aha
sexysusie
11-19-2019, 02:36 PM
I can't remember which way around it is for what helps the rating :/ but yes you can make a free ptv button - just set up a payment request email and link to that with your button. I do this with my voice sample to draw them in. They can have it for free or choose to pay .99 cents. I made a button and used html to put it together with the email code on my profile. Plus everyone that clicks gets filtered into my mailing list :)
PixiieGirl
11-19-2019, 04:28 PM
I can't remember which way around it is for what helps the rating :/ but yes you can make a free ptv button - just set up a payment request email and link to that with your button. I do this with my voice sample to draw them in. They can have it for free or choose to pay .99 cents. I made a button and used html to put it together with the email code on my profile. Plus everyone that clicks gets filtered into my mailing list :)
thanks! I did wonder if that was a good way to do it - Ill change it to this :)
I think it is the PTV type things rather than goodie bags, cause theyre linked to a listing whereas I think the goodie bags arent? most likely wrong tho lol
grneyesnfl
11-19-2019, 10:37 PM
I was actually gonna ask for a guide on this, I've had guy both call and skype me from their phone so I think at least on some phones it's possible, but I've no idea how they do it to guide other guys lol
I've also had a couple of guys able to do it but I didn't want to waste their money asking them how they did it. It is possible... I'm just not sure how they do it.
grneyesnfl
11-19-2019, 10:39 PM
I can't remember which way around it is for what helps the rating :/ but yes you can make a free ptv button - just set up a payment request email and link to that with your button. I do this with my voice sample to draw them in. They can have it for free or choose to pay .99 cents. I made a button and used html to put it together with the email code on my profile. Plus everyone that clicks gets filtered into my mailing list :)
You cannot make a payment request button/email for free. When you're composing it, it LOOKS like it's going to let you do it... but once you hit send... it tells you the payment request has to be for at least 10 cents.
Just say in your email that the customer does not have to pay the payment request amount... essentially making it free.
grneyesnfl
11-19-2019, 10:45 PM
When guys want to talk about fucked up shit I don't really worry about it - the guys that are spending a couple bucks a minute to go into dark territory are not the problem types in the world.
This guy though, has been calling me for a couple weeks with his TV blaring and his smoke alarm chirping constantly. How can a person be so out of it - that sort of thing doesn't register in his donked skull for WEEKS ??
The smoke alarm thing DRIVES ME CRAZY! This has happened to me quite a few times and I recently did a two-hour call with a guy whose alarm was chirping. I seriously thought about hanging up.
sexysusie
11-20-2019, 01:20 AM
You cannot make a payment request button/email for free. When you're composing it, it LOOKS like it's going to let you do it... but once you hit send... it tells you the payment request has to be for at least 10 cents.
Just say in your email that the customer does not have to pay the payment request amount... essentially making it free.
Yep that's what i do.
BubblyBlonde
11-20-2019, 01:52 PM
Does anyone know if customers can rate after being blocked? I just had to block a guy, I really am not one to block but this guy was really irate and abusive.
Spemily
11-20-2019, 01:54 PM
Does anyone know if customers can rate after being blocked? I just had to block a guy, I really am not one to block but this guy was really irate and abusive.
Yes, they can.
caramelcraze
11-20-2019, 05:49 PM
Yes, they can.
that's so lame.
izshadow
11-20-2019, 07:24 PM
NF is the worst when it comes to feedback. They just dont care. Its basically a free for all.
Midwest-Mistress
11-20-2019, 07:54 PM
I now work part time again due to a vanilla job so this is my first day of the week but its actually been really good for me, couple of long calls. I dont pull anywhere near the amount you girls do though!
also, is there anyway to do a PTV type button but have it as free? I know I could do a goodie bag but they dont help the listings rating do they? Im trying to put a free voice sample on my listings aha
Amberly Rothfield wrote a book about this, & currently I think niteflirt updated to where it's you want to have a high amount of goody bags sold because that determines if you get storage increase. Opposed to selling lots of PTVs, so basically you make that Goody Bag your freebie and a freebie is considered the .10 which is the lowest you have to charge. - Anyone correct me if wrong that's what I remember being told.
Now that I think about it updates like that need to be e-mailed and archived...
queenelayliah
11-22-2019, 02:17 PM
Anyone else feeling worried about nf & their income. Like this is sad to say but NF was my bread & butter this site alone paid the bills, of course im signed up with other sites. But they dont bring anywhere near what nf USED to bring in. Im panicking on how i will pay my bills if nf continue to be this abnormally slow. 2017 i could easily make $500 a week., 2017 lucky if i made $100 a week., now: last week i dont think i even made $40.
Then again
1) the hoildays are around the corner. Thanksgiving & Christmas.
2) Nba and other sports
3) Its time to pay property tax on their houses.
So im just hoping they’re strapped for cash.
If it doesnt pick up, what is your plan? What are you turning too, to pay the bills?
This time of year is a little slower for me than usual, and it was like that last year too. Just use the time to freshen up your listing(s) (I realize this is tedious with HTML) and make new goody bags. Both will help you look fresh and enticing to the wave of traffic that will come once things pick up again. Good luck!
PixiieGirl
11-22-2019, 03:12 PM
Amberly Rothfield wrote a book about this, & currently I think niteflirt updated to where it's you want to have a high amount of goody bags sold because that determines if you get storage increase. Opposed to selling lots of PTVs, so basically you make that Goody Bag your freebie and a freebie is considered the .10 which is the lowest you have to charge. - Anyone correct me if wrong that's what I remember being told.
Now that I think about it updates like that need to be e-mailed and archived...
see I read if they click and buy a PTV button from your listing tho it helps your listing score? is that not true?
I definitely need more storage mind I've like nearly 500 clips lol
HaydenBlue
11-22-2019, 03:32 PM
Pumping out new content always picks things up for me again. Make new videos or audios and mass message your goodie bags to your customer list. Send out a free minute. Add a button to your listings offering free pics / audio / video clip to get them on your list. But new content always gets the ball rolling for me.