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MaryElizabeth
11-20-2020, 10:22 PM
Happened today, after 4 years. Lived lean and modest, 'working it', studying what works and what doesn't but mostly taking every call, nearly never blocking, short calls, abusive calls, silent calls, got down the the gutters with all the garbage and trash, contorted myself, kept it up, long hours if the money was there, talked about every topic under the sun and the moon no matter how dark and vile. No standards, no self respect, no limits.

Could not be happier. (https://imgur.com/a/JMxpcT5)

PS - will delete that in a bit, I just have to let it out.

Growlerpussy
11-20-2020, 11:15 PM
Happened today, after 4 years. Lived lean and modest, 'working it', studying what works and what doesn't but mostly taking every call, nearly never blocking, short calls, abusive calls, silent calls, got down the the gutters with all the garbage and trash, contorted myself, kept it up, long hours if the money was there, talked about every topic under the sun and the moon no matter how dark and vile. No standards, no self respect, no limits.

Could not be happier. (https://imgur.com/a/JMxpcT5)

Same here, not even have my call monitor on. Normally I prepare myself before taking a call and see who it is. Stopped that a year ago to see who calls, makes me way more relax and nothing can shock me anymore .

freakyspirit
11-21-2020, 01:46 AM
Happened today, after 4 years. Lived lean and modest, 'working it', studying what works and what doesn't but mostly taking every call, nearly never blocking, short calls, abusive calls, silent calls, got down the the gutters with all the garbage and trash, contorted myself, kept it up, long hours if the money was there, talked about every topic under the sun and the moon no matter how dark and vile. No standards, no self respect, no limits.

Could not be happier. (https://imgur.com/a/JMxpcT5)

PS - will delete that in a bit, I just have to let it out.

That is epic. Congratulations! You truly earned it. If you don't mind me asking, was this four years income that was strictly made of PSO work? It covered your living expenses AND allowed you to save that much money in that span of time?

I'm still a newbie to this, 60 days in, but you are ABSOLUTLEY correct, I think your grind is dead on, never blocking those stomach turning calls, taking every call, no matter how short, etc. Your milestone is an example of what those can amount to.... well done.

Are you planning on taking a break/hiatus? Was this a milestone you were working towards before taking a step back? If you don't mind me asking. :)

MaryElizabeth
11-21-2020, 03:30 AM
It covered your living expenses AND allowed you to save that much money in that span of time?

Ya, full time PSO and living modestly, I rarely eat out, live clean, thrifty - all that. For a long time I just kept at it out of fear of being destitute. No plans to let up, my rent and bills are low, life is stable and chaos free, I get my bike rides in everyday, I have an art center near by that I hang out at, my gf is ok. No big plans to do anything or change anything. I don't think I can do this forever but for now I'm fine with it.

I ordered myself some sneakers that I always wanted and some bike lights. Might buy some high end gouda cheese and a rug. Mostly though I'm thankful as its a removal of fear, had a whole lot of that for a long time. I can ride out some crazy shit for a couple years and be fine. The next couple months are going to be all sorts of fucked up though.

If you dig through my posts I lay out what works for me (and may not work for you). But read this whole thread all that way through at least once, probably twice. Stay safe.

kiarabunni
11-22-2020, 02:20 AM
Heyy I've been trying to read this whole thread in order from fronnt to back, (i already read the first and last 20 pages but i'm trying to read in order due to some people suggesting it) i'll try to read 252 pages in order even though its really a lot lol

I'm gonna make a twitter but I want a NF blog advertising and talking about my NF experiences. i like to write. i know last year tumblr made it hard for 18+ blogs to get exposure since tumblr decided to restict and delete some adult blogs. on this forum years ago, you ladies talked about having tumblrs but in 2020, is it really a useful platform for NF now after tumblr's adult blog content restrictions? or is there a decent amount of adult traffic from tumblr that makes it worth it to make a NF tumblr blog?

wordpress seems like it could be better due to there being a lack of supression by wordpress but i'm not sure. i would link my wordpress to twittter and only use NF content on my blog. (i dont have any adult blogs or any other account adult accounts besides NF so i'll just dedicate it to advertising my NF listings and my experiences on NF) also, if i have wordpress, do i HAVE to buy a domain? i'd prefer not to buy a domain at the moment since you can see who registered a domain i believe (i heard theres a way to see the identity of someone who buys any domain but i'm not sure - if any of you ladies know otherwise, let me know?)

which is better for NF blog in 2020, tumblr or wordpress?

Victoria_Gray
11-22-2020, 03:31 AM
Happened today, after 4 years. Lived lean and modest, 'working it', studying what works and what doesn't but mostly taking every call, nearly never blocking, short calls, abusive calls, silent calls, got down the the gutters with all the garbage and trash, contorted myself, kept it up, long hours if the money was there, talked about every topic under the sun and the moon no matter how dark and vile. No standards, no self respect, no limits.

Could not be happier. (https://imgur.com/a/JMxpcT5)

PS - will delete that in a bit, I just have to let it out.

Something to be proud of! Do make sure you take some time to appreciate yourself too! :D

Victoria_Gray
11-22-2020, 03:32 AM
Heyy I've been trying to read this whole thread in order from fronnt to back, (i already read the first and last 20 pages but i'm trying to read in order due to some people suggesting it) i'll try to read 252 pages in order even though its really a lot lol

I'm gonna make a twitter but I want a NF blog advertising and talking about my NF experiences. i like to write. i know last year tumblr made it hard for 18+ blogs to get exposure since tumblr decided to restict and delete some adult blogs. on this forum years ago, you ladies talked about having tumblrs but in 2020, is it really a useful platform for NF now after tumblr's adult blog content restrictions? or is there a decent amount of adult traffic from tumblr that makes it worth it to make a NF tumblr blog?

wordpress seems like it could be better due to there being a lack of supression by wordpress but i'm not sure. i would link my wordpress to twittter and only use NF content on my blog. (i dont have any adult blogs or any other account adult accounts besides NF so i'll just dedicate it to advertising my NF listings and my experiences on NF) also, if i have wordpress, do i HAVE to buy a domain? i'd prefer not to buy a domain at the moment since you can see who registered a domain i believe (i heard theres a way to see the identity of someone who buys any domain but i'm not sure - if any of you ladies know otherwise, let me know?)

which is better for NF blog in 2020, tumblr or wordpress?

I have wordpress with a domain. I started a blog because I like to write. At the start I had a lot to say, now I have much less to say.

No idea about readers converting into paying clients, but I can see from my stats that I do have a fair few readers. Anyone know how I could track this?

kiarabunni
11-22-2020, 06:19 AM
I have wordpress with a domain. I started a blog because I like to write. At the start I had a lot to say, now I have much less to say.

No idea about readers converting into paying clients, but I can see from my stats that I do have a fair few readers. Anyone know how I could track this?

I'm unsure if you have any plugins where you can view website traffic (maybe you don't need to even have a plugin and it's in Wordpress's settings but I assume you have to install a plugin to get this information) but you should be able see in your stats where your traffic comes from.

If you have your Wordpress link on any other website (like your niteflirt or social media), you'd see how someone came to find your wordpress site. It will also tell you what country they are from. If they come from a website in which they put in their gender and birthday (ie Facebook or Twitter), your stats would show you the gender and age of some of the people who visited your site.

Also it will show you which sections they visited your site and for how long they spent on each section.

I'm unsure which Wordpress setting it is in to view this or what plugin you currently have to track your traffic. There's so many plugins.

I know some of this knowledge because I've only used Wordpress at businesses I've worked at and they had plugins installed already. Google has one called site kit - it's free. Not an easy for a beginner to set up all the configuration in order for you to get all this analytical traffic tracking information, but if you call Google, they will help you step by step. They're helpful from my experience but i called them before COVID, not sure how their support is now but maybe their support is still good.

(I've called them before and they helped me for almost an hour and the agent was very patient even though I have some knowledge about it I was confused about some things and she was so nice? lol I was surprised) But this plugin is very detailed and shows you everything I listed above.

If you want an easier plugin setup, there's other free ones if you just search on whatever search engine for "best free analytics plugins for wordpress." I saw two on a best of 2020 list one called Jetpack’s WordPress.com Stats and another called ExactMetrics. Both are free, no idea how easy the setup is though.

if you set up your SEO well and appear high on search engine results, i know you can get some good traffic and convert them into customers that way. i'll have to experiment with this when i have the time and see ::)

samuimoon
11-22-2020, 07:06 AM
Like everyone else, I notice my guys are getting way more fretful, 2020 has taken it's toll and with no end in sight - I sense serious belt tightening is going on. Even those with really safe jobs earning 10k+ a month are going in chat more and doing MUCH shorter calls. Protect your mental ladies, soothing baths, soothing music, candles, cleanse your spaces with sage, walks, the whole nine yards. I get up and work until I reach my goal, trying to give good phone, though I am relatively new - but some days the phone is eerily silent. I still feel lucky to have this income in times such as these and will get my hustling hat on even though my body want to hibernate:). Take care everyoneXOXO

thatgingercamgirl
11-22-2020, 03:15 PM
Happened today, after 4 years. Lived lean and modest, 'working it', studying what works and what doesn't but mostly taking every call, nearly never blocking, short calls, abusive calls, silent calls, got down the the gutters with all the garbage and trash, contorted myself, kept it up, long hours if the money was there, talked about every topic under the sun and the moon no matter how dark and vile. No standards, no self respect, no limits.

Could not be happier. (https://imgur.com/a/JMxpcT5)

PS - will delete that in a bit, I just have to let it out.

Damn lady, congrats! That's a hell of a lot of hard work.

Victoria_Gray
11-22-2020, 09:57 PM
I'm unsure if you have any plugins where you can view website traffic (maybe you don't need to even have a plugin and it's in Wordpress's settings but I assume you have to install a plugin to get this information) but you should be able see in your stats where your traffic comes from.

If you have your Wordpress link on any other website (like your niteflirt or social media), you'd see how someone came to find your wordpress site. It will also tell you what country they are from. If they come from a website in which they put in their gender and birthday (ie Facebook or Twitter), your stats would show you the gender and age of some of the people who visited your site.

Also it will show you which sections they visited your site and for how long they spent on each section.

I'm unsure which Wordpress setting it is in to view this or what plugin you currently have to track your traffic. There's so many plugins.

I know some of this knowledge because I've only used Wordpress at businesses I've worked at and they had plugins installed already. Google has one called site kit - it's free. Not an easy for a beginner to set up all the configuration in order for you to get all this analytical traffic tracking information, but if you call Google, they will help you step by step. They're helpful from my experience but i called them before COVID, not sure how their support is now but maybe their support is still good.

(I've called them before and they helped me for almost an hour and the agent was very patient even though I have some knowledge about it I was confused about some things and she was so nice? lol I was surprised) But this plugin is very detailed and shows you everything I listed above.

If you want an easier plugin setup, there's other free ones if you just search on whatever search engine for "best free analytics plugins for wordpress." I saw two on a best of 2020 list one called Jetpack’s WordPress.com Stats and another called ExactMetrics. Both are free, no idea how easy the setup is though.

if you set up your SEO well and appear high on search engine results, i know you can get some good traffic and convert them into customers that way. i'll have to experiment with this when i have the time and see ::)

Oh yeah for sure, I was talking about that data. I can see that the blog is popular and that people read regularly, etc. I just have not done anything to measure conversions.

Even if I put in links I could track through tiny URL or something, I could only really track how many people came over from the blog. I couldn't track how many people came over, signed up, and spent money with me. Or, I could, but it wouldn't be great data.

I often ask guys how they have found me so I know what marketing is working and I have only had one tell me he found me through the blog. Most find me via social. Even if the blog is not good for discoverability though, it is good for giving guys more of a glimpse into who I am because its longer form content than a tweet. So, super fans and the curious like it.

I guess blogs aren't for everyone, and if I made a supplementary character, I wouldn't bother, but since I am the domme I am pushing, sure it works somewhat.

kiarabunni
11-23-2020, 05:04 AM
Oh yeah for sure, I was talking about that data. I can see that the blog is popular and that people read regularly, etc. I just have not done anything to measure conversions.

Even if I put in links I could track through tiny URL or something, I could only really track how many people came over from the blog. I couldn't track how many people came over, signed up, and spent money with me. Or, I could, but it wouldn't be great data.

I often ask guys how they have found me so I know what marketing is working and I have only had one tell me he found me through the blog. Most find me via social. Even if the blog is not good for discoverability though, it is good for giving guys more of a glimpse into who I am because its longer form content than a tweet. So, super fans and the curious like it.

I guess blogs aren't for everyone, and if I made a supplementary character, I wouldn't bother, but since I am the domme I am pushing, sure it works somewhat.
You could track who clicks on your links that are links to a direct purchase page. And you can also put a link to the signup page and then track who clicks on your sign up page. But yeah, once they are on another site outside of your blog, you can't measure the actual conversion on whether they actually 100% went through the direct purchase or registration page. But some of the information is good to know. Like the gender and ages of whoever visits, how long they read any tab or posts on your blog, and which are the most popular visited areas of your blog. (Then you can put direct purchase links and registration sign up links to the popular part of your website)

True, blogs aren't for everyone..you're right, I'd like to try one out because I made two domme listings on NF and I'm sure some submissive guys and anyone curious would be interested in reading it lol

Victoria_Gray
11-23-2020, 11:45 PM
You could track who clicks on your links that are links to a direct purchase page. And you can also put a link to the signup page and then track who clicks on your sign up page. But yeah, once they are on another site outside of your blog, you can't measure the actual conversion on whether they actually 100% went through the direct purchase or registration page. But some of the information is good to know. Like the gender and ages of whoever visits, how long they read any tab or posts on your blog, and which are the most popular visited areas of your blog. (Then you can put direct purchase links and registration sign up links to the popular part of your website)

True, blogs aren't for everyone..you're right, I'd like to try one out because I made two domme listings on NF and I'm sure some submissive guys and anyone curious would be interested in reading it lol

Two different characters you mean? I have been super curious about making a different character that's a little less kink (I have so much kink in my life being a lifestyle kinkster too). I think that new character energy could be a lot of fun actually...

Smurfette
11-24-2020, 08:41 AM
Just logged in to Skype to see that all my contacts' renames are gone. I always edit their names to say "John Smith -- JOI, SPH" so I remember who they are and what they like. I also do this in Niteflirt notes but I like to do it on Skype as well.

Now it's just showing their original names and nothing else. There is no option to edit their names anymore. I guess Skype removed it.

I have horrible memory. A guy can call me 10 times and I still won't remember who he is, lol. This just makes my job that much harder. Argh.

edit: Nevermind, it's back! Yay!

kiarabunni
11-24-2020, 04:11 PM
Two different characters you mean? I have been super curious about making a different character that's a little less kink (I have so much kink in my life being a lifestyle kinkster too). I think that new character energy could be a lot of fun actually...

I got approved for my two profiles yesterday! (I've never done PSO before and I'm new to niteflirt so these are my first two listings I've had) I read some ladies have a confession line so I decided to make a regular domme listing and then my other character is basically the same character but it's a confession/ignore line? I heard some women on this forum say the guys say nasty things so I made a a line where they can confess stuff but I insult them and ignore. Plus it's cheaper than my regular domme listing. I'm just testing this confession/ignore line character haha

But yes, A new character can add some variety - sounds like it can be fun!

Victoria_Gray
11-24-2020, 09:44 PM
Just logged in to Skype to see that all my contacts' renames are gone. I always edit their names to say "John Smith -- JOI, SPH" so I remember who they are and what they like. I also do this in Niteflirt notes but I like to do it on Skype as well.

Now it's just showing their original names and nothing else. There is no option to edit their names anymore. I guess Skype removed it.

I have horrible memory. A guy can call me 10 times and I still won't remember who he is, lol. This just makes my job that much harder. Argh.

edit: Nevermind, it's back! Yay!

I am glad it's back!

I am the opposite - I have a really good memory and will remember them by their voice, guys I think just believe it's from the notes feature (if they know about it). I will forget them if they don't call for a while though, which is why I force myself to use the notes because people go then come back all the time.

Victoria_Gray
11-24-2020, 09:46 PM
I got approved for my two profiles yesterday! (I've never done PSO before and I'm new to niteflirt so these are my first two listings I've had) I read some ladies have a confession line so I decided to make a regular domme listing and then my other character is basically the same character but it's a confession/ignore line? I heard some women on this forum say the guys say nasty things so I made a a line where they can confess stuff but I insult them and ignore. Plus it's cheaper than my regular domme listing. I'm just testing this confession/ignore line character haha

But yes, A new character can add some variety - sounds like it can be fun!

Bad PSO here but I have never heard of a confession line. What is it?

I do have an ignore line though, but it's a higher rate so people seem to call my normal line then ask to be ignored.

sexysassylux
11-26-2020, 10:04 AM
Hey, so I just found out that my profile was violating TOS before now. (I had my boyfriend do most of the coding, stopped working on NF for a long ass while, and was not aware that the violation was, in fact, a violation because everyone was doing it when I first got started.) I found out from the NF forums yesterday, and have since removed the violation from my profile and do not intend to continue violating the TOS.

This was a relatively small violation (not illegal, just against the site rules unbeknownst to me), but even so, I'm freaking out about being reported and banned. This is basically the only thing keeping me afloat right now. Do you think it will be a problem, or am I overreacting here?

Spemily
11-26-2020, 11:46 AM
Hey, so I just found out that my profile was violating TOS before now. (I had my boyfriend do most of the coding, stopped working on NF for a long ass while, and was not aware that the violation was, in fact, a violation because everyone was doing it when I first got started.) I found out from the NF forums yesterday, and have since removed the violation from my profile and do not intend to continue violating the TOS.

This was a relatively small violation (not illegal, just against the site rules unbeknownst to me), but even so, I'm freaking out about being reported and banned. This is basically the only thing keeping me afloat right now. Do you think it will be a problem, or am I overreacting here?

So, I'm guessing you had a pic showing nudity or mentioned a fetish that's not allowed on NiteFlirt (like golden showers or something) or maybe you had your email address posted or something. No matter what, had someone reported you to NiteFlirt, all they would have done was taken down your listing and notified you that it needed to be fixed. Once the corrections had been made, you would have resubmitted your listings for approval and then you would have been back up and running in a day or two.

Even if the violation was more severe (like asking guys to pay you offsite for some services or offering tributes in exchange for cam shows), your first offense would have gotten you only a short suspension, maybe five days or so.

But now that you've fixed it, you won't get in any trouble at all. No one will report you for what your listing said in the past. NiteFlirt won't penalize you for something you might have done in the past, only for things you are currently doing now (unless we're talking about something really serious). But if it was just a matter of you advertising vampire play back when such things were allowed, you really have nothing at all to worry about.

NiteFlirt enforces their rules, but the only ones they ban people for permanently are the financial ones or, occasionally, people who just seem to be willfully violating content rules over and over again.

MaryElizabeth
11-26-2020, 01:39 PM
NiteFlirt enforces their rules, but the only ones they ban people for permanently are the financial ones or, occasionally.

What might these be?

I occasionally get some blackmail inquiries - which I stay away from. And the guys that want me to send messages / photos or call other people. And the guys that give me their names and phone numbers and shit like that seem just out of their minds.

sexysassylux
11-26-2020, 01:47 PM
So, in my case, I sold my Skype ID in a goodie bag and offered tribute shows (I.e., shows that are paid for via tribute on NF). I didn't realize that was against the rules because a lot of the top girls on the NiteFlirt Phone with Cam listings are doing the same thing. I modeled my profile off them because I couldn't imagine anyone would be brazen enough to break the rules on the front page. Apparently I was wrooooong.

Spemily
11-26-2020, 01:58 PM
What might these be?

I occasionally get some blackmail inquiries - which I stay away from. And the guys that want me to send messages / photos or call other people. And the guys that give me their names and phone numbers and shit like that seem just out of their minds.

Things where you are taking money out of NF's pockets. If you repeatedly take your customers offsite to have them pay elsewhere, or circumvent NF's fees in some other way, they don't take too kindly to that. Even then, they give you a warning. You don't get banned on the first offense. The only thing I've seen result in an insta-ban is participating in some sort of fraud, either defrauding NF, a customer, or a credit card company.

Spemily
11-26-2020, 02:00 PM
So, in my case, I sold my Skype ID in a goodie bag and offered tribute shows (I.e., shows that are paid for via tribute on NF). I didn't realize that was against the rules because a lot of the top girls on the NiteFlirt Phone with Cam listings are doing the same thing. I modeled my profile off them because I couldn't imagine anyone would be brazen enough to break the rules on the front page. Apparently I was wrooooong.

If they'd caught you doing that, they'd have taken down your listing and warned you. Now that it's off your listing, you're totally fine.

You might want to read through NF's rules, just to make sure you aren't exposing yourself to having your listings taken down.

sexysassylux
11-26-2020, 02:47 PM
So, the thing is, I'm pretty sure my account was reported by a disgruntled customer last night (thus, why I read the TOS yesterday). Would they be able to see the way my profile was when I had the skype ID up, or is that gone now?

kiarabunni
11-26-2020, 11:51 PM
Bad PSO here but I have never heard of a confession line. What is it?

I do have an ignore line though, but it's a higher rate so people seem to call my normal line then ask to be ignored.

I just made it 20 cents lower than my regular line because some of the confession shit is nasty. I'm slowly but surely trying to read this whole thread. Early in this thread ome ladies were talking about how some men like to confess some nasty stuff, some of it true, some of it being made up lol

laurielegs
11-27-2020, 03:12 PM
I just made it 20 cents lower than my regular line because some of the confession shit is nasty. I'm slowly but surely trying to read this whole thread. Early in this thread ome ladies were talking about how some men like to confess some nasty stuff, some of it true, some of it being made up lol

ugh... sounds unpleasant.

Maybe make it higher not lower!

arielbriel
11-27-2020, 04:17 PM
I agree. I feel like that confession line would bring out the pedos but that’s just me.

Spemily
11-27-2020, 08:55 PM
So, the thing is, I'm pretty sure my account was reported by a disgruntled customer last night (thus, why I read the TOS yesterday). Would they be able to see the way my profile was when I had the skype ID up, or is that gone now?

It's certainly technologically possible for them to see previous versions of your listing, but since the only thing they would have done is ask you to change it, they've already gotten the result they want. I very much doubt anything will happen.

Growlerpussy
11-28-2020, 01:47 AM
NF just blows my mind since 2 weeks. And my money too.
Bidding - getting a call- back to the same amount I was - bidding - getting a call - back to the same amount i was
it's a circle at the moment. So many clicks and maybe one call that brings the money in I took for bidding.
Drives me nuts.
I have 2 really great profiles who make most of my monthly income, they're just dead. I can have 20 calls in 3 hours and don't even climb a position higher on the bidding thing.

kiarabunni
11-28-2020, 02:39 AM
ugh... sounds unpleasant.

Maybe make it higher not lower!
I'm new to niteflirt and my main domme listing with a few fetishes for just phone is 1.99 and then I had the confession line as 1.79..thank you for you advice, I'm gonna raise the confession line higher than 1.99!

freakyspirit
11-28-2020, 02:25 PM
Hi Ladies,

I am looking for some honest feedback about a cam rate. I am not a cam girl (respect to those of you who do that work), I'm an introvert and quite shy despite being quite the opposite on PSO calls.

Someone has approached me a few times about doing breast only cam work (no face, no body, just breasts), and I let him know that's not my thing, but I would consider it. He specifically mentioned he wants shorter cam sessions (quick J/O), and considering this is a really big ask of me... I have NO idea what to price my calls at...

He did mention he wants this to be a regular thing, frequent texting and phone calls, but shorter, quick, cam finishes.

Just looking for feedback about what you would put your cam line at in my situation.

Much appreciated. <3

arielbriel
11-28-2020, 03:10 PM
WHats your phone rate? I would double it or I would just say a flat rate of $50 or something. He wants something exclusive, he has to pay exclusive prices.

Ladies, I switched my SIM card to reflect the country I'm currently residing in and now NF & TTM don't support it or something? Is there a way to work around this? I sent an email but ya.. Thanks.

sexysassylux
11-28-2020, 05:08 PM
Maybe lower your bids? That's what' s been working for me.

Victoria_Gray
11-28-2020, 07:02 PM
WHats your phone rate? I would double it or I would just say a flat rate of $50 or something. He wants something exclusive, he has to pay exclusive prices.

Ladies, I switched my SIM card to reflect the country I'm currently residing in and now NF & TTM don't support it or something? Is there a way to work around this? I sent an email but ya.. Thanks.

If you can have 2 SIMs in your phone or a spare phone to take the calls on international roaming, that could be a thing?

With the confession line... I already have guys do that - although not often, and less now than when I started - they always want to talk about young girls, step daughters, etc. I got it a bit on TTM and AdultWork. I don't get it on NiteFlirt, and I don't think I would want to encourage it tbh. You might get different stuff though with yours, my fingers are crossed for you!

arielbriel
11-29-2020, 04:23 AM
That could be an idea although its a pain to switch the SIM all the time. Someone on TTM thread suggested getting a skype USA phone number, I'm going to go that route I think.

LadyCoco
11-30-2020, 08:16 PM
Sooo... I was trying to make payment buttons and it gave me this message:

"You cannot create Payment Request or Pay To View buttons unless you have an active listing."

Does that mean I have to create a phone listing? I joined Niteflirt to sell goody bags. Does that still work?

grneyesnfl
12-01-2020, 01:21 AM
Sooo... I was trying to make payment buttons and it gave me this message:

"You cannot create Payment Request or Pay To View buttons unless you have an active listing."

Does that mean I have to create a phone listing? I joined Niteflirt to sell goody bags. Does that still work?

Payment Mail buttons are tied to a particular listing. When you go to compose one, scroll down to the very bottom of the page and it will ask you which of your listings you want the button tied to. That means when someone buys that particular item, and leaves feedback, it shows up under that particular listing. Goodies don't work that way. They aren't tied to a listing.

Just make a listing and get it approved so you can make your PTV's and Goodies. You never have to turn that listing on to take calls if you don't want to. If you change your mind, your listing is there ready to go.

LadyCoco
12-01-2020, 11:13 AM
Payment Mail buttons are tied to a particular listing. When you go to compose one, scroll down to the very bottom of the page and it will ask you which of your listings you want the button tied to. That means when someone buys that particular item, and leaves feedback, it shows up under that particular listing. Goodies don't work that way. They aren't tied to a listing.

Just make a listing and get it approved so you can make your PTV's and Goodies. You never have to turn that listing on to take calls if you don't want to. If you change your mind, your listing is there ready to go.

Thanks. I already went ahead and made a listing last night, so I can sell PTVs and Goodies.

Mona Mona
12-02-2020, 07:04 PM
i've been working niteflirt, and getting feedback out of men is awkward...any tips for NF 2020?

MaryElizabeth
12-03-2020, 10:54 AM
i've been working niteflirt, and getting feedback out of men is awkward...any tips for NF 2020?

Feedback can be tricky, its one thing to occasionally ask a 'regular' to leave 5 stars. For first time callers it also feels awkward to me. I try to end every conversation with as much gentleness as possible, I want them to feel very free to call again I don't want to taint things and I end with a 'kisses or 'thank you or some such. I'm looking at my bread-and-butter listing and it hasn't had a review left in 2 months. Only a tiny % of guys leave reviews, it's just a rare thing. More stars are gotten from calls that are +15 minutes.

Eventually, you can drag guys over from successful listings and get them to leave 5's. If you are all new to this tell the guy at the beginning that if he leaves you 5 stars you'll send him 5 free minutes at the beginning of the call. Getting some 5 stars is totally worth it. Or refund a friend to call for a minute. Good luck.

grneyesnfl
12-03-2020, 07:59 PM
If you are all new to this tell the guy at the beginning that if he leaves you 5 stars you'll send him 5 free minutes at the beginning of the call. Getting some 5 stars is totally worth it. Or refund a friend to call for a minute.

You can't have friends call and pad your feedback, nor can you offer free ANYTHING in exchange for feedback. Both of those suggestions are against the rules.

https://www.niteflirt.com/help/niteflirt_rules#nrule9
https://www.niteflirt.com/help/niteflirt_rules#nrule10

Teddy_Bear
12-05-2020, 04:56 PM
What does it mean when it says 'we're sorry we weren't able to send your message' in chats? Does it mean the customer has blocked us? If so what a loser I didn't respond until 10 mins after his message because I was on a call. Talk about having a hissy fit.

MaryElizabeth
12-05-2020, 08:39 PM
What does it mean when it says 'we're sorry we weren't able to send your message' in chats? Does it mean the customer has blocked us? If so what a loser I didn't respond until 10 mins after his message because I was on a call. Talk about having a hissy fit.

He doesn't have enough $ on his account to cover it / account was closed. Happens from time to time, he may be back, if so don't mention it, just say "hey missed you"

Victoria_Gray
12-06-2020, 01:25 AM
He doesn't have enough $ on his account to cover it / account was closed. Happens from time to time, he may be back, if so don't mention it, just say "hey missed you"

A little while ago while looking at my transactions I could see that NF was picking up this one guys bill for chats. I wonder if they do that a little bit before they stop it completely? Like, maybe if its under $10 NF lets you keep chatting, but if the dudes card gets declined it stops you from chatting?

That guy did eventually block me, then unblock me... although I don't know what that was about.

foxirox
12-07-2020, 01:26 AM
Is anyone having issues getting payment from the 'dailypay' service.? I have noticed in the past couple of months, whenever I put a request in, it either gets ignored sometimes, or is quite late to go through. Had to dip into my savings to cover bills today because it didn't been processed. Getting pretty annoying now.

Smurfette
12-07-2020, 08:47 AM
Daily pay service switched over to another bank (or something like that) so payments for everything are delayed right now. Hopefully it'll go back to normal soon. They're usually very quick to send payments for me. Sometimes they do miss (or ignore) my request but it's rare.

freakyspirit
12-07-2020, 11:01 PM
OMG Humble brag post. I just had a custie buy me the most expensive gift to date - with taxes, just over $2,500.00! Amazing!! He's also got the record of buying my 2nd and 3rd largest gifts ($600 & $670).

Plus, I have a new regular that makes frequent 2-3 hour (EASY) calls, and had a brand new caller last night took me on my longest call ever - 204 minutes. I've almost hit my weekly goal target only 2 days in.

I had aggressive targets for December, but these last 48 hours have been amazing! NF has been sort of hot and cold for me in the last 4-6 weeks, with regular calls dropping off and being carried by the irregular 'long' call or generous customer that comes and then disappears. Hoping to keep these newest custies around for a bit. :)


Would love feedback though - I am already considering returning the item - not because I don't want it, I do, but because it's SO over-the-top. Basically, I could return it, buy a more economical version of that same item, and still have 1200 bucks left over to spend on things I need versus a very extravagant version of something I only sort-of need. I'm struggling with the guilt of returning something that someone bought for me, at such a large price. Would anyone else struggle with that? Or am I overthinking it?

arielbriel
12-08-2020, 06:10 AM
No, return it. In the stripping world, we do it all the time. Customer buys you expensive bag rather than giving you $2500/3k? Return that shit or sell it on postmark for the cash. I even have one gf who asks 3 customers for the same Chanel boy bag. She returned 2 , took the cash, and kept one. Now she wears the bag with all 3 customers and still made a few thousand.

Victoria_Gray
12-08-2020, 08:37 PM
No, return it. In the stripping world, we do it all the time. Customer buys you expensive bag rather than giving you $2500/3k? Return that shit or sell it on postmark for the cash. I even have one gf who asks 3 customers for the same Chanel boy bag. She returned 2 , took the cash, and kept one. Now she wears the bag with all 3 customers and still made a few thousand.

That's actually a great idea!

Also freakyspirit- congrats on smashing those goals!

samuimoon
12-09-2020, 09:51 AM
freakyspirit - Wow, inspiring. Congratulations, and wishing you are just at the start of many similar blessingsx Note To Self: get a shift on and create a Amazon Wishlist for XMAS.