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MaryElizabeth
03-24-2020, 09:34 AM
With so many states on lockdown there is no telling, most of the staff at NF might be homebound. I am under the impression NF is in California which is under a shelter-in-place order.


Has anyone had any listings approved lately? Just wondering how long it took? I've chucked up some new ones yesterday and they are still pending. Thanks all

Horny
03-25-2020, 02:39 AM
With so many states on lockdown there is no telling, most of the staff at NF might be homebound. I am under the impression NF is in California which is under a shelter-in-place order.

Both live now thank you. Its quiet for me but wanting to get some things in place I don't normally have time for when I'm camming full time

Growlerpussy
03-25-2020, 12:45 PM
Note on top of the website

"Please note that, at this time, some calls may not connect due to a nationwide carrier issue. Although this issue is outside of our control, we know that the carrier is working on getting it fixed as quickly as possible. If you're having trouble with NiteFlirt calls, please try again!"

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-27-2020, 05:45 AM
Note on top of the website

"Please note that, at this time, some calls may not connect due to a nationwide carrier issue. Although this issue is outside of our control, we know that the carrier is working on getting it fixed as quickly as possible. If you're having trouble with NiteFlirt calls, please try again!"

When I saw this the other day my first thought was Aww shit, here we go again! A recession and the Great Niteflirt Crash of 2009. 😊 But everything seems to be working again.

arielbriel
03-27-2020, 03:09 PM
I just added a few listings on niteflirt for calls and I am waiting for them to be approved. I set my rate at 2.99/minute. Is that too high? They suggested 1.99 but IDK. Will I not get calls because it's too low coupled with the fact that I am new? Thanks in advance guys.

Paradoxx
03-27-2020, 05:09 PM
I just added a few listings on niteflirt for calls and I am waiting for them to be approved. I set my rate at 2.99/minute. Is that too high? They suggested 1.99 but IDK. Will I not get calls because it's too low coupled with the fact that I am new? Thanks in advance guys.

Everyone's mileage may vary, but in my experience, being at $2.99/min. still got me quite a few calls - I'd get at least 2 or 3 long-ish (15+ min.) ones during a shift on a good day. However, I found that I needed more goodies/PTV's/chat to balance out the lower call volume. At $1.99/min. I was able to rely less on passive income to meet my goals since I had a lot more callers.

I don't think either of these rates would deter callers altogether though, you can try them both out and see what works better for you. My recommendation is $2.99 and throw up some things for guys to buy so you can make more money for your time since that's a pretty sweet payout after each call.

MaryElizabeth
03-27-2020, 06:22 PM
Most categories will have many, many thousands of flirt listings. I just checked and there are more than 12000 listings in the 'extra kinky' category available right now.

If you have new listings your problem won't the price of your listing but how you'll be seen. Start low, hope you get some calls and you can always raise your price later. And go back to the start of this thread and read everything.



I just added a few listings on niteflirt for calls and I am waiting for them to be approved. I set my rate at 2.99/minute. Is that too high? They suggested 1.99 but IDK. Will I not get calls because it's too low coupled with the fact that I am new? Thanks in advance guys.

arielbriel
03-29-2020, 02:29 AM
Thanks ! Okay, yes, I am working on reading everything in this thread and Streammate as well as trying to figure out what cam/lights I want to get. I will most likely go back to dancing when this is all over (if I can) and only do this if I am abroad or can't dance so I don't want to break the bank. Lots of research! My listings are still pending. Do I have to wait till monday or something ?

PixiieGirl
03-29-2020, 04:09 AM
Thanks ! Okay, yes, I am working on reading everything in this thread and Streammate as well as trying to figure out what cam/lights I want to get. I will most likely go back to dancing when this is all over (if I can) and only do this if I am abroad or can't dance so I don't want to break the bank. Lots of research! My listings are still pending. Do I have to wait till monday or something ?
I wouldnt wait too long to get a cam - already they're out of stock in so many places & people are reselling for much higher prices than normal - I got the logitech c920 for £60 a few months back & now on UK Amazon the only once I can find is £190

arielbriel
03-29-2020, 04:27 PM
I wouldnt wait too long to get a cam - already they're out of stock in so many places & people are reselling for much higher prices than normal - I got the logitech c920 for £60 a few months back & now on UK Amazon the only once I can find is £190

Yep, I just checked its $199 USED on amazon. SMH, what's a back up camera you like?

arielbriel
03-29-2020, 04:28 PM
My stuff is STILL pending. UGH.

PixiieGirl
03-29-2020, 04:29 PM
Yep, I just checked its $199 USED on amazon. SMH, what's a back up camera you like?

honestly, I've never used any other camera - except when I very first started I used my laptop one but I dont recommend that lol

the c920 is usually a fairly priced one I'm not sure if any cheaper are any good tbh :/

arielbriel
03-29-2020, 04:43 PM
honestly, I've never used any other camera - except when I very first started I used my laptop one but I dont recommend that lol

the c920 is usually a fairly priced one I'm not sure if any cheaper are any good tbh :/

I just got it on Ebay for $140. There is one as low as $20 but they're all bidding ones and lots of people are bidding and they still have like 6 days left. It's not coming till the 8th though, ugh. Thanks for the heads up! All the regular sites are on backorder. Sorry for all the questions...just one more, LOL. What lights should I get?

Spemily
03-29-2020, 05:06 PM
My stuff is STILL pending. UGH.

Typically nothing gets approved on the weekend. Since you submitted your stuff late Friday, you should be one of the first to be reviewed on Monday morning. NF is in San Francisco and it seems like the start work around the usual 9 am.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-29-2020, 05:11 PM
I just got it on Ebay for $140. There is one as low as $20 but they're all bidding ones and lots of people are bidding and they still have like 6 days left. It's not coming till the 8th though, ugh. Thanks for the heads up! All the regular sites are on backorder. Sorry for all the questions...just one more, LOL. What lights should I get?

Lighting thead page 5 https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?183318-All-About-Lighting/page5
Cammodel Technology, this thread answer lots of questions too https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?225726-Cammodel-Technology-2019

arielbriel
03-29-2020, 05:40 PM
Thank you!! I am inundated in information haha, it's definitely not a bad thing. reminds me of 2010 when I first started stripping and I read all of Hustle Hut. The threads over there are much shorter though haha.

PixiieGirl
03-30-2020, 12:00 PM
I just got it on Ebay for $140. There is one as low as $20 but they're all bidding ones and lots of people are bidding and they still have like 6 days left. It's not coming till the 8th though, ugh. Thanks for the heads up! All the regular sites are on backorder. Sorry for all the questions...just one more, LOL. What lights should I get?

Ill leave the lighting thread for you as tbh I dont have much space so have a very small lighting set up, I cam on my bed from my laptop & just use a ringlight thats small lol

arielbriel
03-30-2020, 04:25 PM
My ads have been up like 15 hours and I haven't gotten a single call. Is that normal? I just switched all my ads to $1.99...
Someone also just sent me mail saying they want to call my cam line on skype and what's my name on there...is that even allowed? How do I navigate this? Thankssss....

PixiieGirl
03-30-2020, 04:32 PM
My ads have been up like 15 hours and I haven't gotten a single call. Is that normal? I just switched all my ads to $1.99...
Someone also just sent me mail saying they want to call my cam line on skype and what's my name on there...is that even allowed? How do I navigate this? Thankssss....
I only do cam so it might be different for phone but I personally didnt get a single call till I was bidding - I assume my listing was too low for people to find

re: giving out your skype, yes you can its not against the rules - some sell their skype ID or make people call to get it, it's really up to you tbh - but giving it for free to them isnt against the rules

Amy Lee
03-30-2020, 05:11 PM
My ads have been up like 15 hours and I haven't gotten a single call. Is that normal? I just switched all my ads to $1.99...
Someone also just sent me mail saying they want to call my cam line on skype and what's my name on there...is that even allowed? How do I navigate this? Thankssss....

Having the same issue. I think a lot of our customers are at home with their wives, unemployed and many are doctors etc. This virus is really effecting everything.

arielbriel
03-30-2020, 08:37 PM
Whoever told me about bidding, thank you. I just put some bids on my ads, I'm anywhere from 1-25 and so far I've gotten two short calls. Better than nothing, I've at least made a profit. I wasn't even expecting them to call me LOL. I'm in my PJS, no hair or makeup lmao. And I didn't realize I clicked the cam ad haha.

PixiieGirl
03-31-2020, 04:28 AM
Whoever told me about bidding, thank you. I just put some bids on my ads, I'm anywhere from 1-25 and so far I've gotten two short calls. Better than nothing, I've at least made a profit. I wasn't even expecting them to call me LOL. I'm in my PJS, no hair or makeup lmao. And I didn't realize I clicked the cam ad haha.
np! I had wanted to make something before I started bidding but went nearly 3 weeks without a call - gave in added some funds & bid and started getting calls near right away lol

Yayayasmine
03-31-2020, 08:07 AM
Hey ladies. I’m new to niteflirt and I’m catching up on this thread so if I my question has been answered already sorry. On my Netflix profile I have that I am taking calls but I’m still scrolling through things on my phone like Twitter. Do I have to literally stay on the niteflirt page or can I just say that I’m online and have it running in the background? Also, how can you see where your listing is located at if you’re not bidding? When I look at the listing page I only see the pages for people who are in the top bidding selections . Thanks for your advice and answering my questions ��

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
03-31-2020, 08:44 AM
Hey ladies. I’m new to niteflirt and I’m catching up on this thread so if I my question has been answered already sorry. On my Netflix profile I have that I am taking calls but I’m still scrolling through things on my phone like Twitter. Do I have to literally stay on the niteflirt page or can I just say that I’m online and have it running in the background? Also, how can you see where your listing is located at if you’re not bidding? When I look at the listing page I only see the pages for people who are in the top bidding selections . Thanks for your advice and answering my questions ��

The calls will come through no matter if you have a NF page open or not. But if you have the call monitor enabled you won't receive an alert just before your phone rings. A browser needs to be open in order for that to function. You can see where your category listing rank under the "My Listings" link. It's the first option under the Flirt Center. When it's selected the stats are right there.

Yayayasmine
03-31-2020, 08:53 AM
Thanks for responding. I meant to actually reply and say that somebody reached out to me so I got the call part of the question answered. But of course, I placed a bid on my listing and they took money for a click but this dude is not trying to spend anything and trying to get pictures for free
. I just told him to call me and we can have some fun. I’m not even about to respond or send anything for free. Thank you for your advice.

MaryElizabeth
03-31-2020, 11:13 AM
But if you have the call monitor enabled you won't receive an alert just before your phone rings.

I always thought this was like TTM where there is the option to record your calls. It also brings up the notes on a caller, nice to not have to dig for that - Thanks!

Victoria_Gray
03-31-2020, 11:40 PM
I always thought this was like TTM where there is the option to record your calls. It also brings up the notes on a caller, nice to not have to dig for that - Thanks!

Those notes are quite useful, yes. Not every site has them, but I find them super useful for those callers who don't call regularly, usually it's just a couple words in that it clicks when I am talking to, I don't usually need all the notes. Great idea!

arielbriel
04-01-2020, 01:21 AM
So last night I think I did pretty good, I made $225 but tonight I got some asshole who called my line 3x and kept hanging up after the 2 min mark. He then went on to write me 3 1 star reviews saying I am a scammer, etc. I messaged NF to get the reviews taken down but it's tanked my star rating and now nobody is calling me. :( Does this happen a lot? SO after that I only made $75. Also, I have guys who are hitting up my skype trying to talk for free, pay by Cashapp, etc and it's because my skype name is the same as my cam name so I think I am going to change that. I also have guys hitting me up in my mail box but not in the paid chat feature. These guys are expert scammers. If it wasn't for me reading the beginning of this thread (currently on page 13), I would of been scammed multiple times. I mean I was scammed twice, guys called my regular line for webcam and I did it not knowing that there was a difference. UGH, the worst. Also have guys hanging up after one minute or even less! Longest call was 14 minutes. I hope they will delete those 3 bad reviews as my other reviews are good and I felt I was doing well especially because I wasn't on long.

PixiieGirl
04-01-2020, 03:44 AM
So last night I think I did pretty good, I made $225 but tonight I got some asshole who called my line 3x and kept hanging up after the 2 min mark. He then went on to write me 3 1 star reviews saying I am a scammer, etc. I messaged NF to get the reviews taken down but it's tanked my star rating and now nobody is calling me. :( Does this happen a lot? SO after that I only made $75. Also, I have guys who are hitting up my skype trying to talk for free, pay by Cashapp, etc and it's because my skype name is the same as my cam name so I think I am going to change that. I also have guys hitting me up in my mail box but not in the paid chat feature. These guys are expert scammers. If it wasn't for me reading the beginning of this thread (currently on page 13), I would of been scammed multiple times. I mean I was scammed twice, guys called my regular line for webcam and I did it not knowing that there was a difference. UGH, the worst. Also have guys hanging up after one minute or even less! Longest call was 14 minutes. I hope they will delete those 3 bad reviews as my other reviews are good and I felt I was doing well especially because I wasn't on long.
unfortanutely the scammers are part and parcel of this work - theres many many guys out there trying to get something for nothing and/or cheaper - and they very often target the new girls as new girls are more likely to fall for it. when you get a call in make sure you always keep listening till after the bit that tells you which line they're calling - listen out for "phone with cam" if they want to skype. You're also unfortanutely going to find NF wont remove ratings. They very very very rarely do - as far as Im aware they only do if the reviews include swearing. depending on how good your stats and other reviews are - you may either want to delete the listing and relist it - or just try and hustle some more 5 star ratings to up the reviews again and bury the bad ones.

with guys who hit me up on the mail box I try to direct them to chat or call/skype personally.

I do also get guys find me on skype a lot - Ill reply to a couple of questions but very quickly ask if they'd like to call to continue chatting

arielbriel
04-01-2020, 04:06 AM
unfortanutely the scammers are part and parcel of this work - theres many many guys out there trying to get something for nothing and/or cheaper - and they very often target the new girls as new girls are more likely to fall for it. when you get a call in make sure you always keep listening till after the bit that tells you which line they're calling - listen out for "phone with cam" if they want to skype. You're also unfortanutely going to find NF wont remove ratings. They very very very rarely do - as far as Im aware they only do if the reviews include swearing. depending on how good your stats and other reviews are - you may either want to delete the listing and relist it - or just try and hustle some more 5 star ratings to up the reviews again and bury the bad ones.

with guys who hit me up on the mail box I try to direct them to chat or call/skype personally.

I do also get guys find me on skype a lot - Ill reply to a couple of questions but very quickly ask if they'd like to call to continue chatting

Thank you! I had no idea you could delete listings. Well, my good reviews are equal to my bad reviews since this idiot posted a bad review several times on two different listings. I'm wondering if I should just delete both listings and start fresh? Yes, I wait now to hear which listing they're calling. They tried to call me at my lower rate then try to get me on cam and I guess I have that new girl brand on my forehead. Ugh, tomorrow is a new day. IDK how to do this HTML profile stuff. These girls profiles are sick! I used to do it on Myspace but that was like 15 years ago lol. This definitely has a learning curve but well, I'm stuck in quarantine so I have nothing else to do. I respect the hell outta you ladies. It feels like stripping is a walk in the park haha but then again, I have been doing it ten years.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-01-2020, 06:36 AM
Don't delete your listings. It could take days before the new ones are approved and you won't be able to make money while you wait. NF will delete two of the three comments because they are abusing the feedback system. After that just ignore the feedback and keep going.

PixiieGirl
04-01-2020, 06:45 AM
Don't delete your listings. It could take days before the new ones are approved and you won't be able to make money while you wait. NF will delete two of the three comments because they are abusing the feedback system. After that just ignore the feedback and keep going.
thats a good point actually - its what I did back when the same happened to me which someone had suggested here but I have many other sources of income and they approved it really quick - didn't know that about the feedback system I was under the impression they dont delete feedback - thanks! #themoreyouknow

caramelcraze
04-01-2020, 07:01 AM
I've had a couple deleted. one because the guy said he didn't receive something I had sent him weeks ago (and could prove). The other was a guy who wrote a bad review because he sent a tribute without so much as asking and then got mad that I wouldn't do a show for him because it violated their ToS. he then threatened me by saying he'd do everything in his power to get me banned from the site and had done so many times before to other flirts. Screen shot the entire convo, sent it to NF, and they not only removed his review but let me keep the tribute. Guess it pays to follow the rules!

PixiieGirl
04-01-2020, 07:47 AM
I've had a couple deleted. one because the guy said he didn't receive something I had sent him weeks ago (and could prove). The other was a guy who wrote a bad review because he sent a tribute without so much as asking and then got mad that I wouldn't do a show for him because it violated their ToS. he then threatened me by saying he'd do everything in his power to get me banned from the site and had done so many times before to other flirts. Screen shot the entire convo, sent it to NF, and they not only removed his review but let me keep the tribute. Guess it pays to follow the rules!
thats awesome! I've heard so many horror stories of like, NF not removing completely unfair reviews - always makes me worried so its nice they do sometimes!

arielbriel
04-01-2020, 05:45 PM
Fuck, I already deleted my cam listing and the other he abused me on, I left the others up. I will make two new ones and hope it will be approved quickly. So, on my phone lines if they just call me I would keep it at the rate but if they want to add cam, how do I go about increasing the rate?
Also, NF contacted me that they deleted 2/3 of the bad reviews but I already deleted the listings. WOuld they be able to un-delete them for me? I already asked. WAHHHH!! Not a single call tonight even though I am advertising WITH cam on my phone only listings and I am in the top for all of my listings left (7 of them). Anyone else slow?
Also a guy contacted me on skype asking for a show ($40) and said he didn't have NF but wanted to pay me Cash App. I declined, did I do the right thing? LIke what if he screenshotme and sent it to NF and I got banned or if he charged back and I got banned from Cash App? SMH. How do you guys deal with this type of scenario.

Amy Lee
04-01-2020, 11:02 PM
What is this thing that comes up in transaction history that says: "---- tab covered by Nieflirt" thing?

A customer chatted with me earlier and took forever to respond and by then I was logged off.

Are these chargebacks? I would take a screen shot but don't feel like fading things out etc.

PixiieGirl
04-02-2020, 02:35 AM
Also a guy contacted me on skype asking for a show ($40) and said he didn't have NF but wanted to pay me Cash App. I declined, did I do the right thing? LIke what if he screenshotme and sent it to NF and I got banned or if he charged back and I got banned from Cash App? SMH. How do you guys deal with this type of scenario.
yes you did - redirecting can get you banned - also cash app isn't adult friendly, they can chargeback or get you banned from the app, I tell them no they pay where they found me by calling my listing

hope they get approved quick! sorry if my advice was bad x

arielbriel
04-02-2020, 02:54 AM
yes you did - redirecting can get you banned - also cash app isn't adult friendly, they can chargeback or get you banned from the app, I tell them no they pay where they found me by calling my listing

hope they get approved quick! sorry if my advice was bad x

Yes, I knew it, I just wasn't sure since it's an indie site if girls did that still. But yes I declined and yep that's how I got banned from Venmo (strip club customer reported me/charged back) and the fuck was the one who offered to tip me via venmo...SMH scammers are everywhere.
It's ok!! Were all navigating this together. I haven't made any money tonight. MAYBE Like $3.. LMAO.. how's everyone else doing?

Paradoxx
04-02-2020, 05:52 AM
What is this thing that comes up in transaction history that says: "---- tab covered by Nieflirt" thing?

A customer chatted with me earlier and took forever to respond and by then I was logged off.

Are these chargebacks? I would take a screen shot but don't feel like fading things out etc.

This just means the guy was out of money or had insufficient funds in his balance (less than $0.69) when you sent your response - since they're only charged for the messages we reply to - and that NF covered the charge for them so that you'll still be getting the ~$0.46 for the volley. It's no big deal and the customer will likely chat you again, it just means he reloaded his account and can then afford to cover his own chat charges.

Amy Lee
04-02-2020, 09:11 AM
This just means the guy was out of money or had insufficient funds in his balance (less than $0.69) when you sent your response - since they're only charged for the messages we reply to - and that NF covered the charge for them so that you'll still be getting the ~$0.46 for the volley. It's no big deal and the customer will likely chat you again, it just means he reloaded his account and can then afford to cover his own chat charges.

Thank You...

arielbriel
04-02-2020, 01:57 PM
So, NF un-deleted my listings so they're back up. They're actually super nice. Like since the guy said he couldn't connect to me and therefore I am a "Scam", they deleted his reviews except for one which was "allowed". But one is better than three, shit. And they relisted my original listings.

Victoria_Gray
04-03-2020, 01:03 AM
So, NF un-deleted my listings so they're back up. They're actually super nice. Like since the guy said he couldn't connect to me and therefore I am a "Scam", they deleted his reviews except for one which was "allowed". But one is better than three, shit. And they relisted my original listings.

I am glad it worked out in the end. :)

arielbriel
04-03-2020, 02:27 AM
Ugh I got scammed again! This dude called me and then hung up the NF call and kept me on skype for two hours =[ , in the end he agreed to tribute me $100 (70 for 2 hours..great)...I'm wondering if I should report him? He clearly scammed me he's like "oh well they hung up not me, I can cash app u $100 so you get everything...oh look im even helping you with your game..) Asshole.

laurielegs
04-03-2020, 03:28 AM
Ugh I got scammed again! This dude called me and then hung up the NF call and kept me on skype for two hours =[ , in the end he agreed to tribute me $100 (70 for 2 hours..great)...I'm wondering if I should report him? He clearly scammed me he's like "oh well they hung up not me, I can cash app u $100 so you get everything...oh look im even helping you with your game..) Asshole.

This is why I never talk to them through Skype.

Always use the phone to communicate (either on speaker or a bluetooth earpiece) and mute your microphone on skype and turn your sound down on your computer speakers.

That way they cannot hang up without you knowing.

Make him tip you the rest through Niteflirt or block him permanently.

I'd probably just block him though. He knew what he was doing to you.

PixiieGirl
04-03-2020, 03:49 AM
just to add if you do want to talk through skype (I do personally as my phone signal isnt always the best) then have your phone on loud speaker & turned up to max volume - that way if he hangs up you will get the "this call lasted x minutes" message and know he's hung up on you

arielbriel
04-04-2020, 04:49 AM
This is why I never talk to them through Skype.

Always use the phone to communicate (either on speaker or a bluetooth earpiece) and mute your microphone on skype and turn your sound down on your computer speakers.

That way they cannot hang up without you knowing.

Make him tip you the rest through Niteflirt or block him permanently.

I'd probably just block him though. He knew what he was doing to you.

Yep, I blocked him. And I learned my lesson. I’m doing Skype video chat through the laptop and keeping my phone on speaker because like I had both going on my phone and that’s what confused me. And he’s like oh no we’re on a whole other platform now. Ya I’m just shoving my tits in the camera for two hours fOr FREE! I had no choice but to take the generous offer of $100 lol. Gee thanks. Besides that I made $8 off him and a couple $7 tributes Lmao but I’m learning I guess. Baptism by fire.. ha. I think they can tell I’m new because my profile isn’t polished or HTMLed up to hell ahah. They see a sucker and they take a lick...

Anyways, is there a way to turn off certain listings ? Like I don’t mind taking phone calls all day every day but phone with cam can be a bit Tedious is Im not ready yet or I’m laying in bed in my moo moo etc ...

PixiieGirl
04-04-2020, 05:27 AM
Yep, I blocked him. And I learned my lesson. I’m doing Skype video chat through the laptop and keeping my phone on speaker because like I had both going on my phone and that’s what confused me. And he’s like oh no we’re on a whole other platform now. Ya I’m just shoving my tits in the camera for two hours fOr FREE! I had no choice but to take the generous offer of $100 lol. Gee thanks. Besides that I made $8 off him and a couple $7 tributes Lmao but I’m learning I guess. Baptism by fire.. ha. I think they can tell I’m new because my profile isn’t polished or HTMLed up to hell ahah. They see a sucker and they take a lick...

Anyways, is there a way to turn off certain listings ? Like I don’t mind taking phone calls all day every day but phone with cam can be a bit Tedious is Im not ready yet or I’m laying in bed in my moo moo etc ...
I definitely recommend trying to read all of this thread - its long definitely but very worth it - I remember maybe last month a discussion on how to safely do audio through skype on here :)

MaryElizabeth
04-04-2020, 07:39 AM
Personally, I never block any paying guys. So you made near to a hundred dollars off him, whats wrong with that?


Yep, I blocked him.

Were I you I'd keep him around, I would even send him a "Thank you for everything, lots of girls get taken advantage of early on and you were a stand up guy and came through with the $ when you could have just blown me off, thank you very much. You broke my 'cam cherry' and made it fun - Please stay in touch, thanks again"

He didn't have to pay you but he did, that's better than 99% of guys. Rather than blocking him get creative, manipulative, be nice to him and flatter him and get another $500 out of him. In the next couple months I think the # of guys tossing around a hundred dollars is going to get a whole lot thinner.

The only thing ONLY thing that matters in this gig is how much you can take off the guys.

If you want validation, dignity and respect you should find another line of work. You're doing low rung sex work, deal with it.

I swallow my pride a lot, let insults pass, avoid drama and keep my eye on making the money; $3 here, $100 there - whatever it takes. There is guy that calls me for 2-3 minutes a couple times a week and I've gotten $400 off of him. I have another guy, when he gets towards the end gets a bit nasty and abusive, calls me a bunch of names, gets a bit rape-ish and then hangs up with a slam. He tips and I send him a message thanking him for "treating me right". I've gotten about $400 off him and if he sickens me a bit it hardly matters, I'll still take his $50 every time.

These are callers that lots of Flirts would block but not me. I'll take the thousands of dollars from the creeps, cheap fucks, sick bastards, silent callers, guys that ask me to lower my rates, drug users and molesters that you all block and am totally happy about it. To a degree how much money are are going to make in this gig is relative to how much you are willing to wallow in and swallow the shit. I go as low as it gets, there is nothing I won't talk about and in the last couple years have plowed enough in the bank to live (if need be) with no income till, like, 2024. Having standards and self respect doesn't pay the bills.

Stay safe everyone.

WendiStarr
04-04-2020, 11:45 AM
Ugh, the freeloaders are hitting me up with mail again, asking for my Skype screen name or asking if I'm willing to Skype for Paypal, Venmo, or cash app. No, I'm not a new cam ho/pso! I'm well aware of that scam, sir.

Spemily
04-04-2020, 11:58 AM
Anyways, is there a way to turn off certain listings ? Like I don’t mind taking phone calls all day every day but phone with cam can be a bit Tedious is Im not ready yet or I’m laying in bed in my moo moo etc ...

Yes, there is. On your account page, click on My Listings. This will give you a list of your listings. The sixth column is called "Availability". Under that, your listings will say "Accepts Calls". If you click that, it will change to "Mail Only". Listings marked "Mail Only" will not go online when you turn your lines on.