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Spemily
07-31-2021, 01:30 PM
I'm having an issue with a caller I can't get rid of. He keeps making new accounts every time I've blocked him (this has happened FOUR times already). He's got a foot fetish and wants me to repeat the same line over and over again about stepping on his cock with my "pretty white feet." That would be fine alone but I think he keeps notes about little details I've mentioned before - like the city where I live (well where my character lives) and says "I know where you live. I'm going to come there. I know what school you go to." And he keeps trying to talk about my mother even though I say I can't talk about family. One time he claimed he was an underage guy. I cannot shake this guy. He used to call a couple of my old accounts too and did the same thing and I just cannot shake him.
With this kind of guy, you have to make them feel like stopping calling you is their idea. Be boring. Or kill his boner. Say your feet are dirty. Talk about something mundane and tedious. Pretend to have tech issues with your phone and just keep pressing numbers and making him listen to beeps. Keep "accidentally" putting him on hold.
Don't necessarily do all these things, because that would probably make it obvious. But if you gradually and completely make yourself undesirable to him, he'll probably stop calling on his own.
caramelcraze
07-31-2021, 03:02 PM
Is there a way to turn off the alert noise without turning off the member info when someone calls?
caramelcraze
07-31-2021, 03:19 PM
I'm having an issue with a caller I can't get rid of. He keeps making new accounts every time I've blocked him (this has happened FOUR times already). He's got a foot fetish and wants me to repeat the same line over and over again about stepping on his cock with my "pretty white feet." That would be fine alone but I think he keeps notes about little details I've mentioned before - like the city where I live (well where my character lives) and says "I know where you live. I'm going to come there. I know what school you go to." And he keeps trying to talk about my mother even though I say I can't talk about family. One time he claimed he was an underage guy. I cannot shake this guy. He used to call a couple of my old accounts too and did the same thing and I just cannot shake him.
I had a guy like this. the second he calls and you recognize his voice, hang up and block him. might also be worth contacting support and letting them know he has been harassing you. They might be able to IP address block him for you.
MmmmMaxi
07-31-2021, 06:22 PM
Hi all, I'm relatively new to SW/NF, and brand new to stripperweb!
I've been a Flirt for a few months now, and am absolutely LOVING it. However, now that I'm comfortable enough to add two additional listings to my original one, I can't figure out how to tell which listing clients are reaching out to me from in Chat and in my Messages unless they favorite me first. Is there a way to tell? Because my listings are....well....not completely compatible (feel free to ask for details if you're curious, I love talking about it, but it's not the focus of this post). Also, is there any way to separate your goody bags by listing? I really don't want to get a second profile yet, but I'm afraid that's the only answer to my problems... but I also can’t figure out how to create a new character on my line if that’s the way to go, so advice there would be awesome too!
Any help I can get would be incredibly appreciated!
Cheers,
Maxi
Bootybabe
08-01-2021, 06:01 AM
I'm having an issue with a caller I can't get rid of. He keeps making new accounts every time I've blocked him (this has happened FOUR times already). He's got a foot fetish and wants me to repeat the same line over and over again about stepping on his cock with my "pretty white feet." That would be fine alone but I think he keeps notes about little details I've mentioned before - like the city where I live (well where my character lives) and says "I know where you live. I'm going to come there. I know what school you go to." And he keeps trying to talk about my mother even though I say I can't talk about family. One time he claimed he was an underage guy. I cannot shake this guy. He used to call a couple of my old accounts too and did the same thing and I just cannot shake him.
Ok I’m a long time lurker on these forums, but been on NF for years and this dude always does this. What works for me is to call him out on saying you know I’ve blocked you over and over. To laugh at him and call him a perv, and whenever he asks you to say stuff just laugh and say I’m not going to say that. He has called me probably 20 times over the years from all sorts of different “member-insetnumberhere” accounts, never left feedback, and is just scummy. I take his four bucks, write in his customer notes who he is, then block him.
Hello, could you recommend me a way to get an US Phone number for calls and texts please? I am looking for a quality service provider. What I have now has a lots of bugs.
Spemily
08-01-2021, 01:10 PM
Is there a way to turn off the alert noise without turning off the member info when someone calls?
There isn't a NiteFlirt setting for that, but you could mute the tab or tabs you have NiteFlirt open in.
Spemily
08-01-2021, 01:12 PM
I had a guy like this. the second he calls and you recognize his voice, hang up and block him. might also be worth contacting support and letting them know he has been harassing you. They might be able to IP address block him for you.
NiteFlirt doesn't do IP blocks because in this day and age of VPNs, they are useless. If the guy is not already using a VPN, he can get around the block by getting one. If he is already using a VPN, he can simply change servers and get around the block. Not to mention, all other flirts and customers and potential customers using that same VPN server would get blocked as well.
Spemily
08-01-2021, 01:13 PM
Hi all, I'm relatively new to SW/NF, and brand new to stripperweb!
I've been a Flirt for a few months now, and am absolutely LOVING it. However, now that I'm comfortable enough to add two additional listings to my original one, I can't figure out how to tell which listing clients are reaching out to me from in Chat and in my Messages unless they favorite me first. Is there a way to tell? Because my listings are....well....not completely compatible (feel free to ask for details if you're curious, I love talking about it, but it's not the focus of this post). Also, is there any way to separate your goody bags by listing? I really don't want to get a second profile yet, but I'm afraid that's the only answer to my problems... but I also can’t figure out how to create a new character on my line if that’s the way to go, so advice there would be awesome too!
Any help I can get would be incredibly appreciated!
Cheers,
Maxi
Your listings are all associated with one profile, so they need to be "compatible". If you want to have completely separate characters, you need to create separate accounts.
caramelcraze
08-01-2021, 10:25 PM
There isn't a NiteFlirt setting for that, but you could mute the tab or tabs you have NiteFlirt open in.
holy shit, why didn't I think of the mute tab thing :banghead:
caramelcraze
08-01-2021, 10:36 PM
NiteFlirt doesn't do IP blocks because in this day and age of VPNs, they are useless. If the guy is not already using a VPN, he can get around the block by getting one. If he is already using a VPN, he can simply change servers and get around the block. Not to mention, all other flirts and customers and potential customers using that same VPN server would get blocked as well.
Ah that is true, though I did have another thought: I do know on some other sites they will at least block the card(s) the harasser is using on the site to make calls. Haven't tried it on nf specifically, but I had an absolutely obsessed creepy custie a couple months ago on another site that would not leave me alone and ended up threatening me. The site ended up blocking all his cards that were associated with his user accounts so he couldn't make more accounts with the same cards. idk if NF operates the same way, but if it's really out of hand, it is worth a shot to ask. it's not a perfect solution but it definitely stopped my ex custie in his tracks pretty quickly.
Victoria_Gray
08-02-2021, 02:03 AM
How do others track their earnings?
I am using several sites and was thinking of starting a spreadsheet as I usually keep a running tally but a spreadsheet would be clearer.
Anyone got spreadsheet porn - I mean tips - they'd like to share?
I earn in USD now, but am an Aussie. Thinking it might be best to just measure in USD then convert over later... hmm...
PurpleSquirrel
08-02-2021, 02:39 AM
Yup, I love a good spreadsheet! I currently work on AW and NF which are two different currencies. I record in each currency to keep me right if I'm ever looking over stats on the sites and just convert if I need to £ if I'm working out earnings to be deposited. I use the spreadsheet to keep me focused and target myself against previous months to keep myself going.
Susperia
08-02-2021, 09:00 AM
I logged into my account this morning and my full balance from July is still in there. Anyone else? Why would this happen? I sent a ticket to support, anyone know how long they take to get back to you?
MaryElizabeth
08-02-2021, 10:04 AM
Anyone got spreadsheet porn - I mean tips - they'd like to share?
I use google sheets and its pretty great (and free), I might make a basic one people can use. Lemme work on that one.
Spemily
08-02-2021, 10:35 AM
Ah that is true, though I did have another thought: I do know on some other sites they will at least block the card(s) the harasser is using on the site to make calls. Haven't tried it on nf specifically, but I had an absolutely obsessed creepy custie a couple months ago on another site that would not leave me alone and ended up threatening me. The site ended up blocking all his cards that were associated with his user accounts so he couldn't make more accounts with the same cards. idk if NF operates the same way, but if it's really out of hand, it is worth a shot to ask. it's not a perfect solution but it definitely stopped my ex custie in his tracks pretty quickly.
I think that's what they do when they block a customer, but it's far from foolproof as pre-paid cards are available for sale basically everywhere these days.
Spemily
08-02-2021, 10:36 AM
I logged into my account this morning and my full balance from July is still in there. Anyone else? Why would this happen? I sent a ticket to support, anyone know how long they take to get back to you?
It's happening to several people, including myself. There's a thread on it on the NF forum. It usually takes about 2 business days for them to respond to tickets.
Susperia
08-02-2021, 10:55 AM
It's happening to several people, including myself. There's a thread on it on the NF forum. It usually takes about 2 business days for them to respond to tickets.
Thanks that makes me feel better. I thought something was wrong.....
everythingiscake
08-02-2021, 11:08 AM
How long does an express deposit take? If I work on Monday, my deposit is there on Friday. I work on Saturday or Sunday, it is deposited Friday. I worked on Friday (not my usual day) does anyone know how long that deposit takes? I am not sure if I need to move money around to cover some stuff.
Spemily
08-02-2021, 12:37 PM
How long does an express deposit take? If I work on Monday, my deposit is there on Friday. I work on Saturday or Sunday, it is deposited Friday. I worked on Friday (not my usual day) does anyone know how long that deposit takes? I am not sure if I need to move money around to cover some stuff.
It depends on your bank. Usually people report that the number of days it takes to receive the deposit is steady.
MmmmMaxi
08-02-2021, 12:39 PM
Your listings are all associated with one profile, so they need to be "compatible". If you want to have completely separate characters, you need to create separate accounts.
Gotcha. I heard you’re supposed to be able to make up to 3 accounts with one phone number but I don’t know how? I tried the other day and it wouldn’t let me. Any advice?
Spemily
08-02-2021, 05:28 PM
Gotcha. I heard you’re supposed to be able to make up to 3 accounts with one phone number but I don’t know how? I tried the other day and it wouldn’t let me. Any advice?
What did you try and what didn't work? Creating a second account is just like creating the first one. You can use the same credit card and telephone number, but you'll need a different email address.
grneyesnfl
08-02-2021, 09:09 PM
I heard you’re supposed to be able to make up to 3 accounts with one phone number but I don’t know how? I tried the other day and it wouldn’t let me. Any advice?
When you go to make your second (and subsequent accounts), make sure you are signed completely out of your first account. Then click on the BECOME A FLIRT link that's on the bottom of most pages. You need a new email address for each new account you make.
Victoria_Gray
08-02-2021, 11:57 PM
I use google sheets and its pretty great (and free), I might make a basic one people can use. Lemme work on that one.
That's very kind of you - thank you! :D
MmmmMaxi
08-03-2021, 10:50 AM
What did you try and what didn't work? Creating a second account is just like creating the first one. You can use the same credit card and telephone number, but you'll need a different email address.
Ahhh, I was using the same email. Now I feel silly. Thanks for the help!
I have a question for Canadian flirts who have an Amazon wishlist. What kind of mail forwarding service do you use that allows you to use a name other than your real one? I've been using Shipito, but with shipping fees and duties, the cost comes out to where it would be the same if I were just purchasing the items for myself (yes, I do mark the packages as gifts, but I'm still charged duties on them). Has anyone tried FlexDelivery? Do they allow you to receive packages that aren't addressed to your real name? I'm curious to know what everyone uses.
Growlerpussy
08-03-2021, 12:08 PM
I just realized that costumers who are members before 2010 tent to leave more often bad reviews or only 1 star. Or maybe it's just me .....
Spemily
08-03-2021, 02:40 PM
I have a question for Canadian flirts who have an Amazon wishlist. What kind of mail forwarding service do you use that allows you to use a name other than your real one? I've been using Shipito, but with shipping fees and duties, the cost comes out to where it would be the same if I were just purchasing the items for myself (yes, I do mark the packages as gifts, but I'm still charged duties on them). Has anyone tried FlexDelivery? Do they allow you to receive packages that aren't addressed to your real name? I'm curious to know what everyone uses.
First of all, you'll probably want to make your wish list on amazon.ca to avoid duties.
Secondly, no, FlexDelivery won't work. Right from the FlexDelivery page:
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You have to sign up using the name on your government ID and then present that same government ID when you pick up your package.
Personally, I don't have a wish list because I haven't found any way for it to be anonymous and safe. Even registering a business and receiving mail in the company name isn't foolproof since the name of the person who registered the business is in the public record (and in my province can be searched online).
MaryElizabeth
08-03-2021, 09:15 PM
How do others track their earnings? I...was thinking of starting a spreadsheet.
Ok, so this is how I track things using Google Sheets, you just need a google email / account to get access to Google Sheets. It's their version of Microsoft Excel and this is how I track my earnings. It doesn't overly matter but it helps me feel more in control. And yea, this gets nerdy.
Firstly, this video shows everything I use which is = and + and with just that you can build a fine way to track your earnings, this short video explains: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llkP9DxRAPI
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https://imgur.com/a/v5dffOo
This is my look, what I see on my page and works for me, you will find what works for you:
#A This is the week, this is the 32nd week of the 2021 year, 3rd is Monday, 4th is Tuesday up until Sunday the 9th.
#B This is circle is where the day-to-day action happens, I have various profiles and this is where I track them, so today 'Cate' has made $43, Beth $31 and I add them all up. Thus far, today, I have made $144. This one gets complicated as there is money I leave in for bidding. I subtract -25 or, just look at your transactions and see what NF kicked out. Then I reset the numbers the next day and start again so I can get that days total.
#C The amount I make each day, I take the daily #B and compress it here. I use 'daily' for NF payouts, it works for me. On Monday all of my NF accounts paid out $167
#D Is when the money hits my bank account. So all this is the next week, so what I make on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday of last week show up in my account on Tuesday morning the following week, my bank does not pay out on Sunday or Monday. So, thus far I will make $167 + $144 and on Tuesday I'll see $311. Your bank / days until money shows up may be different, this is consistent for me. Bank holidays fuck it all up. This way I know how much will show up during the week. I do not live day to day but this helps me.
#E The $167 in Yellow is the amount I have made thus far this week, it will get added by the amount I make each day until Sunday. The $42,176 is the amount thus far for the year. (42,176=42,009+167)
#F TTM pays out once a week, I track it per day but it doesn't fit in very well. Until the Tuesday I attribute that to the last week. So what I make in TTM on Monday and Tuesday gets credited to the week prior. So the $186 that NF has made me since it went to zero gets credited to week #31. It works for me, I try to make $178 per day which will give me $65k for the year.
And then for week #33 I insert rows and I copy and past above and keep going. You can dig into your NF reports and TTM history to see what you have made thus far. Like I said it
It took me a couple weeks to get this figured out, this works for me, you may find something else. Stay safe, good luck.
freakyspirit
08-03-2021, 11:59 PM
Canadian here, who has a wishlist. I use a mom and pop type mail box center (UPS store, etc.).
I rented as a 'business' but I remember they were pretty casual about the whole process. When I signed up for it I didn't have my ID on me at the time and they told me to just bring it in next time I dropped by. I never bothered to stop by with my ID and I continue to collect my packages. On the paperwork they allowed me to enter up to something like six different names a various "employees" who are authorized to pick up packages on my behalf. I entered various names of various Amazon Wish lists that I hold that are quite suspect and quite obviously not real people.
Not once have they ever asked me to provide ID even when I'm picking up large parcels that have been delivered. I simply state which box I'm picking up for and they hand it over. They might raise an eyebrow because some of the boxes are addressed to some generic names (something along the lines of 'Canadian Princess', you get the idea). The particular store I rent from English isn't the first language of the staff and majority of the time the woman behind the desk is on the phone. LOL.
I usually call in advance and ask if they have any packages for box number XYZ and when they say yes I go out and pick it up within the hour. I've never once been questioned on anything. I've renewed my box three times and I'm going to be going in this week for another renewal. I just pay my fee and no issues. Ever.
My box is located in the city adjacent to the one that I live in. I have a dedicated Amazon account specifically for this wishlist and do not use it for anything related to my real name or real address. Everything goes to the rental box.
My Amazon account is based on .ca. I've had some very generous whales who once they discovered they were purchasing things in Canadian dollars went a bit crazy. Last year I pulled around 5 grand in high-value items on it.
I do recommend keeping your wish lists updated. Often time items will be unavailable or not available for purchase and I always make sure to keep mine updated and for the most part only list items that are sold through from Amazon direct and not third-party sellers.
One last tip. I used to have physical gift cards on my wishlist that people could purchase and that would be mailed directly to my address. I got severely burned by doing this when I had several whales try and purchase me $500 gift cards only to have Amazon flag the transaction as suspicious. This happened several times with several different whales. I no longer have gift cards listed on my list and only list actual items. I can't tell you the pain of seeing a $500 gift card he purchased for you only to be reversed by Amazon. For this reason I generally max out any single item between $200 to $300. I have had higher-value items purchased for me I think the most was 2K, but it was with a dedicated whale who had to get in touch with Amazon who also flagged the transaction as suspicious. He was tenacious and called customer service to make sure that the purchase went through on his card. But generally speaking keep your items in it around $200 to $300 on the Canadian side. Otherwise Amazon will flag high-value transactions and you'll get screwed out of the transaction (custie card refunded).
caramelcraze
08-04-2021, 01:26 AM
One last tip. I used to have physical gift cards on my wishlist that people could purchase and that would be mailed directly to my address. I got severely burned by doing this when I had several whales try and purchase me $500 gift cards only to have Amazon flag the transaction as suspicious. This happened several times with several different whales. I no longer have gift cards listed on my list and only list actual items. I can't tell you the pain of seeing a $500 gift card he purchased for you only to be reversed by Amazon. For this reason I generally max out any single item between $200 to $300. I have had higher-value items purchased for me I think the most was 2K, but it was with a dedicated whale who had to get in touch with Amazon who also flagged the transaction as suspicious. He was tenacious and called customer service to make sure that the purchase went through on his card. But generally speaking keep your items in it around $200 to $300 on the Canadian side. Otherwise Amazon will flag high-value transactions and you'll get screwed out of the transaction (custie card refunded).
Just make sure you don't do this if you use shipito ("You" not being you specifically, just everyone in general)! They do not allow you to receive physical gift cards or cash through their virtual PO boxes.
Victoria_Gray
08-05-2021, 03:13 AM
Ok, so this is how I track things using Google Sheets, you just need a google email / account to get access to Google Sheets. It's their version of Microsoft Excel and this is how I track my earnings. It doesn't overly matter but it helps me feel more in control. And yea, this gets nerdy.
Firstly, this video shows everything I use which is = and + and with just that you can build a fine way to track your earnings, this short video explains: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=llkP9DxRAPI
55739
https://imgur.com/a/v5dffOo
This is my look, what I see on my page and works for me, you will find what works for you:
#A This is the week, this is the 32nd week of the 2021 year, 3rd is Monday, 4th is Tuesday up until Sunday the 9th.
#B This is circle is where the day-to-day action happens, I have various profiles and this is where I track them, so today 'Cate' has made $43, Beth $31 and I add them all up. Thus far, today, I have made $144. This one gets complicated as there is money I leave in for bidding. I subtract -25 or, just look at your transactions and see what NF kicked out. Then I reset the numbers the next day and start again so I can get that days total.
#C The amount I make each day, I take the daily #B and compress it here. I use 'daily' for NF payouts, it works for me. On Monday all of my NF accounts paid out $167
#D Is when the money hits my bank account. So all this is the next week, so what I make on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday of last week show up in my account on Tuesday morning the following week, my bank does not pay out on Sunday or Monday. So, thus far I will make $167 + $144 and on Tuesday I'll see $311. Your bank / days until money shows up may be different, this is consistent for me. Bank holidays fuck it all up. This way I know how much will show up during the week. I do not live day to day but this helps me.
#E The $167 in Yellow is the amount I have made thus far this week, it will get added by the amount I make each day until Sunday. The $42,176 is the amount thus far for the year. (42,176=42,009+167)
#F TTM pays out once a week, I track it per day but it doesn't fit in very well. Until the Tuesday I attribute that to the last week. So what I make in TTM on Monday and Tuesday gets credited to the week prior. So the $186 that NF has made me since it went to zero gets credited to week #31. It works for me, I try to make $178 per day which will give me $65k for the year.
And then for week #33 I insert rows and I copy and past above and keep going. You can dig into your NF reports and TTM history to see what you have made thus far. Like I said it
It took me a couple weeks to get this figured out, this works for me, you may find something else. Stay safe, good luck.
Thank you for sitting down to write all of this out, looks great!
I like your system! Does it make taxes easier?
I was doing profit and loss statements last financial year, a friend put me onto them. They should be helpful when I do my taxes, but they didn't help me staying motivated like seeing my daily earnings would.
Also, do you sell content like audios/stories on TTM or NF? If you sell something overnight, do you add that earning to the following days earnings, or to the day before?
Victoria_Gray
08-05-2021, 03:13 AM
I just realized that costumers who are members before 2010 tent to leave more often bad reviews or only 1 star. Or maybe it's just me .....
I need to start pushing for reviews again, stopped for a while.
Some of the guys who have been around forever don't even leave them.
MaryElizabeth
08-05-2021, 10:25 AM
Does it make taxes easier? - Doesn't make a difference, it's for motivation and a bit of planning. You could say it's busy work to update the numbers but I get a couple of gnarly calls and then can update the numbers and see that I'm $35 closer to my daily goal. And, that next Tuesday that $421 is going to show up in my bank account. Tomorrow morning, zero is going to show up. Having no sense of what was happening bothered me.
Honestly, it keeps me focused on the $, the reality is that I might be spending too much time alone in a room talking about gnarly shit with pervs and this way I don't dwell on that and instead that I'm putting money in the bank, that I made 'x' dollars this week.
"Do you sell content like audios/stories? If you sell something overnight...
I do daily pay out, and every 4am NF resets to zero, I go with that and my page is the same as the current NF balance (well as long as it has hit a payout amount, until then I don't enter it). I do like waking up and seeing an audio or two sold and putting that in the sheet and starting the day running with a some bucks (I don't do audio on TTM, I'm simply frightened of interacting with the staff and I don't update anything ever.)
But yea, thought about it, it's all to give me a bit more sense of control (knowing how much is going to show up and when) and giving myself some positive rewards, knowing I'm getting close to my daily goal or beating my weekly goal. This is a gig that can be short on positive feedback and this is how I build some of that into my day.
Sometimes - "Please stay on the line. This call has lasted 5 minutes $7 has been credited to your account" and I go right over to my sheet and add it. And yea, the money.
Right now it's 12:55 Thursday afternoon as I type this and I have made $78 today, 13 of that on TTM and the rest on NF. I'll go out and hopefully tonight I'll make another $100. So far this week I have made in total $523.
Yea, otherwise calls come in, and later stuff shows up in the bank and I am not sure what is going on. So yea, this is all to give positive feedback and a bit more control.
Works for me, maybe its not for everyone but it certainly helps me get through plus it adds a bit of a professional outlook on things, that I am doing it for the money and that when I get a p3do /
[email protected] call it's just for the $. Helps with budgeting, mental stability, sense of control / positive feedback.
This gig, the shitty part of it can stack up on you and can wear. Having the upside of it ever present can only help.
Stay Safe.
caramelcraze
08-08-2021, 12:33 AM
it only took me like 4 years, but I finally got my first negative review from someone.
It was for a faux facial clip and in the listing picture it's literally me in the same outfit as I wore in my clip. guy said my photos were deceiving (there was only one along with the ptv video lmao). Blocked him and moving on.
oh well, I hit a whale and I'm on the top of my category! always a good feeling!
staiyo
08-08-2021, 01:54 PM
I'm transgender so maybe thats why I feel that way, but I feel the transgender category is just weird & unpleasant for Mistresses. Prices are low, fewer people call, and people asking me to "give them aids" or call them f- (Just not my favorite thing, honestly), even more unusual ageplay stuffs & a lot of topping callers isn't as pleasant to me as it could be.
Meanwhile my listings in the general BDSM category & the callers are perfectly alright.
Is that just me and my terrible luck or is it just like that?
caramelcraze
08-08-2021, 07:33 PM
Is that just me and my terrible luck or is it just like that?
I wouldn't beat yourself up too much. While categories do play a roll as to what kind of callers you will get, regardless of the category you will get some seriously messed up f*ckers calling. I would double check your listings and maybe add your hard limits to each profile. For example, I'm mixed and used to get a TON of derogatory race play dudes begging me to play. It's something I refuse to do, so I made sure to specify on the profiles I was getting those kinds of callers that I do not cater to race play. Number of guys who called asking for it dropped dramatically. Definitely worth a shot!
Victoria_Gray
08-09-2021, 12:50 AM
Wow - reading your responses I am realizing how lucky I have been. I have never had a
[email protected] call, or anyone asking me to give them any diseases...
Most of my calls are from guys who found me through social media though. It has been a long time since someone found me off NF.
I am curious about race play actually - intellectual curiosity, not the desire to really persue it as a kink - I had one guy who called me to complain about how 'no-one got his kink' he was a black American (African-American, which is more politically correct?) and he was saying that a lot of the white american girls won't pretend to be slave owners... I was facinated by the kink, and had so many questions. He didn't want to talk about it though, he just wanted to complain. Never heard from someone with that kink since.
Saying all of this, I can understand why a POC provider wouldn't want to do race play. Your boundaries are important and should always be honoured in any type of work you do.
drnena
08-10-2021, 08:37 AM
Kind of related but since April of 2020 I have been doing SW full time. In person stuff but mostly TTM and NF. I am interested in getting a 9-5 even if it's part time. How do I explain this block of "unemployment"? I don't want to say I have been a PSO but I also think it looks bad to be without a traditional job for that long.
Should I say I was doing customer service or administrative assistance for TLOR Holdings (ttm's business name) or NF services, Inc (niteflirt?)
Spemily
08-10-2021, 09:42 AM
Kind of related but since April of 2020 I have been doing SW full time. In person stuff but mostly TTM and NF. I am interested in getting a 9-5 even if it's part time. How do I explain this block of "unemployment"? I don't want to say I have been a PSO but I also think it looks bad to be without a traditional job for that long.
Should I say I was doing customer service or administrative assistance for TLOR Holdings (ttm's business name) or NF services, Inc (niteflirt?)
I wouldn't recommend lying about being an employee of a company. I also wouldn't recommend bringing up either company's name if you are trying to keep your sex work completely private.
Honestly, given the timing of the "gap" in your resume, most people will probably assume that the pandemic got in the way of you having a traditional job for whatever reason. If you feel you must explain what you did, you're better off saying that you freelanced doing odd jobs. If they ask what you did, you can mention things that tie in to skills you learned doing sex work. Like, if you have been recording audios, you could say you did some voiceover work or audiobook recording. Just keep it simple and don't imply that you worked for any large organizations.
MaryElizabeth
08-10-2021, 11:07 AM
Honestly, given the timing of the "gap" in your resume, most people will probably assume that the pandemic got in the way of you having a traditional job for whatever reason.
Employers are pretty starved for workers. Get vaccinated and include a copy of that with your resume. Most companies are going to move towards requiring vaccinations. I think it would be fine to include it as a line in your resume, shows right off the bat you are not going to cause a problem on that issue (not an anti-vaxer, won't get sick or cause sickness and that you have a brain): Vaccinated - Johnson and Johnson Dose#1 June 15 2021, Dose #2 2021
drnena
08-10-2021, 11:55 AM
I wouldn't recommend lying about being an employee of a company. I also wouldn't recommend bringing up either company's name if you are trying to keep your sex work completely private.
Honestly, given the timing of the "gap" in your resume, most people will probably assume that the pandemic got in the way of you having a traditional job for whatever reason. If you feel you must explain what you did, you're better off saying that you freelanced doing odd jobs. If they ask what you did, you can mention things that tie in to skills you learned doing sex work. Like, if you have been recording audios, you could say you did some voiceover work or audiobook recording. Just keep it simple and don't imply that you worked for any large organizations.
Employers are pretty starved for workers. Get vaccinated and include a copy of that with your resume. Most companies are going to move towards requiring vaccinations. I think it would be fine to include it as a line in your resume, shows right off the bat you are not going to cause a problem on that issue (not an anti-vaxer, won't get sick or cause sickness and that you have a brain): Vaccinated - Johnson and Johnson Dose#1 June 15 2021, Dose #2 2021
Thank you for the responses! Now that I think of it, I do fiverrr from time to time for voice over work and custom audios. Not very often but maybe 2-3 orders a month since I don’t advertise. Do you think that would be a great cover? I’ve had the account for almost 2 years and some good reviews….I mean I could throw up a simple website with a portfolio and testimonials for it if needed….
I just want to transition back into a vanilla life with TTM and NF on the side. I’m exhausted and frustrated with in-person SW and don’t ever wanna “bust a date” again lmao
MaryElizabeth
08-10-2021, 02:19 PM
….I mean I could throw up a simple website with a portfolio and testimonials for it if needed….
I think putting the website up might do more that what is ON the site. Shows you can do a website. Make sure you put that on your resume, even if you are using a site building tool. Show you had clients, managed relationships, could handle the digital end of it all. TOTALLY, make your own site and show your best.
I think you are going to rock this. And just be honest, you got taken down by the covid and it scared the crap out of you but now that you are vaccinated you are ready to kick ass.
Staci
08-10-2021, 03:46 PM
Thank you for the responses! Now that I think of it, I do fiverrr from time to time for voice over work and custom audios. Not very often but maybe 2-3 orders a month since I don’t advertise. Do you think that would be a great cover? I’ve had the account for almost 2 years and some good reviews….I mean I could throw up a simple website with a portfolio and testimonials for it if needed….
I just want to transition back into a vanilla life with TTM and NF on the side. I’m exhausted and frustrated with in-person SW and don’t ever wanna “bust a date” again lmao
Do you promote TTM or NF as an affiliate? If so, just say that you were self-employed doing affiliate marketing online.
Spemily
08-10-2021, 04:35 PM
Thank you for the responses! Now that I think of it, I do fiverrr from time to time for voice over work and custom audios. Not very often but maybe 2-3 orders a month since I don’t advertise. Do you think that would be a great cover? I’ve had the account for almost 2 years and some good reviews….I mean I could throw up a simple website with a portfolio and testimonials for it if needed….
I just want to transition back into a vanilla life with TTM and NF on the side. I’m exhausted and frustrated with in-person SW and don’t ever wanna “bust a date” again lmao
That's perfect. I've used my Fiverr account and Etsy account as cover a few times when I needed to. Even if you don't have a lot of feedback or sales, people might assume this is just the tip of the iceberg and that you've done off-platform work as well. Plus, it allows you to mention your voiceover and recording skills, which could be valuable.
caramelcraze
08-10-2021, 04:38 PM
I have used my ebay store as a cover on multiple occasions lol
Victoria_Gray
08-12-2021, 02:48 AM
I have used my ebay store as a cover on multiple occasions lol
I wouldn't have even thought of that, but good idea!
everythingiscake
08-12-2021, 12:46 PM
Every single Mistress/Domme call on my newest profile I have had this summer the caller wants to meet. I don't mean as a roleplay or fantasy. I am getting chats and messages with the same thing. What is going on? Why the sudden uptick and are other Dommes actually meeting subs IRL from NF? Many of these callers say that YES, they met their last domme on NF. I have blocked a dozen or so guys and it isn't stopping. They guess my character's fake location and start interviewing me as a prospective domme for irl play. I miss my real submissive calls where we actually have a scene. Perplexed by the change in the types of the calls this profile gets. Not sure how they know the fake city my fake character lives in. I am going to start grilling them even harder for wtf they are doing but mostly they hang up when they realize it is not going to happen.
MsMeta
08-12-2021, 06:34 PM
Whoa, has anyone else had the guy who wanted to tie you up, stuff you and cook you in the oven?? I told him that I couldn't talk about that because I'm sure that falls under one of the "prohibited content" categories even though I don't remember it being specifically named. Am I wrong about this?
Spemily
08-12-2021, 07:14 PM
Whoa, has anyone else had the guy who wanted to tie you up, stuff you and cook you in the oven?? I told him that I couldn't talk about that because I'm sure that falls under one of the "prohibited content" categories even though I don't remember it being specifically named. Am I wrong about this?
If you're alive and well and don't bleed during the trussing, stuffing and cooking, then I don't think it actually breaks any of the rules. However, I feel like this will inevitably lead to carving and eating (unless he just wants to pop you into his mouth whole and alive), which would be against the rules.
Either way, I'm not sure I could entertain such a call. I just wouldn't be comfortable at all, unless it was wildly goofy and lighthearted and unrealistic.