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MaryElizabeth
07-27-2020, 10:20 PM
If your ever curious, doesn't happen often for me. If it goes a bit they mention it on twitter.
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izshadow
07-28-2020, 10:55 AM
If your ever curious, doesn't happen often for me. If it goes a bit they mention it on twitter.
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Yah I ended up signing off last night cause my calls were not crediting to my account so figured they were having tech issues but when I woke up this morning, everything was there.
MaryElizabeth
07-29-2020, 06:21 AM
Yah I ended up signing off last night cause my calls were not crediting to my account so figured they were having tech issues but when I woke up this morning, everything was there.
I have to say that in my years NF has been exacting when it comes to the money. Complaints may exist but they get every penny right.
everythingiscake
07-31-2020, 09:06 PM
I hate sexting. I am dominant and not in any way romantic or sensual and I have a guy who texts the most NASTY romantic shit ever.
:cuddles you passionately:
What? How? I am laughing my ass off and cringing every message. I used the word "pussy" to describe my vagina, the place where he wants to put his "member" and he interrupted our "romance" to tell me he was trying to keep this passionate and no, that isn't how I would respond to him. (like, what? you don't fucking know me?)
AHAHAHAHA I am dying.
So, I want to just block him. It's been ongoing for a week and most of my messages are "mmm" and "yes, I like that" and I hate all of it. Is there a better way? Should I say "this has been fun but your words make my womanhood shrivel up into a dustcloud, ok bye." LOL Some of you may like that type of "passion" but all I taste is vomit when I read it.
Maybe I should try to charge him to continue? Like send a PTV GFE type thing?
Edit: I scrolled up to find my favorite-
Him: filling up each of your holes
Me: mmm
Me: yes
Him: Feel it hosing inside
Me: Mmm yes
Me: Hose Me
LOLOLOLOL
laurielegs
08-01-2020, 06:39 PM
I hate sexting. I am dominant and not in any way romantic or sensual and I have a guy who texts the most NASTY romantic shit ever.
:cuddles you passionately:
What? How? I am laughing my ass off and cringing every message. I used the word "pussy" to describe my vagina, the place where he wants to put his "member" and he interrupted our "romance" to tell me he was trying to keep this passionate and no, that isn't how I would respond to him. (like, what? you don't fucking know me?)
AHAHAHAHA I am dying.
So, I want to just block him. It's been ongoing for a week and most of my messages are "mmm" and "yes, I like that" and I hate all of it. Is there a better way? Should I say "this has been fun but your words make my womanhood shrivel up into a dustcloud, ok bye." LOL Some of you may like that type of "passion" but all I taste is vomit when I read it.
Maybe I should try to charge him to continue? Like send a PTV GFE type thing?
Edit: I scrolled up to find my favorite-
Him: filling up each of your holes
Me: mmm
Me: yes
Him: Feel it hosing inside
Me: Mmm yes
Me: Hose Me
LOLOLOLOL
Sometimes I hate sexting too. I love Niteflirt but wish they would let us charge more for texting. I would hate sexting less if it were more money.
Ok hmm I just discovered that you can create a payment mail and paste the link right in chat! I'm going to experiment with this and make the ones who annoy me pay more! haha.
MaryElizabeth
08-01-2020, 08:01 PM
Ok hmm I just discovered that you can create a payment mail and paste the link right in chat! I'm going to experiment with this and make the ones who annoy me pay more! haha.
THANK YOU. Personally I love chat, for me its lucrative and is probably 1/3 of what I make. I can have a couple chats going at a time and there are guys I chit chat with all day.
everythingiscake
08-02-2020, 05:29 PM
Sometimes I hate sexting too. I love Niteflirt but wish they would let us charge more for texting. I would hate sexting less if it were more money.
Ok hmm I just discovered that you can create a payment mail and paste the link right in chat! I'm going to experiment with this and make the ones who annoy me pay more! haha.
That is a great thing to know! I have been teling them to check their mail but a link is easier.
I have quite a few chats going on with subs, slaves, and sissies. Not sure why I allowed this dude to type me this "sexting" BS, it's just not something my character (or me) does. Maybe because it was slow for me and I wanted the cash? Or curiousity? Lol, I have never sexted before and I didn't know it would go on this long or be so gross to me. Live and learn, right? I think "GFE" is on one of my listings and I will definitely take it off becuase I have learned it is NOT my thing. Maybe I will change it to "female-led GFE" or something.\
Edit - he just paid $20 PTV to see me fully dressed. When he asked "what are you wearing" 2 days ago, I never replied becuase I was wearing grubby clothes and never asked that before. Ok, I've been doing this wrong, I need to fleece this gross romantic weirdo.
LadyJezebel
08-06-2020, 07:31 AM
Maybe I haven’t figured out niteflirt yet, but I haven’t gotten one call since my ad has been active and I’ve had it turned on for like a couple days straight. I market it on my Twitter too (don’t have a huge following yet though) maybe I need to built characters more? I kind of just used the same bio from my arousr page.
sexysusie
08-06-2020, 08:23 AM
Goddess Jadah released an hour long basic video guide for NF. It's available on her profile for all flirts <3
Hour long NF Guide only $5: https://niteflirt.com/goodies/click/27465243-3190501
- Goody bags, hyperlinks, storage limits
- Making PTV games for passive income
- 20+ mins focused on HTML including how to add gifs to your profile + an HTML code to use as the bones to your profile
- BIDDING SYSTEM
izshadow
08-06-2020, 12:44 PM
We're sorry! We were not able to send your message.
Does this mean someone grew impatient and blocked me? I was responding back to a chat message and got that.
MaryElizabeth
08-06-2020, 06:03 PM
It's usually they closed their account (There are guys who open new accounts all the time, I think to cut down on spousal tracking) or they are bust broke. Forget it and move on, he may write you back in the future, probably not.
We're sorry! We were not able to send your message.
Does this mean someone grew impatient and blocked me? I was responding back to a chat message and got that.
MaryElizabeth
08-06-2020, 06:35 PM
There are tens of thousands of flirt listings, something like 80% of them didn't have a single stared review. It's a wasteland out there and getting started is fucking brutal.
Make a the best imaginative listing you can and start out for like, 25 cents a minute and promote everywhere you can until you can get some calls / stars and get bumped up. It's VERY sink or swim. Read this thread from the beginning, there is good NF money out there but you'll need to hustle and work to get it. Good luck.
Maybe I haven’t figured out niteflirt yet, but I haven’t gotten one call since my ad has been active and I’ve had it turned on for like a couple days straight. I market it on my Twitter too (don’t have a huge following yet though) maybe I need to built characters more? I kind of just used the same bio from my arousr page.
queenelayliah
08-09-2020, 04:43 PM
Do anyone know another site to buy content photos?
I know of one legitimate site to buy content photos. I know this question been asked before, but there’s a never an answer in chat and they get the answer in private messages (for obvious reasons).
I thought i found a great site! But I'm feeling a little iffy about it. Any suggestions. ?
arielbriel
08-09-2020, 10:37 PM
There are tens of thousands of flirt listings, something like 80% of them didn't have a single stared review. It's a wasteland out there and getting started is fucking brutal.
Make a the best imaginative listing you can and start out for like, 25 cents a minute and promote everywhere you can until you can get some calls / stars and get bumped up. It's VERY sink or swim. Read this thread from the beginning, there is good NF money out there but you'll need to hustle and work to get it. Good luck.
25 cents a minute?! Yikes. You’re basically telling this girl to work for free. And trust me the dudes that pay that little are very undesirable. I started at 1.99/min for just phone 2.99 for cam with phone and I bid and did well immediately. I also didn’t need to take calls that made me uncomfortable. Bottom rung of sex work or not, you don’t have to demean yourself to make money.
MaryElizabeth
08-10-2020, 10:51 AM
Me>25 cents a minute and promote everywhere you can until you can get some calls / stars and get bumped up.
This is how I did it, worked for me. YMMV
25 cents a minute?! Yikes. You’re basically telling this girl to work for free. And trust me the dudes that pay that little are very undesirable. I started at 1.99/min for just phone 2.99 for cam with phone and I bid and did well immediately. I also didn’t need to take calls that made me uncomfortable. Bottom rung of sex work or not, you don’t have to demean yourself to make money.
everythingiscake
08-11-2020, 05:51 AM
Me>25 cents a minute and promote everywhere you can until you can get some calls / stars and get bumped up.
This is how I did it, worked for me. YMMV
I am torn on this advice. While it does work to bump up your account quickly you must have the stomach for the calls. I have 10 accounts now and have charged .50 to .99 to get ratings on half of them. Honestly. . . the callers at the low rate have been 99% pedophiles or TOS violations. One call was even a man wanting to murder me and described it (I actually had fun with this and he kept trying to "drown" me I kept saying refusing to stay under the water and made it very hard for him to get what he wanted as I charged him .69/min, maybe I am a sick freak lol). I blocked him and reported. Like MaryElizabeth says, YMMV and to me is not worth it. I rarely get pedo/TOS violations at 2.99. My 18 y.o. girl account, She gets some pedo calls but she is a brat and makes them pay for being sick fucks. It's rare at 2.99/min and I have a "process" for them.
SapphireXO
08-11-2020, 08:48 AM
My advice is to web design your listing and stand out. Scroll through the listings. A lot of them have poor quality pictures or just black/white typed text. BORINGGGG!!!! Invest in web design. I pay about $120 per listing for the design and clickables. Obviously if you know Canvas or another design program you can do your own too. It's the easiest way to stand out and advertise yourself. As a customer, you have to think "why call her?" Make it an easy choice. I also second bidding. I used to pay $1 per click up to $35 a day. It drove a ton of traffic.
arielbriel
08-11-2020, 07:21 PM
I am torn on this advice. While it does work to bump up your account quickly you must have the stomach for the calls. I have 10 accounts now and have charged .50 to .99 to get ratings on half of them. Honestly. . . the callers at the low rate have been 99% pedophiles or TOS violations. One call was even a man wanting to murder me and described it (I actually had fun with this and he kept trying to "drown" me I kept saying refusing to stay under the water and made it very hard for him to get what he wanted as I charged him .69/min, maybe I am a sick freak lol). I blocked him and reported. Like MaryElizabeth says, YMMV and to me is not worth it. I rarely get pedo/TOS violations at 2.99. My 18 y.o. girl account, She gets some pedo calls but she is a brat and makes them pay for being sick fucks. It's rare at 2.99/min and I have a "process" for them.
Exactly, I'm good on that LOL. Also, if you charge that little then bump up your rates, those guys will fall off and never be your regulars. I started at a normal rate and while I still got some weird calls, I got a lot of reviews and regulars that still call me at my higher rate.
VioletOctober
08-14-2020, 09:36 PM
I found a woman on reddit that sells me pics. I posted an "ad" on a bunch of reddits but it took months to find someone. I wanted a constant source of new stuff and pics no one else had. I also edited pics of myself into a whole new character and I am editing pics of my reddit girl into a whole new character. I tried googling it but most of the sites were dead ends. One site looked legit, I spent time looking through, picked my photo sets and went to pay and their payment processor wasn't allowing them to accept payment. "Try back in a few months" when we get it sorted. Why did all of the sites close and payments stop for others? I'm not on that page of this thread yet lol
I would consider doing html for others down the road but I have my own projects I need to finish. I can answer html questions for you, just ask in the thread so they can help other people. I had looked into hiring someone but the recommendations in the first 100 pages of this thread are broken links or dead ends. After I built my own, just today I saw the MOST beautiful profiles EVER made by someone here. It was on page 110? of this thread. (so you can see how far I have read lol)
http://myadultdesign.com/niteflirt-templates/
Mods, if its not ok to share that, please remove.
I also have blog questions. I have looked through DOZENS of blogs attached to NF profiles and many are just attaching to a NF store site that has many other flirts too. Or their blog hasn't been updated since 2009. The few that have blog posts are usually short and boring with a few sentences about their kink. I will say Amberly (findom) has a good blog if I remember correctly. Straight up stories about her blackmailing men and true or not, enthralling.
If your character is into anal would you write stories about anal sex? Or would Blonde college girl Tiffany blog about her favorite shoes and her sugar daddy taking her on vacation? Her favorite films? Her favorite lube? ALL of these things? And as Queen asked above, do you present the character as a PSO or is it a hot girl in college with a blog and Oh! you can call her too!
It keeps getting posted that wordpress is not sex friendly. I looked into it and the free version is NOT but if you host your site on a sex-friendly hosting platform and install worpress on your domain it is fine to have NSFW stuff. Is my research correct?
Woah on that webpage for niteflirt listings.... Some of them show buttons that lead to onlyfans, twitter, etc........... I thought on NF you couldn't link to other sites.
Is that true?
VioletOctober
08-14-2020, 09:51 PM
goddess jadah released an hour long basic video guide for nf. It's available on her profile for all flirts <3
oh thank you
Growlerpussy
08-15-2020, 12:57 AM
Woah on that webpage for niteflirt listings.... Some of them show buttons that lead to onlyfans, twitter, etc........... I thought on NF you couldn't link to other sites.
Is that true?
It's not allowed. Not even Twitter if your Twitter shows other links to other websites where you sell your stuff.
Amazon is ok, as long you have no email on your wishlist where the guys can send a giftcard .......
But there are some ways to work around that if you're smart ;)
ep2002
08-17-2020, 06:48 AM
My advice is to web design your listing and stand out. Scroll through the listings. A lot of them have poor quality pictures or just black/white typed text. BORINGGGG!!!! Invest in web design. I pay about $120 per listing for the design and clickables. Obviously if you know Canvas or another design program you can do your own too. It's the easiest way to stand out and advertise yourself. As a customer, you have to think "why call her?" Make it an easy choice. I also second bidding. I used to pay $1 per click up to $35 a day. It drove a ton of traffic.
Can I see your profile?
Is stripchat basically like CB?
Thanks
ep2002
08-17-2020, 06:51 AM
So what do you ladies do when they call you on your Skype listing & have NOT paid for the SK handle & then refuse to go on there & pay.
I'm never ready when they call so I ain't turning my SK on & adding them if I'm not ready.
I ask them to hang up, pay for the handle & chat me on the site.
This guy (no user name, just member1234 etc) said he didn't know how to do that & why should I have to do that I don't know your listing, & I've already called.
He is right, but this has happened before & it irks me b/c I don't know how to handle it.
Also, how do you see your notes on a guy when he calls since he won't show up in the transaction area until after the call is finished.
TIA
space_cowgirl
08-17-2020, 07:48 AM
I thought I replied to this, but it seems the internet ate it. Basically what I said was, if a guy calls without first purchasing my Skype ID, I just take the call and figure that I make up that, what, $2? during the call rather than piss the guy off and risk them not calling back. I only log on for my phone w/cam line if I'm ready to do cam calls. You can always open another window on NF and look up the customer's info/notes.
laurielegs
08-17-2020, 09:34 AM
So what do you ladies do when they call you on your Skype listing & have NOT paid for the SK handle & then refuse to go on there & pay.
I'm never ready when they call so I ain't turning my SK on & adding them if I'm not ready.
I ask them to hang up, pay for the handle & chat me on the site.
This guy (no user name, just member1234 etc) said he didn't know how to do that & why should I have to do that I don't know your listing, & I've already called.
He is right, but this has happened before & it irks me b/c I don't know how to handle it.
Also, how do you see your notes on a guy when he calls since he won't show up in the transaction area until after the call is finished.
TIA
Niteflirt's policy is that you are required to give them your skype handle over the phone since they are paying per minute. Some of us don't even sell them. I hate selling mine because they seem to think that entitles them to chat with me on there. I tell them over the phone and make it clear its just for transmitting my video.
You can be suspended or banned from Niteflirt for refusing to give them the skype handle while they are on a paying call.
everythingiscake
08-17-2020, 11:17 AM
Niteflirt's policy is that you are required to give them your skype handle over the phone since they are paying per minute. Some of us don't even sell them. I hate selling mine because they seem to think that entitles them to chat with me on there. I tell them over the phone and make it clear its just for transmitting my video.
You can be suspended or banned from Niteflirt for refusing to give them the skype handle while they are on a paying call.
I sell mine because it is not a name and its a series of numbers (live id) that microsoft says I can't change. If anyone knows how to make it an actual name lol I can search for myself from my other skype account but some of these dudes struggle with it so I sell it. Also I needed to cut down on the dudes who were contacting me for a sub show and I am not a sub. Nothing is worst than getting a call for someone who wants me to be their dirty slut. Read my fucking profile.
arielbriel
08-17-2020, 04:02 PM
I have mines as a goodie bag but nobody ever buys it really and idc as long as they call and I get paid.
ep2002
08-17-2020, 05:06 PM
Thanks to all who answered.
Well I need them to contact me first so I can get ready, so that's why if they buy it, it says right on it, please don't call me first as I need to get ready, but next time I'll just respond differently.
ep2002
08-17-2020, 05:07 PM
I thought I replied to this, but it seems the internet ate it. Basically what I said was, if a guy calls without first purchasing my Skype ID, I just take the call and figure that I make up that, what, $2? during the call rather than piss the guy off and risk them not calling back. I only log on for my phone w/cam line if I'm ready to do cam calls. You can always open another window on NF and look up the customer's info/notes.
LOL, I also hate retyping things.
How do you search for the guy's handle while you are on the phone?
I've only ever just clicked on the transactions area to get to their profile area.
Thanks
arielbriel
08-17-2020, 10:00 PM
Guys don’t read when they’re horny. Get ready for what? Just don’t put your cam line on till you’re actually ready to take calls. I just have to switch my lights on cause they’re bright as hell and maybe take off the hoodie I’m wearing over my sexy outfit. But I’m set.
izshadow
08-18-2020, 11:33 AM
Thanks to all who answered.
Well I need them to contact me first so I can get ready, so that's why if they buy it, it says right on it, please don't call me first as I need to get ready, but next time I'll just respond differently.
Um, that isnt allowed on NF. You can NOT chat with them on Skype before they are connected to you on NF. This is why those who do follow the rules have problems with these men who think its okay. Its not. Do not say you are available on NF for cam calls if you are not able to be ready the moment you accept the call. Never ever chat with these men on Skype unless they are connected with you on NF first. Please follow the rules so the rest of us dont have to deal with these men who think its okay when its not.
laurielegs
08-18-2020, 12:35 PM
Um, that isnt allowed on NF. You can NOT chat with them on Skype before they are connected to you on NF. This is why those who do follow the rules have problems with these men who think its okay. Its not. Do not say you are available on NF for cam calls if you are not able to be ready the moment you accept the call. Never ever chat with these men on Skype unless they are connected with you on NF first. Please follow the rules so the rest of us dont have to deal with these men who think its okay when its not.
Exactly. I direct them to Niteflirt chat so they have to pay to chat with me if they want to bug me before calling. These guys will take up a lot of your time for free if you let them.
SuperPookie
08-18-2020, 12:36 PM
I also tell them to contact me before they call because I work multiple sites at once and might say be in a show on Streamate or whatever at that time. I'd say 3/4 do especially repeat customers as I give them a reminder to message on Skype first.
queenelayliah
08-18-2020, 08:26 PM
Sorry not to be spammy. But does anyone know the answer to this question?
Of course I googled the hell out of it and went back through this thread to try to find the answer. But no such luck. Can anyone help me out?
Do anyone know another site to buy content photos?
I know of one legitimate site to buy content photos. I know this question been asked before, but there’s a never an answer in chat and they get the answer in private messages (for obvious reasons).
I thought i found a great site! But I'm feeling a little iffy about it. Any suggestions. ?
Spemily
08-19-2020, 05:46 AM
Sorry not to be spammy. But does anyone know the answer to this question?
Of course I googled the hell out of it and went back through this thread to try to find the answer. But no such luck. Can anyone help me out?
I don't have any current solid recommendations. The two sites I've used in the past are both gone. Two other sites I tried to buy from recently have both lost their ability to process credit cards and wanted me to send payments to PayPal account or crypto wallets and then wait for them to manually send the content. I opted not to do that.
grneyesnfl
08-19-2020, 06:47 AM
Um, that isnt allowed on NF. You can NOT chat with them on Skype before they are connected to you on NF. This is why those who do follow the rules have problems with these men who think its okay. Its not. Do not say you are available on NF for cam calls if you are not able to be ready the moment you accept the call. Never ever chat with these men on Skype unless they are connected with you on NF first. Please follow the rules so the rest of us dont have to deal with these men who think its okay when its not.
That's not true. If the customer contacts you on Skype to tell you what type of show he is looking for or to see if you're available... that is allowed. If he's contacting you on Skype just to chit-chat, then that is not allowed. Luckily, the latter isn't as big of a problem as it used to be now that there is paid chat. I let guys ask me a couple of questions for free on Skype regarding what they're looking for and if they keep yapping, I direct them to paid chat and I stop responding to their messages.
SuperPookie
08-19-2020, 08:00 AM
Sorry not to be spammy. But does anyone know the answer to this question?
Of course I googled the hell out of it and went back through this thread to try to find the answer. But no such luck. Can anyone help me out? Do you mind if I pm you about this?
SuperPookie
08-19-2020, 11:24 AM
How do you change the profile pic for chat? I thought it changed when I changed my pics for listings but now the girl I'm using on listing pics does not match my Chat
SapphireXO
08-19-2020, 11:31 AM
Can I see your profile?
Is stripchat basically like CB?
Thanks
Can I see your profiles? :) I try to stay low key here.
x_naughty_jodie_x
08-20-2020, 05:46 PM
Hi can you send me the link for this please x
everythingiscake
08-21-2020, 08:38 AM
Can I see your profiles? :) I try to stay low key here.
I am so curious to see the profiles of flirts who participate in the forum. When looking through active profiles on NF there are HUNDREDS that haven't been updated since inception or are just plain bad. Yet, a lot of these have thousands of reviews and stars. I stumble across a well done profile and I always assume its one of "us"
MaryElizabeth
08-21-2020, 02:06 PM
This forum is a tiny tiny slice of the NF population. Most profiles are abandoned, there are hundreds of pages of 'dead' listings. Many where the people make nominal amounts, I can have a shit week for me where I am not on much and still be above 60% of earnings of all flirts (but I don't know who is counted in this, just people who made money, everyone or people that logged in - if you know am very curious)
There are lots owned by 3rd parties (there are companies that you can work for where you do their NF listings, they pay shit) and people that are just working alone trying to figure it out and some beasts that have been doing this since NF started with ungodly numbers of stars that will always show up at the top of the rankings. This is a tight little pocket that I feel lucky to find, the official forum is not worth much.
I don't much share my own profiles though, there are things I do and guys say "no one ever does that / says that" and I have my own take for making profiles that works for me and attracts the sort of guys I want to talk to. There totally is some sink and swim going on. It took me almost a year of trying all sorts of different things to figure it out, I made like 20 profiles on TTM when I started there and used what I learned there to crack NF. I'm making good money and sorta don't want to hand out the secret sauce of what works for me.
I have been doing this for a couple years and I have never had a conversation (except for here which is limited) with another PSO. I'm in a decent sized city there must be lots of other gals doing the same thing. I've even thought of doing lunch with another gal or two but it could get weird, I have 2 friends and no one in my family who knows what I do. It is a job where you are sort of on an island, I like the pay and flexibility but the double and triple isolation of it gets old.
ANYWAY - have a safe weekend out there
ep2002
08-22-2020, 07:55 AM
Um, that isnt allowed on NF. You can NOT chat with them on Skype before they are connected to you on NF. This is why those who do follow the rules have problems with these men who think its okay. Its not. Do not say you are available on NF for cam calls if you are not able to be ready the moment you accept the call. Never ever chat with these men on Skype unless they are connected with you on NF first. Please follow the rules so the rest of us dont have to deal with these men who think its okay when its not.
I don't appreciate your tone. I am NOT chatting with them giving them a freebie. I'm setting up the session. Geeze.
Guys don’t read when they’re horny. Get ready for what? Just don’t put your cam line on till you’re actually ready to take calls. I just have to switch my lights on cause they’re bright as hell and maybe take off the hoodie I’m wearing over my sexy outfit. But I’m set.
I'm not sitting here all dolled up. You may get calls for camming every day, but I don't. Please stop assuming I'm like you. Every model is different & I'm not getting all ready for a call I may get once a month! I do other things. I don't sit here twiddling my thumbs waiting for NF cam sessions.
Exactly. I direct them to Niteflirt chat so they have to pay to chat with me if they want to bug me before calling. These guys will take up a lot of your time for free if you let them.
I know how to handle guys. And I've directed them to the chat before & many don't even know what I'm talking about.
It takes no time to tell them I'll let them know when I'm ready & they can call me again. All of 30-60 secs.
That's not true. If the customer contacts you on Skype to tell you what type of show he is looking for or to see if you're available... that is allowed. If he's contacting you on Skype just to chit-chat, then that is not allowed. Luckily, the latter isn't as big of a problem as it used to be now that there is paid chat. I let guys ask me a couple of questions for free on Skype regarding what they're looking for and if they keep yapping, I direct them to paid chat and I stop responding to their messages.
Thank you.
Finally someone who knows what I'm talking about & doesn't assume facts that aren't true. Phew
ep2002
08-22-2020, 07:59 AM
This forum is a tiny tiny slice of the NF population. Most profiles are abandoned, there are hundreds of pages of 'dead' listings. Many where the people make nominal amounts, I can have a shit week for me where I am not on much and still be above 60% of earnings of all flirts (but I don't know who is counted in this, just people who made money, everyone or people that logged in - if you know am very curious)
There are lots owned by 3rd parties (there are companies that you can work for where you do their NF listings, they pay shit) and people that are just working alone trying to figure it out and some beasts that have been doing this since NF started with ungodly numbers of stars that will always show up at the top of the rankings. This is a tight little pocket that I feel lucky to find, the official forum is not worth much.
I don't much share my own profiles though, there are things I do and guys say "no one ever does that / says that" and I have my own take for making profiles that works for me and attracts the sort of guys I want to talk to. There totally is some sink and swim going on. It took me almost a year of trying all sorts of different things to figure it out, I made like 20 profiles on TTM when I started there and used what I learned there to crack NF. I'm making good money and sorta don't want to hand out the secret sauce of what works for me.
I have been doing this for a couple years and I have never had a conversation (except for here which is limited) with another PSO. I'm in a decent sized city there must be lots of other gals doing the same thing. I've even thought of doing lunch with another gal or two but it could get weird, I have 2 friends and no one in my family who knows what I do. It is a job where you are sort of on an island, I like the pay and flexibility but the double and triple isolation of it gets old.
ANYWAY - have a safe weekend out there
I don't know if this was directed at me, but I was asking the other PSO b/c she said she paid $125 for her design & I wanted to see what quality it was b/c for me that's a lot LOL
It's a shame that in the adult industry most girls (not all) are scared of losing their money & not trusting one another.
It's not just this industry, it's in every industry that's adult - sigh
Have a good one.
queenelayliah
08-24-2020, 04:53 PM
I don't have any current solid recommendations. The two sites I've used in the past are both gone. Two other sites I tried to buy from recently have both lost their ability to process credit cards and wanted me to send payments to PayPal account or crypto wallets and then wait for them to manually send the content. I opted not to do that.
^ Yes. The same thing happened to me. The one site I knew of closed down and the sites you mentioned I think I found them as well. I was so excited and spent hours on their site and found the perfect models & content for great fucking prices. But then it was as you mentioned “oh we cant process cc cards but you can pay us in crypto or paypal, oh by the way I’m in Russia”. Lol no thank you. Sounded to scammy to me. Anyone using paypal for adult sales can’t be trusted. I was sooo happy too though, sigh the disappointment. :'(
Do you mind if I pm you about this?
Yes of course you can. Please PM!
Anyone can pm. My inbox is always open. !
It's a shame that in the adult industry most girls (not all) are scared of losing their money & not trusting one another.
It's not just this industry, it's in every industry that's adult - sigh
Have a good one.
^ Yes I agree, I wish we could be more sharing. I would really appreciate a glassdoor type of website but for the adult industry. That would be so awesome.
arielbriel
08-24-2020, 07:21 PM
I don't appreciate your tone. I am NOT chatting with them giving them a freebie. I'm setting up the session. Geeze.
I'm not sitting here all dolled up. You may get calls for camming every day, but I don't. Please stop assuming I'm like you. Every model is different & I'm not getting all ready for a call I may get once a month! I do other things. I don't sit here twiddling my thumbs waiting for NF cam sessions.
I know how to handle guys. And I've directed them to the chat before & many don't even know what I'm talking about.
It takes no time to tell them I'll let them know when I'm ready & they can call me again. All of 30-60 secs.
Thank you.
Finally someone who knows what I'm talking about & doesn't assume facts that aren't true. Phew
I'm sorry, I did not mean to offend you. Do you only do NF? As I am on a bunch of sites, I get calls all day but I also don't show my face so I don't have to do my makeup. I just have on a cute outfit like shorts and a sports bra or something like that that I would wear in the house anyhow. I am super curvy though, so this works for me and might not work for others.
I paid I think $50 for my NF layout, certainly not $200.
izshadow
08-25-2020, 11:33 AM
I don't appreciate your tone. I am NOT chatting with them giving them a freebie. I'm setting up the session. Geeze.
I'm not sitting here all dolled up. You may get calls for camming every day, but I don't. Please stop assuming I'm like you. Every model is different & I'm not getting all ready for a call I may get once a month! I do other things. I don't sit here twiddling my thumbs waiting for NF cam sessions.
I know how to handle guys. And I've directed them to the chat before & many don't even know what I'm talking about.
It takes no time to tell them I'll let them know when I'm ready & they can call me again. All of 30-60 secs.
Thank you.
Finally someone who knows what I'm talking about & doesn't assume facts that aren't true. Phew
Sorry you dont appreciate my tone but regardless of how you feel, it is still NOT ALLOWED. Thats reality. And maybe try a different avenue with how you look. I'm in my panamas on the couch till a cam call comes in and then as I'm walking to my bedroom to do the show, I'll strip down naked but have my cam above the breasts and then tease. If a guy wants clothes on, he tells me and we chit chat will I put them on and I'm getting paid to get myself dressed to wear what he wants to see me in. Like Ariel said to, even cute shorts and a bra is a nice look that guys like to see and you can be crashed out on the couch watching TV in.
SapphireXO
08-26-2020, 08:40 AM
I am so curious to see the profiles of flirts who participate in the forum. When looking through active profiles on NF there are HUNDREDS that haven't been updated since inception or are just plain bad. Yet, a lot of these have thousands of reviews and stars. I stumble across a well done profile and I always assume its one of "us"
I'm sorry but I'm not comfortable doing that. It's not you. Another cam girl forum there was a swap your Snapchat thread and low and behold - my Snapchat got reported. Never had that happen until I tried to be friendly with other models. So the long and the short of it all is, I try to not be so friendly and trusting. Again NOT YOU. One bad apple ruins my openness for them all...
SapphireXO
08-26-2020, 08:46 AM
Um, that isnt allowed on NF. You can NOT chat with them on Skype before they are connected to you on NF. This is why those who do follow the rules have problems with these men who think its okay. Its not. Do not say you are available on NF for cam calls if you are not able to be ready the moment you accept the call. Never ever chat with these men on Skype unless they are connected with you on NF first. Please follow the rules so the rest of us dont have to deal with these men who think its okay when its not.
I make them contact me on Skype first so I know it's them and they don't try to get my Skype ID for free once they are connected. Plus than I can wind down my live stream to my viewers so they know I'll be joining them after a break. I am working up to 5 sites at a time (2 live/free chat sites + 3 on demand/phone/phone with cam/pay first then cam sites.) Two computers, 2 different rooms in my work space. I often leave my other computer in another room where I am still streaming live with a sign that says "BRB-Taking a break!" while I take an on demand/pay by minute show in the other space.
OH MY GOD of course I don't chat for free with them. NF has a chat platform where I re-direct them if they want to be chatty before the phone with cam show.
It's my pet peeve to do a phone with cam call without being contacted first with a "Are you free? I want to call your cam line" message.
Spemily
08-26-2020, 09:31 AM
I make them contact me on Skype first so I know it's them and they don't try to get my Skype ID for free once they are connected.
If someone calls your cam line, you have to give them your Skype ID over the phone. You cannot force them to pay for it in another way.
Also, if your cam line is online, you must be available to provide cam services when someone calls.
You can request that your customers contact you in advance, but someone who calls your cam line and doesn't get a cam show would be well within their rights to report you to NF and ask for a refund.