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AliceBBW
04-27-2014, 10:23 PM
Hi I live outside of the USA so I cant take telephone calls. Can I just sell items and pre made videos on niteflirt? Or do I have to be able to make calls to join up?

It might be better for you to use something like extralunchmoney, which is based around stuff like that
Steer clear of mygirlfund though

Snowy0Star
04-30-2014, 04:17 PM
I started ages ago, there when getting calls was easy. I would suggest you bid a few cents on one listing. Not to the front but maybe around the third page of your sub-category that should get you going.

so that would be putting yourself into @ least the 24th spot right? I'm bidding on one ad right now I put myself at .03 per click and only do it up to $5 . Now what i don't understand is "your bid to be here" - is that how much money per click you have to bid into to be at that spot?

Rina
04-30-2014, 04:55 PM
I would say between the first and third page of your sub-category is good for someone new. I would never bid to be on the from page of Find Women you will be clicked to death. I land there naturally from time to time and I hate it, too many clickers.

Yes your bid to be here is how much it cost to be in that particular spot. It varies from person to person and listing to listing, and it will change as your LVS goes up.

Snowy0Star
04-30-2014, 05:16 PM
I would say between the first and third page of your sub-category is good for someone new. I would never bid to be on the from page of Find Women you will be clicked to death. I land there naturally from time to time and I hate it, too many clickers.

Yes your bid to be here is how much it cost to be in that particular spot. It varies from person to person and listing to listing, and it will change as your LVS goes up.

Yeah i know the one I'm bidding on now is my BBW ad I'm # 32 now so I'll just aim to be like #20 or something

Rina
04-30-2014, 07:54 PM
Yeah I that should be good. if it's still slow you can bump it more but keep an eye on your money. Those clickers can kill you. But once you get a few shows your placement will rise and you won't have to bid or it will just be pennies. It shouldn't take long for you Snowy :)

PS Did everybody read about the Goody Bag Contest?

Rhiiannon
05-01-2014, 09:23 AM
This may have been answered in the thread already, sorry.

I signed up and it asked for credit card info. Is this normal? I hit "be a flirt" on the bottom. I hope I'm signing up on the right page.

Rina
05-01-2014, 07:27 PM
Yes it's normal

Snowy0Star
05-02-2014, 10:35 AM
Is it normal to get mail on niteflirt from guys fishing to get free dirty talk? a few days ago i had a guy ask me a whole bunch of questions about my feet then last night i had a guy ask me if someone ever came on my tits before. i didn't respond to either of them but i was thinking in my head "really now?"

chloemay
05-02-2014, 11:25 AM
Is it normal to get mail on niteflirt from guys fishing to get free dirty talk? a few days ago i had a guy ask me a whole bunch of questions about my feet then last night i had a guy ask me if someone ever came on my tits before. i didn't respond to either of them but i was thinking in my head "really now?"

You can reply with a PPV mail. Once in a while they pay up ;-)

Snowy0Star
05-02-2014, 12:13 PM
You can reply with a PPV mail. Once in a while they pay up ;-)

O cool I didnt know you can do that . I like the way u think =^y^=

DonaDiabla
05-02-2014, 02:46 PM
Snowy0Star, I am glad you spoke about this. Many of my characters receive losers looking for free dirty talk. I always send them a 50 dollar PPV email and most never response to me again. Wow, that guy who emailed you...also emailed me as well.


Is it normal to get mail on niteflirt from guys fishing to get free dirty talk? a few days ago i had a guy ask me a whole bunch of questions about my feet then last night i had a guy ask me if someone ever came on my tits before. i didn't respond to either of them but i was thinking in my head "really now?"

DonaDiabla
05-02-2014, 02:47 PM
Is anyone getting a lot of sales with their goodie bags?

ruinator
05-02-2014, 06:03 PM
nope, I think I've gotten maybe 4 sales total and I've had them up since the beta started. I currently have 8 photosets for sale.


Is anyone getting a lot of sales with their goodie bags?

Rina
05-02-2014, 07:47 PM
I respond with pay mails. I have about about 45% success rate.
Is it normal to get mail on niteflirt from guys fishing to get free dirty talk? a few days ago i had a guy ask me a whole bunch of questions about my feet then last night i had a guy ask me if someone ever came on my tits before. i didn't respond to either of them but i was thinking in my head "really now?"

Rina
05-02-2014, 07:48 PM
One account yes on another account no. So it's been mixed.
Is anyone getting a lot of sales with their goodie bags?

DonaDiabla
05-02-2014, 09:21 PM
Rina, my one account has been getting some goodie bag sales but no calls. You got to love niteflirt :)


Ine account yes on another account no. So it's been mixed.

Sabihah
05-05-2014, 12:38 AM
Question: Do any of you ladies do direct deposit? How long does it usually take to show up?

Snowy0Star
05-05-2014, 12:49 AM
Question: Do any of you ladies do direct deposit? How long does it usually take to show up?
the site says 10 days so i'm assuming 10 business days meaning about 2 weeks . I want to paid once a week so what I plan on doing is keeping my money on pause until sunday then switch it over to express pay then pause it again once the funds are cleared from my NF balance. I think SM got me spoiled with the whole once a week thing. lol

ETA : They do the transfers around 4AM EST I just noticed my account went from 110 to 10 (gotta save some for bidding =p )

Rina
05-05-2014, 06:20 AM
Direct Deposit is 7-10 business days. They don't count weekends or bank holidays. My money is usually in my account on the 5th day, so most of the time it's early, but your best bet is to plan for getting it on the 10th day. That's for Express pay DD. I have no idea on monthly DD but I assume it's the same.

Sabihah
05-05-2014, 05:06 PM
Thanks, Snowy and Rina!

Snowy0Star
05-17-2014, 01:47 PM
Does anyone have some good sites they can recommend to me for purchasing stock photos?

Rina
05-17-2014, 02:19 PM
PM me.

Does anyone have some good sites they can recommend to me for purchasing stock photos?

JaneBurgess
05-17-2014, 06:04 PM
The problem with stock photo's is so many of them are out there. I see a lot of the same picsets on NiteFlirt used by different Flirts. If you can pay a friend or local model for content then do that.



Does anyone have some good sites they can recommend to me for purchasing stock photos?

whirlerz
05-18-2014, 03:31 AM
I tried it on my own, for the 1st time the other night!

LolaBohemia
05-19-2014, 06:09 AM
I just started actually using my niteflirt account recently and was doing fairly well...until this bullshit happened...

I had a call from a guy that claimed to remember me from a site YEARS ago. I did not recall him and explained it had been a while but it was good to hear from him. We chatted briefly and then I got the "1 minute remaining" warning. I informed him of this and he seemed surprised and then said he would get more credits.

He didn't call back. Oh well, wasn't too worried.
Until...
I notice my rating dropped from 5 to 4 stars.
WUT?

Dude rated me 2 stars and said: "We didn't really get a chance to do anything before we were cut off. She's expensive"

Dude, you knew my rate BEFORE you called. We didn't have a chance to do anything because you ran out of money and the cut off bit was, well, you running out of money. This is VERY unfair as it had nothing to do with my performance or quality whatsoever and I feel it is affecting my call volume which is currently NONE. I'm so livid.

I messaged him and asked about why he left a low rating and that I felt it unfair because it wasn't anything to do with my performance on the call. He wrote back a response that was really...odd...as well as hostile but not at me but rather kind of neurotic about he didn't need anything else bothering him, he'd remove the ad, don't contact him again, etc etc.

Uh...alright.

I also messaged support telling them about this but have yet to hear anything. It's been over a day which isn't long but to think that this rating is hurting my sales, it's really getting to me. Any words of wisdom?

Rina
05-19-2014, 07:51 AM
Sometimes playfair will remove a rating but it's rare.

Maybe try sending out a mass mail to get regs to call you, or remind them to give you five stars for calls they have made but haven't rated.

It sucks when you are given a low rating for no reason. I hope it will be removed.

If it's any consolation, a reasonable customer reading your feedback will see your are not to blame for the poor rating.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-19-2014, 08:03 AM
Dude rated me 2 stars and said: "We didn't really get a chance to do anything before we were cut off. She's expensive"



If you contact NF with a ticket about connection issues giving details about the disconnection. Even if it wasnt their fault they may remove if it with a refund. Suggest they give him a refund. We used to be able to send money ourselves. Not anymore. Give the time and member name. I know for a fact that this has been done.

But on the other hand I no longer let feedback bother me. It's like being a slave to the system kinda, ya know? I can see the positives in that feedback. "...she's expensive" He looks like a cheap ass. And the men with more substance may take interest. In some ways he elevated your status.

kortneykay
05-19-2014, 12:29 PM
Ever since I've went up to $3.99 I've heard nothing but crickets but fuck em'. There's no way I'm charging less than $3.99 for cam. Perhaps it's because I've only logged in maybe twice in the past month and a half? I think I'm going to hire my designer to hook up a flirt page for me again. Le sigh...

DonaDiabla
05-21-2014, 07:46 PM
Girl, sometimes cheap asses love giving bad feedback to performers. I would just block him and asked Niteflirt if they could help remove the rating. Please do not let a dick ruin your cash flow on Niteflirt. I have seen almost every performer deal with some bad feedback from a dick.


I just started actually using my niteflirt account recently and was doing fairly well...until this bullshit happened...

I had a call from a guy that claimed to remember me from a site YEARS ago. I did not recall him and explained it had been a while but it was good to hear from him. We chatted briefly and then I got the "1 minute remaining" warning. I informed him of this and he seemed surprised and then said he would get more credits.

He didn't call back. Oh well, wasn't too worried.
Until...
I notice my rating dropped from 5 to 4 stars.
WUT?

Dude rated me 2 stars and said: "We didn't really get a chance to do anything before we were cut off. She's expensive"

Dude, you knew my rate BEFORE you called. We didn't have a chance to do anything because you ran out of money and the cut off bit was, well, you running out of money. This is VERY unfair as it had nothing to do with my performance or quality whatsoever and I feel it is affecting my call volume which is currently NONE. I'm so livid.

I messaged him and asked about why he left a low rating and that I felt it unfair because it wasn't anything to do with my performance on the call. He wrote back a response that was really...odd...as well as hostile but not at me but rather kind of neurotic about he didn't need anything else bothering him, he'd remove the ad, don't contact him again, etc etc.

Uh...alright.

I also messaged support telling them about this but have yet to hear anything. It's been over a day which isn't long but to think that this rating is hurting my sales, it's really getting to me. Any words of wisdom?

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-22-2014, 10:51 AM
Niteflirt will not remove bad feedback just because you asked them to. The customer has to use derogatory language/name calling or if they mention being cutoff you can say it was a connection issue. And their call will be refunded. Or if they slam you with multiple negative feedbacks all at once. But even then NF will remove all but one of those. I still say that guy made himself look bad and labeled himself a loser. You may get more calls because guys may feel as though they are treating themselves to a quality provider.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
05-23-2014, 11:31 AM
Affiliate signups added to your customer list now. It's about damn time. Makes it much easier to market to those guys. I make a hundred bucks here and there from NF signups. Usually I don't even know I converted anyone until the money is in my account. That's how infrequent it is. I just kinda forget about it. But now this gives more incentive to push it. Just thought I would post this here. For some reason they only posted it in the affiliate forum. So if you aren't signed up as an affiliate you won't be able to see it. And if everyone can't see it then how will they know about the improvement and take advantage of it? Oh well word of mouth it is then.

http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/23-Affiliate-Forum/topics/124804-Affiliate-Referrals-in-My-Customers-List

Anjie2218
05-26-2014, 09:22 PM
heeeey ladies,
again absolutely love this thread and hello to the new comers. Love all the questions being asked def helps me a lot. However, I have a question for the wise women here: my bf and I live together and neither of us work normal hours. Usually by the time I get home he's already there. He doesn't want me PSOing but I do I really think I can make a LOT of money (plus you ladies are EXTREME inspiration to me about NF). How to overcome this?

Anjie2218
05-26-2014, 09:23 PM
p.s. anyone heard from Vivianbear?

anoncamgirl
05-28-2014, 08:14 PM
I'd like to know something. I have a lot of guys who call and hang up after three minute claiming they accidentally hung up. They wait for 3 more minutes and then call me back.

I feel that it's essentially cheating me out of money, because I have to wait around for them to call me back and they're not paying for the 3 minute break. Is this a common thing? I would believe it was an accident if it wasn't happening 75% of the time.

Is this happening to anyone else?

JaneBurgess
05-28-2014, 08:28 PM
I hate having to use IM for cam shows. So many people think they can just chat on there anytime because they bought a show. Then they try to get me to change and be ready when they call, so annoying.

a_little_mermaid
05-28-2014, 08:33 PM
Ok, after reading this thread till my eyeballs fell out, lol, I still have a few questions. So the listings you create are connected to the phone # right? If I wanted to create some Domme and fetish listings but keep them totally separate from say a GFE type listing I would do it under a new # and account right? Also how do you do the whole ignore line, I am curious as I know it is a fetish. Two more, how do I make audio clips to upload and do the niteflirt forums really help you out with the HTML of a page. ok, sorry for all the questions, I just want to make sure I have it all right before I apply so I know what to do. Thanks to all you ladies for the posts in this thread!

DiamondCupcakes
06-04-2014, 11:58 AM
I noticed that a lot of girls have their NF connected to their twitter but can't find where to do that anywhere in my account. For example Ill see generic tweets like "Im live now call blah blah blah." Or "Someone just added me their favorites..." How do you do that? And if you have multiple listings, will the NF screen tell you what line they are calling so I dont get confused?
Thanks =)

MissConceited
06-04-2014, 12:01 PM
^^^ I was wondering that too. Though, I'm not sure if I want that because it kind of spams the hell out of your twitter feed, but whatever so does all my other shit.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-04-2014, 01:05 PM
When you log into your dashboard there's a graphic for "Social Shouts" that's where you connect and customize your twitter account, or FB. It's a big step for NF but not exactly error proof. If you use this tool get in the habit of changing the tweet to something different BEFORE you login. But really that kinda defeats the purpose of tweeting directly, right? I think NF is trying to figure out a way to make it more interactive and change it up a bit. Less spammy. Each account you have has the ability to enter whatever social media profile you link with. So if you have 3 accounts you can link the same twitter to it, BUT I wouldn't recommend that. In that case just link your twitter to one. Otherwise it's spam times 3. Or if your accounts are all different people that have different twitters then link and coordinate the corresponding twitter.


I noticed that a lot of girls have their NF connected to their twitter but can't find where to do that anywhere in my account. For example Ill see generic tweets like "Im live now call blah blah blah." Or "Someone just added me their favorites..." How do you do that? And if you have multiple listings, will the NF screen tell you what line they are calling so I dont get confused?
Thanks =)

Rina
06-04-2014, 01:07 PM
The Social Shouts (twitter/tumblr) is in beta right now so only certain people have it. I like though and hopefully once the fix any bugs everyone will have access.

The whisper message tells you what listing is calling as well as the call monitor which also tells you is calling.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-04-2014, 01:23 PM
Wait! I thought they had released it to everyone? Oops I guess I got confused with the goodie bags. Anywho it's been in beta for awhile now. They just need to listen and hire the right people to implement decisions. Sometimes NF gives me the impression that it's run by narcissist and ego maniacs.


The Social Shouts (twitter/tumblr) is in beta right now so only certain people have it. I like though and hopefully once the fix any bugs everyone will have access.

The whisper message tells you what listing is calling as well as the call monitor which also tells you is calling.

Rina
06-04-2014, 01:42 PM
Yeah I only noticed because only one of my accounts has it and when I wrote to them they told me it was in still in beta. I was shocked they got it together with goodie bags so quickly, well quick by NF standards anyway.


Wait! I thought they had released it to everyone? Oops I guess I got confused with the goodie bags. Anywho it's been in beta for awhile now. They just need to listen and hire the right people to implement decisions. Sometimes NF gives me the impression that it's run by narcissist and ego maniacs.

DiamondCupcakes
06-04-2014, 02:37 PM
Bummer :-( hope they release it to everyone soon

Snowy0Star
06-04-2014, 09:38 PM
I have it and i had no clue what it was i get NF mails and it shows up in my recent contacts as favorited . i thought it was some fav model thing like on SM i had no clue it was linked to my twitter.i thought NF didn't want traces of ur twitter in ur NF but encourages you to use social media to promote ur listings. when did thay change that ?

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-04-2014, 11:16 PM
It's not linked to your twitter automatically. You have to go to the Social Shouts page and add your twitter name an or FB. It's not visible on your listing or to customers. Only in your tweets.

Snowy0Star
06-04-2014, 11:22 PM
So I just wanted to make sure I won't get in trouble form NF and do this right. I got a pik set and made a blog for a PSO line that i decided to not work with. I plan on using the pik set and make another character on NF with it if I only use the blog with the character for NF that wont be breaking the rules and I can make a button on my twitter to the blog?

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
06-05-2014, 05:56 AM
You can send your twitter followes anywhere you want. It's your twitter. But if you plan on marketing to any other venue that's NOT NF, then you cannot link from NF to the twitter. The only way you can link from NF to your twitter is if it is only about NF. So if the blog is in your bio that blog can only be about NF. Nothing else. I once had an account shutdown for a few days just because I said "Tweet Me" no link to my twitter or the name of the twitter account. Just told my customers to "Tweet Me". NF has a lot of nosey busy bodies who love to report people and NF suspends without real investigations sometimes. In my experience it has not been very profitable to market 100% compliant NF twitters or blogs.

SaraLaughs
06-05-2014, 09:18 AM
Quick question... can Canadians do PSO stuff on Niteflirt? I'm sorry, I wasn't incredibly clear on that through reading this thread.

HelloKitty420
06-05-2014, 09:24 AM
Yep! I'm on NF and live in Canada. Only issue as far as I know we can only get paid by cheque I believe, that's what I do. :)

SaraLaughs
06-05-2014, 09:54 AM
Thank you! I think I am going to set up my Flirt account tonight. I have a lot of erotica and stuff I've written over the years that I'm pretty sure I could sell on there in addition to PSO stuff :P